JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


The Reason Women HARDLY Rate Themselves

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Hannah Pearl Davis
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10 minutes

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2,443

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between virgins and non-virgins, abortion rates, and why women are better than men when it comes to sex and sex appeal. We also talk about why women tend to lie publicly about their opinions and why men tend to keep their opinions private.

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00:00:00.000 Do you think men prefer women that have abortions or would prefer a woman that didn't have an abortion?
00:00:05.600 From my experience, I feel like people have told me that the girl is usually the one that's causing issues trying to keep the baby. 0.98
00:00:14.400 And they want someone that's just...
00:00:15.600 So I'm saying a guy that wants a wife, right? 1.00
00:00:18.320 And he's going to look and there's chick A who's had two abortions in the past and chick B who's had zero abortions in the past.
00:00:26.880 Who will he pick?
00:00:28.740 The zero, obviously.
00:00:30.000 Come on, you know what he's on.
00:00:31.000 I don't know, because what if he's not even thinking about like that?
00:00:34.080 No, no, no, no.
00:00:35.000 He doesn't want children.
00:00:35.940 I just said he's looking for a wife.
00:00:38.260 He's looking for a wife. 0.65
00:00:39.600 You know, the guys that never get married, that's not what we're talking about.
00:00:44.440 What if that's not his specification?
00:00:46.280 What if that's not really a thing?
00:00:48.460 Well, a lot of men won't get married, I would predict.
00:00:51.800 What about now?
00:00:52.300 I'm talking about the abortion thing.
00:00:54.200 What if they're not thinking about that?
00:00:55.840 No, I'm saying if this is a normal guy that wants to get married and have kids and he has two choices, one had abortions, one didn't, who would he pick?
00:01:07.840 Probably the one with no abortions. 1.00
00:01:09.980 So I have a question for the ladies. 1.00
00:01:12.380 Why is women, is it so hard for us to rate each other? 1.00
00:01:16.280 Because people are just jealous, I feel like.
00:01:18.740 No, I mean, like, why is it that whenever we talk about better women and worse women, there's such a visceral reaction?
00:01:25.520 Like when we could talk about there's better men and there's worse men and like we could all generally agree.
00:01:30.760 But like when I say these women are better, like virgins are better than non-virgins. 1.00
00:01:35.080 It's like, ah, that's terrible.
00:01:37.140 Because I believe that the metrics are different.
00:01:39.560 When it comes to men, it's only about achievement.
00:01:42.100 When it comes to women, it's kind of physical features or something that women are not involved with primarily. 1.00
00:01:50.240 But then I understand that with like, for example, low body count or no abortion.
00:01:55.060 But sometimes it's just like how the woman is born. 0.77
00:01:58.340 It's not something that she can really.
00:02:00.860 I mean, I was going to say, I think, I think a big part of that is because women are predisposed to want to be socially accepted more so than men.
00:02:13.120 Yeah.
00:02:13.540 Right.
00:02:14.060 Whereas men like where not that we don't want to be socially accepted, but we care about, we prioritize other things.
00:02:20.820 Whereas women do want to be socially accepted. 1.00
00:02:22.680 So they don't want to say anything publicly, their actual opinion.
00:02:27.400 Right.
00:02:28.180 Because if other people agree with it, especially if it's other women. 1.00
00:02:31.600 Right.
00:02:31.840 And they work because women use their social connections and stuff to kind of keep themselves safe and to integrate and stuff like that. 1.00
00:02:37.420 So that's a big part why they would rather lie publicly because they're socially accepted as opposed to say what they really believe.
00:02:43.200 If it risks them.
00:02:44.040 I think more men compete.
00:02:45.380 The guy always wants to be the best guy in the room.
00:02:47.640 Girls don't want to be the best guy. 1.00
00:02:48.820 No, no.
00:02:49.120 I didn't say, I didn't say, I didn't say that girls don't compete. 1.00
00:02:51.340 I'm not saying we don't compete, but men compete more.
00:02:54.600 Definitely, the man always wants to be the top guy.
00:02:57.840 That's why a lot more men will stunt on social media and say they've got money that they haven't got.
00:03:02.080 Yeah, but you're proving my point.
00:03:03.060 Because men want to compete, right? 1.00
00:03:04.800 They understand that to compete, you have to, you being socially accepted cannot be a priority.
00:03:09.420 Yeah, exactly.
