JustPearlyThings - They Don't Make Right DECISIONS

00:00:00.000 Well, everybody hold your shirts up.

00:00:01.900 Yeah, yeah.

00:00:04.540 Should we put it on?

00:00:05.800 Should we put it on?

00:00:08.320 I'm going to represent.

00:00:09.980 I'm like, I kind of agree.

00:00:12.220 I know, I totally agree.

00:00:14.020 We can't even pick boyfriends.

00:00:15.680 Why should we pick who has the atomic nuke button?

00:00:19.480 I just broke up with my boyfriend.

00:00:21.800 That was way too relevant.

00:00:23.400 Don't start with me, bro.

00:00:24.780 Too soon.

00:00:25.640 Too soon.

00:00:26.380 Was it a good choice?

00:00:27.980 No.

00:00:28.420 Oh, my God.

00:00:30.000 Right on.

00:00:32.320 I got you a medium.

00:00:32.940 I got you a medium.

00:00:35.400 I know you said yesterday.

00:00:36.640 Thank you.

00:00:37.320 We're going to get started here.

00:00:38.820 I'm just going to do an intro while everybody's doing this freestyle.

00:00:41.920 So welcome to another episode of Black Ice Reality Check.

00:00:44.260 I'm your host, Black Ice.

00:00:45.220 We have a great group of people.

00:00:46.940 People.

00:00:47.400 People.

00:00:48.100 Peel.

00:00:48.400 See what you did to me?

00:00:49.300 I can peel.

00:00:50.660 Peel off the clothes.

00:00:52.780 We have the one and only.

00:00:54.760 Hated by most.

00:00:55.700 Loved by some.

00:00:56.320 How is that?

00:00:57.480 My mom likes me a lot.

00:01:00.000 The whales don't.

00:01:02.680 So we have Pearl all the way from London.

00:01:06.460 Is that fair?

00:01:07.340 Yeah.

00:01:07.640 From London.

00:01:08.100 Chicago.

00:01:08.760 Yeah.

00:01:09.040 Well, yeah.

00:01:09.620 London.

00:01:10.240 London.

00:01:10.760 Are you here yet?

00:01:11.640 Are you going to be here?

00:01:12.600 Are you neighbors?

00:01:13.320 Well, I'm soon.

00:01:15.380 I got to figure out what city.

00:01:18.240 So I'm checking out Vegas this week.

00:01:20.100 See, I'm going to get, dude.

00:01:21.460 West Coast Connection.

00:01:22.600 West Coast Represent.

00:01:24.640 Deaf World Records.

00:01:25.620 No, I'm just kidding.

00:01:27.060 West Coast, baby.

00:01:29.200 We got Troy's in the house from London.

00:01:31.740 We did an intro earlier, but we're going to do a second one.

00:01:34.000 Oh, yeah.

00:01:34.800 Bond.

00:01:35.280 James Bond from London, right?

00:01:36.840 Daniel Craig.

00:01:37.860 His name's Francis.

00:01:39.480 Yeah, man.

00:01:40.060 Thank you for having me on.

00:01:41.780 It's a privilege and a pleasure to be here.

00:01:43.760 And these guys, these guys' English accents are some of the best I think I've heard.

00:01:48.800 Come on.

00:01:49.060 Come on.

00:01:49.400 Come on.

00:01:49.600 Come on, mate.

00:01:50.980 London, you know.

00:01:51.880 All right, mate.

00:01:52.460 All right.

00:01:52.700 Come on. 0.98

00:01:53.640 You know what's fucked up? 0.98

00:01:54.760 I'm probably going to, like, imitate you the whole podcast. 0.97

00:01:57.920 And it's going to be.

00:01:58.400 Oh, bollocks. 1.00

00:01:59.220 I'm going to be like, oh, shit. 0.99

00:02:00.960 Wait, why do we have that in the middle right there? 0.99

00:02:04.580 Like, what's the.

00:02:05.180 Do you love him?

00:02:05.620 His name is Good Dick.

00:02:06.760 Oh, God. 0.89

00:02:07.740 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:02:08.880 Pro, pro.

00:02:09.540 It's cold outside.

00:02:10.800 Oh, my God.

00:02:11.660 Isn't it?

00:02:12.400 Wait, are they outside?

00:02:13.080 Don't get excited.

00:02:13.960 Don't get excited.

00:02:14.760 No, I've never seen that before. 0.99

00:02:16.080 No, I've never seen a penis. 0.97

00:02:17.520 No, I've never seen, like, a little. 0.99

00:02:19.300 She doesn't want to touch it.

00:02:20.480 She's like, I'm good.

00:02:21.800 I'm good.

00:02:22.460 I'm good.

00:02:22.540 Okay.

00:02:23.000 We got Kristen in the house. 1.00

00:02:24.560 Yes.

00:02:24.900 You were calling me the female Alex Jones.

00:02:28.660 And here you are with your little supplement line.

00:02:31.760 I got my HV alpha.

00:02:35.800 Man, it's bad.

00:02:36.920 I'm going to get it bad.

00:02:38.460 Hey, if Joe Rogan can do it, I can do it.

00:02:40.240 Absolutely.

00:02:40.460 There you go.

00:02:41.060 Absolutely.

00:02:41.380 We got David in the house all the way from Seattle area, Washington, my hometown.

00:02:46.700 Which is wild.

00:02:47.580 No one's ever from Seattle, but here we are.

00:02:49.240 And I know where Monroe is.

00:02:50.860 Monroe, Menho, whatever you want to call it.

00:02:52.480 I never heard of it called Menho.

00:02:54.240 I guess.

00:02:55.060 We'll roll with that.

00:02:56.320 More in recent Bellevue, though.

00:02:57.360 If you guys know about Monroe, there's, like, one road, Highway 2?

00:03:00.200 Well, no.

00:03:00.780 It's 522.

00:03:02.020 522.

00:03:02.400 And Highway 2.

00:03:03.360 And you go out there.

00:03:04.200 You pass a prison.

00:03:06.040 I see that prison from my back.

00:03:07.960 I have the whole view.

00:03:09.340 I'm facing south, and I can see all the mountains.

00:03:11.120 And every night, it's lit up like a Christmas tree, the prison.

00:03:14.220 And then you go to this little town that was set up because of a place called Gold Bar, where the gold mining town is.

00:03:19.660 Oh, yeah.

00:03:20.080 So back in the golden days, the gold rush, on the way to Alaska, right?

00:03:23.520 Monroe.

00:03:24.020 It's beautiful.

00:03:24.860 Yeah?

00:03:25.300 It's nice.

00:03:25.980 What's the nightlife like?

00:03:29.040 Banjos and...

00:03:30.320 They got a racetrack there.

00:03:31.700 That's all they got there.

00:03:32.520 Yeah.

00:03:33.020 A racetrack and a Walmart.

00:03:35.080 And show them your new favorite t-shirt.

00:03:37.440 Hey, you gotta rock this shirt.

00:03:38.760 Look at this.

00:03:40.640 We have these in multiple colors, guys. 0.98

00:03:45.080 I do agree with this because a lot of the problems in society stem from the fact that women are crazy liberal, 1.00

00:03:50.260 and they voted and caused a lot of this BS. 1.00

00:03:52.300 We gotta take this shit away. 1.00

00:03:53.980 Oh, we're starting hot. 1.00

00:03:55.220 Oh, we're starting hot.

00:03:55.640 Where does it come from?

00:03:56.680 It comes from...

00:03:57.320 Propaganda, early 1900s. 0.98

00:03:59.420 They realized that women are dummies, and they realized they could just show us a video 1.00

00:04:03.280 of some 12-year-old that can't get an abortion, and we're like, oh, my God. 0.99

00:04:06.620 It's the emotion.

00:04:07.420 It's the emotional aspect.

00:04:08.180 And we run to the polls.

00:04:09.520 We're like, let me vote.

00:04:10.880 Let me vote.

00:04:10.920 There's a difference between the first wave of feminism and the second wave. 1.00

00:04:15.520 No, they were all terrorists.

00:04:17.000 They planned assassinations in the 1800s.

00:04:19.280 But the second wave was when abortion and birth control happened. 0.81

00:04:23.640 No, I think it was always freedom without...

00:04:25.720 We were always terrorists.

00:04:27.860 That's what I'm here for.

00:04:28.620 True green conversation.

00:04:29.500 I love it.

00:04:29.620 Okay. 0.99

00:04:30.680 I agree that 80% of women don't know shit about... 1.00

00:04:36.380 So I'm a comedian. 0.99

00:04:37.680 My name's Lana.

00:04:38.300 Lana.

00:04:39.380 So this is Laughing with Lana, real quick.

00:04:41.520 Laughing with Lana.

00:04:42.440 I'm here.

00:04:43.140 She has a podcast, Laughing with Lana, comedian, business owner.

00:04:47.680 I'm a business owner, yes.

00:04:48.980 I have my own business where I do window repair and I install interior doors and I make solar

00:04:54.300 screens for Las Vegas.

00:04:55.460 Which is why she's so ripped all the time. 1.00

00:04:57.980 And then we have Coco, Married to the Red Pill Coco.

00:05:01.260 Yeah.

00:05:02.620 Got her own podcast.

00:05:03.900 And I'm going to give props out to Glenn Lawrence, by the way.

00:05:06.720 Glenn is like...

00:05:07.480 He brings everybody together.

00:05:08.660 He really did.

00:05:09.520 Yeah.

00:05:09.760 Glenn is like, you know, another one.

00:05:12.940 What's his name?

00:05:13.480 DJ Khalid of the Red Pill Podcasting Network.

00:05:16.860 He connects all the podcasters together.

00:05:18.900 So give it up for Glenn Lawrence.

00:05:20.040 I'll put him in the description box.

00:05:21.680 So we are here with Pearl.

00:05:24.100 Pearl, we got some questions for you.

00:05:26.080 Okay.

00:05:26.720 So we talked about the women shouldn't vote shirt. 1.00

00:05:30.080 Yes.

00:05:30.540 What is that about?

00:05:31.240 What's your push there?

00:05:32.020 Is that a cause you're pushing or is that just a...

00:05:33.800 I know.

00:05:34.300 I seriously, I think all of the world's problems would be solved if we didn't vote.

00:05:39.340 Yes.

00:05:39.900 So you would ban voting for women globally? 0.53

00:05:43.220 Globally?

00:05:43.660 If I could, in this world, I could press the button.

00:05:46.200 How do you feel about, I agree with you for the most part, but in a blanket world, how

00:05:54.420 do you feel about the Middle East and the women who get stoned to death for not wearing

00:06:00.220 their burqa and wanting just basic education and basic rights? 0.78

00:06:05.720 How do you feel about that in comparison to the right to not vote?

00:06:10.140 Because I agree with you. 0.99

00:06:11.040 Most women don't know shit about politics. 1.00

00:06:12.960 But a lot of men don't either. 0.99

00:06:14.320 No, well, the difference is that men have some skin in the game.

00:06:18.760 They do things.

00:06:19.220 Women are more influenced by their surroundings. 0.99

00:06:22.300 They're more malleable.

00:06:23.680 So I understand what you're saying.

00:06:26.540 Everything makes complete sense.

00:06:28.800 So the Middle East, I don't know.

00:06:30.220 To be honest, I don't know much about the Middle East.

00:06:32.540 I'm not a Middle East expert.

00:06:33.760 But what I will say is I do think that there is propaganda where they kind of push that

00:06:38.180 these women just have these horrible lives. 1.00

00:06:40.320 And I just kind of notice the same pattern.

