JustPearlyThings - April 27, 2023


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In this episode, we discuss Shakira's recent cheating scandal and how she should have lowered her standards when it comes to men. We also talk about when women should start lowering their standards and what age should they start setting them.

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00:00:00.000 Okay, I get so much flack for this, okay, because I think that if you're dating a rapper, an entertainer, you should just expect to get cheated on, to be honest.
00:00:10.580 Like, what did you expect?
00:00:12.920 And so, like, if you come back crying later that they cheated on you, I don't really have a lot of sympathy because there's an average Joe down the street that you could have dated that would have been faithful.
00:00:20.620 You didn't want to, which is fine.
00:00:21.920 I don't fault you for going for what you want.
00:00:24.300 But it's like, am I going to really feel bad for that one, what's her name?
00:00:28.540 Um, my hips don't lie, chick. 1.00
00:00:31.720 Hips don't lie, you know, Shakira, she just got cheated on by that soccer player. 1.00
00:00:35.980 I'm like, Shakira, there's a lot of average dudes who would have dated you.
00:00:38.800 Now you're breaking up your whole family because a baller cheated on. 0.58
00:00:45.500 What do you think was going to happen?
00:00:46.960 Like, I think she's extremely unrealistic.
00:00:50.120 First of all, for her to think she's actually going to attract ballers is actually shocking.
00:00:55.000 The second thing is that her standards, it has nothing to do with character or values.
00:01:01.540 Everything is just status.
00:01:02.740 I need a rapper. 0.99
00:01:03.540 I need a $200,000 ring.
00:01:05.420 Third of all, she doesn't even have the time to sit there and be that picky because she's reached 30. 1.00
00:01:10.040 I don't understand why women don't understand by that. 0.99
00:01:12.640 By the age of 25, like, your value as a woman, I'm so sorry to say, starts to decrease.
00:01:17.860 So I don't know why she has this unrealistic standards that she's just going to find this rapper. 1.00
00:01:23.120 He's going to...
00:01:24.240 Her hair is getting on my nerves.
00:01:27.860 What do you guys think?
00:01:29.540 Are you spending $200,000 on an engagement ring?
00:01:33.100 How, yeah.
00:01:34.300 Hell no.
00:01:35.260 I mean, because this one seems like, you know, she's basing whatever she wants on materialistic things rather than actually someone that actually loves her.
00:01:42.840 You know, she has all these high expectations.
00:01:45.040 I mean, I didn't really get to see her face properly, but, you know, she sounds like a very ugly person inside. 1.00
00:01:50.180 And I wouldn't even look twice on something like that.
00:01:52.340 I mean, I'm sorry.
00:01:53.000 I'll take one look at that and spit that out personally.
00:01:56.740 Yeah.
00:01:57.440 So.
00:01:58.540 Yeah, don't get me wrong, innit?
00:02:00.240 Like, you're allowed to have your preferences, innit?
00:02:02.320 Like, she said, obviously, there was a few minor points where she was like, for example, like, high or whatever.
00:02:07.160 Cool.
00:02:07.400 You're allowed to, like, certain things, cool.
00:02:09.180 But overall, like, as the others said, like, I feel like the expectation's too high, personally.
00:02:15.720 Me, personally, watching that video, I don't believe her, personally.
00:02:19.120 I don't believe her.
00:02:20.100 Like, as in what she's saying, I don't believe it.
00:02:22.060 I feel like it's her front.
00:02:24.380 From what I'm hearing, that don't sound real to me.
00:02:26.720 Like, that's giving me vibes of, I don't know, innit?
00:02:30.880 So, I'm just assuming, like, maybe I'm not right.
00:02:33.400 But maybe, like, she's gone through something or whatever with someone of that status or whatever.
00:02:39.520 But I just, it wasn't believable to me, personally.
00:02:44.560 So, question.
00:02:46.320 At what age do you think women should start lowering their standards? 1.00
00:02:49.700 If they're single, by what age?
