They Don't Make Right DECISIONS
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Summary
On this episode of Black Ice Reality Check, the crew is back with a brand new episode featuring a special guest. This week's guest is none other than Black Ice himself! The crew is joined by special guest and friend of the show, and they discuss a variety of topics including: 1. Who has the atomic nuke button? 2. What's the worst city in the US? 3. What s going on in Vegas? 4. Who's the funniest person in the room? 5. What is the worst place in the world? 6. What do you think of the new t-shirt that Black Ice is wearing? 7. What are your favorite t-shirts? 8. How do you feel about Black Ice's new shirt? 9. What would you like to see Black Ice wear in the future?
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Why should we pick who has the atomic nuke button?
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I'm just going to do an intro while everybody's doing this freestyle.
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So welcome to another episode of Black Ice Reality Check.
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We did an intro earlier, but we're going to do a second one.
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And these guys, these guys' English accents are some of the best I think I've heard.
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I'm probably going to, like, imitate you the whole podcast.
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Wait, why do we have that in the middle right there?
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And here you are with your little supplement line.
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We got David in the house all the way from Seattle area, Washington, my hometown.
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If you guys know about Monroe, there's, like, one road, Highway 2?
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I'm facing south, and I can see all the mountains.
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And every night, it's lit up like a Christmas tree, the prison.
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And then you go to this little town that was set up because of a place called Gold Bar, where the gold mining town is.
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So back in the golden days, the gold rush, on the way to Alaska, right?
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I do agree with this because a lot of the problems in society stem from the fact that women are crazy liberal,
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They realized that women are dummies, and they realized they could just show us a video
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of some 12-year-old that can't get an abortion, and we're like, oh, my God.
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There's a difference between the first wave of feminism and the second wave.
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But the second wave was when abortion and birth control happened.
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I agree that 80% of women don't know shit about...
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She has a podcast, Laughing with Lana, comedian, business owner.
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I have my own business where I do window repair and I install interior doors and I make solar
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Which is why she's so ripped all the time.
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And then we have Coco, Married to the Red Pill Coco.
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And I'm going to give props out to Glenn Lawrence, by the way.
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So we talked about the women shouldn't vote shirt.
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Is that a cause you're pushing or is that just a...
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I seriously, I think all of the world's problems would be solved if we didn't vote.
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So you would ban voting for women globally?
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If I could, in this world, I could press the button.
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How do you feel about, I agree with you for the most part, but in a blanket world, how
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do you feel about the Middle East and the women who get stoned to death for not wearing
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their burqa and wanting just basic education and basic rights?
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How do you feel about that in comparison to the right to not vote?
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Most women don't know shit about politics.
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No, well, the difference is that men have some skin in the game.
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Women are more influenced by their surroundings.
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To be honest, I don't know much about the Middle East.
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But what I will say is I do think that there is propaganda where they kind of push that
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these women just have these horrible lives.
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So I have a tough time believing that they're just these oppressed people.
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And they were under burqas with Yeezys on.
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Well, that's why a lot of these guys are moving to Dubai, isn't it?
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But that's more like the westernized Muslim culture.
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So what I'm saying when it comes to women's rights, I agree for the most part.
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Women should just give over their right to vote to the head of household and say, you know what you're doing.
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But please at least listen to what I have to say.
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Because if I do know what I'm talking about, somebody like me who does know what's happening in the world, I have no problem with not voting.
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Whereas in the Middle East, a lot of those places, you're not even allowed to speak about those things.
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Pakistan, Afghanistan, where they stone those women.
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And Pakistan and Afghanistan, one of the leading causes of death for women is being stoned.
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Yes, a lot of those women are stoned to death.
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I think it's more common than it is anywhere else in the world.
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No, but I'm saying there's a difference between there being like fringe cases and it being super common.
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There's a difference between like, okay, this fringe thing happened versus this is happening everywhere.
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But I think at the end of the day, women are very.
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How do you feel about a woman just wearing?
