JustPearlyThings - April 23, 2023


The Reason Modern Women will DIE ALONE!

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Donalva Janelva Haram Tanya
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12 minutes

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211.67

Word count

2,723

Sentence count

328

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

23

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Hate speech

12

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In this episode, I sit down with a good friend of mine, and we talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century, and why it's so important to have a partner in your life.

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00:00:00.000 You guys have girlfriends providing value to you as you speak, and if so, what is the value?
00:00:04.900 Are your women actually helping you build your empire? How so? 0.75
00:00:08.340 Yeah, I have a couple girlfriends right now. I know it's Haram, but one of them runs my Discord server,
00:00:13.060 and she's on top of things. When I was getting in a lot of drama, she was there,
00:00:17.120 and she was able to take care of it and make sure that it was running properly.
00:00:20.180 I have one that wants to become my assistant, and I'm training her to run my accounting 0.99
00:00:24.140 and do the taxes and do the paperwork. When I get tickets, I'm going to try to get her to quit her job 1.00
00:00:29.060 and be my assistant. The other one, working on traveling with her, and she recently got a big payout,
00:00:36.720 so I'm going to go travel with her, and she's there. She helps me find other girls as well.
00:00:41.460 And the other one needs work, but all of them add something to my life, and all of them help
00:00:45.360 then play their role properly. If they were completely useless, I think that it's not worth my time or theirs.
00:00:53.580 What about you?
00:00:54.880 There's no woman in my life that's not an asset to me.
00:00:56.960 You think like a pimp and love and provide like a hero, straight up.
00:01:01.800 There's no woman. It's not an asset. 1.00
00:01:03.820 What about you?
00:01:05.040 What was the question again? Sorry?
00:01:06.100 Do you have girlfriends providing you value as you speak, and if so, what is the value?
00:01:10.960 I mean, yeah, absolutely. They all provide value, because otherwise, why would you spend time with them, right?
00:01:15.480 I mean, but the way that they provide value is not material, but it's sort of like in terms of sustenance,
00:01:20.840 it's in terms of feminine energy, it's in terms of, you know, having somebody there who kind of gets you. 1.00
00:01:27.320 There's many, many ways in which they provide value, 100%.
00:01:29.900 So I have a question for the women. Do you want to be married and have kids? 1.00
00:01:35.120 Yes.
00:01:35.960 If so, what age do you want to be married and how many kids?
00:01:39.960 I would love to be married with kids tomorrow, but that's not happening because I still need to work on myself.
00:01:46.460 I would ideally like to do that, like 25.
00:01:50.220 25? And how many kids do you want?
00:01:52.000 I want four.
00:01:53.040 Four kids. Okay, what about you?
00:01:54.840 I would like to be married. I would like to have children.
00:01:58.540 Maybe my late 20s. I haven't really thought too much into it, but...
00:02:02.660 How old are you now?
00:02:03.500 I'm 22. I've never been in a relationship, so I haven't really got an exact age where I would say I want to get married.
00:02:11.640 I feel like I need to meet someone first to put a time frame on it.
00:02:14.340 Why late 20s?
00:02:15.080 Late 20s?
00:02:16.660 Yeah. Why not sooner?
00:02:19.400 I just feel like I want to travel and live my life to the fullest, and then when I'm ready to be selfless,
00:02:25.280 then I'm ready to settle down and have children and start a family.
00:02:29.440 Wouldn't you prefer to travel with your husband? 0.67
00:02:31.840 I would love to travel with someone. I travel a lot on my own, so it would be nice to travel with someone.
00:02:36.660 What does live your life mean? I hear that a lot from good girls like you. 1.00
00:02:40.700 And then live your life in... If we're going to be honest, what does live your life really mean?
00:02:45.080 You're traveling, living your life. Come on.
00:02:47.220 To travel and to live my life. Honestly, I think travel is the best education that you can get.
00:02:52.960 I think it's better than any school that you can go through. I think you learn about the real world when you travel.
00:02:57.560 You learn about different cultures. You meet so many different people.