00:06:42.840 So I have a tough time believing that they're just these oppressed people.

00:06:47.040 Hey, I was just in Istanbul.

00:06:48.320 And they were under burqas with Yeezys on. 0.96

00:06:50.520 So I don't know.

00:06:51.240 Yeah.

00:06:51.480 I was just in Istanbul as well, Matt.

00:06:55.300 But it's pretty liberal over there, isn't it?

00:06:57.760 Yeah.

00:06:58.180 It's pretty liberal over there.

00:06:59.960 Like, my brother's Muslim.

00:07:02.500 He was in the military here.

00:07:06.020 He saw how the Middle East was living.

00:07:07.720 And he was like, oh, my God. 1.00

00:07:08.540 The West is totally fucked up. 1.00

00:07:10.660 I just want a traditional woman. 1.00

00:07:12.260 I want to become Muslim.

00:07:13.660 I'm going to grow my beard out.

00:07:15.380 I'm going to move to the Middle East. 0.93

00:07:16.760 And he did that.

00:07:17.520 Well, that's why a lot of these guys are moving to Dubai, isn't it?

00:07:19.820 Yeah.

00:07:20.120 Like, Dubai's become a real hard part.

00:07:21.340 But that's more like the westernized Muslim culture.

00:07:24.260 It's more.

00:07:25.020 So what I'm saying when it comes to women's rights, I agree for the most part.

00:07:30.780 Women should just give over their right to vote to the head of household and say, you know what you're doing. 1.00

00:07:41.460 But please at least listen to what I have to say.

00:07:44.340 Because if I do know what I'm talking about, somebody like me who does know what's happening in the world, I have no problem with not voting.

00:07:52.220 But I want my husband to hear me out at least.

00:07:55.640 Whereas in the Middle East, a lot of those places, you're not even allowed to speak about those things.

00:08:02.160 What places?

00:08:04.200 Pakistan, Afghanistan, where they stone those women. 1.00

00:08:08.020 And Pakistan and Afghanistan, one of the leading causes of death for women is being stoned.

00:08:12.240 Yes.

00:08:12.540 Okay.

00:08:13.440 I have a hard time believing that, but okay. 0.72

00:08:16.340 Yes, a lot of those women are stoned to death. 1.00

00:08:18.440 Okay, like a majority that die.

00:08:22.080 You're going to stand on that.

00:08:22.960 There are still a lot of women who do. 1.00

00:08:25.580 But is it the top reason that they get dead?

00:08:27.280 Like, is this that common?

00:08:29.700 I think it's more common than it is anywhere else in the world.

00:08:34.640 Right.

00:08:35.120 No, but I'm saying there's a difference between there being like fringe cases and it being super common.

00:08:39.220 Yeah.

00:08:39.580 Like, you know what I mean?

00:08:40.600 There's a difference between like, okay, this fringe thing happened versus this is happening everywhere.

00:08:45.160 And this is common for the women. 1.00

00:08:46.860 I think it's that.

00:08:47.540 But I think at the end of the day, women are very. 1.00

00:08:49.380 It's heart disease, but that's pretty much it.

00:08:51.820 I mean, how do you feel about burqas?

00:08:57.040 How do you feel about a woman just wearing? 0.99

00:08:58.840 Well, men have always listened to women. 1.00

00:09:01.500 Men are benevolent dictators.

00:09:03.040 The truth of the matter is when men get power in general, they're pretty nice. 1.00

00:09:07.120 And when they're not nice, usually other men come in and kick their ass and kill them. 1.00

00:09:10.800 I agree with that. 1.00

00:09:11.480 A hundred percent.

00:09:12.760 I agree with that.

00:09:13.560 And typically, like, you know, I think men are meaner to other men than to women.

00:09:17.600 One hundred percent.

00:09:18.140 I agree with that, too.

00:09:19.100 Yeah.

00:09:19.600 And when women get power. 1.00

00:09:21.940 So are women. 1.00

00:09:22.680 Yeah. 0.97

00:09:23.020 Women are meaner to men than they are to women. 1.00

00:09:25.240 And women are meaner to women than other women. 1.00

00:09:27.540 Women are mean to women. 1.00

00:09:27.720 And that's the whole problem with the feminist movement. 1.00

00:09:30.220 To other women. 0.93

00:09:30.740 No, women are also mean to other women. 1.00

00:09:32.520 Women are not mean to other women. 0.98

00:09:34.420 They're mean to everyone. 0.79

00:09:35.480 They are jealous of other women. 0.76

00:09:36.780 No, women are catty. 1.00

00:09:37.180 No, no. 0.99

00:09:37.500 They could be catty. 0.93

00:09:38.300 Women are mean to hot women. 1.00

00:09:41.020 If you're ugly, you'll be okay. 1.00

00:09:46.100 Because I had a question on that. 1.00

00:09:47.580 Because you guys are saying that women shouldn't vote.

00:09:50.180 If women can't vote, do you guys still agree with them being in our military? 1.00

00:09:54.500 No.

00:09:54.840 No.

00:09:54.980 I don't think a woman should be even close to the military. 1.00

00:09:58.560 No.

00:09:58.760 She should be as... 0.98

00:09:59.800 I don't even agree with a woman being a nurse in the military. 1.00

00:10:03.400 Well, and then all the women in the military start fucking all the guys. 1.00

00:10:06.960 And then they're like... 1.00

00:10:07.420 But they get raped a lot. 0.97

00:10:08.360 Then they... 1.00

00:10:08.920 Well, they'll get, like, raped. 1.00

00:10:10.700 It's, like, me too type shit. 1.00

00:10:11.680 Well, they also get special treatment that men don't get because they have to accommodate 1.00

00:10:14.460 for their period.

00:10:15.180 They're now accommodating if they're actually getting pregnant when they're in the military. 0.99

00:10:18.300 And it's, like, men don't have that luxury.

00:10:20.240 And then just state is going to pay for their nine months of being pregnant. 1.00

00:10:23.160 And for them to modify their uniform so they can fit their pregnant. 1.00

00:10:25.780 I was going to say, they get the full of the best.

00:10:27.480 That's what I'm all in.

00:10:27.980 And other things...

00:10:28.900 You also can't really trust any of this, like, rape anymore because they switched the definition

00:10:33.480 of rape.

00:10:34.140 It used to be forced sex. 0.99

00:10:35.440 And now it's sex without consent. 0.99

00:10:36.900 So you can basically, like, get into bed with a guy and then, like, oh, he raped me even 0.98

00:10:42.820 though I, like, went home with him. 0.86

00:10:44.440 And then I didn't, like... 0.99

00:10:45.040 So rape turns into transgender? 1.00

00:10:46.880 Like, no, no, no. 1.00

00:10:48.880 I just feel that he raped me. 1.00

00:10:50.800 So he raped me. 1.00

00:10:51.040 Well, yeah. 1.00

00:10:51.220 Well, yeah. 0.92

00:10:51.700 Because sex is... 0.78

00:10:52.720 Or consent is subjective.

00:10:54.660 And so that's what the feminists do. 1.00

00:10:55.960 Oh, fuck that. 1.00

00:10:56.300 They get into these institutions and they change definitions. 1.00

00:10:58.820 And they can also now retroactively, like, take someone to court.

00:11:02.400 Like, I saw a case the other day where this guy, this woman was trying to sue this dude

00:11:05.860 because she was saying, well, when I had sex with him, he said he was going to marry

00:11:09.100 me.

00:11:10.120 And that turned out not to be the case.

00:11:12.520 Oh, my God.

00:11:12.960 I got a lot of rape. 0.98

00:11:15.360 Wait, wait, wait. 0.94

00:11:17.700 Well, it's like, what happened?

00:11:19.680 We used to take L's and move on. 1.00

00:11:22.300 Like, you didn't go around.

00:11:23.800 Like, you used to just take your L and you wouldn't want to tell everyone about it because it's a

00:11:28.240 little embarrassing.

00:11:29.040 You just go home and eat ice cream and cry about it, watch a sad movie, and then move

00:11:32.280 on.

00:11:32.660 Yeah.

00:11:33.040 But now it's like we got to tell everyone and start a court.

00:11:37.240 Like, just take your L.

00:11:39.160 David, so you've been married the whole time since day one when you first were with a woman,

00:11:44.480 married the whole time.

00:11:45.400 So you haven't been exposed to the dating scene or outside?

00:11:48.180 Y'all are freaking wild.

00:11:49.420 I'm just going to say that right now. 0.82

00:11:50.340 Like, I look at the stuff from the outside.

00:11:52.820 So, crazy story.

00:11:54.980 I lost my virginity to my wife.

00:11:56.380 We've been together since 2014.

00:11:59.260 We started dating July of 2014, proposed to her in January of 2015, got married in August

00:12:03.880 2015, and we're about to come on eight years of marriage.

00:12:07.000 One woman my entire life.

00:12:09.200 How did you meet?

00:12:10.180 How did you meet?

00:12:10.720 At school or college?

00:12:11.920 So my mom actually introduced me to her.

00:12:13.880 They had a mutual friend at her birthday party.

00:12:15.900 So no, it wasn't even arranged.

00:12:16.680 I'm just playing.

00:12:17.220 It was more so, there was a mutual friend and she was a gossiper.

00:12:20.520 And so that friend watched her grow up.

00:12:25.220 And so when they all met, my mom told me about her.

00:12:27.160 I was dating some girl at the time she didn't like.

00:12:29.400 And she showed me one picture of her.

00:12:31.000 If you ever look her up on Instagram, gorgeous.

00:12:32.960 It's just at Yana Fishchuck.

00:12:34.060 And she had these striped pants on. 0.98

00:12:36.220 And I was like, yo, those legs don't end.

00:12:38.580 And so I had followed her.

00:12:40.000 I was dating this girl.

00:12:40.800 I was in the process of breaking up with her.

00:12:42.920 And I asked this mutual friend about her.

00:12:46.600 And not one kind of thing, aside from just the fact that the parents were split.

00:12:50.000 And there was just some stuff going on there.

00:12:51.480 Now, was she in Monroe?

00:12:53.100 No, she was in Auburn, which is an hour away.

00:12:55.620 It's an hour away.

00:12:56.720 I know what that is.

00:12:57.200 There's a road trip every time we went to go date and see each other.

00:12:59.140 Yeah, in Seattle.

00:13:00.080 I mean, here you get there in 15 minutes.

00:13:01.580 There it takes you eight hours to drive.

00:13:03.220 Not literally, but it's traffic.

00:13:05.800 Right.

00:13:06.340 Forget it.

00:13:07.500 It's like going through London from one end to the other.

00:13:09.820 Yeah.

00:13:10.100 Right.

00:13:10.300 So do I say like, I told my wife, I was like, there is no, like we, we got into the relationship

00:13:15.020 knowing that we wanted to get married early and grow together.

00:13:17.680 And was she a virgin too?

00:13:19.200 Yeah.

00:13:19.760 Oh.

00:13:20.460 And I talk about where, that's why I'm like, yo, I never want to break up with her, lose

00:13:23.420 her anything because if I have to go back to the dating pool, I'm just going to stay

00:13:26.640 single.

00:13:27.140 I'm done.

00:13:27.620 I'm done.

00:13:28.200 Like, no way.

00:13:28.560 It's so much work.

00:13:29.420 It's not even as fun as I, like when I was, cause you're what?

00:13:33.460 Mid twenties?

00:13:34.240 Yeah.

