They Just Do Not Want to Take Responsibility
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In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and why we should go back to being a traditional woman. We also talk about why women should stop being traditional wives.
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Okay, so now, because you're treating us like we're dumb.
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Every man I've dated that has lied to me was because I was stupid and did not listen to the men around me.
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And the only way I had better results was by realizing that and making better decisions.
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But women just want to say nothing is our fault.
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You don't have a male to go to to say vet this man out.
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Well, then you seek out males that have your best interest at heart.
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I know women that have been in that situation, they get involved in a church.
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Are you saying all the men in here are not good men because they live in a populated city?
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But there are communities within our overcrowded cities where most of us are a complete mess.
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There are communities who do very well, have very stable families, none of our messy issues.
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Yes, but what I'm saying is that depending on where you live will be the family values and morals that you go for.
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Somebody in South Carolina right out of high school is more likely to get married to maybe a high school sweetheart or something like that because that is what's preached.
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It is like, listen, if you meet a man, he got a good job.
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He could move on, move in with you, pay half on rent, do it.
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But New York is not a place known for people to just marry.
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I'm telling you, New York, if you date a man for New York, you are on a 10-year dating plan.
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You will sit there and date a man for eight years.
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Everybody up there is more common law marriages.
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But I've also heard that the women in New York aren't marriageable.
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And men will date a woman for 10 years that they don't see as wife material, break up with her, and then marry the next chick.
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So you're going to thrive to be more career driven because you have to make it.
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And you hope along that way you find a man that will want to make it with you.
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But I believe that women should go back to not working.
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But if we're going to go back to traditionalism, right?
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So again, because we have this where women want a traditional outcome, but we don't want to be traditional women.
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I have nothing against wanting to do your career and be modern.
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But where I get confused is when modern women ask for traditional outcomes.
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So it's like, okay, if you want to stay home and not work, why aren't you a virgin on your wedding day?
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If your mother teaches you that at a young age, right?
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If you go to a lot of these Spanish countries, right?
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They always go to a Spanish country, you know, Asian country, and they get their little nice young wives because that's what's being taught to these women how to be a wife, how to be a mother.
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But over the age of 18, it's your job to learn.
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So right now, the average age of first marriage is 30.
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You can learn how to cook, learn how to do the traditional thing.
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Like, there's no more excuses anymore, especially with the Internet.
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By 18, you're in the real world by then, right?
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So if you really think about it, the average woman might lose her virginity at 16, right?
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So if the average woman, let's say, loses her virginity at 16, right, and your mother didn't tell you the values of no sex before marriage or whatever like that, you're already tainted by 18.
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But there's still other things you can do to be a traditional woman.
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Like, you can get a job working with children, right?
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You could, you could, but right, but, but traditional women, it's not about money.
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You could, you could surround yourself by wives.
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But if we're busy, so what you said earlier, right?
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You said more women have their own apartments and these men are able to come over and this and that.
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More women, women move out of their parents' home earlier, right?
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So women move out of their parents' home earlier than a man were, right?
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I said before women would go from the, the parents' house to the husband's.
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Yeah, no, but what I'm trying to say is that in this day and age, more women are getting
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like their own apartments earlier and things like that, right?
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If women are venturing out early, of course, they're going to want to make more money.
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But them trying to work and support themselves, how are they going to be able to sit there and
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be like, okay, let me take, first of all, there's not a lot of classes that are available
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Like, there's, there's, there's so many classes.
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No, but now it is because now women are starting to be like, hey, maybe we don't like this
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Like, there's always people you can surround yourself with.
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Ten years ago, this is not what they were teaching us ten years ago.
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Ten years, they're pushing women to work in this field, work in that field, do this,
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So right now, maybe this newer generation coming up, the women have a better chance of learning
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how to go back to traditional ways and being wives again.
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But we went through a whole era where women, you better get up and work, because there were
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So women better get up and work and help the household and-
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But then again, we go back to the childhood, all right?
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So if my mom taught me how to cook and how to clean and to look after the house and to
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paint the walls, so this kind of prepares me for the wifiness of the situation, right?
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So again, it's not just schools, it's not universities, it's not like education system
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that is fully responsible for being as good wives or good husbands.
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And the more we're not getting it at home, the more we're crappier at it, right?
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And that's why it's so important for families to stay together.
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That's why women should not have sold out the men to the government.
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Because now the next generation of women has all these problems where we don't know how
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And even above all this stuff, like what percent of women will obey their husband?
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Because if you want to be in a traditional marriage, no, it doesn't.
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It's submit all the time and support him even when he makes the wrong decision.
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No, but the Bible does say that the wife should submit to her husband.
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But it also says that this husband should be able to lead, should be able to actually
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So if you can't take care of your family and I have to now go out and work.
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The issue you're going into is now it's, oh, he's leading, like when I decide he's leaving.
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Like that's why men get frustrated when they go to church because they go to church and
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women, there's not even like women that will actually submit to their husbands.
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It's, oh, I'll submit when I feel like he's leading.
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But you're only going to do that when you're comfortable with him.
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So you think any man, like let's say if I start dating John, right?
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If I start dating John tomorrow, I should just already be like, go ahead and lead me.
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What if he has a whole secret life as a heroin addict or something?
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But this is, you can't get anything good going into, like you can't, you can't go into
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Like you will never get a good outcome if you're going into things in bad faith.
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If you're making like the men of the future pay for the mistakes of your past, like then
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Imagine if a man came to you and it's like, oh, I need to go through your phone.
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Like I'm not going to, I'm not going to pay for dinner because you might be talking to 10 other
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You'd think he's crazy, but women will put the mistakes of their exes on the men of their
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But I think, but I think it would be unwise for a woman to meet a man and tomorrow be like,
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Well, you're supposed to, you're supposed to have like your brothers or you're supposed
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Because you work with men helping them date at the, you know, is that something that men
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generally are one in the men you're working with for a woman who will obey them?
