The Woke Mob Made Him Go Bankrupt
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Summary
On this episode of the podcast, I sit down with a trans woman who shares her story of losing custody of her trans son and how she fought to get him back. She talks about the challenges of fighting for custody of a trans child and how it can be extremely difficult to do so.
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in court trying to so you have 50 50 custody now yeah so what happened is is like i told you i
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moved to the bay area i was rewarded 50 50 custody as well as amending his birth certificate
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making his lame made his name have my last name which was i felt really fortunate to win that
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and then after that some safety concerns arose things regarding police and cps and some other
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stuff and so i provided all that to the court as well as this gender stuff and false accusations
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against me as i mentioned earlier that can be grounds for custody and i provided all to that
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to the court we had a five-day trial in san francisco family court and i felt great about the
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trial you know we had an extreme amount of evidence on our side versus not very much evidence at all
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and two months later we got the decision and it was essentially that custody would stay the same
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and that my son would continue to go to the doctor that he had been going to which i didn't
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want because this doctor was like okay with that sort of stuff wow and she testified in court as
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well as doctor and what'd she say so she didn't make any comment on like my son specifically but
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what she did say which the court took her as like an expert witness to this
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is that it's basically okay or something like that to treat a kid as if they're non-binary
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which i radically disagree with wow you know and just the fact that she testified pretty much against
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me in court like who would want to see a doctor that did that to you so you brought to court evidence
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that she falsely accused you yeah right you brought to court evidence that she was trying to do this
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gender neutral type non-binary stuff to your son yeah um and on top of that you said there is
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violence or something or some sort of you didn't say violence you said something else you brought to
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court too yeah there was some there was arrest and stuff involving her and my son um as well as
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something pertaining to the restraining order i had and criminal charges because of that being violated
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um those two things as well and those were much higher on the priority than the other things you
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mentioned because you know we know it's san francisco so but there was a lot to it it was like 850 pages
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of evidence and yeah the court didn't rule on any of it to change custody and how much have you spent
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trying to get custody of your son way too much um i've been fortunate enough that i've had some pro bono
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attorneys help me as well as paid some um i don't want to get specific but i've spent most of the money
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i've ever made and had my parents help me as well and had the pro bono attorneys and here i am now and
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i'm so thankful that my give send go raise money thank you to daily wire and everyone and it's really
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hard how much these attorneys cost it's like it's like not even fathomable if you work a normal job
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and then see how much the attorneys make because that's always what i get push back like why don't
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men just fight for their kids and it's really great to see you do that you know but it's i talk
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to men all the time that they just run out of money yeah i think that's a huge possibility like i think
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you can represent yourself i think it'd be pretty hard to go up against attorney who knows all these
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like loopholes and tricks and wording things and try to trick you um i mean personally i would do that if
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i had no other options for sure but it is definitely a makes a wall like if you can't afford an attorney
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that makes it very hard to fight for custody what legislation would you like to see changed
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i think that it should be completely illegal to trans kids with hormone blockers
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or surgeries sex change surgeries i think perhaps even treating them socially as something that they're
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not i think maybe we could classify that as like a form of abuse emotionally i think that dad should
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have a fair shot same as the mom it should be like a equal playing field for moms and dads not moms having
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the advantage what do you think about those hypothetical laws i think those are good ideas but i actually think
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that men should be awarded custody i'm a little sexist like more custody no no i think men should
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but i i think if you look at the single mother home stats and single father homes single father homes
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fare way better correct yeah like much better so i think if we're doing the best interest of the kids
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if that's what's important they always say men should get custody court always says best interest of the child
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like i don't i don't think it's about equality i think it's about what's best for the children
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and so if fathers are raising better kids why wouldn't we give fathers custody right i'm on
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board with that why do you think there's such a lack of like appreciation for fathers today
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i think it's just that narrative that you brought up earlier that like there's all these deadbeat dads
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and dads just run away from the home and don't want to be involved with the kids and then when
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you start learning about it you're just like no maybe he couldn't afford an attorney or maybe
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right you know he did everything he could and he was getting to be his kid's uncle seeing him
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once a month and he had to live somewhere he didn't want to live and all these things added up
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that it just wasn't you know worth it anymore which i can't really comprehend because i would never give
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up on sawyer but i just think it's the narrative yeah and it's it's in the media too when you see like
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the simpsons like in all those like shows it always shows the dad is like this idiot this bumbling
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yeah you'll once you see it you can't really unsee it like simpsons family guy yeah it's always the
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dad's like this fat idiot and the mom has to like run the house and nothing would get done without
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the mom and you think that's like pushing a narrative onto us yeah i mean i think it's part
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of the like programming like where we say we don't need fathers in the home right and i think that
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fathers are so important like as i was telling you earlier like i think i would be a raging liberal if
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i didn't have my dad and so it's like we don't have we act like we don't even need fathers in society
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i think it's like a travesty honestly i totally agree i mean like you said the statistics with all
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the homeless and crime it's heartbreaking that we would do that to kids what have you learned um
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through this journey about like parents because i'm assuming you've probably researched a lot into
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this transitioning stuff like what have you learned about like kids that transition
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i i see nowadays and i'm really glad i'm starting to see this there's all these de-transitioners like
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chloe cole and all these people who are speaking up and i think it's really brave of them and awesome
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to see that because the they tried to push this narrative that it's like a net benefit or like
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they they'll blackmail parents like oh your kid will kill themselves if you don't accept their fake
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gender and it's like in reality i've the stats i've seen are like a slight increase in suicide or about the
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same after they transition there are some new studies out of europe like finland uk and sweden i believe
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showing some like pretty bad statistics to going along with um the transgender ideology for kids
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and transitioning them and they're starting to slow down and walk it back which i think is great but
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everyone needs to do that yeah i mean i think it's child abuse to be honest like it's so confusing to
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the kid like i was a tomboy growing up so it's like if my parents pushed me that way i i certainly maybe
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i would have did it you know um because like when a kid you don't know what's going on you're confused
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totally yeah i'm glad your parents didn't push that on you it's scary to think no they're die
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hard yeah that's good yeah my parents would never buy into that but yeah i mean i think people are
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doing it for themselves more than for the kids like they're doing it to be get likes on social media and
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to oh i never thought about hierarchy like higher class right yeah so that's at least what it seems
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like to me was was she always a feminist she was pretty left-wing yeah yeah yeah i used to think
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like oh we could like just put that kind of aside that stuff now i think it's probably pretty important
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to try to share values yeah as someone you have kids with but you know life's unpredictable and right
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i tried to see the good in people and stuff and yeah i was just i've talked to some guys that said
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they're like their girlfriend or whatever got into this like group or something that sort of influenced
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them but it seems like she's always kind of been like that yeah