The Reason Women HARDLY Rate Themselves
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between virgins and non-virgins, abortion rates, and why women are better than men when it comes to sex and sex appeal. We also talk about why women tend to lie publicly about their opinions and why men tend to keep their opinions private.
Transcript
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Do you think men prefer women that have abortions or would prefer a woman that didn't have an abortion?
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From my experience, I feel like people have told me that the girl is usually the one that's causing issues trying to keep the baby.
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And he's going to look and there's chick A who's had two abortions in the past and chick B who's had zero abortions in the past.
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I don't know, because what if he's not even thinking about like that?
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You know, the guys that never get married, that's not what we're talking about.
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Well, a lot of men won't get married, I would predict.
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No, I'm saying if this is a normal guy that wants to get married and have kids and he has two choices, one had abortions, one didn't, who would he pick?
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Why is women, is it so hard for us to rate each other?
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No, I mean, like, why is it that whenever we talk about better women and worse women, there's such a visceral reaction?
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Like when we could talk about there's better men and there's worse men and like we could all generally agree.
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But like when I say these women are better, like virgins are better than non-virgins.
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Because I believe that the metrics are different.
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When it comes to men, it's only about achievement.
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When it comes to women, it's kind of physical features or something that women are not involved with primarily.
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But then I understand that with like, for example, low body count or no abortion.
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But sometimes it's just like how the woman is born.
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I mean, I was going to say, I think, I think a big part of that is because women are predisposed to want to be socially accepted more so than men.
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Whereas men like where not that we don't want to be socially accepted, but we care about, we prioritize other things.
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So they don't want to say anything publicly, their actual opinion.
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Because if other people agree with it, especially if it's other women.
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And they work because women use their social connections and stuff to kind of keep themselves safe and to integrate and stuff like that.
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So that's a big part why they would rather lie publicly because they're socially accepted as opposed to say what they really believe.
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The guy always wants to be the best guy in the room.
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I didn't say, I didn't say, I didn't say that girls don't compete.
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I'm not saying we don't compete, but men compete more.
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Definitely, the man always wants to be the top guy.
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That's why a lot more men will stunt on social media and say they've got money that they haven't got.
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They understand that to compete, you have to, you being socially accepted cannot be a priority.
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But if you want to be socially accepted, right?
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You compete against other people, you're less likely to do that because you don't want to step on anyone's toes.
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If you're trying to be successful to get a woman and marry her, like, why do you actually care what other men think?
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Like, every, you know, check you want, another guy wants it.
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If you win, it's because you were more competitive and you were better.
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Well, she's going to end up with, typically, she's going to end up with one guy.
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Whoever that guy is, depends on his level of competitiveness.
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Again, would you marry someone that you took off your friend?
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The first guy she sleeps with, who's that going to be?
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Well, I mean, there are a lot of men who do compete.
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Yeah, but if you let me finish my point, what I'm saying is, well, firstly, a lot of guys
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But really and truly, the point I'm trying to make is...
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Go back 100 years ago, maybe they did compete for virgins, but he's staying in.
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Yeah, I mean, all I'm saying is resources are limited, which means you must be competitive.
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Why is a woman going to go with man A over man B?
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Even with that example you used, I would argue that if, say, like a guy steals a girl off
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another guy, they won't, they won't, if the other person finds out he doesn't really care
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what the guy thinks, whereas the other way around where the woman finds out...
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Why would you be trying to steal someone's girl if you're trying to think about marriage?
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No, but I'm saying if the woman finds out that he had a girlfriend, most of the time,
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a lot of the time, they will tell the other girl because they don't want the other girl
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If she's with someone and then she leaves that guy to go with the mate...
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No, but the point is, is that the guy wouldn't care, the guy wouldn't care and wouldn't tell
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Maybe not, but you're not wasting your time because there's a lot of single females out
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So why do you need to piss about trying to take in your months?
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The thing is, women are actually going back to the fact that women are actually more scared
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And I think that actually matters more to us than what a man thinks.
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And who calls, who calls women whores more men or women?
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It's, it's actually disgusting how women speak about other women.
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Um, and I think that's why we don't want to be, like you said, we don't want to be so open
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about things because, yeah, because we just don't want the other girl to call us a slut
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So would you be more concerned about a girl knowing your body count over a boy?
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You don't care if the girls know who you think.
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I would say a guy because a girl's going to tell everybody.
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So then you're more worried about men's opinion, not females then, aren't you?
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Yeah, but you don't need to compete against each other.
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Not necessarily friends, but just like every other girl in the world, like you're competing.
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It's competing and it's always like competing with like, oh, if a girl has the best guy,
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like if she's got a boyfriend who's got a lot of money, that's such a big thing for women.
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And even women look at men, like they're in a relationship and let's just say, let's just say quote unquote,
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The woman's onto like literally slagging off the girls.
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You're this, you're this, you're this, you're this.
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Like just because the man chose someone as deemed less attractive.
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But you don't know whether that woman has qualities of that he's looking for.
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But a girl would, or a woman would, they're not really women.
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If they see like, you are very successful, pretty woman.
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You know, you've got so much going for you and you're with that guy.
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They're going to be like, if she's with that guy, then that guy's got something very valuable.
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I don't agree with it, but unfortunately we have to be real.
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A lot of women are unhappy because you're fighting over girls, man.
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And that's why it's so hard to have real friends, girlfriends.
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I think what the actual reason is, it's just females have already made that mistake and they don't fall into that category.
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They simply can't refer to their own experience.
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But that comment that you all agreed on was mad.
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Yeah, that if you see a girl with a guy and they're happy or he's successful, you're going to hate on that woman.
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So when your friends are happy and get married, you hate them.
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We're not talking about what's right and wrong.
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They will actually go out of their way to sabotage your marriage.
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So we're just going to sit and agree with it as women rather than stand up and say stop doing that.
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But we're just saying that this is our reality as women.
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None of my friends would ever, ever call me for being with.
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If one of my friends got married to a millionaire tomorrow, I'd be like, yes, girl.
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And my never going to sit there and go, I want your mum.
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Right, so then most of the females don't think that then.
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If all of you are saying that you'd be happy for your friend to marry a millionaire, then that's wrong then, isn't it?
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No, because we don't listen to what we're talking about the majority.
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You know, your big sister will give you advice about it.
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And they don't believe it until they see it as well.
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I pointed it out a few times and then eventually they will actually see it and be like, hmm, yeah.
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And the thing is, men always say women, but maybe it's true.
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Like a guy will always spot like that girl is that way.
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Just to point out, because I noticed you're just, you're just basically trying to combat everyone.
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You realize that you can actually look at the world outside of yourself and outside of your friend.
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Yeah, but all of these girls have said that, then said that they wouldn't hate their friends for it.
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I'm just saying that the conversation we're having is not about anyone specific.
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You don't have to have experienced something to see that things actually happen.
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If it's not the one, the same pool of men at the end.