JustPearlyThings - The Rise of Situationships (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 Dozen women being asked the following question, do we need men?

00:00:05.440 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.

00:00:11.280 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.

00:00:14.160 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:17.180 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:21.860 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:24.920 Nobody needs men!

00:00:26.160 The future is female.

00:00:27.740 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:35.780 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:39.000 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:41.700 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:45.260 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:49.360 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:51.960 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:54.940 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:59.860 It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:03.560 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:07.240 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:10.020 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:15.240 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:16.540 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:21.000 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:23.860 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:26.540 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:31.560 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:34.740 You need no evidence.

00:01:35.840 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:39.500 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:42.380 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:45.420 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:47.860 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:49.880 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:52.240 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:53.680 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:55.580 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:57.960 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:02.280 Family is the foundation of society.

00:02:04.000 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:02:06.940 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:02:11.220 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:02:13.440 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:15.260 We tell them to put off family into marriage.

00:02:17.040 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:19.760 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:24.220 Oh, freeze your ex.

00:02:25.000 Have an abortion.

00:02:26.040 What?

00:02:26.440 You're evil.

00:02:27.260 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:31.060 Right.

00:02:31.220 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:35.180 naturally, the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:37.940 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:38.780 And that's the thing, like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:02:42.620 This is not about happiness.

00:02:44.420 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:46.720 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave

00:02:51.400 when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:55.500 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:59.160 They think, well, men have all the rights.

00:03:00.660 They have all the power.

00:03:02.000 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:04.180 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:03:06.900 I have no friends.

00:03:08.140 No wife and no social life.

00:03:10.100 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:12.020 Men are homeless.

00:03:12.980 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:14.680 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:19.060 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:24.320 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:28.400 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:31.080 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among

00:03:36.900 men than among women.

00:03:38.180 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:40.000 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:41.220 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:42.880 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:44.140 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:46.060 If men are in trouble, so are women.

00:03:48.720 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:52.260 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get 500k, 300k, 200k.

00:03:57.120 Am I crazy?

00:03:57.820 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:04:00.100 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:04:03.680 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:07.580 Women.

00:04:09.040 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:11.200 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:13.460 I'm over it.

00:04:14.640 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:15.940 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:17.700 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:20.460 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:21.700 You simp for men.

00:04:22.380 No, I think you simp for women.

00:04:23.780 She's a provocateur.

00:04:24.740 She says stupid stuff.

00:04:25.940 But Pearl is right about this.

00:04:27.200 It's already happening.

00:04:28.340 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:29.780 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want

00:04:33.420 a wife and women can't find a husband.

00:04:35.460 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:39.720 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:43.880 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:45.160 The American story does not end well.

00:04:47.860 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:50.940 What's going on, people?

00:04:58.820 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

00:05:00.380 You can bring your time and attention anywhere on this planet.

00:05:03.240 And for some reason, you guys have decided to give it to me.

00:05:06.600 So thank you guys so much for tuning in.

00:05:08.900 And I appreciate it.

00:05:10.080 If you can, like the video.

00:05:11.680 I want to say, first of all, thank you for the money that we've raised for a divorce documentary.

00:05:16.500 Our goal is to raise $100,000 to pay a production team to do our divorce documentary.

00:05:23.300 This would allow us to fly fathers in, maybe even go to them in person and bring a film crew.

00:05:30.640 Anyways, thank you to the last 24 hours.

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00:05:47.080 So, okay.

00:05:49.440 So today we're talking about situationships.

00:05:52.800 Now, this has been a relatively new term.

00:05:56.100 I don't think situationships, they're kind of a product of the modern dating market.

00:06:01.280 And it was tough when I was younger and I went to school.

00:06:04.880 I didn't know how to describe to my parents the relationships everybody was in.

00:06:10.800 Because while there was maybe one or two or three boyfriend-girlfriends on the teams,

00:06:15.480 most of my lifetime, I've probably known more people in situationships than I know married or in relationships.

00:06:22.320 Now, so welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:06:25.380 Not very long ago, it was required for a man to commit to a woman to be able to have sex.

00:06:30.400 It was required, at least for most men, for what they knew of, for a man to marry a woman before the woman would bear his children.

00:06:38.840 But those times are long gone.

00:06:40.940 For the sexual revolution came a culture where women are empowered to be promiscuous and have casual sex.

00:06:46.800 This dynamic is praised in modern culture.

00:06:50.360 Where there was once long-term relationships, now there's nothing but a bunch of situationships.

00:06:54.400 Now, what is a situationship?

00:06:56.400 A situationship is a romantic or sexual relationship that lacks clear labels, commitment, or long-term expectations.

00:07:04.900 It's more than just like a one-time casual hookup, but less than a traditional relationship.

00:07:11.400 More and more women are getting stuck in situations for months and even years as more and more average and men women are trying to get commitment from men that are out of their league.

00:07:23.760 If you ask these women whose fault is it that the situationship is persisting, they will always blame the men instead of taking accountability for the type of man they choose to spend their time with.

00:07:34.300 Now, I'd like to give a little bit of a caveat.

00:07:38.000 So, there's a few different types of situationships that I see.

00:07:42.100 There's a few.

00:07:45.500 So, there's situationship number one, which is a woman sleeping with a guy that's out of her league.

00:07:52.880 This can go on for months and even years.

00:07:56.280 Now, this type of situationship is on and off.

00:07:59.220 Oftentimes, the woman will go back to this guy throughout her entire life.

00:08:03.100 So, in between marriages, she'll go back.

00:08:06.060 In between boyfriends, she'll go back.

00:08:08.480 This is the ultimate guy that the woman wanted.

00:08:11.320 This is the jack, you know, of modern women.

00:08:16.700 Now, there is a different type of situationship that I also see.

00:08:21.040 And this is a guy that a woman sleeps with but is embarrassed of.

00:08:27.100 So, oftentimes, you hear from these guys, and you may laugh, but this is a problem for certain men.

00:08:33.100 That the women always want sex and never commitment.

00:08:36.760 Now, men that have never been in that position can't even fathom this.

00:08:40.560 But these are the men that are chosen to be side dude material.

00:08:44.200 Where the women could not see themselves getting along with the man.

00:08:47.880 Maybe they're embarrassed to be with that man in public.

00:08:50.020 But they just cannot, for whatever reason, see it long term.

00:08:53.500 But they like the sex or maybe even the comfort of the situationship.

00:09:01.020 You also see the fat chicks that men bang.

00:09:05.320 And, you know, they don't really know their place.

00:09:07.620 But those are really the different types of situationships I see.

00:09:12.780 And I was thinking about the experience of men and women.

00:09:15.640 And I noticed that you can compare a situationship with an older woman to a young man in the friend zone with an attractive woman.

00:09:23.140 And I would argue it's up to the man to end a relationship with a woman that he's putting effort into but not getting the sex from.

00:09:30.380 Just like it's a woman's responsibility to end things with a man that she's not getting commitment from.

00:09:35.560 Women say all the time that they know right when they meet a man if they would sleep with them or not.

00:09:40.200 I think it's the same for men.

00:09:42.120 It won't take long for a man to realize if he wanted, he would be in a relationship with a woman.

00:09:48.180 Sort of.

00:09:48.740 Okay, so I did a poll and I was kind of curious about this.

00:09:53.940 So I polled men.

00:09:57.060 What is the longest or sorry, I polled people.

00:09:59.940 What is the longest situationship you've been in?

00:10:03.060 So 30% of situationships, this is over 2,000 people.

00:10:07.400 So this is a decent sample size.

00:10:09.180 Under a year.

00:10:11.120 One to three years, 20%.

00:10:13.480 10%, say three to five years.

00:10:15.980 And the majority of situationships are over five years long.

00:10:22.300 And when I got this poll, I realized that's longer than most marriages.

00:10:27.240 Many situationships last longer than most marriages.

00:10:31.460 Now, I also did a poll today asking men if they've ever promoted, let me find it, fellas, have you, because me and Doug MPA were talking before the show.

00:10:48.320 And I don't agree that, I don't agree at all that situationships the women always lose.

00:10:56.560 And his initial thought was that if a man doesn't know in a year if he's going to marry you, he's never going to.

00:11:04.820 And I think it's a generational difference, but that's not what I've seen at all, or make you his girlfriend.

00:11:13.940 And I'm being honest here, that is not at all what I've seen.

00:11:18.220 I've seen about 50-50.

00:11:21.860 Half of situationships get left in the dust, and half actually get what they want, even after one to three years.

00:11:30.820 There's winners and there's losers in this life.

00:11:33.080 Now, there was a girl in school, and she was dating, I knew in school, and she was dating, let's just call him Chad.

00:11:40.780 And to be honest, the whole time I would watch her, and I would think that she was stupid, right?

00:11:46.340 And I would think that she was dumb, an idiot.

00:11:49.500 Chad will never take you seriously.

00:11:53.040 You know, I recently checked in her profile, and she's pregnant with his kid now, so I was wrong.

00:11:57.840 That girl was in a four-year situationship.

00:12:02.060 Four years and one.

00:12:04.260 But for every winner, there's a loser, right?

00:12:06.860 And I knew another girl that was in an on-and-off situationship with, let's call him Tyrone.

00:12:14.260 And it was on and off for years, and no, he never took her seriously.

00:12:19.820 I would say probably she wasn't good-looking enough.

00:12:22.660 Neither were, right?

00:12:25.540 Both, the one guy did bald early, so maybe that helped.

00:12:29.900 I don't know.

00:12:33.840 Now, the women that win and the women that lose, I'd like to say there's no guaranteed outcomes, there's just strategies.

00:12:41.120 But the women that I saw win, the strategy they would enact is they wouldn't bring up commitment, and they would just work to give the man the most positive experience possible.

00:12:52.780 Now, the women that would nag the man constantly about what are we and da-da-da-da-da, I didn't really see them winning.

00:12:59.540 So I was curious.

00:13:00.760 I wanted to poll the people, and this is a smaller poll.

00:13:03.360 I wanted to poll and see what the people had seen, because in my experience, from what I've seen, it's about 50-50.

00:13:13.560 Maybe 60-40, with 60% of situationships stay that way, 40%.

00:13:19.160 And I promoted a situationship to my girlfriend or wife.

00:13:25.320 This is asking men.

00:13:27.180 32% said they have done that.

00:13:29.360 30% just wanted to see results.

00:13:31.060 37% said they'd never done that.

00:13:34.100 And that's about what I've seen.

00:13:36.580 I've also seen men on the losing side of a situationship, where the girl's just a little hotter than him or has more choice.

00:13:43.360 And he wants to be in a relationship, you know, and she doesn't.

00:13:49.140 But my question is, for the men, I really want to hear about your situationships.

00:13:55.540 You know, what is the longest situationship you've been in?

00:13:58.620 Why was it a situationship?

00:14:01.440 And what made you stay in it for so long?

00:14:04.840 And did you ever promote her?

00:14:06.720 Or maybe you were on the end of wanting to be promoted.

00:14:09.200 Did you get promoted?

00:14:11.860 So we're going to watch some TikToks on situationships.

00:14:15.940 And then you guys can call in.

00:14:17.360 You know how they say it's always harder to get over someone that you never actually dated?

00:14:25.160 Well, I would like to add something to that.

00:14:27.320 Not only is it harder to get over someone that you never dated, it is the hardest to get over.

00:14:31.860 Someone said, I know a guy who's been in one for 35 years.

00:14:34.500 Seems like a great story.

00:14:35.840 Call in.

00:14:36.760 For someone that you never dated, that you also met in a very serendipitous way.

00:14:41.040 And I know for a fact that is why it was so hard for me to get over a couple of the men

00:14:46.040 that I was involved with in my 20s.

00:14:48.220 And mind you, these are men that I never was in a committed relationship.

00:14:51.640 But because of the way that I met them in these crazy, unexpected, out of the blue, fairy tale ways.

00:14:59.300 Yeah.

00:14:59.520 So when they say, I met him in a fairy tale way, it just means he has a script.

00:15:03.440 He's very good at running.

00:15:04.420 So he's got like a routine that he's good at, like putting women in.

00:15:09.280 It made it near.

00:15:13.680 Women are the ones in situationships.

00:15:15.860 Most of the time, they're older women that are desperate for a relationship and get one.

00:15:20.180 I dug MPA.

00:15:21.120 I've seen it both.

00:15:22.120 Honestly, these days, I'm being honest.

00:15:24.340 I see a good amount of men in situationships with young women where they want, it's like,

00:15:31.820 it's like they want the situationship to be taken seriously.

00:15:35.440 But the women are young.

00:15:36.560 They're like, no, just sex.

00:15:38.780 I've seen it.

00:15:39.540 I've seen it both ways.

00:15:41.060 The older women, the older women, younger man.

00:15:47.300 Yeah.

00:15:47.800 I mean, that's, that's another one that you see.

00:15:49.880 It's nearly impossible for me to think that it wasn't destiny for me to be with them.

00:15:56.300 So yeah, granted, they were showing me, they were definitely showing me in the moment who

00:16:01.920 they were as people, even if their actions were not aligning with their words at all,

00:16:05.920 even if they were hot and cold and treating me terribly.

00:16:09.620 Women close to hitting the wall will accept situations.

00:16:12.560 If I'm being honest, guys, I saw it the most in school.

00:16:15.800 That was like, when I was in college, more women were in situationships than relationships.

00:16:25.060 And some of them, it was on their terms.

00:16:27.400 Some of them, it wasn't.

00:16:28.500 But if, if, if I'm just being real here, that's what I, when I saw it the most.

00:16:34.840 And I'm not, I'm not trying to like white knight for women, right?

00:16:38.500 I'm just like, I have to go with what I'm seeing with my eyes.

00:16:41.800 So yeah, simply just did not care because I was like, well, I met them in this way and

00:16:49.040 this is how I've always wanted to meet someone.

00:16:50.920 So therefore it's just going to have to work out somehow.

00:16:53.500 And then I would get stuck in like very on and off situationships with people that sometimes

00:16:58.860 lasted up to two years.

00:17:00.340 So on top of already being someone who tends to project her daydreamed fantasies on two people

00:17:06.980 in the real world, even if they are showing the complete opposite, add to that, the fact

00:17:11.560 that since I was a little girl, I've always wanted to meet someone in that like Disney

00:17:15.560 princess way.

00:17:16.680 Of course, it was hard for me to let go of these men.

00:17:19.900 Like, why wouldn't it have been hard?

00:17:21.520 Like one of the guys that I'm referring to, he actually chased me down as I was pulling

00:17:26.180 out of my parking lot to go to my friend's house.

00:17:28.460 Like he waved me down and made me stop my car and then ask for my number.

00:17:33.220 And then the other person I met while I was on vacation, just hit it off right away.

00:17:38.220 We got along so well that we ended up spending like every single night together for the rest

00:17:42.920 of the time that I was there.

00:17:43.940 And then we just happened to either run into each other or see each other for the next two

00:17:48.640 years after that completely unplanned.

00:17:50.960 And mind you, this person and I both live in different countries.

00:17:54.140 Like there's no way that that's a coincidence.

00:17:57.320 So it was situations like that where I would either keep running into the person or the way

00:18:02.240 that I met them genuinely made me believe that this was going to be how it played out

00:18:07.200 with this person.

00:18:07.820 Like it was meant to be.

00:18:08.920 And I think unless you've been through this yourself or unless you are a very imaginative

00:18:13.720 person and you have a very clear idea of like how you want things to play out, which I know

00:18:19.580 you can't even control that.

00:18:20.720 You really won't understand how difficult it is to let go of people that you do meet in

00:18:24.560 these unexpected and serendipitous ways.

00:18:27.340 Like, I don't know, in my mind, it's just a lot easier for me to get over someone that

00:18:31.740 I meet on a dating app versus someone that I meet like in the wild, completely unplanned

00:18:37.000 and unexpected.

00:18:38.120 Trust me when I say that I've been through this situation enough times now to know that

00:18:42.500 the way that you meet someone really does not play into the kind of person that they

00:18:47.200 are at all.

00:18:47.740 Definitely had to learn that one the hard way.

00:18:49.760 But I'm just saying if you are someone that has also found it way more difficult to let

00:18:54.920 go of people that you met in these crazy ways, you are not alone because I stand by the theory

00:19:02.420 that the people that you meet in these kinds of ways are 10 times harder to let go.

00:19:06.020 Okay.

00:19:07.020 Yeah.

00:19:08.020 And when you get it, it's when you meet a guy in a crazy way, he's practiced that, so he's

00:19:11.520 got choice.

00:19:12.520 Oh, I've been in a situation for six fucking years now.

00:19:18.920 I cannot believe I just sat down on camera, but I'm so fucking over it.

00:19:22.760 I'm so over it basically this boy and I started dating when we were in high school and like,

00:19:28.580 honestly, that shit was so toxic.

00:19:30.640 Like we were both stubborn as fuck and we would just argue constantly.

00:19:34.940 So what happens is women will always go back to the most alpha guy of their past.

00:19:40.220 So sometimes women find that guy in high school.

00:19:44.060 Sometimes we find that guy in college.

00:19:46.080 Sometimes we find that guy in the workforce.

00:19:48.080 Um, but usually, especially women, I want you guys to know if there's a woman that gives

00:19:54.160 you a really low body count and she's not lying, there's some acts that has a subscription

00:19:59.640 still.

00:20:00.640 I'm just letting you know.

00:20:01.640 But anyways, he broke up with me.

00:20:03.560 I was so sad, but then we remained really close friends and eventually just basically

00:20:08.900 because you guys have to think about it.

00:20:10.400 Women are getting, you know, thrown at us 24 seven.

00:20:15.740 And I want you, when you start looking at sex as a need, women's behavior makes way more

00:20:20.800 sense.

00:20:21.800 And it like, it humanizes us in a way women, you know, men, it would be like,

00:20:31.280 you know, women, they're going to find a way to take care of that need.

00:20:36.000 Uh, obviously women were going to do it in the most manipulative ways possible.

00:20:40.220 And X's are a great way to do it.

00:20:43.880 We continue to date, but without label.

00:20:46.580 And then we both went to the same fucking college.

00:20:49.740 So we weren't.

00:20:50.680 She picked that college.

00:20:51.680 Really dating then either, but we continued this, whatever the fuck that was going on.

00:20:56.080 And that shit fucked with my head because it felt so much like a relationship that when

00:20:59.560 I got upset at things like, which if you're in a relationship, it was totally valid, but

00:21:03.920 because we weren't, it wasn't justified.

00:21:06.460 And so I kept feeling all these things that I wasn't technically allowed to feel because

00:21:10.720 we weren't dating.

00:21:11.720 Like I've always been really shy with like dating and all of that.

00:21:14.020 Like, I don't really know how to flirt.

00:21:16.020 Fuck me.

00:21:17.020 I'm 23 and I don't, I can't flirt.

00:21:19.420 And the thing is it was on off, on off, but because for me, I was so scared to like meet

00:21:23.320 other people because I was so comfortable in this little like security blanket.

00:21:27.520 Yeah.

00:21:28.520 Sometimes guys, when you're meeting a woman and she's acting weird, there's someone in

00:21:32.840 the background.

00:21:34.100 Like if you, if you start thinking, I can tell she likes me, but there's something holding

00:21:39.300 me back or whatever there.

00:21:41.400 I promise to God, either she doesn't like you at all, or there's someone in the background.

00:21:46.320 That is this boy.

00:21:47.940 And I regret not going on dates and like fucking around in college because now I'm 23, I work

00:21:52.080 at home now.

00:21:53.120 So it's not like I can meet people at work.

00:21:55.060 And like, I don't want to do a dating ads either because it just feels so forced.

00:21:57.880 And I've heard too many bad stories from friends that like, I'm not doing that shit.

00:22:01.840 But anyway, last year of college, we finally dated, which apparently recently I talked to

00:22:06.840 him about it.

00:22:07.840 And according to him, we weren't even dating back then, but we were doing like the whole

00:22:12.000 flowers, Valentine's day, all that shit.

00:22:14.180 So like, I don't know what's wrong with him.

00:22:15.820 It has come to my attention.

00:22:17.160 Finally, I need to move the fuck on and yeah.

00:22:21.300 And that's, that's what you're competing with.

00:22:22.940 And remember, this is a six year situationship, situationships oftentimes last longer than

00:22:28.580 marriages.

00:22:30.420 Think about that.

00:22:31.760 Think about that.

00:22:32.760 Stop wasting my time on this boy.

00:22:34.680 We broke up the last year of college because of long distance, but now we're in the same

00:22:37.940 city in the same fucking friend group and it's so much harder, but fuck this.

00:22:41.940 This year I told myself to stop wasting my time and energy on the people who don't return

00:22:45.480 the same energy back.

00:22:46.480 I'm 23, still have not dated anyone else.

00:22:50.660 Like at this point, I feel like I'm just going to die alone.

00:22:54.200 All my friends are in relationships too.

00:22:55.980 And it's so cute.

00:22:57.080 I'm like, I want one.

00:22:58.720 Where do people get one?

00:23:00.300 At this point, I feel like I've lost all of my dating skills because I didn't have to

00:23:03.620 use that muscle for like six years.

00:23:07.900 For the first time in my life, I finally feel like I'm ready to move on and meet other people.

00:23:14.240 I'm just fucking terrified too.

00:23:16.320 I keep saying that I'm only sticking with this boy because of comfort and familiarity,

00:23:20.600 but like he's not giving me any of that because he's stressing me out so fucking much.

00:23:24.680 I just need to rant today.

00:23:25.920 Oh my God.

00:23:27.300 She just went up two points.

00:23:29.680 Holy shit.

00:23:30.680 Did you guys see that?

00:23:32.340 Oh my God.

00:23:33.340 Makeup works.

00:23:34.340 We can't deny this.

00:23:35.340 That's okay.

00:23:36.340 Hot girl rant.

00:23:37.340 Wait, I've been loving brushing my hair like this recently.

00:23:44.180 And just look at that.

00:23:45.940 All right.

00:23:46.940 So yeah, she's got the situation ship.

00:23:49.940 Let's see who's next.

00:23:52.940 Oh, this is the same one.

00:23:59.540 Okay.

00:24:00.540 Let's see who's next.

00:24:01.540 I just texted my situation ship of eight months and said, Hey, I love coloring you.

00:24:07.180 Love coloring.

00:24:08.180 I'm never going to meet my husband if I keep coloring you.

00:24:10.940 And I think I actually am finally ready for more commitment from someone.

00:24:15.640 All was great in my head.

00:24:16.940 Like in my head, he didn't even reply.

00:24:18.940 Great.

00:24:19.940 Life lived on.

00:24:20.940 Why did he reply and say, who's to say that person can't be me.

00:24:31.120 Now she just got another six months.

00:24:33.240 He got another six months of subscription.

00:24:35.700 That wasn't in the script.

00:24:38.900 So now my brain is frozen.

00:24:45.100 She's taking notes.

00:24:46.100 All right.

00:24:47.100 Let's see who's next.

00:24:48.100 And this is super common for girls in their early twenties.

00:24:51.400 Like it's that, that's what, you know, you guys are saying the older women are in the

00:24:55.260 situation ships and maybe they are, but I'm telling you in school, it was like everybody,

00:25:01.860 everybody say what you will.

00:25:04.900 But I'm in what they call a long-term situation ship.

00:25:09.020 It's an Aquarius.

00:25:10.140 So you already know.

00:25:11.140 Anyway, I'm a Libra.

00:25:12.140 So it's like two air signs and I get on his fucking nerves for sure.

00:25:16.940 So let's play a game of questions.

00:25:18.900 How long have we been in a situation ship?

00:25:21.340 I don't know.

00:25:22.340 I don't really count time.

00:25:24.660 Like anniversaries.

00:25:25.660 It's just like time passes.

00:25:27.660 This guy does not care.

00:25:30.240 Two and a half years.

00:25:32.360 Who braided my hair for soul cycle this morning?

00:25:34.660 I do because I've known how to braid for a long time.

00:25:39.660 Okay.

00:25:40.660 But who makes me dinner every night?

00:25:41.660 Not every night, but me because I feed the cats and you around the same time.

00:25:47.660 How long have I been staying in your apartment?

00:25:50.660 Long enough.

00:25:53.660 I mean, you have your own.

00:25:55.660 I don't understand why you can't move the fuck out.

00:25:59.660 So why are we not in a relationship?

00:26:02.660 Because I can't even commit to my clothes.

00:26:06.660 Why the fuck would I commit to like a thing like that?

00:26:11.660 A thing.

00:26:13.660 He braids my hair.

00:26:15.660 He makes me food.

00:26:17.660 I didn't.

00:26:18.660 I stay in his apartment.

00:26:20.660 Bitch.

00:26:21.660 Every night he makes me food.

00:26:24.660 Define situationship.

00:26:26.660 I already did.

00:26:28.660 What does it mean to you?

00:26:30.660 I told you.

00:26:31.660 It's just something that like.

00:26:33.660 He like does not want to be on camera.

00:26:36.660 This is.

00:26:37.660 He's like, lady, you got a chest tattoo.

00:26:39.660 I can't do this.

00:26:41.660 He's there for the time.

00:26:42.660 It means when people just got too much shit going on that they don't have the time to put a label on something.

00:26:56.660 But you know that something is there all the fucking time.

00:27:00.660 I think for food every night.

00:27:03.660 So like.

00:27:04.660 Anyway, two and a half years, no commitment, but he will braid my hair.

00:27:11.660 He will cook for me.

00:27:13.660 I can stay in his zoo of a.

00:27:15.660 She has too many tattoos and her hair is too short.

00:27:18.660 Fucking house.

00:27:19.660 Cause you make this shit a zoo.

00:27:21.660 Fuck.

00:27:22.660 My house is so much cleaner when you're not around.

00:27:25.660 Anyway.

00:27:26.660 There's cereal on the floor.

00:27:27.660 Why is there cereal?

00:27:28.660 I don't even eat cereal.

00:27:30.660 That's it.

00:27:31.660 Yeah.

00:27:32.660 Gonzo knows.

00:27:34.660 Ah, yeah.

00:27:35.660 See the guy in the background.

00:27:37.660 He's thinner and he kind of looked better looking at a glance.

00:27:40.660 Oh, I think.

00:27:42.660 Oh, this is.

00:27:43.660 Okay.

00:27:44.660 So I'm in a new situation ship.

00:27:46.660 But I need you guys to tell me what base am I on?

00:27:49.660 Okay.

00:27:50.660 Like how serious is this?

00:27:51.660 Yeah.

00:27:52.660 We're not official.

00:27:53.660 We're not exclusive.

00:27:54.660 We're not dating, but we are watching Love Island USA together.

00:27:57.660 Even though we are currently on opposite sides of the country.

00:28:00.660 I'm in Chicago right now.

00:28:01.660 Cause I'm home and they're in LA.

00:28:02.660 And so what we've been doing is every night we've been like syncing up in how we watch Love Island.

00:28:07.660 Like we'll press play at the exact same time.

00:28:09.660 And then we'll binge like three or four episodes together.

00:28:11.660 Our entire text threads have just become like syncing up, pressing play, syncing up time codes.

00:28:16.660 Cause also I have ads and they don't.