00:03:00.400 And that's why I love to travel.
00:03:03.220 Do you think you're going to have an easier time finding your husband now when you're 22, you haven't had a relationship?
00:03:07.240 Or when you're in your late 20s and you've already traveled?
00:03:10.280 Oh, definitely. Definitely earlier on.
00:03:13.260 But to get married, because obviously you're not going to meet someone straight away and get married to them in an instant.
00:03:17.580 You're going to have a relationship with them first, I assume anyway.
00:03:21.800 So, yeah, I could meet someone when I'm like 25 and then I could get married when I'm 28.
00:03:27.560 But that's still... Yeah.
00:03:31.020 Can I chime in in the conversation?
00:03:33.280 It's clear that the point that you're trying to make is that the younger you are, the better chances you have of finding someone.
00:03:39.020 I think she should start looking now instead of put it off.
00:03:41.620 I'm not putting it off.
00:03:43.200 I'm not putting it off.
00:03:44.440 It's just when it happens, it happens kind of thing.
00:03:46.220 I'm not going to go out of my way and search for it and make it my sole purpose.
00:03:51.660 But I think when the time is right, the world will give me someone that's meant for me.
00:03:57.920 Can I ask you a question?
00:03:59.760 So do you think age is an indicator for you as to picking a partner?
00:04:06.060 Is it like if she's older, then you don't want her.
00:04:09.120 If she's younger, it's like preferably your type of woman has to be between a certain age, etc. 1.00
00:04:16.080 Have you like...
00:04:17.900 What's your name, by the way?
00:04:19.700 Me?
00:04:20.120 Yeah.
00:04:20.600 Danielle.
00:04:21.320 Danielle is like a perfect example of a girl that I would date, that I would like to go out with.
00:04:25.380 22, hasn't had a relationship.
00:04:27.580 Very pretty.
00:04:28.440 I would rather date her now than when she was 32 and traveled the world. 1.00
00:04:33.040 Completely agree.
00:04:33.700 You know why?
00:04:36.020 Because a man that's traveled the world, like we've all done here,
00:04:40.060 we know that the girl that has Instagram photos in multiple, multiple countries
00:04:45.300 was not only living her life, but statistically has slept with a lot more men. 1.00
00:04:49.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:50.620 That's what life means.
00:04:51.640 Yeah.
00:04:51.960 That's what the journey means. 0.63
00:04:53.640 And we call it the cock carousel. 0.98
00:04:55.280 And I don't mean to be crude, but a woman that has been more promiscuous and traveled more 1.00
00:05:01.340 and done all these different things, then what do you have to give her that's going to make her life magic anyway?
00:05:05.300 So when we're talking about being the hero and wanting, like, no man wants a woman that he can't save from a castle and a dragon.
00:05:11.520 That doesn't mean the woman needs to be saved or she's broken.
00:05:14.260 That's the beautiful thing about love.
00:05:16.180 So if she's done all the experience, for example, if you get in a Lamborghini and you know how to use the handle on the door,
00:05:21.620 it tells me something, you understand what I'm saying?
00:05:24.340 Now, if you can't get in, you're like, how does it, like, when a girl gets in my G-Wagon, if she can't, like, I'm like, nah.
00:05:30.860 I want to show you the world, Danielle.
00:05:32.180 I don't want someone else to show you.
00:05:34.000 Say it again?
00:05:34.920 Tanya, but with a D.
00:05:35.980 Tanya.
00:05:36.500 Tanya.
00:05:36.940 Yeah.
00:05:37.800 We'll get used to it.
00:05:38.860 But does what I'm saying make sense?
00:05:40.700 Like, a man wants a woman that has preserved herself in many, many ways.
00:05:44.820 Like, you have no relationships yet.
00:05:46.160 So if a woman has done any sort of sex work, it's not... 1.00
00:05:52.220 Oh, that's completely out, obviously.
00:05:54.020 Yeah.
00:05:54.500 That's very obvious. 0.99
00:05:56.040 I would never wife up a girl that her job was to have sex with men. 1.00
00:05:59.240 No. 1.00
00:05:59.600 That's absolutely foolish. 0.99
00:06:00.680 But hoes get wifed the quickest, you know that, right? 1.00
00:06:03.040 Yeah, because they're simps.
00:06:04.020 They're the easiest ones.
00:06:04.880 And then it fails.
00:06:05.740 Because they don't...
00:06:06.540 The ho, or the sex worker, doesn't want to have sex for money any longer. 1.00
00:06:11.180 So she finds some fool to pay for her life, and then she texts me and I sleep with her. 0.99
00:06:15.620 Are you on OnlyFans? 0.98
00:06:16.860 No, not me.
00:06:17.840 Oh.
00:06:18.480 Do you understand what I'm saying?
00:06:19.360 Like, that's... 0.62