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But as I said earlier, allows them to, to take the lead, you know, femininity is about
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receiving, receiving, masculinity is about giving, you know, so just allow space for that.
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An example is I was speaking to a friend of mine.
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She went away with her friend, two girls and two boyfriends.
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One, one of them independently just grabbed her bags and took them straight to the door.
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The other one allowed her guy to take the bags and I take them to the door.
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And the friend goes, why did you let him take the bags?
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It's little things like that, that I give him space to do.
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So he, he, he feels like he's, he has a role in the relationship.
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I think that there is a real magic that happens when you have a relationship where a woman can
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But I think that actually, I don't, well, it's a real sparkle.
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question i have really it's just that from my experience if i'm dealing with a man who is
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fawning over me and would obey my every command like i would think he was pathetic and disgusting
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i didn't say he obey you i said you're supposed to obey him no i know but i'm just saying like
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i i personally feel like men and women that we are different but i don't think that i can
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not empathize with men at all and i feel like wouldn't um i don't know the kind of men that i
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would want to be with you know sort of high intelligence very interesting kind of guys
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i would think that they would lose respect for me if i you know flatly obeyed without any kind of
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challenge you know for me i think that a relationship should be you should be challenging each other to
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be the best versions of yourself absolutely to grow and yeah and if that if that means that
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on you know in an appropriate way on you know on appropriate occasions a wife has to tell her husband
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i think you're taking the wrong course of action i think you know you could behave in a way that's
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more effective that's cool and you know a good husband would want to hear that if it was appropriate
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you're absolutely right um one of the exercises i do with anyone i first woke with them is hash out
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what they want from someone you know of course the superficial aspects but the character traits
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and one thing that comes up time and time again is this word challenge that's exactly what you're
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talking about it's this pushback it keeps the respect in the relationship it lets the other know where
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the line is and what your boundaries are and i feel and back to like one of the earliest points we had in
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this conversation today we spoke about why people leave um i feel like people leave because they
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attach so much fear to relaying what's important to them that they never actually have that conversation
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and they just end up getting frustrated and then they walk but my point isn't that you can't offer
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your perspective my point at the end of the day it's his decision that's traditional like that's
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that's if we're going to go back to like i've read the writings of people like 100 200 years ago when
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they describe like real traditional relationships they don't really exist anymore and the whole
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point is like if you want to be in an actual traditional relationship you're supposed to obey
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your husband like at the end of the day it's his decision it's not saying like you can't give him any
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input let me ask you a question do you feel that if a woman meets a man she should let him lead
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like straight off the the gate like when do you think a man should start leading in a relationship
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instantly do you think instantly we go on our first date for a couple you're measuring it you're
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measuring it straight away right like is he making the plan for the date or is he a bit indecisive and
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sort of on the fence and he's asking you i mean you're losing attraction for him right there and then
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so you're measuring from that right from the get-go yeah okay when you say let him lead it sounds like
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like you have to allow him to i mean like you have to you have to like give it to him you do have to
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allow you you are in control of yourself right so if i let a man lead me that means that i'm
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taking my authority when i'm saying hey whatever you say i'm going with what you say so it is you
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letting him indicating on you following like like it's so interesting language like the way we use
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language because it's like elite like like i think a trump like that's someone who's like a leader
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like melania doesn't let him lead he just leads and she can either follow or not yeah but but that's
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the he but she loves to be i don't want to i don't want to call her a puppet but that's what he married
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he married someone who was easy just to be like hey i need you to be this beauty queen sit here well
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look at that's what the top men pick but we all have it yeah i'm sorry if you let me put my five
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pence in we all have roles right and if there is a let's say let's say family is like a company right
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so if there is a boss do you obey your boss yes you do obey your boss so if the husband is a boss
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then you kind of have to obey him anyway i have no problem with obeying my husband and uh but i trust
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him wholeheartedly so if he does not you know if he betrays my trust then there is other ways and
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repercussions and perhaps we are not suitable or we are discussing the situation stuff like that but
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there has to be a head and i have i have to agree with you there has to be a head yeah to every
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company so if you just say yes you know you do you have to obey in some situations but again we are going
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back to the trust and the level being built and built and built and working as a teamwork together
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we're all different i do my bit you do your bit and if i need to i obey you i'm not ashamed i'm proud
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of it actually because it builds our families bond stronger can i ask you a question pearl now when you
