The Reason Modern Women will DIE ALONE!
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with a good friend of mine, and we talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century, and why it's so important to have a partner in your life.
Transcript
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You guys have girlfriends providing value to you as you speak, and if so, what is the value?
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Are your women actually helping you build your empire? How so?
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Yeah, I have a couple girlfriends right now. I know it's Haram, but one of them runs my Discord server,
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and she's on top of things. When I was getting in a lot of drama, she was there,
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and she was able to take care of it and make sure that it was running properly.
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I have one that wants to become my assistant, and I'm training her to run my accounting
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and do the taxes and do the paperwork. When I get tickets, I'm going to try to get her to quit her job
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and be my assistant. The other one, working on traveling with her, and she recently got a big payout,
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so I'm going to go travel with her, and she's there. She helps me find other girls as well.
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And the other one needs work, but all of them add something to my life, and all of them help
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then play their role properly. If they were completely useless, I think that it's not worth my time or theirs.
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There's no woman in my life that's not an asset to me.
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You think like a pimp and love and provide like a hero, straight up.
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Do you have girlfriends providing you value as you speak, and if so, what is the value?
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I mean, yeah, absolutely. They all provide value, because otherwise, why would you spend time with them, right?
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I mean, but the way that they provide value is not material, but it's sort of like in terms of sustenance,
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it's in terms of feminine energy, it's in terms of, you know, having somebody there who kind of gets you.
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There's many, many ways in which they provide value, 100%.
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So I have a question for the women. Do you want to be married and have kids?
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If so, what age do you want to be married and how many kids?
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I would love to be married with kids tomorrow, but that's not happening because I still need to work on myself.
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I would like to be married. I would like to have children.
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Maybe my late 20s. I haven't really thought too much into it, but...
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I'm 22. I've never been in a relationship, so I haven't really got an exact age where I would say I want to get married.
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I feel like I need to meet someone first to put a time frame on it.
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I just feel like I want to travel and live my life to the fullest, and then when I'm ready to be selfless,
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then I'm ready to settle down and have children and start a family.
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Wouldn't you prefer to travel with your husband?
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I would love to travel with someone. I travel a lot on my own, so it would be nice to travel with someone.
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What does live your life mean? I hear that a lot from good girls like you.
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And then live your life in... If we're going to be honest, what does live your life really mean?
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To travel and to live my life. Honestly, I think travel is the best education that you can get.
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I think it's better than any school that you can go through. I think you learn about the real world when you travel.
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You learn about different cultures. You meet so many different people.
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Do you think you're going to have an easier time finding your husband now when you're 22, you haven't had a relationship?
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Or when you're in your late 20s and you've already traveled?
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But to get married, because obviously you're not going to meet someone straight away and get married to them in an instant.
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You're going to have a relationship with them first, I assume anyway.
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So, yeah, I could meet someone when I'm like 25 and then I could get married when I'm 28.
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It's clear that the point that you're trying to make is that the younger you are, the better chances you have of finding someone.
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I think she should start looking now instead of put it off.
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It's just when it happens, it happens kind of thing.
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I'm not going to go out of my way and search for it and make it my sole purpose.
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But I think when the time is right, the world will give me someone that's meant for me.
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So do you think age is an indicator for you as to picking a partner?
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Is it like if she's older, then you don't want her.
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If she's younger, it's like preferably your type of woman has to be between a certain age, etc.
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Danielle is like a perfect example of a girl that I would date, that I would like to go out with.
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I would rather date her now than when she was 32 and traveled the world.
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Because a man that's traveled the world, like we've all done here,
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we know that the girl that has Instagram photos in multiple, multiple countries
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was not only living her life, but statistically has slept with a lot more men.
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And I don't mean to be crude, but a woman that has been more promiscuous and traveled more
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and done all these different things, then what do you have to give her that's going to make her life magic anyway?
