JustPearlyThings - July 21, 2023


The True Reason Men are Going MGTOW


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

207.74585

Word count

1,940

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

10

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In this episode we discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to cheating and what it means to be a woman in the modern dating world. We discuss the differences between women and men and how women are more childish than men.

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00:00:00.000 what i'm trying to say is i think if a woman takes a guy seriously under the age of 21 and
00:00:09.620 he's cheated that's on you because we're not our mentality women to me mature far more than men
00:00:17.340 at a different age who's more childish men or women men there's men that's all like 40 50
00:00:23.440 still playing playstation you know i'll say you know i'll say with um generally speaking with women
00:00:30.800 that have kids yeah i feel like they they learn a certain sense of responsibility and that no one's
00:00:36.560 coming to save them because they have a responsibility yeah i mean up until then i think they can be a bit
00:00:41.900 childish in in society they're playing a step that no one wants to do i think i don't actually think
00:00:46.300 that men are more mature than women i don't think no i think men are more mature than women really
00:00:52.340 yeah i see it i see that you know um my there's this saying that's like right when a woman starts
00:00:59.520 to receive attention from men she like doesn't age mentally so like she's like whatever age it was
00:01:05.280 so 13 14 15 and i went out and i had this like red pill moment a couple years ago my mom i got in
00:01:11.200 trouble in high school so she sent me to my grandma's house and i was at um and it was weird because a lot
00:01:16.480 of um the grandmas were like widows right so the grandmas all went like to this like karaoke bar 1.00
00:01:21.600 and it's like a wee small town and the way they were talking i was like this sounds like me and
00:01:25.720 my friends and we're like 14 15
00:01:27.600 um but i i think like in media they always paint women as the smart ones and men as the dumb ones
00:01:36.600 and i think that like if you think of the simpsons it's always you know marge is smart bart is dumb 0.57
00:01:41.880 yeah homers dumb 0.90
00:01:44.000 um family guys this fat guy that can't be trusted with anything i think like in general
00:01:49.480 women play way more childish games than men do but women are a lot smarter and a lot smarter 1.00
00:01:54.960 and same thing like when women cheat because women cheat i think that's how to manipulate 1.00
00:01:58.840 but that's that's why you're better at it because we don't have physical power we have manipulative
00:02:02.760 men we're not that good like women would do smart thing my ex my ex partner used to do stuff like 1.00
00:02:08.000 when i was sleeping would just do the fingerprint thing and go through my messages that's a smart
00:02:12.520 thing to do i mean she knows i'm a deep sleeper
00:02:15.000 so she knows she can pick up my finger and go through my messages which got me in a lot of trouble
00:02:21.000 that's smart like for us we as men we ain't we ain't we ain't really trying to do that we ain't even
00:02:27.000 thinking that because i think that question is very is a very nuanced question because there
00:02:30.500 are there are a lot of areas in society where women are like a lot more mature than men in
00:02:35.620 certain areas like when it comes like emotional like how to do with one's emotions women got 0.98
00:02:40.140 that pass from today one because that's literally most of what they do from i disagree what women 1.00
00:02:46.220 love emotions women women are in control of them not i didn't say in control i said i said no i 1.00
00:02:53.600 didn't say get down pat i just said have have the ability to look at their emotions and be one
00:02:58.680 with their most of the guys don't accept accept it i'm not saying that they even they've mastered it
00:03:04.320 because yeah but like the fact that women have gone through this emotional turmoil when they go 0.69
00:03:08.480 through all the time and like if they see a dog dies is just like the worst thing in the world and
00:03:12.480 have you guys ever gone through a guy's phone
00:03:16.160 tell the truth tell the truth really my ex has gone through mine though zoinks i appreciate
00:03:23.500 why'd you go through his phone because i knew he was doing something dodgy yeah i wouldn't do it
00:03:36.080 unless i had a suspicion um and i had a suspicion and i was right and every time i've done it i've been
00:03:41.160 right what'd you find but now i've got to a point where i will never do it because every time i've
00:03:45.620 done it i found something and i actually really like my boyfriend so i like even if i get the
00:03:49.900 feeling i'm like i don't even want to do it just leave it at this point what did you find uh naked
00:03:58.180 pictures from other girls oh wow yeah but like how i used to get that all the time oh what do you
00:04:04.260 my my ex-girlfriend like girlfriends i've had have gone one pacific partner has gone through my phone
00:04:09.460 and woke me up at like three in the morning and been like oh blah blah blah i'm like but how did
00:04:14.520 you know and i've been i don't know i don't i don't know like not continuous but my younger days
00:04:19.480 like i would just be like but how did you even know i was talking to her on facebook or how did