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meet a man right i'm just two-part question when you meet a man do you let him lead right away
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do i let him lead i don't think i can let a man lead does he lead right away do you like follow his
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decisions like right away you meet him you're like you know what you got this yes yes okay so if he
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came to you let's say first date was november now two months later in january he's like hey i saw this
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building i think i kind of want to buy it i want you to go in half of me would you do it he's leaving
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are we married you you're letting him lead and he's telling you for our future this building's
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going to be it yeah i would say let's let's get married and then i'll i'll go on we can go right
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ahead you know so you would just no you're letting him leave you know i don't know if that's the best
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example but that's what i'm saying that's my building but that's what it sounds like when you say
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just let like you have to get to know the man first before you say okay i trust your judgment to know that
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you are not going to lead me to a path of destruction so you have to get to know that
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man you have to know that he can lead himself right i'm not saying like submit to any old guy you meet
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like but i'm saying if you're going on a date with him i'm saying go in in good faith yes i'll go on
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dates with good faith actually what you said earlier i get turned off if i if a man supposed to take me on
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a date and he comes and picks me up and he has no plan of where we're going like lead the way my favorite
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favorite my favorite thing to tell a guy is lead the way lead especially on a date lead the way this
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is you i'm following behind you i want to see yeah i want to see because i'm i'm ready to let a man lead
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i'm tired of working i'm go ahead you want to have three babies go ahead i'm ready but when you meet
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these men and you're like the new age men especially in after 35 years it's like hey so what do you want
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to do what do you want to do 50 50 split the bill yeah the 50 50 concept so if i work at the nursery all the
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time but i think how would i do i get the money to pay 50 50 if i work all these jobs well is that
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common i've never really had guys want to go 50 50 is that common for you guys in new york that's
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actually that's like a me thing like i don't know when i grew up i had a lot of like you know male
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friends it was a mixed group but there were a lot of boys and we were equal this was you know
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the sort of late 90s early 2000s and we were equal and so it has never occurred to me that if i go on
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a date i would do anything other than go 50 50. yeah but that's english things really like british thing
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no i just said like if i went on a date like i know but you're talking about in your childhood that
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sounded like yes yeah yeah yeah scenario yeah um and i i i i don't think i just i don't think that
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that is appropriate like i think it's appropriate if you both decide that kids are you know what you
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want in your life and you know you want to give kids the best possible nutrition so mum's going to
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stay at home and breastfeed them and unless she's like fortunate enough to be able to earn from home she
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has milk in minimal time you know he is gonna have to be the one providing but like on a first date
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like i i don't know i find that quite emasculating it's like the idea that someone would have to pay
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for the privilege of spending time with me it's like no i want to start out like as i've just found
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that most guys like want to yeah that's like i've never had like a guy didn't want like i can't even
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yeah no i have i have experienced like yeah discomfort from guys like honestly because i'm
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not comfortable with them paying if you go on like a lot i do a lot of online dating and there are men
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who are like hey if we go on a date 50 50 we can go get a coffee but if we go on an actual date i want
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to make sure i'm not wasting my time and you're not there for a free meal so go 50 50 with me just to
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prove that you're there for the right reason then i wouldn't go for sure if he thinks i'm there for a
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free meal like dude really i cook amazing just come over but this is real life like situations
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and scenarios that women are going through like even there was one guy i met nice guy and i was
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like okay you know i do want to go on a date with you and he said just to let you know first date
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we're 50 50. i said okay block like i'm gonna block you because what are you talking about
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and then he's seen me in person was like hey you don't remember me i don't mr 50 50 i don't please
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don't talk to me don't try to get a dance with me don't talk to me you're not the type of man you
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you want me to let you leave but i have to pay you 50 50 on the first date come on i had a story where um
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friend of mine she went on a date and uh had to prompt the guy to pay he's like oh okay and uh she
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weren't gonna go home with him so the next day he messaged her for the money back
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so he wanted free sex in exchange for i'll tell you i'll tell you those guys point of view though
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it's because like you're not a traditional woman right like because over over traditional women
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really get married before 25 because they spend their most fertile years focused on family the
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most traditional women want families first right so it's not an insult it's not a bad thing it's just
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the most traditional it's not a bad thing it's me yeah yeah the most the most traditional women get
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married they stay married 25 and under i would say roughly um so it's like they're like why am i
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paying like why am i doing the traditional thing when i don't get the traditional outcome
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but that's because it's like it's like we wanted to be equal right we wanted to go to work we wanted
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to spend our 20s in the workforce and then we do that and then we're like all right now treat me
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traditionally and so a lot of guys are just confused they're like i thought you guys were modern