00:28:18.660 So that's become fickle.

00:28:20.660 Like we have like 10,000 text messages back and forth over the last few days where we've been binging this show and just live texting it as it's happening.

00:28:27.660 This is commitment.

00:28:28.660 This is commitment.

00:28:29.660 So yeah, guys, let me know.

00:28:30.660 Do you think it's serious enough for me to propose or like?

00:28:34.660 There's another one.

00:28:35.660 All right.

00:28:36.660 Let's see.

00:28:37.660 And we're going to have you call it.

00:28:38.660 And I just, I want to hear all about if you guys have been in situationships, you know, we're going to go.

00:28:45.660 You know how they say it's always harder to get over someone that you never actually dated.

00:28:50.660 Well, I would like to add something to that.

00:28:52.660 Not only is it harder to get over someone that you never dated, it is the hardest to get over someone that you never dated that you also met in a very serendipitous way.

00:29:01.660 And I know for it, we did this one already.

00:29:04.660 All right.

00:29:05.660 So guys, I want you to call in and tell me about your situationships.

00:29:11.660 All right.

00:29:12.660 So let's, let's call in.

00:29:16.660 That one girl had the dreaded long distance situationship.

00:29:21.660 Oh, that has to be the worst.

00:29:23.660 What do you think is the worst kind of situation?

00:29:25.660 Well, I don't think hers is long distance.

00:29:28.660 She was just home.

00:29:29.660 No, she was in college.

00:29:31.660 I've followed her before.

00:29:32.660 She lives in LA, but she's in college.

00:29:34.660 So she's just home for like Christmas or summer, you know, but go ahead.

00:29:39.660 Yeah.

00:29:40.660 But still, you know, you've met women who they're holding onto a situationship and it's long distance.

00:29:47.660 And it's, it seems even more delusional when the guy's like a thousand miles away and the guy's keeping them spellbound.

00:29:55.660 I think it's actually great.

00:29:57.660 It's great for women because, you know, we can't get along with anyone unless they're a thousand miles away.

00:30:04.660 So you could just whisper sweet nothings and get a subscription every other weekend.

00:30:10.660 That's great.

00:30:12.660 You are wise beyond your years, my friend.

00:30:16.660 So it's kind of a win-win.

00:30:17.660 Go ahead.

00:30:18.660 I can tell you my longest situationship lasted longer than my marriage.

00:30:23.660 How long was it?

00:30:25.660 Uh, so I was married for four years and my longest situation was seven years.

00:30:37.660 Oh, wow.

00:30:40.660 Yeah.

00:30:41.660 Yep.

00:30:42.660 It's the, the woman in the situationship just never graduated to the next part.

00:30:47.660 I never, um, never got bumped up to relationship.

00:30:51.660 What made you, what made you not want to do it?

00:30:53.660 Or was it her?

00:30:54.660 Like, who was it?

00:30:55.660 Uh, it was her for sure.

00:30:57.660 There's just certain things that, um, it was just, it was just never going to happen.

00:31:04.660 She had certain things with her personality, certain things with her mindset that just weren't conducive to actually making her a part of my life.

00:31:13.660 And did she ever like ask you for commitment?

00:31:16.660 Of course.

00:31:17.660 Oh yeah.

00:31:18.660 And she, and you just would say, how, what would you, let me, let's, let's role play here.

00:31:22.660 Show me, just so the guys know how they could string this along seven years or six years.

00:31:28.660 Okay.

00:31:29.660 Okay.

00:31:30.660 Doug MPA.

00:31:31.660 I really, I just want to be with you and just us together.

00:31:35.660 Um, I would say, um, I would say, I just don't have the bandwidth for that right now.

00:31:47.660 I'm giving you, I'm giving you all that I can give right now.

00:31:51.660 And if that's not enough, you need to let me know.

00:31:53.660 But, but I see you dating, you're dating that other girl and you've been hanging out with her more.

00:31:59.660 Then I would say, uh, I would just keep reiterating the point.

00:32:04.660 I'd say, um, we have what we have and that's separate from what's going on there.

00:32:10.660 I'd say I, you know, I compartmentalize certain things in my life and I only have a certain amount to give this certain things.

00:32:19.660 And this is all that I can give.

00:32:20.660 And I would literally tell her like, you know, this is all that I can give you.

00:32:24.660 That's it.

00:32:25.660 Uh, no more, no less.

00:32:28.660 And you just keep putting it on, keep putting it on them and saying, look, like if, if you want more and I can't give it to you, well, then you have a decision to make.

00:32:37.660 Yep.

00:32:38.660 That'll do it.

00:32:39.660 That'll keep her.

00:32:40.660 Yep.

00:32:41.660 Yep.

00:32:42.660 Yep.

00:32:43.660 Yep.

00:32:44.660 Yeah.

00:32:45.660 And then you also, so guys to keep a situation ship going, you got to give a little bit.

00:32:52.660 So like this, I would take this person on a trip, you know, we would go to, to Florida.

00:32:58.660 You got to do a nice enough things to keep the illusion of a relationship going, but you don't do, never do like Thanksgiving together or dinner together.

00:33:08.660 Maybe do new years, but never do Thanksgiving, never do Christmas, never do major holidays, but you know, do a trip or something like that, you know, take them out to dinner and stuff like that.

00:33:17.660 But don't do anything like, you know, big time.

00:33:22.660 So, yeah, that's, that's longest situation ship I've ever seen.

00:33:32.660 Probably 10 years.

00:33:34.660 I've seen someone in a situation ship for a decade.

00:33:37.660 Could you just real fast?

00:33:39.660 Yes.

00:33:40.660 So I said that just like, okay, if a man is young and he is dating a woman and he's not getting sex, he, it's his responsibility to end a relationship with a woman where he's not getting sex.

00:33:56.660 Cause what's the point?

00:33:57.660 And he can't get mad at the girl because the girl doesn't want to sleep with them.

00:34:01.660 It's his responsibility to not deal with that woman in the first place.

00:34:04.660 And that's what I would say about older women and the situation ships, because a lot of women past the age of 30 end up in situation ships with guys.

00:34:13.660 Cause they want to rush to try to get married or have a serious relationship.

00:34:16.660 And these women can't get mad at a guy that won't commit to him.

00:34:19.660 She needs to be, have the wherewithal to cut it off.

00:34:22.660 If she's not getting the commitment, right?

00:34:25.660 Yeah, no, I agree.

00:34:27.660 It's interesting.

00:34:28.660 You say I saw the most situation ships in college.

00:34:32.660 Like that was like the top, like, did, did you not see that when you were in school or no?

00:34:37.660 No, I've seen the most relations.

00:34:39.660 I've, I've seen the most, I've seen the most situation ships in my thirties.

00:34:44.660 In fact, I've been, I've been the person not committing to the most women in my thirties.

00:34:50.660 Have you ever been close to promoting a girl or no?

00:34:55.660 Yes, I have.

00:34:57.660 And, um, look, the only thing about it is, is you kind of change the social contract a little bit and see how they react.

00:35:04.660 Okay.

00:35:05.660 And a lot of women in a situation ship that they're looking for those small little indicators that they're going to get promoted.

00:35:12.660 They don't understand that if a man isn't committal and he starts showing signs that he's about to commit, ladies, don't try to take, um, his ability to be able to promote you away.

00:35:27.660 Cause a lot of women, they'll see the change and they'll be like, so are we in a relationship now?

00:35:31.660 Is it finally, finally, finally.

00:35:33.660 And that'll make the guy not want to promote you.

00:35:36.660 Ladies, you have to make sure it's his decision and his decision only.

00:35:39.660 Do you know what?

00:35:40.660 That's the women.

00:35:41.660 Cause I've seen it like 50 50 when I think of like the people I knew in school, like which girls got like pumped and dumped and which girls got into the actually one, one commitment has to be on the table for him.

00:35:57.660 Eventually there's some guys that like, they're not going to, if they settle down, they're going to be old when they do it.

00:36:05.660 Like, so one of the girls I'm thinking of, like, he just was never going to settle down.

00:36:09.660 Like if he does, he'll be 40 or 50.

00:36:11.660 He's just that type of guy.

00:36:12.660 Do you know what I mean?

00:36:13.660 Yeah.

00:36:14.660 I agree.

00:36:15.660 Cause some of the guys, they just wanted to mess around in college and then they, they might go find a girl.

00:36:21.660 So like when they graduated, they would kind of look at the girl that'd been there all four years and they're like, fine, you know, fine bitch.

00:36:30.660 You've worn me down.

00:36:31.660 Like you're still here after all these years.

00:36:35.660 So might as well reward you.

00:36:36.660 Yeah.

00:36:37.660 Like the other girl.

00:36:38.660 And I would say it was like 50, 50 for the ones that were long-term.

00:36:42.660 If it's like, I don't really count a situate, like I'm thinking like long-term situationships.

00:36:47.660 Go ahead.

00:36:48.660 Yeah.

00:36:49.660 See, I was in a weird situation in college because my first girlfriend I was with for four and a half years, five years.

00:36:56.660 And then I went off to college and I wasn't even thinking about a relationship.

00:37:01.660 So I was putting women in situationships in college, but everyone else around me was getting together.

00:37:09.660 So a bunch of my friends from college got married out of college, but I was one of the only people where I had gotten out of a relationship.

00:37:17.660 I moved away from my relationship to go to college.

00:37:22.660 Generational difference.

00:37:24.660 It was all situationships by the time I got to school.

00:37:28.660 Not all, I would say like maybe 20% were in relationships, but the rest, no.

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00:38:22.660 Yep.

00:38:23.660 Hey, Todd.

00:38:24.660 How's it going?

00:38:25.660 Pretty good, you?

00:38:27.660 Good.

00:38:28.660 So tell me about your situationship.

00:38:32.660 How old were you?

00:38:33.660 Where'd you guys meet?

00:38:34.660 How long were you together-ish?

00:38:36.660 Right.

00:38:37.660 Yeah.

00:38:38.660 First of all, you can hear me, right?

00:38:40.660 Yeah, I can hear you.

00:38:41.660 I can hear you.

00:38:42.660 Yeah.

00:38:43.660 I can hear you.

00:38:44.660 Okay.

00:38:45.660 Good to go.

00:38:46.660 Good to go.

00:38:47.660 Okay.

00:38:48.660 I was active duty military, which was a no-no to begin with.

00:38:51.660 I was, God, this was back in the mid-2000s and I was down in South Texas.

00:38:58.660 Okay.

00:38:59.660 And the bar I was going to, this was after my divorce, the bar I was going to, it was obvious.

00:39:08.660 At the time, it wasn't so obvious.

00:39:11.660 Now that I've been red-pilled, it is very obvious that there's quite a few people, you

00:39:16.660 know, doing what they do and they're married at the same time.

00:39:21.660 My situationship happened be where a specific woman, no names obviously, but she would come

00:39:29.660 in there at the same time I would and we would get, you know, we would, we would have drinks,

00:39:35.660 shoot darts, play pool, et cetera, et cetera.

00:39:38.660 And it was the kind of thing where if you didn't go home with anybody at the other night,

00:39:44.660 she got ahold of me.

00:39:46.660 Okay.

00:39:47.660 Okay.

00:39:48.660 So I would get home and I'm, you know, I'm sitting there eating whatever, you know, you

00:39:53.660 know what you do after you get home from a bar, you go get your bar food and you're, you're

00:39:56.660 watching a movie.

00:39:57.660 Well, I would get a, you know, I'd get text messages saying, Hey, are you home alone?

00:40:02.660 I want to come do, you know, come do the thing.

00:40:06.660 And the bad part about it is in, in, I've come to terms with it is she was married and

00:40:13.660 she didn't care.

00:40:14.660 I mean, that's what I've found of most of these, most, most women, if you're in a situation

00:40:21.660 like that, they do not care.

00:40:22.660 You're, you're just giving them what they're missing from their current relationship.

00:40:27.660 And, um, did you want to like, or would, I guess, was there a part of you that wanted

00:40:35.660 commitment or that she wanted commitment or was it purely physical on both ends?

00:40:40.660 Uh, at, at the time, I guess I might've, I would have committed had she, had she gotten

00:40:49.660 divorced, but now looking back on it, no way in heck, no way.

00:40:53.660 It was, it was a pump and dump for sure.

00:40:55.660 And how long did it last?

00:40:57.660 Oh God.

00:40:58.660 Uh, I'm going to say two and a half, three years.

00:41:03.660 Okay.

00:41:04.660 Wow.

00:41:05.660 So a lot of, uh, a lot of bump and dumps.

00:41:08.660 Now is, was that the only situationship you've been in?

00:41:12.660 Uh, not, no, actually, no.

00:41:16.660 Um, how many would you say, how old are you?

00:41:18.660 If you don't mind me asking?

00:41:19.660 I'm 52.

00:41:20.660 52.

00:41:21.660 So how many situationships have you been in?

00:41:24.660 Would you say?

00:41:25.660 I'd say two.

00:41:26.660 Two.

00:41:27.660 And the other one, um, how old was, how old are both of the women?

00:41:31.660 Uh, the one was, I think she's three years younger than I am.

00:41:35.660 And the other one was 15 years younger than I am.

00:41:38.660 No, I'm sorry.

00:41:39.660 At the time I meant.

00:41:40.660 Yeah.

00:41:41.660 Yeah.

00:41:42.660 Yeah.

00:41:43.660 At the time.

00:41:44.660 Um, now she's, uh, they're, they're, they're both three years younger than I am.

00:41:48.660 I think.

00:41:49.660 If I remember correctly.

00:41:50.660 No, I'm saying how old were they when they were doing it?

00:41:53.660 Oh God.

00:41:54.660 30s, 20s.

00:41:55.660 Yeah.

00:41:56.660 I'd say mid thirties, mid thirties.

00:41:57.660 Okay.

00:41:58.660 Cool.

00:41:59.660 So the, the other woman, did she want commitment from you or no?

00:42:02.660 Hell no.

00:42:03.660 Oh, so she didn't.

00:42:04.660 It was just a, it was a, it was a situation where she found me attractive.

00:42:09.660 I found her attractive and you know, we were both in the same place at the same time.

00:42:15.660 And you know, we were both in the same place at the same time at the bar at the same time.

00:42:21.660 And she's like, Hey, you want to do this?

00:42:23.660 And I'm like, let's do it.

00:42:25.660 And we did it.

00:42:26.660 Yeah.

00:42:27.660 No, that's why.

00:42:28.660 Cause a lot of times people have this idea that only women, like sometimes women are the

00:42:33.660 ones that want, like, they don't want commitment.

00:42:35.660 They just want the sex.

00:42:36.660 Well, that's what happened with my ex wife.

00:42:38.660 I'll tell you that right now.

00:42:40.660 Okay.

00:42:41.660 Um, Doug MP, you got any other questions for him?

00:42:44.660 No.

00:42:45.660 Great story.

00:42:46.660 Cool.

00:42:47.660 Great story.

00:42:48.660 Thanks for calling in.

00:42:49.660 Absolutely.

00:42:50.660 Take care.

00:42:51.660 Bye.

00:42:52.660 Bye.

00:42:53.660 Um, guys, I forgot to just say this announcement before that was a great call.

00:42:57.660 He called in, he had the story.

00:42:59.660 He didn't ramble.

00:43:00.660 We, I, you know, then when he stops, I asked him a few questions, we can go back and forth.

00:43:05.660 It's great.

00:43:06.660 Then we move on to the next caller.

00:43:07.660 Um, the only thing is make sure the YouTube's not playing in the background.

00:43:10.660 So usually you do get, um, uh, you can see if we put you on.

00:43:16.660 So, um, who's the next caller?

00:43:18.660 We got.

00:43:19.660 Second.

00:43:20.660 And the, the zoom for all, cause I know we stream on a few different platforms.

00:43:25.660 The zoom link is in the YouTube chat pinned.

00:43:28.660 So if you have to go click YouTube, click zoom, and then you're on.

00:43:32.660 Gary C.

00:43:34.660 You're up next.

00:43:35.660 Hey, how you guys doing?

00:43:36.660 Gary.

00:43:37.660 How's it going?

00:43:38.660 I'm doing good.

00:43:39.660 How are you guys doing?

00:43:40.660 Good.

00:43:41.660 Are you in the Midwest?

00:43:42.660 I am in the Southwest.

00:43:44.660 Cool.

00:43:45.660 And how, how old are you?

00:43:46.660 I'm 39.

00:43:47.660 39.

00:43:48.660 Okay.

00:43:49.660 How many situationships have you been in, in your life?

00:43:52.660 Uh, if I had to guess, maybe like around 10, 10, I've been single most of my adult life.

00:44:03.660 I've had like three longer term relationships, which are like between two and three years each.

00:44:09.660 And pretty much any relationship outside of that has been a situationship.

00:44:14.660 I think it's kind of the natural course of things nowadays is that, um, you find if I, if I meet a girl, I like her.

00:44:22.660 We hit it off and we have good dates and eventually sleep together.

00:44:26.660 Then I'm never, I've never wanted to push for a relationship period.

00:44:30.660 So I'm still continuing to vet even while we like, once we get past the point of things getting physical.

00:44:37.660 And then it's just always the case that something will come up that will, uh, red flag her and, and make me realize, okay, well, she's not somebody I want to have a long-term relationship with.

00:44:48.660 And then it just becomes a game of how long can I keep her around while like not, you know, not tipping my hand and letting her know that I don't have any intentions of, of, of making this last very long.

00:45:01.660 What percent of the women would you say didn't, what percent wanted something serious and what percent didn't?

00:45:09.660 I'd say probably like 70% wanted something serious and 30%, uh, they were either in the same headspace as me or kind of, like you said, they were probably even more serious about it where they never had any intention of being serious with anybody.

00:45:24.660 And, and that kind of became clear at the beginning.

00:45:27.660 Okay.

00:45:28.660 So, um, how long would you say, how long did your longest one last and the shortest one?

00:45:33.660 And, um, what, what were some of the things that came up in the time when you guys were dating?

00:45:39.660 Okay.

00:45:40.660 So the longest one was about two years.

00:45:42.660 Um, and then I think Doug said it earlier and a couple of whoever else came on before, uh, what would come up is just that, I mean, the fact is that if the longer that something goes on, um, more often than not, you're going to have to do things that are relationship type things, uh, in order to keep the interest going.

00:46:06.660 The interest going, because again, it's like you are, you said it yourself that it's kind of like you're running a script.

00:46:12.660 You're doing a sales pitch basically over a long period of time.

00:46:16.660 So, um, what would happen is that there would be discussions that would come up after you did some of those relationship type stuff.

00:46:24.660 And those would always be like the, what are we, does this mean that something has changed?

00:46:29.660 Uh, yeah.

00:46:32.660 And like Doug said that honestly, those conversations would immediately kind of, uh, for me bring up a situation where it's like, okay, is it time to just end this?

00:46:41.660 Because those conversations are just the worst.

00:46:44.660 And, uh, it does sometimes also kind of play on my conscience.

00:46:48.660 Cause it's like, okay, well clearly this girl is getting more invested.

00:46:52.660 I don't really like, it's not my intention to like waste anybody's time to the point where they're going to miss out on like a, a more meaningful opportunity.

00:47:00.660 Although honestly there's some times where I feel like I'm actually doing other men a service by kind of keeping a girl off the market.

00:47:07.660 Yeah, let's go.

00:47:14.660 That's one of the funniest things I've had a caller say.

00:47:19.660 I mean, honestly, because I feel like the way that I approach things, like I, I, I always come at like from the first date when I try to have conversations, like I've never asked a girl about her body cap.

00:47:32.660 I think that's really stupid to do something like that, but I do always try to make assessments right from the beginning.

00:47:39.660 And it will always be like in a way where I'll do things like ask her like, Oh, like what's the craziest thing you've ever done?

00:47:46.660 Or like the craziest hookup you've ever had.

00:47:48.660 And then I'll always make it like a flowing conversation where I'm sharing stuff.

00:47:52.660 She's sharing stuff.

00:47:53.660 But at the end of the day, I'm like taking notes in the back of my head.

00:47:57.660 And like, I've been so shocked sometimes at the amount of things that have been revealed to me that in my mind, I'm like somebody else would totally wipe this chick up and she would destroy them.

00:48:09.660 What's been admitted to you?

00:48:12.660 Honestly, just like, like group activities, just like, again, no numbers, but just kind of like through like gathering through conversation, the sheer number of people that they've been with, which is way more than I would have guessed from just like the first couple of encounters that I had with them.

00:48:31.660 And just, if I just, again, I think I'm a pretty good judge of character.

00:48:34.660 And like, if I just had like a, a one-time sit down and it was just like that coffee date or whatever, I would have never guessed that they were that like active and had that many different partners.

00:48:46.660 Well, here's the thing.

00:48:47.660 Um, pillow talk, you know, you know, after sex talk with a situationship who's trying to get upgraded to a relationship, they'll say anything, they'll say all sorts of crazy stuff.

00:48:58.660 Yeah.

00:48:59.660 And did you ever think about upgrading any of them?

00:49:03.660 Um, I honestly, I have not.

00:49:08.660 And, and I think that I just, uh, okay, let me put it this way.

00:49:13.660 I, I, I personally have only seen other people.

00:49:16.660 So I, I, like you, I have seen people, uh, upgrade their situationship.

00:49:21.660 First of all, actually I'm about to say this at the beginning.

00:49:23.660 I don't know any guys that actually use the term situationship unironically, but we don't say that.

00:49:29.660 What do you guys, like, what do you guys say?

00:49:32.660 Like a side chick or like, or somebody that like, if, if they're like, is that your girl?

00:49:38.660 And you're like, no, I'm just hitting it.

00:49:40.660 That's like, that's what the situation should.

00:49:42.660 Yeah.

00:49:43.660 We make up all these terms to make us feel better.

00:49:45.660 Yeah.

00:49:46.660 Like if I heard one of my buddies say situationship, I would really have to check his man card.

00:49:52.660 That's funny.

00:49:53.660 You gotta, I could have come up with a better title.

00:49:56.660 My bad.

00:49:57.660 No, no, no.

00:49:58.660 I mean, it's, it's like, uh, like we need terms to be able to discuss stuff.

00:50:02.660 Right.

00:50:03.660 So I think situationship makes a ton of sense and women are already using it.

00:50:06.660 So like, it, it does describe, uh, what we're talking about.

00:50:10.660 I just, like I said, I just never heard.

00:50:11.660 It's almost like the word inappropriate.

00:50:13.660 I've never heard one of my friends say inappropriate.

00:50:15.660 I think some of these words are really like female words.

00:50:18.660 Yeah, they are.

00:50:19.660 Yeah.

00:50:20.660 Gary, I'm gonna give you a piece of advice to, to ease your conscience.

00:50:24.660 Like I said to Pearl in the conversation, you gotta make sure she's aware that she's choosing to be there.

00:50:32.660 Oh no, absolutely.

00:50:34.660 Yeah.

00:50:35.660 Cause then that'll ease up on your conscience.

00:50:37.660 Yeah.

00:50:38.660 Yeah.

00:50:39.660 And to be honest, I like my conscience is clear all the time because I I'm always honest.

00:50:44.660 Like, um, again, at the beginning I do, uh, I give, like, I give enough hope for them to, uh, stick around.

00:50:53.660 But the fact is, is that for the most part, especially on the onset, I am actually giving them a shot.

00:51:00.660 Like I, I am open to somebody surprising me and every single one of my, my serious relationships have been girls that otherwise would have been a situationship.

00:51:09.660 But it was like, as I continued to get to know them better, they surprised me at having more character than I assumed people to have.

00:51:17.660 So eventually I was like, okay.

00:51:19.660 So I guess technically all my relationships were upgraded situationships, but it's almost like once I've really decided that it's not going to be serious.

00:51:26.660 I I've never really thought like once she's in the non-serious box, then she's never, she's never clawed her way out.

00:51:38.660 Hello.

00:51:40.660 Yeah.

00:51:41.660 Are you there?

00:51:42.660 Uh oh.

00:51:43.660 Well, we got the gist from him.

00:51:45.660 Okay.

00:51:46.660 Can just move on.

00:51:47.660 Game has dropped out.

00:51:48.660 All right.

00:51:49.660 Uh, next up we have Spencer.

00:51:52.660 How many people do we have on the line?

00:51:55.660 We have one, two, three, four.

00:51:58.660 Cool.

00:51:59.660 I thought this would be a good topic.

00:52:00.660 People would call in.

00:52:01.660 Spencer, how's it going?

00:52:03.660 Spencer, you're on mute.

00:52:05.660 Spencer, you're on mute.

00:52:06.660 He's probably listening to the YouTube.

00:52:08.660 Spencer.

00:52:09.660 Spencer.

00:52:10.660 You're on mute.

00:52:11.660 Spencer going once.

00:52:12.660 Spencer going twice.

00:52:14.660 I put you back in the waiting room.

00:52:17.660 We have dashes coming up.

00:52:22.660 Dash is on mute.

00:52:25.660 Dashie there.

00:52:27.660 I'll probably listen to the YouTube.

00:52:30.660 So Dashie there.

00:52:32.660 You're on mute.

00:52:35.660 Dash.

00:52:36.660 Or ladies, you can call in and tell me about your biggest L.

00:52:41.660 Yeah.

00:52:42.660 Situationship.

00:52:43.660 Okay.

00:52:44.660 Let me try Spencer again.

00:52:47.660 And then if not.

00:52:48.660 We love hearing about L's here.

00:52:50.660 Yeah.

00:52:51.660 Let's see women taking L's.

00:52:53.660 Spencer, are you there?

00:52:55.660 Spencer going once.

00:52:57.660 See, you guys are lucky.

00:52:58.660 You can just be anonymous.

00:52:59.660 If I tell you about Nell, the internet holds it over my head for until I die.

00:53:06.660 I want to.

00:53:07.660 Sometimes I want to, but I'm like, you know what?

00:53:09.660 I, yeah, I got to shut the fuck up.

00:53:12.660 Okay.

00:53:13.660 Next we have, uh, guys, make sure you're liking the stream.

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00:53:25.660 JC.

00:53:26.660 As audio is connecting.

00:53:29.660 JC.

00:53:30.660 Are you there?

00:53:31.660 It's just connecting audio.

00:53:32.660 Connecting audio.

00:53:33.660 Jeez.

00:53:34.660 Give it one second.

00:53:35.660 Nope.

00:53:36.660 We're still connecting audio.

00:53:37.660 So I'll put JC back and we have, I tried to send a $500 message, but only callers

00:53:54.660 can curse.

00:53:55.660 Apparently.

00:53:56.660 Uh, I don't know why I would stop you from doing that, but you can send it.

00:54:02.660 You can pay pal me if you want.

00:54:05.660 Hold on.

00:54:06.660 Spencer came back in.

00:54:07.660 So maybe he got his Spencer right there.

00:54:11.660 You're on mute.

00:54:12.660 I saw you go up and come back in.

00:54:14.660 I guess not.

00:54:16.660 Oh.

00:54:17.660 Can you hear me now?

00:54:18.660 There he is.

00:54:19.660 Hey, how's it going guys?

00:54:21.660 Hey, Spencer.