00:03:10.020 But if you want to be socially accepted, right?
00:03:12.520 You compete against other people, you're less likely to do that because you don't want to step on anyone's toes.
00:03:16.820 Men compete against men for what reason? 0.64
00:03:18.360 If you're trying to be successful to get a woman and marry her, like, why do you actually care what other men think?
00:03:23.680 Because resources are limited.
00:03:27.700 What do you mean?
00:03:28.740 Like, resources are limited.
00:03:31.000 Like, every, you know, check you want, another guy wants it.
00:03:33.980 Every woman you want, another guy wants it. 0.99
00:03:35.760 If you win, it's because you were more competitive and you were better.
00:03:38.300 So men are trying to take other men's females?
00:03:41.240 Well, she's going to end up with, typically, she's going to end up with one guy. 0.99
00:03:45.040 Whoever that guy is, depends on his level of competitiveness.
00:03:48.240 Again, would you marry someone that you took off your friend?
00:03:50.660 Well, I mean, if, I mean...
00:03:52.400 I know, guys.
00:03:53.520 But that's not relevant to what I'm saying.
00:03:56.200 But that's not relevant to what I'm saying.
00:03:57.840 What I'm saying is, let's say she's a virgin.
00:04:00.660 The first guy she sleeps with, who's that going to be? 0.96
00:04:03.360 Yeah, but how many people compete for virgins? 1.00
00:04:05.360 How many virgins even exist anymore? 1.00
00:04:07.220 It's like non-existent.
00:04:07.780 Well, I mean, there are a lot of men who do compete.
00:04:08.880 Is anyone a virgin in this room?
00:04:10.860 Yeah, but I mean...
00:04:11.520 No.
00:04:11.800 Yeah, but if you let me finish my point, what I'm saying is, well, firstly, a lot of guys
00:04:15.620 actually do compete for virgins.
00:04:18.060 But really and truly, the point I'm trying to make is...
00:04:20.020 They would have been existed.
00:04:20.500 Exactly.
00:04:21.060 But resources are limited.
00:04:22.540 That's the thing, they don't.
00:04:23.640 Go back 100 years ago, maybe they did compete for virgins, but he's staying in.
00:04:27.300 Well, actually, hold on, guys.
00:04:28.780 I'm going to let you go ahead.
00:04:29.860 Finish your point.
00:04:30.680 Go ahead.
00:04:31.260 Yeah, I mean, all I'm saying is resources are limited, which means you must be competitive.
00:04:34.920 Why is a woman going to go with man A over man B? 1.00
00:04:37.800 There must be a reason.
00:04:39.020 There must be a criteria.
00:04:40.360 Otherwise, what's the point?
00:04:41.300 The criteria is he has more resources.
00:04:44.140 Even with that example you used, I would argue that if, say, like a guy steals a girl off
00:04:49.300 another guy, they won't, they won't, if the other person finds out he doesn't really care
00:04:55.120 what the guy thinks, whereas the other way around where the woman finds out... 1.00
00:04:58.540 Why would you be trying to steal someone's girl if you're trying to think about marriage?
00:05:01.140 No, but I'm saying if the woman finds out that he had a girlfriend, most of the time,
00:05:04.320 a lot of the time, they will tell the other girl because they don't want the other girl
00:05:07.600 to think that she's like a whole or whatever.
00:05:10.060 But that girl is a hoe. 1.00
00:05:11.560 If she's with someone and then she leaves that guy to go with the mate... 0.99
00:05:14.020 No, but the point is, is that the guy wouldn't care, the guy wouldn't care and wouldn't tell
00:05:16.200 the other guy.
00:05:16.440 Maybe not, but you're not wasting your time because there's a lot of single females out 1.00
00:05:19.980 there.
00:05:20.200 So why do you need to piss about trying to take in your months?
00:05:22.180 But that's not the point.
00:05:23.020 The point is that it doesn't care.
00:05:25.040 Yeah.
00:05:26.040 Sorry.
00:05:27.040 Sorry.
00:05:28.040 The thing is, women are actually going back to the fact that women are actually more scared 0.99
00:05:32.360 of what other women have to say about them. 1.00
00:05:35.100 We are judged harshly by our own gender.