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but it's also the evolution of mankind like a lot of people might look at it like oh back in the day
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back in the day this that like this is the new way of doing things everything has changed nowadays
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so i think that in marriages nowadays you can't have a traditional slash modern woman because it
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does take some of the pressure and strain off of the guy you can say okay you want the traditional
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wife who's going to be home have the kids not work but do you really want that or would you like
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somebody who is 65 35 with you you spend you pay 65 of the bills i pay 35 of the bills we have the
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kids do you know what traditional is it's one bank account he controls the money if we're really going
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to be traditional but most of the times right when the man works most of the time when a man works in
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a married situation he puts the money in the bank who pays who actually writes out the checks for the
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bills the woman does that's part of her household duty right but but i'm saying i don't think most
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relationships are traditional nowadays so i don't think like using modern times like you'd really
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have to go back and like read like the the history of like traditional relationships but the man would
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still make the final say on all the expenses so if she was spending money would be off of a budget that
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he signed off of or like he told her basically yeah but she's still the one who's dispersing the
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money right she's still the one who's like okay this has to be done to say he's putting the money in
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the bank account she's saying the lights are going to be paid right but my my point is though it's still
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like his decision in a traditional relationship it's still one bank account like it's not her
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money it's the money for the family that's traditional because traditional is family first
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but then isn't it the gate to abuse if such occurs no so what is the safety as paramount situation
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with if he's abusive and then he takes away all the savings so she would she worked at home 20 years
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and he worked at work 20 years they have money together and then uh he decides to uh bang his
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secretary right well well then she's the one there used to be protections there used to be protections
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for women but we wanted equality so be equal yeah under under covert law you know which is traditional
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or it's it's seen now as the enslavement the financial enslavement of women um but women
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did have a veto over major financial decisions so a man couldn't just go you know what we're selling
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this family home and we're moving to another part of the country yeah she would have a veto um and
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uh men men also men also in the uk had a responsibility a legal responsibility and could be imprisoned
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if they were seen to be failing to keep their wives and children in like a state that was
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i know reasonable for the amount of wealth that they had so if they've got their wife and kids dressed in rags
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but they're like in silk suits and they could go to jail for that but they could also go to jail
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if the wife decided to just go and splurge a load of money run up a load of debts that couldn't be paid
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back i saw the law recently there the the writings is like the one in new york where they're talking
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about why they didn't want women to vote because they were giving like the the privileges that women
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had and they're saying we don't want to be equal and one of them was like you could um yeah you
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could send your husband to jail if he wasn't taking care of you so he literally was like yeah yeah but
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no no we wanted to be equal so be equal send him on it well you know if you don't pay child support
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they'll take you to jail if you have a child support order and you do not pay your child support
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you positively will go to jail until you have the almost like a bailout of a minimum of what you
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have to pay just to get out which you which is needed because think about it like men are just
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having babies all over the place no they're not living their lives women are having babies all over
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the place by themselves this is no this is again if a man's getting more than one woman pregnant
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that is the women being stupid that is and he's not being played five stupid woman to one
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stupid man but that is on the women but you got to think about it right no are you thinking about
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anything do you think a man tells you up front everything there's so not so many right but there
00:25:49.880
are men who have did you introduce him to your father did you introduce him to your brother no no
00:25:59.320
women will cry later when their friends said he was toxic their dad said don't date him
00:26:05.480
hey their brother said what are you doing and then the women will whine later about the results you
00:26:11.720
can when everybody warned no i don't believe this whole the wool was over my eyes i had no idea
00:26:21.320
every man i've dated that has lied to me was because i was stupid and did not listen to the men around me
00:26:28.120
and the only way i had better results was by realizing that and making better decisions but
00:26:34.280
women just want to say nothing is our fault but what if everything was what if you're what if you
00:26:39.320
have no brothers no dad you don't have a male to go to to say vet this man out well then then you seek
00:26:45.080
out males that have your best interest at heart i know women that have been in that situation they get
00:26:49.800
involved in a church i know women that have been in that situation there's always a way but how do you
00:26:55.240
know what male is going to have the best interest at heart how many times has a woman been like oh
00:26:59.880
the average age of first marriage is 30 so you got 10 years to figure it out how would you no no what
00:27:05.080
i'm saying is that how would you know you meet a guy okay we're going to be friends you're thinking
00:27:09.880
this is my friend is my buddy has my back and then he tries to sleep with you one day you're like
00:27:14.040
usually i would say married couples are probably the best well yeah but you can go to you know your
00:27:20.840
church meetings or any of these kind of support groups that are full of men that are in their 70s
00:27:27.000
you know so the likelihood that they're going to be a married man's not going to try to sleep with you
00:27:33.400
as well yeah but think about hang on hang on a minute like why i was literally expecting her to say
00:27:41.800
wouldn't a married man literally she's giving you like five different options but you keep asking but
00:27:47.480
why but why but why this is what i'm saying this is discussion that that is all about yeah no i know
00:27:52.600
i'm just telling you about the psychology of it so literally women really don't want solutions they