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The truth of the matter is when men get power in general, they're pretty nice.
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And when they're not nice, usually other men come in and kick their ass and kill them.
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And typically, like, you know, I think men are meaner to other men than to women.
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Women are meaner to men than they are to women.
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And women are meaner to women than other women.
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And that's the whole problem with the feminist movement.
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Because you guys are saying that women shouldn't vote.
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If women can't vote, do you guys still agree with them being in our military?
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I don't think a woman should be even close to the military.
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I don't even agree with a woman being a nurse in the military.
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Well, and then all the women in the military start fucking all the guys.
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Well, they also get special treatment that men don't get because they have to accommodate
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They're now accommodating if they're actually getting pregnant when they're in the military.
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And then just state is going to pay for their nine months of being pregnant.
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And for them to modify their uniform so they can fit their pregnant.
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I was going to say, they get the full of the best.
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You also can't really trust any of this, like, rape anymore because they switched the definition
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So you can basically, like, get into bed with a guy and then, like, oh, he raped me even
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They get into these institutions and they change definitions.
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And they can also now retroactively, like, take someone to court.
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Like, I saw a case the other day where this guy, this woman was trying to sue this dude
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because she was saying, well, when I had sex with him, he said he was going to marry
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Like, you used to just take your L and you wouldn't want to tell everyone about it because it's a
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You just go home and eat ice cream and cry about it, watch a sad movie, and then move
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But now it's like we got to tell everyone and start a court.
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David, so you've been married the whole time since day one when you first were with a woman,
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So you haven't been exposed to the dating scene or outside?
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We started dating July of 2014, proposed to her in January of 2015, got married in August
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2015, and we're about to come on eight years of marriage.
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They had a mutual friend at her birthday party.
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It was more so, there was a mutual friend and she was a gossiper.
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And so when they all met, my mom told me about her.
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I was dating some girl at the time she didn't like.
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If you ever look her up on Instagram, gorgeous.
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And not one kind of thing, aside from just the fact that the parents were split.
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There's a road trip every time we went to go date and see each other.
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It's like going through London from one end to the other.
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So do I say like, I told my wife, I was like, there is no, like we, we got into the relationship
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knowing that we wanted to get married early and grow together.
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And I talk about where, that's why I'm like, yo, I never want to break up with her, lose
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her anything because if I have to go back to the dating pool, I'm just going to stay
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It's not even as fun as I, like when I was, cause you're what?
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It was like, it was a little bit more fun and exciting.
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You go to a bedroom and you're like, yo, you got a little tally whacker down there, don't
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That's why I'm like, you come to Vegas and it's like, you don't know what you're going
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Pearl, when you remember, we were talking about on your podcast, how, how there's no virgins
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Should they have to be with a virgin to be successful in a marriage?
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Well, only nine, I think 96% of women aren't virgins on their wedding days.
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So good luck if you want one, like they don't really exist.
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It's so funny because it's like all the women will come forward and like, you know, it's
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No, no, seriously, because 96% of us will be thrown out a hundred years ago.
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How do we not know that maybe they're not married?
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Like she's not a virgin on their wedding day, but maybe she only had sex with that
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Like, it's like, okay, okay, we'll give another, another five, but it's still nine out of 10
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I don't say this happily, you know, but not really.
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Well, then when you have a social media life that is brought on to 20-something-year-old
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women who are at the age of marriage and insecurities, they're going to veer themselves into a pond
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Like, all of these women who are going into selling their bodies for money.
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One out of 25 under the age of 35 sells their bodies.
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Oh, I'm sure, I'm sure that it's even more than that.
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But my philosophy is men always pay for it.
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So, yeah, and that's why when they're desperate.
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So, is one out of 25 selling or are all of them?
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Because if you're married, you're paying for it if you're married.
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If you have a girlfriend, you have the resources.
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If you have a transactional relationship, you're paying for it.
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So, maybe one out of 25 has a transactional situation.
