The Sad TRUTH About What Women Want
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and are joined by their good friend, to talk about a variety of topics. Topics covered include: 1. Why is it so important for women to be in touch with their emotions? 2. Why does it matter if a woman is in touch or not with her emotions when it comes to a man s emotions when she wants a guy to cuddle with her? 3. Why do women like a guy who is emotionally available to them? 4. What is the difference between a woman who s emotionally available and a man who's emotionally unavailable? 5. How is it important for a woman to be emotionally available? 6. How can a woman be emotionally unavailable to men? 7. How do you deal with the pressures of being emotionally unavailable in the dating world? 8. What does it mean to be an emotionally unavailable woman?
Transcript
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why why do you think women tell men that they want a guy that's in touch with their emotions
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when they leave guys that are i think they think it's true when they say it
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because we're living in a society we're like no because we live in a society on social media and
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that kind of that kind of a statement on social media gets you you go girl hard hard hard men are
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trash they should be in touch whatever because we're we're respecting attention more than we
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respect outcome also because girls like a cuddle so you think that's what you i mean when you're
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sitting lonely at home you think you're missing a cuddle yeah so that's what you yeah not when
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you're ovulating so that's the problem right it's like that's an emotional response you know it's
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interesting like i thought about this oh it is it isn't because different types of different types
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of the different times in the cycle you're gonna want different things you're gonna you know put
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that out to the world some guy's gonna read that oh all i have to do is tell a girl that i like to
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cuddle and i'll have lots of girls and that's a bad way the girl is wrong when she thinks of course
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she is i'm saying it's wrong but that's what you think in the moment that you're on your own swipe
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you know looking for somebody i made a decision so my mom had earned my dad and then they got
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divorced after like 22 years which is not surprising because my mom started to out on my dad and she
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was like oh yeah it was kind of cool i made a decision way before i ever got married that my wife
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was not gonna work like i'm like i'm gonna retire my wife i'll tell you and i'll tell you the base of my
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but the basis of that decision for me was really interesting right it's it's rooted in the fact
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that if my wife works is because she has to work obviously in order to help support the family and
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then let's say my wife wants to make more money and if she has a traditional job then she has to ask
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for a raise and who's she gonna ask for a raise her boss and it's statistically kind of likely you know
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men tend to work a lot more hours because they're not you know faced with the burden of childbearing
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it's kind of likely she's gonna have to go to another man to ask for an increase in her lifestyle
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i find that really offensive to my marriage if my wife has to approach another man and he's in
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control of our lifestyle that's like to me that's a pimp and that's that was my the base of my
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decision like my wife will never ask another man for an increase in lifestyle and you do the same
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for your daughters right 100 100 you know what's interesting um i didn't realize how inverse the
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relationship like basically when women started working that's when we stopped having children
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like i i didn't realize how like because i always thought it was with birth control and it
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partially is but when women um basically started going to college and working in the 20s that's
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like when the birth rate started to drop and you're like it was at like four or five 100 years ago and
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that's at like 1.5 imagine putting that into just a dating because a lot of people watching the show
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probably a little bit younger i'm 40 and they're probably like just in the dating state imagine like
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you're a guy dating a girl and she wants to go on a date and she goes to another man to ask for his money
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so that you can go on a date with her it's like who's paying for that date that's scary
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oh um i'm gonna read super chat for a second okay guys make sure you like the video um let's get to
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a thousand likes okay there's over a thousand of you in here we have 780 likes 780 i think unless i
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didn't refresh it and it's more sometimes that's what it's like it's a happy a like is free this is
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just rude this is just rude um it's like okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna read the super chats
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but i'm gonna be upset if after we are still we are not at a thousand likes this is this is crazy guys
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okay joe w don't forget about poland dimitri we went through uh commie ideology too huge respect to
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my slavic brother i'm proud of you man some advice for short kings how do we overcome that disadvantage
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we're gonna do that after i read the super chats i'll ask him okay dion c pearl do a show with auntie
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and dimitri on the sofa the two of them would put so many people on the right track in life dimitri you
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rock i think that's a great idea interracial relationships auntie's um she's in the she's
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out of town for a bit but she'll be back interracial relationships i'm a 41 year old
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currently with a 21 year old who pursued me for weeks i had accepted that i wasn't going to be able
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to perform sexually at the best until i gave into her advances in a week we had we had it 15 times
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wow that is a lot of times you are a happy man okay guys no i bet he's not stepping out you know what
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i mean guys no wonder she drinks pickle juice she's disgusting
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sorry these are not my opinions but the opinions
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everything is haram and islam is is uh is bad for you
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and the closer you are to the teachings of islam the more based and happy you are
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research islam yourselves or talk to two scholars because the media lies you know i recently had
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someone try to convert me on the streets yeah and sometimes i'm like you don't know who you're coming
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up to but i had a very interesting conversation they gave me a quran um dion c dimitri i'm so glad
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you're back on the show still the godfather of this of the show you need to get a youtube channel set up
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willie um pain jillene something uh i'm sorry guys i'm not good at pronouncing names it's just like
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my my kryptonite in life what if government gave free cars for 25 year marriage with kids and free
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house for 50 year marriages with kids shout out to my fellow single dads that would be a better incentive
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than the one we have now which pays you to leave but um i i do display chat this girl is not attractive
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um gus um the the men in the front row are an example that the simp demick is real as a simp who
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wants women with experience they aren't good leaders you can attract the women they want thanks for putting
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the simps in their place um carlos uh for pickles please watch the jar because classy ladies with
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neck tattoos will be trying to drink it when you're not looking let me let me refresh it one more i'm not
