JustPearlyThings - March 22, 2023


They DEBUNKED This Modern Woman’s Fallacy

Topics
F boys abusive relationships
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Pearl
Monkey branching from a woman’s perspective Sa Ra Garvey DROPS Red Pill Truths on a 25 Year old

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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

202.93

Word count

2,030

Sentence count

271

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

34

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Hate speech

20

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between being a F Boy and a F Girl, how to deal with an F Boy, and what it means to be an F Girl. We also discuss body positivity and why it's not always about the size of your dick.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And I just want to say women say men are F boys, but how do you know he's an F boy if you didn't let him F? 0.98
00:00:06.720 So does that make you an F girl?
00:00:08.360 Does it make you easy?
00:00:09.240 Does it make you for the street?
00:00:10.240 You don't want a man to say you're for the street, but you can call him an F boy. 0.95
00:00:13.660 I don't deal with F boys.
00:00:14.920 So like women who protect their box, they're not dealing with that energy. 0.99
00:00:19.720 But if you've been F'd and ran through, you have to say to yourself, I've allowed this man to be an F boy to my most precious possession on the dating market, 0.98
00:00:29.700 which is my womb, my body.
00:00:31.760 And we say, you know, my body, my choice, and don't objectify me.
00:00:36.160 But a lot of times we objectify ourselves, the way we dress, the way we present, and then we blame a man.
00:00:42.360 But like I never heard the term F boy until I start getting on TikTok and I dealt in these spaces.
00:00:48.360 And I'm like, well, why did you let him hunch on you?
00:00:52.220 You guys know what hunting is?
00:00:52.980 I added that.
00:00:54.280 Men are F boys. 0.66
00:00:55.480 I don't cook. 0.79
00:00:55.960 I don't clean.
00:00:56.700 My body, my choice.
00:00:57.900 Oh, my body.
00:00:58.660 Right.
00:00:59.040 That's what I got from her.
00:00:59.980 My choice, yeah.
00:01:00.860 So then only if an F boy hunches on you, then that was your body and your choice. 0.77
00:01:05.340 Yeah.
00:01:05.620 No, I mean, for the list.
00:01:06.960 Yeah.
00:01:07.200 No, no, no.
00:01:07.640 I mean, I'm agreeing with you.
00:01:08.820 Yeah, of course.
00:01:09.480 Equal lefts, equal rights.
00:01:11.600 I can't say that anymore.
00:01:13.580 No, no, no.
00:01:13.940 They need to say that.
00:01:15.180 They need to say that.
00:01:16.760 Equal rights, equal lefts.
00:01:17.960 I can't say it.
00:01:18.200 This list is removing.
00:01:19.040 You can put it down.
00:01:19.980 No, this is what we're not saying anymore.
00:01:21.880 Oh, right.
00:01:24.300 Oh, then we're not going to say, he hit me first.
00:01:26.320 Oh, he hit me harder than I hit him.
00:01:29.140 That was the one that came up.
00:01:30.740 He hit me harder than I hit him. 1.00
00:01:32.500 Oh, damn. 1.00
00:01:33.880 It's still a hit. 0.99
00:01:34.900 What about body positivity?
00:01:36.460 Like, is that so mainly for a specific body?
00:01:39.140 Or is that all that?
00:01:39.740 It's only for women. 1.00
00:01:40.740 It's only for women. 1.00
00:01:41.420 Where have you seen a 300-pound man on the front of Cosmo or any other magazine?
00:01:46.920 It's only for women. 1.00
00:01:48.600 And you will see the same women who will put down men or shame them for their height. 1.00
00:01:54.540 But where's your body positivity for a man who's five feet tall?
00:01:58.720 But you want a man to accept you as you are.