00:06:20.240 Like, no quality man, no man that's going to be worth his salt is going to pick up a sex worker. 0.78
00:06:24.680 No.
00:06:25.760 Why would he have to?
00:06:26.820 Because if he's high level, he can get a girl like her.
00:06:31.040 And I don't even mean that to be disrespectful.
00:06:33.520 Like, I'm not trying to disrespect sex workers.
00:06:35.600 I'm telling you right now, I would never marry one.
00:06:37.640 Well, first of all, marriage is a different subject.
00:06:40.100 But I would never make her, you know, part of my life at all, ever.
00:06:45.080 But then, don't you pay for it?
00:06:47.920 Who pays for it? 0.99
00:06:48.740 No, I'm just saying, because there's men that have this ideology.
00:06:52.120 No, I said every woman is an asset. 1.00
00:06:53.980 Okay.
00:06:54.700 A man's job is to build a woman to the woman that it takes to take her where he's going. 0.95
00:06:59.980 Interesting.
00:07:00.620 Build her.
00:07:01.240 A man should build a woman. 1.00
00:07:03.280 And that means by investing into her, like, hey, baby, I just said this yesterday.
00:07:06.860 It's like, hey, listen, we're going to go to this event.
00:07:09.280 I'm going to get you this dress.
00:07:11.160 Do it like this. 0.99
00:07:12.460 A little less titties. 0.93
00:07:13.820 The fork start here and go in. 0.62
00:07:16.260 You want to build her up and make her be able to come up because you're trying to get up the social classes, right? 0.82
00:07:21.780 If you really love her, you'll develop her and build her to take her with you.
00:07:25.480 That's what you do for a woman. 1.00
00:07:26.580 That's how you build a woman. 1.00
00:07:27.820 But a woman that's been giving her body away to all the other guys at the table because the rich guys that pay for sex, they'd be like, I had that girl last year in Marbella. 1.00
00:07:35.340 Bye. 0.91
00:07:35.940 Yeah. 0.99
00:07:36.200 No fucking way. 1.00
00:07:37.200 No fucking way. 1.00
00:07:38.100 Do you want to be married? 1.00
00:07:42.560 Skip me, please.
00:07:46.000 I marriage in the traditional sense, not really something that bothers me.
00:07:50.120 I'd rather have a partnership.
00:07:50.920 You want to do the two houses thing, don't you?
00:07:53.260 I'd rather have a partnership and I'd rather have a man present in my life.
00:07:57.120 But it doesn't have to be like overarching and overwhelming with the way that people are making it seem nowadays.
00:08:02.640 Like, I fully agree with what you're saying.
00:08:04.460 And I think that for me to be able to actually take a man very seriously, he has to be a man that can actually bring something new to my life.
00:08:11.660 You know, where somebody that I can look up to and I can be like, okay, you're teaching me something new.
00:08:15.580 Okay.
00:08:16.040 Donalva, I need you to answer the question.
00:08:18.400 Do you want to be married?
00:08:19.240 Yes or no?
00:08:19.880 I want to have a partnership.
00:08:20.980 Marriage is not really what you want.
00:08:21.820 Okay.
00:08:21.920 So you don't care about being married on paper?
00:08:24.140 No.
00:08:24.280 You want a relationship?
00:08:25.460 Yeah.
00:08:25.980 Okay.
00:08:26.420 Okay.
00:08:26.760 Do you want kids?
00:08:27.600 Yes or no?
00:08:28.280 Yeah, definitely.
00:08:29.380 Okay.
00:08:29.520 How many kids?
00:08:30.860 In the world of today, I think it's safer to have two.
00:08:33.500 Two kids.
00:08:33.980 Okay.
00:08:34.280 And you're 30?
00:08:35.140 Yes.
00:08:35.660 So when do you want to be in a relationship and when do you want to have the kids?
00:08:40.220 Since it's just been about like a year since I've rebuilt my life, I'd say maybe like, I'll probably pick my husband in about six months.
00:08:51.000 Okay.
00:08:51.320 So in the next six months, you're going to find a husband.
00:08:53.200 Do you have some prospects?
00:08:54.700 Yeah, of course.
00:08:55.580 Okay.
00:08:56.600 So you got a list?
00:08:58.280 I've got, I've, well.
00:09:00.300 Anyone in the chat?
00:09:01.660 And he's, and he's ready to marry you within six months.
00:09:04.280 Yeah.
00:09:05.040 Okay.
00:09:05.560 And so then you're going to, or not, sorry, not get married, be in a relationship.
00:09:08.680 But be in that, in a relationship.
00:09:09.640 Okay.
00:09:09.740 It's very, listen.
00:09:10.340 And then when do you, when do you want your first kid by?
00:09:12.060 Um, I mean, I don't really go into people to meet people superficially.
00:09:16.880 I tend to go quite quickly.
00:09:17.580 Okay, I need you to answer your question.
00:09:19.280 So wait, wait, I'm just giving the introduction.
00:09:20.800 31, 32, 33, 34, 35.