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And the guys that don't, just like the guy says, I'd never pay for it.
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Well, I wouldn't want to be with a girl that's free.
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If she says, oh, come over and watch Netflix and we'll have sex, dude, that's easy.
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If for thousands of years, men or women always went for guys with the resources, right?
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Dr. David Buss in his book, Evolution of Desire.
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And if that's the case, we have to establish those resources.
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I think there's a distinction, though, between paying for it and just being a guy who's of,
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you know, decent net worth and he can provide interesting experiences.
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And he said, but it's not like, it's not like you say to the woman, right, come out and I'm going to, you know,
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It's not that, but it is, hey, I've got this cool car, we can take a trip, we can go down to Italy, we'll be by the beach,
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we'll go to this cool restaurant, blah, blah, blah.
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So they're providing, the money allows you to provide an interesting experience, but it's not necessarily,
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but I agree, there are degrees of transactionality in all of this stuff.
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But that, you don't have to be a, you know, Tristan Tate-style multimillionaire for that to happen, though.
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There's a lot of girls who, they want to go on trips, they're, you know, there's pictures of their invite.
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I think the whole point is that, you know, just as women, we make kind of dumb decisions.
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You know, and that's what I was thinking about.
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I'm like, you can't even better, like, and I was thinking about, I was thinking about how nowadays, like,
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under five is the new virgin, and I was thinking about how sad that is.
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I'm like, as a group, I'm like, as a group, like, the best women in today's market, it's, like, under five men.
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Well, the best women of today's market know that the thing of women shouldn't vote.
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Our whole system is rigged to fucking begin with anyway, and any woman of value is going to go,
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But there's no such thing as a high-valued woman unless you're married.
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Well, I think nowadays, a 22-year-old virgin...
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I think if you value yourself, and you're probably going to go, oh, here she goes again,
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saying as she gets older, she gets more beautiful, and that's bullshit.
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But if you have an energy about you, and you present yourself to the world, like, I am
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What if you're 300 pounds, and you have this energy about you?
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I don't think that you will have that energy about you, because you are 300 pounds.
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I have that energy because I am in better shape than I was when I was 24.
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So I have that energy about me at 37 because I'm in better shape than I was in 24.
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Do you consider yourself, like, the top 10, 20% of women?
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I mean, we could say quality women, high-value women, whatever.
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But some women are better than others, right?
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But I think a lot of that has to do with my intellect, too.
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When I said feelings, it's like, if I ask a woman how she rates herself, it's like, well,
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And then they start giving you this long answer.
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All I'm saying is I gained knowledge as I got older.
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Because once you're dumber, they love you dumb.
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I just, I mean, I don't think that I would have done that if I was dumb.
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If I meet a girl who knows a lot, I'm like, fucking red flag, man.
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I'm just like, scratch that one, scratch that one off.
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Yeah, but would you be, would long term, would you?
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Well, because I'm saying you, you think you're smarter or you think you're wiser as the time
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As you've gotten older, you think you're worth it.
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Guys aren't going to think, like, why would a guy think you're worth it?
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Because your opinion of yourself is one thing, a guy's opinion of someone else.
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But that's also subjective to each individual man.
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They all have things that they are always different.
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My thing is, that's subjective in a sense where divorce rates are still high.
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When you're coaching men that are, oh, go ahead.
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Oh, and I was going to say, over the age of 35, you only have, like, a 15% chance of
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So, like, you could be the exception, but you're not the rule.
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So, Troy, when you're coaching and mentoring these guys and dating, do you run into this
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a lot with these guys looking for these pretty women and the challenges they're having and
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Because what I'm seeing now, no, no, what I'm seeing now is the scale is adjusted with
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Now, because of all the attention from the social media that we're seeing, right, the female
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attention necessity disorder, that coin phrase, right?
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That none of the psychologists will take, but all the attention they're getting, they're
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When the pandemic hit, everybody had these mental disorders because they weren't getting
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And then they don't date anybody because there's only a few percentage of guys that have that
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I think, yeah, overall, I think it's become tougher.
