JustPearlyThings - The ROOT CAUSE Of Modern Women’s Delusion

00:00:00.000 between guys and girls guys will give guys genuine advice girls won't if you

00:00:03.600 heard the whole phrase because girls compete with each other because if you're 1.00

00:00:06.720 25 and the girl that's 38 you're competing with her for the same guy you've

00:00:11.160 heard the phrase a go a guy will insult a guy and not mean a girl will

00:00:15.140 compliment and go and not mean it yeah so it's one of those ones where those

00:00:18.620 older girls you would think would give those advice might say to you oh you're 0.97

00:00:22.720 so pretty you should do this but like they don't mean it when you see girls 1.00

00:00:26.500 like comment in on obese girls pictures like beautiful love it like what are

00:00:32.380 you doing it's not beautiful why are you encouraging her yeah because I say I say

00:00:39.700 like this year with with men I don't care like you look at even Kevin yeah I didn't

00:00:46.600 care about the delivery because he's not talking to me directly people call up and

00:00:49.960 you know they go yeah but if you're not talking to that person directly you can

00:00:54.220 see the delivery and look at that as entertainment but you can still take the

00:00:57.660 message I think with women it needs to be dissected in a way that makes them 1.00

00:01:01.060 directly to them specifically they got a feel they got a feel great about it to

00:01:06.980 take to receive it whereas with guys I'm like generally speaking I'll just play

00:01:10.680 cool yeah well he's saying makes it makes sense and you move on yeah and I'm and I

00:01:14.680 apply or I don't apply it you know I mean but I believe there's enough men out 0.96

00:01:17.980 there given that direction and I think you know just from the conversations that

00:01:21.500 we've had here just through on the panel you know is it working for you to if

00:01:26.940 you want if you know what you you want kids and you want this kind of you want

00:01:29.480 a certain kind of lifestyle you want things is the way you're moving working

00:01:33.320 for you and if there if it isn't do you have people in your life that are saying

00:01:37.960 that you can talk to that haven't had kids and they can say boom all right look

00:01:41.820 you know time's ticking it will get to this point and this is how I feel now that I

00:01:46.200 waited and I'm here yeah but you know what you know what it is with that the

00:01:50.280 biggest enemy to women most times is other women so like you because we can't 1.00

00:01:56.300 even admit there's a problem yeah other women are the downfall of women for a lot 1.00

00:02:01.000 of the time because they will be the ones who will feed you the stuff that you 0.84

00:02:04.660 want to hear in one side knowing good and damn well that's not the advice you

00:02:08.240 need to hear and then leave and then watch you walk out that door and make that

00:02:11.500 mistake I'm gonna read you guys I'm gonna read you guys some stats some of

00:02:17.020 these are from the US some of these are from the UK so you know take them with a

00:02:21.400 grain of salt but one in four women have an STD 0.99

00:02:23.960 zoinks one in three women have had an abortion 38% of kids are born into

00:02:29.080 single-parent homes the average age of first child is 26 and the average age of

00:02:33.740 first marriage is 30 45% of marriages end in divorce the average number of

00:02:39.140 sexual partners for a woman is between four and eight and after women have 0.77

00:02:44.140 slept with more than five people she has a 20% chance of having a happy marriage 1.00

00:02:47.660 after ten years if men get divorced they can be financially ruined and their

00:02:53.580 kids can be taken from them 70% of women are overweight 90% of women have 1.00

00:02:58.280 used contraceptives at some point in their reproductive years and most have used

00:03:02.600 more than one method throughout their lifetime so it's like how do we look at

00:03:06.220 these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole you know and I'm not saying you

00:03:12.880 know that like cuz I always say what about them I'm not saying men don't have

00:03:17.220 issues too but it's like we can't even talk about our problems without people

00:03:20.460 always having to point out the men like we can never even just have a

00:03:23.680 conversation about the issues that we have as women without simps or women

00:03:28.300 coming in saying but men have problems too like we can't even have one

00:03:31.180 conversation about it whereas back in the day women used to actually sit down 1.00

00:03:34.900 together and discuss things and they'd say you're not dressed well you're not

00:03:40.060 like we used to actually like catch each other up on stuff like you know you all

00:03:44.980 you're showing too much like you're presenting yourself this way or you know

00:03:48.700 even something silly like you didn't brush your hair like I feel like nowadays like

00:03:52.360 girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't even want to like tell 1.00

00:03:55.940 their friend like oh it depends what type of girl you are though if I'm

00:03:58.640 completely honest I think if you're insecure and you're unhappy with what you're

00:04:01.660 doing yourself then you're going to be a bit too to other people if you're happy

00:04:05.260 and content you've got to support and do you know what I mean so I think it's the