00:02:51.240 When should we start?
00:02:52.180 Are you saying, you know, I'm probably not worth that much, as much as I thought.
00:02:58.020 What age do you guys think?
00:03:00.740 I would say 25.
00:03:02.820 25?
00:03:03.500 I would say that's not an age for it, to be honest.
00:03:06.720 You should never.
00:03:08.240 No, it's not about the standard.
00:03:09.520 It's about what you're looking for.
00:03:10.900 This is the problem.
00:03:11.740 Because, for example, if I'm dating a certain type of man, right? 0.89
00:03:15.100 And I'm always shitted on, I'm always, like, it's not working. 0.89
00:03:17.480 Then I need to just take a step back and think about it. 0.88
00:03:20.120 Like, what do I really want?
00:03:21.720 Like, what's the problem?
00:03:23.620 What's the red flag that I'm always going, you know, for?
00:03:26.480 It's not about I'm 30 now where I'm 35 and now I need to just take whatever because I'm, you know, it's not about that.
00:03:32.660 It's just about being more, like, maybe mature about it, you know, maybe more understanding and these small, small things, you know.
00:03:41.060 Just try to make it work.
00:03:43.460 Just try to make it work, maybe, maybe, you know, that's the thing.
00:03:47.680 Just to try to make it work after a certain type of, I don't know, age or.
00:03:51.640 But isn't maturing understanding that men are attracted to youth and therefore the older you get, the more men are going to be less attracted to you.
00:04:00.960 So I get what you said about, you know, what was the point you made?
00:04:05.320 I just feel like maturity is having that awareness that, okay, men are attracted to more youthful women.
00:04:11.980 So therefore, the older I'm getting, I have less time to be picky.
00:04:15.920 Yeah, but there are a lot of men out there that they like older women. 1.00
00:04:18.400 Do you think there's a lot of men out there that like older women?
00:04:20.580 No. 0.99
00:04:21.040 For sex. 0.88
00:04:22.240 Yeah. 0.99
00:04:22.900 They like to know, they like them.
00:04:24.460 You know what they know?
00:04:25.000 This is what the guys will say.
00:04:25.980 They like them because they're easy.
00:04:27.600 They can just, you know.
00:04:28.680 Oh, I mean, I've heard, you know, men talking, right?
00:04:32.000 And they were like, maybe I like a lot, you know, older women just because there is more things to talk about. 1.00
00:04:38.920 Maybe I can learn stuff from her.
00:04:40.740 Maybe I can see myself in a relationship.
00:04:42.620 You know, I'm just saying that.
00:04:43.840 Yeah.
00:04:44.160 Yeah, I think that men say that to sleep with the older women. 1.00
00:04:50.660 I think.
00:04:51.220 Yeah, I think they're like, it's kind of like when you're like, what's your type two guy?
00:04:55.740 And he just describes you.
00:04:57.660 It's just like, is that really his type?
00:05:00.960 And he's just like, I appreciate and just lists all the things about you.
00:05:04.800 Boom.
00:05:05.980 That's what I think.
00:05:06.760 I think majority of men definitely love younger women. 0.85
00:05:10.140 And that's not even something to like debate about.
00:05:13.440 It's definitely the truth.
00:05:14.500 We're more youthful.
00:05:15.300 We have more energy.
00:05:16.580 Not only that, but we're more likely to submit because when we have someone older than us,
00:05:21.700 we trust in their opinion and the experience a bit more.
00:05:24.960 So, yeah, men are definitely more attracted.
00:05:27.620 I mean, don't get me wrong.
00:05:28.380 There's men out there who love older women.
00:05:30.160 But if we're talking majority, most of them love younger women. 0.99
00:05:32.640 Hence why it's important for women to consider their age when dating. 1.00
00:05:36.760 What do you guys think?
00:05:41.680 No, I get what you're saying.
00:05:44.120 Like, at the same time, I feel like it's about building a bond as well with someone.
