JustPearlyThings - July 13, 2023


The Reason For FAILED Relationships In SOCIETY


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Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

197.65184

Word Count

2,138

Sentence Count

205

Misogynist Sentences

38

Hate Speech Sentences

27


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.160 Who is to blame for modern relationships, men or women?
00:00:06.100 Women.
00:00:06.500 Women.
00:00:07.020 Women.
00:00:08.180 Tell me why.
00:00:10.560 I feel like women are too emotional.
00:00:12.880 Okay, we're too emotional?
00:00:14.240 Yeah.
00:00:15.460 I don't get what you mean by blame.
00:00:17.860 Okay, I'll give you some numbers.
00:00:19.980 So, essentially, 100 years ago, 85% of people were married.
00:00:26.020 Or actually, I think it was 90.
00:00:27.160 It was 85% to 90%, because 85% was the virginity rate.
00:00:30.980 Okay, but let's say 90% of people were married 100 years ago.
00:00:34.100 Now, the average marriage is eight years, and there's a 50% divorce rate.
00:00:40.520 Wow.
00:00:41.080 So, who is to blame for this shift where it used to be you get married, you stay married.
00:00:47.960 Now, divorce.
00:00:50.600 I would say women.
00:00:52.160 Women have more power now.
00:00:53.300 Because, yeah, because they're ultimately the decision makers, not in a household, but, I mean, to, you know, for sex, for marriage, and it's a function of society with everything being pushed on you, social media.
00:01:07.020 There's so much options for them, and it's very easy for them to go.
00:01:11.120 Women don't take shit anymore, that's the thing.
00:01:13.220 Women don't take the bare minimum.
00:01:15.020 Women expect more, and that's probably why.
00:01:18.100 Yeah, but the answer is not Nikki.
00:01:19.660 It's the expectation.
00:01:20.620 You know, I'm going to take the woman's side for one second.
00:01:24.540 I think, as a woman, you can't expect the world, okay?
00:01:27.260 I really do.
00:01:27.980 And I think if you offer or bring anything to the table, but I think the average chick really doesn't, unfortunately.
00:01:37.720 It's not that bad.
00:01:38.300 I hear women throw around the word narcissist like it's a game of tennis.
00:01:43.540 Like, the thing is, is that not everyone is a narcissist.
00:01:45.760 There are people with narcissistic personality disorder.
00:01:48.240 Everyone has narcissistic traits.
00:01:49.720 And with women's addiction to social media, I think women are way more narcissistic than that.
00:01:55.620 And because of social media, the standards that they have for a partner is overblown compared to what it would have been when they were living in a small country town before social media ever existed.
00:02:07.340 And before our filters has existed.
00:02:10.780 Is that men's fault, though, for not being autistic?
00:02:15.600 It's women's fault of unrealistic expectations.
00:02:18.340 It's always men's fault.
00:02:19.240 The thing is, I've been friends with the type of girl who will literally do everything.
00:02:25.620 for male validation.
00:02:26.840 It's all about social media, wearing the certain things and doing the certain things.
00:02:30.600 I'm like, all you're going to get is just the fuck out of it.
00:02:32.960 Why are you trying to impress these people?
00:02:35.160 And then they'll do it.
00:02:35.960 And then they'll go, why has this guy hurt my feelings?
00:02:38.280 And I'm like, because you've given it up.
00:02:40.900 Like, that's your own problem.
00:02:42.620 Like, you have nothing to offer.
00:02:44.300 You've come to the table.
00:02:45.460 You've given absolutely nothing and expected everything.
00:02:48.120 And then you're wondering why he's left you.
00:02:50.060 Because you have nothing.
00:02:51.140 That's self-delusion.
00:02:52.660 I think women are incredibly, incredibly good at deluding themselves.
00:02:57.760 Yeah.
00:02:57.960 But that unrealistic expectation comes from, I think, the feminism push.
00:03:03.920 Totally.
00:03:04.440 Women were lied to for the last 10, 20 years that they are, you know...
00:03:09.600 I would argue 100.
00:03:11.120 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:11.880 100 years.
00:03:12.480 Strong as men.
00:03:12.980 Longer than that, yeah.
00:03:13.660 That, you know, feminism is the way to go.
00:03:16.520 That they're almost on an equal playing field to men when it comes to certain things.
00:03:19.640 Oh, to tack off that point, you said the original question was who's responsible for it, right?
00:03:24.100 Well, you could get really technical and say it was men because it came from a certain French
00:03:28.300 school of philosophy.
00:03:29.620 The idea of feminism and social Marxism came from French philosophers, I believe.
00:03:33.260 Really?
00:03:33.620 I thought it was...
00:03:34.380 It was a bunch of dudes.
00:03:35.260 Yeah, but the women are the ones falling for it.
00:03:37.160 I thought it was from Plato.
00:03:38.280 No, I thought that was the original because his interpretation of the Bible was, like,
