JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


The sad Reality about Modern Women In 2023


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10 minutes

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2,009

Sentence count

315

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Misogyny

45

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Hate speech

15

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between a woman who has a good attitude and a woman with a bad attitude. We also talk about domestic skills and how to deal with a woman that doesn't know how to cook.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Okay, now domestic skills. 0.97
00:00:02.440 She's an A, but she has no domestic skills. 1.00
00:00:04.500 What is she?
00:00:05.720 No domestic skills? 1.00
00:00:07.040 No domestic skills. 0.95
00:00:08.160 So raise of hands is a B.
00:00:10.240 Raise your hand.
00:00:11.440 She doesn't have any domestic skills. 1.00
00:00:13.380 No.
00:00:14.200 Zero.
00:00:14.740 But she's still got the good attitude.
00:00:16.440 You can teach her, you know.
00:00:17.940 Oh, if you can teach, that's a B.
00:00:19.880 No, see, that's not fair,
00:00:21.320 because that's not what we were talking about.
00:00:23.780 We were just raising domestic skills,
00:00:26.180 not if she's nice or if she's got a nice attitude. 1.00
00:00:28.960 She has everything else that's on the list,
00:00:31.220 but she can't cook. 1.00
00:00:33.020 B?
00:00:33.820 If she's open to learn, B.
00:00:35.340 B, B, yeah.
00:00:36.220 Okay.
00:00:37.960 No, no.
00:00:38.780 That's good.
00:00:39.360 I like that.
00:00:39.820 That's fair.
00:00:40.400 I can't believe this.
00:00:41.540 I need the women. 1.00
00:00:42.340 Are you mad?
00:00:42.860 She can't cook. 1.00
00:00:43.360 Wait, wait.
00:00:44.020 If she can learn.
00:00:44.860 If she can learn.
00:00:45.320 I need the women to stop whining. 1.00
00:00:47.460 Stop whining about the men's preferences.
00:00:49.780 These are the men's preferences.
00:00:51.400 Be honest.
00:00:51.780 They didn't whine when we picked this out.
00:00:55.060 So wait, what's your kids eating?
00:00:56.500 This is the...
00:00:57.300 Okay, but let's be honest.
00:00:58.300 It's like most people know how to take care of themselves.
00:01:02.280 Like I have my own place,
00:01:03.100 so I look after my own place.
00:01:04.420 So if she's moving in
00:01:05.300 and she doesn't know how to look after it, 0.99
00:01:06.740 it's calm.
00:01:07.020 I'm doing it anyway.
00:01:07.760 So you're happy being a housewife?
00:01:10.440 I would think not about being a housewife,
00:01:11.780 but I was learned, right,
00:01:13.220 when in the household I was growing up,
00:01:15.140 me and my siblings were responsible
00:01:16.600 for taking care of the house, right?
00:01:18.220 Because teachers discipline and all of that.
00:01:19.480 That's just how I am.
00:01:20.500 So if she has everything else,
00:01:23.200 but that's the only thing she doesn't bring,
00:01:24.560 that's calm.
00:01:25.240 But the thing is,
00:01:25.720 if she's submissive and agreeable,
00:01:27.780 and you ask her to learn how to cook,
00:01:29.920 she'd cook? 0.97
00:01:30.340 It's a rub off or not, exactly, yeah.
00:01:31.800 If she's submissive...
00:01:33.340 Yeah, but you're adding all this stuff.
00:01:34.560 All we said is that
00:01:35.260 she doesn't have any domestic.
00:01:36.460 What I'm saying is...
00:01:38.100 You're like,
00:01:38.420 if she doesn't have domestic,
00:01:39.320 then this, this, this.
00:01:40.160 That's different.
00:01:40.960 No, no, no.
00:01:41.300 I'm agreeing with you.
00:01:42.200 I'm saying,