00:54:22.660 I'm from Florida.

00:54:23.660 Oh, Florida.

00:54:24.660 Hey, what's up?

00:54:27.660 Yeah.

00:54:28.660 I've been listening to you for a while.

00:54:29.660 I'm bound to connect.

00:54:30.660 You know, this week has been kind of interesting.

00:54:33.660 Um, I'm in a bunch of situationships at any given time.

00:54:37.660 You know, the whole dating scene to me is just, it's just chaotic, convoluted.

00:54:44.660 The expectations are high.

00:54:46.660 You know, what I have to offer is low.

00:54:49.660 You know, these girls who are twos and threes expect what a 10 would expect.

00:54:55.660 You know, we're just living in.

00:54:57.660 So how many, how many situationships would you say you've been in?

00:55:02.660 Oh, hundreds, I'm in like 30 or four right now.

00:55:07.660 Okay.

00:55:08.660 And what percent is, do they want commitment?

00:55:12.660 Um, out of like the a hundred, let's say, um, I would say a good 75% kind of are expecting

00:55:24.660 them from like just day one.

00:55:27.660 It's, it's like, they kind of put it out there.

00:55:29.660 Like, yeah, I'm looking for something serious from day one.

00:55:32.660 That'd be like me saying like, Hey, I want a baby on the first date.

00:55:36.660 You know, it's like, it's kind of scary.

00:55:39.660 You know, who puts that out there?

00:55:40.660 You know, like, let's feel it out a little bit.

00:55:43.660 So.

00:55:44.660 And then the other quarter don't want anything serious.

00:55:47.660 Um, yeah, you know, I'm kind of like the last guy, like, you know, I'll put one foot in

00:55:54.660 and then they get a little overly committed.

00:55:56.660 And I just might stick around until they, you know, check.

00:56:00.660 And then I'll just kind of move on from there.

00:56:03.660 It's just, um, you know, high expectations, low offerings, you know, especially where I live.

00:56:12.660 Um, where are you at?

00:56:14.660 I would say, um, that's where I'm at now.

00:56:19.660 Um, I live in North Carolina.

00:56:21.660 Okay.

00:56:22.660 Um, so what age, what age are most, what age are most of the women that are in the situationships?

00:56:29.660 Like, have you noticed any patterns or is it all over?

00:56:32.660 Yeah.

00:56:33.660 So I'm, I'm 40 and I seem to attract sort of a lot of women in their like early fifties and

00:56:42.660 like women in their thirties.

00:56:44.660 Okay.

00:56:45.660 I seem to go towards the older women.

00:56:46.660 Cause I think they are more feminine in a lot of ways.

00:56:49.660 They just kind of try harder and, you know, maybe put a little bit more effort in like

00:56:53.660 old, call me old fashioned, I guess, femininity.

00:56:56.660 The younger women, they just don't really try that harder.

00:56:59.660 You know, they don't shave their legs or their armpits or, you know, they got a chest tattoo or

00:57:05.660 some, you know, something that's maybe a turnoff, you know, so.

00:57:10.660 What's the average length of a situation ship?

00:57:14.660 I don't know.

00:57:16.660 A couple of years, maybe, um, just depending on, you know, they kind of start or they all

00:57:23.660 kind of start off very similar, but you know, some might, you know, I guess it feels good.

00:57:29.660 It might kind of go up a little notch and hang on a little bit longer, but it kind of fizzles

00:57:35.660 in the longterm.

00:57:36.660 You know, a lot of women are on those dating apps.

00:57:38.660 Even if we're talking, you know, I might pop in every now and then here and there and

00:57:43.660 I'll be like, Oh, she's still on there anyway, still looking, you know?

00:57:46.660 So what are you going to do?

00:57:48.660 Have you ever promoted a woman who you didn't initially think you were going to take seriously,

00:57:58.660 but then you gave her girlfriend or wife status?

00:58:03.660 Yeah.

00:58:04.660 You know, I, I've, I've put like a little bit of a second foot in and kind of regretted it.

00:58:13.660 Um, okay.

00:58:14.660 Got a little possessive too quick.

00:58:17.660 Um, you know, or you kind of fizzle out of that honeymoon phase and it, um, it can, they

00:58:25.660 flip the switch on you, you know, uh, you know, all of a sudden it's not so casual that

00:58:30.660 they're not as, it, it, it, the lens zooms in, not as, you know, zooms in a little bit more.

00:58:38.660 You know, it's funny.

00:58:39.660 I have a friend, he's very liberal and he does open relationships and that's why.

00:58:44.660 Cause he said, whenever I make a girl, my girlfriend, she sucks.

00:58:47.660 He's like, I'll just be open.

00:58:50.660 Sometimes these guys are just pragmatic.

00:58:53.660 Go ahead.

00:58:54.660 Yeah.

00:58:55.660 You know, I'm pretty open-minded when it comes to, but like the, the whole open relationship

00:59:01.660 stuff, I think that's why I draw the line.

00:59:03.660 That's why I draw the line.

00:59:04.660 You know, I've had threesomes.

00:59:06.660 Isn't that kind of, isn't that kind of what, isn't that kind of what you're in though?

00:59:10.660 If you're in a situationship, like she's probably banging other dudes.

00:59:13.660 Yeah.

00:59:14.660 But I think what you don't know does that.

00:59:16.660 I don't, I don't know.

00:59:17.660 I don't ask the questions.

00:59:18.660 I don't want to know the answers to, I guess.

00:59:20.660 Yeah.

00:59:21.660 You know, I think start asking how many guys you fucked.

00:59:24.660 I think, um, I don't know if that, how much that turns me on.

00:59:27.660 Maybe some of those weird dudes, like knowing how many dudes have came in this girl you're

00:59:32.660 about to fuck, but I don't want to know.

00:59:34.660 Yeah.

00:59:35.660 So that's kind of, Doug MP, you got any other questions for him?

00:59:40.660 Yeah.

00:59:41.660 Um, I mean, not really.

00:59:43.660 It's just balancing all these situations, man.

00:59:46.660 How do you do it?

00:59:47.660 How do you balance all these situations?

00:59:50.660 You know, but so is one relationship too, you know?

00:59:55.660 Yeah.

00:59:56.660 You got it.

00:59:57.660 Never.

00:59:58.660 No, I, and I just, I guess it just depends.

01:00:02.660 I, because I am not extracting my equal.

01:00:04.660 I think a lot of times is why I'm on a lot of situationships.

01:00:07.660 I think if I was out west where I'm originally from, you know, um, California, I used to live

01:00:14.660 in Las Vegas is that's where all the beautiful women go.

01:00:17.660 And you come out here kind of a little more sheltered from reality and it's slim pickings.

01:00:23.660 And it's, uh, could be a little sad, uh, existence if you, uh, like beautiful women, I guess.

01:00:29.660 Yeah.

01:00:30.660 I hear you.

01:00:31.660 All right.

01:00:32.660 Well, Hey, I'll call back.

01:00:33.660 Thanks for your time.

01:00:34.660 I've been listening to you for a while now.

01:00:36.660 Thanks for taking my call.

01:00:37.660 Thanks for calling in.

01:00:38.660 Um, hi, I'm from North Carolina.

01:00:40.660 She did me dirty.

01:00:41.660 Thank you for the super check guys.

01:00:43.660 We're towards the end of the month.

01:00:44.660 So if you didn't know YouTube, the way I get paid, I get paid a month after I make the money.

01:00:49.660 So I get paid on the 21st of next month.

01:00:52.660 So, you know, if you want to, if you want to, if you've enjoyed the streams this month, you know, we've, we've done a ton of streams.

01:00:58.660 I think we've streamed every day, but like, I think we've streamed every day this month.

01:01:02.660 Haven't we?

01:01:03.660 Me or you?

01:01:04.660 I think we have.

01:01:05.660 Yeah.

01:01:06.660 Yep.

01:01:07.660 You know, feel free to send us a super, you know, you know, I'm just, I'm not gonna, I don't beg here, but you know, you could, you could.

01:01:14.660 Okay.

01:01:15.660 Um, who's next that we have Chad, Chad.

01:01:19.660 Chad.

01:01:20.660 All right.

01:01:21.660 Excellent.

01:01:22.660 Excellent.

01:01:23.660 Chad Chaddington.

01:01:24.660 Calling in.

01:01:25.660 That's his actual.

01:01:26.660 Has he called in before?

01:01:28.660 That sounds familiar.

01:01:29.660 I think so.

01:01:30.660 Chad, are you there?

01:01:32.660 Okay.

01:01:33.660 Hello.

01:01:34.660 Can you hear me?

01:01:35.660 Chad, how are you?

01:01:36.660 Hey, what's up, Pearl?

01:01:38.660 What's up, Doug?

01:01:39.660 Chad Chaddington.

01:01:40.660 Would you mind turning off the YouTube in the background?

01:01:43.660 Yeah, I know.

01:01:44.660 I'm trying to get it situated.

01:01:45.660 Sorry about that.

01:01:47.660 Okay.

01:01:48.660 There we go.

01:01:49.660 Is that better?

01:01:50.660 Yeah, that's better.

01:01:51.660 All right.

01:01:52.660 So how old are you, Chad?

01:01:54.660 Uh, 48.

01:01:56.660 Okay.

01:01:57.660 How many situationships have you been in, in your life?

01:02:00.660 Oh God, we didn't call them situationships back then.

01:02:05.660 How many side chicks?

01:02:06.660 You know what I mean?

01:02:08.660 Oh my gosh.

01:02:10.660 Side chicks that never got promoted.

01:02:14.660 Well, you know, I haven't called in in a while.

01:02:19.660 So, you know, I have a prolific, you know.

01:02:22.660 Oh, you?

01:02:23.660 I think I remember you.

01:02:24.660 You had a lot of girlfriends, right?

01:02:27.660 Didn't you date a lot of them?

01:02:29.660 185 to 190.

01:02:32.660 I had names written down and everything.

01:02:34.660 You just rounded up to 200.

01:02:36.660 Okay, but they-

01:02:37.660 I can give percentages.

01:02:38.660 Wait, wait, but some of them you, if I remember from last time, you dated a lot of them, like

01:02:43.660 they were your girlfriend, right?

01:02:45.660 Uh, yeah, I've had some long-term relationships with quite a few of them, yeah.

01:02:52.660 Okay, so I'm only asking about the ones that you would not, you're not trying to be seen in public.

01:02:57.660 Do you know what I mean?

01:02:59.660 Oh, gotcha.

01:03:01.660 Yeah, like, or maybe like, but you, like someone you would never take, like, you would never call her your girlfriend.

01:03:07.660 Okay?

01:03:08.660 So-

01:03:09.660 Okay, I was in a 15-year situationship.

01:03:12.660 Holy shit.

01:03:13.660 That is long.

01:03:14.660 In fact, I had a three-year long-term relationship with one woman while I was in the 15-year relationship

01:03:22.660 and another four-year long-term relationship with another woman while I was in the 15-year

01:03:29.660 situation.

01:03:30.660 Wow.

01:03:31.660 What time of day did she come over?

01:03:33.660 Did she have like a 2 a.m. slot?

01:03:35.660 Well, no, we lived in, we lived, uh, we, we lived in two different states.

01:03:40.660 So we would only see each other when I would visit her or she would visit me.

01:03:47.660 What made you not want to promote her?

01:03:49.660 What was her problem?

01:03:51.660 Uh, actually, it's not really, you see, I'm not looking at it as a negative thing.

01:03:59.660 Like you said, it's not, it's not like a moped, someone you want to ride, but no one sees you

01:04:04.660 in public type of thing.

01:04:05.660 It's a situationship where, you know, just the situation isn't right.

01:04:11.660 But you know, the, the chemistry is just off the charts, the conversation too.

01:04:16.660 We got along.

01:04:17.660 So what was the, it's a, this sounds great.

01:04:20.660 What was the, like, what was the situation?

01:04:22.660 She had a kid or something?

01:04:24.660 No, no.

01:04:25.660 Age difference was 15 years apart.

01:04:28.660 She was 15 years older.

01:04:30.660 Oh, okay.

01:04:31.660 Uh, right.

01:04:32.660 Um, and the biggest thing that kept us in the situationship was she wouldn't move out of

01:04:40.660 her state and I wouldn't move out of my state.

01:04:44.660 Oh, I see.

01:04:45.660 Okay.

01:04:46.660 So it was a, it was a location thing, but, but here's the funny thing.

01:04:52.660 Uh, about two years ago, I ended up moving to her state and we started to get close.

01:05:03.660 And then she was like, acting really funny after 15 years, you kind of know someone.

01:05:10.660 I mean, especially when you got good conversation, good, everything.

01:05:15.660 Uh, you just know something's up and I, I figured it out.

01:05:22.660 It was, uh, she was dating several guys in town and she didn't want me to mess up her rotation.

01:05:31.660 Oh man.

01:05:33.660 Yeah.

01:05:34.660 So we, the, we continue the situation ship for a little bit longer, but after 15 years,

01:05:41.660 I finally just had enough and said, no, no more.

01:05:45.660 So she probably had a rotation the whole time.

01:05:48.660 Oh, so did I.

01:05:50.660 And we both actually knew it.

01:05:52.660 We were both honest and open with one another.

01:05:54.660 Yeah.

01:05:55.660 It's good.

01:05:56.660 But I think, I think her rotation, when I, when I moved to closer to her, I think her rotation

01:06:05.660 involved the doctor and lawyers and people with money.

01:06:10.660 And you know, uh, I don't know what else to say.

01:06:15.660 I've had a lot of other situations, shorter term situationships over my vast career.

01:06:21.660 So what, what would you say is the average length of one before the women, uh, let's

01:06:25.660 say out of the women that wanted commitment and you weren't going to give it to them.

01:06:28.660 How long do they stick around till they bounce usually?

01:06:31.660 Oh God, they'll stick around until I put a restraining order.

01:06:35.660 Oh, I ain't lying, man.

01:06:39.660 One straight up was, uh, here's the other thing.

01:06:43.660 I learned in my thirties going through, you know, I went through some crazy times in between

01:06:49.660 longterm relationships and that's how I got the numbers I did.

01:06:52.660 Plus I was in a small town where everyone knew each other.

01:06:55.660 And, uh, when you're in a small town like that, you know, women talk and they were my

01:07:03.660 best salespeople.

01:07:04.660 I mean, I would literally be at a bar and then all of a sudden one of my situation ships at

01:07:11.660 the time she was in another situation ship.

01:07:15.660 So she would tell her friend, Oh, well, chase is over there.

01:07:18.660 But if you go there tonight and blah, blah, blah, that happened so many times.

01:07:23.660 I was just like, Oh, whatever.

01:07:26.660 So I was single.

01:07:28.660 They were single.

01:07:29.660 It wasn't like we were, you know, I'm not into breaking up marriages.

01:07:32.660 I don't, you know, I really don't even want to date someone if they have a serious person

01:07:37.660 or anything like that.

01:07:38.660 I'm more of a, you know, we're, we're both single.

01:07:41.660 We're both adults and we both know each other.

01:07:43.660 Hey, all spare in love and war, you know, um, average situation ship, I'd say between six

01:07:52.660 months to a year and a half, maybe two, you know, if it's that good.

01:07:56.660 But, uh, the majority of them wanted something more after about six months, you know, and,

01:08:05.660 and I'd say half of them, they just weren't, they either weren't the caliber of person.

01:08:11.660 I would think about taking to the next level.

01:08:14.660 Um, not too many were, you know, they don't look good and I don't want to be seen with you

01:08:20.660 because again, we were in a small town, so people knew.

01:08:23.660 But the one thing I would, I've been watching, I wanted to call in a few times, but my phone

01:08:30.660 wasn't working right and everything for zoom.

01:08:32.660 Um, but it's like, I tried to call him for the tea video the other night.

01:08:38.660 Cause I had a couple of things to add to that.

01:08:40.660 And it kind of relates to situation ships.

01:08:42.660 It's like in my thirties, I discovered when you're brutally honest and you act like a mild

01:08:52.660 jerk, you cannot beat the women off of you.

01:08:56.660 I mean, seriously, it's like if I'm upfront and truthful with them and kind of neglect them

01:09:03.660 a little bit, Oh my God, that got, I'm not a jerk, but being a little bit of a jerk got me more ass

01:09:09.660 than I could ever do any which way.

01:09:12.660 You know?

01:09:13.660 So it's like an example of a time that got you laid that like you wouldn't have thought.

01:09:20.660 Go ahead.

01:09:21.660 Uh, okay.

01:09:22.660 So, um, it sounds like there's a good story there.

01:09:27.660 It sounds like there's a good one.

01:09:28.660 No, not gory.

01:09:29.660 I know this is, you know, sort of public airways, uh, semi family.

01:09:34.660 Um, but yeah, uh, in the bar, we're playing trivia.

01:09:40.660 Um, I'm with one girl playing trivia that I've been, again, I know these people cause we're

01:09:47.660 in the same town, so they know of me, but I was with, with this one for about a month

01:09:54.660 or two.

01:09:55.660 And it was just a situation.

01:09:56.660 We were just having fun, nothing serious.

01:09:58.660 Well, her other friend comes sits next to me and their friends.

01:10:03.660 Uh, I was with her like less than two weeks ago.

01:10:07.660 And then the third friend comes up and I was with her like the night before yet.

01:10:14.660 I'm kind of on a makeshift date with their friend.

01:10:18.660 All three of us literally sat at the bar just all night, smoking, joking, drinking, playing

01:10:23.660 games and everything like that.

01:10:25.660 And there was several people, including the bartenders that knew this story.

01:10:29.660 And a couple of them would just look at me and just shake their head.

01:10:33.660 And it's just like, yeah, they, they can't even get one woman.

01:10:36.660 And here I am trying to fight off, try to keep three at bay type of thing, you know?

01:10:41.660 So what happened?

01:10:42.660 Did you take them all home or how did that?

01:10:44.660 Uh, so I ended up going home with the one I came with that night, but within the same

01:10:51.660 week, uh, both their friends were over at my house.

01:10:54.660 So it, it, it just, it, it, it amazed me because in my twenties, even though I got a

01:11:00.660 lot of tail and everything, I did it more wholesomey and respectfully.

01:11:04.660 Once I hit 30 and started just, Hey, this is who I am.

01:11:08.660 This is what I'm going to do.

01:11:09.660 This is blah, blah, blah.

01:11:11.660 You take it or leave it.

01:11:12.660 And then just walk away.

01:11:14.660 Oh my God.

01:11:15.660 It's like crack to them.

01:11:16.660 I just blew my mind that being a jerk and being totally upfront and honest got me more

01:11:23.660 tail than anything I've ever done in my life.

01:11:26.660 So what age, what age did you find women were most open to situationships?

01:11:32.660 Oh God.

01:11:35.660 Um, well, I'd have to say the majority of women I've been with were older women.

01:11:42.660 So from, let's say from 30 to 50 when I was in my mid twenties to mid thirties.

01:11:49.660 Cool.

01:11:50.660 So, uh, half of them, younger guy, older.

01:11:53.660 Yeah.

01:11:54.660 That makes sense.

01:11:55.660 Yeah.

01:11:56.660 I, well, I found that the older women, it was more, no nonsense.

01:11:59.660 You know, it, it just is what it is.

01:12:03.660 They've already been through the role.

01:12:04.660 I've already been chewed up and spit out by divorce.

01:12:07.660 And we were just kind of on the same playing field.

01:12:09.660 Like, Hey, you're a clean single adult and you're friendly.

01:12:13.660 And I know you in town.

01:12:14.660 Hey, you're a clean single adult.

01:12:16.660 And I know you in town.

01:12:17.660 Let's get together and have fun.

01:12:19.660 Okay.

01:12:20.660 Some of them, I mean, I'm still friends with a lot of women I've slept with.

01:12:24.660 So to this day, you know, not that I call them up and everything, but we could actually

01:12:29.660 just meet and have a conversation in the coffin.

01:12:32.660 It's pretty that I'm sorry.

01:12:35.660 Go back to the question you asked about the, I just was curious if there was an age, you

01:12:40.660 noticed that women are more willing to be in situationships.

01:12:43.660 No, no, because yes, I used to date older and they were more than 50% of them were down

01:12:50.660 for a situationship, but the younger ones that I did date, I'd say there was more of a majority

01:12:57.660 of the younger ones were okay with a situationship with me where it may be like 75% of the younger

01:13:04.660 ones and 50% of the older ones.

01:13:06.660 Cool.

01:13:07.660 Cool.

01:13:08.660 Well, um, thanks for calling in.

01:13:09.660 You got any other questions, Doug MPA?

01:13:11.660 Nope.

01:13:12.660 I was good talking to you, Chad.

01:13:13.660 Have a good one, buddy.

01:13:14.660 Call in any time.

01:13:15.660 Hey, y'all have a good night, guys.

01:13:16.660 Take care.

01:13:17.660 I'll see ya.

01:13:18.660 Peace.

01:13:19.660 See ya.

01:13:20.660 All right.

01:13:21.660 As you keep hitting that like button, how many likes do we have?

01:13:25.660 Let's see if there's any, if you guys get unlimited super chats on the audacity app.

01:13:31.660 So you just got to write Pearl read.

01:13:33.660 So if you do have anything, oh my God, why did I not turn on the air conditioning in here?

01:13:38.660 I'm so hot.

01:13:39.660 I forgot to turn it on today.

01:13:41.660 Yeah.

01:13:42.660 There's, uh, yeah.

01:13:43.660 Let's see.

01:13:44.660 Hold on.

01:13:45.660 Um, okay.

01:13:48.660 Uh, I'm looking at the audacity to see if there's anything.

01:13:52.660 I didn't see anything.

01:13:53.660 All right.

01:13:54.660 Uh, next up we have.

01:13:56.660 Just kind of bring some new people in the new people in here before we go to the OGs.

01:14:02.660 We have rebirth pro coming in.

01:14:04.660 Rebirth pro.

01:14:05.660 Rebirth pro.

01:14:06.660 Probably listening to the YouTube.

01:14:07.660 You're on mute.

01:14:08.660 We can see you.

01:14:09.660 Rebirth pro.

01:14:10.660 Rebirth pro.

01:14:11.660 Are you there?

01:14:12.660 You're on mute.

01:14:13.660 Yo, yo.

01:14:14.660 What's up?

01:14:15.660 Can you hear me?

01:14:16.660 I can hear you.

01:14:17.660 Um, tell me about your situation ships.

01:14:18.660 Rebirth pro.

01:14:19.660 Uh, is it echoing on your end?

01:14:20.660 Not echoing here.

01:14:22.660 Okay.

01:14:23.660 Yeah.

01:14:24.660 I think yeah.

01:14:25.660 You probably have the YouTube open in a different window or something.

01:14:29.660 Yeah.

01:14:30.660 All right.

01:14:31.660 Well, the situations I have right now.

01:14:32.660 I mean, I've been here in the YouTube.

01:14:33.660 Have you ever heard of that?

01:14:34.660 Yeah.

01:14:35.660 Yeah.

01:14:36.660 I have to.

01:14:37.660 I can hear you.

01:14:38.660 Um, tell me about your situationships.

01:14:39.660 Rebirth pro.

01:14:40.660 Uh, is it echoing on your end?

01:14:41.660 Not echoing here.

01:14:42.660 Okay.

01:14:43.660 I think yeah.

01:14:44.660 Situationships.

01:14:45.660 You probably have the YouTube open in a different window or something.

01:14:48.660 Yeah.

01:14:49.660 All right.

01:14:50.660 Well, the situations I have right now, I mean.

01:14:51.660 I mean, that's kind of the normal thing.

01:14:54.540 That's what I pretty much go for.

01:14:57.480 Okay.

01:14:58.320 So how many situationships would you say

01:15:01.020 you've been in in your life?

01:15:05.640 Maybe a little bit above average, I guess.

01:15:08.860 I don't even know what average would be,

01:15:10.080 but just throwing a random number out there

01:15:13.360 because I can't count them, say 20.

01:15:15.540 Okay.

01:15:16.380 And out of the 20, what percent wanted something serious?

01:15:19.660 And what percent were just okay as it was?

01:15:23.100 I'd say about 80%.

01:15:24.520 80%, okay.

01:15:25.780 They always want a relationship usually.

01:15:28.120 And so was there ever a girl

01:15:30.280 that you initially did not want to take seriously?

01:15:33.380 Did you ever promote a situationship?

01:15:35.660 And if so, why, if not, why?

01:15:39.260 I did.

01:15:41.380 The most recent one I did was about three weeks ago.

01:15:44.940 And of course I regretted it.

01:15:48.460 Okay, go ahead.

01:15:49.300 I had, I had a, I hate to use these terms,

01:15:52.840 but I had a roster.

01:15:53.840 I didn't really call it that,

01:15:54.800 but everybody knows what that means.

01:15:56.400 I had a roster at the time.

01:15:57.780 So I was casually dating multiple girls

01:15:59.580 and there weren't relationships.

01:16:03.040 Though the woman that I gave the relationship,

01:16:06.300 she was actually the one that put me on the,

01:16:08.480 hey, you can't smash for 30 days rule.

01:16:12.740 And she was a self-proclaimed feminist,

01:16:15.940 stuff that you would expect.

01:16:17.240 And so when I went over her house,

01:16:20.460 I'd visit her.

01:16:21.780 She'd do intimate things with me,

01:16:23.920 everything except we wouldn't sleep together.

01:16:27.660 And so before 30 days came up,

01:16:30.860 she couldn't help herself.

01:16:32.560 She jumped on top of me and things happen.

01:16:35.260 And then of course, right after that day,

01:16:37.620 you get the typical,

01:16:39.340 so what are we?

01:16:41.020 Almost immediately.

01:16:43.140 I told her that,

01:16:44.420 hey, look, I already,

01:16:45.480 I was on a Twitter.

01:16:46.380 I said, look,

01:16:46.860 I already have other people that I hang out with.

01:16:50.680 And she was shocked.

01:16:51.800 She thought I was just waiting 30 days for her.

01:16:54.560 And I said, no,

01:16:55.540 I do see other people

01:16:56.700 and I don't know yet.

01:16:58.620 I'm going to think about it.

01:17:00.580 And she said, okay,

01:17:01.400 I understand I can't make,

01:17:02.440 help you make a decision,

01:17:03.240 but she kept seeing me.

01:17:04.400 And after that,

01:17:06.860 she started trying to flood me with the box.

01:17:10.140 She kept flooding it,

01:17:11.020 flooding it onto me.

01:17:11.920 Then she kept throwing it on me.

01:17:13.020 And then I just gave in.

01:17:14.540 I said, maybe I should cut them off

01:17:16.660 because she's being real consistent now.

01:17:19.720 So I made the typical mistake.

01:17:20.780 Most guys do,

01:17:21.560 even though I've had plenty of experience.

01:17:24.480 And then eventually I just woke up

01:17:26.620 like two,

01:17:27.260 two months into the relationship

01:17:28.920 and I realized, yeah,

01:17:30.540 I'd rather go back to a roster.

01:17:32.700 And then, so I just told her

01:17:35.180 that I was going to go my own way.

