JustPearlyThings - April 01, 2023


They Proved this about women


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

219.80803

Word Count

2,374

Sentence Count

136

Misogynist Sentences

25

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 for the sake of argument and finally is about my turn to you know help the boys out i'll tell you
00:00:05.020 something boys do you know the best way for you to deal with a modern woman be stush stush means
00:00:10.860 be a bit more stuck up about yourself because actually girls don't like rejection and the
00:00:15.120 moment you reject one she wants you more because it's a challenge at that moment you've got the
00:00:18.920 power if you want her you want to maneuver and check what she's on and you want to get her in
00:00:23.100 your in your books but okay but listen listen to this listen to this from the men's point of view
00:00:27.860 so i have to play a bunch of games with these women in order to get to them to commit to me
00:00:32.280 why do it at all because because why is it worth it yeah it's like what what is the benefit to the men
00:00:39.200 like what genuinely who who in here has a cookbook maybe maybe you i don't need a cookbook what i do
00:00:45.840 are you asking fucking no no my point is none of us in here are can be considered traditional women
00:00:53.960 and back then an average guy could get a traditional woman and now what does he get he gets a boss bitch
00:01:00.020 a boss babe a girl that's been ran through he gets an ex-ho he gets a born again virgin like
00:01:04.720 what do i get as as women this is what what do we get we still get protection and provisioning
00:01:09.920 are you sure and the average the average salary i mean okay here's here's the thing the average
00:01:16.980 salary could cover an apartment and but the thing is like women we want this lifestyle that's not even
00:01:23.040 realistic nowadays like we want men that make more than we do and we want them to pay all of the bills
00:01:28.740 but it's like we work what we all have our nails done we have uh we get our hair dyed we have makeup we
00:01:34.020 have all of this stuff that costs money because we want this lifestyle and i've had girls come on my show
00:01:38.480 and i say would you would you date an average guy for companionship but you would have to go down in
00:01:44.080 lifestyle and they say no we're addicted to lifestyle i would i would add from a male perspective
00:01:50.340 what what i find and i i think that this is why most guys don't bother and this is you know why i i you
00:01:55.960 know for me it's the biggest kind of consumer of my energy when it comes to dating in this whole game
00:02:00.700 is that everyone every all modern women want my time and attention in it when i go to a club there's 10
00:02:06.320 hot girls who think i'm going to get their number talk to them for three months take them out until
00:02:10.600 they eventually decide to you know we can do this or that or whatever and it's it's just non-stop and
00:02:15.380 they all they all think they all think i have all the time in the world and that they're all so
00:02:19.000 special and interesting and that they all deserve the red carpet treatment and these women do nothing
00:02:22.940 for me they do absolutely nothing they can barely hold a conversation they can't start a conversation
00:02:27.160 they've got no date ideas they don't even know how to be feminine from they're saying they think
00:02:31.160 wearing a tight skirt is feminine you can stand around and guys would just throw themselves at
00:02:36.260 you which is which is kind of that's that's why they do and that's why when is the last time a
00:02:42.560 girl planned a day for you oh my god like like plans like a planned a whole day got you a really
00:02:47.900 a thoughtful gift that had nothing to do with her nothing she wanted i'm glad you asked that question
00:02:52.360 i don't remember the last time they don't do it but they talk about equality a lot no but you're
00:02:56.500 generalizing but you're generalizing a lot like even even if it was just a hookup that maybe liked
00:03:01.220 you or got feelings or whatever did any of them like try to compete for you hell no yeah because
00:03:06.040 they're all they're all queens because it's an ego thing because girls won't put aside their ego
00:03:10.500 they're all ten out of times they're all queens they're all boss bitches no she's got a point for once