00:13:34.360 I'm 29.

00:13:35.180 Yeah.

00:13:35.620 Late twenties.

00:13:36.340 Mid to late twenties.

00:13:37.500 When I was in that phase.

00:13:39.360 It was like, it was a little bit more fun and exciting.

00:13:43.220 Now it's just dreadful.

00:13:45.140 I mean, I'm terrified.

00:13:45.960 I'm like, yo, girl, you're bomb. 0.80

00:13:47.140 You go to a bedroom and you're like, yo, you got a little tally whacker down there, don't

00:13:50.120 you?

00:13:50.720 That terrifies me.

00:13:51.580 I'm like, you don't even know.

00:13:52.780 You don't even know.

00:13:53.680 So I'm like, I'm good.

00:13:54.380 Wait, wait, wait.

00:13:54.800 Did you say tally whacker?

00:13:55.740 What do you mean?

00:13:56.260 He's got the extra.

00:13:57.100 I've got Daniel Craig over here.

00:13:58.340 So it's like, you know.

00:13:59.180 You got the extra equipment that is.

00:14:00.460 Basically, that's what I'm afraid of.

00:14:02.060 That's why I'm like, you come to Vegas and it's like, you don't know what you're going

00:14:04.720 to get.

00:14:05.380 You don't.

00:14:06.320 Pearl, when you remember, we were talking about on your podcast, how, how there's no virgins

00:14:10.300 out there or it's hard to find a virgin. 1.00

00:14:12.380 Men don't want to. 0.81

00:14:13.460 What are your thoughts on men?

00:14:14.780 Should they have to be with a virgin to be successful in a marriage? 0.99

00:14:18.400 Or what are your thoughts on this?

00:14:20.100 Well, only nine, I think 96% of women aren't virgins on their wedding days. 0.99

00:14:25.240 96%.

00:14:26.020 Yeah.

00:14:26.440 So good luck if you want one, like they don't really exist.

00:14:29.760 It's so funny because it's like all the women will come forward and like, you know, it's 0.99

00:14:34.380 like, we're all whores, all of us. 0.99

00:14:36.700 Because yeah, no, 96. 0.99

00:14:38.820 No, no, seriously, because 96% of us will be thrown out a hundred years ago.

00:14:44.620 Yeah.

00:14:45.020 I got a 1% wife. 1.00

00:14:46.480 I'm cool with it.

00:14:47.780 96%.

00:14:48.020 Y'all are like, oh, that's so cute.

00:14:49.900 How do we not know that part of that 96%?

00:14:52.620 That's what I'm saying.

00:14:52.640 Hold on to that.

00:14:53.300 How do we not know that maybe they're not married? 0.91

00:14:56.040 Like she's not a virgin on their wedding day, but maybe she only had sex with that 0.92

00:14:59.660 guy and they got married. 0.97

00:15:00.600 Double it.

00:15:02.100 90%.

00:15:02.540 Like, it's like, okay, okay, we'll give another, another five, but it's still nine out of 10

00:15:07.840 of us would be thrown out a hundred years ago.

00:15:09.880 So, I mean, can men expect that in 2023?

00:15:12.960 I don't say this happily, you know, but not really.

00:15:16.100 Well, then when you have a social media life that is brought on to 20-something-year-old

00:15:24.560 women who are at the age of marriage and insecurities, they're going to veer themselves into a pond 1.00

00:15:34.980 that maybe they're not even into.

00:15:37.880 Like, all of these women who are going into selling their bodies for money. 1.00

00:15:45.900 One out of 25 under the age of 35 sells their bodies.

00:15:49.260 Oh, I'm sure, I'm sure that it's even more than that.

00:15:51.840 I want to talk about that.

00:15:52.940 I want to talk about that.

00:15:53.520 I would think it's even more than that.

00:15:55.140 You're going to like this.

00:15:55.620 Well, yeah, that's just Cam and OnlyFans.

00:15:57.520 But my philosophy is men always pay for it. 0.70

00:16:00.060 Yeah.

00:16:00.300 So, yeah, and that's why when they're desperate.

00:16:02.440 So, is one out of 25 selling or are all of them?

00:16:05.820 I think it's more than that.

00:16:07.820 I think it's one out of five.

00:16:08.680 Because if you're married, you're paying for it if you're married.

00:16:10.380 You have to have resources.

00:16:12.580 If you have a girlfriend, you have the resources. 0.99

00:16:14.180 You just got a contracted hooker. 1.00

00:16:15.200 If you have a transactional relationship, you're paying for it. 0.79

00:16:18.820 So, maybe one out of 25 has a transactional situation.

00:16:22.180 But I believe all men pay. 1.00

00:16:24.360 And the guys that don't, just like the guy says, I'd never pay for it.

00:16:27.260 Oh, she did it for free. 0.98

00:16:28.420 Well, I wouldn't want to be with a girl that's free. 1.00

00:16:30.040 Because there's no value.

00:16:31.760 There's no value. 0.98

00:16:31.940 If she says, oh, come over and watch Netflix and we'll have sex, dude, that's easy. 0.99

00:16:36.200 Who wants to be with that? 1.00

00:16:37.600 So, look at it from this perspective.

00:16:39.740 If for thousands of years, men or women always went for guys with the resources, right?

00:16:44.520 Yeah.

00:16:44.780 Dr. David Buss in his book, Evolution of Desire.

00:16:47.780 And if that's the case, we have to establish those resources.

00:16:50.960 That costs us money.

00:16:52.200 I think there's a distinction, though, between paying for it and just being a guy who's of,

00:16:58.320 you know, decent net worth and he can provide interesting experiences.

00:17:03.220 Like, I've talked to the Tates about this.

00:17:04.460 There's no difference.

00:17:05.160 I talked to, no, there is.

00:17:06.080 I talked to Tristan about this.

00:17:07.280 And they have or had a lot of money, right?

00:17:10.920 And he would date women.

00:17:12.020 And he said, but it's not like, it's not like you say to the woman, right, come out and I'm going to, you know,

00:17:15.320 I'll give you five grand for the weekend.

00:17:16.600 It's not that, but it is, hey, I've got this cool car, we can take a trip, we can go down to Italy, we'll be by the beach,

00:17:22.940 we'll go to this cool restaurant, blah, blah, blah.

00:17:24.440 So they're providing, the money allows you to provide an interesting experience, but it's not necessarily,

00:17:30.700 but I agree, there are degrees of transactionality in all of this stuff.

00:17:34.140 But that, you don't have to be a, you know, Tristan Tate-style multimillionaire for that to happen, though.

00:17:38.160 They're on a lower level.

00:17:39.740 There's a lot of girls who, they want to go on trips, they're, you know, there's pictures of their invite. 0.98

00:17:43.280 I think the whole point is that, you know, just as women, we make kind of dumb decisions. 0.99

00:17:47.740 So, here, put that up again, please. 0.54

00:17:49.500 Put that up again, please.

00:17:52.720 You know, and that's what I was thinking about.

00:17:58.940 I'm like, you can't even better, like, and I was thinking about, I was thinking about how nowadays, like,

00:18:03.280 under five is the new virgin, and I was thinking about how sad that is.

00:18:06.520 I'm like, as a group, I'm like, as a group, like, the best women in today's market, it's, like, under five men.

00:18:12.940 Well, the best women of today's market know that the thing of women shouldn't vote. 1.00

00:18:18.500 Our whole system is rigged to fucking begin with anyway, and any woman of value is going to go, 1.00

00:18:25.140 it doesn't even matter anyway. 0.96

00:18:26.280 What's a woman of value? 1.00

00:18:28.200 A woman of value knows... 0.98

00:18:30.840 Carries one of these, right?

00:18:31.900 Virgin.

00:18:33.780 That's an equality woman. 1.00

00:18:36.520 I'd say high value is a virgin.

00:18:38.660 Everyone else may be somewhere a medium value.

00:18:40.700 But there's no such thing as a high-valued woman unless you're married. 0.99

00:18:43.300 Well, I think nowadays, a 22-year-old virgin...

00:18:46.700 Well, that's a equality woman. 1.00

00:18:47.940 I think it's an energy that you give off.

00:18:49.940 I think if you value yourself, and you're probably going to go, oh, here she goes again, 0.99

00:18:56.160 saying as she gets older, she gets more beautiful, and that's bullshit. 0.52

00:18:59.620 But if you have an energy about you, and you present yourself to the world, like, I am 0.97

00:19:07.840 a high-value woman, not in a fake way.

00:19:10.940 What if you're 300 pounds, and you have this energy about you?

00:19:13.520 Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

00:19:14.600 I don't think that you will have that energy about you, because you are 300 pounds.

00:19:18.500 Okay, why are they 300 pounds?

00:19:19.960 That's the question.

00:19:20.860 Like, why are we deciding so many?

00:19:22.480 I have that energy because I am in better shape than I was when I was 24.

00:19:27.540 So I have that energy about me at 37 because I'm in better shape than I was in 24.

00:19:32.400 Do you consider yourself, like, the top 10, 20% of women?

00:19:36.240 I would say the top 30.

00:19:39.520 Okay, top 30.

00:19:40.560 Because when I think of, like, high...

00:19:41.740 I mean, we could say quality women, high-value women, whatever.

00:19:44.320 And I don't even like even doing that.

00:19:46.160 But some women are better than others, right? 1.00

00:19:48.760 Yeah.

00:19:48.980 We've got to kind of know the way.

00:19:49.940 But I think a lot of that has to do with my intellect, too.

00:19:52.900 But that's not your looks.

00:19:54.200 Yeah, but guys don't care. 0.96

00:19:55.200 They don't care about intellect.

00:19:57.360 I think those guys don't care.

00:19:57.960 And there's a rule in the exception, right?

00:19:59.960 So the looks, and this is what...

00:20:01.200 Yeah.

00:20:01.500 I saw you respond to that post, and I get it.

00:20:03.640 Yeah, yeah.

00:20:03.960 When I said feelings, it's like, if I ask a woman how she rates herself, it's like, well, 0.99

00:20:08.180 I...

00:20:08.420 And I didn't even rate myself.

00:20:09.120 No, no, no, no, I know.

00:20:09.980 But I feel I'm an 8 or a 9 or a 10.

00:20:13.320 Which I didn't.

00:20:14.100 Because this or that.

00:20:14.700 And it's like, no, your looks.

00:20:16.420 Just your looks.

00:20:17.640 And then they start giving you this long answer.

00:20:19.340 I didn't give you a long answer.

00:20:21.280 I'm not talking about you.

00:20:21.720 The group of girls.

00:20:22.460 Or I didn't give myself an 8 or a 9 or a 10.

00:20:25.340 Or in the top 25, 30%.

00:20:28.240 That's like 7.

00:20:28.820 I didn't even do that.

00:20:30.080 All I'm saying is I gained knowledge as I got older.

00:20:33.680 And that benefits my relationships. 1.00

00:20:35.820 Because once you're dumber, they love you dumb. 1.00

00:20:38.300 It's like, no, I'm serious. 1.00

00:20:40.000 I'm serious.

00:20:40.500 They, like, think about this.

00:20:41.900 I want a girl that knows a lot. 0.96

00:20:43.460 I just, I mean, I don't think that I would have done that if I was dumb. 0.96

00:20:48.060 Hold on, hold on. 1.00

00:20:48.620 If I meet a girl who knows a lot, I'm like, fucking red flag, man. 1.00

00:20:51.760 I'm just like, scratch that one, scratch that one off. 0.99

00:20:53.860 Well, my thing is.