01:17:36.580 What made her different

01:17:37.340 than the other girls you were dating?

01:17:41.380 Was she better looking?

01:17:42.840 She didn't.

01:17:43.780 Not better looking.

01:17:44.940 She didn't cause me a lot of stress.

01:17:47.900 She was easy to get along with.

01:17:49.920 It was basically just whatever I wanted.

01:17:51.540 I hate to say it.

01:17:52.180 That's the type of,

01:17:53.060 when I like date,

01:17:53.760 like I hear people talk about,

01:17:55.640 they want to get us to miss a woman

01:17:56.880 and she called herself a feminist.

01:17:59.160 But to me,

01:17:59.860 she didn't act like one

01:18:01.320 once we were in a relationship.

01:18:02.340 She was just very submissive.

01:18:04.820 Everything was about

01:18:05.560 whatever I wanted to do,

01:18:06.760 wherever I wanted to go,

01:18:08.140 whatever I wanted to eat for dinner.

01:18:09.660 Sometimes I would do nice things

01:18:10.980 where I would cook her dinner

01:18:11.980 and take her places.

01:18:14.320 But she just kind of let me lead

01:18:16.640 the whole thing.

01:18:17.760 So that's what I look for.

01:18:18.800 And that switched after?

01:18:21.800 What switched after that?

01:18:23.220 Yeah, like after you gave her the title.

01:18:25.840 Well, I was aware that you can't,

01:18:28.880 I can never invest too much.

01:18:31.300 So her birthday came around

01:18:33.440 and an ex-boyfriend

01:18:36.700 and a guy that was pursuing her

01:18:38.380 both sent birthday gifts to her home

01:18:41.860 on her birthday.

01:18:45.140 And so I didn't want to check her phone

01:18:46.920 or nothing.

01:18:47.500 I'm done with that stage of checking phones.

01:18:50.220 But I just thought it was very suspicious

01:18:52.160 because I was like,

01:18:53.460 why would they randomly send you these gifts

01:18:55.760 if you haven't been contacting them?

01:18:57.360 And I was like,

01:18:59.360 I've been talking to you for a few months now.

01:19:02.240 Something's still probably going on there.

01:19:05.080 And then I thought about it.

01:19:06.620 I cut off all of my girls,

01:19:08.320 but obviously there's something still there.

01:19:11.020 So I felt, I felt a little dumb.

01:19:14.460 Yeah.

01:19:15.820 I didn't actually find anything,

01:19:17.560 but I was just like,

01:19:18.280 it's still better for me.

01:19:19.240 I'd rather just have multiple.

01:19:21.040 Yeah.

01:19:21.440 Got it.

01:19:22.400 Doug MPA,

01:19:23.060 you got any other questions for him?

01:19:25.520 The guy said earlier,

01:19:26.960 you know,

01:19:27.400 you're going to deal with it either way.

01:19:30.640 There are a lot of instances

01:19:31.880 where you deal with more from one woman

01:19:33.620 being all up in your business

01:19:34.680 than multiple women.

01:19:37.260 Yeah.

01:19:38.340 She was at a point,

01:19:39.420 she was actually about to agree

01:19:41.220 to let me have it open on my end.

01:19:45.000 But I could tell that

01:19:46.680 she didn't really want to do it.

01:19:47.860 It looked like it hurt her feelings

01:19:49.020 when we had the conversation.

01:19:50.740 So I said,

01:19:51.460 I'll just go ahead and do my own thing.

01:19:54.680 We're still cool though.

01:19:56.180 I hung out with her like last week.

01:19:57.840 She's got a boyfriend now.

01:20:00.920 And she's still hanging out with you?

01:20:03.560 Yeah, that was a few years ago.

01:20:05.320 And she texted me like two weeks ago.

01:20:07.200 She said she missed me.

01:20:09.520 So I went over to her house.

01:20:11.240 I went over to her house

01:20:12.220 and at the time that we were laying down together,

01:20:14.440 that's when she said,

01:20:15.340 oh, well,

01:20:15.920 I'm still in my relationship with my boyfriend.

01:20:17.920 And she said,

01:20:18.360 nothing's going wrong.

01:20:19.620 Everything's going well.

01:20:21.100 I just didn't say anything about it.

01:20:24.980 Wow.

01:20:25.800 Scandalous.

01:20:26.600 Well,

01:20:27.020 I've seen that multiple times

01:20:29.080 for many women though.

01:20:30.180 That's not nothing out of the norm for me.

01:20:32.620 Yeah.

01:20:34.040 Sounds about right.

01:20:35.500 Did you find at a certain age,

01:20:38.080 women are more willing

01:20:39.100 to be in situationships than others?

01:20:41.140 Have you noticed any patterns with that?

01:20:44.420 For me,

01:20:45.220 yeah,

01:20:45.780 younger.

01:20:46.840 Younger,

01:20:47.380 it seems like they don't care as much

01:20:48.640 like the women in their 20s.

01:20:50.100 So I do like that.

01:20:52.480 But they also,

01:20:53.840 they're just very more free and fun

01:20:56.020 to be around sometimes.

01:20:57.660 The older women always try to lock you down.

01:21:00.120 They're more desperate in my opinion.

01:21:01.760 Yeah.

01:21:02.360 Yeah.

01:21:02.880 Cool.

01:21:03.440 Well,

01:21:03.600 thanks for calling in.

01:21:04.680 Doug MPA,

01:21:05.280 you got anything else?

01:21:06.960 Nope.

01:21:07.980 Appreciate it.

01:21:08.980 Thanks.

01:21:09.420 Call in anytime.

01:21:10.020 Anytime.

01:21:11.140 All right.

01:21:13.280 We have another new person

01:21:14.480 I've never seen before.

01:21:15.700 I'm going to let Greg in.

01:21:19.240 Greg,

01:21:19.800 you're on mute.

01:21:21.820 Greg has probably listened

01:21:22.900 to the YouTube.

01:21:24.600 Guys.

01:21:24.980 What's up?

01:21:26.700 Hey,

01:21:27.200 Greg.

01:21:27.620 Thanks for calling in.

01:21:29.420 Call in anytime.

01:21:30.420 Okay.

01:21:32.260 Make sure you turn off

01:21:33.320 the YouTube in the background,

01:21:34.640 okay?

01:21:35.140 Yep.

01:21:35.560 I just shut it off.

01:21:36.400 Okay,

01:21:36.940 cool.

01:21:37.600 So tell me about your situationships.

01:21:39.980 Have you ever had a really long-term one?

01:21:44.220 Yeah,

01:21:44.700 I've had a lot of long-term ones.

01:21:47.620 As a matter of fact,

01:21:48.480 I'm in a long-term situationship right now.

01:21:51.360 How long has it been?

01:21:52.740 Like,

01:21:52.960 what's the longest?

01:21:53.400 Nine years.

01:21:54.260 Holy shit.

01:21:57.340 Nine and 15.

01:21:58.700 Okay.

01:21:59.060 So how did you guys meet?

01:22:01.520 The nine-year one.

01:22:04.240 How did we meet?

01:22:05.700 Oh,

01:22:06.140 a friend of mine

01:22:07.460 that I was with

01:22:08.920 just knew her

01:22:10.040 and she needed a ride home

01:22:11.380 from a party

01:22:12.060 and

01:22:13.160 that was it.

01:22:15.180 And what made you not want to

01:22:16.680 date her seriously?

01:22:19.320 Well,

01:22:19.580 on that ride home

01:22:20.500 from the party,

01:22:21.680 she

01:22:21.880 did whatever I asked her to do.

01:22:24.320 So

01:22:24.520 I figured that's kind of how it goes

01:22:27.220 for every guy.

01:22:28.420 And she just

01:22:29.100 isn't

01:22:29.960 committable,

01:22:31.060 you know?

01:22:31.320 It's like,

01:22:31.840 you know,

01:22:32.160 if you're,

01:22:33.060 if I'm in the car with you

01:22:34.120 for five minutes

01:22:34.780 and you're already,

01:22:35.760 I don't know,

01:22:36.860 maybe you were,

01:22:37.500 maybe you were special.

01:22:40.280 Yeah,

01:22:40.720 she keeps telling me that.

01:22:41.820 She tells me that still,

01:22:42.880 but

01:22:43.080 I don't know about all that.

01:22:49.220 Okay.

01:22:49.740 So

01:22:50.140 it wasn't just that though.

01:22:52.020 I'm guessing she had other

01:22:53.040 like signs

01:22:53.880 that

01:22:54.380 you weren't special

01:22:55.560 like based on her

01:22:56.560 like behaviors.

01:22:57.920 Yeah,

01:22:59.640 no,

01:22:59.960 I mean,

01:23:00.280 she,

01:23:00.800 she definitely treats me

01:23:02.480 like I'm special,

01:23:03.180 but there's like many

01:23:04.140 other things.

01:23:04.920 Like she's just not

01:23:05.680 attractive enough,

01:23:06.640 but

01:23:06.840 she don't have her life

01:23:10.040 together either.

01:23:11.580 And

01:23:12.020 so

01:23:12.780 there's,

01:23:13.280 there's variable things

01:23:14.320 that go on there.

01:23:14.900 But the first thing

01:23:15.620 was

01:23:15.840 that turned me off.

01:23:17.780 It was like,

01:23:18.260 no,

01:23:18.880 it was the first night,

01:23:19.680 you know?

01:23:20.000 But I've had many

01:23:22.240 situationships

01:23:23.960 that have lasted

01:23:25.240 for

01:23:25.740 quite a while.

01:23:27.040 I mean,

01:23:27.180 that's like the,

01:23:28.860 I've had very

01:23:30.020 few actual

01:23:31.160 relationships

01:23:32.080 just because

01:23:34.980 that's just kind

01:23:35.540 of how it goes.

01:23:36.780 These,

01:23:37.500 it just seems

01:23:38.080 to be the way

01:23:38.660 it goes.

01:23:39.900 I don't know

01:23:40.640 why.

01:23:41.020 And

01:23:45.380 oh wait,

01:23:47.340 hold on.

01:23:48.340 Sorry.

01:23:48.900 So

01:23:49.220 have you ever

01:23:50.080 noticed a certain age

01:23:51.300 that women are more

01:23:51.980 open to situationships

01:23:53.600 or have you noticed

01:23:54.620 no difference?

01:23:57.900 Um,

01:23:58.620 no,

01:24:00.180 not really

01:24:00.600 no difference.

01:24:02.340 I was,

01:24:03.820 I've been in

01:24:05.020 situationships.

01:24:06.200 I'm 36

01:24:07.320 and

01:24:08.660 I was with

01:24:09.980 a girl

01:24:10.780 that's 54

01:24:11.660 now

01:24:12.260 or a lady

01:24:13.220 that's 54.

01:24:14.600 Um,

01:24:15.060 whatever you want

01:24:15.500 to call her.

01:24:16.360 Um,

01:24:16.760 but she was

01:24:17.380 off and off

01:24:18.240 with her

01:24:18.360 for two years,

01:24:19.160 no commitment.

01:24:20.160 And then I've

01:24:20.700 been with

01:24:21.120 people my age,

01:24:22.940 not anybody

01:24:23.660 much younger.

01:24:26.880 Cool.

01:24:27.920 Uh,

01:24:28.240 what percent

01:24:28.760 of situationships

01:24:29.880 would you say

01:24:30.360 want commitment?

01:24:31.200 Are you close

01:24:31.800 to what the other

01:24:32.360 guys have been

01:24:32.880 saying?

01:24:33.260 Like 70,

01:24:33.880 80%.

01:24:34.640 I mean,

01:24:38.660 last more,

01:24:39.980 they all,

01:24:40.780 they all

01:24:41.460 claim that

01:24:42.140 they would,

01:24:42.680 they would

01:24:44.040 be with me,

01:24:45.300 you know,

01:24:45.740 and want to be

01:24:46.200 with me,

01:24:46.600 but they

01:24:47.760 say these

01:24:49.220 things,

01:24:49.620 but their

01:24:50.160 reactions don't

01:24:51.880 show it.

01:24:52.220 It's like they

01:24:52.640 have other

01:24:53.100 people on the

01:24:54.300 side too,

01:24:54.800 that they're

01:24:55.060 talking to.

01:24:56.520 And,

01:24:57.020 uh,

01:24:57.660 there's been a

01:24:58.580 few that I have

01:24:59.440 talked to about

01:25:00.060 getting serious

01:25:00.700 with,

01:25:01.000 and then they

01:25:02.180 just won't make

01:25:02.720 that commitment.

01:25:04.160 Um,

01:25:04.620 or I won't

01:25:06.140 make that

01:25:06.500 commitment for

01:25:07.040 like,

01:25:07.520 you know,

01:25:07.780 certain ones.

01:25:08.280 It just

01:25:08.460 depends.

01:25:08.820 It's kind

01:25:09.080 of like I

01:25:10.480 was watching

01:25:10.860 your show

01:25:11.320 yesterday or

01:25:12.740 something.

01:25:13.060 You were

01:25:13.240 talking about,

01:25:13.860 um,

01:25:14.780 people that

01:25:15.380 are,

01:25:15.680 can be

01:25:15.900 different to

01:25:16.820 different people.

01:25:17.520 You know,

01:25:17.800 it's like,

01:25:18.120 it might be the

01:25:18.500 right person.

01:25:19.060 You might treat

01:25:19.460 somebody the right

01:25:20.140 and then somebody

01:25:21.480 else might treat

01:25:22.080 them wrong or

01:25:22.620 whatever.

01:25:23.160 It's kind of

01:25:23.500 like that situation

01:25:24.220 goes on back

01:25:25.220 and forth.

01:25:25.700 It's like,

01:25:26.120 if you're not

01:25:27.340 the right person

01:25:27.840 for me,

01:25:28.460 I'm not going

01:25:28.880 to commit

01:25:29.740 to you type

01:25:30.460 of deal.

01:25:32.780 Um,

01:25:33.320 just kind of

01:25:34.720 back and forth.

01:25:35.740 And what was

01:25:36.080 the average

01:25:36.600 length of a

01:25:37.240 situationship

01:25:38.160 in your

01:25:38.420 experience?

01:25:41.080 Um,

01:25:42.480 a couple

01:25:44.600 years.

01:25:45.920 Like two,

01:25:47.000 three?

01:25:48.520 Yeah.

01:25:49.460 Two and a half

01:25:50.040 probably.

01:25:50.640 Two and a half.

01:25:51.300 Okay.

01:25:52.440 Um,

01:25:52.760 now is there

01:25:54.840 ever a moment

01:25:55.620 in a

01:25:56.340 situationship

01:25:57.320 where like

01:25:57.780 maybe you

01:25:58.200 were thinking

01:25:58.640 about taking

01:25:59.220 a girl

01:25:59.580 seriously,

01:26:00.140 but then

01:26:01.040 she said

01:26:01.760 or did

01:26:02.400 XYZ

01:26:03.340 and you

01:26:03.780 thought

01:26:04.040 Naseki

01:26:04.660 nada

01:26:05.220 never.

01:26:06.620 Um,

01:26:06.960 if that's

01:26:07.720 happened,

01:26:08.320 uh,

01:26:08.700 what happened?

01:26:10.420 What did

01:26:11.040 she say?

01:26:11.560 Oh,

01:26:12.000 oh yeah,

01:26:12.980 that's happened.

01:26:14.020 Um,

01:26:15.880 oh my.

01:26:17.040 So there

01:26:17.800 was,

01:26:18.280 there was

01:26:18.640 this one girl

01:26:19.360 I was with

01:26:19.960 and I was

01:26:20.360 like,

01:26:21.760 we talked

01:26:22.340 about getting

01:26:22.700 serious

01:26:23.140 and she

01:26:25.240 knew that

01:26:25.540 I had

01:26:25.960 girls on

01:26:27.660 one side

01:26:28.020 and I

01:26:28.280 said,

01:26:28.420 listen,

01:26:28.740 I'll drop

01:26:29.600 all those

01:26:29.980 girls.

01:26:30.480 You will

01:26:30.860 do the

01:26:31.140 same

01:26:31.480 and we'll

01:26:33.060 be serious.

01:26:33.780 But,

01:26:33.960 uh,

01:26:35.400 she committed

01:26:35.920 to that

01:26:36.320 but then

01:26:36.900 she had

01:26:38.280 her ex

01:26:38.920 over at

01:26:40.080 her house

01:26:40.640 um,

01:26:42.900 and was

01:26:43.620 making him

01:26:44.020 breakfast

01:26:44.520 claiming

01:26:45.520 that the

01:26:46.640 ex was

01:26:47.080 now dating

01:26:47.640 her roommate

01:26:48.900 but her

01:26:50.000 roommate

01:26:50.200 wasn't there.

01:26:50.920 so,

01:26:51.540 um,

01:26:52.820 how did

01:26:53.100 you find

01:26:53.520 out?

01:26:53.760 I was like,

01:26:54.700 uh,

01:26:55.920 I showed

01:26:56.240 up.

01:26:57.100 Oh,

01:26:57.420 shit.

01:26:58.480 Okay.

01:26:59.000 Yeah.

01:26:59.320 That'll do

01:26:59.820 it.

01:27:00.080 I pulled

01:27:00.640 up and was

01:27:01.020 like,

01:27:01.620 hey,

01:27:01.800 I'm outside.

01:27:02.320 I got

01:27:02.500 something for

01:27:02.960 you.

01:27:03.160 And she

01:27:04.020 was like,

01:27:04.720 uh,

01:27:05.180 well,

01:27:05.860 hold on.

01:27:06.340 I'll,

01:27:06.700 don't come

01:27:07.160 in.

01:27:07.340 I'll come

01:27:07.640 out.

01:27:08.080 I'll come

01:27:08.440 out.

01:27:08.660 And I'm

01:27:08.820 like,

01:27:09.340 yeah,

01:27:09.560 that's what

01:27:09.820 I just

01:27:10.140 said.

01:27:10.720 Come

01:27:10.980 out.

01:27:11.200 I gotta

01:27:11.360 get,

01:27:11.660 I'm

01:27:11.740 gonna give

01:27:12.000 you

01:27:12.080 something.

01:27:13.460 And,

01:27:13.860 yeah,

01:27:14.480 it was

01:27:14.600 just real

01:27:14.880 weird.

01:27:15.140 So,

01:27:15.240 she did

01:27:15.480 that.

01:27:15.740 So,

01:27:15.820 obviously,

01:27:16.140 I got

01:27:16.340 out of

01:27:16.480 my car

01:27:16.840 and went

01:27:17.480 inside and

01:27:17.900 saw him.

01:27:18.420 And I'm

01:27:18.600 like,

01:27:19.700 what's up?

01:27:22.420 Big party

01:27:23.040 here.

01:27:23.560 So,

01:27:24.100 did you guys

01:27:25.320 become pals

01:27:26.080 then or

01:27:26.560 what?

01:27:29.440 Me and

01:27:30.000 him?

01:27:30.500 Yeah.

01:27:31.700 Some guys,

01:27:32.560 sometimes Eskimo

01:27:33.580 brothers bring

01:27:34.360 men together.

01:27:35.320 I've seen

01:27:35.720 it.

01:27:36.820 No,

01:27:37.180 I mean,

01:27:37.480 I didn't

01:27:38.000 have no

01:27:38.400 hate.

01:27:38.980 He,

01:27:39.080 he didn't,

01:27:39.940 he don't

01:27:40.260 even,

01:27:40.560 he didn't

01:27:40.780 even know

01:27:41.100 about me,

01:27:41.500 really,

01:27:41.780 I don't

01:27:41.980 think.

01:27:42.760 I mean,

01:27:43.060 really,

01:27:43.360 I don't,

01:27:43.540 I don't

01:27:44.100 hate on guys

01:27:44.740 whenever that

01:27:45.220 situation happens

01:27:46.000 unless they

01:27:46.480 know me.

01:27:47.480 Yeah.

01:27:47.920 Like,

01:27:48.120 unless it's

01:27:48.480 like one

01:27:48.800 of my

01:27:49.060 buddies.

01:27:50.600 But,

01:27:51.080 normally,

01:27:52.020 I'm just

01:27:52.300 like,

01:27:53.400 it's,

01:27:54.040 you know,

01:27:54.320 whatever.

01:27:54.880 I would

01:27:55.400 do the

01:27:55.640 same thing

01:27:56.000 in their

01:27:56.260 shoes,

01:27:56.520 probably.

01:27:57.120 So.

01:27:58.220 Cool.

01:27:58.980 Cool.

01:27:59.460 Well,

01:27:59.600 thanks for

01:27:59.960 calling in,

01:28:00.420 Doug MPA.

01:28:00.940 You got

01:28:01.220 any other

01:28:02.120 questions?

01:28:03.060 No,

01:28:03.560 thanks for

01:28:04.100 sharing,

01:28:04.440 man.

01:28:04.540 I really

01:28:04.820 appreciate it.

01:28:05.780 Come on,

01:28:06.240 Doug MPA.

01:28:06.840 I want a

01:28:07.140 question from

01:28:07.680 you.

01:28:09.120 Come on,

01:28:09.740 man.

01:28:10.840 No,

01:28:11.180 you laid

01:28:11.480 it out pretty

01:28:11.940 well.

01:28:13.280 All right.

01:28:14.280 You guys

01:28:14.640 have a great

01:28:15.060 night.

01:28:15.500 How's

01:28:15.680 going,

01:28:15.880 buddy?

01:28:16.020 Thanks.

01:28:16.620 Thanks,

01:28:17.060 guys,

01:28:17.380 for calling

01:28:18.560 in.

01:28:18.880 These shows

01:28:19.400 would be

01:28:19.760 awful if we

01:28:21.280 didn't have

01:28:21.600 any callers.

01:28:22.480 So I really

01:28:22.860 do appreciate

01:28:23.480 you guys

01:28:23.920 calling in

01:28:24.460 and telling

01:28:24.780 your stories.

01:28:26.400 I find

01:28:27.220 it really

01:28:27.520 interesting.

01:28:31.540 Everyone's

01:28:32.100 saying herpes,

01:28:33.040 STD.

01:28:33.620 Guys,

01:28:33.920 you realize

01:28:34.340 that people

01:28:34.820 are sexually

01:28:35.420 active and

01:28:36.080 catch nothing.

01:28:37.160 Some people

01:28:37.580 catch something,

01:28:38.460 but some people

01:28:39.240 make it out

01:28:39.720 alive.

01:28:40.140 If you

01:28:42.200 wear protection

01:28:44.400 as a guy,

01:28:45.080 most guys

01:28:45.580 won't catch

01:28:46.140 anything.

01:28:46.800 You guys

01:28:47.220 have it easier

01:28:47.840 in that regard.

01:28:48.720 Women,

01:28:49.080 we just are

01:28:52.520 easier to

01:28:52.960 catch stuff.

01:28:53.640 Doug MPA,

01:28:54.160 go ahead.

01:28:55.100 Yeah,

01:28:55.400 and we all

01:28:56.300 have that

01:28:56.620 friend that

01:28:57.200 should have

01:28:58.400 been burned

01:28:58.740 a bunch of

01:28:59.140 times.

01:28:59.940 It should be

01:29:00.620 a walking,

01:29:01.940 talking cesspool

01:29:03.280 of disease,

01:29:03.960 but they made

01:29:04.420 it out okay.

01:29:06.480 And then women

01:29:07.560 have that friend

01:29:08.200 that started

01:29:08.880 whoring herself

01:29:09.780 around after

01:29:11.560 a major breakup

01:29:12.700 or something

01:29:13.080 and made it

01:29:13.560 out unscathed

01:29:14.260 and didn't get

01:29:15.120 pregnant,

01:29:15.580 anything like

01:29:15.880 that.

01:29:16.380 So yeah,

01:29:16.860 you never

01:29:17.180 know.

01:29:17.680 But that makes

01:29:19.440 the case that

01:29:19.940 you have to

01:29:20.360 protect yourself

01:29:20.800 even more

01:29:21.340 because for

01:29:21.940 everyone,

01:29:22.640 like you said

01:29:23.180 earlier,

01:29:24.380 for every winner

01:29:26.920 there's a bunch

01:29:27.400 of losers.

01:29:29.240 Yeah,

01:29:29.860 there's winners.

01:29:30.840 Look,

01:29:31.160 there's winners

01:29:31.680 and losers

01:29:32.300 in life.

01:29:33.640 But the only

01:29:34.120 way to

01:29:34.560 successfully

01:29:35.340 have a 100%

01:29:37.200 STD avoidance

01:29:38.540 rate is to

01:29:39.680 literally stay

01:29:40.360 celibate for

01:29:41.060 life because

01:29:41.660 half the guys

01:29:42.360 I interviewed

01:29:42.920 that get STDs

01:29:44.680 got them from

01:29:45.140 their wife.

01:29:46.740 So yeah,

01:29:47.520 I would say

01:29:49.060 the guys that

01:29:50.180 get burned

01:29:50.620 the most

01:29:51.160 are naive

01:29:51.700 men.

01:29:52.900 That's like

01:29:53.300 that's who gets

01:29:53.880 burned in my

01:29:54.600 opinion.

01:29:56.220 It's either a

01:29:57.060 guy that's

01:29:57.460 irresponsible

01:29:58.220 and just bangs

01:29:59.080 women without

01:29:59.680 condoms and

01:30:00.460 gets and he's

01:30:01.540 like close to

01:30:02.240 Chad level

01:30:02.920 or a guy

01:30:03.580 that's super

01:30:04.160 naive.

01:30:05.340 Up next

01:30:08.400 we have

01:30:09.120 James.

01:30:13.500 James.

01:30:15.520 He's probably

01:30:16.120 listening to

01:30:16.540 the YouTube

01:30:16.900 so we'll

01:30:17.640 give it a

01:30:17.940 little bit.

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01:30:29.700 James,

01:30:30.060 are you

01:30:30.220 there?

01:30:31.380 You're on

01:30:31.940 mute.

01:30:34.280 Now you're

01:30:34.880 off mute.

01:30:36.120 James.

01:30:38.840 Hey,

01:30:39.320 James.

01:30:41.340 James going

01:30:42.000 once.

01:30:42.960 Hey,

01:30:43.340 can you hear

01:30:44.360 me now?

01:30:45.160 I can hear

01:30:45.800 you.

01:30:46.700 Are you from

01:30:47.220 the South?

01:30:47.980 You have a

01:30:48.380 nice voice,

01:30:49.160 James.

01:30:50.500 Oh, thank

01:30:51.160 you.

01:30:51.360 I'm actually

01:30:51.720 from New York

01:30:52.480 but my whole

01:30:53.000 family's from

01:30:53.540 the South.

01:30:53.940 you got it

01:30:55.060 right.

01:30:55.600 I like the

01:30:57.000 accent.

01:30:58.700 So tell me,

01:31:00.080 have you ever

01:31:00.540 been in a

01:31:00.900 situationship?

01:31:03.540 Oh my God.

01:31:05.360 That seems

01:31:06.640 like everything

01:31:08.360 I've dated

01:31:08.880 since I've

01:31:09.400 been about

01:31:09.840 23 and

01:31:11.700 I'm 30

01:31:12.120 now.