00:04:24.580 you know well i can answer that one what what what made you think anything like a woman always knows 0.96
00:04:29.080 i'm like what is this how does your behavior probably change it but i'm a really good actor
00:04:33.820 no no no because there's a lot of subconscious things that you would do yeah okay so it's like
00:04:40.140 we we pick up on little social cues that like men don't right so like okay we'll see
00:04:45.240 it we'll we'll notice let's say if you don't like text us around the time you normally text us
00:04:51.600 yeah or like or if you don't do something you normally do that you wouldn't like think anything
00:04:55.880 i'm like women we notice yeah we notice everything or if like you have a certain interaction with a
00:05:00.360 girl and you think well that's how he used to interact with me i like when we first met
00:05:04.700 because the thing is the thing is guys have this as well and guys you know the whole the whole thing
00:05:09.480 of like guys knowing who that one guy friend who's actually trying to fuck guys also see this as
00:05:14.420 well so we all we understand this is very it's just kind of different how we go about dealing
00:05:19.180 with it so guys will go go around be like oh that one friend we'll just say it directly because
00:05:24.660 guys are way more direct than women we're like yo that friend zeke or whatever his name is zach or 0.98
00:05:29.540 i'm trying to think of random names oh zach's trying to fuck you like there's going to be 0.97
00:05:34.000 the ones where guys will tell their girlfriend no no he's not he's just like a brother to me
00:05:37.600 a girl will do will look at the same information and instead of just saying it outright like yo
00:05:43.560 sarah's trying to have sex with you bro they'll be like they'll go around and be like 0.99
00:05:47.400 get you to see it through their words type of thing you know i mean it's very different
00:05:53.880 approaches that guys and girls the approach that we take sometimes as guys is like we think that
00:05:58.660 that's going to repulse the girl the girl likes sex bro and she likes to take attention if you say 1.00
00:06:02.360 you know you know that male friend he wants to fuck you know he wants to fuck you she might be like oh is 1.00
00:06:09.400 it you know i mean she probably knows already but you know at the end of the day that's why i think
00:06:12.800 like with male friends um with women and guys like having that friendship it's very much um
00:06:18.880 it works in a woman's favor a lot of the time so you wouldn't let me be friends with your girl 1.00
00:06:22.380 sorry you wouldn't let me establish that no you you know i don't i don't i don't think you're a friend
00:06:27.620 we're good bro we're good but but i've i would i would treat you like a male friend that she has in
00:06:32.440 it so the boundaries will be there ain't no let's get changed together you can't come in one day and
00:06:36.980 you're in their chain all right listen to this yeah i once had a girl what was she she wanted to
00:06:41.080 come around my yard and and work or something and she was like oh her boyfriend won't allow it
00:06:47.040 because it's just me and her i was like but why though it's just me and her she's working from
00:06:51.260 instead of working from home it's about not putting her so her boyfriend said no yeah it's about her
00:06:58.120 not being in a space or in a situation where something could happen there should be boundaries
00:07:03.040 in place if you're in a relationship she's a friend of mine she's a good friend she was a good
00:07:07.480 friend of mine yeah but like put it like this i was in a situation where i hope to go do her
00:07:11.840 assignment but by the end of the night did we finish your assignment no
00:07:14.880 you finished another assignment no no because the situation like one-on-one in those type of
00:07:22.300 situations and those type of times i can 100% understand that the guy being like oh i feel a bit
00:07:28.060 or whatever you think your face you were even scheming i could see when is that guy that cheats
00:07:34.420 on and then he'll say no before 25 don't count before 25 don't you know you have them and they'll
00:07:39.440 be like yo my girl's trying to say i was cheating on her and i'm like yeah but bro you what you were
00:07:43.360 it's me it's me you're talking to bro like wait it's us yeah it's us it's fine we get it we understand
00:07:51.060 you just don't want to put yourself in a situation where something could come back
00:07:55.060 let's say the girl lies and you can't really defend yourself it's her word against yours 0.93
00:07:59.460 i think that there should be boundaries in place like i don't think it's okay if you are if she's
00:08:05.060 in a relationship it's not okay for her to be bopping up to your room to work like why i don't 1.00
00:08:09.440 understand no but you're just chilling you're working from home you usually work from home did
00:08:14.020 you when she said that to you did you say you know what i understand that's a really like that's
00:08:18.380 great your boyfriend had boundaries or did you say oh that's horrible i said to her but he knows i'm
00:08:24.140 bino that doesn't help have you have been intimate before we got we we we no we haven't we got
00:08:32.140 in a situation where i knew she had feelings for me oh no no no no no no i'm a nice guy this is how we don't trust you bro
00:08:48.140 come on come on i just wanted that friendship that's all i wanted whatever whatever whatever
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