00:01:42.720 if she doesn't know how to cook 1.00
00:01:45.020 and she doesn't have domestic skills, 1.00
00:01:46.140 but she's submissive and all of that... 1.00
00:01:47.780 It doesn't matter.
00:01:48.020 Yeah.
00:01:48.160 Because that was the same thing.
00:01:49.900 Well, yeah, there you go.
00:01:50.700 Okay, so next.
00:01:52.580 All right.
00:01:53.660 She... 1.00
00:01:55.060 A, but she's got a kid. 1.00
00:01:57.720 All right.
00:01:58.240 So we're going to raise of hands.
00:01:59.660 We're going to raise of hands.
00:02:01.040 Who says a B?
00:02:01.760 This one is controversial.
00:02:02.720 Who says a B?
00:02:03.840 Okay, now.
00:02:04.580 Who says a C?
00:02:06.360 Oh, damn.
00:02:06.800 Now, who says a D?
00:02:09.660 Okay, one D.
00:02:10.780 Who says an F?
00:02:13.840 Okay.
00:02:14.500 I'll confess to between you.
00:02:15.860 This is scary.
00:02:16.880 No, guys, ladies,
00:02:19.080 this is important.
00:02:20.440 Ladies watching. 0.99
00:02:21.580 This is what happens
00:02:22.820 if you become a single mother,
00:02:24.380 if you're going to leave your home.
00:02:25.880 The grass is not greener
00:02:27.120 on the other side.
00:02:28.680 You will go from an A to an F.
00:02:30.840 Yep.
00:02:31.440 You become an equation.
00:02:32.020 Face that on one decision.
00:02:33.720 I mean...
00:02:34.380 It's true.
00:02:37.260 Like, I don't...
00:02:39.020 Like, no guy who doesn't have a kid
00:02:40.820 wants to choose a woman to marry 1.00
00:02:42.160 and have kids.
00:02:42.840 Yeah, exactly.
00:02:43.760 Like, it's such a major thing
00:02:46.860 for us.
00:02:47.160 I don't know why.
00:02:48.000 And it's harsh,
00:02:48.600 but it's true.
00:02:49.540 Practically, it's just
00:02:50.520 all the responsibility
00:02:51.800 without the authority.
00:02:53.540 It's like, if things go wrong,
00:02:54.780 it's your fault, 0.61
00:02:55.460 but you have no control
00:02:56.400 over the situation.
00:02:57.480 That's a scapegoat.
00:02:59.120 Okay, next.
00:02:59.800 Why are you playing at me?
00:03:00.740 I'm going to ask you a question.
00:03:01.780 All right.
00:03:02.500 All right.
00:03:02.760 Next, guys.
00:03:04.080 All right.
00:03:04.580 I want a bad attitude.
00:03:06.520 So a woman has an A, 1.00
00:03:08.220 but she's got a bad attitude. 1.00
00:03:09.720 Is she a...
00:03:10.480 B?
00:03:10.880 Raise your hand.
00:03:11.660 C?
00:03:13.840 Raise your hand.
00:03:15.500 She says...
00:03:16.480 D?
00:03:17.240 Raise your hand.
00:03:19.260 F?
00:03:19.740 Raise your hand.
00:03:21.580 Okay.
00:03:22.140 This is the most common answer
00:03:24.760 we got was F.
00:03:25.680 I'm not going to disagree.
00:03:26.540 Yeah.
00:03:26.880 Yeah.
00:03:27.200 So, guys,
00:03:28.300 I mean,
00:03:28.620 this is a lesson for the chicks.
00:03:30.120 You can look hot.
00:03:31.080 You can be amazing.
00:03:32.020 You can look great.
00:03:32.840 I just want to say...
00:03:33.540 But if you got a bad attitude,
00:03:34.720 you go from an A to an F.
00:03:36.000 I'm guessing most of the men
00:03:37.840 in the room are Nigerian.
00:03:38.640 Respect is very important
00:03:39.920 in our culture.
00:03:41.640 I'm just saying that.
00:03:43.800 And I think also,
00:03:44.460 after you deal with
00:03:46.020 a lot of women, 1.00
00:03:47.700 you just don't tolerate
00:03:48.480 bad attitude.
00:03:48.600 Yeah, but there's a level
00:03:50.140 of respect in African culture
00:03:51.240 that is different
00:03:51.820 to the Oymbo culture.
00:03:54.320 I do hear it too.
00:03:55.320 Okay.
00:03:55.820 Now,
00:03:56.500 she's got all this,
00:03:58.500 right?
00:03:59.260 But she's cheated before. 1.00
00:04:00.780 Oh, no.
00:04:01.660 Just put F.