00:03:42.340 basically that women had a higher, um, uh, what is it called?
00:03:46.160 It's like, like, he reinterpreted the Bible, basically, to the point where, like, the men
00:03:50.780 have to get wisdom from the women.
00:03:52.500 Feminism comes from the Bible.
00:03:53.620 But if Plato, like, you would have expected something to have happened a lot sooner if Plato...
00:03:57.520 Well, no, because I think that was the 1500s.
00:04:00.140 And you start to see feminism as, like, a social movement mainstream, like, the 1800s.
00:04:04.500 Yeah, I mean, um, so, I mean, you know...
00:04:06.600 It's like, if you go back to, like, Henry VIII, like, Anne, um, who was the woman that
00:04:11.580 got beheaded?
00:04:13.120 Anne?
00:04:13.520 Anne Boleyn, is it?
00:04:14.200 Anne Boleyn, yeah.
00:04:15.420 She originally wanted to start the NHS.
00:04:19.800 Like, that was her original plan.
00:04:21.800 Off with her head.
00:04:22.800 Off with her head.
00:04:23.920 Stupid idea.
00:04:24.500 The thing is that we didn't want...
00:04:25.140 This is what we do at work, you see?
00:04:27.000 Exactly.
00:04:27.200 It's just like, like, when we come up with ideas, we chop off their head.
00:04:32.100 Like, that's just the way it works.
00:04:33.440 But, no, like, it's things like that.
00:04:36.880 I think women are just far more impressionable.
00:04:39.200 Far more impressionable.
00:04:40.080 They watch one reality TV show, and it breaks their programming, and they've got to think,
00:04:44.440 okay, I've got to be like this woman.
00:04:46.060 You know, you watch one soap opera, and you go, I need to be living like Kim Kardashian.
00:04:51.940 No, because...
00:04:52.460 Think about it.
00:04:53.080 Think about it.
00:04:53.800 They're the ones falling for it.
00:04:54.860 Well, because we're so influenced.
00:04:56.320 They realized that we could be influenced by propaganda when the radio happened in the
00:05:00.780 1920s, because basically what they do is they say, women, this is this horrible thing
00:05:04.940 that happened, and then this is how you can solve it, and they'll either put, you know,
00:05:09.240 vote for me, or they'll put, buy this, whatever.
00:05:11.780 Here's this horrible, horrible problem.
00:05:13.620 They just, you know, tug at our heartstrings.
00:05:15.320 Because the opportunity arose, I mean, if we're talking about, like, America during the war,
00:05:19.780 like, they had the President Hoover, like, he did the Hoover chats, and most of them, the
00:05:25.520 fireside chats were women calling in and talking about their issues at home whilst their husbands
00:05:30.920 were off at war and stuff like that.
00:05:32.460 And obviously, the empathy would come more for them.
00:05:35.920 And then obviously, it'd be a lot of women listening to that same thing.
00:05:38.580 Yeah.
00:05:39.080 And it would just go on from there.
00:05:41.560 Well, and they've constantly put, like, propaganda, because again, we literally believe anything.
00:05:46.420 It's so crazy.
00:05:47.680 Because, like, even King, we were talking about how we do these shows, and we just hear
00:05:50.600 the same ideas from women over and over and over again.
00:05:53.660 And one idea that they put into our heads is basically, like, if you trust a man, like,
00:05:57.680 you need to have a backup plan.
00:05:59.360 You need to have a backup plan because he will abuse you.
00:06:01.920 He will this.
00:06:02.540 And that's why, like, every single show, it's, like, the first thing.
00:06:04.840 Somebody's going to bring up abuse.
00:06:06.060 Someone's going to bring up this.
00:06:07.420 Because, and then what they also did was they convinced women that we're abused and we're
00:06:11.040 not because they expand the definition of abuse.
00:06:12.880 So they basically put goddamn everything.
00:06:14.640 So they'll do coercive control, financial abuse, like, basically all these words to just confuse
00:06:19.900 you and convince you you were abused and you're the victim.
00:06:22.060 And it's, like, a whole system.
00:06:23.060 It's all social influence.
00:06:24.260 Every woman on social media now is pretty much the same.
00:06:26.440 They wear the same shoes.
00:06:27.320 They all get the same birthday cakes.
00:06:28.780 And that's how you can see, like, the reason you can see women are so influenced by propaganda
00:06:32.540 is because fashion trends.
00:06:34.680 Like, women are so quick onto fashion trends.
00:06:36.660 Like, you always want to switch our clothes.
00:06:37.440 And you can see the women for, like, micro trends and stuff like that.
00:06:40.340 Like, I think if you have, like, a staple wardrobe, like...
00:06:43.680 So we're all in agreement it's women?
00:06:45.620 Yeah.
00:06:46.080 Okay.
00:06:46.300 Well, obviously, you had the off-the-cuff opinion of it being, like...
00:06:52.940 I mean, if we're talking about the specific French philosophers who introduced it, they were a bunch of dudes.
00:06:57.860 I think you're talking about Martin Luther.