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You know, even if you're talking to a girl on a dating app or you meet her in the coffee
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shop or whatever, then yeah, you know, is she definitely going to come out and meet
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you or maybe she, you know, the next bright, shiny object comes along.
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But on the other hand, these girls still want to meet people.
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I think it also gets a little, I think it'll, hell yeah.
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I think it gets a little bit overstated as well.
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I mean, you can still go out there and make things happen, but equally, there's a lot of
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And, you know, there is an element of this stuff happening for sure.
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You know, if she's getting hit up by, you know, the bloke with the yacht in Miami.
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Then she's, you know, that's going to color her sense of her own value, isn't it?
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Well, and I realized too that like we're basically like men addicted to porn, all of us with
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No, but I'm saying like, I'm saying like women are basically also addicted to social
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It's like the equivalent of a guy addicted to porn.
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And I know this because it's like, and I see the propaganda working firsthand because I
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like talk to girls on my show and it's like, they all say the same thing.
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Like even like when I think of horoscopes, it's like, what are we doing?
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It's funny too, because I found myself desensitized to, to, to Instagram.
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When Instagram first came out, it was like way back in 07 or something or 05.
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I remember seeing, I posted a picture and now it became this real thing.
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But I remember when the reels kicked off, you'd go to your search bar.
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If you go to all your search bars, you're like, whoa, look at this chick.
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I'm like, oh my God, you're so desensitized to it.
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Whereas in 10 years ago, you'd have been popping a party in two seconds to it, right?
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There's a depopulation agenda happening and they do not want people procreating with one another.
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That's part of what the abortion industry is.
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Because they're going to want the AI girls soon.
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The tits are going to be so good and that waist is going to be so small that they're not going
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You don't think men are going to take pussy?
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No, but I'm saying, they do that as a response because sex is a need and our standards go
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The number one online girl right now that's making divorce is an AI girl created.
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But they will want that, but they're also going to probably take robots.
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But my whole thing is, like, they're doing that because women have these crazy high standards.
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But I understand it's an agenda, but I don't, I think, like, we're disagreeing on, like,
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Like, I'm saying women have these high standards.
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Real quick, David, what would you do if you were single right now?
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I'd focus solely on becoming the best version of yourself.
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So I'm an affiliate marketer, but my main thing I'm doing now is I'm a life coach.
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I get guys disciplined with their mind, body, and spirit.
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Specifically, like, my biggest vice as this whole topic was porn.
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And I waited three, four months before I started coaching anybody until I could heal myself.
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I told my wife that, and she said, that's why we, that's why, I thought you didn't think
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The problem was I was desensitized, like you said.
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I would always use it as a crutch, just like, oh, I'm so busy with business, with work.
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I was like, I use it as, like, a withholding method.
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And as soon as I stopped, officially, like, I could walk into a room, like, in Vegas.
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It's so crazy how you walk down the street here.
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I was like, they're allowed to just have their boobs out.
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I was just, like, I was walking down the street.
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I got spanked today by one of those bitches.
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She gave me the, she was trying to give me the handcuff thing.
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And I was like, this bitch spanks me when I walk by.
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Men, though, men need way more discipline in their life.
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It all starts with fitness, nutrition, getting dialed in with your body.
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Anytime you walk in a room and you see a man who's jacked, you can trust that man right away.
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Because it takes a lot of discipline to do that.
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There's a lot of immature, douchey guys that are fit.
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But I use it as a method to lead into a mindset where if you have a vice like alcohol, like
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porn, like drugs, like gambling, it all starts with a discipline where if you can be disciplined
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for three months straight, six months straight, be dialed in, you can create a body of your
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And all of a sudden you start going, well, how do I actually stop the alcohol?
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I just say, when you wake up every morning, you murder the old version of yourself and
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And then my whole thing was, as soon as I was able to heal myself from the porn, I don't
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One of these guys was like, you're going to Vegas?