00:05:40.580 And I think that actually matters more to us than what a man thinks. 0.86
00:05:44.540 And who calls, who calls women whores more men or women? 0.73
00:05:48.040 Women. 0.98
00:05:49.040 Yeah, exactly. 0.97
00:05:50.040 It's, it's actually disgusting how women speak about other women. 1.00
00:05:54.040 Um, and I think that's why we don't want to be, like you said, we don't want to be so open 0.94
00:06:00.580 about things because, yeah, because we just don't want the other girl to call us a slut 0.70
00:06:05.700 or something like that, you know? 0.87
00:06:06.700 So would you be more concerned about a girl knowing your body count over a boy? 0.54
00:06:12.380 No, you wouldn't.
00:06:13.700 You don't care if the girls know who you think. 0.98
00:06:15.580 They don't judge you like that.
00:06:16.580 No, but women would shame. 1.00
00:06:17.580 They don't judge you as slut. 1.00
00:06:18.580 I feel like it's the same. 0.98
00:06:19.580 When they fall out.
00:06:20.580 When they fall out.
00:06:21.580 But men's like each other. 0.99
00:06:22.580 I would say a guy because a girl's going to tell everybody. 1.00
00:06:25.580 Yeah, but I agree with that.
00:06:27.580 So then you're more worried about men's opinion, not females then, aren't you?
00:06:30.580 Because you'll happily tell your friends.
00:06:31.580 Because the women are competing for men. 1.00
00:06:33.580 Yeah, that's why.
00:06:34.580 Yeah, but you don't need to compete against each other.
00:06:36.580 Yeah, you do.
00:06:37.580 Who else are you competing against?
00:06:38.580 If it's not each other.
00:06:39.580 It is.
00:06:40.580 It's like competition, basically.
00:06:41.580 A random go.
00:06:42.580 Not necessarily friends, but just like every other girl in the world, like you're competing. 0.99
00:06:45.580 Well, and it's competing for attention.
00:06:47.580 No, I agree with that.
00:06:48.580 Absolutely.
00:06:49.580 It's competing and it's always like competing with like, oh, if a girl has the best guy, 0.84
00:06:55.580 like if she's got a boyfriend who's got a lot of money, that's such a big thing for women. 1.00
00:06:59.580 Like they will literally hate on you for that.
00:07:02.580 It's such a big thing.
00:07:03.580 That's very shallow.
00:07:04.580 That's how we prove.
00:07:05.580 But we're not talking about good and bad.
00:07:07.580 We're talking about what is.
00:07:08.580 And even women look at men, like they're in a relationship and let's just say, let's just say quote unquote, 0.65
00:07:13.580 the woman is less good looking than the man. 1.00
00:07:16.580 Yeah.
00:07:17.580 The woman's onto like literally slagging off the girls. 1.00
00:07:21.580 Yeah.
00:07:22.580 You're this, you're this, you're this, you're this. 0.87
00:07:23.580 Like just because the man chose someone as deemed less attractive.
00:07:26.580 Exactly.
00:07:27.580 But you don't know whether that woman has qualities of that he's looking for.
00:07:30.580 But a girl would, or a woman would, they're not really women. 1.00
00:07:33.580 They're just girls. 1.00
00:07:34.580 Like they just go for that attack.
00:07:36.580 And they will go for that guy.
00:07:37.580 If they see like, you are very successful, pretty woman.
00:07:41.580 You've got it.
00:07:42.580 You know, you've got so much going for you and you're with that guy.
00:07:44.580 She's not really looking for much substance.
00:07:45.580 They're going to be like, if she's with that guy, then that guy's got something very valuable.
00:07:50.580 And I need to get that guy.
00:07:51.580 That he can sustain a relationship.
00:07:53.580 Preselection.
00:07:54.580 But this is just how women think. 1.00
00:07:56.580 Girls are just, yeah. 1.00
00:07:57.580 This is how women think. 1.00
00:07:58.580 I don't agree with it, but unfortunately we have to be real.
00:08:00.580 A lot of women are unhappy because you're fighting over girls, man. 1.00
00:08:02.580 Like what the fuck? 0.99
00:08:03.580 And that's why it's so hard to have real friends, girlfriends. 0.99
00:08:06.580 I think what the actual reason is, it's just females have already made that mistake and they don't fall into that category. 1.00
00:08:11.580 So it's hard for them to speak about it.
00:08:13.580 They simply can't refer to their own experience.
00:08:16.580 They've already made that mistake.
00:08:17.580 But that comment that you all agreed on was mad.