00:02:01.720 Accept him as he is.
00:02:03.240 But see, it's not equal.
00:02:05.660 Let's get a broke man positivity.
00:02:07.860 Dispatch man positivity.
00:02:09.880 You know what?
00:02:10.380 And I want to talk about this as well.
00:02:14.200 And I know, like, you know, the guys.
00:02:16.080 Actually, it was only one of the guys here.
00:02:18.500 But, you know, from my perspective.
00:02:21.180 Someone says manifest.
00:02:22.300 When manifest.
00:02:23.860 Oh, great.
00:02:24.520 Da-dun. 1.00
00:02:26.500 Like, you know, as a young boy, right?
00:02:29.020 Like, and you're watching these shows on TV where they're talking about a man's member.
00:02:35.280 Does size matter?
00:02:36.140 Like, how dare you? 0.88
00:02:39.060 How the nerve of you cowards to get up on TV and to talk about on daytime talk show TV and to talk about the size matter. 0.96
00:02:49.940 Does your viscous inness matter? 0.95
00:02:52.200 Yeah.
00:02:52.580 Because y'all are just as different with y'all insides as we are different with our outsides.
00:03:03.120 So y'all could judge all this in terms of size, depth, circumference, where it's actually positioned on the hip. 0.99
00:03:11.260 We're adding small dick energy. 0.98
00:03:13.160 No, but something you can't help. 0.99
00:03:15.120 Take that out.
00:03:16.320 A man can't help.
00:03:17.640 But you can't control how much you eat.
00:03:19.680 Because we talk about the pH.
00:03:20.840 We talk about the smell.
00:03:21.560 And some of that is from a genetic perspective as well.
00:03:23.400 But, like, the actual oil on the inside of it, like, it's a lot different as well.
00:03:28.060 So, like, if it doesn't go right, it doesn't all have to do with his member, you know?
00:03:32.100 But to talk about that and have young boys listening to that.
00:03:35.080 Sometimes maybe because your face is too big.
00:03:36.660 It's damaging.
00:03:37.540 Maybe that's what it is. 1.00
00:03:38.680 Because the women always say that the man's dick is too small. 1.00
00:03:41.140 But the women always say, my fanny's too big. 1.00
00:03:45.320 No, but this wiggles is the body.
00:03:47.300 It's the body positivity.
00:03:49.160 They will claim the same body positivity.
00:03:51.380 I can be 500 pounds and accept me as I am.
00:03:54.520 But the same woman will claim small d energy with something that's genetic. 1.00
00:03:58.880 Where if you controlled how much you ate and you exercise and discipline yourself, you can actually control.
00:04:04.780 It doesn't mean it to be a supermodel in a size, you know, I don't know in the U.K. what the sizes are.
00:04:08.640 But, like, size 2 and 0, like, super skinny.
00:04:11.260 But a lot of men aren't even looking for that.
00:04:13.200 But you will claim body positivity.
00:04:15.720 But the same woman will say, you got small d energy.
00:04:18.760 I'm not even talking about that. 1.00
00:04:20.120 I'm talking about a woman would always say, oh, he didn't satisfy me because his dick's small. 1.00
00:04:25.280 But you never hear a man say, oh, fanny was too big. 1.00
00:04:28.000 I was rolling around in it.
00:04:29.300 Or her walls were too wide.
00:04:31.500 Or there was so much air rushing around.
00:04:33.480 Yeah.
00:04:33.900 You know?
00:04:34.320 Air.
00:04:35.920 I put it in and I felt nothing.
00:04:37.760 I put the air pressure on your camera.
00:04:39.180 I have a really great addition to this list.
00:04:44.440 Thank you.
00:04:45.080 Thank you to Bo's Nuts.
00:04:49.480 My ex was a narcissist.
00:04:54.380 Yeah. 0.94
00:04:54.640 No, you just fell for that.
00:04:56.540 Yo, ask Pearl.
00:04:58.300 If all their exes, okay, this is what I've come to conclude.
00:05:01.740 I've come to conclude this.
