JustPearlyThings - The Sad TRUTH About What Women Want

In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and are joined by their good friend, to talk about a variety of topics. Topics covered include: 1. Why is it so important for women to be in touch with their emotions? 2. Why does it matter if a woman is in touch or not with her emotions when it comes to a man s emotions when she wants a guy to cuddle with her? 3. Why do women like a guy who is emotionally available to them? 4. What is the difference between a woman who s emotionally available and a man who's emotionally unavailable? 5. How is it important for a woman to be emotionally available? 6. How can a woman be emotionally unavailable to men? 7. How do you deal with the pressures of being emotionally unavailable in the dating world? 8. What does it mean to be an emotionally unavailable woman?

00:00:00.960 why why do you think women tell men that they want a guy that's in touch with their emotions 1.00

00:00:05.920 when they leave guys that are i think they think it's true when they say it 0.98

00:00:14.080 because we're living in a society we're like no because we live in a society on social media and

00:00:18.320 that kind of that kind of a statement on social media gets you you go girl hard hard hard men are 0.56

00:00:22.560 trash they should be in touch whatever because we're we're respecting attention more than we 0.72

00:00:27.680 respect outcome also because girls like a cuddle so you think that's what you i mean when you're 0.99

00:00:34.080 sitting lonely at home you think you're missing a cuddle yeah so that's what you yeah not when

00:00:39.280 you're ovulating so that's the problem right it's like that's an emotional response you know it's

00:00:42.720 interesting like i thought about this oh it is it isn't because different types of different types

00:00:47.360 of the different times in the cycle you're gonna want different things you're gonna you know put

00:00:50.560 that out to the world some guy's gonna read that oh all i have to do is tell a girl that i like to

00:00:54.240 cuddle and i'll have lots of girls and that's a bad way the girl is wrong when she thinks of course 1.00

00:00:58.080 she is i'm saying it's wrong but that's what you think in the moment that you're on your own swipe

00:01:02.720 you know looking for somebody i made a decision so my mom had earned my dad and then they got

00:01:06.880 divorced after like 22 years which is not surprising because my mom started to out on my dad and she

00:01:10.640 was like oh yeah it was kind of cool i made a decision way before i ever got married that my wife

00:01:15.360 was not gonna work like i'm like i'm gonna retire my wife i'll tell you and i'll tell you the base of my

00:01:19.280 but the basis of that decision for me was really interesting right it's it's rooted in the fact

00:01:23.600 that if my wife works is because she has to work obviously in order to help support the family and 0.99

00:01:28.320 then let's say my wife wants to make more money and if she has a traditional job then she has to ask 1.00

00:01:32.480 for a raise and who's she gonna ask for a raise her boss and it's statistically kind of likely you know

00:01:38.720 men tend to work a lot more hours because they're not you know faced with the burden of childbearing

00:01:44.240 it's kind of likely she's gonna have to go to another man to ask for an increase in her lifestyle 1.00

00:01:48.560 i find that really offensive to my marriage if my wife has to approach another man and he's in 1.00

00:01:52.880 control of our lifestyle that's like to me that's a pimp and that's that was my the base of my

00:01:57.760 decision like my wife will never ask another man for an increase in lifestyle and you do the same 1.00

00:02:01.520 for your daughters right 100 100 you know what's interesting um i didn't realize how inverse the

00:02:09.280 relationship like basically when women started working that's when we stopped having children 1.00

00:02:13.920 like i i didn't realize how like because i always thought it was with birth control and it

00:02:17.680 partially is but when women um basically started going to college and working in the 20s that's 1.00

00:02:23.760 like when the birth rate started to drop and you're like it was at like four or five 100 years ago and

00:02:30.640 that's at like 1.5 imagine putting that into just a dating because a lot of people watching the show

00:02:34.640 probably a little bit younger i'm 40 and they're probably like just in the dating state imagine like

00:02:38.560 you're a guy dating a girl and she wants to go on a date and she goes to another man to ask for his money

00:02:42.720 so that you can go on a date with her it's like who's paying for that date that's scary

00:02:49.600 oh um i'm gonna read super chat for a second okay guys make sure you like the video um let's get to

00:02:55.760 a thousand likes okay there's over a thousand of you in here we have 780 likes 780 i think unless i

00:03:02.560 didn't refresh it and it's more sometimes that's what it's like it's a happy a like is free this is

00:03:10.480 just rude this is just rude um it's like okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna read the super chats

00:03:20.880 but i'm gonna be upset if after we are still we are not at a thousand likes this is this is crazy guys