00:09:23.580 No, it just, maybe like, it depends on how the relationship is going to be within months.
00:09:25.220 Okay, 31, 32, 33.
00:09:27.240 It's not about age, about how many people are.
00:09:28.680 Well, it is about age.
00:09:30.680 No, no, essentially, I'm not going to say I want to have a kid by 31.
00:09:33.660 I mean, you're running out of eggs.
00:09:34.740 I ain't going to watch.
00:09:35.140 No, well, I do.
00:09:36.380 And actually, just being 30 doesn't mean you don't have eggs.
00:09:38.700 You're losing them.
00:09:41.020 Janelva, geriatric pregnancy starts at 35.
00:09:43.560 That's fine.
00:09:44.060 I've got five years.
00:09:44.940 A lot happens in five years.
00:09:46.020 Especially if I'm going to have to look for a husband in six months.
00:09:47.900 What age do you want to have your first kid?
00:09:50.840 I would like to have my first kid when me and my husband have established that we are ready to do it together.
00:09:57.720 You just said you don't want to be married.
00:09:59.900 Well, I'm bringing that up.
00:10:00.980 Talking out of both sides of the mouth once again.
00:10:03.320 My father, I'm going to have it.
00:10:04.460 Force of habit.
00:10:05.200 Once me and my husband, my hubby, yeah, which not on paper, but in life, once me and him establish that we can get on, then we are ready for the thing.
00:10:12.800 That's it.
00:10:13.140 I'm not going to say I want these kids when he's not ready.
00:10:15.180 It takes two to tango.
00:10:16.080 Okay, so you're going to have the kids when he's ready?
00:10:18.200 When we're both ready.
00:10:19.360 It's a conversation that we have together.
00:10:20.900 Okay, when you're both ready.
00:10:20.920 Okay, okay.
00:10:21.480 I want to, all right.
00:10:22.580 Do you want to be married?
00:10:24.040 How many kids do you want? 1.00
00:10:24.960 And what age do you want to have kids?
00:10:26.080 I want to be married by 25.
00:10:27.880 And I want to have two kids by 30.
00:10:29.400 And then my third kid before I'm 35.
00:10:32.220 Yeah.
00:10:32.700 How old are you now?
00:10:33.720 19.
00:10:34.460 Okay.
00:10:37.080 19, that's good.
00:10:38.560 That's a really good mindset to have at 19.
00:10:40.420 That's really good.
00:10:41.220 Thanks.
00:10:43.300 So I'm 21.
00:10:45.260 I want to be married by 25.
00:10:50.620 That's my aim.
00:10:52.380 And then children I want as soon as possible once I'm married.
00:10:56.020 How many?
00:10:57.680 I like kids, so four maybe.
00:11:01.000 Four kids?
00:11:01.540 Four kids, yeah, four kids.
00:11:02.940 But then again, I don't know.
00:11:05.440 I think I've got a major problem because I'm finding it very difficult to find the right
00:11:11.840 person.
00:11:12.360 And I don't know if I'm the problem or if it's the men.
00:11:17.140 Well, what are you looking for?
00:11:20.300 Someone definitely more dominant than me.
00:11:23.000 I feel like as if I've gone too far down the career route.
00:11:25.960 And I've obviously I'm happy.
00:11:27.500 Well, you're only 21.
00:11:28.640 I've done a lot.
00:11:29.480 Okay, what have you done?
00:11:31.460 So I've got my dream job.
00:11:33.000 I'm an executive assistant.
00:11:34.780 So that was like what I wanted to do.
00:11:37.060 I work for a really big family.
00:11:39.220 I've got my dream car.
00:11:40.520 And then for me to go out there and try to find a man who's able to beat that, because
00:11:47.080 obviously that's what women want. 1.00
00:11:48.220 They want someone bigger than them.
00:11:49.880 Someone stronger, someone more masculine, dominant.
00:11:53.200 Nice.
00:11:53.400 But then I can't find that.
00:11:55.160 I don't know why.
00:11:56.200 I do know why, because we're surrounded by very weak men, unfortunately.
00:12:03.100 So...
00:12:03.300 Batty boys. 1.00
00:12:03.840 Yeah.
00:12:06.020 But yeah, I'm not going to speak too much.
00:12:07.900 Do you have like an income requirement?
00:12:10.320 Yeah.
00:12:10.540 How much does he have to make?
00:12:12.660 I would say about at least 25% more than me.
00:12:17.980 Minimum.
00:12:18.480 Which is roughly...
00:12:19.900 It will have to be in like the 40, 45, 48,000 kind of mark.
00:12:24.860 Okay.
00:12:25.220 So that's like in US dollars.
00:12:26.660 That's like 55, 60.
00:12:28.220 Yeah.
00:12:28.460 Something like that.
00:12:29.220 You can find that guy.
00:12:29.880 Yeah.
00:12:30.020 That's not crazy.
00:12:31.340 Can I say something just quickly to that?
00:12:33.260 No, no, I'm going to, I'm going to ask her.
00:12:35.120 So, uh, as many of you know, I was just banned on Tik TOK and we are demonetized on a daily
00:12:41.260 basis on this platform.
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