00:04:02.420 Okay.
00:04:03.920 We're going to wait.
00:04:05.140 Let me just rank it.
00:04:06.800 Okay.
00:04:07.200 Is she a B?
00:04:09.900 C?
00:04:11.540 D?
00:04:13.020 She cheated? 1.00
00:04:13.700 She cheated once? 1.00
00:04:14.780 All right.
00:04:15.360 He says D.
00:04:18.380 All right.
00:04:19.340 She did.
00:04:20.760 All right.
00:04:21.320 Again,
00:04:21.720 important lesson.
00:04:22.880 Oh,
00:04:23.000 we forgot body count.
00:04:25.000 We didn't say that,
00:04:26.120 but it goes right.
00:04:26.940 No, ladies. 1.00
00:04:27.340 We're going to ask the ladies 1.00
00:04:28.160 first,
00:04:28.640 and then we're going to ask the guy.
00:04:29.600 So, ladies, 1.00
00:04:30.040 you're back in the game.
00:04:31.940 All right.
00:04:32.980 A B has slept with how many people?
00:04:36.020 Let's break down actual numbers.
00:04:38.420 Three to five.
00:04:39.500 All right.
00:04:39.800 Three to five is a B.
00:04:41.380 All right.
00:04:42.480 Raise your hand,
00:04:43.260 ladies, 1.00
00:04:43.580 if you think three to five is a B.
00:04:45.940 I would say that's fine.
00:04:47.380 Three to five.
00:04:47.860 Yeah.
00:04:48.340 In modern times.
00:04:50.160 Historically,
00:04:50.640 it's all whores, 1.00
00:04:51.340 but you know.
00:04:53.760 All right.
00:04:54.660 I just don't like that.
00:04:56.540 All right.
00:04:57.440 I just don't like that.
00:04:59.780 Yeah,
00:04:59.980 but you're going to be,
00:05:00.700 you're going to be,
00:05:01.060 you're going to get.
00:05:01.560 This is how men think, 0.96
00:05:02.700 guys.
00:05:03.080 This is how men think. 0.59
00:05:03.880 We think anyway.
00:05:04.740 All right.
00:05:05.560 Ten,
00:05:05.900 ten bodies brings you down to a what?
00:05:08.440 A C?
00:05:09.720 What's that?
00:05:10.100 Ten,
00:05:10.400 ten,
00:05:10.620 ten bodies.
00:05:11.840 Is that a C?
00:05:12.860 Raise your hand,
00:05:13.440 women, 1.00
00:05:13.700 if you think it's a C.
00:05:13.900 I would say D.
00:05:15.080 D is ten?
00:05:16.700 I would say D.
00:05:17.920 Okay.
00:05:18.400 Ten is a D.
00:05:21.160 Okay.
00:05:22.060 All right.
00:05:22.480 How many is an F?
00:05:23.400 Fifteen?
00:05:24.700 Yeah.
00:05:25.640 Fifteen.
00:05:26.280 And above.
00:05:26.960 All right.
00:05:27.120 We're going to go.
00:05:28.100 Twenty?
00:05:28.660 Twenty.
00:05:29.200 Above.
00:05:29.780 I would say about twenty.
00:05:31.100 All right.
00:05:31.300 What's your number?
00:05:31.920 Fifteen?
00:05:32.540 Fifteen.
00:05:33.080 What's your,
00:05:33.460 fifteen?
00:05:34.120 What's your number?
00:05:34.660 Yeah,
00:05:34.820 it should be fifteen.
00:05:36.320 That's all I'm saying.
00:05:37.740 Okay.
00:05:38.000 Yeah,
00:05:38.460 higher than the age.
00:05:38.960 Okay,
00:05:39.240 so we're just going to say roughly.
00:05:41.160 That does make sense.
00:05:42.140 You say roughly.
00:05:42.960 I have this much honey before I got here.
00:05:44.560 Okay,
00:05:44.760 we'll go,
00:05:45.360 we'll go,
00:05:45.620 we'll go.
00:05:45.960 We see you,
00:05:46.540 we see you.
00:05:47.260 Damn,
00:05:47.600 okay.
00:05:48.460 I like that.
00:05:48.960 We'll do twenty.
00:05:49.900 We'll do twenty because I think
00:05:51.400 averaging that out,
00:05:52.700 it'd be like,
00:05:53.320 we're just going to,
00:05:54.100 for shits and giggles. 0.75
00:05:55.140 Okay,
00:05:55.380 amen.
00:05:56.420 All right,
00:05:56.980 men,
00:05:57.260 let's go body count.
00:05:58.380 Let's break it down.
00:06:00.040 I'm just going to.
00:06:00.600 What is an A,
00:06:01.520 guys?
00:06:01.920 How many bodies does she get 1.00
00:06:03.320 to still be an A?
00:06:04.120 Realistically.
00:06:04.480 Before,