00:03:26.480 okay joe w don't forget about poland dimitri we went through uh commie ideology too huge respect to

00:03:34.160 my slavic brother i'm proud of you man some advice for short kings how do we overcome that disadvantage

00:03:40.160 we're gonna do that after i read the super chats i'll ask him okay dion c pearl do a show with auntie 0.92

00:03:46.320 and dimitri on the sofa the two of them would put so many people on the right track in life dimitri you

00:03:50.880 rock i think that's a great idea interracial relationships auntie's um she's in the she's 0.91

00:03:57.040 out of town for a bit but she'll be back interracial relationships i'm a 41 year old

00:04:02.080 currently with a 21 year old who pursued me for weeks i had accepted that i wasn't going to be able

00:04:06.960 to perform sexually at the best until i gave into her advances in a week we had we had it 15 times

00:04:14.640 wow that is a lot of times you are a happy man okay guys no i bet he's not stepping out you know what 0.99

00:04:23.280 i mean guys no wonder she drinks pickle juice she's disgusting 1.00

00:04:32.320 sorry these are not my opinions but the opinions 0.99

00:04:38.240 everything is haram and islam is is uh is bad for you 1.00

00:04:43.120 and the closer you are to the teachings of islam the more based and happy you are

00:04:47.120 research islam yourselves or talk to two scholars because the media lies you know i recently had

00:04:52.320 someone try to convert me on the streets yeah and sometimes i'm like you don't know who you're coming

00:04:57.760 up to but i had a very interesting conversation they gave me a quran um dion c dimitri i'm so glad

00:05:04.320 you're back on the show still the godfather of this of the show you need to get a youtube channel set up

00:05:09.920 willie um pain jillene something uh i'm sorry guys i'm not good at pronouncing names it's just like

00:05:16.640 my my kryptonite in life what if government gave free cars for 25 year marriage with kids and free 0.99

00:05:24.320 house for 50 year marriages with kids shout out to my fellow single dads that would be a better incentive

00:05:31.280 than the one we have now which pays you to leave but um i i do display chat this girl is not attractive 1.00

00:05:40.880 um gus um the the men in the front row are an example that the simp demick is real as a simp who

00:05:50.080 wants women with experience they aren't good leaders you can attract the women they want thanks for putting 1.00

00:05:56.080 the simps in their place um carlos uh for pickles please watch the jar because classy ladies with 1.00

00:06:04.240 neck tattoos will be trying to drink it when you're not looking let me let me refresh it one more i'm not

00:06:10.880 classy i'll put it out there i'm not i never will be i'm not a classy woman um okay so the the short

00:06:18.080 comment well first of all two things number one pickle juice has a name it's brine b-r-i-n-e so that's use

00:06:24.320 that for your next world um and i think calling you pickle isn't nice when we have such a great

00:06:28.400 nickname pickle trick because i'm a big fan of pickle rick so pickle trick oh i have a pickle rick pillow

00:06:36.800 on my bed so now you're pickle trick so that's really good um there's actually it's actually

00:06:41.520 so let me tell you a quick story pearl and i were talking about this before the show i was five foot

00:06:45.360 five and a half like i was about 162 centimeters coming out of high school in grade 12 i was five foot

00:06:50.720 five i was a little dude and i was like and so for me i was like being a little dude in high school is

00:06:54.800 really hard because i just hit it late man i just i don't i didn't know i was going to turn out tall

00:06:58.720 i was just like a little guy going into college i've always identified as like the short little guy

00:07:01.920 right and that made it really hard for me so i made like a decision that i have to work on other things

00:07:05.760 and i'm really glad i went through that because it really forced me to work on my social intelligence

00:07:10.640 like i read a lot of books like this is before we had these shows before the internet i was just

00:07:14.800 buying books on psychology and like the female brain is a good one uh there's one called the male brain

00:07:20.080 which is really interesting too i was just buying all these psychology books to learn about mating

00:07:23.280 habits actually to understand how to compete in a marketplace as a five foot five man um which was

00:07:28.880 which was more challenging what's interesting though so all my decisions that i made in like

00:07:32.880 university and then afterwards were all about how to compete as a five foot five man during that time

00:07:36.640 i grew a lot and then i became dangerous because now i'm like tall and i have the social intelligence i

00:07:43.520 worked on with all the other guys that were naturals didn't have to work on it for a lot of guys going

00:07:47.200 at the gym is is sort of that but there's a really interesting study i read that said that the top