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I'm like, yeah, but you're talking to someone who doesn't even care about your stuff.
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The bottom line is, most 99% of guys coming to Vegas aren't going to give any.
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It's about becoming the best version of yourself.
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However, if guys also want to get pussy, they've also got to study that side of things.
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They've got to make sure their game is on point.
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They've got to make sure their risk is on point, because if it isn't, you know, because
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sometimes guys think, okay, I'm just going to get, you know, I'm going to get ripped.
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And the women are just going to come to me.
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But unfortunately, the world that we live in, you know, you need to have a bit of that
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You know, and you're in a great position, man, because you've obviously, you know, you're
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in a position that many guys would envy, because you, man.
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Yeah, but the biggest problem is selling coaching on dating is easier, because guys, like you
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But the thing is, to convince someone who is, say, skinny, fat, or overweight, or someone
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who just wants to level up in life, to be like, hey, the only way that you can actually
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achieve that is if you really, truly want to change.
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You can't force somebody to eat clean for three months straight, six months straight.
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And in a society of weak men, all I do is sit on Instagram, look at AI girls, jerk off
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24-7, don't want to go out and date in the real world.
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Then you get women, like you women in here, are just like, there's no guys out there.
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There's no guys, because all the girls want the better guys.
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It's about, do you have that fucking strong desire to have the thing?
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How can a guy interact with a woman without a legal consequence?
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I just have the one wife, so I don't have to worry about it.
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But even men with wives have legal consequences all the time.
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I said, too, I was like, babe, I would never cheat on you.
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I don't want to deal with the BS involved in divorcing and all that.
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But I'm saying, like, I think, you know, a lot of times we go on to the men for walking
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away from women, but it's like, there's no way for them to interact with women without
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For example, there are men that get kicked out of gyms for looking at women.
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Then the trans can come into our locker rooms on the flip side.
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Did you see that article about that dude who was blind and he was looking at a woman
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and she was like, oh, my God, you're so creepy, and she complained.
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I said that to a guy and he's like, oh, I know, like, three guys that happened to it.
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Like, when you start doing what I do, you just get so many messages of guys saying, like,
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I think, I mean, I don't know, touch wood, man.
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I mean, the problem, we've got certain places are bad.
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I mean, obviously, we're in London, so you've got that.
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There are other countries where this stuff is less prevalent.
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I will say in A-market cities, the big cities in the U.S., it's really bad.
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That's why I tell men when they're asking about where I should meet women,
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My girl's from a C-market, a little town, right?
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And so I don't know what your philosophy on that.
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So I was talking about regional dating overseas, no big cities.
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When you're coaching men on dating, I'm going to lead it with you, Troy.
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When they're asking where do you meet women, what are you saying to them?
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Because I'm finding in big cities it's a lose-lose situation.
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So what are your thoughts on smaller towns, cities?
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The best places that we find, because we go internationally quite a lot.
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So say we're in Poland, you've got Warsaw, which is the main city.
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So Warsaw is the capital city, main city, and it is really great for dating.
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But equally, what's quite good is to go to the second city or even the third city in the
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Are you saying Western women aren't the best?
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Are you saying American women aren't the number one?
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The NATO-based countries are the ones who are the most corrupt and the ones who have the
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most sex and the most Westernized that are the most corrupts up.
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So if you go to Eastern Europe or you go to Asia or you go to South Central America,
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you have a better opportunity as a man to find a traditional woman.
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If anybody's coaching, hit me up on Instagram, at David Fischock.
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I'd love to help you get discipline, mind, body, spirit.
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Become one of the freaking men who's not addicted to the freaking porn, the drugs, the alcohol,
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and focus on, I don't know, sticking with one woman.
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The ones that actually understand that maybe women shouldn't vote in all situations because
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I was actually driving back home and I saw the only Black Lives Matter sticker that was
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still left was a white liberal woman in the car.
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Also, if you wear that anywhere, take a pic, tag me.