00:27:57.000
just want to hop on about the problem no there is a saying there is a saying that the most single men
00:28:02.440
are married men the most single men are married men these are you know what's a better saying women
00:28:07.880
want the married men and they'll chase them down there's a saying i went to a pickup a pickup like boot
00:28:14.280
camp i don't know maybe this is what you run i don't actually know don't actually know i i but
00:28:19.400
but it was like these guys pay to learn how to like talk to women get laid i just like went to watch
00:28:24.520
one of the instructors said that if he wears a wedding ring he gets more attention from women
00:28:30.040
i believe that yeah women has a puppy it's true it's pre-selection yeah yeah so it's like i i really
00:28:37.480
think this is all projection like the women are like the married men will cheat but it's like now we
00:28:42.280
chase after the married men and they go for it right you have your own choice whether you're
00:28:46.600
going to go for it or not so if you're married and i'm chasing you and you give in is that my
00:28:51.480
fault is that your fault for not remembering your vows it's like how many people takes to get pregnant
00:28:56.200
too right so how many people responsibility it is no i would say it's the woman's responsible if she
00:29:01.640
gets pregnant yeah of course i would say yes yes yes of course it's my responsibility i choose the
00:29:07.080
partner i choose the dad for my children and you choose your birth control you choose abortion or
00:29:13.160
not i think until men have equal reproductive rights we have to put it on the women you know
00:29:19.640
why i can't because i really believe right if women do nothing wrong i think women do a lot of things
00:29:26.280
wrong but i also defend women i also believe in defending women okay if women had something in our
00:29:32.120
poom pooms right that would block off a man's sperm ever even coming through whether we're on
00:29:38.520
birth control have a con no like things happen you know my favorite saying is things happen right
00:29:44.680
let's say let's say women wear condoms or like require the men that sleep with them wear condoms i
00:29:51.000
mean if we the point that i'm trying to make is this right the point i'm trying to make is if we had
00:29:56.440
something in our bodies right that would say i don't want to get pregnant at this time like we had like a
00:30:01.160
door that could just stop around our uterus we do it's called ovulation you can track when you're
00:30:05.080
ovulating but what i'm saying is that we had yeah if we had this in our bodies right we just i mean
00:30:11.560
we this is i'm just making up a scenario right if we had this in our body less women would get
00:30:17.000
pregnant because think about it science is not always guaranteed right you can be on birth control
00:30:22.520
get pregnant oh i missed the pill date got pregnant oh the birth control didn't work there's so many
00:30:25.800
reasons why women could get pregnant right even if you track ovulation all that if we had something in
00:30:30.040
our body after we've had while we're having sex with these men and they're about to go ahead and
00:30:34.280
come out and we have blockers like tennis blockers less women would be pregnant girl because we'll be
00:30:40.600
right we got girl we got plan b but but yes we do have plan b but this is this is a scenario that i'm
00:30:48.040
making up this is this is a scenario okay i just want to know okay what where is the excuse when you have
00:30:54.680
okay i can i can tell the guys i can track when i'm ovulating then i can tell the guys
00:30:59.080
that i sleep with to wear condoms then on top of that i can take a plan b on top of that i can get
00:31:04.280
an iud on top of that i can get on the pill on on top of that i can get an abortion it's like what okay
00:31:10.920
so what so i'm just say these five things right what if you don't believe in abortion right so that
00:31:15.400
answers abortion what if you can't get on birth control because it messes with your system
00:31:19.480
makes you bleed you get fat like that messes you up right what if you are allergic to condoms
00:31:25.800
right what if a guy says but i pulled out and you didn't and he didn't pull out what if you don't
00:31:30.920
have money to afford a plan b like there's so many different situations that real life situations people
00:31:42.280
then at that point i just think it's time to close the legs
00:31:47.400
at this point i think it would be easier for the men to have a device in their wallet that stops the
00:31:52.040
government from reaching into their wallet to take money that will stop the problem don't worry
00:31:56.520
men can have less women will have babies if the government couldn't take money from the men
00:32:00.440
men can have ai doll that speaks to them and hugs them and it's coming soon them everything it's
00:32:06.360
coming soon see the thing is you're literally you're a smart and that will be the end of humanity
00:32:12.200
you're a smart educated woman so you know about all this stuff there's so many women who come up
00:32:16.680
in households where they don't okay okay i want to i want to teach you something okay i want i want
00:32:21.480
king could you please um put the internet up on the screen i'm just i'm going to show you this really
00:32:25.960
great like what is this thing you call the internet yeah so so wait wait wait wait i need you to wait
00:32:35.080
okay can you put type in google.com please please type in google.com no just just in case anyone at
00:32:44.200
home is like no no no wait wait google now could you put in birth control methods please
00:32:50.520
thank you there you could just in case anyone but this group without but this is okay you can take it
00:32:59.880
off but guess what this is again if you have the resources for that if you have the resources to
00:33:06.600
afford the internet if you have access to the internet hold on hold on everybody percent of people
00:33:12.680
people have a smartphone how many have a smartphone let's do you you want to do us or uk it doesn't
00:33:21.880
matter worldwide okay um i'm gonna do the us because i don't think worldwide would be a fair comparison
00:33:29.480
um you know what what percent would you say there's not really an excuse okay what percent of people what
00:33:38.120
what number would maybe change your mind that everyone has a choice in this again if you if you
00:33:43.880
know better you do better right there's really people who don't know i would say that they haven't
00:33:49.240
been taught it's hard to believe but i would say typically don't choose better especially women they
00:33:55.240
just keep making the same mistakes over and over again some of us do yeah okay okay that's where you
00:34:01.000
love okay so so what percent of people do you think own a smartphone i don't know maybe 60 percent 92
00:34:10.280
of people on this okay so now we have zero is this is this is this from again okay but this is a
00:34:18.760
certain demographic that you are no because just across the please nope just across the board i'm looking
00:34:25.960
at it if i go right to my neighborhood right now maybe 60 percent of people might own a phone a
00:34:31.960
smartphone they'll own a phone they have obama phones which don't have internet they have free
00:34:36.440
phones were you saying were you saying in in the black community is that what i'm i'm not trying to
00:34:42.200
say that okay because i looked that up it's 80 it is a little lower it is lower so again yeah but they've
00:34:48.360
all got a friend who they can go look i'm really concerned about getting pregnant can i borrow your phone
00:34:52.920
to look up but you have control methods but you have to you have to know you have to do that yeah
00:34:58.040
you have to know to do that like don't you believe in empowering women i just think of course don't
00:35:03.080
you believe women are smart of course okay so don't you okay so now because you're treating us like
00:35:08.520
we're dumb no i'm not treating women like they're dumb i used to be a social worker so there's certain
00:35:13.080
things that i'm gonna say you used to be a woman no no i used to be a social worker so there's certain
00:35:17.400
things when you come across certain people you talk with them and you're like wait you didn't know what
00:35:21.320
and to to like someone like me i'm like impossible but there are really people in circumstances and
00:35:26.680
situations that just don't know they never had someone to tell them to teach them if you're somewhere
00:35:31.320
and you go to a rough school and no one's taught you this no one's taught you that they're barely
00:35:35.320
passing you just so the school could get funding from the government there's so many people out
00:35:39.800