00:05:49.420 Like when you actually do build a bond with someone, I feel like you start to care less
00:05:55.180 about the sort of youthfulness and you can sort of grow together.
00:05:59.860 Because at the same time, you say that, but obviously we get old as well.
00:06:02.700 So, like, we're not always as, we're not going to be as strong or as attractive as well.
00:06:09.300 Do you get me that?
00:06:09.800 We're all human in it.
00:06:10.640 So, it kind of works both ways, I reckon.
00:06:13.020 It's not just the one.
00:06:14.320 How old are you again?
00:06:15.260 I'm 28.
00:06:16.360 Okay.
00:06:16.740 So, you're 28.
00:06:17.480 Would you prefer a 35-year-old woman or a 25? 1.00
00:06:20.200 Uh, well, in all honesty, I mean, that's what I'm saying.
00:06:25.520 I don't like to generalize.
00:06:26.600 It depends on the person, in all honesty, overall.
00:06:28.520 Okay, all things being equal.
00:06:30.100 Yeah, overall.
00:06:31.540 All things, yeah, she's exactly the same.
00:06:33.820 Same person, but, uh.
00:06:34.820 Same person, you're just the same girl.
00:06:36.940 You get the same girl either at 25 or 35.
00:06:40.840 But do you know what it is?
00:06:41.620 I look at, there's, what's the word?
00:06:43.940 There's factors.
00:06:44.860 So, it actually depends.
00:06:46.300 Okay.
00:06:46.780 Like, what she'd like.
00:06:48.120 Do you know what I mean?
00:06:48.560 Like, it depends on the person, what she's like.
00:06:50.420 Like, because, like I'm saying, like, maturities are, like, me personally, I like maturity.
00:06:54.640 No, but, okay.
00:06:56.020 Remember, she's exactly the same.
00:06:57.980 Yeah.
00:06:58.520 Oh, you're kidding me.
00:06:59.460 She's exactly the. 0.50
00:07:00.960 I get what you're trying to say in terms of bond, but let's be realistic.
00:07:05.280 And before you even need to bond with someone, you need to be attracted to them, first of all.
00:07:09.720 So, if you was in the club and you saw a 35-year-old and you saw a 25-year-old,
00:07:13.200 or who are you going to be attracted to, first?
00:07:15.160 But how do you know the age?
00:07:16.440 If they're the same person.
00:07:18.260 They're the same person.
00:07:19.800 No, no, no.
00:07:20.240 If they're, like, you just see a. 0.61
00:07:21.420 Totally two different.
00:07:22.180 But that's what I'm saying.
00:07:22.600 It depends on the individual.
00:07:23.520 Well, let's talk even about children.
00:07:25.120 You're a geriatric pregnancy at 35.
00:07:27.220 I mean, 90% of your age are gone by 30.
00:07:29.680 Exactly.
00:07:30.040 Yeah, so.
00:07:30.760 That's another thing.
00:07:31.620 So, it's like, do you want kids?
00:07:33.180 Do you have kids?
00:07:34.280 I don't.
00:07:34.800 No kids?
00:07:35.180 You want kids? 0.85
00:07:35.960 Maybe one day, yeah.
00:07:37.080 Okay.
00:07:37.600 So, how would you do the kids thing with the 35-year-olds?
00:07:40.220 Okay, yeah.
00:07:40.840 See, that's another factor added to it.
00:07:43.220 Yeah.
00:07:44.000 But like I said, if.
00:07:46.160 That's what I'm saying.
00:07:46.620 For me, I'm a.
00:07:47.780 Like, me personally, I'm a personality person, innit?
00:07:49.580 So, if I click to that person, it couldn't happen.
00:07:52.820 I think this is why marriages are failing today. 0.98
00:07:56.440 Yeah, because think about it.
00:07:57.680 It's like, logically, that just won't work.
00:07:59.460 If you want, like, let's say you want two kids.