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I was like, do you think women are smart enough to vote?
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So back to this topic, you're telling me overseas and all these other cultures and societies.
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Well, so a lot of guys that I work with, I know, came out of London and London's a
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There's a lot of people, you know, beautiful women there, whatever.
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But as far as a dating proposition is concerned, a lot of guys will end up traveling.
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So a lot of guys, where they will go will be the former Eastern European countries, the
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And somewhat places like Southeast Asia as well.
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Mate, Colombia is, so many guys' problems would be solved by getting on a plane and going
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Three of them now are in these long-term relationships.
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Does it have to be overseas for like Colombia's place?
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You can find country, like small towns, like within a state.
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I grew up in Acton, California, and it's very small, very country.
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We had traditional values because it was smaller.
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It wasn't like, we didn't really venture out and go into the cities unless we were going
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Okay, so you have to do the import where, like, my girl was born in Sonora, Mexico, and then
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If you drive on the freeway and you drive on the freeway, hey, we're in Tucson.
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And when I started getting to know her, she's, you know, she didn't really know what I did.
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I'm like, winner, winner, chicken dinner, right?
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She had no idea because in Tucson, nobody makes that.
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And over there, it's very, you know, traditional.
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Her dad's like, when we get married, you make sure you cook for your husband, all this stuff.
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And as she became with me and I elevated her game, she became six, seven, and eight, right?
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She didn't expose herself to external negative input.
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Like, she said, I don't want to go to the club with these girls.
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I gave her the, I took, I don't want to say take the leash off, but I gave her the expansion
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Because me and Alana talked about this earlier.
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My friend and my confidant, my battle buddy, we butt heads a lot.
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We really do have like a love-hate relationship with life.
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But we have one thing in common that we all think.
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That Warner Brothers cartoon with the sheepdog and the coyote, and they battled all day.
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And I was the sheepdog protecting the sheep, right?
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And then all of a sudden, they clocked out, and they were friends.
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So what were you battling about before, though?
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It's just dynamics in relationships, dating, you know, whatever.
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So we will have heated discussions, but we'll be like, no, what the, no, it's not like that.
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What are your thoughts of people in a relationship or dating, and the guy's going to date this
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girl they've been talking, and she says, well, I have a guy friend, but I'm not going to
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get rid of my guy friend, and we're going to date.
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But do you think that's an insecurity if a guy says, I don't want you to have your guy
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friend when we date, or is that a respect issue?
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So I think you're supposed to obey your husband, so I think you should obey him.
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You said, I won't date you because I want to have my guy friend.
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It depends on the nature of the relationship, how you're going into that relationship.
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Firstly, I'm not particularly looking for anything that serious at the moment.
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And even if I was, you know, even if I was open to meeting somebody longer term, which
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I have been in the past, or whatever, what I generally do is I let them do their thing,
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And then I make a decision based on that, if this is somebody where this could gel or not.
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So if I was just randomly, like, kind of seeing some girl, like, hooking up with some girl
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If, if, but then, if I was thinking, well, am I going to consider this, this woman as
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like a serious, something a bit more serious, like more serious partner, then I'd be thinking,
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I'm not really, you know, I'm probably not into that.
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I guess you and your boyfriend just recently broke up because of this guy friend.
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I've never had sex with any of my guy friends, but like, when, when you get to know me.
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When you get to know me, I walk around with a dick.
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I really genuinely, like in my head, I genuinely think I have a dick.
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And when you get to know me, you'll see, because even he says it, I'm one of the boys.
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So I have a lot of male friends, not very many female friends, because my female friends
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Like, a lot of females cannot handle a joke, and I joke too much.
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So when I'm around guys, they're, you know, they tend to be like, I wouldn't fuck you.
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I actually, like, I can call him right now and be like, hey, do you want to have sex?
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You have to talk to him in a way that he thinks it's serious.
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If you ask him if you want to ask, but that's the thing, it's hard to do on a phone call,
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Like, you're going to call, hey, do you want to have sex with me?