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classy i'll put it out there i'm not i never will be i'm not a classy woman um okay so the the short
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comment well first of all two things number one pickle juice has a name it's brine b-r-i-n-e so that's use
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that for your next world um and i think calling you pickle isn't nice when we have such a great
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nickname pickle trick because i'm a big fan of pickle rick so pickle trick oh i have a pickle rick pillow
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on my bed so now you're pickle trick so that's really good um there's actually it's actually
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so let me tell you a quick story pearl and i were talking about this before the show i was five foot
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five and a half like i was about 162 centimeters coming out of high school in grade 12 i was five foot
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five i was a little dude and i was like and so for me i was like being a little dude in high school is
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really hard because i just hit it late man i just i don't i didn't know i was going to turn out tall
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i was just like a little guy going into college i've always identified as like the short little guy
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right and that made it really hard for me so i made like a decision that i have to work on other things
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and i'm really glad i went through that because it really forced me to work on my social intelligence
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like i read a lot of books like this is before we had these shows before the internet i was just
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buying books on psychology and like the female brain is a good one uh there's one called the male brain
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which is really interesting too i was just buying all these psychology books to learn about mating
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habits actually to understand how to compete in a marketplace as a five foot five man um which was
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which was more challenging what's interesting though so all my decisions that i made in like
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university and then afterwards were all about how to compete as a five foot five man during that time
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i grew a lot and then i became dangerous because now i'm like tall and i have the social intelligence i
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worked on with all the other guys that were naturals didn't have to work on it for a lot of guys going
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at the gym is is sort of that but there's a really interesting study i read that said that the top
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one percent man is is really easy to define it's making six figures a hundred thousand and a six
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foot tall why because about ten percent of men roughly are six foot or taller about ten percent
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and about ten percent of men in the western world statistically make a hundred thousand or more
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that's a real stat so ten percent of ten percent is one percent so if you're if you want to be in
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the one percent you got to be six foot make six figures for every inch that you give up for every
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two and a half centimeters for our british listeners for every inch you give up under six foot tall
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you compensate for that with an extra hundred thousand dollars in income no way so if you're
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if you're five eleven it's two hundred thousand to be top one percent if you're five ten it's three
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hundred thousand and if you're five nine it's four hundred thousand if some of you guys are listening
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on five eight i have to make half a million dollars a year that sounds like a lot it's actually not
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it's not that crazy it's very achievable let me tell you guys something if you want to
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know the statistic of how achievable it is more men have six packs sorry reverse that more men
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are are millionaires than those that have six packs now can you believe you're that if you can go to
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the gym eventually you can develop a six pack you might say yes i can there are fewer men that have
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a six pack than there are than there are million men correct because there's not one out of ten guys
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have six packs right right pickle trick you've seen men's stomach not one out of ten have six packs
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you've done it you're if you're if you like so so so you can imagine that actually becoming a millionaire is
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statistically easier uh than than get developing a six pack again plugging lgfg guys lgfg.com if you
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go to our website we recruit men to make a million dollars here that's why i'm here that's why i'm here
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what what is the quickest way to make a million dollars other than working probably pickle tricking
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right um so i don't know the answer to that but but i'll tell you i know i probably know about 15 000
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millionaires that are clients of our company so i've i've talked a lot of them i interviewed a lot of them
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starting a podcast literally interviewing the top one percent of men to get their life story they all
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do different things but there's one thing they all have in common and that thing is really really
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simple they've only ever done one thing they're not jumping from job to job every year and a half
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two years where they're a rookie again i don't like it no they accept that in their work there's
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something they have to do which they don't like to do but it gets the results they need and sales
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for us that's picking up the phone and cold calling nobody likes it but we do it because we
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know that it gets us to where we be nobody likes going to the gym come on you sell yourself on
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going to the gym right guys you have to sell yourself and convince yourself to do things you
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don't like those men don't jump around they pick a career they stick with it and they get in the top
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five percent of their career and then it's just like some guys are literally running garbage disposal
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companies one of the richest guys i've ever ever had as a client sold little stickers for the
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laundromats that go on your little hangers when you dry clean your shirt that was his business there's
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all sorts of way to do it but all of them have stuck to one thing and they've learned to dominate
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the one thing that they do what what what are the most like do you know the most common industries
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millionaires are in oh the most common industry yeah i mean i would say probably law would be a big
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one oh really law yeah law is huge but keep in mind again when we're thinking about rich lawyers it's
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really the top like five percent that are in that bracket there's a lot of average guys too uh banking is
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there listen everything i'm in the suit business we have guys i got i got a guy that's what are we one week
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into the month he's made like twenty thousand dollars so far in his first week this month just
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selling suits just selling suits you know so sales is a big one um obviously if you're looking at like
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statistically about 50 percent of all millionaires are small business owners about 50 percent are
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small business about half um and though and by the way that half that that also qualifies in our
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company because in our company our sales people build a clientele they're building a business kind
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of like financial advisors what are insurance people what are real estate people you build like your
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dad build a portfolio of clients with his i.t company but it's but entrepreneurialism and sales
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are about half of all the millionaires in the western world wow