there in impoverished neighborhoods and stuff like that i don't have access to internet that don't
00:35:43.720
have funds for plan b you know what i need i need you know do you know what i need i need a soundboard that
00:35:49.160
has the world's smallest violin that plays it might sound like that but you know what it sounds
00:35:56.440
exactly until you until you experience it until you look around and observe it it's gonna feel unreal
00:36:01.880
to you as a person who has seen people like okay okay okay okay okay okay it's really do you know i
00:36:07.400
don't think anybody interacts with more people than me i have to write no no no no do you know how many
00:36:13.880
women have been in this apartment yes yes just this apartment a thousand roughly yeah in a year
00:36:23.720
so we i i don't know anybody that didn't have a smartphone but that's here isn't it a particular
00:36:29.480
level of women okay i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna move on we're gonna move on i've actually heard that
00:36:35.400
women are more um violent than men you know what it depends on your definition um women are significantly
00:36:43.400
more likely they're victims of the elderly and babies and children uh and a lot of it gets written
00:36:51.160
off you know as freak accidents until the point where someone goes but why is the rate so high in
00:36:58.840
this particular establishment really oh that's so yeah that's so interesting so like well i mean it's
00:37:06.440
it's kind of profoundly disturbing i think like you know i i find violence generally um frightening and
00:37:15.160
scary but it's like if it's you know um two men or an equal number of men who are kind of equally
00:37:23.240
matched and there's something that is you know fair about that uh whereas yeah no women are
00:37:32.840
sort of opportunists and it's you know often done for like financial gain or uh because someone is a
00:37:40.440
burden there are those kind of really so they commit violence towards the elderly and towards children
00:37:46.120
yeah there's a book by a woman i forget her name but it's called when she was bad and it's really a
00:37:51.240
horrible read but yeah it's funny enough we have the subject on you know sometimes when i do like social
00:37:58.040
studies and we have experiments right if a man slaps woman or yells at her in public everyone like jumps
00:38:04.600
in to defend them and if she slaps him or yells at him everyone's just laughing like huh this is funny
00:38:10.360
and this is not okay but violence as you mentioned any any violence is not okay so i cannot just slap a
00:38:17.960
man and expect not to be slapped back because it's equally not okay as simple as that but yeah would you
00:38:24.280
agree with the sentiment loving your job is a privilege not a right oh 100 yeah but actually i
00:38:32.040
think um that there is a level of ingratitude that is um not helping people i think that people are not
00:38:41.560
sufficiently aware that work really is a part of the human condition that we need for its own sake just
00:38:49.960
you know to feel useful to have a reason to get up in the morning to be part of the team um those
00:38:56.840
things are inherently good for us so i think maybe people complain about jobs a little bit too much
00:39:03.960
although you know i do think there is a toxification coming from having too many women in the workforce
00:39:12.840
i agree with you and disagree with you loving your job is actually a necessity because if we love our what
00:39:18.120
we do we are good at it and we want to strive in it and we enjoy it and as simple as that it's easy
00:39:23.720
for us to do and we can give more to the society it's definitely a privilege because most people don't
00:39:30.280
like where they work but if you like you said uh if you actually love where you work it won't feel like
00:39:35.880
a job it only feels like a job when you don't like it so i agree it's it's a privilege it's not a right
00:39:42.600
you're you're privileged to even be employed with so with unemployment rate being so high you better
00:39:49.160
be blessed and thankful you even have that job complain all you want but you better be thankful
00:39:52.440
you have it yeah and i think um we often hear people not enjoying their job or the workplace the
00:39:59.960
people they work with and i think when you catch yourself in that mindset perhaps just remind yourself
00:40:05.480
what it allows you to go away enjoy outside of work and you know in that sense it is a privilege to be
00:40:11.320
able to to go to work to do that yeah there's some research that shows i think it's seven in ten men
00:40:19.480
are work centered and so the you know part of their life that they get the most satisfaction from
00:40:27.080
is work but that still leaves three in ten who actually need to work for various reasons including
00:40:34.040
psychological but there are other parts of their life from where they're getting more satisfaction and
00:40:40.600
then it's like four in ten women or something like that and so you know women are not prioritizing
00:40:48.200
needing to love their jobs um you know some some do and that is lovely and i think you know it is there is
00:40:58.040
so much utility in having people who are they have a calling and they're following their passion they
00:41:05.000
really do give so much to society but that's not all of us and that's fine we all strive to grow
00:41:11.640
right in our personal lives in our relationships and education in careers and things like that so
00:41:17.720
if there is a necessity to have a job yes i will do any kind of work cleaning or barista whatever it's
00:41:23.400
all jobs are a wonderful thing to have but eventually i will try to grow and develop into the
00:41:29.800
things i enjoy doing in life and i am good at if i have a talent in singing i want to be a singer
00:41:35.160
eventually right so just just be yourself and grow and give yourself time and be proud
00:41:41.480
are women advancement programs sexist of course no i have no idea no you are discriminating against men
00:41:52.040
like discrimination is it's not discriminating it's just saying hey here's a program we need more
00:41:59.400
women in this field so we offer this program as an incentive come on why are there no male um
00:42:06.760
advancement programs in industries like only fans and modeling it's called women dominate it's called the
00:42:12.920
nba the nfl the mlb those are all no no no no i asked you i asked you i asked you you don't answer
00:42:21.800
my question i asked you in um female dominating industries why are there no incentives for men to
00:42:28.280
get equal pay or advance like teachers no no i was going to just say that teachers there are there are
00:42:33.400
big incentives if you are a especially in in the black community no i asked you about modeling and
00:42:39.160
only fans but this is not a real job no no i asked you i asked you modeling and only fans we could do
00:42:44.920
modeling that's a real job there are plenty of of there's no there's no there's no incentive programs and
00:42:51.240
men make significantly less money than women and modeling correct anything in monetizing beauty women
00:42:58.600
kill well think about it women in the acting field males still dominate everything in that so it's one
00:43:04.920
and one entertainment field modeling only so i asked you i asked you modeling that's what i so i asked
00:43:10.440
you in industries that are female-led why are there not incentives how many men want to model how many
00:43:18.040
women want how many women want to be engineers we could do the same thing but no so i think a lot of men
00:43:26.520
would look okay okay guys guys i work in fashion industry i'm just curious i'm just curious the same
00:43:33.000
amounts four random four random guys if you guys could just take pictures for money would you do it
00:43:39.000
i have a field modeling career i'm hiring you would your dream job be a model
00:43:48.280
if you get paid another money take money out no i asked i asked if they got paid to do it
00:43:53.160
of course i literally said i had a field modeling career i'm not i'm not lying about that yeah that's
00:43:58.440
what i'm saying i'm hiding you but what i'm saying is that most men are not going to sit there and be
00:44:02.680
like yeah i want to be a full-time model like they're going to want to go but it's like it's so funny
00:44:07.880
you use the same argument like most women don't want to be engineers yeah but they're all good at it
00:44:13.160
i'm at being engineers so i don't want to be but if you told women if you told more women like hey
00:44:18.120
if you become an engineer you can have you really need to go after the modeling and really if we
00:44:24.920
told both of them the same thing they both would go for it if you told more women you can make over
00:44:29.480