00:20:54.540 Yeah, but would you be, would long term, would you?

00:20:57.820 What's long term?

00:20:59.480 Exactly.

00:21:00.260 That's where men think.

00:21:01.400 Exactly.

00:21:01.800 That's what men think.

00:21:03.280 Exactly.

00:21:03.820 Go ahead, Lana.

00:21:04.200 What were we going to say, Lana?

00:21:05.020 Hold on. 0.99

00:21:05.440 You want somebody dumb to this room? 0.99

00:21:06.900 Well, because I'm saying you, you think you're smarter or you think you're wiser as the time 0.99

00:21:14.160 has gone on.

00:21:14.820 Yes.

00:21:15.200 As you've gotten older, you think you're worth it.

00:21:18.460 Guys aren't going to think, like, why would a guy think you're worth it?

00:21:22.440 Without your opinion.

00:21:23.780 But that's an exception.

00:21:24.680 Without your opinion.

00:21:25.800 Because your opinion of yourself is one thing, a guy's opinion of someone else.

00:21:30.480 So clearly something is working.

00:21:32.680 Look at the ring as well.

00:21:34.120 No, but.

00:21:35.100 But that's also subjective to each individual man.

00:21:38.940 They all have things that they are always different.

00:21:40.200 My thing is, that's subjective in a sense where divorce rates are still high.

00:21:43.700 Of course.

00:21:44.300 So, Troy, I got a question.

00:21:45.540 Of course.

00:21:46.280 When you're coaching men that are, oh, go ahead.

00:21:48.460 Oh, and I was going to say, over the age of 35, you only have, like, a 15% chance of

00:21:52.360 getting down the aisle.

00:21:53.840 Yeah.

00:21:53.960 So, like, you could be the exception, but you're not the rule.

00:21:57.000 I totally understand that.

00:21:59.100 Yeah, yeah.

00:21:59.520 And I agree with that.

00:22:00.940 So, Troy, when you're coaching and mentoring these guys and dating, do you run into this

00:22:05.280 a lot with these guys looking for these pretty women and the challenges they're having and

00:22:08.960 what they're running into?

00:22:10.040 Because what I'm seeing now, no, no, what I'm seeing now is the scale is adjusted with

00:22:14.620 time.

00:22:15.220 Now, because of all the attention from the social media that we're seeing, right, the female 0.99

00:22:19.960 attention necessity disorder, that coin phrase, right?

00:22:22.540 Yeah.

00:22:24.540 That none of the psychologists will take, but all the attention they're getting, they're

00:22:27.040 so used to attention.

00:22:28.100 When the pandemic hit, everybody had these mental disorders because they weren't getting

00:22:31.700 the attention outside.

00:22:33.180 So, they got them online.

00:22:34.120 Exactly.

00:22:34.320 And I'm an 8, I'm a 10, I'm a 10.

00:22:36.460 Yeah.

00:22:36.660 And then they don't date anybody because there's only a few percentage of guys that have that

00:22:40.460 ability.

00:22:40.680 I think there's a few things.

00:22:42.100 I think, yeah, overall, I think it's become tougher.

00:22:45.140 I think it's become flakier.

00:22:46.380 You know, even if you're talking to a girl on a dating app or you meet her in the coffee

00:22:49.920 shop or whatever, then yeah, you know, is she definitely going to come out and meet

00:22:53.580 you or maybe she, you know, the next bright, shiny object comes along.

00:22:57.100 But on the other hand, these girls still want to meet people. 0.99

00:22:59.820 They still want to get laid. 1.00

00:23:00.820 Do you know what I mean?

00:23:01.280 I think it also gets a little, I think it'll, hell yeah.

00:23:04.900 I think it gets a little bit overstated as well.

00:23:07.520 I mean, you can still go out there and make things happen, but equally, there's a lot of

00:23:11.420 distractions for these women. 0.97

00:23:12.320 And, you know, there is an element of this stuff happening for sure.

00:23:15.280 You know, if she's getting hit up by, you know, the bloke with the yacht in Miami.

00:23:19.800 The bloke, the gazer with the yacht in Miami.

00:23:21.960 The gazer with the yacht.

00:23:23.860 Then she's, you know, that's going to color her sense of her own value, isn't it? 0.62

00:23:27.900 Well, and I realized too that like we're basically like men addicted to porn, all of us with

00:23:32.800 social media.

00:23:33.700 I'm addicted.

00:23:34.140 Hey, that is a big deal right there.

00:23:36.700 What you just touched on the porn thing.

00:23:38.000 No, but I'm saying like, I'm saying like women are basically also addicted to social 0.93

00:23:44.000 media.

00:23:44.420 It's like the equivalent of a guy addicted to porn. 0.86

00:23:46.280 Totally.

00:23:46.800 And I know this because it's like, and I see the propaganda working firsthand because I

00:23:50.740 like talk to girls on my show and it's like, they all say the same thing.

00:23:53.880 They don't even know what they're saying.

00:23:54.780 Yeah.

00:23:56.380 Like even like when I think of horoscopes, it's like, what are we doing?

00:23:58.900 Why are we talking about horoscopes?

00:23:59.520 It's funny too, because I found myself desensitized to, to, to Instagram.

00:24:04.880 When Instagram first came out, it was like way back in 07 or something or 05.

00:24:09.300 And it was like a few pictures.

00:24:10.720 09, I think it was.

00:24:11.580 I remember seeing, I posted a picture and now it became this real thing.

00:24:15.080 But I remember when the reels kicked off, you'd go to your search bar.

00:24:18.940 If you go to all your search bars, you're like, whoa, look at this chick. 0.96

00:24:22.740 Look at this chick. 1.00

00:24:23.260 Now I see it.

00:24:23.920 I'm like, oh my God, you're so desensitized to it.

00:24:26.480 Whereas in 10 years ago, you'd have been popping a party in two seconds to it, right?

00:24:34.320 It's all done on purpose though.

00:24:36.220 And that's to depopulate us.

00:24:37.460 With all due respect though.

00:24:38.760 It's to depopulate us.

00:24:40.160 There's a depopulation agenda happening and they do not want people procreating with one another.

00:24:46.060 That was the abortion. 1.00

00:24:47.840 That's part of what the abortion industry is. 1.00

00:24:52.380 We're also 10 years older though.

00:24:54.040 Because they're going to want the AI girls soon. 0.97

00:24:58.000 The tits are going to be so good and that waist is going to be so small that they're not going 1.00

00:25:04.000 to want real women soon. 0.99

00:25:05.300 Okay, hold on, hold on.

00:25:05.920 Oh my God. 1.00

00:25:06.940 You don't think men are going to take pussy? 1.00

00:25:09.800 Yes. 1.00

00:25:10.400 Like, come on.

00:25:11.980 Yeah.

00:25:12.240 Like, they're going to go under.

00:25:13.700 No, no.

00:25:14.480 They're still stuck with the porn thing.

00:25:15.720 That's what's going to end right there.

00:25:16.660 No, but I'm saying, they do that as a response because sex is a need and our standards go

00:25:21.320 higher and higher and higher.

00:25:21.600 The number one online girl right now that's making divorce is an AI girl created. 0.92

00:25:25.980 Thank you.

00:25:26.380 Which is crazy, right?

00:25:27.480 Thank you.

00:25:27.740 But they will want that, but they're also going to probably take robots. 0.97

00:25:30.360 But my whole thing is, like, they're doing that because women have these crazy high standards. 1.00

00:25:35.420 But that's all an agenda.

00:25:37.160 But I understand it's an agenda, but I don't, I think, like, we're disagreeing on, like,

00:25:41.620 how it started.

00:25:42.400 Like, I'm saying women have these high standards. 1.00

00:25:44.320 The men are sexless, so they go to porn. 0.78

00:25:46.040 It's a response to us. 0.83

00:25:47.360 Real quick, David, what would you do if you were single right now?

00:25:50.180 Single right now?

00:25:50.860 I'd focus solely on becoming the best version of yourself.

00:25:53.620 This is what I do in my life.

00:25:55.140 So I'm an affiliate marketer, but my main thing I'm doing now is I'm a life coach.

00:25:58.780 I get guys disciplined with their mind, body, and spirit.

00:26:02.040 Specifically, like, my biggest vice as this whole topic was porn.

00:26:05.380 That was, like, the one thing in my life.

00:26:06.660 I was married and watching porn.

00:26:08.400 Wife didn't even know about it. 1.00

00:26:09.460 And there was a disconnect in a relationship.

00:26:11.240 I stopped a year ago.

00:26:12.780 Correct, right.

00:26:13.280 I stopped a year ago.

00:26:14.380 And I waited three, four months before I started coaching anybody until I could heal myself.

00:26:18.540 I told my wife that, and she said, that's why we, that's why, I thought you didn't think

00:26:22.520 I was attractive.

00:26:23.520 No, she's bomb. 1.00

00:26:24.520 She's bomb as fuck, bro. 1.00

00:26:25.260 The problem was I was desensitized, like you said. 1.00

00:26:27.960 I didn't think it was bad.

00:26:29.300 I would always use it as a crutch, just like, oh, I'm so busy with business, with work.

00:26:32.820 I'd just go, like, rub one off.

00:26:33.900 Don't even think about it.

00:26:34.760 And then I saw, like, how messed up it was.

00:26:36.740 I was, like, withholding in a weird way.

00:26:38.240 I was talking to Glenn about it yesterday.

00:26:39.480 I was like, I use it as, like, a withholding method.

00:26:41.440 I didn't even realize it.

00:26:42.440 Yeah.

00:26:42.640 And as soon as I stopped, officially, like, I could walk into a room, like, in Vegas.

00:26:46.080 I don't get swayed at all.

00:26:47.480 I feel like I'm in a certain realm of that.

00:26:50.540 It's so crazy how you walk down the street here. 0.96

00:26:53.000 I was like, they're allowed to just have their boobs out. 1.00

00:26:55.380 I don't even pay attention. 0.98

00:26:57.400 It's a freaking weird thing.

00:26:58.180 Well, we were waiting for you to do that.

00:27:00.820 I was just, like, I was walking down the street.

00:27:02.440 I would pay for her to do that.

00:27:04.500 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:27:04.900 I got spanked today by one of those bitches. 1.00

00:27:08.260 I swear to God. 1.00

00:27:09.720 I will tell you that.

00:27:10.780 That's a problem.

00:27:11.360 She gave me the, she was trying to give me the handcuff thing. 1.00

00:27:14.100 And I was like, this bitch spanks me when I walk by. 1.00

00:27:16.820 I'm like, what the fuck? 1.00

00:27:18.600 I've been assaulted. 1.00

00:27:19.980 So the question was, was your face like this?

00:27:21.880 Or was like, whoa.

00:27:23.260 Come on now.

00:27:24.080 It's because Pearl looks harmless.

00:27:26.040 Like, they won't try that on me.

00:27:27.260 I'm like, don't even try it.

00:27:29.120 Men, though, men need way more discipline in their life.

00:27:33.680 They have to get aligned.

00:27:34.880 Like I said, mind, body, and spirit.

00:27:36.260 It all starts with fitness, nutrition, getting dialed in with your body.

00:27:41.200 Anytime you walk in a room and you see a man who's jacked, you can trust that man right away.

00:27:44.460 Because you know what takes discipline?

00:27:45.560 No, that's not true.

00:27:46.180 In a way of the discipline realm.

00:27:48.120 Because it takes a lot of discipline to do that.