00:08:19.580 Like you said that if you see...
00:08:20.580 Which one? Sorry, can you just repeat it?
00:08:22.580 Yeah, that if you see a girl with a guy and they're happy or he's successful, you're going to hate on that woman.
00:08:29.580 That's so common.
00:08:30.580 This is real life.
00:08:32.580 Every day.
00:08:33.580 This is real life.
00:08:34.580 That is real life.
00:08:36.580 So when your friends are happy and get married, you hate them.
00:08:39.580 Maybe they're friends.
00:08:40.580 Yeah, women do that all the time. 1.00
00:08:42.580 Yes.
00:08:43.580 Are you joking?
00:08:44.580 We're not talking about what's right and wrong.
00:08:47.580 We're talking about what is.
00:08:48.580 And they will do something.
00:08:50.580 They will actually go out of their way to sabotage your marriage.
00:08:54.580 Are you kidding me?
00:08:55.580 It may not be us sitting in the room.
00:08:57.580 So we're just going to sit and agree with it as women rather than stand up and say stop doing that. 1.00
00:09:01.580 No, it's sad.
00:09:02.580 Be happy for your drink.
00:09:03.580 No, no, no.
00:09:04.580 We agree with it, but we want it to stop.
00:09:06.580 Like we do not condone it.
00:09:08.580 We don't want to be part of it.
00:09:09.580 We don't want to be part of it.
00:09:10.580 But we're just saying that this is our reality as women.
00:09:13.580 We tear each other down.
00:09:15.580 None of my friends would ever, ever call me for being with.
00:09:19.580 They would be happy.
00:09:20.580 I'd be happy.
00:09:21.580 If one of my friends got married to a millionaire tomorrow, I'd be like, yes, girl.
00:09:24.580 And my never going to sit there and go, I want your mum.
00:09:26.580 And so would I.
00:09:27.580 Right, so then most of the females don't think that then. 0.99
00:09:29.580 If all of you are saying that you'd be happy for your friend to marry a millionaire, then that's wrong then, isn't it?
00:09:34.580 Females don't think like that. 1.00
00:09:35.580 No, because we don't listen to what we're talking about the majority.
00:09:37.580 Wait, wait, wait.
00:09:38.580 We don't listen to what women say. 1.00
00:09:39.580 We watch what we do.
00:09:40.580 And there's trends and there's patterns.
00:09:41.580 This is what we see on a day-to-day.
00:09:43.580 Because at the end.
00:09:44.580 It's a thing.
00:09:45.580 You know, your mum will warn you about it.
00:09:47.580 You know, your big sister will give you advice about it.
00:09:49.580 I think it depends on your friendship.
00:09:50.580 It sounds like you're all chilling.
00:09:51.580 And they don't believe it until they see it as well.
00:09:53.580 I pointed it out a few times and then eventually they will actually see it and be like, hmm, yeah.
00:09:58.580 And the thing is, men always say women, but maybe it's true. 0.99
00:10:03.580 Men are so good at spotting it as well.
00:10:06.580 Like a guy will always spot like that girl is that way. 1.00
00:10:09.580 Yep.
00:10:10.580 They're really good at spotting that.
00:10:12.580 And men will be unattractive.
00:10:13.580 Just to point out, because I noticed you're just, you're just basically trying to combat everyone.
00:10:17.580 You realize that you can actually look at the world outside of yourself and outside of your friend.
00:10:22.580 Yeah, but all of these girls have said that, then said that they wouldn't hate their friends for it. 0.96
00:10:26.580 So the majority in this room wouldn't.
00:10:28.580 That's us.
00:10:29.580 If only everyone was like us.
00:10:30.580 I'm just saying that the conversation we're having is not about anyone specific.
00:10:34.580 It's not personal to anyone seated here.
00:10:36.580 It's just an observation.
00:10:37.580 You can observe the world as an observer.
00:10:39.580 You don't have to have experienced something to see that things actually happen.
00:10:44.580 Okay.
00:10:45.580 Sorry to say something.
00:10:46.580 The women are all competing for the same men. 0.96
00:10:49.580 All the women. 0.79
00:10:50.580 No, they're competing for the same.
00:10:52.580 If it's not the one, the same pool of men at the end.
00:10:55.580 Yeah.
00:10:56.580 That's why this hatred is there.
00:10:57.580 Yes.
00:10:58.580 Yes.