00:06:59.520 I think that's Martin Luther.
00:07:00.240 No, no, no, no.
00:07:00.480 I'm just...
00:07:01.200 I'm talking about a bunch of communists that came over and...
00:07:03.040 No, I'm just curious, like, where that was.
00:07:06.720 Because I just thought it was Plato in the 1500s.
00:07:10.020 Jordan Peterson has talked about that, the original social Marxists.
00:07:13.120 Okay.
00:07:13.720 Like, the guys who were trying to conflate, like...
00:07:15.200 Like, communism conflates, like, oh, it's the bourgeoisie versus proletariat, right?
00:07:19.340 Yeah.
00:07:19.500 And then social Marxism is it's, like, men versus women.
00:07:22.940 Pearl, I think Plato was before the Bible.
00:07:24.700 I think it's Martin Luther.
00:07:26.540 His reinterpretation of the Bible and pushing out feminist values.
00:07:30.820 No, no, I know it was...
00:07:32.340 I know part of it, I know I heard Plato.
00:07:34.840 Like, I don't know what the time...
00:07:37.020 I could be wrong on the time frame, but I heard it was Plato in the 1500s.
00:07:42.860 But, so, I'll actually...
00:07:45.380 I am gonna, you know...
00:07:47.660 I am gonna...
00:07:49.600 I'm gonna take an unpopular opinion.
00:07:51.800 It is not men at large's fault, but a small percentage of men's fault who gave women the
00:08:00.140 right to vote.
00:08:03.320 Because then, then, as soon as we got the vote, all the politicians had to cater to
00:08:07.800 us.
00:08:08.460 And what did we vote for?
00:08:10.300 Policies that broke up the family.
00:08:12.640 So, child support, alimony, no-fault divorce, and making things legal like birth control.
00:08:19.860 But, Pearl, how are you gonna convince a society now to ban the women vote or stop the women vote?
00:08:26.240 Well, I'm gonna try.
00:08:27.420 But, well, I mean, I honestly think net taxpayers would probably be...
00:08:33.540 Because this idea that everyone should get the right to vote, I just don't believe it.
00:08:37.000 Like, you need to have some skin in the game.
00:08:39.020 And the problem is, women, we own the majority of the debt.
00:08:41.520 We're just debt-ridden women, we spend all this money, and then...
00:08:45.200 Yeah, you can't just be some OnlyFans girl that gets a vote.
00:08:50.600 Is that what you're saying?
00:08:51.640 But the OnlyFans man can.
00:08:52.400 Is that what you're saying?
00:08:53.320 I'll be honest, the average OnlyFans worker, no.
00:08:59.080 But, you know, if they're a net taxpayer, I could get behind it.
00:09:03.400 Because it's not like all of them are going to be net taxpayers.
00:09:05.980 Yeah, when your tax bill is over $150K, you're allowed in.
00:09:09.940 I don't have a system ironed out, but I think women should give it up first.
00:09:14.160 But like women always do give it up first, that's the way it is.
00:09:18.240 What?
00:09:18.740 I was like, like women always give it up first.
00:09:21.120 That's the way it is.
00:09:22.640 Oh, yes, yes.
00:09:23.780 Sorry, what were you going to say?
00:09:24.820 I'm pretty sure there was a certain point in history where it was only landowners who were
00:09:28.200 allowed to vote, too.
00:09:29.360 Yeah.
00:09:30.080 That should be tax bill.
00:09:31.200 That was because the vast majority of people had a farm.
00:09:33.540 But there was males that represent the household.
00:09:35.740 I am open to ideas.
00:09:37.280 I just think we've got to take it away from the majority of women.
00:09:40.160 And I'll take one for the team, guys.
00:09:44.040 I'll give it up.
00:09:44.980 I can't wait.
00:09:45.540 I can't wait for you to give it up.
00:09:48.300 No, pay net tax.
00:09:49.700 Like as in you're more of a tax incentive than a burden.
00:09:53.360 Yeah.
00:09:53.960 You contribute more to the pool than you take.
00:09:56.000 Yes.
00:09:56.340 I agree.
00:09:57.320 Like, does it make sense to me that the homeless person who pays zero tax and lives off the
00:10:03.100 system gets an equal say in how we spend the money in the system?
00:10:07.240 Well, I'm pretty sure prisoners can't pay.
00:10:09.060 No, definitely not.
00:10:09.760 Yeah, but like it will be all about, it will literally be even more about money and the
00:10:14.400 people that are owning the money are going to have the more benefits and the people that
00:10:17.320 don't are going to be at the bottom of the pile.
00:10:19.180 Well, I think that's the privilege with paying for things.
00:10:22.480 It's like if you pay for the lights in a house, you have more of a say.
00:10:26.040 You have more of an ability of lights in the house.
00:10:28.880 Well, yeah, you, it's like, imagine like your kids got an equal say in your house that
00:10:33.940 you pay for.
00:10:34.440 Yeah, but they wouldn't though.
00:10:35.640 No, I know.
00:10:36.200 That's the point.
00:10:36.960 That's why I would argue you wouldn't.
00:10:38.380 But, you know, we don't have to go into it, but I bring it up every time I can, though.
00:10:44.420 I know.
00:10:44.860 I can see you getting excited.
00:10:46.020 I love talking about taking away the.