00:05:02.920 Okay, wait, wait, wait.
00:05:03.520 I need to get this off my chest, okay?
00:05:06.380 Go ahead.
00:05:06.600 I have come to conclude that either 50% of all men are narcissists, or women are all dating 1.00
00:05:13.900 the same narcissist, or maybe women are the problem. 1.00
00:05:19.380 Uh-oh.
00:05:19.660 No, just so scientifically it's been shown, this is the research.
00:05:23.320 Let's get into data and not just our feelings.
00:05:25.660 Wait, wait.
00:05:25.840 We're going to put data.
00:05:26.700 Pearl, you got to add, I'm a queen.
00:05:28.380 Please add that one.
00:05:30.420 I'm an independent queen.
00:05:31.620 I'm an independent queen.
00:05:32.700 They spell it different, don't they?
00:05:33.860 Is it Q-W-W-E-N? 1.00
00:05:36.000 No, K-W-E-E-N. 1.00
00:05:38.860 I knew it was English.
00:05:39.660 Queen.
00:05:40.780 I knew there was a special way of spelling it.
00:05:45.160 Okay, what's the data?
00:05:46.220 Is it okay if I disagree about something right now?
00:05:48.280 Uh-oh.
00:05:48.660 I feel like everyone's sort of agreeing with a lot of things.
00:05:50.700 Go ahead, mama. 0.99
00:05:51.220 Speak your mind.
00:05:51.920 And I feel like I need to disagree about a few things, actually.
00:05:55.660 A few things on that list, actually.
00:05:56.720 Go ahead, go ahead.
00:05:57.340 I'd personally remove.
00:05:58.900 I don't know exactly what, but one stood out to me.
00:06:01.880 Now, I've had a few exes.
00:06:04.100 A lot of the exes I've had have been very, very nice men.
00:06:08.880 I'd say recently, I'd say about in October, I got out of a relationship.
00:06:12.680 And I was with this guy for a year.
00:06:16.620 And this guy was genuinely abusive.
00:06:19.660 Does that mean I cannot use the term that I had an abusive ex?
00:06:23.080 Does that mean that I, like, should diminish my sort of feelings because of that?
00:06:28.320 Because genuinely, I had to go through, like, victim support and things like that.
00:06:31.860 I had to put things in place for my safety.
00:06:34.520 So, as a woman, do you think that I should not use that?
00:06:37.280 Because I know you are laughing and joking.
00:06:38.700 I'm not about, like, narcissism.
00:06:40.680 Obviously, I know there's only a small percentage of men that are actually narcissistic.
00:06:44.020 And I think people that ruin it is the women that throw these words out. 1.00
00:06:48.860 Like, for example, women that lie about getting raped or women that lie about getting, like, sexually assaulted. 0.57
00:06:54.680 They ruin it. 0.93
00:06:55.700 I'm sorry, I say.
00:06:57.120 They ruin it for the actual women that have been victim. 0.78
00:07:00.700 And I know, again, I'm one of those people that believe in accountability.
00:07:04.680 I genuinely believe that you should take accountability for the things that have happened to you.
00:07:09.040 And you should fix yourself.
00:07:11.840 But I just don't think it's fair to say that you have, you should diminish your own experience.
00:07:18.260 Because other women want to throw out the words or the phrases. 1.00
00:07:22.900 And, again, it sort of brings it down to yourself.
00:07:29.500 Thank you.
00:07:30.380 It sort of just brings it down to the fact that it makes you feel a bit worse about it sort of thing.
00:07:36.540 Because, again, I've been through things.
00:07:39.020 And, again, I can say maybe I've not been the perfect person.
00:07:42.560 Maybe some of the things I've done are my fault.
00:07:44.760 But that does not diminish my experience of the things that I have had happened to me.
00:07:49.720 Can I just say?
00:07:50.860 Yeah, no, of course.
00:07:51.260 From a woman that's, I'm going to speak on a woman that's been abused.
