The Reasons Why People Don't Date In Miami
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In this episode, we talk about how long it takes to find your first girlfriend, cheating in Miami, and why you should not date ugly men in Miami. We also talk about our experiences with cheating and how to deal with it.
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question. What about like, how long do you guys are in a talking phase with a chick until you
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ask her to be your girlfriend? Oh, I've never even had like a formal girlfriend. I mean,
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I'm only 22. Oh, okay. So if you, okay. But you meet a chick tomorrow, you're like, she's awesome.
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How long are you waiting? Um, I don't know, probably like a month or two. I feel like
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that's a good amount. If you go on a few dates a week or something like that, you should know at
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that point. That's nice. Okay. I mean, I don't really set. Yeah. I don't really set a time limit
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on it. It's just whenever she's ready, she'll kind of hint it. It could take three weeks. It could
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take two months, three months, usually after before three months, if she actually likes you,
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she'll give you the little, little hint. But, uh, yeah, you don't set exact times. I'm not,
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I'm not setting a time and like right in my notebook, I'm going to ask her to be my girlfriend
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on this date. It's kind of just whenever she brings it up a few days after that, then you,
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So you let her take the initiation? No, no. I take the initiation. She'll bring it up. We'll have
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a little talk. You'll take the clues. Yeah. And then a few days I'm like, by the way, congrats.
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You're my girlfriend. So you tell them they're your girlfriend. You don't even ask. You're just like,
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they're mine. They're very good enough. Okay. Got it. Um, for me, it's at least six to eight
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months. I definitely would not jump into anything. I have to bet the girl. They're leaving you on
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site. Hold on. Don't say what. Wait a second. Um, I want to make sure, uh, we have our first
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argument first to see how bitchy he is. So I think you don't know anybody. Cause in that first
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month or two, maybe she's putting on like a mask. You don't really know how she or she fights
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fair. Um, women's true colors come out when they get angry at you. So I give it at least a couple
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arguments that usually takes a big stake. You got to see if she throws a slipper or
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throws a knife. Exactly. Why is it taking, why is it taking six months for her to get
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mad at you? Yeah. She's going to get mad before that. It sounds like you're the one
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who has the mask on. No, no, no, no. I think that a lot of women, I dated a girl who literally
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when she would get mad, she'd go and fuck some other dude. Oh yeah. Yeah. That's what I'm
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saying. You have to see if she fights fair. Yeah. So she was silent. She was like,
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her get back was crazy. Okay. So that was my next question about Miami dating. How common
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is cheating here? Oh, real calm. Let's say if you're dating out in Miami, are you going
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to get cheated on? Uh, I would say it's like a 75, 25% chance. It depends on the guy to the
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type of guy that you're dating. Okay. You know, who are the better guys to not get cheated on
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by? Uh, the normal ones, the ones that have regular jobs. The ones that can't get other
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puss. Um, no, not necessarily. And who are the guys to stay away from? Uh, the really pretty
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ones. Okay. Cause they can get other puss. No, no, no, no, no. That's not true. That's not
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true. Um, no, but no, not date ugly men. Not date ugly men. I just feel like again, you have
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to understand Miami's a very superficial city. Okay. Superficial in the sense that you can
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meet a pretty man who is not that pretty in his day to day life. You know what I mean?
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Maybe he has like, I don't know, $50,000 worth of child support that he owed somebody or something
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crazy like that. Has that happened to you? No, I'm just saying like, it's, it's, you know,
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someone that's happened to you. Yeah. Actually. I know a lot of girls that crazy stuff like that
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has happened to, you know what I mean? So you have to understand that there, yes, there
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is this Miami that's full of influencers. And then there's a whole other Miami with regular
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people who are kind of fucked up. Like some of them, you know what I mean?
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What did your exes do? My ex husband? Yeah. Uh, he's a superintendent for a demolition
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company. Okay. Is that a good job? Uh, yeah, they make very good money actually. I
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meant like in terms of like, I mean, not get cheated on. Yeah. Oh, to not get cheated on.