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You know, I was thinking, you know, we've been friends for so long, like, why haven't
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But are you, but don't you have an emotional connection?
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Me and, well, okay, so me and my friend, I call on my brother.
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I introduced him to Davric as my brother, and he believed it until I told him it wasn't.
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No, but even still, you can tell when someone's not their brother.
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You're just like, eh, it's a little flirty, eh, it's a little weird.
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But is it possible that he's a little bit into you?
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But the point is that you had a phone call with him, right?
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No, so this was another guy, because I have multiple male friends.
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No guy is going to want to be, I don't mind.
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The disagreement was, I said, she's, and again, I'm not attacking Lana.
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But when I met my gal, she put herself in a position to say, you know what?
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She didn't have, she goes, she moved, but she's like, these are guys I grew up from high
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And I let her hang herself, and she's going to hang herself.
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Dennis Rodman's ex-wife, the basketball player, was a friend of mine.
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And then as I got my game and my frame and my muscles and my money, and I figured the game
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There's no value unless I'm having sex with you.
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I don't want to hang out with you as a woman.
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And so for me, Pearl's a friend from a distance.
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But at the same time, I'm not going to go, hey, Pearl, let's go hang out.
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It's like, Pearl might say, hey, what are you doing?
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But not to disrespect Lana, but for me, I have a different standard.
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And so it wasn't the guy as much as you're sharing intimate conversations with this guy.
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Sometimes we're dumb and we don't see the difference.
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It took me a long time to learn the difference.
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And I'm like, you know, it took me 30 years to learn that.
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But the thing is, like, a lot of times we share private information about our relationship.
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And I just think when you're sharing that with other men.
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And so it's like, it's kind of disrespectful when you're sharing it.
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And I'll turn my guys, like my guy friends against my boyfriend.
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Like, would you ever like change that if you felt like it was getting the way of you
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To be completely fair, it's the reasoning behind that is because my guy friends have
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done a lot more for me than a guy, a boyfriend has done.
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I understand, like, where you're coming from because, you know, I'm a tomboy.
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But it's like, I just think in a relationship it's not appropriate.
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Like, I don't think we grew up watching our moms and the wives really have a bunch of guy
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And, like, there's one day you just wake up and realize everyone's trying to fuck you.
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And I'm really confused how you haven't had that, like, realization yet.
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That's where you're trying to turn the story into that.
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But you've had some guy friends for a long time.
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I have had guy friends in the past that have tried to fuck me.
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The friends that I have right now have never tried to fuck me.
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It is not my boyfriend's responsibility to pay my bills.
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Mind you, I was with this person for two months.
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My friends were there for me when I was homeless.
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My friends were there for me when I was getting divorced.
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Like, I was friends with them while I was married.
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I mean, I can sort of see both sides of this because I know for sure.
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As a guy, I don't really, I don't really have female friends.
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I've got a lot of women that I know that I'm kind of friendly with, you know, we'll
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But I'm not really, I mean, I was a little bit of Miami actually because I hang out with
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Zina or I hang out with this girl Pixie and stuff.
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But even them, they're kind of people that are sort of, it's almost work related in a
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You know, they're kind of people that I know through these shows and all that shit.
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But I'm not like, there's no women in my life at all that I'm just friends with.
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Like, oh, hey guys, should we go and hang out on Saturday?
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You know, my friends are guy friends predominantly.
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But at the same time, there are certainly women that I know that I have zero sexual interest
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And I know it's never going to, I'm never going to suddenly turn around and go, oh,
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So I do accept that, you know, that there are these, there can be these sort of male,
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But as a guy, when you're going into a relationship with a woman, I would see it, I would have some,
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And also, just, just, just, even if you're not going to fuck them, there's something
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about the level of intimacy that you might have with those dudes.
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Okay, but it's not insecurity or protecting one's investment.
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It's him, it's him protecting one's investment.
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Well, yeah, that's what I was trying to get at.
