The Type Of RELATIONSHIP This Modern Woman Wants To Have
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a 'traditional' woman in the modern dating world. We talk about what a traditional woman would look for in a partner, what they would have in common and how they would survive in a relationship. We also talk about the differences between a modern woman and a traditional man.
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Do you guys think you guys would have a lot in common?
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I, like, prefer it when we have nothing in common.
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Like, what would you guys discuss if you guys...
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So, then that would basically be, like, dating air.
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I was like, do men really want to listen to us talk?
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I think it's very attractive when you're with a partner
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and they've got something that can educate you.
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They don't want to hear, oh, do you remember what my friend does?
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But if it's something learning and knowledgeable, thank you.
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That's what I'm saying, like, what's the news reporter
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But when you think about it, it's like, when you just look at it,
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Like, in general, she just comes across, she might know a lot more.
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But obviously, he might end up learning way more from her
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And journalists are actually very intelligent people.
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I know vice versa, but at the same time, he's probably going to learn
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So it's like, in that sense, she kind of is valid to, like,
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you know, maybe she wants to, like, learn from her partner.
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Like, maybe that's why she doesn't want a bus driver.
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I feel like she could date a lawyer or she could date a shopkeeper
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Like, there's actual levels to things in this life.
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And I feel like that's, they would have absolutely nothing in common.
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And I'm not even judging it due to his pockets.
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I feel like in that aspect, she's allowed to say that
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And she's better off dating her than dating someone that she...
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In history, people didn't have anything in common.
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Like, having similar hobbies to a guy, that's a new thing.
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No, you have to have something in common with someone.
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Okay, even on the farm, like, they did different roles.
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No, but I'm saying they both did different roles on the farm.
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Like, the woman was more in the house, the guy was more in the field.
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But managing that whole property, that was what they had in common.
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And so you would still have the family in common in this situation.
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But we're talking a lot about, like, traditional women.
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But I just want to understand, like, you guys' thoughts on traditional men.
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Do you feel like it's common as well, that do men play their part?
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I think that there's more traditional men than traditional women.
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Okay, and then can we just go over what a traditional man is, just in brief?
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I would say a guy that wants to protect and provide.
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I think I've been researching more about, like, guys providing.
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And I don't know what $50,000 to $60,000 is in the U.K., but you can actually live off of a lot.
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$50,000 to $60,000, that's about, what, like, $40,000?
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Yeah, so on $40,000, you can feed roughly a family of four or five if you do it right.
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Like, you can homeschool the kids if you want, and you go out into the suburbs and he commutes to work.
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The thing is, most guys naturally want to be providers and protectors, but most women set standards that are way too high for most men to meet.
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Can you give us an example of a standard that's high, too high?
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If you want to have your nails done the rest of your life.
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And you want makeup the rest of your life, could you go without that expense for a family?
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I've heard your perspective on the makeup thing.
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A lot of women, like, won't go down in lifestyle for a family.
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No, you might, you might, but I'm saying, like, a lot of women won't.
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Because I was speaking to a woman who raised, like, four or five kids on, like, 40 to 50K.
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And she was, like, giving examples of jobs you can go for.
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But she was giving examples, like, for women of jobs you can go for and, like, places you can find those men and, like, how you can do it.
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And she's like, you only, like, when you go down to one income, it's less money.
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And if you homeschool the kids, it's less money.
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If you grow your own food, it's the funny, less money.
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But even on the thing about maintaining, like, appearances and stuff, makeup nails, like, for me personally, like, I believe in enhancing what you naturally have.
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I'm just saying as an example of the fact that I take time to actually look after my natural qualities.
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So, if I did need to, like, come off it, I could not wear makeup tomorrow and I couldn't get my nails on tomorrow.
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And if all the shops ended and everything, all this, da, da, da, da, I could survive and look good naturally.
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So, that's what I think women need to concentrate on more than just adding on things to themselves.
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Well, but women make 80% of consumer buying decisions.
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That means men only spend 20% of, like, what is spent.
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No, I think it's because women, we're more impulsive and we just make more emotional decisions.
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I think when it comes to maintenance and things, I think every woman should look after themselves.
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I think the mistake that us females make is we spend too much money looking after themselves.
