JustPearlyThings - October 22, 2023


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Topics
value added to society
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Insta Adam Malcolm Gladwell
She Gets FINISHED Saying This About Women and Promiscuity Obese Man Keeps Interrupting Pearl

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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

202.78

Word count

1,857

Sentence count

170

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with TikTok's first female account holder and influencer to talk about her experience with being kicked off TikTok, being demonetized, and why she thinks women aren't special, amazing, and awesome.

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00:00:00.580 What platforms have you been canceled on or demonetized and what is it about your message you think that the big tech organizations or digital governments don't want the people to hear?
00:00:16.140 I've really only lost accounts on TikTok. I've actually been pretty lucky with that. I've never had a YouTube strike. I've never had any.
00:00:24.060 Really?
00:00:24.800 Yeah, I've never had a YouTube. I've had a warning before, but never a strike.
00:00:27.840 Nice. So why do you think it's TikTok specifically?
00:00:31.900 Well, I got banned on TikTok because I called the chick a whale. 1.00
00:00:34.980 Okay.
00:00:35.660 Yeah, but she called me ugly first. So it's like if I call you fat back, it's like, what did you expect? But I got banned. 0.91
00:00:43.540 So what is that? Violating terms of service?
00:00:46.460 Yeah, like hate speech.
00:00:47.560 Fat shaming?
00:00:48.240 Yeah, yeah. Because, well, no, no, she didn't call me ugly. She called me a slag. But I didn't even know what that meant at the time because I was like interviewing on the street.
00:00:55.360 I think you told me.
00:00:55.900 Yeah, yeah. And that was the first time that you got.
00:00:58.000 That was like the big account because I almost had a million followers on that account. And then I just, I never really like rebuilt. And then I would just keep getting banned.
00:01:06.620 So I want to stay there on the banning thing. Are you on your eighth account right now? Or even are you even active right now?
00:01:11.100 Yeah, I don't really use it.
00:01:12.420 What were the reasons that the second, the third, the fourth? I get the first one. All right. I'm not saying I even agree with that.
00:01:18.080 Yeah.
00:01:18.340 We all know that TikTok is owned by ByteDance, owned by the CCP, allegedly, all that fun stuff.
00:01:23.560 So, but the second time, the third time, the fourth time, the fifth time, what was the reasons for that?
00:01:30.340 God, I don't even remember, Adam. I mean, it's all, anything that goes against women gets you canceled.
00:01:37.380 The fact of the matter is, for a thousand years, we've had a gynocentric social order saying women are so special and amazing, women amazing, men bad.
00:01:46.580 And if you go against that narrative, that's when you get canceled.
00:01:49.660 Hmm. But I'm trying to understand why TikTok. Meaning, it's not, you said nothing, no strikes on YouTube, no issues.
00:01:56.600 Have you ever been taken down on Instagram, anything?
00:01:58.600 Oh, no, I did lose it. I forgot about that.
00:02:00.620 All right. We're getting somewhere now.
00:02:02.820 Yeah. Yeah. What did I happen on? I don't even remember. I, what did I do on Insta? I know it was something on my story, but I literally don't.
00:02:12.900 But at the end of the day, if you can sum up, whether it's TikTok, whether it's Insta, whatever you're forgetting to remember at this point, what do you think is the message they don't want the audience hearing?
00:02:22.680 Anything that women aren't special, amazing, and awesome. 1.00
00:02:26.520 Okay.
00:02:27.060 That's, that's what they come at you for.
00:02:28.380 How about this weird question? Do you think you are special, amazing, and awesome?
00:02:32.280 No, I think I'm quite normal. I think I'm an average chick in an average world.
00:02:36.480 Okay. So let's say, let's, let's, let's go there. Let's say you're normal. You say you're average, but I don't really interview one-on-one normal average chicks. Like you could be one of 10 girls on a panel, but I don't do many one-on-ones with special women. 1.00
00:02:50.400 So maybe you've built yourself up to being more special. What do you, what do you say to that?
00:02:54.780 Well, I'm good at YouTube, but I think most people, like I put in a lot of hours into it. So you get good at things that you, you know, what's it like the 10,000 hour?
00:03:03.420 Yeah. Yeah. Malcolm Gladwell.
00:03:04.700 Yeah. Like, you know, if you rewinded this four years ago, I wouldn't even be on the show.
00:03:09.080 So by that logic, this is interesting because I would say that most young men are not special. You know, the whole helicopter moms, you're the best thing ever. You're the beautiful thing.
00:03:19.080 Right. But men know that, uh, listen, just because you're 21 and a cool guy, it means nothing. Yeah. Okay. You got to make money. You got to look good. You got to act good. You got to dress good. You got to treat women, right? You got to be a bad-ass. Like you got to work your way up in society. Whereas women, it's just like, you can just be 20 and pretty and the world's your oyster. 0.91
00:03:39.020 So by, by, by men's standards, starting from nothing, doing nothing, you've actually become special because you put in the work doesn't work and success and status. What is what makes you special?
00:03:52.140 Uh, I mean, maybe on the internet, I, I not really in like, it depends from what point of view you're going to talk about, like from dating. No, I don't think guys really care about that, but, um, I would say in work. Sure.