01:31:13.900 So the

01:31:14.500 exception

01:31:14.900 really is a

01:31:15.640 relationship.

01:31:16.680 The standard

01:31:17.520 nowadays is a

01:31:18.520 situationship,

01:31:19.540 huh?

01:31:19.900 That's true.

01:31:20.460 I'll be

01:31:22.100 straight up.

01:31:23.040 When I was

01:31:24.720 18,

01:31:25.600 I would say

01:31:26.380 looking back

01:31:27.560 at it now,

01:31:28.240 I got really

01:31:29.100 lucky.

01:31:29.740 I dated a

01:31:30.460 girl,

01:31:30.740 we were both

01:31:31.140 17 and

01:31:32.520 18 and

01:31:33.620 we had never

01:31:34.140 dated anyone

01:31:34.780 before and

01:31:35.760 we were just

01:31:36.460 so career

01:31:37.860 driven people

01:31:38.780 that a lot

01:31:40.120 of our stuff

01:31:40.580 just lined

01:31:41.060 up and I

01:31:42.200 knew that

01:31:43.620 she wasn't

01:31:44.040 doing anything

01:31:44.560 crazy because

01:31:45.360 she was just

01:31:45.900 spending all her

01:31:46.520 time with me

01:31:47.140 working and

01:31:47.840 studying and I

01:31:48.480 was working

01:31:48.920 and studying.

01:31:49.380 But I'm

01:31:52.560 going to say

01:31:52.960 this,

01:31:53.360 girls in

01:31:53.880 this generation

01:31:54.680 they get

01:31:56.440 flashy object

01:31:57.760 syndrome because

01:31:58.760 then they see

01:31:59.360 something that

01:31:59.980 they don't

01:32:00.500 have and

01:32:01.300 now they're

01:32:01.640 like,

01:32:02.180 okay,

01:32:02.460 I can have

01:32:03.120 that on top

01:32:03.700 of what I

01:32:04.080 already have.

01:32:05.020 And sometimes

01:32:05.500 it's like,

01:32:06.040 the world does

01:32:06.840 not work like

01:32:07.460 at least in my

01:32:08.260 opinion.

01:32:08.760 It just does

01:32:09.620 not seem like

01:32:10.280 it does.

01:32:11.980 And now

01:32:14.080 with situations

01:32:14.980 I just feel

01:32:16.160 like,

01:32:17.560 like the guy

01:32:18.760 said earlier

01:32:19.340 he's like,

01:32:19.880 all you got

01:32:20.180 to do is be

01:32:20.660 a little bit

01:32:21.240 of a dick

01:32:21.760 and just be

01:32:22.720 honest and

01:32:23.440 you can get

01:32:23.760 these girls

01:32:24.120 to do like

01:32:24.620 anything.

01:32:25.160 Like I would

01:32:26.140 approach girls

01:32:26.760 in the past

01:32:27.400 after that

01:32:28.020 relationship,

01:32:28.560 like very

01:32:29.340 honest,

01:32:29.840 straightforward

01:32:30.260 and like,

01:32:31.220 you know,

01:32:31.780 kind of like

01:32:32.260 a nice guy.

01:32:33.120 But then once

01:32:33.880 I started being

01:32:34.500 like a little

01:32:34.940 bit of a dick,

01:32:35.840 oh,

01:32:36.220 it's like

01:32:37.600 night and day.

01:32:38.580 Like sometimes

01:32:39.140 I go out

01:32:39.740 and I just

01:32:40.120 try it out

01:32:40.820 just to see

01:32:41.300 if it'll work.

01:32:42.480 And yeah,

01:32:43.280 it does.

01:32:43.940 Like just,

01:32:45.080 I kind of hate

01:32:45.760 that it does

01:32:46.220 almost.

01:32:46.560 How old

01:32:48.080 are you?

01:32:49.800 30.

01:32:50.700 So how many

01:32:51.400 situationships

01:32:52.480 would you say

01:32:52.940 you've been

01:32:53.340 in in the

01:32:54.000 last,

01:32:54.540 like when

01:32:55.180 did you get

01:32:55.520 out of that?

01:32:56.080 Like five?

01:32:58.200 I got out of

01:32:58.760 that relationship

01:32:59.520 when I was

01:33:00.260 like 23.

01:33:01.520 She was a

01:33:02.020 great girl.

01:33:02.780 I'll be honest,

01:33:03.460 very intelligent,

01:33:04.440 but like she

01:33:05.700 had a very

01:33:06.460 big drinking

01:33:07.060 problem.

01:33:07.900 And I just

01:33:08.840 was,

01:33:09.520 yeah,

01:33:09.760 I was like,

01:33:10.600 I would drink

01:33:11.200 too,

01:33:11.560 obviously,

01:33:11.980 but it's

01:33:12.680 a little

01:33:12.920 different

01:33:13.340 when your

01:33:13.980 girlfriend's

01:33:14.460 on the

01:33:14.780 ground drunk

01:33:15.380 every weekend,

01:33:16.580 like face

01:33:17.140 down,

01:33:17.660 like plastered

01:33:18.500 and you're

01:33:18.800 like playing

01:33:19.600 Xbox.

01:33:20.060 You know,

01:33:20.360 a lot of

01:33:20.780 things can

01:33:21.240 be worked

01:33:21.780 through,

01:33:22.420 but in my

01:33:22.800 opinion,

01:33:23.400 for men

01:33:23.820 or women,

01:33:24.540 to be honest,

01:33:25.160 drugs and

01:33:25.600 alcohol,

01:33:26.240 it's just not

01:33:26.800 something you

01:33:27.280 want to deal

01:33:27.720 with.

01:33:28.660 Yeah.

01:33:29.180 Personally.

01:33:30.500 Yeah.

01:33:31.840 Even if

01:33:32.520 your girl's

01:33:33.280 sexy,

01:33:33.960 even if

01:33:34.420 your girl

01:33:34.720 smokes weed,

01:33:36.920 marijuana and

01:33:37.520 stuff,

01:33:37.880 like it's just

01:33:38.540 a no-go,

01:33:39.000 guys.

01:33:40.740 It's fun

01:33:41.520 for a little

01:33:42.000 bit.

01:33:42.440 I know a lot

01:33:43.020 of guys

01:33:43.380 were,

01:33:44.220 you know,

01:33:44.520 it's fun,

01:33:45.280 woohoo,

01:33:45.720 but when you

01:33:46.260 want to get

01:33:46.900 serious and

01:33:48.240 you're trying

01:33:49.080 to make

01:33:49.340 plans,

01:33:50.680 there's no

01:33:52.200 urgency,

01:33:53.240 they can't

01:33:53.760 keep it

01:33:54.120 together,

01:33:54.720 you end up

01:33:55.200 babysitting them

01:33:55.960 a lot of

01:33:56.300 the time.

01:33:56.780 Guys,

01:33:57.040 don't do it.

01:33:57.660 It's terrible.

01:33:59.440 Oh,

01:33:59.700 yeah,

01:33:59.900 I had to

01:34:00.380 babysit my

01:34:01.120 ex.

01:34:01.520 Some nights

01:34:02.840 she'd be

01:34:03.220 drunk on

01:34:03.720 the floor,

01:34:04.680 like almost

01:34:05.260 incapacitated,

01:34:06.960 and I'd be

01:34:07.500 like,

01:34:07.900 taking care

01:34:09.680 of her

01:34:09.920 like a

01:34:10.320 baby,

01:34:10.740 like literally

01:34:11.220 picking her

01:34:11.760 up,

01:34:11.940 putting her

01:34:12.240 over my

01:34:12.640 shoulder,

01:34:13.660 and putting

01:34:14.080 her back

01:34:14.460 in bed,

01:34:14.960 and making

01:34:15.260 sure she's

01:34:15.680 on.

01:34:15.940 And I'd

01:34:16.200 be like,

01:34:16.540 yo,

01:34:16.680 this is too

01:34:17.280 much.

01:34:17.720 You know,

01:34:17.940 doing that

01:34:18.500 odd weeks

01:34:20.000 in a row

01:34:20.400 after a

01:34:20.800 while,

01:34:21.020 you're like,

01:34:22.140 yeah,

01:34:22.420 no.

01:34:23.040 So what's

01:34:23.760 been the

01:34:24.620 average,

01:34:25.260 what's been

01:34:25.580 your longest

01:34:26.200 situation,

01:34:27.200 Chip?

01:34:32.280 Probably,

01:34:33.200 probably,

01:34:33.640 let's see,

01:34:35.500 probably like

01:34:37.400 five years.

01:34:38.720 Is it

01:34:39.260 still going?

01:34:41.160 Yeah,

01:34:41.740 like,

01:34:43.100 okay,

01:34:43.860 so I

01:34:44.200 played like

01:34:44.820 semi-pro

01:34:45.560 hockey,

01:34:46.080 so I

01:34:46.300 would travel

01:34:46.900 across the

01:34:47.480 country,

01:34:47.880 right?

01:34:48.620 So there'd

01:34:49.660 be women

01:34:50.080 I'd meet

01:34:50.600 like,

01:34:51.340 you know,

01:34:51.660 in some

01:34:52.100 towns,

01:34:53.540 and you

01:34:53.900 know,

01:34:54.040 you just

01:34:54.320 go to a

01:34:54.740 bar,

01:34:55.140 you just

01:34:55.380 meet them

01:34:55.700 for a

01:34:56.160 night,

01:34:56.500 and then

01:34:56.720 you just,

01:34:57.400 you know,

01:34:57.540 anytime you're

01:34:58.060 in town,

01:34:58.460 you just

01:34:58.700 hit them

01:34:58.940 up,

01:34:59.280 and it's

01:34:59.640 like,

01:34:59.980 okay.

01:35:00.880 And I

01:35:01.100 remember I

01:35:01.520 was living

01:35:01.880 in the town

01:35:02.820 for about

01:35:03.240 like six

01:35:03.680 months,

01:35:04.580 and like,

01:35:05.620 I didn't

01:35:06.020 know she

01:35:06.800 was married,

01:35:08.240 like,

01:35:08.580 had no clue,

01:35:09.640 never had an

01:35:10.540 inkling,

01:35:11.000 right?

01:35:11.280 Like,

01:35:11.980 nothing ever

01:35:13.100 peed it off

01:35:14.580 in my head,

01:35:15.380 like,

01:35:15.620 just ever,

01:35:16.400 right?

01:35:17.240 And I only

01:35:17.780 found out

01:35:18.280 because I

01:35:18.540 moved to

01:35:19.140 the town,

01:35:20.020 and like,

01:35:20.700 I'd be like,

01:35:21.240 yeah,

01:35:21.420 come hang out

01:35:21.960 with me here,

01:35:22.360 and she'd be

01:35:22.640 like,

01:35:22.820 oh,

01:35:22.960 I can't go

01:35:23.440 there,

01:35:23.860 and I'm

01:35:24.160 like,

01:35:24.460 why not?

01:35:25.300 And then

01:35:25.660 I kind of

01:35:26.380 pieced it

01:35:26.760 together after

01:35:27.340 a while.

01:35:28.200 Dang.

01:35:29.460 Okay,

01:35:30.100 but you're

01:35:30.600 still seeing her

01:35:31.300 now?

01:35:31.720 Are you ever

01:35:32.100 like afraid

01:35:32.660 you're gonna

01:35:32.960 get shot

01:35:33.600 or something

01:35:34.280 or doesn't

01:35:34.940 cross your

01:35:35.360 mind?

01:35:36.900 I mean,

01:35:37.760 I mean,

01:35:40.500 I'm gonna

01:35:41.900 say this,

01:35:42.660 she is still

01:35:43.580 married,

01:35:44.380 but like,

01:35:45.100 he,

01:35:45.480 okay,

01:35:45.740 this is,

01:35:46.140 this is even

01:35:46.600 crazier.

01:35:47.280 He knows about

01:35:47.900 me and doesn't

01:35:48.400 care.

01:35:49.700 Is he doing

01:35:50.320 his own thing

01:35:50.900 too,

01:35:51.220 or what?

01:35:53.280 Bro,

01:35:53.880 it's like,

01:35:54.760 it's like a

01:35:55.140 swinger type

01:35:55.880 thing?

01:35:56.260 It's kind of

01:35:56.780 weird.

01:35:57.920 It's kind of

01:35:58.480 weird,

01:35:59.040 honestly.

01:36:00.100 Like,

01:36:00.760 he knows,

01:36:01.680 but like,

01:36:02.840 I've never

01:36:03.400 met him

01:36:03.980 and never

01:36:04.420 like talked

01:36:05.180 to him.

01:36:05.760 Like,

01:36:06.740 she's been

01:36:07.340 like,

01:36:07.740 oh yeah,

01:36:08.120 he's like

01:36:08.500 seen your

01:36:08.980 messages in

01:36:09.520 my phone

01:36:09.980 and he

01:36:10.300 just doesn't

01:36:10.700 care.

01:36:11.300 I'm like,

01:36:12.040 that's so

01:36:12.560 weird,

01:36:13.120 man.

01:36:13.620 All right.

01:36:15.540 I'm like,

01:36:16.240 yo,

01:36:16.480 I'm not trying

01:36:17.120 to date you.

01:36:17.860 You just,

01:36:18.940 you just like

01:36:19.560 throwing it back.

01:36:20.140 That's all I

01:36:20.520 think.

01:36:20.920 Like,

01:36:21.120 I have a

01:36:22.220 very

01:36:22.540 before you

01:36:24.120 knew,

01:36:24.600 would you

01:36:24.880 have taken,

01:36:25.600 did you like

01:36:26.240 like her

01:36:26.740 before you

01:36:27.420 knew?

01:36:27.980 Like,

01:36:28.180 did you ever

01:36:28.600 think he could

01:36:29.020 go somewhere

01:36:29.580 or no?

01:36:31.220 Okay.

01:36:31.700 I have,

01:36:32.680 me personally,

01:36:34.200 because I've

01:36:34.720 been with,

01:36:35.480 I don't say

01:36:36.620 this to sound

01:36:37.240 crazy,

01:36:37.940 but I've been

01:36:38.360 with like,

01:36:39.480 damn near

01:36:39.960 hundreds of

01:36:40.600 women and

01:36:40.980 I've like

01:36:41.340 documented it

01:36:42.220 with like an

01:36:42.620 Excel spreadsheet.

01:36:43.500 so like,

01:36:45.000 yeah,

01:36:46.260 no,

01:36:46.500 me and my

01:36:46.880 friends,

01:36:47.220 we were pretty

01:36:48.100 weird.

01:36:48.640 We used to

01:36:50.460 sit there in

01:36:51.540 college and

01:36:52.380 just,

01:36:53.000 I don't know,

01:36:54.120 we were dumb.

01:36:54.920 We used to

01:36:55.300 try to just

01:36:55.780 get our

01:36:56.060 numbers up

01:36:56.640 and shit.

01:36:57.220 And we

01:36:57.680 had like an

01:36:58.520 Excel spreadsheet

01:36:59.440 that we put

01:37:00.120 all the girls

01:37:01.360 into.

01:37:01.780 So we just

01:37:02.200 kept track.

01:37:02.800 So I just

01:37:03.160 kept track

01:37:03.660 after like

01:37:04.480 years and

01:37:05.840 you know,

01:37:06.640 but yeah,

01:37:08.100 like it is

01:37:09.380 kind of weird

01:37:10.140 because I'm

01:37:10.660 like,

01:37:11.060 I would be

01:37:12.420 mad if

01:37:13.080 someone was

01:37:13.780 seeing my

01:37:14.380 girl,

01:37:14.660 like even

01:37:15.240 just talking

01:37:16.040 to my

01:37:16.320 girl,

01:37:16.580 like I'd

01:37:17.000 be mad

01:37:17.900 about it,

01:37:18.300 but I

01:37:18.500 haven't dated

01:37:19.040 someone that

01:37:19.760 serious where

01:37:20.560 I'm like,

01:37:21.100 yeah,

01:37:21.980 I would

01:37:22.300 consider marrying

01:37:23.260 you since

01:37:24.520 that first

01:37:24.940 girl I

01:37:25.320 dated.

01:37:25.800 What's

01:37:26.220 been the

01:37:27.040 average length

01:37:27.760 of the

01:37:28.120 situationships?

01:37:30.640 About a

01:37:32.120 year,

01:37:32.860 like two

01:37:33.340 years.

01:37:34.040 Yeah,

01:37:34.220 that's,

01:37:34.740 I would

01:37:35.020 say that's

01:37:35.440 the average

01:37:35.960 would have

01:37:36.400 been told.

01:37:38.900 And

01:37:39.420 have you

01:37:42.900 ever thought

01:37:43.420 about

01:37:43.700 promoting

01:37:44.300 a

01:37:44.600 situationship?

01:37:48.180 Yeah.

01:37:49.320 Oh,

01:37:49.880 yeah.

01:37:51.220 Okay.

01:37:51.840 And what

01:37:52.480 what stopped

01:37:53.260 you?

01:37:53.520 Did you do

01:37:53.980 it?

01:37:54.280 How did

01:37:54.460 it turn

01:37:54.680 out?

01:37:56.140 Okay.

01:37:56.740 I did

01:37:57.180 it.

01:37:57.880 I did

01:37:58.720 it probably

01:38:01.380 two times

01:38:02.700 because I

01:38:04.060 know I

01:38:04.380 definitely did

01:38:04.960 it once

01:38:05.480 and I

01:38:05.860 was,

01:38:06.140 it was a

01:38:06.480 good

01:38:06.660 decision,

01:38:07.520 but like

01:38:08.520 okay,

01:38:10.080 so family

01:38:10.860 is like

01:38:11.180 very important

01:38:11.880 to me.

01:38:12.340 Like my

01:38:12.600 family's

01:38:13.040 huge.

01:38:13.520 Like I

01:38:13.680 come from

01:38:14.040 a very

01:38:14.620 big,

01:38:15.360 like well

01:38:16.300 off family.

01:38:17.080 So like my

01:38:18.340 thing is your

01:38:19.220 family got to

01:38:19.960 be like,

01:38:20.560 cool.

01:38:21.000 And the

01:38:21.260 one girl I

01:38:21.800 was going

01:38:22.180 to like,

01:38:23.100 because I'll

01:38:23.460 say this,

01:38:23.860 I'm African

01:38:24.380 American and

01:38:25.040 German,

01:38:25.400 right?

01:38:25.880 And the

01:38:26.460 girl I was

01:38:26.920 dating was

01:38:27.520 Indian.

01:38:28.760 And I'm

01:38:31.200 just going to

01:38:31.480 be real.

01:38:32.000 So some

01:38:32.640 Indians can

01:38:33.280 be very,

01:38:34.340 very,

01:38:34.820 very like

01:38:35.480 non apropos

01:38:37.420 go to that.

01:38:38.100 And I

01:38:38.620 knew that

01:38:39.200 and her

01:38:39.540 dad wasn't

01:38:40.780 and her

01:38:41.120 mom was,

01:38:42.060 but then like

01:38:42.700 her little

01:38:43.220 brother was

01:38:43.620 racist and

01:38:44.360 like all

01:38:44.840 this other

01:38:45.160 stuff.

01:38:45.620 And I

01:38:45.820 was just

01:38:46.180 like,

01:38:46.600 you know,

01:38:47.100 I don't

01:38:47.600 know,

01:38:47.980 like if I

01:38:49.220 could do

01:38:49.600 this,

01:38:49.840 but she

01:38:50.120 was a

01:38:50.500 great girl.

01:38:51.940 Like,

01:38:52.100 what did

01:38:52.440 they say

01:38:53.320 to you?

01:38:54.140 Like,

01:38:54.380 what did

01:38:54.600 they,

01:38:54.980 did they

01:38:55.200 say something

01:38:55.760 directly to

01:38:56.420 you?

01:38:57.780 Oh,

01:38:58.120 okay.

01:38:58.460 So this

01:38:58.800 is crazy.

01:38:59.640 We were,

01:39:00.220 cause we

01:39:00.600 were in,

01:39:01.140 we were

01:39:01.360 living in

01:39:01.740 New Jersey

01:39:02.180 at the

01:39:02.520 time.

01:39:02.940 We were

01:39:03.180 like,

01:39:03.480 I was

01:39:03.740 going to

01:39:04.040 college

01:39:04.360 in Newark

01:39:04.820 and we

01:39:06.260 were at

01:39:06.780 dinner at

01:39:07.300 this one

01:39:07.720 like pretty

01:39:08.420 nice club

01:39:08.980 that I

01:39:09.260 know.

01:39:10.180 And it

01:39:10.940 was like,

01:39:11.600 it wasn't

01:39:11.920 dinner.

01:39:12.240 It was

01:39:12.320 the middle

01:39:12.620 of the

01:39:12.860 day.

01:39:13.100 It was

01:39:13.280 like lunch,

01:39:13.780 but it

01:39:13.940 was at

01:39:14.100 that

01:39:14.240 club.

01:39:15.180 And we're

01:39:15.620 sitting

01:39:15.860 there

01:39:16.020 eating

01:39:16.360 and the

01:39:17.160 Indian

01:39:17.440 population

01:39:17.980 in

01:39:18.440 Jersey

01:39:18.780 is

01:39:19.280 gigantic.

01:39:20.180 It's

01:39:20.460 huge.

01:39:21.360 Like,

01:39:21.540 from

01:39:22.080 Edison

01:39:22.480 up to

01:39:23.040 Newark,

01:39:23.480 it's

01:39:23.600 huge.

01:39:24.320 So

01:39:24.660 she's

01:39:25.440 pretty

01:39:25.980 well-known

01:39:27.040 in the

01:39:27.340 Indian

01:39:27.620 community

01:39:28.100 because

01:39:28.320 she

01:39:28.460 does

01:39:28.620 a lot

01:39:29.160 of

01:39:29.280 charity

01:39:29.580 work.

01:39:33.740 at the

01:39:35.200 time.

01:39:35.880 So a

01:39:36.260 lot of

01:39:36.560 people in

01:39:36.860 the Indian

01:39:37.140 community

01:39:37.520 knew who

01:39:37.920 she was.

01:39:38.840 So we're

01:39:39.180 sitting at

01:39:39.720 lunch and

01:39:40.360 she gets

01:39:40.600 a text

01:39:40.920 message from

01:39:41.380 her dad

01:39:41.960 like straight

01:39:42.880 up says,

01:39:43.720 why are you

01:39:44.140 out to

01:39:44.520 dinner with

01:39:45.000 some N

01:39:45.480 word?

01:39:45.880 Right?

01:39:46.420 And I

01:39:46.900 was just

01:39:47.360 like,

01:39:47.800 you know,

01:39:48.200 what?

01:39:48.660 That's

01:39:49.080 crazy.

01:39:50.420 And I

01:39:50.980 was like

01:39:51.400 looking

01:39:51.740 around.

01:39:53.420 Apparently

01:39:53.940 there was

01:39:54.480 someone that

01:39:55.040 worked there

01:39:55.800 at the

01:39:56.460 restaurant

01:39:56.860 that knew

01:39:57.440 her dad

01:39:57.980 and knew

01:39:58.340 that she

01:39:58.820 was there,

01:39:59.440 saw her

01:39:59.980 and told

01:40:00.700 her dad.

01:40:01.500 So I

01:40:02.140 had to

01:40:02.480 sneak her

01:40:03.020 home

01:40:03.520 and like

01:40:04.780 not get

01:40:05.440 her caught.

01:40:07.340 So yeah,

01:40:08.260 that was

01:40:08.620 one reason

01:40:09.220 why that

01:40:09.760 didn't like

01:40:10.420 evolve.

01:40:11.140 It was

01:40:11.640 just like,

01:40:12.580 yeah.

01:40:13.180 Has there

01:40:13.520 ever been

01:40:13.920 a girl

01:40:14.300 that's like

01:40:14.840 you were,

01:40:15.700 she was

01:40:15.900 on track

01:40:16.500 to be in

01:40:16.860 a relationship

01:40:17.520 but then

01:40:17.900 she did

01:40:18.320 something

01:40:18.680 crazy?

01:40:19.140 Not her

01:40:19.420 parents,

01:40:19.940 her family,

01:40:20.560 but she

01:40:20.880 did

01:40:21.100 something?

01:40:22.880 Oh yeah.

01:40:23.700 Oh yeah.

01:40:24.220 There was

01:40:24.600 another girl.

01:40:25.280 She was

01:40:25.600 like,

01:40:27.420 she was

01:40:28.000 like,

01:40:28.340 in my

01:40:28.760 mind,

01:40:28.980 I thought

01:40:29.220 it was

01:40:29.400 perfect.

01:40:30.160 But then

01:40:30.780 like,

01:40:31.500 we went

01:40:32.160 to DC,

01:40:32.800 like,

01:40:33.180 she paid

01:40:33.620 for the

01:40:33.960 trip to

01:40:34.280 go to

01:40:34.560 DC.

01:40:35.220 Like,

01:40:35.700 we saw

01:40:36.160 one of my

01:40:36.640 favorite

01:40:37.260 DJs in

01:40:38.320 person.

01:40:38.740 I had no

01:40:39.240 idea.

01:40:39.580 Like,

01:40:39.700 she surprised

01:40:40.220 me with it,

01:40:40.840 like,

01:40:41.060 paid for the

01:40:41.480 whole trip

01:40:41.840 and everything.

01:40:42.960 So I'm

01:40:44.100 sitting there

01:40:44.500 like,

01:40:44.900 okay,

01:40:45.560 you know,

01:40:46.220 I like her

01:40:46.740 family.

01:40:47.280 I like her.

01:40:47.840 She's a good

01:40:48.280 girl.

01:40:49.480 But I'm

01:40:50.080 going to be

01:40:50.340 real.

01:40:50.640 We're in

01:40:51.300 the hotel,

01:40:52.380 I think,

01:40:52.900 the night,

01:40:54.060 yeah,

01:40:54.360 the night

01:40:54.700 after,

01:40:55.320 like,

01:40:55.520 the night

01:40:55.840 of,

01:40:56.260 like,

01:40:56.620 us going

01:40:56.960 to the

01:40:57.180 concert,

01:40:58.060 and she

01:40:58.820 leaves her

01:40:59.300 phone,

01:41:00.180 like,

01:41:00.380 she's really

01:41:01.000 drunk,

01:41:01.380 so she

01:41:01.640 leaves her

01:41:02.080 phone,

01:41:02.540 like,

01:41:02.800 on the

01:41:03.120 counter

01:41:03.340 and goes

01:41:03.660 into the

01:41:03.980 shower,

01:41:05.220 and I'm

01:41:06.540 going to be

01:41:06.740 real,

01:41:07.000 I just

01:41:07.280 grabbed the

01:41:07.700 motherfucker.