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Like, that's why I was saying, yes, I understand.
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He, he doesn't need to pay all your bills, but he needs to show that he's showing enough
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of an interest in you that he is number one, and you're going to make him number one, and
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And then he'll become secure with whatever else is, is in line.
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Like, make him number one, and, and listen to him.
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Oh, I wasn't, I thought you said before he had to pay for everything, but you kind of
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No, I don't, I don't, no, I don't necessarily mean that.
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Yeah, she's not, yeah, she, and you're not living together, it's a different type of
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Yeah, it's totally a different type of dynamic.
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I thought it was like a marriage type of dynamic.
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So do you, like, so I understand it, because I agree.
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I mean, I was like, Pearl and like, Lana, like, I, I always grew up a tomboy.
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I was like one of the guys, I grew up on a ranch, and I rode dirt bikes.
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So I was around a bunch of dudes that my dad trained every weekend riding dirt bikes.
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So I had a lot of guy friends, because girls didn't really like me, and then we'd always,
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It is, because women are catty, and for some reason women are always in competition with
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But when I, so I had more guy friends, but like when I started dating my husband, like,
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And then like, I stopped talking to like my guy friends, because I'm like, I don't, that's
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But I understand, because he proved that to me.
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He's like, it could be your best friend, and he could be gay, but he would still want
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And the, and the problem is like, you want to move the exact same as a single woman as
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you do as a wife, and we want to give up nothing for the man.
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Like, I give up everything, and I have no problem with it.
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So, but do you think that a guy, because I've had men argue with me saying that it's not
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the same for men, because when we see women, and we are, we're not sexually attracted to
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them, but that doesn't mean that the woman doesn't have her own intentions.
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So do you think that it should be equal in that aspect, like if you genuinely want to
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be with this person, that you should phase off your single girlfriends?
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What, you mean female, if any female friends, you should, you should phase them off.
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You have to be honest with yourself, like, is there, am I chasing this friendship because
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there's a 1% chance that I'm still looking for something, or do I really not give a fuck
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No, they say there's no sexual desire, like, no, I have no sexual desire for this person,
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we're just really close, like, Aylana, like, she's like my sister.
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But at the same time, that doesn't mean that you don't know if she secretly has feelings
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So, like, don't you think that that would be a little inappropriate for a woman?
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That's where intuition is so, this is where our society teaches us to be so, so.
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Well, that's where our society has taught us to be on point.
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No, okay, but then if our intuition was so good, you'd be married, like.
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No, I know my intuition's so good that I got divorced.
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Her intuition's so good that she's picked a lot of guys who cheated on you.
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You said you had intuition that they cheated on you.
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You said that you had intuition that they cheated.
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But your intuition led you to be in those relationships, so you picked the guys that kept cheating on you.
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I think the guy, I think the guy that cheated on me, he was with me for nine years.
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I think the guy that cheated on me, he was with me for nine years.
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Yeah, I think, I think if we were so smart, we'd all be married by like 21.
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I'm saying that women, we are not, we are actually, we are not that smart mentally, but
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We feel things more than men do, and once we dial our senses, and that's what makes us
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nurturing, and once we dial it, we're more likely to kill infants and elders.
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It's like, well, we killed the infants and the elderly, but it's society.
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No, no, because that actually, women, women, women actually killed, women actually killed
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their infants even before the last hundred years.
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I've talked to, I've talked to historians about this.
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So, we've been offering our children up for a long time.
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No, literally, since the beginning of time, because back when we were walking around the
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caveman days, if you had more than two kids, it was going to slow down the pack.
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So, if you had a third kid, you had to kill it.
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And even in the 1800s, lots of women killed their kids.
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Women are much more violent than men, and that's actually why I came to the conclusion
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Yeah, like, we love the serial killer shit, we wrote Ted Bundy, yeah, I know, like...
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Women needs to go to witches, so that way they can actually abort their children.
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Well, and this is the thing, women can be great, but it's always under the authority
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