00:27:50.340 And then it stems out from there.

00:27:51.660 It can go either way.

00:27:52.300 Correct.

00:27:52.560 There's a lot of immature, douchey guys that are fit.

00:27:55.500 Correct.

00:27:55.720 But I use it as a method to lead into a mindset where if you have a vice like alcohol, like

00:28:01.480 porn, like drugs, like gambling, it all starts with a discipline where if you can be disciplined

00:28:06.260 for three months straight, six months straight, be dialed in, you can create a body of your

00:28:10.080 dreams.

00:28:10.520 And all of a sudden you start going, well, how do I actually stop the alcohol?

00:28:13.860 I just say, when you wake up every morning, you murder the old version of yourself and

00:28:16.780 you chase the elite version of yourself.

00:28:18.540 And then my whole thing was, as soon as I was able to heal myself from the porn, I don't

00:28:22.200 care about it.

00:28:22.840 I'll walk by Vegas.

00:28:23.960 One of these guys was like, you're going to Vegas?

00:28:25.720 I was like, dude, you're married.

00:28:26.540 I'm like, yeah, but you're talking to someone who doesn't even care about your stuff.

00:28:30.760 No, it doesn't.

00:28:31.160 The bottom line is, most 99% of guys coming to Vegas aren't going to give any.

00:28:35.200 No, they're not.

00:28:36.160 They're not.

00:28:36.780 They're not.

00:28:37.140 That's true.

00:28:37.540 But he's absolutely right.

00:28:38.920 He's absolutely right about that, though.

00:28:40.580 It's all about, it's about discipline.

00:28:42.180 It's about becoming the best version of yourself.

00:28:43.500 It's about chasing excellence.

00:28:44.920 Yeah. 0.98

00:28:45.380 However, if guys also want to get pussy, they've also got to study that side of things. 0.99

00:28:50.320 They've got to make sure their game is on point. 0.99

00:28:51.320 Well, that's what I'm saying about the age.

00:28:52.760 They've got to make sure their risk is on point, because if it isn't, you know, because

00:28:56.000 sometimes guys think, okay, I'm just going to get, you know, I'm going to get ripped.

00:28:59.560 I'm going to get money.

00:29:00.660 I'm going to get blah, blah, blah.

00:29:02.160 And the women are just going to come to me. 1.00

00:29:03.500 But unfortunately, the world that we live in, you know, you need to have a bit of that

00:29:06.920 edge to you as well, don't you?

00:29:08.320 100%.

00:29:08.600 You know, and you're in a great position, man, because you've obviously, you know, you're

00:29:12.280 in a position that many guys would envy, because you, man.

00:29:15.220 Yeah, but the biggest problem is selling coaching on dating is easier, because guys, like you 1.00

00:29:18.560 said, all men want pussy. 1.00

00:29:19.860 But the thing is, to convince someone who is, say, skinny, fat, or overweight, or someone 1.00

00:29:23.200 who just wants to level up in life, to be like, hey, the only way that you can actually

00:29:26.660 achieve that is if you really, truly want to change.

00:29:29.160 You can't force somebody to eat clean for three months straight, six months straight.

00:29:32.740 You have to want it. 1.00

00:29:33.560 And in a society of weak men, all I do is sit on Instagram, look at AI girls, jerk off 1.00

00:29:38.520 24-7, don't want to go out and date in the real world. 0.99

00:29:41.300 Then you get women, like you women in here, are just like, there's no guys out there. 0.97

00:29:44.760 Yeah.

00:29:45.100 There's no guys, because all the girls want the better guys. 1.00

00:29:47.580 You're right, though.

00:29:48.240 It's about wanting it, isn't it?

00:29:49.500 That's to make any change in your life. 0.97

00:29:51.360 It's about, do you have that fucking strong desire to have the thing? 0.96

00:29:54.520 And a lot of guys don't. 0.96

00:29:55.300 And even with the dating stuff, right?

00:29:56.780 You'd be amazed.

00:29:57.480 Women don't either. 1.00

00:29:58.500 Women don't want bad help either. 1.00

00:30:00.520 How can a guy interact with a woman without a legal consequence? 1.00

00:30:06.260 What the fuck? 1.00

00:30:07.920 Boom. 1.00

00:30:08.860 Wait.

00:30:09.420 You don't have to ask me that question.

00:30:10.500 I just have the one wife, so I don't have to worry about it.

00:30:11.980 He's good.

00:30:12.620 He's good.

00:30:13.080 I'm good.

00:30:13.680 I'm blessed.

00:30:14.460 I'm blessed.

00:30:14.680 But even men with wives have legal consequences all the time.

00:30:19.620 I said, too, I was like, babe, I would never cheat on you.

00:30:21.520 Why?

00:30:21.760 I don't want to deal with the BS involved in divorcing and all that.

00:30:24.440 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:30:25.120 But I'm saying, like, I think, you know, a lot of times we go on to the men for walking

00:30:30.920 away from women, but it's like, there's no way for them to interact with women without 1.00

00:30:35.200 there being a legal consequence.

00:30:36.760 For example, there are men that get kicked out of gyms for looking at women.

00:30:41.040 Did you see that story about-

00:30:42.300 Then the trans can come into our locker rooms on the flip side. 1.00

00:30:46.140 Did you see that article about that dude who was blind and he was looking at a woman 0.89

00:30:51.340 and she was like, oh, my God, you're so creepy, and she complained.

00:30:55.100 He got kicked out of the gym.

00:30:56.420 He was actually blind.

00:30:57.940 But you know what's funny?

00:30:58.700 I said that to a guy.

00:30:59.820 I said that.

00:31:00.420 I said that.

00:31:01.220 Oh, he was blind?

00:31:02.100 Oh, my God.

00:31:04.540 I said that to a guy and he's like, oh, I know, like, three guys that happened to it.

00:31:08.980 It's like, you start to get, like, messages.

00:31:11.160 Like, when you start doing what I do, you just get so many messages of guys saying, like,

00:31:14.240 I had this interaction, this interaction. 0.99

00:31:15.880 There is a lot of shit that happens. 0.99

00:31:17.640 I think, I mean, I don't know, touch wood, man. 1.00

00:31:20.160 I mean, the problem, we've got certain places are bad.

00:31:22.920 Certain places are bad.

00:31:23.320 I have a solution.

00:31:24.320 Hold on.

00:31:24.840 Hold on.

00:31:27.720 There you go.

00:31:30.760 Certain places are really bad for this.

00:31:32.480 I mean, obviously, we're in London, so you've got that.

00:31:34.420 You've got the United States.

00:31:35.600 I mean, super woke, all that kind of stuff.

00:31:37.200 There are other countries where this stuff is less prevalent.

00:31:40.040 I will say in A-market cities, the big cities in the U.S., it's really bad.

00:31:43.340 That's why I tell men when they're asking about where I should meet women, 0.91

00:31:46.440 don't date women in A-markets.

00:31:48.000 Yeah, for sure.

00:31:48.840 I agree.

00:31:49.200 My girl's from a C-market, a little town, right? 1.00

00:31:51.720 And so I don't know what your philosophy on that.

00:31:53.740 So I was talking about regional dating overseas, no big cities.

00:31:56.560 When you're coaching men on dating, I'm going to lead it with you, Troy.

00:32:00.100 When they're asking where do you meet women, what are you saying to them?

00:32:02.860 Because I'm finding in big cities it's a lose-lose situation.

00:32:06.100 Yeah.

00:32:06.460 So what are your thoughts on smaller towns, cities?

00:32:09.860 The best places that we find, because we go internationally quite a lot.

00:32:12.880 So say we're in Poland, you've got Warsaw, which is the main city.

00:32:15.280 Overseas.

00:32:15.600 Overseas, overseas, but even within a country.

00:32:19.080 So Warsaw is the capital city, main city, and it is really great for dating.

00:32:22.220 Poland.

00:32:22.840 Yeah.

00:32:23.220 But equally, what's quite good is to go to the second city or even the third city in the

00:32:28.440 country, you know, because it's less.

00:32:30.240 It's more traditional.

00:32:31.300 It's more traditional.

00:32:33.640 It's less passive.

00:32:34.160 Are you saying Western women aren't the best? 0.98

00:32:40.340 Are you saying American women aren't the number one? 0.98

00:32:43.320 I would say not perfect.

00:32:43.520 That's terrifying. 0.99

00:32:44.800 Listen, listen, I ain't shit. 0.99

00:32:46.080 If I was a man, I would. 1.00

00:32:47.200 I'm a fucking Western woman, I ain't shit. 1.00

00:32:48.980 You know what I'm finding out? 1.00

00:32:50.520 It's the NATO-based countries where the. . .

00:32:53.840 What does that mean?

00:32:54.980 Explain it for the state.

00:32:55.880 The NATO-based countries are the ones who are the most corrupt and the ones who have the 1.00

00:32:59.840 most sex and the most Westernized that are the most corrupts up. 1.00

00:33:03.740 So if you go to Eastern Europe or you go to Asia or you go to South Central America,

00:33:07.860 you have a better opportunity as a man to find a traditional woman.

00:33:10.720 Well, just mentally, like, nah.

00:33:14.360 David's got to run.

00:33:15.220 He's got to catch your flight.

00:33:16.280 Thank you, brother.

00:33:16.880 I appreciate it.

00:33:17.560 Thank you.

00:33:18.240 If anybody's coaching, hit me up on Instagram, at David Fischock.

00:33:21.020 I'd love to help you get discipline, mind, body, spirit. 0.99

00:33:23.840 Become one of the freaking men who's not addicted to the freaking porn, the drugs, the alcohol, 0.99

00:33:27.240 and focus on, I don't know, sticking with one woman. 0.99

00:33:29.840 That isn't freaking corrupt.

00:33:31.360 The ones that actually understand that maybe women shouldn't vote in all situations because 0.54

00:33:34.160 the world is crazy.

00:33:35.660 So I do agree with you with a lot of that.

00:33:37.200 My wife says the exact same thing.

00:33:39.000 I was actually driving back home and I saw the only Black Lives Matter sticker that was

00:33:42.160 still left was a white liberal woman in the car. 1.00

00:33:44.200 Oh, of course.

00:33:44.460 Just saying.

00:33:45.140 Right on, bro.

00:33:45.920 Love you guys.

00:33:46.660 Have a great night.

00:33:47.260 Thank you.

00:33:47.300 Thank you.

00:33:48.520 100%.

00:33:48.920 Thank you so much.

00:33:49.900 Also, if you wear that anywhere, take a pic, tag me.

00:33:52.300 100%.

00:33:52.780 All right, guys.

00:33:53.740 I want to leave you.

00:33:55.440 Hashtag Pearl Made Me Wear It.

00:33:56.880 I gave one to my Uber driver.

00:34:00.260 Did you really?

00:34:01.160 Yeah, I totally did.

00:34:02.060 I was like, do you think women are smart enough to vote? 1.00

00:34:04.440 And he was like, yeah.

00:34:05.460 And I'm like, we're not.

00:34:06.280 Here you go.

00:34:06.740 So back to this topic, you're telling me overseas and all these other cultures and societies.

00:34:15.860 Well, so a lot of guys that I work with, I know, came out of London and London's a

00:34:21.120 great city, very big, very international.

00:34:23.040 There's a lot of people, you know, beautiful women there, whatever. 1.00

00:34:24.940 But as far as a dating proposition is concerned, a lot of guys will end up traveling.

00:34:28.880 Okay.