01:41:08.140 I just

01:41:08.580 grabbed it,

01:41:09.200 and I was

01:41:09.640 like,

01:41:10.480 I just

01:41:10.840 grabbed it,

01:41:11.740 because,

01:41:12.220 like,

01:41:12.340 for a couple

01:41:12.800 weeks,

01:41:13.180 we were

01:41:13.440 dating for,

01:41:14.060 like,

01:41:14.140 maybe,

01:41:14.480 like,

01:41:15.660 four months,

01:41:16.400 but it was,

01:41:16.940 like,

01:41:17.800 I had met

01:41:18.240 her family,

01:41:19.240 I had,

01:41:19.760 like,

01:41:20.500 really thought

01:41:21.340 about it,

01:41:21.900 and this was,

01:41:22.420 like,

01:41:22.540 after me being

01:41:23.420 in,

01:41:23.600 like,

01:41:24.840 a lot of

01:41:25.340 different

01:41:25.600 situationships

01:41:26.340 for,

01:41:26.520 like,

01:41:26.740 five,

01:41:27.060 six years

01:41:27.400 at that

01:41:27.680 point,

01:41:27.920 so I

01:41:28.260 was,

01:41:28.420 like,

01:41:28.620 okay,

01:41:28.840 maybe I

01:41:29.160 want to

01:41:29.500 slow down,

01:41:30.040 right,

01:41:30.880 so I

01:41:32.880 see that

01:41:33.380 she's still

01:41:33.900 texting her

01:41:34.600 ex,

01:41:35.480 and I

01:41:36.100 had told

01:41:36.640 her to

01:41:36.960 dead that,

01:41:37.800 like,

01:41:38.640 maybe a

01:41:39.200 month before,

01:41:39.880 like,

01:41:40.120 I told her,

01:41:40.680 I am out,

01:41:41.320 if I see

01:41:41.740 one more

01:41:42.180 thing with

01:41:42.580 you talking,

01:41:43.020 I'm out,

01:41:43.980 and literally,

01:41:44.920 I,

01:41:45.200 like,

01:41:46.300 she was

01:41:46.660 drunk,

01:41:46.940 so I

01:41:47.180 did not

01:41:48.060 bring it

01:41:48.380 up in

01:41:48.620 the moment,

01:41:49.120 I waited

01:41:49.560 until we

01:41:49.920 were driving

01:41:50.400 back from

01:41:51.460 D.C.

01:41:52.060 to New

01:41:52.380 York,

01:41:53.300 and I

01:41:53.720 say something

01:41:54.300 in the

01:41:54.700 car,

01:41:55.160 oh my

01:41:55.580 god,

01:41:55.800 it was

01:41:56.000 such an

01:41:56.340 argument

01:41:56.680 on the

01:41:57.000 way

01:41:57.120 back,

01:41:58.000 but,

01:41:58.880 yeah,

01:41:59.140 she was

01:41:59.500 real close,

01:42:00.400 like,

01:42:00.660 like,

01:42:01.220 I was

01:42:01.520 legitimately

01:42:01.940 thinking about

01:42:02.500 marrying her,

01:42:03.320 until I

01:42:04.060 saw that

01:42:04.500 message,

01:42:04.880 and then I

01:42:05.120 was,

01:42:05.340 well,

01:42:05.540 I'm

01:42:05.640 completely

01:42:06.020 done.

01:42:06.980 She

01:42:07.260 fumbled,

01:42:07.920 huh?

01:42:07.940 You can't

01:42:08.120 even respect

01:42:08.760 me enough

01:42:09.340 to,

01:42:09.620 like,

01:42:10.000 not talk

01:42:10.560 to this

01:42:10.820 dude

01:42:11.020 anymore,

01:42:11.500 like,

01:42:11.700 that's

01:42:11.880 crazy.

01:42:13.080 Have

01:42:13.280 you noticed,

01:42:13.960 what

01:42:14.600 percent of

01:42:15.120 women want

01:42:15.620 commitment

01:42:16.080 that you've

01:42:16.500 been in

01:42:16.760 situationships

01:42:22.380 I get

01:42:23.700 guys that

01:42:24.200 either say

01:42:24.620 none of

01:42:25.180 them do

01:42:25.520 or all

01:42:25.940 of them

01:42:26.200 do.

01:42:27.680 I polled

01:42:29.680 guys on

01:42:30.520 Twitter,

01:42:31.500 where I

01:42:31.880 had them

01:42:32.220 send me

01:42:32.600 their stats,

01:42:33.280 like,

01:42:33.460 what percent

01:42:33.840 want

01:42:34.060 commitment,

01:42:35.220 and the

01:42:35.760 most common

01:42:36.380 thing is

01:42:36.820 70-80%

01:42:38.260 do or

01:42:38.640 70-80%

01:42:39.720 don't.

01:42:41.160 It's,

01:42:41.440 like,

01:42:41.520 one way

01:42:41.820 or the

01:42:42.060 other.

01:42:43.800 Yeah,

01:42:44.260 I could

01:42:44.520 see that,

01:42:45.280 because,

01:42:45.580 like,

01:42:45.880 some girls,

01:42:46.740 oh,

01:42:46.980 I know

01:42:47.260 some girls

01:42:47.700 don't want

01:42:48.520 commitment.

01:42:49.240 Like,

01:42:49.420 I could

01:42:50.120 ask them

01:42:50.540 100%.

01:42:50.980 I know

01:42:51.300 that.

01:42:51.720 Some of

01:42:52.140 them,

01:42:52.380 I'm

01:42:53.020 going to

01:42:53.160 be real.

01:42:53.620 Some of

01:42:53.900 them just

01:42:54.140 like cheating.

01:42:57.680 If I'm

01:42:58.360 being honest,

01:42:59.960 like,

01:43:00.780 I don't

01:43:03.700 know.

01:43:04.140 Like,

01:43:04.320 I hate

01:43:04.600 saying that,

01:43:05.320 because I'm

01:43:05.640 a very

01:43:06.020 relationship,

01:43:07.080 like,

01:43:07.260 I love

01:43:07.780 trying to

01:43:09.740 have a

01:43:10.080 relationship

01:43:10.440 with a

01:43:10.740 woman where

01:43:11.480 I can

01:43:11.860 have kids

01:43:12.460 and actually

01:43:13.020 trust her.

01:43:13.980 But then

01:43:14.340 it's,

01:43:14.660 like,

01:43:15.700 I see

01:43:16.160 the dark

01:43:16.780 side of,

01:43:17.560 like,

01:43:18.280 psychologically

01:43:18.640 how they

01:43:19.360 act,

01:43:19.640 and I'm

01:43:19.860 like,

01:43:20.200 yo,

01:43:21.420 ah,

01:43:22.140 it's

01:43:23.540 kind

01:43:23.820 of hard

01:43:26.260 to make

01:43:26.660 that decision

01:43:27.240 logically.

01:43:28.320 Like,

01:43:28.440 once you

01:43:29.480 open your

01:43:29.860 mind to

01:43:30.320 that,

01:43:30.580 you're just

01:43:30.860 like,

01:43:31.060 oh,

01:43:31.380 wow.

01:43:31.400 The only

01:43:31.940 way to

01:43:32.380 not lose

01:43:34.940 that game

01:43:35.460 is just

01:43:36.000 to not

01:43:36.320 play,

01:43:36.660 dude.

01:43:37.280 Honestly.

01:43:37.680 I don't

01:43:40.140 play any

01:43:40.620 games anymore.

01:43:41.600 I just

01:43:41.820 tell them

01:43:42.560 what I

01:43:42.760 want.

01:43:43.500 If they

01:43:43.820 don't want

01:43:45.180 to do

01:43:45.480 it,

01:43:45.740 okay,

01:43:46.040 I know

01:43:46.300 where to

01:43:46.580 put you

01:43:46.880 now.

01:43:47.960 I can

01:43:48.520 mess around

01:43:49.020 with you

01:43:49.320 and have

01:43:49.560 fun with

01:43:49.980 you and

01:43:50.420 go to

01:43:51.120 the bar

01:43:51.540 with you.

01:43:52.840 You ain't

01:43:53.540 going to be

01:43:53.980 my shorty.

01:43:55.100 I'm not

01:43:55.540 going to

01:43:55.800 take you

01:43:56.280 I would

01:43:57.060 just

01:43:57.240 never.

01:43:57.860 Why?

01:43:58.860 You're not

01:43:59.480 anything I

01:44:00.080 want,

01:44:00.400 and you're

01:44:00.560 probably not

01:44:00.820 going to

01:44:01.020 change into

01:44:01.540 that.

01:44:01.820 I'm

01:44:04.020 going to

01:44:04.140 read some

01:44:04.460 super

01:44:04.820 chats.

01:44:05.520 Digital

01:44:05.900 money

01:44:06.240 Marcus,

01:44:06.860 being a

01:44:07.320 jerk

01:44:07.660 with Riz

01:44:08.220 is the

01:44:08.540 best way

01:44:08.900 to keep

01:44:09.200 a

01:44:09.320 situation

01:44:09.900 going.

01:44:10.680 No Riz

01:44:11.080 guys,

01:44:11.500 go find

01:44:11.860 the

01:44:12.000 married

01:44:12.300 chicks

01:44:12.640 on

01:44:12.840 dating

01:44:13.080 app

01:44:13.380 and

01:44:13.500 hold

01:44:13.740 that

01:44:13.940 over

01:44:14.200 them.

01:44:15.640 Eric

01:44:16.160 Perez,

01:44:16.820 women

01:44:17.020 invented

01:44:17.480 the

01:44:17.680 talking

01:44:18.080 stage,

01:44:18.580 just

01:44:18.700 basically

01:44:19.140 made

01:44:19.400 everything

01:44:19.740 start

01:44:20.060 up

01:44:20.180 as

01:44:20.320 a

01:44:20.460 situation

01:44:21.000 ship.

01:44:21.420 They

01:44:21.500 created

01:44:21.780 this

01:44:21.980 fake

01:44:22.340 sophisticated

01:44:23.260 dating

01:44:23.780 ritual

01:44:24.140 based

01:44:24.460 on

01:44:24.680 sex

01:44:25.040 in

01:44:25.180 the

01:44:25.320 city

01:44:25.520 modern

01:44:25.900 dating

01:44:26.340 B.

01:44:26.640 S.

