The ROOT CAUSE Of Modern Women’s Delusion
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Summary
In this episode, the panel discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to parenting and sex. We discuss the differences in parenting advice, what it means to be a woman and what it's like being a single parent. We also discuss the challenges that women face and how to deal with them.
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between guys and girls guys will give guys genuine advice girls won't if you
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heard the whole phrase because girls compete with each other because if you're
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25 and the girl that's 38 you're competing with her for the same guy you've
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heard the phrase a go a guy will insult a guy and not mean a girl will
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compliment and go and not mean it yeah so it's one of those ones where those
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older girls you would think would give those advice might say to you oh you're
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so pretty you should do this but like they don't mean it when you see girls
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like comment in on obese girls pictures like beautiful love it like what are
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you doing it's not beautiful why are you encouraging her yeah because I say I say
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like this year with with men I don't care like you look at even Kevin yeah I didn't
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care about the delivery because he's not talking to me directly people call up and
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you know they go yeah but if you're not talking to that person directly you can
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see the delivery and look at that as entertainment but you can still take the
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message I think with women it needs to be dissected in a way that makes them
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directly to them specifically they got a feel they got a feel great about it to
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take to receive it whereas with guys I'm like generally speaking I'll just play
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cool yeah well he's saying makes it makes sense and you move on yeah and I'm and I
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apply or I don't apply it you know I mean but I believe there's enough men out
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there given that direction and I think you know just from the conversations that
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we've had here just through on the panel you know is it working for you to if
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you want if you know what you you want kids and you want this kind of you want
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a certain kind of lifestyle you want things is the way you're moving working
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for you and if there if it isn't do you have people in your life that are saying
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that you can talk to that haven't had kids and they can say boom all right look
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you know time's ticking it will get to this point and this is how I feel now that I
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waited and I'm here yeah but you know what you know what it is with that the
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biggest enemy to women most times is other women so like you because we can't
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even admit there's a problem yeah other women are the downfall of women for a lot
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of the time because they will be the ones who will feed you the stuff that you
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want to hear in one side knowing good and damn well that's not the advice you
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need to hear and then leave and then watch you walk out that door and make that
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mistake I'm gonna read you guys I'm gonna read you guys some stats some of
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these are from the US some of these are from the UK so you know take them with a
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grain of salt but one in four women have an STD
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zoinks one in three women have had an abortion 38% of kids are born into
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single-parent homes the average age of first child is 26 and the average age of
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first marriage is 30 45% of marriages end in divorce the average number of
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sexual partners for a woman is between four and eight and after women have
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slept with more than five people she has a 20% chance of having a happy marriage
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after ten years if men get divorced they can be financially ruined and their
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kids can be taken from them 70% of women are overweight 90% of women have
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used contraceptives at some point in their reproductive years and most have used
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more than one method throughout their lifetime so it's like how do we look at
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these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole you know and I'm not saying you
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know that like cuz I always say what about them I'm not saying men don't have
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issues too but it's like we can't even talk about our problems without people
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always having to point out the men like we can never even just have a
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conversation about the issues that we have as women without simps or women
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coming in saying but men have problems too like we can't even have one
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conversation about it whereas back in the day women used to actually sit down
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together and discuss things and they'd say you're not dressed well you're not
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like we used to actually like catch each other up on stuff like you know you all
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you're showing too much like you're presenting yourself this way or you know
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even something silly like you didn't brush your hair like I feel like nowadays like
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girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't even want to like tell
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their friend like oh it depends what type of girl you are though if I'm
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completely honest I think if you're insecure and you're unhappy with what you're
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doing yourself then you're going to be a bit too to other people if you're happy
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and content you've got to support and do you know what I mean so I think it's the
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individual I don't think I don't think supporting I think real supporting is
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being honest yeah but that's what I mean like she said you might not tell your
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friend if they haven't brushed you up I would tell my friend yeah no I would as
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well but some girls wouldn't but that's because they're like oh well I'm gonna
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you know what I mean which goes back to what I said a lot of times a woman's
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worst enemy is another woman yeah I would point out the fact that your shirts
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kind of inside out I believe like chastising someone in public is
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different like I don't think you should do that in front of other people yeah of
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course not you should take if that's your real friend they should be able to take
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into the side and say and we can respect that and we won't look at that as like
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you being bitch you know it's like you know when you eat something you've got
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something your teeth up even if you go just told me yeah I mean so I think you
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know because even at the beginning of my relationship with my my girl now I had to
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tell her we had a conversation where I was like if there's an issue that you see
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please just tell me right there and then I don't want this whole passive
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aggressive thinking about it for two weeks don't bring it up and then vixen
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talking to your girlfriends about behind my back and this whole fucking month
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period I had no idea this all this is an issue that you had all right with that
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are you able to accept the delivery I don't care about the problem in any
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form yeah I don't care about delivery it's just about it's just about what gets
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said because if it with me is like if I disagree with what you're saying then we
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have a discussion about what this group but like delivery is one of those
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things again example right let's say for instance it's in the bedroom something
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that's sensitive right so you're like boom ah you're not doing this right if she
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thinks about it and then she kind of let's say you're having a stressful week at
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work or whatever that and then she kind of puts that into her into her mind and
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thinks all right cool maybe I approach it in this way as opposed to just be like oh
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you can't do this like you know if she if she expresses the frustrations then and
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there without thinking about it at all or like seeking some kind of advice then do
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you not think that can have some kind of detriment to how you're able to get over
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that or are you saying that regardless of how she comes at you with whatever she
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comes at you you're gonna be able to swallow it and move on as normal kind of I
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get where you're coming from but it but then I have to equate that to like all
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right let's let's talk about like equate that to like football if you're if your
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manager says you need to be there you're gonna be upset with him because uh my mind
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I'm having a really bad week at home so my manager has to talk to me a certain
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type of way if the information with me per se and I know I'm I'm a very black
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sheep when it comes to this my girlfriend always says to me you have the
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emotional capacity of a wooden spoon because I don't really care about like
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emotions too tough if the information is necessary please tell me and I'll do
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the same but he's talking sexually you mean fully pleasing a woman right and then
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the worst thing of a woman a woman would tell you a lot of women talk with each
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other about sex that's why I want their part of their partners this and what
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that partner is doing and what you're not doing and in that girl with your
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partner would bring that in the bedroom and go oh my friend tried this and blah
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blah blah and if you ain't satisfying her in a certain way if you come at me and
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like a aggressive kind of way like it will hurt my feelings remember this when I'm
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having when you're having sex with someone you're completely vulnerable with each
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other okay which so what which hurts more so so when you're talking about like so
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when you're talking about like we when you met your partner and you always said
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ah like no matter what just tell me whatever like you can tell me but you
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need to if it's sexually like you need to tell me in a certain way because I feel
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like I'm doing the best I can do I need you to maybe let me ask let me ask a
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question which would hurt more her directly saying you need to do this
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better because you're not really doing that that much or her going through all
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of her friends and eventually saying to you guys she gonna go for a friend
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regardless eventually her saying it to you nicely but now you know all of her
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friends know but before you remember the thing where people I was just banned on
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