00:04:07.900 But I don't know, Adam, I would even say that most men are more special, amazing, and awesome than women. Cause when I look at it, I look at value added to society. Men do the infrastructure jobs. They pay a hundred thousand dollars more in tax in a lifetime than women. Men add more value to society than women do. And women are just, you know, they're given handout after handout after handout. And then on top of that told their special, amazing, and awesome at the end of it.
00:04:35.700 So I'm, I'm digesting this because I'm a man. I kind of think I'm dope.
00:04:40.520 I want to give you a stat to back this up. 45% of men do infrastructure jobs. These are jobs that we need to run society. So a lot of times, like what I see in this space is they basically say, you need to become a 1% guy in order to get women. You need to build yourself up, do all this stuff. But we cannot do what we do without the men that build these microphones in the factories.
00:05:00.700 We cannot do what we do without the average men that run society. And, you know, not everybody is going to be a 1%, 5%. But the truth of the matter is men add value to society by running the infrastructure. Only 7% of women do the same thing.
00:05:16.720 Then you could look at value added in terms of, you could look at it in terms of protection, right? What, what percent of women are really protecting society? 1.00
00:05:29.140 Like what? I mean, do you count female cops? I don't even count them. 1.00
00:05:32.180 I hope you don't get pulled over by a female cop when you leave here.
00:05:36.440 I don't even count them.
00:05:36.940 But I will say this and I'll validate essentially what you're saying.
00:05:39.740 For the longest time, men, the hardworking men that built our society, industrial revolution, whether it's the, you know, construction worker, the plumber, the electrician, the warrior, the military, the, you know, HVAC guy, any guy that's busting his ass in the labor, the guy who's working in the garden, the guy who's working in the field, the lawnmower.
00:06:00.560 Like these are tough jobs, but as, as technology has advanced, uh, more people have gone from blue collar jobs to white collar jobs.
00:06:11.420 Now more men are like, yeah, you know, we have editors, we have graphic designers, we have tech guys, we have people that sit behind computers all day. 0.83
00:06:18.420 The ability to build machines to, to, you know, our AI have basically made some of those jobs obsolete.
00:06:26.220 But I will say this, to your point, um, most women, because most, 60% of college students these days are women. 1.00
00:06:33.640 It used to be the other way around, 60% men, 40% women, and now it's flipped.
00:06:37.980 There is sort of a stigma in society, you can speak to this, whereas a college educated woman, even if she makes less than the plumber, than the, um, HVAC guy, whatever it is, the, the, the guy that's working on the toilets, whatever it is, she will look down on that man because he's not a college degree or college, he doesn't have a college degree or college graduate.
00:07:00.920 And she would basically hypergamy, uh, you know, deep seated stuff. 1.00
00:07:05.620 We'll look at him as lesser, where I think essentially what you're saying is those are the men who have built society.
00:07:11.260 They deserve respect.
00:07:12.580 Do you feel like those men are being disrespected and pushed aside and looked over by modern women?
00:07:17.000 I think they're disrespected by women and men, to be honest.
00:07:20.400 Like I, I hear a lot of disrespect in this space, like towards the average, you know, calling them broke, saying they don't make enough money when it's like, really none of the influencers could do what we do without the average men that build society and run society.
00:07:33.440 And you, you even said like, you know, there is still a large percentage of men that do work in factories.
00:07:38.880 Um, I think the number one employment of men in the, in the country is truckers.
00:07:42.660 Yeah, that's true.
00:07:43.920 That's the number one employment of men.
00:07:46.120 And it's like, those guys deserve respect and they add more value to society than women do in 2023. 1.00
00:07:52.660 I would also argue that there's a bunch of useless jobs that have been put into the workforce.
00:07:57.360 Um, basically that are subsidized by men's money. 0.59
00:08:00.660 I'm going to give you an example.
00:08:02.380 Um, the WNBA is completely subsidized by the men.
00:08:06.200 Oh, we can talk about this for days.
00:08:08.220 I'm going to, I'm going to have a point though.
00:08:10.360 And basically what happened is the women will cry and whine and say, give me more money, give me more money. 1.00
00:08:15.620 And they keep getting more money, more benefits, everything, right?
00:08:18.740 Even though they do not offer value.
00:08:21.440 I mean, no one's really watching the games.
00:08:23.380 No one's really going.
00:08:24.580 Um, it would be a net.
00:08:25.880 I mean, even I, I did college sports, but all of college sports would operate at a loss, right?
00:08:30.800 I think that happens in society all the time.
00:08:33.540 I think it happens in human resources.
00:08:35.300 I think human resources would disappear tomorrow if women were not in the workforce. 1.00
00:08:39.260 The other thing I think that it would happen in is a lot of tech companies.
00:08:43.040 You saw the before and after of Twitter, right?
00:08:46.840 But what you saw the before, have you seen those pictures?
00:08:50.100 Like before and after, like Elon fired all those people in Twitter.
00:08:53.740 You know what I'm talking about?
00:08:54.580 When he came in there with the kitchen sink.
00:08:56.280 All the women were gone because when, when, when the rubber hit the road and they needed 1.00
00:09:00.400 the people that were actually going to do work, it was not majority women. 0.98
00:09:04.460 There was a couple of women that made it, but it was not majority women.
00:09:07.080 I think that happens everywhere in society.