00:34:29.060 So a lot of guys, where they will go will be the former Eastern European countries, the

00:34:33.200 former Soviet Union countries.

00:34:34.680 Right.

00:34:35.160 And Latin America.

00:34:37.880 And somewhat places like Southeast Asia as well.

00:34:41.240 But I'm not really.

00:34:42.360 I sent like 30 guys over to Colombia so far.

00:34:44.700 Mate, Colombia is, so many guys' problems would be solved by getting on a plane and going

00:34:49.680 to Colombia, man.

00:34:50.500 It's crazy.

00:34:51.200 I have a question.

00:34:52.120 A five-star, no, no.

00:34:53.640 Three of them now are in these long-term relationships.

00:34:56.940 Have you met them?

00:34:57.280 It's worked out great.

00:34:58.100 Yeah, yes.

00:34:59.800 It's phenomenal. 1.00

00:35:01.580 They're fucking crazy. 1.00

00:35:02.280 I have a question on that. 1.00

00:35:03.760 None of the U.S. Colombian girls.

00:35:06.100 Does it have to be overseas for like Colombia's place?

00:35:09.180 No, no, no, no, no.

00:35:10.540 You can find country, like small towns, like within a state.

00:35:14.260 And you still, like, I feel like it's.

00:35:15.760 I am from a country, like a small town.

00:35:18.100 I grew up in Acton, California, and it's very small, very country.

00:35:21.940 Everybody had property.

00:35:23.140 Like, we understood responsibility.

00:35:24.820 We had traditional values because it was smaller.

00:35:27.740 It wasn't like, we didn't really venture out and go into the cities unless we were going

00:35:31.280 to the beach.

00:35:31.880 Okay, so you have to do the import where, like, my girl was born in Sonora, Mexico, and then

00:35:37.800 she came here when she was eight.

00:35:38.920 In what?

00:35:39.620 Sonora.

00:35:40.440 Sonora is like the border.

00:35:42.080 It's a state of Mexico.

00:35:42.860 I'm mad that he said it like that.

00:35:44.440 It's a state that's south of Arizona, right?

00:35:48.620 But she came here.

00:35:49.720 And then Tucson is like a tumbleweed town.

00:35:51.900 There's nothing there.

00:35:52.740 Oh, yeah.

00:35:53.240 It's like.

00:35:54.420 If you drive on the freeway and you drive on the freeway, hey, we're in Tucson.

00:35:58.520 Oh, cool.

00:36:00.920 So here's how sheltered it is.

00:36:03.680 I meet her on Instagram indirectly.

00:36:05.820 She had a food pic.

00:36:07.000 I'm, like, looking at food, right?

00:36:08.240 I'm like, guys, don't like hot chicks pics.

00:36:10.820 Like, here's another dude.

00:36:12.680 Anyways, we started interacting.

00:36:14.120 And when I started getting to know her, she's, you know, she didn't really know what I did.

00:36:17.660 I said, I'd do this or that.

00:36:18.720 She's like, oh, you did pretty well.

00:36:19.800 I said, yeah, I'd do over six figures.

00:36:21.320 She goes, what's six figures mean?

00:36:24.020 I'm like, winner, winner, chicken dinner, right?

00:36:27.380 Because I'm like.

00:36:28.060 High quality woman.

00:36:29.100 She had no idea because in Tucson, nobody makes that.

00:36:32.120 And over there, it's very, you know, traditional.

00:36:35.240 Her mom raised her to be a good wife. 1.00

00:36:36.680 Her dad's like, when we get married, you make sure you cook for your husband, all this stuff.

00:36:40.040 And here's the other thing.

00:36:41.480 Ready for this?

00:36:43.640 Five is average.

00:36:44.440 She was cute. 0.89

00:36:45.140 Six.

00:36:45.520 And as she became with me and I elevated her game, she became six, seven, and eight, right?

00:36:49.520 Nice.

00:36:49.940 Because, you know, she got around.

00:36:51.200 But here's the other thing she didn't do.

00:36:52.560 She didn't expose herself to external negative input.

00:36:56.100 Like, she said, I don't want to go to the club with these girls. 1.00

00:36:58.060 I want me to go to the club with them.

00:36:59.000 I don't want to do that.

00:36:59.800 That's very important.

00:37:00.360 And here's what I did.

00:37:02.240 I said, you know what?

00:37:03.320 Go hang out with your girls.

00:37:04.740 I don't want to.

00:37:05.460 I want to be with you.

00:37:06.260 Yeah.

00:37:06.760 I told her, go ahead. 0.83

00:37:08.020 Yeah, yeah.

00:37:08.560 I gave her the, I took, I don't want to say take the leash off, but I gave her the expansion

00:37:12.500 to do what she wanted.

00:37:13.640 Yeah.

00:37:13.880 And if she hung herself, she hung herself.

00:37:16.160 Now, I'm going to shift gears.

00:37:18.020 Because me and Alana talked about this earlier.

00:37:19.460 My friend and my confidant, my battle buddy, we butt heads a lot.

00:37:24.060 But we love each other off the set.

00:37:26.180 But we're like.

00:37:26.540 We really do have like a love-hate relationship with life.

00:37:29.300 Let me tell you that.

00:37:29.940 But we have one thing in common that we all think.

00:37:33.480 Women should have been. 1.00

00:37:34.280 I totally agree with that.

00:37:37.660 But here's the thing.

00:37:38.940 That Warner Brothers cartoon with the sheepdog and the coyote, and they battled all day.

00:37:44.020 Yeah.

00:37:44.300 And the coyote tried to get the sheep.

00:37:46.980 The coyote tried to get the sheep.

00:37:48.500 Yeah.

00:37:48.680 And I was the sheepdog protecting the sheep, right?

00:37:52.760 And then all of a sudden, they clocked out, and they were friends.

00:37:55.360 That's me and her.

00:37:56.160 Yeah.

00:37:56.400 So here's a question.

00:37:57.600 Pearl.

00:37:57.720 So what were you battling about before, though?

00:37:59.040 It's just dynamics in relationships, dating, you know, whatever.

00:38:02.680 We're good friends.

00:38:03.760 But, you know, when you, you know. 1.00

00:38:04.760 You disagree on some shit. 0.99

00:38:05.920 We have very friendly disagreements. 1.00

00:38:08.600 Okay.

00:38:08.840 So we will have heated discussions, but we'll be like, no, what the, no, it's not like that.

00:38:13.280 And then.

00:38:13.600 Yeah, yeah.

00:38:13.800 So here's my topic.

00:38:15.180 I want to talk about this.

00:38:16.120 We talked about this.

00:38:16.700 I'm going to go with Pearl first.

00:38:18.340 What are your thoughts of people in a relationship or dating, and the guy's going to date this

00:38:22.560 girl they've been talking, and she says, well, I have a guy friend, but I'm not going to

00:38:25.880 get rid of my guy friend, and we're going to date. 0.99

00:38:27.760 Damn it. 1.00

00:38:28.420 I mean, girls do that all the time. 1.00

00:38:30.760 Yeah.

00:38:31.040 So what are your thoughts on that?

00:38:32.140 They probably shouldn't do that.

00:38:33.580 Why? 1.00

00:38:34.900 Because guys are always trying to fuck. 1.00

00:38:36.840 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:38:37.400 It's like, they're guys.

00:38:39.100 But do you think that's an insecurity if a guy says, I don't want you to have your guy

00:38:41.940 friend when we date, or is that a respect issue?

00:38:43.680 I think you should respect him.

00:38:45.920 So I think you're supposed to obey your husband, so I think you should obey him.

00:38:50.080 So she has a choice.

00:38:51.020 You said, I won't date you because I want to have my guy friend.

00:38:53.740 So she has a choice.

00:38:54.640 What are your thoughts on that?

00:38:56.880 I mean, so here's the thing, right?

00:38:58.840 It depends on the nature of the relationship, how you're going into that relationship.

00:39:03.000 Because here's the deal with me.

00:39:04.360 Firstly, I'm not particularly looking for anything that serious at the moment.

00:39:08.420 Okay.

00:39:08.620 I tend to date around it.

00:39:09.560 And even when I...

00:39:10.980 So let...

00:39:11.680 Exactly.

00:39:14.140 And even if I was, you know, even if I was open to meeting somebody longer term, which

00:39:19.380 I have been in the past, or whatever, what I generally do is I let them do their thing,

00:39:23.840 like you were saying.

00:39:24.560 I watch what they do.

00:39:25.960 And then I make a decision based on that, if this is somebody where this could gel or not.

00:39:30.580 So if I was just randomly, like, kind of seeing some girl, like, hooking up with some girl

00:39:34.880 and she's got a guy, I don't really care.

00:39:36.460 It doesn't matter.

00:39:37.260 Right.

00:39:37.480 Okay.

00:39:38.000 If, if, but then, if I was thinking, well, am I going to consider this, this woman as

00:39:41.740 like a serious, something a bit more serious, like more serious partner, then I'd be thinking,

00:39:45.240 well, hang on a minute.

00:39:46.040 This is a bit of a red flag.

00:39:47.780 I'm not really, you know, I'm probably not into that.

00:39:50.260 Now, Lana, we can talk about this open.

00:39:52.940 Yeah, we'll go for it.

00:39:53.380 So she, sure, they were in a relationship.

00:39:55.500 I guess you and your boyfriend just recently broke up because of this guy friend.

00:39:58.520 Seriously?

00:39:59.120 Yeah. 1.00

00:39:59.400 Were you fucking the guy friend? 0.99

00:40:00.480 No, it wasn't, it, uh, no, never. 0.99

00:40:02.900 I've never had sex with any of my guy friends, but like, when, when you get to know me.

00:40:07.880 No. 1.00

00:40:08.960 When you get to know me, I walk around with a dick. 1.00

00:40:12.180 I really genuinely, like in my head, I genuinely think I have a dick. 1.00

00:40:16.060 So I'm one of the boys. 0.99

00:40:18.160 Okay.

00:40:18.600 And when you get to know me, you'll see, because even he says it, I'm one of the boys.

00:40:22.100 So I have a lot of male friends, not very many female friends, because my female friends

00:40:26.820 can't handle a joke.

00:40:28.240 Okay.

00:40:28.560 Like, a lot of females cannot handle a joke, and I joke too much. 1.00

00:40:31.420 So when I'm around guys, they're, you know, they tend to be like, I wouldn't fuck you. 0.99

00:40:36.320 So what happened that caused a relationship? 0.99

00:40:38.580 They wouldn't, they wouldn't fuck. 1.00

00:40:40.020 They wouldn't fuck? 1.00

00:40:40.580 I disagree with that, too. 1.00

00:40:43.460 You guys can disagree. 0.98

00:40:44.400 I actually, like, I can call him right now and be like, hey, do you want to have sex? 0.90

00:40:50.340 Have you ever, have you ever done that before? 0.96

00:40:52.780 No. 0.97

00:40:52.980 Ask him to have sex? 0.96

00:40:54.100 No. 0.99

00:40:54.520 No, but don't hold on for years.

00:40:57.180 They will hold on for years.

00:40:59.620 You have to talk to him in a way that he thinks it's serious.

00:41:04.480 If you ask him if you want to ask, but that's the thing, it's hard to do on a phone call,

00:41:08.380 right? 0.99

00:41:08.640 Like, you're going to call, hey, do you want to have sex with me? 0.99

00:41:10.900 They're like, what are you doing? 0.97

00:41:13.460 You know, I was thinking, you know, we've been friends for so long, like, why haven't

00:41:17.560 we dated?