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Um, I think if a man wants to cheat, he's going to cheat no matter what he does for
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a living, to be honest with you. Okay. Like it's the man, you know what I mean?
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What about women? What, what are the, what women in Miami cheat the most?
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That depends how they feel in the relationship. He doesn't want to set anybody up.
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Um, I would say the ones that actually have a personality because there's a lot of pretty
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girls in Miami. Like that's the norm here. You're funny, but the ones that have an actual
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personality definitely have an added like up on top. So they'll cheat more.
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They have more options. You know, taking that back. Okay. Um, so am I, do you just get cheated
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on in Miami? What's your opinion? I feel like, yeah, 85%. And I also feel like it's so much
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more common to get cheated on. Like not physically, just flirtatious, flirting on the gram, things
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like that. That's too common. Do you think like liking another girl's picture? Is that cheating?
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Raise your hands. Is that cheating? No. I don't think that's cheating. Messaging another
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girl cheating. Raise your hand. What's the message about? Yeah. What's the message about?
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Hey. No. Yeah. Yeah. What do you say I hate her for? That's true. What do you say I hate
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her for? Okay. But you say 85% of men here cheat. Yeah. Okay. No. I, I, I, I'm not, I was
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just talking about this today. I think all men cheat. I came from all men, all men cheat.
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Doesn't matter. They're going to cheat on you sometime. If you planning to marry them
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your whole life, they're going to cheat. Yeah. That's why I got it. You know, you know,
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what percent of men have had more than one sexual partner in the last year? I guess 10%,
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10% of men. 10% of men. Yeah. 10%. They surveyed 5,000 men in 2022. That's what they said.
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Can any of you ladies relate? 5,000 men doesn't even know.
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To what? To only having one. What's the question? Relate to what? To only having one
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sexual partner in the last year? I can. To us cheating? To us cheating? To having over
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one partner in the last year. No, just one partner in the last year. I can. Over one.
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No, she said one. That was the statistic. One. No, more than one. Yeah, it was more than one.
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Oh, more than one. Yeah. No. So, so 10% of men have had more than one sexual partner in the past
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year. Only three, 33% of men have had more than one sexual partner in their lifetime. Okay.
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Like, sorry, in a year in their lifetime. Sorry. Okay. Does that make sense?
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So, but more than one, that could be many though. So, that could be 20, it could be 30, it could be 50.
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I know, but I'm saying only 10% of men have slept with more than one chick in the last year.
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Oh, so what you're saying is 90% of men haven't slept with any chicks in the past year.
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No, no, they've slept with one. More than one. One. Yeah, yeah, you kidding.
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Right. Two or less. I'm not getting this. I'm sorry.
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I mean, sometimes that statistic works probably more outside of Miami than here.
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Yeah. Okay. Cause like he just said, girls are giving it up in 10 minutes.
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Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? Only for the big G's.
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Super like hyper sexualized. So, what do you think? Can you find a boyfriend that does not cheat here?
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No. For, from my experience, um, I think men are just really openly cheaters. Like they'll,
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they're not cheating though. They just tell you they have several women and if you're, I mean,
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they don't even ask if you're okay with it. Did you? So who, did someone tell you that?
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Okay. So, cause you're thinking of something, I'm guessing. What, what did that person do?
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I think they more or so like their game or whatever is just like,
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just like saying it like carelessly. So you can just kind of like not really digest it, but just,
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Okay. What, what happened? I need to hear this story.
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Um, we were on a date. We were like getting romantic. It was getting cute, whatever. We were, um,
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I think we went to the beach or something after just hanging out and then, um, his girlfriend called.
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His girlfriend called and, um, I was like, oh, you have a girl. He's like, oh yeah. Casually.
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After I've been with him for like two hours to tell you.
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Nothing she could say on air. We already know what that means.
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Girl, there's a lot of drug dealers here. There's a lot of scammers here.