00:06:04.880 can I just ask you,
00:06:05.740 is it now?
00:06:07.060 Yeah,
00:06:07.220 realistically now.
00:06:08.220 I'm asking you,
00:06:08.940 if you were to give out
00:06:09.940 a report card.
00:06:10.740 Okay.
00:06:11.420 Ideally now.
00:06:12.420 I'm going to go up now.
00:06:14.000 I'm asking,
00:06:14.200 I'm asking your opinion.
00:06:15.880 It should be what they
00:06:16.860 ideally want,
00:06:17.760 right?
00:06:18.020 I'm asking what the men,
00:06:19.900 I'm asking what you want.
00:06:20.780 We want to know what you want.
00:06:22.120 All right,
00:06:23.120 who says only a virgin gets an A? 0.65
00:06:25.460 Yeah,
00:06:25.680 I'm working on that one.
00:06:27.080 All the guys.
00:06:28.520 No,
00:06:29.080 not all the guys.
00:06:30.200 Why are you saying?
00:06:32.040 All right.
00:06:32.640 So,
00:06:32.940 you're always an A.
00:06:33.860 All right.
00:06:34.380 For a B,
00:06:36.340 all right,
00:06:36.680 let's,
00:06:36.940 I'm going to,
00:06:37.520 I want you to raise your hand
00:06:39.100 when it becomes a B.
00:06:40.340 Okay.
00:06:40.680 One,
00:06:41.820 two,
00:06:43.040 three,
00:06:44.060 four,
00:06:45.660 five,
00:06:47.000 six,
00:06:48.360 seven,
00:06:49.540 eight,
00:06:50.720 nine.
00:06:51.220 Oh,
00:06:51.420 wow.
00:06:51.880 No,
00:06:52.080 okay.
00:06:52.180 I need you to keep it up.
00:06:53.300 We're going to try it again.
00:06:55.620 So,
00:06:55.900 so raise your hand guys
00:06:57.600 when it becomes a B.
00:06:59.380 So we start at zero,
00:07:01.200 one,
00:07:02.360 two,
00:07:03.620 three,
00:07:04.760 four,
00:07:06.000 five,
00:07:07.180 six,
00:07:08.360 seven,
00:07:09.460 eight,
00:07:10.520 nine.
00:07:11.340 Okay.
00:07:11.820 Okay.
00:07:12.300 I would say the average,
00:07:13.680 most people said three or four,
00:07:15.760 I think.
00:07:16.280 Okay.
00:07:16.480 So we're kind of.
00:07:17.680 Three to five was the women. 0.97
00:07:19.680 Yeah.
00:07:20.040 Yeah.
00:07:20.260 Okay.
00:07:20.500 So we,
00:07:20.860 we kind of match.
00:07:21.760 So now we're going to,
00:07:22.700 I want you to raise your hand when it becomes a C now.
00:07:25.680 All right.
00:07:27.140 One,
00:07:27.780 two,
00:07:29.180 three,
00:07:30.240 four,
00:07:31.300 five,
00:07:32.580 six,
00:07:33.720 seven,
00:07:34.760 eight,
00:07:35.920 nine,
00:07:36.560 10,
00:07:37.560 11.
00:07:38.820 Okay.
00:07:40.080 Okay.
00:07:40.880 So seven,
00:07:42.600 eight,
00:07:43.060 seven,
00:07:43.660 seven,
00:07:43.680 seven,
00:07:43.700 seven to 10 ish is a C. 0.71
00:07:50.100 Okay.
00:07:51.000 Now we're going to go see what a D is.
00:07:53.660 10,
00:07:54.100 11,
00:07:55.260 12,
00:07:56.440 13,
00:07:57.460 14,
00:07:58.500 15,
00:07:59.640 16.
00:08:00.860 Okay.
00:08:01.520 So like,
00:08:02.140 16 is a lot.
00:08:03.620 10 to 15 roughly.
00:08:06.700 We're just going to go is a D now.
00:08:09.780 Now let's go to F.
00:08:11.840 All right.
00:08:12.400 16,
00:08:13.320 seven.
00:08:13.760 Okay.
00:08:14.580 Yeah.
00:08:14.780 Anything.
00:08:16.660 So no,
00:08:17.580 and this is important for us ladies to know what percent of women are getting X right now. 1.00
00:08:23.680 No,
00:08:24.120 seriously.
00:08:25.120 And you know,
00:08:25.560 men might not tell us this to our face,
00:08:27.820 but this is how guys think.
00:08:29.400 You can't say it.
00:08:30.440 And this is what I mean when I say the majority of women are getting Fs, 1.00
00:08:35.300 are getting Ds.
00:08:36.300 We don't really have A plus women anymore. 1.00
00:08:39.140 Oh,
00:08:39.460 I forgot one.
00:08:40.960 All right,
00:08:41.400 ladies, 1.00
00:08:42.220 how,
00:08:42.480 what does an abortion bring you down to?