00:41:18.140 I've always liked you.

00:41:19.240 No, we've never liked each other.

00:41:20.860 No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:41:21.540 That's what you should say to him.

00:41:22.600 But are you, but don't you have an emotional connection?

00:41:25.520 Me and, well, okay, so me and my friend, I call on my brother.

00:41:30.940 He calls me his sister.

00:41:32.200 That's literally the dynamic.

00:41:33.740 I introduced him to Davric as my brother, and he believed it until I told him it wasn't.

00:41:39.780 Well, but he did.

00:41:41.200 This is my sister.

00:41:43.900 No, but even still, you can tell when someone's not their brother.

00:41:49.620 You can tell.

00:41:50.800 You're just like, eh, it's a little flirty, eh, it's a little weird.

00:41:52.880 Troy, what do you have to say?

00:41:53.920 So it's a little flirty.

00:41:55.320 So it's a little flirty.

00:41:56.260 You just said it's a little flirty.

00:41:58.160 I didn't say that about my relationship.

00:41:59.840 I said that about others.

00:42:01.340 So me and my brother are not flirty at all.

00:42:04.800 But is it possible that he's a little bit into you?

00:42:08.420 I'm curious.

00:42:09.160 What did you think? 1.00

00:42:10.120 Did he want to fuck? 1.00

00:42:11.200 Well, I just met him. 1.00

00:42:12.200 She said, this is his brother.

00:42:12.860 I said, hey, whatever.

00:42:13.920 I mean, it took her word for granted.

00:42:15.600 But the point is that you had a phone call with him, right?

00:42:19.400 And he called, and your boyfriend.

00:42:20.920 No, so this was another guy, because I have multiple male friends.

00:42:25.200 That's the issue.

00:42:26.200 That's the issue.

00:42:27.120 No guy is going to want that.

00:42:29.080 No guy is going to want to be, I don't mind. 0.97

00:42:30.840 The disagreement isn't this.

00:42:32.380 The disagreement was, I said, she's, and again, I'm not attacking Lana.

00:42:36.580 I was saying, for me, it's a respect issue.

00:42:38.840 It's not an insecurity.

00:42:39.960 But I also know how men are.

00:42:41.280 Yeah.

00:42:41.740 Right?

00:42:42.060 And I have a choice.

00:42:42.940 She has a choice.

00:42:43.620 We all have a choice.

00:42:44.140 But when I met my gal, she put herself in a position to say, you know what?

00:42:50.380 She didn't have, she goes, she moved, but she's like, these are guys I grew up from high

00:42:54.500 school.

00:42:54.840 She cut communication.

00:42:56.060 She said, I don't want to disrespect you. 1.00

00:42:58.200 And I let her hang herself, and she's going to hang herself. 1.00

00:43:00.720 But I don't have the insecurity. 0.98

00:43:01.860 But I know guys.

00:43:02.620 I'm a guy.

00:43:03.500 And we all, I simped before.

00:43:05.500 I used to be that guy back in the day.

00:43:07.800 I hung out with the pretty girls.

00:43:09.020 Dennis Rodman's ex-wife, the basketball player, was a friend of mine.

00:43:15.060 We kind of hung out as friends.

00:43:16.120 I simped.

00:43:17.040 I hung out with the opportunity.

00:43:18.820 And then as I got my game and my frame and my muscles and my money, and I figured the game

00:43:23.940 out, it's like, no, I'm not doing that.

00:43:26.180 And we can just hang out.

00:43:27.120 Well, first of all, I'm not referring to Lana.

00:43:29.320 Why do I want to hang out with you?

00:43:31.060 I'm busy hustling, making money.

00:43:32.720 I'm dating somebody.

00:43:33.620 We can be friends. 0.99

00:43:34.220 There's no value unless I'm having sex with you. 1.00

00:43:36.320 I don't want to hang out with you as a woman. 1.00

00:43:38.040 And so for me, Pearl's a friend from a distance.

00:43:40.660 We've went to dinner with my girl with Pearl.

00:43:42.900 I will never disrespect her.

00:43:44.080 But at the same time, I'm not going to go, hey, Pearl, let's go hang out.

00:43:46.940 Let's go play basketball.

00:43:48.060 Exactly.

00:43:48.680 She's a woman. 0.82

00:43:50.080 I'm a man.

00:43:50.780 I got testosterone.

00:43:51.360 I wake up with a heart on.

00:43:53.600 It's like, Pearl might say, hey, what are you doing?

00:43:56.400 Come over and watch Netflix and chill.

00:43:58.060 I know what's going to happen.

00:43:59.080 I never asked that.

00:44:01.500 She asked me the other night.

00:44:02.620 She goes, hey, I'm at the hotel.

00:44:04.220 I'm in my lingerie.

00:44:05.220 No, I'm just kidding.

00:44:05.700 My lingerie.

00:44:06.740 My lingerie.

00:44:08.040 And I was like, I'm not one.

00:44:09.840 And she goes, here's my lingerie.

00:44:12.400 Yeah, that's her lingerie.

00:44:14.720 I should get lingerie with that on.

00:44:16.980 That'd be so funny.

00:44:19.200 That'd be so funny.

00:44:20.180 But not to disrespect Lana, but for me, I have a different standard.

00:44:23.460 And so it wasn't the guy as much as you're sharing intimate conversations with this guy.

00:44:28.400 And we're on a trip.

00:44:29.600 And he's calling you.

00:44:30.500 Hey, buddy, how's it going?

00:44:32.560 Oh, I'm here.

00:44:33.160 We're having a good time.

00:44:33.940 It just feels like I'm dating three people.

00:44:36.180 Totally.

00:44:37.620 Yeah.

00:44:38.100 Okay.

00:44:38.760 Hear me out.

00:44:39.180 Well, in women, we're just like talkers. 1.00

00:44:41.280 We just say things. 0.99

00:44:42.160 Sometimes we're dumb and we don't see the difference. 0.94

00:44:44.640 It took me a long time to learn the difference. 0.98

00:44:47.660 And I'm like, you know, it took me 30 years to learn that.

00:44:51.180 Yeah.

00:44:51.580 It did.

00:44:52.240 Yeah.

00:44:52.480 But the thing is, like, a lot of times we share private information about our relationship.

00:44:56.780 And I just think when you're sharing that with other men.

00:44:58.520 I do that.

00:44:59.120 I totally do that.

00:45:00.000 Yeah.

00:45:00.240 And so it's like, it's kind of disrespectful when you're sharing it.

00:45:02.660 And I'll turn my guys, like my guy friends against my boyfriend.

00:45:05.400 Yeah.

00:45:05.800 Well, that's hard.

00:45:07.560 I totally do that.

00:45:08.400 Okay.

00:45:09.200 I'm like, no.

00:45:09.940 So I have a question.

00:45:11.180 Like, would you ever like change that if you felt like it was getting the way of you

00:45:14.520 getting a partner boyfriend long term?

00:45:17.640 To be completely fair, it's the reasoning behind that is because my guy friends have

00:45:24.780 done a lot more for me than a guy, a boyfriend has done.

00:45:29.680 Oh, do you want me to put a show up for you?

00:45:30.740 No.

00:45:33.560 I understand, like, where you're coming from because, you know, I'm a tomboy.

00:45:37.420 So that's always.

00:45:38.720 But it's like, I just think in a relationship it's not appropriate.

00:45:42.120 Like, I just don't think you can.

00:45:43.440 Like, I don't think we grew up watching our moms and the wives really have a bunch of guy 0.94

00:45:47.560 friends hanging around doing favors for them.

00:45:50.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:45:50.160 And, like, there's one day you just wake up and realize everyone's trying to fuck you. 0.99

00:45:53.920 And I'm really confused how you haven't had that, like, realization yet. 0.99

00:45:57.320 Oh, I have.

00:45:58.080 That's the thing.

00:45:58.540 Oh, so you know they would.

00:45:59.740 Your guy friends.

00:46:00.260 No, not my guy friends.

00:46:01.220 That's the thing.

00:46:01.800 That's where you're trying to turn the story into that.

00:46:05.040 And it's not that.

00:46:06.040 That is with other people.

00:46:07.760 But when it comes to.

00:46:09.100 But you've had some guy friends for a long time.

00:46:11.640 And you know those dudes.

00:46:12.980 Those dudes are solid.

00:46:13.960 I've had guy friends.

00:46:15.020 This is why. 0.99

00:46:16.400 I have had guy friends in the past that have tried to fuck me. 0.99

00:46:21.520 Yes. 1.00

00:46:21.740 Yes.

00:46:22.280 No, but.

00:46:22.660 These friends that.

00:46:23.660 Hang on.

00:46:24.240 These friends that I have. 1.00

00:46:26.120 The friends that I have right now have never tried to fuck me. 0.99

00:46:29.540 And these are friends. 0.97

00:46:30.480 Like, one of them has been friends with me.

00:46:32.460 No, they haven't.

00:46:33.900 They won't.

00:46:35.060 Okay.

00:46:35.460 And I know that for sure.

00:46:36.760 But either way.

00:46:37.480 But now you've broken up with your boyfriend.

00:46:39.160 Has anyone said, oh.

00:46:39.840 I didn't break up with my boyfriend over that.

00:46:42.140 No, but what regardless.

00:46:43.280 But does anyone say, oh, come around.

00:46:44.360 You don't.

00:46:44.780 I'll comfort you.

00:46:45.620 You know.

00:46:46.480 Yeah, they're going to comfort you.

00:46:47.600 Yeah.

00:46:47.800 Of course.

00:46:48.280 But that's the thing.

00:46:49.180 A little bit extra.

00:46:50.420 Like, these are.

00:46:52.120 These are P. 0.85

00:46:52.880 Okay.

00:46:53.200 My boyfriend doesn't pay my bills.

00:46:55.600 My boyfriend doesn't live with me.

00:46:57.860 That's problem.

00:46:58.080 That's problem number one.

00:47:00.460 Well, you guys didn't live together.

00:47:01.480 Wait.

00:47:01.920 You guys didn't live together.

00:47:02.760 Wait.

00:47:02.840 Wait.

00:47:03.120 It is not my boyfriend's responsibility to pay my bills.

00:47:06.200 It is not his responsibility.

00:47:07.400 But if you live.

00:47:08.060 Did you live together?

00:47:08.960 No.

00:47:09.840 Oh, okay.

00:47:10.360 That's what I'm saying.

00:47:11.240 So you don't live together.

00:47:12.300 Okay, wait.

00:47:12.800 That's not really.

00:47:13.660 Yeah.

00:47:13.940 We were together for two months.

00:47:17.080 Oh.

00:47:17.520 Two months.

00:47:18.180 Oh, that's totally different.

00:47:19.220 That's what I'm saying.

00:47:20.320 So it's not like it wasn't a.

00:47:22.080 Mind you, I was with this person for two months.

00:47:24.940 Yeah.

00:47:25.480 I've had my friends for 10 years.

00:47:27.760 For sure.

00:47:28.200 My friends were there for me when I was homeless.

00:47:29.640 My friends were there for me when I got raped.

00:47:31.480 My friends were there for me when I was getting divorced.

00:47:34.080 Yeah.

00:47:34.500 Like, I was friends with them while I was married.

00:47:37.260 So these are people that are.

00:47:39.100 Don't play with that too much.

00:47:41.560 He's like, I don't even.

00:47:42.560 I can't even go to the table.

00:47:43.940 I'm like, are you in the way?