01:44:28.220 I

01:44:28.780 mean

01:44:28.980 I

01:44:29.120 think

01:44:29.300 it's

01:44:29.520 just

01:44:29.800 you

01:44:30.000 know

01:44:30.260 we'll

01:44:31.160 take

01:44:31.460 less

01:44:31.880 from

01:44:32.080 a

01:44:32.200 guy

01:44:32.360 we

01:44:32.520 like

01:44:32.840 more

01:44:33.260 so

01:44:34.100 you

01:44:34.720 have

01:44:34.860 to

01:44:34.940 look

01:44:35.100 at

01:44:35.220 feminism

01:44:35.620 it's

01:44:35.960 just

01:44:36.140 a

01:44:36.320 strategy

01:44:36.760 for

01:44:37.000 women

01:44:37.260 to

01:44:37.400 not

01:44:37.600 be

01:44:37.760 with

01:44:37.960 betas

01:44:38.500 or

01:44:38.740 like

01:44:39.120 women

01:44:39.420 men

01:44:39.760 we

01:44:39.980 deem

01:44:40.280 as

01:44:40.460 betas

01:44:40.920 I

01:44:42.160 fucked

01:44:43.800 Katie

01:44:44.260 to

01:44:44.560 meng

01:44:44.980 and

01:44:46.120 we're

01:44:46.280 winning

01:44:46.660 to be

01:44:47.120 honest

01:44:47.640 like

01:44:48.040 I'm

01:44:48.200 just

01:44:48.460 I'm

01:44:48.820 being

01:44:48.960 honest

01:44:49.380 here

01:44:49.660 all

01:44:50.400 the

01:44:50.520 guys

01:44:50.700 are

01:44:50.820 calling

01:44:51.120 in

01:44:51.400 and

01:44:51.580 saying

01:44:51.760 that's

01:44:52.100 the

01:44:52.240 norm

01:44:52.640 so

01:44:53.000 feminism

01:44:53.420 won

01:44:53.880 congrats

01:44:54.440 ladies

01:44:54.900 thanks

01:44:57.260 for

01:44:57.420 calling

01:44:57.640 in

01:44:58.680 the

01:44:59.220 next

01:44:59.400 caller

01:44:59.660 okay

01:44:59.940 yeah

01:45:01.220 no

01:45:01.420 problem

01:45:01.740 guys

01:45:02.180 thanks

01:45:02.880 buddy

01:45:03.120 okay

01:45:04.380 I'm

01:45:05.920 gonna

01:45:06.040 let

01:45:06.260 up

01:45:06.440 Glenn

01:45:06.820 and

01:45:07.200 then

01:45:07.600 Sean

01:45:08.040 is

01:45:08.520 gonna

01:45:08.660 be

01:45:08.820 last

01:45:09.180 and

01:45:09.340 that's

01:45:09.560 gonna

01:45:09.860 be

01:45:09.980 everybody

01:45:10.360 because

01:45:10.660 Glenn

01:45:11.140 is

01:45:11.360 coming

01:45:11.720 in

01:45:12.380 there

01:45:17.240 he

01:45:17.480 is

01:45:17.860 what's

01:45:18.480 going

01:45:18.720 on

01:45:19.080 Glenn

01:45:19.460 yo

01:45:20.440 sis

01:45:20.800 I

01:45:21.120 got

01:45:21.420 a

01:45:21.640 story

01:45:21.920 for

01:45:22.160 you

01:45:22.380 all

01:45:22.620 right

01:45:22.720 so

01:45:22.940 I'm

01:45:23.220 streaming

01:45:23.520 right

01:45:23.760 now

01:45:23.940 on

01:45:24.040 my

01:45:24.160 channel

01:45:24.440 I

01:45:24.860 got

01:45:25.000 this

01:45:25.220 guy

01:45:25.420 named

01:45:25.660 Vlad

01:45:26.060 and

01:45:26.660 Vlad

01:45:27.100 is

01:45:27.440 going

01:45:27.700 through

01:45:28.000 it

01:45:28.160 he

01:45:28.580 is

01:45:29.140 being

01:45:29.320 kept

01:45:29.520 away

01:45:29.740 from

01:45:29.960 both

01:45:30.300 of

01:45:30.460 his

01:45:30.620 kids

01:45:30.940 he

01:45:31.320 has

01:45:31.460 a

01:45:31.600 son

01:45:31.900 and

01:45:32.420 two

01:45:32.660 daughters

01:45:33.100 and

01:45:33.740 Canada

01:45:34.680 is

01:45:36.640 keeping

01:45:37.000 him

01:45:37.160 from

01:45:37.320 his

01:45:37.500 kids

01:45:37.860 yeah

01:45:38.520 so

01:45:39.060 Glenn

01:45:39.320 I

01:45:39.520 don't

01:45:39.740 mind

01:45:40.140 going

01:45:40.820 over

01:45:41.100 that

01:45:41.340 story

01:45:41.740 but

01:45:41.920 right

01:45:42.080 now

01:45:42.200 we

01:45:42.300 have

01:45:42.500 a

01:45:42.620 topic

01:45:43.140 oh

01:45:43.920 situations

01:45:44.400 yeah

01:45:44.880 today

01:45:45.160 we're

01:45:45.320 talking

01:45:45.480 yeah

01:45:45.920 so

01:45:46.280 a

01:45:52.380 what's

01:45:52.520 been

01:45:52.660 your

01:45:52.820 longest

01:45:53.240 situationship

01:45:54.520 on average

01:45:55.540 how long

01:45:56.020 have they

01:45:56.260 lasted

01:45:56.800 and have

01:45:57.160 you ever

01:45:57.420 promoted

01:45:57.940 a

01:45:58.180 situationship

01:45:59.120 go ahead

01:45:59.600 damn

01:46:01.020 this is a

01:46:01.440 confession

01:46:01.860 hour

01:46:02.180 so

01:46:03.740 my

01:46:04.920 situation

01:46:05.460 I'm

01:46:06.300 always in

01:46:06.980 a situationship

01:46:07.820 there's always

01:46:08.200 a situation

01:46:08.760 I'm in

01:46:09.200 you ever

01:46:11.980 falling in

01:46:12.540 love with

01:46:12.940 a situationship

01:46:14.200 it's

01:46:16.720 always

01:46:16.940 my

01:46:17.160 fault

01:46:17.480 what am I

01:46:24.440 gonna say

01:46:24.980 like

01:46:25.900 I find

01:46:27.100 myself

01:46:27.520 in

01:46:27.660 these

01:46:27.800 situations

01:46:28.480 Doug

01:46:32.680 help me

01:46:33.120 out

01:46:33.320 man

01:46:33.580 it's

01:46:33.780 not

01:46:33.900 my

01:46:34.100 fault

01:46:34.500 so

01:46:35.340 so

01:46:36.060 tell

01:46:36.360 me

01:46:36.660 what

01:46:37.120 percent

01:46:37.480 of

01:46:37.660 the

01:46:37.820 situationships

01:46:38.800 you've

01:46:39.040 been

01:46:39.220 in

01:46:39.420 wanted

01:46:39.800 to

01:46:40.060 commit

01:46:40.320 to

01:46:40.560 you

01:46:40.780 like

01:46:41.120 wanted

01:46:41.400 to

01:46:41.560 be

01:46:41.660 in

01:46:41.760 a

01:46:41.840 relationship

01:46:42.380 well

01:46:43.860 they

01:46:44.000 all

01:46:44.200 did

01:46:44.620 that

01:46:45.360 was

01:46:45.520 my

01:46:45.720 problem

01:46:46.280 I fell

01:46:48.840 for

01:46:49.040 the

01:46:49.200 situationship

01:46:50.260 and

01:46:50.520 then

01:46:50.700 yeah

01:46:51.060 really

01:46:51.740 so

01:46:51.980 out

01:46:52.140 of

01:46:52.220 100

01:46:52.640 let's

01:46:53.120 say

01:46:53.460 100

01:46:54.120 wanted

01:46:54.520 to be

01:46:54.760 in

01:46:54.860 a

01:46:54.960 relationship

01:46:55.460 with

01:46:55.780 you

01:46:55.980 none

01:46:56.740 just

01:46:56.980 wanted

01:46:57.220 the

01:46:57.420 sex

01:46:57.720 and

01:46:57.920 went

01:46:58.180 oh

01:46:58.400 no

01:46:58.580 no

01:46:58.760 no

01:46:58.900 no

01:46:59.100 no

01:46:59.220 no

01:46:59.320 no

01:46:59.500 you're

01:46:59.720 talking

01:46:59.920 about

01:47:00.180 okay

01:47:00.540 okay

01:47:00.880 yeah

01:47:01.240 yeah

01:47:01.420 so

01:47:01.640 go ahead

01:47:03.380 the ones

01:47:03.980 that

01:47:04.120 would call

01:47:04.980 me

01:47:16.280 like

01:47:16.640 a

01:47:18.000 quarter

01:47:18.320 a

01:47:18.900 quarter

01:47:19.180 they

01:47:19.400 just

01:47:19.600 want

01:47:19.820 the

01:47:19.980 saxon

01:47:20.460 to

01:47:20.580 go

01:47:20.880 yeah

01:47:22.160 yeah

01:47:22.500 and

01:47:22.660 what

01:47:22.820 was

01:47:23.060 their

01:47:23.240 reasoning

01:47:23.680 do

01:47:23.920 you

01:47:24.020 think

01:47:24.180 it

01:47:24.280 was

01:47:24.400 because

01:47:24.820 they're

01:47:25.600 they

01:47:26.040 were

01:47:26.160 they

01:47:26.540 they

01:47:26.740 were

01:47:26.840 richer

01:47:27.140 than

01:47:27.320 me

01:47:27.580 oh

01:47:28.580 okay

01:47:28.860 so

01:47:29.180 yeah

01:47:29.340 they

01:47:29.480 just

01:47:29.660 wanted

01:47:29.940 to

01:47:30.840 okay

01:47:32.460 yeah

01:47:33.340 that's

01:47:33.600 what I

01:47:33.760 said

01:47:33.980 I couldn't buy

01:47:34.120 them

01:47:34.260 dinner

01:47:34.540 actually

01:47:35.000 yeah

01:47:36.060 that's

01:47:36.300 what I

01:47:36.560 was

01:47:36.720 saying

01:47:37.140 were

01:47:37.400 there's

01:47:37.700 situationships

01:47:38.620 where

01:47:38.820 the

01:47:38.940 women

01:47:39.340 don't

01:47:39.840 want

01:47:40.060 it

01:47:40.180 because

01:47:40.360 you're

01:47:40.520 like

01:47:40.660 the

01:47:40.820 bartender

01:47:41.600 you're

01:47:42.000 the

01:47:42.240 what

01:47:42.740 like

01:47:43.020 they

01:47:43.200 don't

01:47:43.420 see

01:47:43.640 the

01:47:43.980 you

01:47:44.860 being

01:47:45.120 a

01:47:45.300 serious

01:47:45.660 thing

01:47:46.300 and

01:47:46.980 then

01:47:47.100 there's

01:47:47.320 situations

01:47:47.820 where

01:47:48.020 the

01:47:48.140 men

01:47:48.360 don't

01:47:48.580 want

01:47:48.860 it

01:47:49.060 for

01:47:49.320 you're

01:47:49.600 either

01:47:49.760 crazy

01:47:50.200 or

01:47:50.380 not

01:47:50.560 hot

01:47:50.880 enough

01:47:51.220 would

01:47:51.600 you say

01:47:51.780 that's

01:47:52.000 accurate

01:47:52.320 I

01:47:52.600 don't

01:47:52.720 know

01:47:52.900 why

01:47:53.400 it

01:47:53.800 wasn't

01:47:54.080 that I

01:47:54.400 wasn't

01:47:54.720 hot

01:47:54.980 enough

01:47:55.380 it

01:47:55.960 was

01:47:56.240 it

01:47:56.660 was

01:47:56.780 that

01:47:56.920 I

01:47:57.040 was

01:47:57.200 just

01:47:57.400 too

01:47:57.660 poor

01:47:58.140 I

01:47:59.380 don't

01:47:59.540 understand

01:47:59.980 why

01:48:00.220 a

01:48:00.420 guy

01:48:00.660 would

01:48:00.840 want

01:48:01.080 to

01:48:01.260 would

01:48:02.060 be

01:48:02.220 in a

01:48:02.400 situation

01:48:02.760 with

01:48:03.320 a

01:48:03.480 woman

01:48:03.800 who

01:48:04.680 made

01:48:04.980 a

01:48:05.100 lot

01:48:05.200 more

01:48:05.400 money

01:48:05.760 than

01:48:05.940 him

01:48:06.260 would

01:48:07.460 want

01:48:07.660 to

01:48:07.780 commit

01:48:08.020 to

01:48:08.160 that

01:48:08.320 woman

01:48:08.580 because

01:48:08.960 she's

01:48:09.800 going to

01:48:09.980 cheat

01:48:10.180 him

01:48:10.280 like

01:48:10.420 garbage

01:48:10.880 you

01:48:13.040 got to

01:48:14.040 turn

01:48:14.220 off

01:48:14.420 this

01:48:14.660 someone's

01:48:15.600 oh

01:48:15.920 yeah

01:48:16.320 my bad

01:48:17.320 I

01:48:20.220 don't

01:48:20.460 know

01:48:20.740 I

01:48:20.900 think

01:48:21.140 it

01:48:21.740 depends

01:48:22.180 on

01:48:22.380 the

01:48:22.500 dynamic

01:48:23.280 like

01:48:24.640 like

01:48:24.960 look

01:48:25.260 I

01:48:25.860 was

01:48:26.140 great

01:48:26.980 for

01:48:27.480 rent

01:48:28.760 and

01:48:29.220 and

01:48:29.660 some

01:48:30.140 of

01:48:30.240 the

01:48:30.320 pukies

01:48:30.680 get

01:48:30.860 the

01:48:31.020 women

01:48:31.240 to

01:48:31.400 pay

01:48:31.620 rent

01:48:32.000 and

01:48:32.160 they

01:48:32.300 get

01:48:32.520 submissive

01:48:33.160 behavior

01:48:33.680 you

01:48:33.880 know

01:48:33.980 what

01:48:34.080 I

01:48:34.160 mean

01:48:34.460 like

01:48:35.680 like

01:48:35.940 like

01:48:35.980 the

01:48:36.320 great

01:48:37.100 thing

01:48:37.300 about

01:48:37.520 those

01:48:37.760 situations

01:48:38.220 is

01:48:38.620 like

01:48:38.800 because

01:48:39.100 I

01:48:39.820 was

01:48:40.040 just

01:48:40.260 the

01:48:40.460 late

01:48:40.680 night

01:48:41.020 like

01:48:41.660 I

01:48:41.840 was

01:48:42.000 just

01:48:42.140 a

01:48:42.280 late

01:48:42.460 night

01:48:42.740 call

01:48:43.200 you

01:48:44.120 know

01:48:44.240 what

01:48:44.340 I

01:48:44.380 was

01:48:44.480 saying

01:48:44.720 I

01:48:45.360 was

01:48:45.600 nothing

01:48:45.900 more

01:48:46.160 than

01:48:46.340 that

01:48:46.660 and

01:48:47.580 that

01:48:49.000 made

01:48:49.380 it

01:48:49.580 a lot

01:48:49.920 easier

01:48:50.460 because

01:48:51.260 like

01:48:51.580 I

01:48:52.300 didn't

01:48:52.520 have

01:48:52.720 to

01:48:52.840 do

01:48:52.980 the

01:48:53.120 whining

01:48:53.420 and

01:48:53.660 dining

01:48:54.000 everything

01:48:54.820 else

01:48:55.140 that

01:48:55.260 these

01:48:55.420 other

01:48:55.580 guys

01:48:55.820 are

01:48:55.920 doing

01:48:56.160 they

01:48:56.300 doing

01:48:56.520 the

01:48:56.640 whining

01:48:56.880 and

01:48:57.080 dining

01:48:57.320 I

01:48:57.840 didn't

01:48:58.020 do

01:48:58.140 the

01:48:58.260 whining

01:48:58.500 and

01:48:58.680 dining

01:48:58.940 I

01:48:59.600 did

01:49:00.020 the

01:49:00.440 you

01:49:01.540 know

01:49:01.840 the

01:49:02.300 stocking

01:49:02.700 and

01:49:02.880 I

01:49:03.540 can't

01:49:03.840 say

01:49:04.020 that

01:49:04.180 on

01:49:04.340 YouTube

01:49:04.700 they

01:49:07.600 were

01:49:07.820 used

01:49:08.120 to

01:49:08.300 me

01:49:08.500 spending

01:49:09.000 and

01:49:10.000 I

01:49:10.120 wasn't

01:49:10.420 spending

01:49:10.860 would

01:49:11.220 they

01:49:11.360 ever

01:49:11.600 bring

01:49:11.900 you

01:49:12.200 food

01:49:13.940 from

01:49:14.220 their

01:49:14.420 date

01:49:14.780 that

01:49:15.020 the

01:49:15.140 guy

01:49:15.460 brought

01:49:15.820 yo

01:49:17.500 this

01:49:18.220 one

01:49:19.220 went

01:49:19.420 to

01:49:19.560 a

01:49:19.720 steak

01:49:19.940 house

01:49:20.220 I

01:49:20.660 was

01:49:20.780 like

01:49:20.900 make

01:49:21.220 sure

01:49:21.340 you

01:49:21.500 bring

01:49:21.720 me

01:49:21.880 a

01:49:22.040 T-bone

01:49:22.360 back

01:49:22.680 I

01:49:23.340 was

01:49:23.580 joking

01:49:24.100 there

01:49:25.640 the

01:49:25.820 t-bone

01:49:26.180 that

01:49:31.140 is

01:49:31.640 the

01:49:32.900 game

01:49:33.280 how

01:49:34.240 long

01:49:34.540 do

01:49:34.660 the

01:49:34.780 situationship

01:49:35.720 stick

01:49:36.040 around

01:49:36.480 until

01:49:36.800 they

01:49:37.100 realize

01:49:38.480 you're

01:49:38.680 not

01:49:38.840 going

01:49:38.940 to

01:49:39.020 commit

01:49:39.320 or

01:49:39.720 they

01:49:40.100 are

01:49:40.440 done

01:49:40.720 with

01:49:40.900 the

01:49:41.040 fun

01:49:41.380 did

01:49:41.960 you

01:49:42.060 see

01:49:42.180 a

01:49:42.320 difference

01:49:42.640 in

01:49:42.860 how

01:49:43.020 long

01:49:43.380 the

01:49:44.360 rich

01:49:44.640 women

01:49:44.900 about

01:49:45.180 three

01:49:45.580 months

01:49:46.160 okay

01:49:46.760 three

01:49:47.080 months

01:49:47.360 on

01:49:47.480 average

01:49:47.840 okay

01:49:48.240 what

01:49:49.240 about

01:49:49.480 the

01:49:49.700 wealthy

01:49:50.180 the

01:49:50.540 women

01:49:50.780 that

01:49:50.960 made

01:49:51.220 more

01:49:51.560 that

01:49:51.900 just

01:49:52.100 wanted

01:49:52.320 you

01:49:52.480 fun

01:49:52.980 how

01:49:53.180 long

01:49:53.480 do

01:49:53.580 they

01:49:53.700 wanted

01:49:54.360 me

01:49:54.540 to

01:49:54.660 be

01:49:54.800 like

01:49:55.000 a

01:49:55.120 little

01:49:55.240 pet

01:49:55.680 like

01:49:55.960 you

01:49:56.080 know

01:49:56.140 what

01:49:56.260 I'm

01:49:56.280 saying

01:49:56.380 like

01:49:56.560 they

01:49:56.700 just

01:49:56.840 want

01:49:56.980 to

01:49:57.060 be

01:49:57.140 able

01:49:57.260 to

01:49:57.300 call

01:49:57.500 me

01:49:57.700 up

01:49:57.880 and

01:49:58.000 like

01:49:58.280 hey

01:49:58.680 come

01:49:58.880 on

01:49:59.060 over

01:49:59.400 like

01:50:00.020 and

01:50:00.180 like

01:50:00.420 like

01:50:00.740 like

01:50:00.780 like

01:50:00.980 this

01:50:01.420 is

01:50:01.620 not

01:50:01.880 a

01:50:02.040 fucking

01:50:02.320 service

01:50:02.780 okay

01:50:03.100 I

01:50:03.580 got

01:50:03.760 a

01:50:03.920 life

01:50:04.320 woman

01:50:04.980 yeah

01:50:06.500 it's

01:50:06.700 like

01:50:06.820 treat

01:50:07.060 me

01:50:07.240 like

01:50:07.400 a

01:50:07.560 human

01:50:07.860 being

01:50:08.460 I

01:50:08.680 got

01:50:09.080 feelings

01:50:09.620 too

01:50:09.980 I'm

01:50:10.160 not

01:50:10.320 just

01:50:10.480 a

01:50:10.640 piece

01:50:10.900 of

01:50:11.080 meat

01:50:11.400 was

01:50:12.620 that

01:50:12.780 tough

01:50:13.060 for

01:50:13.200 you

01:50:13.380 being

01:50:13.580 treated

01:50:13.860 like

01:50:14.100 a

01:50:14.220 piece

01:50:25.120 I

01:50:27.640 here

01:50:28.820 we

01:50:28.920 go

01:50:29.160 man

01:50:29.540 dingo

01:50:29.940 so

01:50:30.760 when I

01:50:31.480 met

01:50:31.660 this

01:50:31.860 woman

01:50:32.140 in

01:50:32.500 college

01:50:32.840 she

01:50:34.420 you

01:50:36.180 know

01:50:36.300 I

01:50:36.980 worked

01:50:37.200 two

01:50:37.420 jobs

01:50:37.760 in

01:50:37.900 college

01:50:38.380 I

01:50:39.060 went to

01:50:39.380 school

01:50:39.520 full-time

01:50:39.980 and I

01:50:40.320 was on

01:50:40.680 a

01:50:40.860 lifting

01:50:41.120 team

01:50:41.500 and

01:50:42.440 this

01:50:43.520 girl

01:50:43.960 she

01:50:45.560 worked

01:50:46.400 at a

01:50:47.100 casino

01:50:47.440 and she

01:50:48.060 worked

01:50:48.380 at the

01:50:48.840 high stakes

01:50:49.620 blackjack

01:50:50.660 room

01:50:51.040 as a

01:50:51.740 cocktail

01:50:52.340 waitress

01:50:52.820 so

01:50:53.700 she

01:50:53.960 was

01:50:54.180 like

01:50:54.420 25

01:50:55.380 and

01:50:55.800 she

01:50:56.000 had

01:50:56.140 a

01:50:56.400 bin

01:50:56.800 in

01:50:57.020 her

01:50:57.140 own

01:50:57.300 house

01:50:57.580 and

01:50:57.700 stuff

01:50:57.840 like

01:50:58.000 that

01:50:58.220 and

01:50:58.460 I

01:50:59.000 met

01:50:59.400 her

01:50:59.500 in

01:50:59.660 college

01:51:00.100 and

01:51:00.960 I'm

01:51:01.100 like

01:51:01.200 why

01:51:01.420 are you

01:51:01.580 going

01:51:01.720 to

01:51:01.860 school

01:51:02.160 you

01:51:02.720 make

01:51:03.060 so

01:51:03.200 much

01:51:03.340 money

01:51:03.560 at

01:51:03.760 your

01:51:03.880 job

01:51:04.240 she said

01:51:04.500 I

01:51:04.620 hate

01:51:04.800 my

01:51:04.960 job

01:51:05.300 because

01:51:05.480 you

01:51:05.560 have

01:51:05.700 to

01:51:05.800 walk

01:51:06.000 around

01:51:06.220 in

01:51:06.340 this

01:51:06.480 little

01:51:06.680 outfit

01:51:07.080 and

01:51:07.280 all

01:51:07.400 this

01:51:07.540 whatever

01:51:07.820 so

01:51:08.160 and

01:51:09.000 I

01:51:09.140 only

01:51:09.500 saw

01:51:11.840 her

01:51:11.980 a

01:51:12.080 couple

01:51:12.260 of

01:51:12.640 the

01:51:12.700 week

01:51:12.880 because

01:51:13.040 I

01:51:13.120 had

01:51:13.240 to

01:51:13.320 work

01:51:13.500 to

01:51:14.120 school

01:51:24.420 could

01:51:24.580 have

01:51:24.740 had

01:51:24.900 it

01:51:25.040 made

01:51:25.420 what

01:51:25.620 did

01:51:25.800 you

01:51:25.980 do

01:51:26.020 you

01:51:26.160 tell

01:51:26.300 her

01:51:26.400 no

01:51:26.620 I

01:51:27.220 told

01:51:27.540 her

01:51:27.680 no

01:51:27.900 I'm

01:51:28.300 not

01:51:28.420 going

01:51:28.500 to

01:51:28.580 do

01:51:28.700 that

01:51:29.020 no

01:51:29.420 way

01:51:29.600 you

01:51:29.760 would

01:51:29.940 have

01:51:30.040 been

01:51:30.220 hired

01:51:30.780 cock

01:51:31.320 yeah

01:51:32.380 no

01:51:32.680 thanks

01:51:33.100 no

01:51:34.380 I

01:51:35.180 will

01:51:35.980 never

01:51:36.140 be

01:51:36.300 a

01:51:36.460 captain

01:51:36.760 man

01:51:37.140 no

01:51:37.420 way

01:51:37.920 she

01:51:40.020 said

01:51:41.280 I

01:51:42.040 want

01:51:42.220 to

01:51:42.320 buy

01:51:42.540 you

01:51:42.720 a

01:51:42.900 phone

01:51:43.320 so

01:51:44.520 you

01:51:44.740 can

01:51:45.060 have

01:51:45.240 your

01:51:45.380 phone

01:51:45.680 but

01:51:45.920 you

01:51:46.520 have

01:51:46.760 another

01:51:47.160 phone

01:51:47.460 you

01:51:47.480 have

01:51:47.680 the

01:51:47.860 back

01:51:48.180 call

01:51:48.540 and

01:51:49.000 phone

01:51:49.940 rings

01:51:50.440 I'm

01:51:50.700 gonna

01:51:50.800 be

01:51:50.960 the

01:51:51.100 only

01:51:51.320 person

01:51:51.720 with

01:51:51.980 the

01:51:52.160 number

01:51:52.480 so

01:51:53.100 when

01:51:53.260 I

01:51:53.380 call

01:51:53.660 it

01:51:53.780 you

01:51:53.880 have

01:51:54.060 to

01:51:54.180 pick

01:51:54.360 up

01:51:54.600 I

01:51:54.880 was

01:51:55.080 like

01:51:55.320 nope

01:51:55.780 sorry

01:51:56.480 hey

01:51:57.420 did

01:51:57.680 she

01:51:57.860 have

01:51:58.060 a

01:51:58.200 dug

01:51:58.440 MPA

01:51:58.880 signal

01:51:59.320 she

01:51:59.520 would

01:51:59.600 like

01:51:59.740 put

01:51:59.920 out

01:52:00.140 out

01:52:00.380 her

01:52:00.500 window

01:52:00.800 that

01:52:02.440 was

01:52:02.600 the

01:52:02.760 plan

01:52:03.140 that

01:52:03.640 was

01:52:03.780 you

01:52:03.900 had to

01:52:04.060 come

01:52:04.240 in

01:52:04.380 there

01:52:04.500 like

01:52:04.720 blank

01:52:05.020 man

01:52:05.320 you

01:52:05.540 remember

01:52:05.720 blank

01:52:06.040 man

01:52:06.380 I

01:52:06.860 remember

01:52:07.040 blank

01:52:07.340 man

01:52:07.580 yep

01:52:07.860 but

01:52:09.700 yeah

01:52:09.980 I

01:52:10.420 had

01:52:10.600 to

01:52:10.720 say

01:52:10.880 no

01:52:11.180 I

01:52:11.420 said

01:52:11.620 nope

01:52:11.940 I

01:52:12.120 not

01:52:12.360 that

01:52:12.540 guy

01:52:12.820 nope

01:52:13.500 never

01:52:14.880 be a

01:52:15.140 cat

01:52:15.340 man

01:52:15.640 no

01:52:15.860 way

01:52:16.100 hey

01:52:17.140 so

01:52:17.460 I'm

01:52:17.860 gonna

01:52:17.980 dip

01:52:18.200 but

01:52:18.440 I'm

01:52:18.760 gonna

01:52:18.880 give

01:52:19.280 this

01:52:19.900 guy

01:52:20.100 Vlad

01:52:20.460 your

01:52:20.680 email

01:52:21.060 like

01:52:22.280 you

01:52:22.680 want

01:52:23.000 to

01:52:23.120 do

01:52:23.320 an

01:52:23.560 interview

01:52:23.820 with

01:52:24.040 him

01:52:24.200 trust

01:52:24.480 me

01:52:24.740 okay

01:52:25.380 alright

01:52:26.180 thanks

01:52:26.600 for

01:52:26.780 calling

01:52:27.080 in

01:52:27.360 Glenn

01:52:27.720 alright

01:52:28.640 you

01:52:28.740 guys

01:52:28.940 peace

01:52:29.480 we

01:52:32.640 got

01:52:32.860 Sean

01:52:33.300 coming

01:52:33.640 in

01:52:34.000 is

01:52:34.680 that

01:52:34.900 Sean

01:52:35.800 from

01:52:36.380 overseas

01:52:38.360 I

01:52:38.600 wrote

01:52:38.780 Asian

01:52:39.080 countries

01:52:39.620 and

01:52:39.880 that

01:52:40.100 Sean

01:52:40.420 or

01:52:40.600 the

01:52:40.880 other

01:52:41.060 Sean

01:52:41.440 hello

01:52:45.440 can you

01:52:47.140 guys

01:52:47.300 hear

01:52:47.460 me

01:52:47.720 okay

01:52:48.960 go ahead

01:52:50.640 I

01:52:51.160 dropped

01:52:51.360 you

01:52:51.480 out

01:52:51.600 for

01:52:51.700 a

01:52:51.800 second

01:52:51.960 go

01:52:52.240 ahead

01:52:52.360 I

01:52:52.720 asked

01:52:53.600 what

01:52:53.820 Sean

01:52:54.200 is

01:52:56.020 calling

01:52:56.300 in

01:52:56.580 oh

01:52:57.420 you

01:52:57.700 are

01:52:57.840 Sean

01:52:58.160 okay

01:52:58.940 cool

01:52:59.380 hey

01:53:00.440 that's

01:53:01.100 my

01:53:01.220 spirit

01:53:01.500 animal

01:53:01.860 hey

01:53:02.560 Sean

01:53:02.860 welcome

01:53:03.240 to

01:53:03.440 the

01:53:03.580 show

01:53:03.960 hey

01:53:04.960 guys

01:53:05.420 so

01:53:07.400 tell me

01:53:07.880 about

01:53:08.060 your

01:53:08.220 situation

01:53:08.980 ships

01:53:09.580 yeah

01:53:10.920 I

01:53:11.060 mean

01:53:11.200 I

01:53:11.320 had

01:53:11.480 a

01:53:11.600 situationship

01:53:12.320 in

01:53:12.460 college

01:53:12.800 for

01:53:13.040 about

01:53:13.420 a

01:53:14.000 few

01:53:14.180 years

01:53:14.420 so

01:53:14.540 freshman

01:53:14.860 and

01:53:15.040 sophomore

01:53:15.300 year

01:53:15.640 and

01:53:15.880 then

01:53:16.100 my

01:53:16.560 other

01:53:16.800 situationships

01:53:17.720 the girls

01:53:18.200 were like

01:53:18.620 22

01:53:19.740 25

01:53:20.580 and then

01:53:21.480 31

01:53:22.020 33

01:53:22.540 and

01:53:22.980 they

01:53:23.200 last

01:53:23.520 about

01:53:23.820 I

01:53:24.000 would

01:53:24.120 say

01:53:24.480 on average

01:53:25.960 those ones

01:53:26.440 lasted

01:53:26.760 about six

01:53:27.600 months

01:53:28.000 post college

01:53:28.780 so

01:53:29.480 I mean

01:53:29.760 that's

01:53:30.060 kind of

01:53:30.240 what I've

01:53:30.520 seen

01:53:30.760 I would

01:53:31.020 say

01:53:31.120 age

01:53:31.420 range

01:53:31.680 wise

01:53:32.060 girls

01:53:32.840 are

01:53:33.000 accepting

01:53:33.440 of a

01:53:33.720 situationship

01:53:34.460 from

01:53:34.640 like

01:53:34.880 18

01:53:35.540 to

01:53:35.820 like

01:53:36.140 maybe

01:53:37.020 27

01:53:37.660 max

01:53:38.140 and

01:53:38.380 then

01:53:38.540 you

01:53:38.800 start

01:53:39.060 to

01:53:39.180 see

01:53:39.340 a

01:53:39.480 break

01:53:39.760 from

01:53:39.940 like

01:53:40.120 28

01:53:40.600 29

01:53:41.120 and

01:53:41.600 then

01:53:41.800 it

01:53:42.320 starts

01:53:42.600 up

01:53:42.760 again

01:53:42.980 in

01:53:43.280 the

01:53:43.400 30s

01:53:43.880 like

01:53:44.080 when

01:53:44.220 they

01:53:44.340 get

01:53:44.460 a

01:53:44.560 little

01:53:44.680 bit

01:53:44.820 more

01:53:44.980 desperate

01:53:45.360 so

01:53:45.660 like

01:53:46.000 you

01:53:46.540 know

01:53:46.660 I

01:53:46.960 think

01:53:47.400 you

01:53:47.580 can

01:53:47.720 kind

01:53:47.880 of

01:53:48.000 bucket

01:53:48.260 them

01:53:48.500 into

01:53:48.700 age

01:53:49.000 groups

01:53:49.240 if

01:53:49.400 that

01:53:49.560 makes

01:53:49.760 sense

01:53:50.000 like

01:53:50.220 young

01:53:50.500 girls

01:53:50.920 they're

01:53:51.620 not

01:53:51.760 looking

01:53:52.000 to

01:53:52.160 settle

01:53:52.340 down

01:53:52.620 right

01:53:52.840 like

01:53:53.080 most

01:53:53.700 of

01:53:53.820 these

01:53:53.960 girls

01:53:54.200 are

01:53:54.360 running

01:53:54.520 through

01:53:54.680 multiple

01:53:54.980 dicks

01:53:55.240 a

01:53:55.360 year

01:53:55.440 like

01:53:55.640 they

01:53:55.800 they

01:53:56.080 don't

01:53:56.280 care

01:53:56.700 unless

01:53:57.440 they

01:53:57.600 get

01:53:57.740 like

01:53:57.920 an

01:53:58.080 unbelievable

01:53:58.700 option

01:53:59.260 in

01:53:59.400 their

01:53:59.520 mind

01:53:59.760 that's

01:54:00.020 worth

01:54:00.220 settling

01:54:00.540 down

01:54:00.860 for

01:54:01.160 for

01:54:01.360 the

01:54:01.480 most

01:54:01.680 part

01:54:01.900 they'd

01:54:02.160 rather

01:54:02.320 just

01:54:02.580 chase

01:54:02.860 fun

01:54:03.100 and

01:54:03.240 excitement

01:54:03.600 with

01:54:03.820 attractive

01:54:04.160 guys

01:54:04.560 whatever

01:54:05.240 excites

01:54:05.680 their

01:54:05.840 emotions

01:54:06.240 right

01:54:06.580 of

01:54:07.340 like

01:54:07.620 once

01:54:08.140 they

01:54:08.260 get

01:54:08.400 to

01:54:08.520 their

01:54:08.660 late

01:54:08.920 late

01:54:09.140 20s

01:54:09.740 and

01:54:10.080 I'm

01:54:10.360 here

01:54:10.500 in

01:54:10.640 Texas

01:54:10.880 so

01:54:11.060 things

01:54:11.200 are

01:54:11.300 a

01:54:11.380 little

01:54:11.460 bit

01:54:11.600 more

01:54:11.780 conservative

01:54:12.160 people

01:54:12.500 usually