00:03:14.740 i'll agree with her she does have a point girls do you know what stop being so annoying if you have if
00:03:19.720 you want to see the guy ask him can i see you if you're not gonna date with him and you invite him
00:03:23.840 make sure that you did the invitation be polite have manners and you're the one that is the host
00:03:27.880 therefore you to pattern the ting stop always waiting for the guy to make the first move i get
00:03:32.100 the impression no no no no no no no no no you can't turn around and say that the men want feminine
00:03:40.140 women and then you so how can a woman go up to a man and say i'm gonna take you out well i'll say
00:03:48.100 I think that you're an amazing guy. You are sick. I'm going to shoot my shot.
00:03:52.980 Would you want to go out with me, please?
00:03:54.660 You said it like a man.
00:03:55.780 You said it like a man.
00:03:56.900 You said it like a man.
00:03:58.900 These days, they're very masculine these days.
00:04:03.060 So devil's advocate here. I wouldn't probably approach it like that.
00:04:07.380 But like back in the day, didn't women drop the handkerchief?
00:04:12.900 Right? Right. Women drop the handkerchief.
00:04:15.300 But you see, the thing is, right, is that years ago,
00:04:18.980 you dropped the handkerchief and the man showed you was interested.
00:04:21.700 You didn't drop your knickers.
00:04:23.860 And that's the difference. Dropping a handkerchief is totally different
00:04:29.380 from dropping your knickers.
00:04:32.820 So you used to walk along in the old days, they used to drop, you know,
00:04:35.700 you walk along and you drop a hanky just to see whether or not the man was interested.
00:04:41.380 But now the women are dropping their knickers to see whether the man's interested.
00:04:45.700 No, I don't think that's an issue.
00:04:46.900 They're not dropping their knickers because like a third of men are virgins.
00:04:50.180 But they're dropping their knickers more than we drop hankies.
00:04:52.740 No, my only point was that like, when is the last time as like, as a woman,
00:04:58.180 like you've really showed effort to show a man that you appreciate him and you're interested.
00:05:02.980 I do it all the time.
00:05:04.340 I know you do, you do, but I'm saying like, go ahead, go ahead. Sorry.
00:05:07.460 No, no, go on.
00:05:08.420 I was going to say, so, you know, you guys are speaking about this.
00:05:13.380 What do you think of someone who's been in a relationship, in a long relationship?
00:05:16.420 Like, I'll give you an example.
00:05:18.020 I've been with my partner for like a year and a half now.
00:05:20.420 And the other day I said to him, we like to do date nights.
00:05:22.820 We like to keep it spicy and we have a child, right?
00:05:25.700 It's not his child, but he takes on the role, Brint Lily.
00:05:28.900 Love that.
00:05:29.780 Yeah. And I said to him, Monday night, you're booked date night.
00:05:35.220 Meet me at this hotel.
00:05:36.180 I've booked the hotel.
00:05:37.140 I've filled it with balloons, petals, everything.
00:05:40.980 And I did that for him.
00:05:42.100 So what, what do you think of that?
00:05:43.860 Like I'm treating him.
00:05:44.900 No, but on the flip side, you fight sometimes.
00:05:47.780 But you know something, right?
00:05:48.820 That would work for you.
00:05:50.740 And if it works for you, that's great.
00:05:52.260 I appreciate that.
00:05:53.780 But that wouldn't work for me.
00:05:57.060 So something totally different, like for you,
00:05:59.380 booking a hotel and that, but I don't like hotels.
00:06:01.940 I'm fussy about my food.
00:06:03.140 I hate flowers.
00:06:04.260 Okay.
00:06:04.500 So just call it a date night.
00:06:05.860 But then you, you pick whatever you want.
00:06:07.620 There's nothing wrong in that.
00:06:09.380 But the thing is, is that sometimes don't even tell him.
00:06:14.180 Surprise, surprise him.
00:06:15.380 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:15.860 Surprise him.
00:06:17.060 He doesn't need to be told.
00:06:18.900 No, no, he wasn't told.
00:06:19.860 He was just told he was given an address.
00:06:22.340 But also given an address and be there at 6pm.
00:06:24.340 Can I just say something interesting that I've observed,
00:06:28.100 because I've given this example a lot.
00:06:30.580 And whenever like women say the thing that they did for their boyfriend
00:06:34.260 or their husband or whatever it was,
00:06:35.780 it's always something that like women would enjoy more than men typically.
00:06:40.100 I don't, I don't know him.
