In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a Black woman in the workplace, what it s like being a black woman in today's society, and what we would like to see change in the future.
00:00:00.000I wouldn't mind, you know, at this point, like I said, I'm very tired of working, so at this point, shit, if I could find a man that would just say, baby, you ain't got to work, and he want to go out and fuck who he want to fuck on the side and do what he want to do, shit, I'd be willing to just sit back and say, alright, you know, as long as you giving me the black car and I can, you know, get my hair done, nails done, everything did, and buy what I need to buy and better myself, and, you know, just focus on, you know, the home life, then shit, I might go for that.
00:00:32.120What's the point of having a husband and being in a committed relationship, though, if you're just going to let him go out and fuck whoever he wants?
00:00:38.240You know what, I'm taking it back to, like, the olden days, my grandmother's days and things, where they had no choice but to sit down and shut the fuck up and let your man do what he do, because you cannot go out and work, you have to just sit at home.
00:00:49.540You know, we did all this fight for equal rights, and now to the point where, when I go on dates, guys don't want to date me if they feel like you don't have a good enough job, and that's fucking disrespectful.
00:00:59.500It's like, damn, you know what I mean?
00:01:00.900Like, maybe I'm still working on myself, getting my shit to that level, but guys nowadays, especially where I'm from in L.A., they don't want to fuck with you if you ain't got your shit, like, together, like, have a really good job, and especially depending on your age, they're not dealing with you.
00:01:14.300They don't want to be with you if you're on the OnlyFans.
00:01:16.540They don't want to be with you if you work in retail.
00:01:18.700They want a specific woman, and so, you know, we kind of fucked ourselves a little bit with all this equal rights shit.
00:01:24.280Like, yeah, I do like being able to make my own bread and do what I want to do and have a say-so, but at the same time, it's like, damn, we kind of set ourselves back because now guys don't even want to open the door for your ass.
00:01:51.860Like, it doesn't matter what I do for work, or it doesn't matter what the other person does for work.
00:01:55.540If you have a mutual respect for each other, like, I would want my man to open a car door for me, but, like, vice versa, like, I would take my man out to a nice meal once in a while.
00:02:05.980Like, I feel like it's just an equal amount of respect, and, like, I would like my man to get me flowers once in a while.
00:02:12.260Just, like, he would probably, like, fuck, I don't know, like, a massage once in a while.
00:02:16.480Right, it should be equal, like that, you know?
00:02:18.580Or to get, like, cooked food when he gets home or whatever.
00:04:36.460But that's always true, though, because at the end of the day, all I care about is making sure that I'm loved.
00:04:41.800I'd rather have somebody who will commit to me and tell me that they love me and actually show me that they love me over someone who's Chris fucking Brown.
00:04:48.360I'd rather be loved than have somebody with status any fucking day.
00:04:51.580Yeah, I don't even give a fuck about status.
00:04:58.680And I'm not talking about you guys individually, but there's no shortage of women trying to sleep with Chris Brown, trying to sleep with Drake, trying to sleep with these entertainers, actors, high-status celebrities.
00:06:03.600As much as we say we don't guess the hell we do, we go to social media and say, if you don't have this, if you don't have this kind of money, if you don't fucking drive a Bugatti, you're not worth my time.
00:06:11.100So a lot of these guys, a lot of these normal guys that we complain aren't around, they're around.
00:06:18.660If you move outside of a major metropolitan area and you live outside of a medium-sized city, like 45 minutes outside of it, and you participate in life in that town, and you work somewhere where you do not work around the majority of the same gender, that's the biggest problem.
00:06:32.620I get a lot of people that are like nurses, teachers, social workers, they always talk about how they can't find anybody.
00:06:36.860They can't find anybody because they work with all women.
00:06:59.700I've tried to go against the granddaddy and date ugly in the middle class.
00:07:03.220Typically, typically, tip note, typically when women, no.
00:07:06.940That's why you need to work around men.
00:07:11.480If you're looking for a partner, if you're looking for a spouse, you need to work around men because you have to know the men in order to actually know if they're attractive to you.
00:07:18.760Yes, I agree with what you're saying, but the thing is, women will care less about how attractive a man is if they are in close proximity to that man and they like him.
00:07:39.300I think dating apps, personally, are the dumbest thing created because, personally, for me, I go on personality.
00:07:46.960At the end of the day, yes, the first thing you see when you meet somebody is their looks, but I've dated men that I haven't found conventionally attractive, and they have been the sweetest human beings to me ever.
00:07:59.600Was it because you knew them from something other than meeting them and, like, meeting them in a bar and being attracted to them?
00:08:06.380Well, actually, so, before, I also bartended on the side when I was doing...