00:04:08.600 individual I don't think I don't think supporting I think real supporting is

00:04:13.120 being honest yeah but that's what I mean like she said you might not tell your

00:04:17.600 friend if they haven't brushed you up I would tell my friend yeah no I would as

00:04:20.980 well but some girls wouldn't but that's because they're like oh well I'm gonna 1.00

00:04:24.460 you know what I mean which goes back to what I said a lot of times a woman's

00:04:31.720 worst enemy is another woman yeah I would point out the fact that your shirts 1.00

00:04:36.640 kind of inside out I believe like chastising someone in public is

00:04:42.820 different like I don't think you should do that in front of other people yeah of

00:04:45.640 course not you should take if that's your real friend they should be able to take

00:04:48.160 into the side and say and we can respect that and we won't look at that as like 0.99

00:04:54.520 you being bitch you know it's like you know when you eat something you've got 1.00

00:04:56.920 something your teeth up even if you go just told me yeah I mean so I think you 1.00

00:05:06.220 know because even at the beginning of my relationship with my my girl now I had to

00:05:10.180 tell her we had a conversation where I was like if there's an issue that you see

00:05:13.720 please just tell me right there and then I don't want this whole passive

00:05:16.720 aggressive thinking about it for two weeks don't bring it up and then vixen 0.96

00:05:21.320 talking to your girlfriends about behind my back and this whole fucking month 0.99

00:05:24.640 period I had no idea this all this is an issue that you had all right with that 0.98

00:05:28.000 are you able to accept the delivery I don't care about the problem in any

00:05:33.880 form yeah I don't care about delivery it's just about it's just about what gets

00:05:36.880 said because if it with me is like if I disagree with what you're saying then we

00:05:42.100 have a discussion about what this group but like delivery is one of those

00:05:44.980 things again example right let's say for instance it's in the bedroom something

00:05:48.100 that's sensitive right so you're like boom ah you're not doing this right if she 1.00

00:05:54.820 thinks about it and then she kind of let's say you're having a stressful week at

00:05:59.260 work or whatever that and then she kind of puts that into her into her mind and

00:06:03.360 thinks all right cool maybe I approach it in this way as opposed to just be like oh

00:06:06.780 you can't do this like you know if she if she expresses the frustrations then and

00:06:10.400 there without thinking about it at all or like seeking some kind of advice then do

00:06:15.520 you not think that can have some kind of detriment to how you're able to get over

00:06:19.620 that or are you saying that regardless of how she comes at you with whatever she 1.00

00:06:22.740 comes at you you're gonna be able to swallow it and move on as normal kind of I

00:06:26.740 get where you're coming from but it but then I have to equate that to like all

00:06:30.400 right let's let's talk about like equate that to like football if you're if your

00:06:34.120 manager says you need to be there you're gonna be upset with him because uh my mind

00:06:38.720 I'm having a really bad week at home so my manager has to talk to me a certain

00:06:43.260 type of way if the information with me per se and I know I'm I'm a very black

00:06:47.840 sheep when it comes to this my girlfriend always says to me you have the

00:06:50.300 emotional capacity of a wooden spoon because I don't really care about like

00:06:53.340 emotions too tough if the information is necessary please tell me and I'll do

00:06:57.020 the same but he's talking sexually you mean fully pleasing a woman right and then

00:07:02.980 the worst thing of a woman a woman would tell you a lot of women talk with each 1.00

00:07:07.040 other about sex that's why I want their part of their partners this and what 0.99

00:07:11.580 that partner is doing and what you're not doing and in that girl with your

00:07:14.700 partner would bring that in the bedroom and go oh my friend tried this and blah

00:07:18.420 blah blah and if you ain't satisfying her in a certain way if you come at me and

00:07:22.580 like a aggressive kind of way like it will hurt my feelings remember this when I'm 0.96

00:07:28.760 having when you're having sex with someone you're completely vulnerable with each

00:07:32.900 other okay which so what which hurts more so so when you're talking about like so

00:07:38.820 when you're talking about like we when you met your partner and you always said

00:07:42.660 ah like no matter what just tell me whatever like you can tell me but you

00:07:47.240 need to if it's sexually like you need to tell me in a certain way because I feel

00:07:51.080 like I'm doing the best I can do I need you to maybe let me ask let me ask a

00:07:59.000 question which would hurt more her directly saying you need to do this

00:08:02.960 better because you're not really doing that that much or her going through all

00:08:06.200 of her friends and eventually saying to you guys she gonna go for a friend

00:08:09.500 regardless eventually her saying it to you nicely but now you know all of her

00:08:14.060 friends know but before you remember the thing where people I was just banned on

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JustPearlyThings - May 18, 2023

The ROOT CAUSE Of Modern Women’s Delusion

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