00:08:01.380 How many kids do you want two? 1.00
00:08:02.580 Yeah, two or two.
00:08:03.400 Yeah, I feel like, who wants just one?
00:08:05.520 Yeah.
00:08:05.680 At least you want two.
00:08:06.320 So, if you want two kids, like, logically, how would that work?
00:08:08.620 If you'd meet a 35-year-old, you want to date her for a certain amount of time.
00:08:12.040 Yeah.
00:08:12.380 And then, so it's like, she can have a dope personality. 1.00
00:08:14.880 But even if the 25, like, the 25-year-old would just work.
00:08:17.920 Yeah.
00:08:18.300 For the 35-year-old, how would that work?
00:08:19.960 I feel like it depends if that's a defining factor in what you want in life.
00:08:24.380 Right.
00:08:24.540 Do you get me?
00:08:24.860 For me, it's not, personally.
00:08:26.760 Well, I'm talking about for, like, building a family.
00:08:29.020 If there's someone, that's what I'm saying.
00:08:30.640 So, if there's someone that specifically wants that as their, as, like, their main factor.
00:08:35.100 Like, for example, I saw a video recently.
00:08:37.700 I don't know how old it is, but, like, John Cena, for example, and his partner, and they
00:08:42.740 sort of separate because of something similar.
00:08:44.580 And it's just like, if that's your main, one of the main things that you look for, or
00:08:48.520 you're wanting to build a family, then obviously it's going to be a big issue.
00:08:51.640 Don't you think it should be?
00:08:53.560 Well, always.
00:08:54.140 Yeah.
00:08:55.800 Not necessarily.
00:08:56.980 Nah.
00:08:57.440 And I think that's why relationships are not working out, because I'm presuming you go
00:09:03.180 into relationships just for the vibe?
00:09:06.000 Nah, nah, nah.
00:09:06.940 So, like, what's your long-term goal when it comes to, you know, relationships?
00:09:09.400 Obviously, there's marriage. 0.60
00:09:10.880 Yeah.
00:09:11.320 Obviously, like, you want to find your soulmate, innit?
00:09:13.360 Or someone that you want to spend your life with.
00:09:15.480 Yeah.
00:09:15.840 Like, not everyone has the same, as we, that was one of our first debates today.
00:09:20.040 Like, not everyone has the same sort of thought process and things they want.
00:09:23.460 Like, everyone's different.
00:09:24.640 There are women out there that actually don't want children. 1.00
00:09:26.720 Do you get me?
00:09:27.380 So, in terms of you, like, what do you look for when you get into a relationship?
00:09:30.820 What's your long-term goal?
00:09:31.560 Long-term.
00:09:32.360 Like I said, someone that I can build with, someone that's going to support man, marriage.
00:09:36.580 Children would, like, it would be good.
00:09:38.920 But at the same time, if I met the love of my life and it couldn't happen, I'm not just
00:09:44.100 going to disregard her because of that, if that makes sense.
00:09:46.900 That's just me, personally.
00:09:48.000 Do you believe in the love of your life?
00:09:49.680 Uh, um, yeah, yeah.
00:09:54.820 I mean, yeah, yeah.
00:09:59.580 I think that that's, I think there's good choices and bad choices.
00:10:03.460 I don't think there's one one.
00:10:04.700 Why do you think there is?
00:10:06.000 Okay.
00:10:06.540 I'm going to go back myself, but no, I reckon you have, there's probably more people out
00:10:10.600 there that you could probably match, but there's not, it's not everyone.
00:10:12.940 I feel like it's a small number, but there are going to be, um, multiple choices.
00:10:20.020 And I'm not saying it's like everyone you meet, but people that will match you.
00:10:24.760 Like we go through our lives and we, we get into long relationships and then we break up
00:10:28.780 with people and then we get into other long relationships.
00:10:30.840 You know what I mean?
00:10:31.740 And they, they don't just end straight away.
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