01:54:12.760 tend

01:54:13.000 to

01:54:13.120 settle

01:54:13.320 a

01:54:13.620 little

01:54:13.780 bit

01:54:13.940 early

01:54:14.220 relative

01:54:14.800 to

01:54:14.960 the

01:54:25.800 commitment

01:54:25.960 from

01:54:26.920 and

01:54:27.680 you

01:54:27.900 got

01:54:28.960 about

01:54:29.160 six

01:54:29.440 months

01:54:29.680 to

01:54:29.840 make

01:54:30.000 it

01:54:30.060 official

01:54:30.300 with

01:54:30.500 them

01:54:30.660 or

01:54:30.940 they're

01:54:31.120 going

01:54:31.220 to

01:54:31.320 bounce

01:54:31.660 and

01:54:32.540 then

01:54:32.680 I

01:54:55.800 make

01:54:55.920 sense

01:54:56.200 did

01:54:56.620 you

01:54:56.760 ever

01:54:57.020 take

01:54:57.380 a

01:54:57.520 woman

01:54:57.700 seriously

01:54:58.360 who

01:54:58.680 you

01:54:58.860 initially

01:54:59.280 didn't

01:54:59.620 think

01:54:59.860 you

01:55:00.020 would

01:55:00.320 yeah

01:55:01.700 I

01:55:01.960 actually

01:55:02.300 did

01:55:02.860 and

01:55:03.240 I

01:55:03.420 kept

01:55:03.660 putting

01:55:03.940 it

01:55:04.100 off

01:55:04.340 so

01:55:04.520 I

01:55:04.980 gave

01:55:05.200 her

01:55:05.300 commitment

01:55:05.600 after

01:55:05.880 six

01:55:06.240 months

01:55:06.640 and

01:55:08.220 the

01:55:08.420 reason

01:55:08.620 was

01:55:08.860 she

01:55:09.060 was

01:55:09.180 just

01:55:09.320 very

01:55:09.660 traditional

01:55:10.180 she's

01:55:10.640 very

01:55:10.900 feminine

01:55:11.280 she

01:55:12.160 had

01:55:12.240 a

01:55:12.320 very

01:55:12.480 attractive

01:55:12.840 body

01:55:13.280 she

01:55:14.060 didn't

01:55:14.160 have

01:55:14.260 any

01:55:14.440 debt

01:55:14.840 she

01:55:15.080 had

01:55:15.180 good

01:55:15.320 habits

01:55:15.760 she

01:55:16.060 put

01:55:16.240 out

01:55:16.440 frequently

01:55:16.960 and

01:55:17.800 she

01:55:17.920 was

01:55:18.080 loyal

01:55:18.400 to

01:55:18.600 a

01:55:18.780 fault

01:55:19.040 I

01:55:25.800 recognizes

01:55:26.440 you

01:55:26.760 know

01:55:26.880 a

01:55:27.020 girl

01:55:27.120 has

01:55:27.360 these

01:55:27.520 qualities

01:55:28.020 and

01:55:28.480 she's

01:55:28.960 you

01:55:29.100 know

01:55:29.220 doing

01:55:29.560 it

01:55:29.760 consistently

01:55:30.360 you

01:55:31.280 know

01:55:31.500 you

01:55:31.680 have

01:55:31.880 about

01:55:32.080 six

01:55:32.360 months

01:55:32.580 to

01:55:32.740 give

01:55:32.880 her

01:55:32.960 that

01:55:33.080 commitment

01:55:33.400 because

01:55:33.640 eventually

01:55:33.940 some

01:55:34.200 guy

01:55:34.460 else

01:55:34.780 will

01:55:34.960 come

01:55:35.140 along

01:55:35.420 and

01:55:35.580 take

01:55:35.780 her

01:55:35.980 and

01:55:36.560 you

01:55:36.820 know

01:55:36.940 you're

01:55:37.080 not

01:55:37.220 going

01:55:37.360 to

01:55:37.640 see

01:55:38.040 that

01:55:38.260 every

01:55:38.500 so

01:55:38.760 often

01:55:39.120 so

01:55:39.700 you

01:55:40.460 know

01:55:40.560 if

01:55:40.740 you

01:55:40.860 do

01:55:40.980 like

01:55:41.240 her

01:55:41.400 I

01:55:41.700 would

01:55:41.860 say

01:55:42.120 it's

01:55:42.420 worth

01:55:42.600 promoting

01:55:43.020 her

01:55:43.180 absolutely

01:55:43.640 what

01:55:44.240 was

01:55:44.420 your

01:55:44.580 longest

01:55:45.060 situation

01:55:45.760 Chip

01:55:46.140 longest

01:55:55.800 I

01:55:56.400 would

01:55:56.600 say

01:55:56.760 she

01:55:56.960 wanted

01:55:57.220 commitment

01:55:57.680 pretty

01:55:58.400 much

01:55:58.600 all

01:55:58.800 the

01:55:58.920 situations

01:55:59.340 I've

01:55:59.700 been

01:55:59.820 with

01:56:00.040 the

01:56:00.320 girls

01:56:00.740 want

01:56:01.020 commitment

01:56:01.460 I'm

01:56:02.460 just

01:56:02.600 the

01:56:02.740 type

01:56:02.920 to

01:56:03.020 never

01:56:03.200 ask

01:56:03.440 for

01:56:03.600 commitment

01:56:03.940 in my

01:56:04.560 opinion

01:56:04.820 like

01:56:05.200 I'm

01:56:05.360 not

01:56:05.540 seeking

01:56:05.860 a

01:56:06.060 relationship

01:56:06.580 if

01:56:06.880 the

01:56:07.020 girl

01:56:07.180 wants

01:56:07.500 it

01:56:07.620 she

01:56:07.780 should

01:56:07.940 be

01:56:08.080 asking

01:56:08.360 me

01:56:08.640 and

01:56:09.380 that

01:56:09.520 was

01:56:09.680 always

01:56:09.980 sort

01:56:10.280 of

01:56:10.400 my

01:56:10.780 my

01:56:11.160 mindset

01:56:11.540 is

01:56:11.840 like

01:56:12.100 you

01:56:12.660 shouldn't

01:56:12.880 be

01:56:13.280 like

01:56:13.660 the

01:56:13.900 girl

01:56:14.060 should

01:56:14.240 be

01:56:14.400 begging

01:56:14.680 you

01:56:14.960 for

01:56:15.140 one

01:56:15.460 and

01:56:15.960 then

01:56:16.160 you

01:56:16.320 determine

01:56:16.660 if

01:56:16.820 she's

01:56:17.000 worth

01:56:17.180 giving

01:56:17.460 it

01:56:17.600 to

01:56:17.700 her

01:56:17.900 not

01:56:18.440 the

01:56:18.580 other

01:56:18.680 way

01:56:18.840 around

01:56:19.140 but

01:56:19.940 I

01:56:20.040 know

01:56:20.240 guys

01:56:20.580 who

01:56:20.740 have

01:56:21.040 been

01:56:21.260 put

01:56:21.860 in

01:56:22.000 a

01:56:22.100 situation

01:56:22.580 ship

01:56:22.840 and

01:56:22.960 it's

01:56:23.120 usually

01:56:23.320 because

01:56:23.760 they're

01:56:24.580 not

01:56:24.880 attractive

01:56:25.480 in

01:56:25.720 the

01:56:25.840 girl's

01:56:26.140 eyes

01:56:26.440 of

01:56:26.600 what

01:56:26.760 she

01:56:26.920 wants

01:56:27.120 to

01:56:27.240 be

01:56:27.360 viewed

01:56:27.580 as

01:56:27.980 on

01:56:28.420 Instagram

01:56:28.860 or

01:56:29.500 basically

01:56:30.120 he

01:56:30.280 lacks

01:56:30.540 kind

01:56:30.800 of

01:56:30.920 like

01:56:31.100 you

01:56:31.300 know

01:56:31.420 what

01:56:31.540 I

01:56:31.620 mean

01:56:31.780 like

01:56:32.040 like

01:56:32.340 I've

01:56:32.480 seen

01:56:32.560 a

01:56:32.660 guy

01:56:32.880 who

01:56:33.100 has

01:56:33.420 a

01:56:33.560 high

01:56:33.900 income

01:56:34.200 and

01:56:34.480 has

01:56:34.720 a

01:56:34.860 very

01:56:35.080 prestigious

01:56:35.540 job

01:56:35.980 but

01:56:36.180 he's

01:56:36.420 not

01:56:36.620 attractive

01:56:37.040 and

01:56:37.560 the

01:56:37.680 girl

01:56:37.900 has

01:56:38.220 a

01:56:38.320 very

01:56:38.500 high

01:56:38.780 salary

01:56:39.160 and

01:56:39.320 doesn't

01:56:39.520 want

01:56:39.640 to

01:56:39.740 date

01:56:39.880 down

01:56:40.240 and

01:56:41.180 but

01:56:41.420 she

01:56:41.540 has

01:56:41.660 a

01:56:41.760 lot

01:56:41.860 of

01:56:41.960 sexual

01:56:42.220 capital

01:56:42.620 and

01:56:42.800 she's

01:56:43.000 like

01:56:43.180 yeah

01:56:44.120 he

01:56:44.320 has

01:56:44.440 a

01:56:44.540 lot

01:56:44.660 of

01:56:44.760 money

01:56:44.980 but

01:56:45.160 I

01:56:45.320 don't

01:56:45.540 want

01:56:45.660 to

01:56:45.780 post

01:56:46.080 him

01:56:46.280 online

01:56:46.700 because

01:56:46.940 none

01:56:47.160 of

01:56:47.240 my

01:56:47.360 friends

01:56:47.600 are

01:56:47.740 going

01:56:47.860 to

01:56:47.960 like

01:56:48.220 like

01:56:48.820 the

01:56:48.940 photos

01:56:49.300 or

01:56:49.480 they're

01:56:49.760 not

01:56:49.880 going

01:56:50.000 to

01:56:50.020 give

01:56:50.140 me

01:56:50.220 praise

01:56:50.960 compared

01:56:51.300 to

01:56:51.460 if

01:56:51.580 I

01:57:05.080 other

01:57:05.240 status

01:57:05.980 right

01:57:06.580 yeah

01:57:07.060 there's

01:57:07.620 that

01:57:07.900 you

01:57:08.080 know

01:57:08.160 like

01:57:08.360 he's

01:57:08.540 very

01:57:08.760 attractive

01:57:09.280 and

01:57:09.680 you

01:57:09.820 know

01:57:09.960 he's

01:57:10.320 like

01:57:10.520 her

01:57:10.760 mr

01:57:11.120 thursday

01:57:11.480 dick

01:57:11.780 but

01:57:11.980 like

01:57:12.200 he's

01:57:12.380 not

01:57:12.600 like

01:57:12.880 the

01:57:13.020 kind

01:57:13.180 of

01:57:13.260 guy

01:57:13.420 she

01:57:13.580 wants

01:57:13.780 to

01:57:13.880 get

01:57:13.980 married

01:57:14.260 to

01:57:14.460 so

01:57:14.640 she

01:57:14.800 kind

01:57:14.960 of

01:57:15.060 keeps

01:57:15.260 that

01:57:15.480 fun

01:57:15.820 and

01:57:15.960 excitement

01:57:16.340 going

01:57:16.780 while

01:57:17.400 she

01:57:17.620 kind

01:57:17.820 of

01:57:17.920 looks

01:57:18.240 around

01:57:18.880 the

01:57:19.100 corner

01:57:19.320 for

01:57:19.540 something

01:57:19.840 that

01:57:20.160 makes

01:57:20.880 her

01:57:21.000 look

01:57:21.200 better

01:57:21.560 public

01:57:22.660 facing

01:57:23.100 yeah

01:57:23.820 so

01:57:24.380 yeah

01:57:24.820 it's

01:57:25.780 similar

01:57:25.960 to how

01:57:27.460 guys

01:57:27.820 put

01:57:28.440 girls

01:57:28.680 in

01:57:28.860 situations

01:57:29.340 or

01:57:29.780 you

01:57:29.940 know

01:57:30.040 what

01:57:30.200 I

01:57:30.460 think

01:57:30.560 we

01:57:30.660 used

01:57:30.800 to

01:57:30.900 call

01:57:31.060 it

01:57:31.200 the

01:57:31.360 F

01:57:31.560 zone

01:57:31.780 right

01:57:32.060 instead

01:57:32.980 of

01:57:33.160 you

01:57:33.380 know

01:57:33.500 it's

01:57:33.800 just

01:57:33.880 the

01:57:34.000 opposite

01:57:34.240 of

01:57:34.400 the

01:57:34.500 wife

01:57:34.700 zone

01:57:35.000 it's

01:57:35.320 just

01:57:35.500 because

01:57:35.760 you

01:57:36.280 know

01:57:36.340 they're

01:57:36.520 good

01:57:36.640 enough

01:57:36.860 for

01:57:37.040 sex

01:57:37.280 but

01:57:37.500 not

01:57:37.780 really

01:57:38.160 a

01:57:38.680 lifetime

01:57:39.020 of

01:57:39.420 what

01:57:39.760 you

01:57:39.860 want

01:57:39.980 to

01:57:40.080 project

01:57:40.440 publicly

01:57:40.980 yeah

01:57:41.880 yeah

01:57:42.160 yeah

01:57:42.800 because

01:57:43.040 marriage

01:57:43.460 and

01:57:43.680 relationships

01:57:44.260 are

01:57:44.600 more

01:57:44.760 about

01:57:45.020 image

01:57:45.620 than

01:57:46.180 than

01:57:46.200 who

01:57:47.520 you're

01:57:48.680 like

01:57:48.860 most

01:57:49.120 attracted

01:57:49.660 to

01:57:49.980 or

01:57:50.120 even

01:57:50.320 want

01:57:50.560 to

01:57:50.640 be

01:57:50.800 with

01:57:51.180 I

01:57:51.380 would

01:57:51.520 say

01:57:51.860 absolutely

01:57:53.360 and

01:57:53.920 then

01:57:54.080 you

01:57:54.200 know

01:57:54.320 for

01:57:54.500 guys

01:57:54.920 who

01:57:55.060 want

01:57:55.180 to

01:57:55.260 know

01:57:55.400 how

01:57:55.560 to

01:57:55.680 keep

01:57:55.860 it

01:57:56.000 going

01:57:56.320 like

01:57:56.700 you

01:57:57.000 kind

01:57:57.260 of

01:57:57.360 have

01:57:57.520 to

01:57:57.700 sell

01:57:58.020 like

01:57:58.240 you

01:57:58.620 can't

01:57:58.860 tell

01:57:59.000 them

01:57:59.160 I'm

01:57:59.300 never

01:57:59.480 going

01:57:59.620 to

01:57:59.700 give

01:57:59.860 you

01:57:59.960 commitment

01:58:00.320 because

01:58:00.680 a lot

01:58:00.960 of

01:58:01.040 those

01:58:01.200 girls

01:58:01.460 will

01:58:01.660 leave

01:58:01.980 right

01:58:02.340 so

01:58:02.500 you

01:58:02.640 kind

01:58:02.860 of

01:58:02.940 have

01:58:03.100 to

01:58:03.360 almost

01:58:04.540 like

01:58:04.860 mental

01:58:05.400 judo

01:58:05.820 them

01:58:06.100 that

01:58:06.320 like

01:58:06.640 you're

01:58:06.980 willing

01:58:07.220 to

01:58:07.440 settle

01:58:07.720 down

01:58:08.140 quote

01:58:08.680 unquote

01:58:08.920 if

01:58:09.240 the

01:58:09.460 right

01:58:09.740 girl

01:58:10.060 comes

01:58:10.520 along

01:58:11.020 or

01:58:11.660 like

01:58:11.860 start

01:58:12.080 saying

01:58:12.340 things

01:58:12.680 like

01:58:13.040 you

01:58:13.560 know

01:58:13.660 oh

01:58:13.860 I

01:58:13.980 was

01:58:14.160 hurt

01:58:14.380 in

01:58:14.500 my

01:58:14.660 past

01:58:14.980 relationship

01:58:15.620 so

01:58:16.100 I

01:58:16.360 want

01:58:16.520 to

01:58:16.620 move

01:58:16.800 slowly

01:58:17.300 so

01:58:17.560 I'm

01:58:17.780 sure

01:58:18.120 you

01:58:18.360 are

01:58:18.500 the

01:58:18.660 one

01:58:19.020 you

01:58:19.880 got

01:58:20.060 to

01:58:20.180 convince

01:58:20.500 them

01:58:20.700 that

01:58:20.880 you

01:58:21.020 know

01:58:21.100 if

01:58:21.240 they

01:58:21.420 suck

01:58:21.940 a

01:58:22.100 little

01:58:22.240 harder

01:58:22.680 you

01:58:23.040 might

01:58:25.500 just

01:58:25.760 give

01:58:26.000 them

01:58:26.160 that

01:58:26.360 relationship

01:58:27.000 so

01:58:27.240 you

01:58:27.400 got

01:58:27.580 to

01:58:27.700 sell

01:58:27.920 them

01:58:28.060 on

01:58:28.360 that

01:58:28.660 and

01:58:28.980 there

01:58:29.620 are

01:58:29.700 things

01:58:29.860 you

01:58:29.980 can

01:58:30.100 say

01:58:30.420 to

01:58:30.600 stimulate

01:58:32.020 their

01:58:32.300 emotions

01:58:32.660 because

01:58:32.920 it's

01:58:33.220 all

01:58:33.340 about

01:58:33.540 exciting

01:58:33.840 their

01:58:34.000 emotions

01:58:34.340 right

01:58:34.680 so

01:58:34.840 you

01:58:34.960 got

01:58:35.080 to

01:58:35.140 be

01:58:35.240 like

01:58:35.460 you

01:58:36.140 can't

01:58:36.460 say

01:58:36.700 you're

01:58:36.960 my

01:58:37.140 girlfriend

01:58:37.400 but

01:58:37.680 you

01:58:37.780 got

01:58:37.900 to

01:58:37.980 say

01:58:38.160 who's

01:58:38.460 my

01:58:38.620 girl

01:58:38.900 and

01:58:39.280 you

01:58:39.360 got

01:58:39.520 to

01:58:39.620 get

01:58:40.220 her

01:58:40.360 to

01:58:40.500 go

01:58:40.660 along

01:58:40.920 with

01:58:41.080 it

01:58:41.200 and

01:58:41.300 be

01:58:41.400 like

01:58:41.560 I

01:58:41.820 am

01:58:41.980 I

01:58:42.180 am

01:58:42.380 right

01:58:42.680 or

01:58:43.420 like

01:58:43.800 you

01:58:44.120 gotta

01:58:44.220 be

01:58:44.320 like

01:58:44.480 smile

01:58:44.840 for

01:58:45.100 me

01:58:45.480 or

01:58:45.800 like

01:58:46.200 like

01:58:46.760 earlier

01:58:47.360 you

01:58:47.720 gotta

01:58:48.080 make

01:58:48.440 sure

01:58:48.840 that

01:58:49.240 she

01:58:49.520 you

01:58:50.080 gotta

01:58:50.200 put

01:58:50.380 the

01:58:50.520 on

01:58:50.900 her

01:58:51.060 and

01:58:51.240 say

01:58:51.400 look

01:58:51.760 you

01:58:51.980 know

01:58:52.160 I'm

01:58:52.720 giving

01:58:52.940 you

01:58:53.120 all

01:58:53.280 I

01:58:53.420 can

01:58:53.620 right

01:58:53.840 now

01:58:54.220 and

01:58:55.140 you

01:58:55.320 gotta

01:58:56.120 take

01:58:56.400 it

01:58:56.480 or

01:58:56.600 leave

01:58:56.820 it

01:58:57.360 just

01:58:57.740 make

01:58:57.960 sure

01:58:58.180 where

01:58:58.960 she

01:58:59.640 knows

01:59:00.060 that

01:59:00.300 she's

01:59:00.640 making

01:59:01.000 the

01:59:01.500 choice

01:59:01.800 to

01:59:02.080 be

01:59:02.260 here

01:59:02.480 because

01:59:02.660 she

01:59:03.100 can't

01:59:03.300 get

01:59:03.420 upset

01:59:03.780 yeah

01:59:04.720 but

01:59:05.720 you

01:59:05.840 also

01:59:06.040 gotta

01:59:06.240 be

01:59:06.380 like

01:59:06.620 you

01:59:06.740 know

01:59:06.820 I

01:59:06.960 really

01:59:07.180 care

01:59:07.460 about

01:59:07.700 you

01:59:07.940 don't

01:59:08.360 you

01:59:08.460 care

01:59:08.660 about

01:59:08.880 me

01:59:09.200 like

01:59:09.580 you

01:59:10.000 kind

01:59:10.360 of

01:59:10.500 have

01:59:10.840 to

01:59:11.040 make

01:59:11.520 believe

01:59:12.680 you

01:59:13.440 really

01:59:14.020 do

01:59:14.280 want

01:59:14.420 a

01:59:14.540 relationship

01:59:15.060 with

01:59:15.400 them

01:59:15.580 and

01:59:15.720 you're

01:59:15.900 really

01:59:16.100 all

01:59:16.340 in

01:59:16.520 without

01:59:16.740 giving

01:59:17.100 them

01:59:17.280 that

01:59:17.440 official

01:59:17.740 title

01:59:18.100 that

01:59:18.440 way

01:59:18.640 like

01:59:18.960 you

01:59:19.320 can

01:59:19.440 just

01:59:19.600 walk

01:59:19.840 away

01:59:20.060 and

01:59:20.180 be

01:59:20.280 like

01:59:20.440 I

01:59:20.560 don't

01:59:20.660 know

01:59:20.800 this

01:59:20.980 girl

01:59:21.140 you

01:59:21.280 know

01:59:21.360 what

01:59:21.460 I

01:59:21.520 mean

01:59:21.660 okay

01:59:22.840 that's

01:59:24.920 so funny

01:59:25.460 well

01:59:26.760 thanks

01:59:27.160 thanks for

01:59:28.080 calling in

01:59:28.720 Doug MPA

01:59:29.260 you got

01:59:29.560 any other

01:59:29.880 comments

01:59:30.400 questions

01:59:31.200 always good

01:59:32.460 talking to

01:59:32.800 you Sean

01:59:33.080 have a good

01:59:33.420 night

01:59:33.540 buddy

01:59:33.740 absolutely

01:59:34.480 thanks

01:59:34.960 guys

01:59:35.240 thanks

01:59:36.000 that is

01:59:37.440 everybody

01:59:38.040 all

01:59:39.780 right

01:59:40.120 so my

01:59:41.720 final thoughts

01:59:42.540 are

01:59:42.940 this is

01:59:43.560 the way

01:59:43.900 forward

01:59:44.280 so

01:59:45.320 ladies

01:59:45.740 if you

01:59:46.220 want

01:59:46.380 to be

01:59:46.540 in a

01:59:46.740 relationship

01:59:47.300 in 2025

01:59:48.180 that's

01:59:50.660 step one

01:59:51.260 situationship

01:59:52.360 unfortunately

01:59:52.840 I don't

01:59:53.160 say this

01:59:53.460 in a

01:59:53.660 happy

01:59:53.920 way

01:59:54.260 but

01:59:55.960 we've

01:59:56.360 made

01:59:56.520 this

01:59:56.680 dating

01:59:57.000 marketplace

01:59:57.460 so

01:59:57.820 terrible

01:59:58.240 that

01:59:58.460 you

01:59:58.560 got

01:59:58.680 to

01:59:58.760 give

01:59:58.880 free

01:59:59.120 trials

01:59:59.740 yeah

02:00:00.840 and

02:00:01.420 I

02:00:02.380 started

02:00:03.980 my

02:00:04.160 position

02:00:04.620 like

02:00:05.440 Pearl

02:00:05.700 said

02:00:05.960 we

02:00:06.300 were

02:00:06.420 talking

02:00:06.660 about

02:00:07.020 I

02:00:07.860 said

02:00:08.160 if

02:00:08.960 say

02:00:10.180 to

02:00:10.320 the

02:00:10.460 ladies

02:00:10.900 if

02:00:11.700 a

02:00:11.860 man

02:00:12.160 hasn't

02:00:12.840 committed

02:00:13.620 to

02:00:13.800 you

02:00:13.880 in

02:00:13.980 a

02:00:14.080 year

02:00:14.380 or

02:00:14.540 two

02:00:14.760 you

02:00:15.020 should

02:00:15.200 leave

02:00:15.540 but

02:00:15.860 Pearl

02:00:16.500 got me

02:00:17.120 to

02:00:17.240 change

02:00:17.440 my

02:00:17.620 mind

02:00:17.840 ladies

02:00:18.140 hold

02:00:18.420 on

02:00:18.760 for

02:00:19.020 as

02:00:19.160 long

02:00:19.360 as

02:00:19.480 you

02:00:19.560 can

02:00:19.840 especially

02:00:20.260 in

02:00:21.800 this

02:00:22.000 dating

02:00:22.220 market

02:00:22.620 you know

02:00:23.620 you find

02:00:24.140 a good

02:00:24.380 one

02:00:24.580 he's not

02:00:24.940 good

02:00:25.120 I think

02:00:25.560 you're

02:00:25.740 better

02:00:25.940 off

02:00:26.400 trying

02:00:27.820 for a

02:00:28.200 good

02:00:28.360 one

02:00:28.560 for five

02:00:29.060 years

02:00:29.480 than

02:00:29.780 freaking

02:00:30.100 getting

02:00:30.620 banged

02:00:31.260 by

02:00:31.420 nug

02:00:31.780 nug

02:00:32.140 Gavin

02:00:33.360 Tyrone

02:00:34.240 and all

02:00:34.620 those

02:00:35.160 guys

02:00:35.440 I

02:00:35.640 really

02:00:35.880 a good

02:00:36.340 guy

02:00:36.600 I

02:00:37.080 think

02:00:37.840 it's

02:00:38.040 situational

02:00:38.760 I

02:00:39.040 can't

02:00:39.380 say

02:00:39.660 it's

02:00:39.920 like

02:00:40.060 you

02:00:40.180 got

02:00:40.500 a

02:00:40.620 50-50

02:00:41.240 shot

02:00:41.760 my

02:00:42.060 opinion

02:00:42.540 yeah

02:00:44.220 it's

02:00:44.760 you know

02:00:45.800 because there's

02:00:46.300 some girls

02:00:46.740 that waste

02:00:47.300 years

02:00:48.120 and then he

02:00:48.840 marries

02:00:49.120 someone else

02:00:49.780 you gotta

02:00:50.360 let me see

02:00:50.800 your picture

02:00:51.340 and his

02:00:51.760 picture

02:00:52.160 and ask

02:00:52.580 would it

02:00:52.860 make

02:00:53.060 sense

02:00:53.600 that's

02:00:59.080 that's

02:00:59.340 actually

02:00:59.620 step

02:01:00.000 one

02:01:00.320 is

02:01:00.500 because

02:01:00.680 this

02:01:00.960 tea

02:01:01.280 app

02:01:01.620 we've

02:01:01.880 seen

02:01:02.040 the

02:01:02.200 difference

02:01:02.600 in

02:01:02.840 looks

02:01:03.260 oh

02:01:04.080 yeah

02:01:04.540 do

02:01:05.460 you guys

02:01:05.840 have a

02:01:06.160 similar

02:01:06.500 body

02:01:07.080 fat

02:01:07.620 percentage

02:01:08.500 and if

02:01:11.540 you don't

02:01:12.300 that's

02:01:12.900 step

02:01:13.160 one

02:01:13.580 yeah

02:01:14.800 a bunch

02:01:15.460 of whales

02:01:15.920 and dogs

02:01:16.580 on that

02:01:17.200 thing

02:01:17.420 man

02:01:17.660 straight

02:01:18.000 up

02:01:18.680 woof

02:01:19.100 woof

02:01:19.580 jeez

02:01:20.040 I think

02:01:20.800 it's

02:01:20.980 like

02:01:21.160 anyways

02:01:21.860 um

02:01:22.640 thanks for

02:01:23.300 your input

02:01:23.800 Doug MPA

02:01:24.480 I appreciate

02:01:25.100 it

02:01:25.560 I'm sorry

02:01:26.120 I interrupted

02:01:26.620 you

02:01:26.880 you got

02:01:27.120 anything

02:01:27.340 else

02:01:27.840 oh no

02:01:28.860 it's

02:01:29.040 okay

02:01:29.160 that's

02:01:29.720 it

02:01:29.880 you know

02:01:30.140 just

02:01:30.480 be

02:01:30.800 uh

02:01:32.260 five years

02:01:34.360 you're better

02:01:35.200 off being

02:01:35.760 in a

02:01:36.460 situationship

02:01:37.140 with a

02:01:37.620 decent guy

02:01:38.000 for five

02:01:38.420 years

02:01:38.680 and then

02:01:39.040 then out

02:01:39.520 here

02:01:39.660 banging

02:01:40.060 and clanging

02:01:40.600 so that's

02:01:41.080 all

02:01:41.300 I say

02:01:43.740 it's

02:01:43.960 50-50

02:01:44.760 it's

02:01:45.060 situational

02:01:45.860 um

02:01:46.420 you gotta

02:01:46.680 ask

02:01:47.040 yourself

02:01:47.420 a couple

02:01:47.820 things

02:01:48.300 um

02:01:48.940 the

02:01:50.240 first

02:01:51.000 thing

02:01:51.280 I would

02:01:51.520 ask

02:01:51.880 yourself

02:01:52.420 is

02:01:53.180 is this

02:01:53.700 a guy

02:01:54.240 and be

02:01:54.680 honest

02:01:55.080 is this

02:01:55.480 a guy

02:01:55.740 that could

02:01:56.220 commit

02:01:56.660 anytime

02:01:57.060 soon

02:01:57.660 um

02:01:59.240 that's

02:02:00.100 again

02:02:00.560 you're gonna

02:02:00.960 have to

02:02:01.260 make the

02:02:01.560 final choice

02:02:02.220 so that's

02:02:02.880 that's a

02:02:03.220 question

02:02:03.600 there's some

02:02:04.080 men

02:02:04.360 they're not

02:02:05.160 gonna do

02:02:05.480 it till

02:02:05.800 they're old

02:02:06.320 um

02:02:06.700 there's some

02:02:07.020 men that

02:02:07.320 are gonna

02:02:07.540 do it

02:02:07.840 never

02:02:08.160 and there's

02:02:09.120 some men

02:02:09.560 where they

02:02:09.840 could do

02:02:10.300 it in a

02:02:10.640 few years

02:02:11.180 if you

02:02:11.500 give them

02:02:11.760 space

02:02:12.320 that's

02:02:13.200 the

02:02:13.320 choice

02:02:13.540 um

02:02:14.260 number

02:02:14.540 two

02:02:15.020 um

02:02:17.140 how hot

02:02:17.940 are you

02:02:18.340 and does

02:02:19.660 it make

02:02:19.960 sense

02:02:20.200 I don't

02:02:20.520 think

02:02:20.700 you need

02:02:20.980 to be

02:02:21.220 as hot

02:02:21.800 as him

02:02:22.180 but if

02:02:23.480 you're less

02:02:24.000 good looking

02:02:24.620 facially you

02:02:25.420 need to at

02:02:25.860 least come

02:02:26.300 with a good

02:02:26.740 body

02:02:27.140 so a lot

02:02:29.420 of times we're

02:02:29.840 in the fuck

02:02:30.260 zone because

02:02:30.820 of our body

02:02:31.360 fat percentage

02:02:32.240 I'd work on

02:02:32.840 that and if

02:02:33.840 it's not that

02:02:34.340 I'd look at

02:02:34.720 your personality

02:02:35.540 um

02:02:36.580 what would

02:02:40.260 you say

02:02:40.680 about 20

02:02:41.500 pounds

02:02:41.900 a lot

02:02:42.540 of women

02:02:42.840 are 20

02:02:43.460 pounds

02:02:43.800 away

02:02:44.080 from a

02:02:44.380 relationship

02:02:44.820 yeah I

02:02:46.440 mean you

02:02:46.780 know

02:02:47.080 do you

02:02:47.960 mind if

02:02:48.240 I reference

02:02:48.940 a story

02:02:49.460 you told

02:02:49.900 me I

02:02:50.180 won't

02:02:50.300 say

02:02:50.460 who

02:02:50.600 it

02:02:50.700 was

02:02:51.000 uh

02:02:52.220 yeah go

02:02:52.740 ahead

02:02:52.900 you said

02:02:53.500 you knew

02:02:53.840 somebody

02:02:54.380 that

02:02:55.080 um

02:02:55.640 the weight

02:02:57.140 was the

02:02:57.620 reason

02:02:57.920 he

02:02:58.560 broke up

02:02:59.260 with a

02:02:59.560 girl

02:02:59.760 and then

02:03:00.240 he

02:03:00.460 ended

02:03:00.700 up

02:03:00.980 like

02:03:01.260 sticking

02:03:01.580 it

02:03:01.760 out

02:03:02.080 but

02:03:02.500 like

02:03:03.060 later

02:03:03.440 but

02:03:03.840 it

02:03:04.020 would

02:03:04.140 have

02:03:04.240 been

02:03:04.480 like

02:03:05.080 the road

02:03:05.540 would

02:03:05.780 have

02:03:05.880 been

02:03:06.040 shorter

02:03:06.460 if

02:03:06.720 she

02:03:06.820 just

02:03:07.080 lost

02:03:07.480 the

02:03:07.660 weight

02:03:07.980 yeah

02:03:09.340 like

02:03:09.680 she

02:03:09.780 would

02:03:09.900 have

02:03:10.000 got

02:03:10.080 a bunch

02:03:10.380 of

02:03:10.460 guys

02:03:10.660 like

02:03:10.880 that

02:03:11.160 yeah

02:03:11.640 like

02:03:11.840 she

02:03:12.000 would

02:03:12.120 have

02:03:12.200 got

02:03:12.320 what

02:03:12.460 she

02:03:12.620 wanted

02:03:12.880 sooner

02:03:13.200 if

02:03:13.400 she

02:03:13.540 lost

02:03:13.820 the

02:03:13.980 weight

02:03:14.280 yeah

02:03:15.380 yep

02:03:15.940 100%

02:03:16.480 true

02:03:16.720 yeah

02:03:18.160 anyways guys

02:03:19.480 make sure

02:03:19.820 you like

02:03:20.080 the video

02:03:20.460 and subscribe

02:03:20.920 to the

02:03:21.300 channel

02:03:21.560 I

02:03:21.920 appreciate

02:03:22.620 your

02:03:22.900 questions

02:03:23.320 comments

02:03:23.740 and concerns

02:03:24.360 and I

02:03:25.380 will see

02:03:25.660 you guys

02:03:26.000 tomorrow

02:03:26.460 see ya

02:03:27.200 thanks

02:03:27.420 for

02:03:27.580 watching

02:03:35.780 hi

02:03:38.300 i

02:03:41.460 i

02:03:42.640 i

02:03:43.340 llo

02:03:43.520 go

02:03:43.880 to

02:03:44.320 pictures

02:03:46.080 of

02:03:46.400 ipee

02:03:47.900 you

02:03:47.960 that

02:03:49.120 i

02:03:50.300 can't

02:03:51.900 but

02:03:52.760 it

02:03:53.360 can't

02:03:53.980 tell

JustPearlyThings - July 28, 2025

The Rise of Situationships (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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