00:47:45.820 He's like, he's doing this.

00:47:46.760 He's like, I don't even.

00:47:49.260 Yeah.

00:47:49.580 I mean, I can sort of see both sides of this because I know for sure.

00:47:54.820 I mean, so here's the thing, right?

00:47:56.100 As a guy, I don't really, I don't really have female friends.

00:47:59.320 I've got a lot of women that I know that I'm kind of friendly with, you know, we'll 1.00

00:48:02.720 have a bit of banter, blah, blah, blah.

00:48:04.180 But I'm not really, I mean, I was a little bit of Miami actually because I hang out with

00:48:07.840 Zina or I hang out with this girl Pixie and stuff.

00:48:10.320 But even them, they're kind of people that are sort of, it's almost work related in a

00:48:14.840 way. 0.94

00:48:15.120 You know, they're kind of people that I know through these shows and all that shit.

00:48:17.460 But I'm not like, there's no women in my life at all that I'm just friends with.

00:48:21.520 Like, oh, hey guys, should we go and hang out on Saturday?

00:48:23.520 But that's just me.

00:48:24.180 That's the way that I operate.

00:48:25.940 You know, my friends are guy friends predominantly.

00:48:27.720 But at the same time, there are certainly women that I know that I have zero sexual interest 1.00

00:48:32.480 in.

00:48:32.740 And we're kind of friendly.

00:48:33.760 And I know it's never going to, I'm never going to suddenly turn around and go, oh, 1.00

00:48:36.280 I really want to fuck her. 1.00

00:48:37.080 Do you know what I mean? 1.00

00:48:37.500 It's just not going to happen.

00:48:38.420 So I do accept that, you know, that there are these, there can be these sort of male,

00:48:42.420 male, female friendships.

00:48:43.380 But as a guy, when you're going into a relationship with a woman, I would see it, I would have some, 0.99

00:48:49.240 I would have concern about it.

00:48:50.400 Yeah, because you don't see that.

00:48:51.880 Because you don't know it. 0.99

00:48:52.960 And also, just, just, just, even if you're not going to fuck them, there's something 0.99

00:48:56.340 about the level of intimacy that you might have with those dudes. 0.99

00:48:59.220 Which is an insecurity.

00:49:00.640 Well, which might make him feel.

00:49:02.460 Okay, but it's not insecurity or protecting one's investment.

00:49:05.700 It's him, it's him protecting one's investment.

00:49:08.040 Yeah, he's protecting one's investment.

00:49:09.380 Or maybe. 0.99

00:49:10.100 He should invest in me first, damn. 0.99

00:49:12.000 Well, maybe. 0.99

00:49:13.060 Well, yeah, that's what I was trying to get at.

00:49:15.880 Like, that's why I was saying, yes, I understand.

00:49:18.760 He, he doesn't need to pay all your bills, but he needs to show that he's showing enough

00:49:24.220 of an interest in you that he is number one, and you're going to make him number one, and

00:49:29.720 that's obvious.

00:49:31.280 And then he'll become secure with whatever else is, is in line.

00:49:34.740 Like, make him number one, and, and listen to him.

00:49:38.020 Wait, what were you going to say?

00:49:38.780 Hold on, hold on.

00:49:39.180 What were you going to say?

00:49:40.200 Oh, I wasn't, I thought you said before he had to pay for everything, but you kind of

00:49:43.820 walked back on it, so.

00:49:44.940 No, I don't, I don't, no, I don't necessarily mean that.

00:49:48.140 Well, she'd only been with a dude too much.

00:49:49.520 Yeah, she's not, yeah, she, and you're not living together, it's a different type of

00:49:52.200 dynamic.

00:49:52.300 Yeah, it's totally a different type of dynamic.

00:49:54.260 I thought it was like a marriage type of dynamic.

00:49:55.420 Coco, what were you going to say?

00:49:56.460 You were going to say something, Coco.

00:49:57.220 I was actually going to ask Troy a question.

00:49:59.360 So do you, like, so I understand it, because I agree.

00:50:01.700 I mean, I was like, Pearl and like, Lana, like, I, I always grew up a tomboy.

00:50:07.900 I played sports.

00:50:08.540 I did a lot of things.

00:50:09.280 I was like one of the guys, I grew up on a ranch, and I rode dirt bikes.

00:50:12.200 Yeah.

00:50:12.460 So I was around a bunch of dudes that my dad trained every weekend riding dirt bikes.

00:50:16.540 So I had a lot of guy friends, because girls didn't really like me, and then we'd always,

00:50:21.380 I, I didn't like the drama of women. 1.00

00:50:23.220 Yeah.

00:50:23.600 That's typical for what women say. 1.00

00:50:25.520 It is true.

00:50:26.320 It's just, I don't like how women. 1.00

00:50:27.460 But it's true. 0.79

00:50:27.940 It is, because women are catty, and for some reason women are always in competition with 1.00

00:50:31.860 each other, which is stupid. 0.99

00:50:33.460 But when I, so I had more guy friends, but like when I started dating my husband, like, 0.99

00:50:39.860 I, that just kind of fell off.

00:50:41.800 And then like, I stopped talking to like my guy friends, because I'm like, I don't, that's

00:50:45.480 not appropriate anymore.

00:50:46.400 Exactly.

00:50:46.500 But I understand, because he proved that to me.

00:50:50.060 He's like, it could be your best friend, and he could be gay, but he would still want 1.00

00:50:53.500 to fuck you, or at least see you naked. 1.00

00:50:55.160 And the, and the problem is like, you want to move the exact same as a single woman as 1.00

00:50:59.880 you do as a wife, and we want to give up nothing for the man.

00:51:02.960 Oh yeah, and I give up everything.

00:51:04.320 Yeah, you did.

00:51:04.680 Like, I give up everything, and I have no problem with it.

00:51:07.220 So, but do you think that a guy, because I've had men argue with me saying that it's not

00:51:13.420 the same for men, because when we see women, and we are, we're not sexually attracted to

00:51:17.660 them, but that doesn't mean that the woman doesn't have her own intentions. 1.00

00:51:20.740 So do you think that it should be equal in that aspect, like if you genuinely want to

00:51:24.340 be with this person, that you should phase off your single girlfriends?

00:51:28.220 Yeah.

00:51:28.560 What, you mean female, if any female friends, you should, you should phase them off. 1.00

00:51:33.140 It depends.

00:51:33.480 I think you have to be honest with yourself.

00:51:35.700 Probably, yeah.

00:51:36.360 You have to be honest with yourself, like, is there, am I chasing this friendship because 0.99

00:51:41.600 there's a 1% chance that I'm still looking for something, or do I really not give a fuck 0.98

00:51:48.380 and we're genuinely friends? 0.95

00:51:50.220 And that's rare.

00:51:51.440 It is rare.

00:51:52.040 It depends.

00:51:52.240 No, they say there's no sexual desire, like, no, I have no sexual desire for this person,

00:51:56.260 we're just really close, like, Aylana, like, she's like my sister.

00:52:00.140 But at the same time, that doesn't mean that you don't know if she secretly has feelings

00:52:03.440 for you if the opportunity ever came up.

00:52:05.160 You don't know.

00:52:05.500 So, like, don't you think that that would be a little inappropriate for a woman? 0.98

00:52:08.640 That's where intuition is so, this is where our society teaches us to be so, so. 0.99

00:52:16.140 Our intuition sucks. 0.93

00:52:17.900 No, I mean, it's actually not. 1.00

00:52:19.140 Drug dealers. 1.00

00:52:20.640 Women's intuition is the dumbest. 1.00

00:52:22.260 Well, that's where our society has taught us to be on point. 1.00

00:52:26.980 I think, I think.

00:52:28.300 Cheating without.

00:52:28.900 No, okay, but then if our intuition was so good, you'd be married, like.

00:52:33.440 No, I know my intuition's so good that I got divorced.

00:52:37.140 Her intuition's so good that she's picked a lot of guys who cheated on you.

00:52:40.340 No, well, I don't care.

00:52:42.800 I want to shift gears.

00:52:44.160 I want to go.

00:52:44.400 But you cheated on me. 0.96

00:52:45.500 You know when something is wrong, though.

00:52:46.940 You said you had intuition that they cheated on you.

00:52:48.200 You know when something is wrong.

00:52:49.200 What?

00:52:49.940 You said that you had intuition that they cheated.

00:52:53.020 Yeah.

00:52:53.880 Yeah, and you knew.

00:52:54.920 My intuition was correct.

00:52:56.700 Was correct. 0.95

00:52:57.220 Yeah.

00:52:57.400 Right.

00:52:57.800 But your intuition led you to be in those relationships, so you picked the guys that kept cheating on you.

00:53:02.620 I think the guy, I think the guy that cheated on me, he was with me for nine years.

00:53:06.060 I think the guy that cheated on me, he was with me for nine years.

00:53:06.380 Do you understand that?

00:53:06.400 That's so you understand.

00:53:07.900 That's so you learn. 1.00

00:53:08.420 I think women are just dummies. 1.00

00:53:09.900 Yeah, I think we're just dumb. 1.00

00:53:11.180 What is it? 1.00

00:53:11.460 I think that's dumb. 0.99

00:53:14.340 Yeah, I think, I think if we were so smart, we'd all be married by like 21. 0.99

00:53:18.540 I'm not saying that we're smart or dumb.

00:53:20.460 We can make smart decisions at 21. 0.98

00:53:21.980 I'm saying that women, we are not, we are actually, we are not that smart mentally, but

00:53:28.820 we are smart internally.

00:53:31.040 We feel things more than men do, and once we dial our senses, and that's what makes us 0.92

00:53:36.700 nurturing, and once we dial it, we're more likely to kill infants and elders.

00:53:41.020 No, that's because of our society right now.

00:53:45.420 I like how nothing's ever women's fault.

00:53:47.540 It's like, well, we killed the infants and the elderly, but it's society. 0.86

00:53:50.340 Where are you getting that from?

00:53:51.220 No, no, because that actually, women, women, women actually killed, women actually killed 1.00

00:53:55.780 their infants even before the last hundred years. 1.00

00:53:58.040 I know, it's fucked up. 1.00

00:53:59.240 It's beyond fucked up. 1.00

00:54:00.220 Where's that coming from? 1.00

00:54:01.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:54:02.380 I've talked to, I've talked to historians about this.

00:54:05.320 It's in the history of sex by Dr. David Baker.

00:54:07.760 So, we've been offering our children up for a long time.

00:54:11.960 No, literally, since the beginning of time, because back when we were walking around the

00:54:17.920 caveman days, if you had more than two kids, it was going to slow down the pack. 0.98

00:54:21.300 So, if you had a third kid, you had to kill it. 0.93

00:54:23.360 And even in the 1800s, lots of women killed their kids. 1.00

00:54:26.240 Abortion is not a new phenomenon.

00:54:28.380 Women are much more violent than men, and that's actually why I came to the conclusion 1.00

00:54:33.400 that we're just kind of idiots. 1.00

00:54:34.660 Is that why we like the ID channel and shit? 1.00

00:54:37.240 Yeah, like, we love the serial killer shit, we wrote Ted Bundy, yeah, I know, like... 1.00

00:54:42.600 Women needs to go to witches, so that way they can actually abort their children. 1.00

00:54:45.860 Well, and this is the thing, women can be great, but it's always under the authority 1.00

00:54:49.140 of a man.

JustPearlyThings - August 19, 2023

They Don't Make Right DECISIONS

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