500 grand a year why isn't it just what people like to do like in no in no industry are you going
00:44:35.560
to get 50 50. like certain groups like certain things based on the culture one and two based on
00:44:42.280
your gender yeah yeah based on your gender you are going to just like certain things like why
00:44:47.960
do we need to like fix it like why do we need to change it what like there's no law stopping
00:44:52.760
anyone from doing anything so why do we need to encourage people to do other things why don't
00:44:57.080
they just do what they like yeah then we'll have nothing to argue about but that's the thing you
00:45:00.440
got to remember growing up you did not see women in wrong wrong it's so wrong because in the media
00:45:07.560
that's all we have like watch any tv show it's always a woman doing a job that she would never in
00:45:14.200
never do like you have all these women and these ceo no look at the media the last 50 years it's all
00:45:20.760
women's empowerment bullshit the last 50 years let me tell you something when i was young you know
00:45:26.040
what i saw things like married with children right stay at home mom dad who goes away i saw every single
00:45:33.000
family every cosby shows homer simpson he's the stupid dad the smart mom family guy the stupid dad the smart
00:45:40.680
mom but and don't still show that dad's going to work and mom is kind of a homemaker but they always
00:45:46.840
paint the dad as dumb and the woman knows everything i i'm saying like the media like why are we trying
00:45:52.440
to push people when there's no barriers anymore people do what they want to do so why do we need to
00:45:58.440
change it people do and why do and why like don't feminists and women like yourself have the same energy
00:46:05.560
for the men and female oriented careers i have the same energy no you don't listen if i grow up right
00:46:13.080
growing up what the what do they encourage women to do be a teacher be a doctor these are fields they
00:46:18.040
encourage you to do now with women advancement programs they're now saying we don't have to keep
00:46:23.000
telling you go for these same five jobs there are other jobs out there you guys can go for and the
00:46:28.120
women say no thank you still not i mean it depends yes not all the time exactly if you sit there and
00:46:37.080
tell somebody right if you're a city if i come from a poor household you sit there and tell me
00:46:42.040
i could make 500 grand a year let's say as a engineer guess what i'm doing signing up for
00:46:46.200
the first engineer class right yeah but you know what else you're doing after you've got into the
00:46:50.760
engineer class and maybe you know spent a lot of taxpayers or parents money or whoever like whatever
00:46:56.600
you are meeting a guy there who's so amazing and you are getting married and you're dropping out
00:47:01.240
of the workforce so you've just wasted your time that's what happened to you in canada but no it's
00:47:08.040
it's just sort of you know quite a statistically common thing in canada they talked about it they
00:47:12.600
can't pay women um jordan peterson talks about how you would coach women to get more money they could
00:47:17.720
not pay female lawyers to stay because they would hit 30 they'd be on track to be partner and they would
00:47:23.960
say you know what i want to go home so it's like why are we forcing women and encouraging women to
00:47:29.640
do things that are not good for us we know it's not good for us to work the same way men do so it's
00:47:35.960
like if anything i actually think it's really unkind to women to push us into these fields that we will
00:47:41.800
one it's going to affect our relationships because we become too masculine and two and two we we don't like
00:47:49.000
those jobs so we go into the jobs because the society is pushing us into a job we don't even
00:47:53.880
want we do it and just like the girl that went through the engineering degree what'd she do she
00:47:59.080
dropped out or she um she quit later whatever so my favorite thing is devil's advocate if you guys can
00:48:05.000
tell right so my rebuttal to that because i love a good rebuttal is
00:48:08.440
it came and it went that fast it came and it went that fast it must not have been that good no it was
00:48:15.320
a good i think we're just getting tired no it was it was a good rebuttal i promise you it was a really
00:48:20.360
good rebuttal about women going in you can bring it up in the comments section it'll come back it'll come
00:48:26.760
back uh one second okay so 48 of women in the u.s were unmarried as of 2021 only 39 of women without
00:48:40.440
children say they want to be married that number jumps to 51 for women with children 63 of women
00:48:48.040
polled in 2022 say they don't want children what essential things do women bring to society as a
00:48:54.840
whole that don't have to do with kids and child rearing okay um i love this little book uh by roger
00:49:02.600
scruton it's called a short introduction to beauty and he says that there are three ultimate virtues
00:49:09.960
truth and goodness are the first two and you know i think personally based on the canon of you know
00:49:18.760
literature and um psychology and all of this kind of stuff that men are absolutely excelling at truth
00:49:28.440
and goodness to be honest um but the third virtue is beauty and uh what roger does he points out that
00:49:39.480
you know even when we were living in these societies where we had issues with scarcity you know we would
00:49:45.880
still plow all of these resources into building these monuments our churches these beautiful buildings
00:49:53.400
the coliseum um because we it's it's human nature to we need beauty it makes the world better and you
00:50:04.200
know that is how men do it they make these enormous awesome structures but the way women generally tend to
00:50:11.720
do it is in little modest ways we're tending our gardens we're making our homes attractive we are
00:50:18.440
making ourselves attractive we're doing little handicrafts which are kind of modest and they're
00:50:22.760
not going to last a hundred thousand years whatever but they make everyday life for everyone who is in
00:50:30.920
contact with them a little bit more beautiful and i think that's meaningful do you think that the
00:50:35.960
average woman today is doing that who is the average woman i don't know i mean that's 170 pounds i'll
00:50:44.600
give you some number the average woman's 170 pounds um she's about five four 90 of us have been on birth
00:50:51.880
control one out of three is an std uh one out of three's had an abortion um 50 will have zero children
00:50:59.080
um it makes about i'm just giving you numbers here so i'm not i'm not even trying to add a moral thing
00:51:03.560
um and makes roughly like 25 to 30 yeah i mean you know what you know what i in my experience when
00:51:10.600
i was at school what i was getting were all these messages about like you should be like you could be
00:51:15.960
an astronaut you could be the prime minister you should like really concentrate on all this stuff
00:51:21.080
and i think that i think that women are pushed into being mediocre men whereas you know we're not
00:51:29.480
giving the space and opportunity to actually just express our own femininity yeah no i agree with
00:51:34.840
i agree and disagree again so i'm gonna read the question i'm gonna read the question just one more
00:51:40.920
time what essential things do women bring to society as a whole that don't have to do with kids and
00:51:45.880
child rearing uh smart it's actually it's very interesting makes me think essential and it it's
00:51:54.200
essential to think yes i would no no i'm saying essential is the key word things i have two
00:52:00.680
children but if i didn't have any by now i wouldn't have any but not because i'm a bad woman or i'm a bad
00:52:07.880
person or a bad female is because society is going to and look at around the world what is happening the
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force of us financial forcing us into jobs we don't want to do whether it be too male for me or whether
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you say something i'm not good at so i don't know it's really hard to answer but uh it's it's not
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just women's choice it's a society and the world where it's going the wars the pressures the fake news
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the all the lies we're told on the media and like you know the bigger the more beautiful which is not
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true if we're gonna heart if you're gonna die from a heart attack the biggest not beautiful you're
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just killing yourself and you're telling young girls who are looking at you to kill yourself too