00:08:44.800 Listen,
00:08:45.400 now.
00:08:46.580 Okay.
00:08:47.200 Okay.
00:08:47.560 So I'm going to,
00:08:48.160 I'm going to,
00:08:48.660 I'm going to go down from A to F and I want you guys to raise your hand when you think
00:08:52.100 an abortion.
00:08:53.300 So one abortion, 0.98
00:08:54.300 who says B?
00:08:55.720 Who says C?
00:08:57.320 Who says D?
00:08:59.040 Who says F?
00:09:00.360 I would say an abortion. 0.96
00:09:01.640 You guys didn't even raise your hand.
00:09:02.860 Yeah,
00:09:03.060 I'm just not really.
00:09:04.260 Oh,
00:09:04.440 it's okay.
00:09:04.760 It's all right.
00:09:05.620 All right.
00:09:06.280 What do you,
00:09:06.960 what do you,
00:09:07.260 I kind of,
00:09:07.720 I just don't mess with that at all.
00:09:10.560 Well,
00:09:10.940 the men do.
00:09:11.740 So,
00:09:12.120 okay,
00:09:12.380 you don't have to vote.
00:09:13.660 It's fine.
00:09:14.000 Yeah,
00:09:14.120 it's really hard.
00:09:15.060 Like,
00:09:15.260 it's a hard topic.
00:09:16.340 I say F,
00:09:17.200 you say,
00:09:18.300 that's such a weird.
00:09:19.400 I say F.
00:09:20.740 C maybe.
00:09:21.520 C,
00:09:21.800 okay.
00:09:22.400 Yeah.
00:09:22.820 I don't know.
00:09:23.160 What do you say?
00:09:26.100 It's part of their mentality.
00:09:27.700 I would say F,
00:09:28.500 to be honest.
00:09:29.240 Okay,
00:09:29.500 so that averages out at like a D.
00:09:31.060 So we'll do it here.
00:09:32.020 All right,
00:09:32.420 men,
00:09:33.960 one abortion.
00:09:35.480 It brings you down.
00:09:37.080 All right,
00:09:37.420 so,
00:09:39.020 you're still an A.
00:09:41.200 You're still.
00:09:41.780 Everything counts.
00:09:42.780 Yeah,
00:09:43.260 so just raise your hand when you think it's one abortion where she's at.
00:09:46.700 Okay?
00:09:47.420 So,
00:09:47.940 A,
00:09:48.960 B,
00:09:50.500 C,
00:09:50.960 C,
00:09:51.800 D,
00:09:53.680 F.
00:09:55.560 Wow,
00:09:55.820 this was a mix.
00:09:57.260 Yeah.
00:09:57.560 Oh,
00:09:57.760 wow.
00:09:58.480 What would you guys say the average of that was?
00:10:00.540 I think,
00:10:00.920 I feel like C was average.
00:10:04.280 All right.
00:10:04.800 It's just everything else.
00:10:05.920 Yeah,
00:10:06.240 I'd say.
00:10:07.180 All right,
00:10:07.500 so one abortion. 1.00
00:10:08.760 Would that mean two abortions brings you down another two? 1.00
00:10:11.700 Yeah,
00:10:12.060 because like,
00:10:12.720 one is a mistake,
00:10:13.840 two is just
00:10:15.100 extreme negligence.
00:10:16.940 Negligence.
00:10:17.640 Thank you.
00:10:18.280 Isn't one negligence?
00:10:21.020 But this is the thing.
00:10:22.100 We're looking at it as if the abortion is separate from the woman. 0.71
00:10:25.920 Once a woman gets an abortion, 1.00
00:10:27.940 that damages something in her.
00:10:29.340 Yeah,
00:10:30.120 it does.
00:10:30.260 And we're talking about that.
00:10:31.260 I'm not well-versed.
00:10:32.160 I don't know.
00:10:32.700 No,
00:10:32.960 think about it.
00:10:33.600 Because they always make abortion seem as if it's this thing where it saves the woman and this and that.
00:10:38.380 Yeah,
00:10:38.500 we get it.
00:10:39.200 Women go through things and they might think they want to get an abortion. 1.00
00:10:42.180 But people never talk about the effects abortions have on women. 0.85
00:10:46.980 So if we're talking about the woman you want to pick. 0.83
00:10:48.280 But it doesn't make you less valuable.
00:10:49.900 It's not about being valuable.
00:10:50.900 What I'm talking about is if I'm talking about the woman I want to pick to be my wife who I want to have a family with and she's had an abortion, there is a trauma that comes with that.