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Like, there's so many ways to look nice and do it on a budget.
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Like, for example, with me, I've always been a girly gal.
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And when I got, like, my first few jobs, I used to spend so much money on clothes and would have nothing left.
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Then I decided, let me just be a fashion influencer and I haven't spent money on clothes in, like, the last three years.
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So there's, and even as well, sometimes I resell those clothes.
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So there's smart ways to look good, but actually do it on a budget.
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So for all the girls watching this, I strongly encourage you to not fall into that pressure of feeling like you have to spend thousands every month just to look good because you really don't.
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The woman I spoke to said she spent, I think it was less than a hundred a year on clothes for five kids because they would do resales and hand-me-downs.
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That takes a lot of time and patience, I guess.
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Do you think maintenance is important for men, though, as well?
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I feel like hygiene is definitely important because no one wants a smelly man, but the reason why is not important because for women, that's not what we look for.
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I feel like our main priority is someone that can protect and provide, not someone that's going to be aesthetically pleasing to us.
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Men care more about Gucci than actually going out and having an LV belt.
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Yeah, men care more about Gucci and having an LV belt and looking nice than actually, you know, going out and having a job.
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Again, the numbers just don't support you because men aren't really spending money like that.
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I think modern men, especially men in my generation.
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No, I'm telling you, if you look at the numbers of, like, the money spent, it's not, it's women that are spending money.
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But, again, you probably, you guys don't see 80% of men.
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And I'm, like, I'm saying, like, for most men, you find 80% of men is unattractive.
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But, well, statistics don't lie, so I can't even argue with that.
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No, I think it's important for a man to take care of himself.
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But just to answer your question, like, if you're talking, like, getting, like, facials or just skincare.
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Skincare is so important, like, across the board.
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Okay, Sergi, dating a bus driver doesn't mean she'll live in a bus.
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Some of these girls will end up alone and wish they had a bus driver.
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I bet a bus driver knows more about life and people than these girls.
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Cameron, average women are better than average men by objective standards.
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The delusion of this show is that average men are meant to reproduce.
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Everyone plays their part on a bell curve, like it or not.
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Interracial relationships, a problem with modern women is how they can dismiss, regard, and minimize contributions men provide to women.
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No amount of money can buy a good man, and no woman is entitled to a relationship.
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Falling feels like flying until you hit the ground.
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These ladies are falling, and the ground is approaching.
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Alona, how do you ladies nurture your man when he's struggling to reach his goals?
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Examples of times you wanted to object or complain about a man's choice for you, too, but instead supported equals submissive.
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I'm going to add that, actually, to my list of questions I ask people.
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I've been damaged mentally, emotionally, physically.
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Can you remember that, King, for when I'm done?
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When I hear I am the table at this point, I'm hearing I bring nothing other than problems and drama.
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I see broken tables with everyone chewing gum stuck to the bottom.
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You may be the table, but the man brought the house to the table, brought the house to the table, sits and stops thinking you're special, you're not.
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Amina, in my culture, virgin girls have a religion beauty, then she is above average.
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If she has beauty, but she's not a virgin, not religious, then she's not valued by men.
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Cameron, are you even interested in modern solutions?
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Pearl, you bottled that dude last show, and he was so mid compared to the other guests.
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The UK economist, please ask, why do women who grew up in average working class communities believe they are entitled to high earning men and a higher class?
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Pearl, don't look at homeschooling as you're teaching the courses to your children by yourself.
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The Clue channel, another W, oh, wait, this is from my last stream.
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Gus, can't believe you, 304, as a base of man's masculinity on job title.
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You can have a bachelor's degree and still be an idiot.
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Winter, summer, Pearl, according to Directions Credit Union, here's what they found.
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Overall spending, single men outspent, single men outspent single women.
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Men spent an average of $41,208 a year as opposed to $38,838 by women.
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I'd be curious because I know that men only make 20% of consumer buying decisions, so I'm
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Sergi Bernard, I'm dating a bus driver doesn't mean she'll live in the bus.
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I'm dating a bus driver, I'm dating a bus driver, I'm dating a bus driver, I'm dating a bus driver,
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So we don't look back for anything that's going on like maybe nine days or something and
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