00:07:54.220 Right, in my day you call the police, nothing happened.
00:07:56.020 In your day, you've got all the things out there.
00:07:57.660 You've got victim support.
00:07:58.500 I never had it.
00:07:59.200 So why are you staying in it?
00:08:00.320 I've got no sympathy for people nowadays. 0.99
00:08:02.520 I went through shit. 1.00
00:08:03.360 So you went through an abusive relationship. 1.00
00:08:06.020 You know what? 1.00
00:08:06.340 I don't give a shit. 1.00
00:08:07.720 If a man was going through a relationship, the woman wouldn't give a shit. 1.00
00:08:10.820 I got groomed from the age of 17 to 21 years old by a 29-year-old man. 0.99
00:08:15.680 I can say the same thing.
00:08:16.240 You can say the same thing.
00:08:17.320 But the thing is...
00:08:17.940 I've got a child out of it.
00:08:18.820 You've got a child?
00:08:19.440 No.
00:08:19.780 Have you got a child?
00:08:20.280 I'm 21.
00:08:21.260 I don't have a child.
00:08:22.140 No, I don't have a child.
00:08:22.680 I had a child at 18.
00:08:24.000 All right.
00:08:24.500 Good for you.
00:08:24.980 You call the police.
00:08:25.760 If you call the police, what happens to you?
00:08:27.240 Nothing. 0.99
00:08:27.700 Because the police don't want to do shit. 0.99
00:08:29.420 They want to take my man's phone because my man's... 1.00
00:08:31.780 As far as I'm concerned, you're in an abusive relationship.
00:08:34.820 The door's there.
00:08:35.640 How's it not sympathy, though?
00:08:37.020 How's it not sympathy?
00:08:37.820 You can walk out.
00:08:38.960 Well, that seems like a new problem, man.
00:08:40.680 Nowadays, they've got everything there for you.
00:08:42.460 You can walk out.
00:08:43.280 But do you not understand? 0.99
00:08:44.000 People can genuinely fucking manipulate you as somebody that's not grown up with the best fucking... 0.99
00:08:49.760 All right. 0.99
00:08:50.060 So you learn from that?
00:08:51.240 No, I'm learning.
00:08:52.180 And again, I'm healing.
00:08:53.160 I'm learning.
00:08:53.380 That's what they're talking about.
00:08:54.040 Accountability.
00:08:54.760 I know.
00:08:55.220 And again, I'm taking accountability.
00:08:57.020 All right, then.
00:08:57.360 But as somebody that's not grown up...
00:08:58.820 You were young, right?
00:08:59.920 As someone that's not grown up with the best role models, sorry, it's hard for you to just click on...
00:09:04.620 What were your role models?
00:09:07.900 In what...
00:09:08.560 Right.
00:09:08.820 No, I'm going to say...
00:09:09.780 All I'm going to say is that you said you were young.
00:09:12.100 I was young.
00:09:12.880 You said you were abused.
00:09:13.940 I was abused.
00:09:15.040 You then called the police, right?
00:09:16.620 Because in my day, I called the police and nothing happened because they were saying it was a domestic.
00:09:21.240 Right?
00:09:21.480 So we're here talking about stuff and you're going to go against everything.
00:09:24.760 I'm not going against everything.
00:09:25.900 No, no, no.
00:09:26.800 I'm saying that...
00:09:27.860 These things happen.
00:09:28.620 No, no, no.
00:09:29.040 Okay.
00:09:29.360 These things happen.
00:09:30.100 No, Pearl's just brought up a list of words that women should not use. 1.00
00:09:33.180 Nobody is saying that you cannot use those lists.
00:09:35.500 No, but you can use the words.
00:09:37.180 But don't stick on them.
00:09:38.820 No, I'm not saying stick on them again.
00:09:40.380 Those are words that women always use. 1.00
00:09:41.460 And you've come up and you're using the same thing again.
00:09:44.680 You know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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