00:07:52.640 one percent man is is really easy to define it's making six figures a hundred thousand and a six

00:07:56.720 foot tall why because about ten percent of men roughly are six foot or taller about ten percent

00:08:00.880 and about ten percent of men in the western world statistically make a hundred thousand or more

00:08:04.160 that's a real stat so ten percent of ten percent is one percent so if you're if you want to be in

00:08:08.000 the one percent you got to be six foot make six figures for every inch that you give up for every

00:08:12.480 two and a half centimeters for our british listeners for every inch you give up under six foot tall

00:08:16.400 you compensate for that with an extra hundred thousand dollars in income no way so if you're

00:08:20.400 if you're five eleven it's two hundred thousand to be top one percent if you're five ten it's three

00:08:24.000 hundred thousand and if you're five nine it's four hundred thousand if some of you guys are listening

00:08:28.000 on five eight i have to make half a million dollars a year that sounds like a lot it's actually not

00:08:32.000 it's not that crazy it's very achievable let me tell you guys something if you want to

00:08:35.040 know the statistic of how achievable it is more men have six packs sorry reverse that more men 0.76

00:08:42.080 are are millionaires than those that have six packs now can you believe you're that if you can go to

00:08:46.160 the gym eventually you can develop a six pack you might say yes i can there are fewer men that have

00:08:50.560 a six pack than there are than there are million men correct because there's not one out of ten guys

00:08:54.320 have six packs right right pickle trick you've seen men's stomach not one out of ten have six packs

00:09:01.600 you've done it you're if you're if you like so so so you can imagine that actually becoming a millionaire is

00:09:06.880 statistically easier uh than than get developing a six pack again plugging lgfg guys lgfg.com if you

00:09:12.800 go to our website we recruit men to make a million dollars here that's why i'm here that's why i'm here

00:09:17.280 what what is the quickest way to make a million dollars other than working probably pickle tricking

00:09:22.000 right um so i don't know the answer to that but but i'll tell you i know i probably know about 15 000

00:09:29.680 millionaires that are clients of our company so i've i've talked a lot of them i interviewed a lot of them

00:09:33.280 starting a podcast literally interviewing the top one percent of men to get their life story they all

00:09:37.440 do different things but there's one thing they all have in common and that thing is really really

00:09:41.120 simple they've only ever done one thing they're not jumping from job to job every year and a half

00:09:45.440 two years where they're a rookie again i don't like it no they accept that in their work there's

00:09:49.760 something they have to do which they don't like to do but it gets the results they need and sales

00:09:53.760 for us that's picking up the phone and cold calling nobody likes it but we do it because we

00:09:57.520 know that it gets us to where we be nobody likes going to the gym come on you sell yourself on

00:10:01.520 going to the gym right guys you have to sell yourself and convince yourself to do things you

00:10:05.120 don't like those men don't jump around they pick a career they stick with it and they get in the top

00:10:09.440 five percent of their career and then it's just like some guys are literally running garbage disposal

00:10:14.160 companies one of the richest guys i've ever ever had as a client sold little stickers for the

00:10:19.600 laundromats that go on your little hangers when you dry clean your shirt that was his business there's

00:10:24.320 all sorts of way to do it but all of them have stuck to one thing and they've learned to dominate

00:10:28.320 the one thing that they do what what what are the most like do you know the most common industries

00:10:35.440 millionaires are in oh the most common industry yeah i mean i would say probably law would be a big

00:10:40.240 one oh really law yeah law is huge but keep in mind again when we're thinking about rich lawyers it's

00:10:45.120 really the top like five percent that are in that bracket there's a lot of average guys too uh banking is

00:10:50.080 there listen everything i'm in the suit business we have guys i got i got a guy that's what are we one week

00:10:55.280 into the month he's made like twenty thousand dollars so far in his first week this month just

00:11:00.560 selling suits just selling suits you know so sales is a big one um obviously if you're looking at like

00:11:06.560 statistically about 50 percent of all millionaires are small business owners about 50 percent are

00:11:11.680 small business about half um and though and by the way that half that that also qualifies in our

00:11:17.120 company because in our company our sales people build a clientele they're building a business kind

00:11:20.080 of like financial advisors what are insurance people what are real estate people you build like your

00:11:23.520 dad build a portfolio of clients with his i.t company but it's but entrepreneurialism and sales

00:11:29.520 are about half of all the millionaires in the western world wow

JustPearlyThings - August 02, 2023

The Sad TRUTH About What Women Want

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