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So when we're talking about being the hero and wanting, like, no man wants a woman that he can't save from a castle and a dragon.
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That doesn't mean the woman needs to be saved or she's broken.
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So if she's done all the experience, for example, if you get in a Lamborghini and you know how to use the handle on the door,
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it tells me something, you understand what I'm saying?
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Now, if you can't get in, you're like, how does it, like, when a girl gets in my G-Wagon, if she can't, like, I'm like, nah.
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Like, a man wants a woman that has preserved herself in many, many ways.
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So if a woman has done any sort of sex work, it's not...
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I would never wife up a girl that her job was to have sex with men.
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But hoes get wifed the quickest, you know that, right?
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The ho, or the sex worker, doesn't want to have sex for money any longer.
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So she finds some fool to pay for her life, and then she texts me and I sleep with her.
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Like, no quality man, no man that's going to be worth his salt is going to pick up a sex worker.
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Because if he's high level, he can get a girl like her.
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And I don't even mean that to be disrespectful.
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Like, I'm not trying to disrespect sex workers.
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I'm telling you right now, I would never marry one.
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Well, first of all, marriage is a different subject.
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But I would never make her, you know, part of my life at all, ever.
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No, I'm just saying, because there's men that have this ideology.
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A man's job is to build a woman to the woman that it takes to take her where he's going.
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And that means by investing into her, like, hey, baby, I just said this yesterday.
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It's like, hey, listen, we're going to go to this event.
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You want to build her up and make her be able to come up because you're trying to get up the social classes, right?
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If you really love her, you'll develop her and build her to take her with you.
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But a woman that's been giving her body away to all the other guys at the table because the rich guys that pay for sex, they'd be like, I had that girl last year in Marbella.
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I marriage in the traditional sense, not really something that bothers me.
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You want to do the two houses thing, don't you?
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I'd rather have a partnership and I'd rather have a man present in my life.
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But it doesn't have to be like overarching and overwhelming with the way that people are making it seem nowadays.
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And I think that for me to be able to actually take a man very seriously, he has to be a man that can actually bring something new to my life.
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You know, where somebody that I can look up to and I can be like, okay, you're teaching me something new.
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So you don't care about being married on paper?
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In the world of today, I think it's safer to have two.
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So when do you want to be in a relationship and when do you want to have the kids?
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Since it's just been about like a year since I've rebuilt my life, I'd say maybe like, I'll probably pick my husband in about six months.
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So in the next six months, you're going to find a husband.
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And he's, and he's ready to marry you within six months.
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And so then you're going to, or not, sorry, not get married, be in a relationship.
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And then when do you, when do you want your first kid by?
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Um, I mean, I don't really go into people to meet people superficially.
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So wait, wait, I'm just giving the introduction.
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No, it just, maybe like, it depends on how the relationship is going to be within months.
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No, no, essentially, I'm not going to say I want to have a kid by 31.
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And actually, just being 30 doesn't mean you don't have eggs.
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Especially if I'm going to have to look for a husband in six months.
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I would like to have my first kid when me and my husband have established that we are ready to do it together.
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Talking out of both sides of the mouth once again.
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Once me and my husband, my hubby, yeah, which not on paper, but in life, once me and him establish that we can get on, then we are ready for the thing.
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I'm not going to say I want these kids when he's not ready.
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Okay, so you're going to have the kids when he's ready?
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And then children I want as soon as possible once I'm married.
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I think I've got a major problem because I'm finding it very difficult to find the right
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And I don't know if I'm the problem or if it's the men.
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I feel like as if I've gone too far down the career route.
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And then for me to go out there and try to find a man who's able to beat that, because
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Someone stronger, someone more masculine, dominant.
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I do know why, because we're surrounded by very weak men, unfortunately.
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It will have to be in like the 40, 45, 48,000 kind of mark.
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So, uh, as many of you know, I was just banned on Tik TOK and we are demonetized on a daily
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