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the biggest thing that women bring is love is love i know it sounds so simple but think about it
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right you're having a bad day you get a man you get hit in the face you get punched you get jumped
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you get whatever who's the first person you go to your mother a woman right for love for reassurance
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for smarts if there's a situation where two men are about to fight right sometimes you get a woman a
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woman to be like hey babe don't do that let me calm you down so the wisdom and the love that
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women bring to society just in general is very much needed i i'm sorry i don't want a whole bunch
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of men going around like just sensitivity yeah like just in a work field not doing anything because
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everything would be so cutthroat sometimes you need a woman to be like hey should we really fire him
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let's think about it not let's fire him because he pissed me off like there's certain things that you
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need women for you need that balance okay let's you know damn well no no you know damn well women
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fire people for no reason when men want to make money women men are logical women go based on how
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they feel so this idea that women are going to come into the workforce and police men and how to behave
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when men built the world for us they built the world we could not do any of the jobs that we
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have are all because of men and that we need women's wisdom to run society yes is the dumbest
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i've ever heard in my life no you need it but it's not exactly it's not it's all the elements
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for the last hundred before the last hundred years they did not need women as a rule in the workforce
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why do they need us now they must have needed women or else we wouldn't be if you look at like
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government regulations as soon as women entered the workforce it's like it's through the roof if
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you look at government spending as soon as women got to vote it's like it's through the roof so would
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you have rather be like like how workforces were back in the day i would rather we repeal the 19th i
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really believe that i think the world would be a better place if women didn't vote and most men i think
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that should be just like a property owner type thing it's or or net taxpayers i don't know how
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exactly i do it but yeah i think we should take away the vote for most people listen when we let the
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majority of men vote they voted trump into office so and thank you god i like trump thank you i like
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trump i like him i like him as the person i think he's funny horrible president but i like him as an
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individual he was a good president the economy was way better the economy was better the economy was
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better but he also caused uh no no the economy was better but doesn't mean he's a good president
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because under him there was so much racial divide and tension and this going on that going on so
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but the economy was good but you divided a whole country had jobs and they hated each other but
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this is what i mean this is actually i want to i actually want to explain this to the camera like how
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women think no offense but like do you see how she's like well it was the tension we didn't like the
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tension or the feelings and the men it's like well are there jobs but that rolled off of obama's laws
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no no no he came in this is after obama cleaned it up obama cleaned it up no it was it rolled into
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when trump got into office it rolled into when trump got into office and trump got the credit for it
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no it wasn't that's just how the liberals try to like trump got the credit they'll try to like
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like somehow go through these like logic loops where they're like well it was good under trump's
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presidency but it was another president's fault like it's like come on but it's so true yeah
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it's not you realize i had an economics degree and so what specifically what policies from obama
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specifically there is i don't know specifically right now i can't think of it off the top of my head
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but they're like literally but but i'm telling you we studied this when i was in school i have a degree
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he had eight years in office but it is during trump's time that you felt the effect of his work yes because
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when he first got it but he first got it no no when he first got in office they kept denying
00:56:55.400
everything he tried to put in what what did they try what did they every time what what what the
00:56:59.880
different bills that he was trying to pass they kept on what bill what bill what bill i believe
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the first one was one of the health care bills before they finally got that what did it do i would
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even say trump had a harder time in office than obama yeah because no one liked him exactly but he still
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got things done what done what do you mean what's going on unemployment right now under biden it's
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under biden which rolls off of what happened with trump i'm telling you everything is a is an effect
00:57:31.640
you can go ahead and try to put a bill into office if it does not get into office and it keeps going
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through the house keeps going keeps going no you start to see the effects of policies fairly quickly we
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went over this when i was in school like i have a degree in economics like you start to see you start
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to see the effects of policies fairly quickly like within a couple months it's still like so everything
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is so so it's not it's not a rollover it's not it's not like i'm okay i'm that's not true it's not true
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but what do you think what do women bring to society that is essential yeah i agree with love um other words
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that come to me sensuality and sensitivity i heard just then as well um you know and sensuality can be
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anything like you know the appreciation of of your daily activity there's a beautiful flower there's
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some amazing architecture just tuning into that frequency that emotional frequency that i think
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a lot of men don't tend to normally have you know i think the argument here is about the argument
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we're having here a lot of your responses have been emotional right and but that is a beauty in
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that as well because we can we can take that on board in a positive way