00:06:40.900 Maybe this was like, you know, I'm sure he appreciated either way,
00:06:44.660 but it's just interesting.
00:06:45.700 Like, I think a lot of times we look through our point of view and not theirs.
00:06:48.660 But you know what?
00:06:49.060 You just reminded me of something.
00:06:51.060 Pearl is so right when she said that.
00:06:52.740 Because remember, I said that that wouldn't work for me.
00:06:55.860 But what actually worked for me was Christmas.
00:07:02.100 And I said, you know what?
00:07:03.220 Because we don't live together because I'm my mom's caregiver.
00:07:05.860 So it's impossible because of the way I am,
00:07:08.580 because my mom's got dementia and she's really sublime.
00:07:10.740 So I look after my mom.
00:07:11.860 So hence the two separate houses.
00:07:13.780 But I said, you're going to spend Christmas.
00:07:18.020 And I'd planned it so that I hate movies.
00:07:20.980 And he's a nerd.
00:07:21.860 He loves movies.
00:07:23.140 The only we love alcohol and we love good food.
00:07:27.860 And it was Christmas.
00:07:29.220 My birthday is this after Christmas.
00:07:31.140 And he had such a relaxing time that I forgot my birthday.
00:07:35.540 And I only remembered my birthday.
00:07:38.740 My birthday was in December.
00:07:41.060 And we only, we didn't have Christmas dinner.
00:07:44.180 We realized that.
00:07:44.980 I think New Year was like, what happened to Christmas dinner?
00:07:46.900 And I said, we're still in the fridge.
00:07:48.820 You know, because we ate and we snacked.
00:07:50.900 And to him, he loved that.
00:07:53.380 But for me to go and do something that,
00:07:55.940 I mean, I was sat down there and I'm watching a movie marathon.
00:07:58.340 I hate movies.
00:07:59.940 But that is something that he enjoys.
00:08:01.860 Because the thing is that in relationships,
00:08:03.780 I always say that we always think about what we want,
00:08:06.020 but we never think about what we can give.
00:08:08.180 Can I say one thing?
00:08:09.780 I feel like, and this is my opinion,
00:08:11.620 I feel like there's one part of it
00:08:13.700 where all you women are forgetting, right?
00:08:16.260 When men are going out of the way to give you stuff
00:08:19.460 or do some surprise for y'all,
00:08:21.780 the one thing y'all keep forgetting,
00:08:23.140 there's one important thing that we want that back too.
00:08:26.100 But we don't like to say, I mean,
00:08:27.940 y'all always say the word thanks,
00:08:29.140 or you want to give us a thing.
00:08:30.980 But we like it back.
00:08:32.500 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:33.140 Like, it's always us men going our way to do stuff for the women.
00:08:36.740 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:37.780 But we don't get it back.
00:08:39.380 But if we get it back.
00:08:40.260 You don't give to receive.
00:08:41.140 That's what I'm saying.
00:08:42.100 I hear you, but I'm just saying like,
00:08:43.780 we love it.
00:08:44.340 Like, you see how we do some surprise things,
00:08:45.860 or we take you out, we like it back.
00:08:48.020 That's why I said,
00:08:48.820 I think the point they're trying to make,
00:08:50.820 um, and I agree with you,
00:08:52.180 I don't think you should give so you can receive.
00:08:54.980 But I think a lot of men just feel like women put in no effort nowadays.
00:08:58.500 I think what it means is that the men put in too much effort now.
00:09:04.980 Probably.
00:09:05.380 I was going to say that.
00:09:06.500 That's what I said.
00:09:07.060 Move your douche.
00:09:08.020 Because you know what, right?
00:09:09.220 All the things that he's saying,
00:09:10.980 everyone had to say to my man,
00:09:12.020 oh yeah, I want you to book a hotel.
00:09:13.940 And he goes, where are you going to go?
00:09:14.820 Are you going to stay in it on your own?
00:09:16.100 Because that is not my, that's too much.
00:09:19.540 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:20.260 I'm happy with him.
00:09:21.460 If I come to his house and there is curry,
00:09:24.820 goat and rice and salad.
00:09:27.300 Yeah.
00:09:27.540 I'm in heaven.
00:09:28.420 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:29.060 That's, that's it for me.
00:09:30.020 I was going to say.
00:09:30.740 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:31.220 That's it for me.
00:09:32.020 The society,
00:09:32.740 there's a societal narrative in there that men are constantly told that we're
00:09:36.020 dispensable and our time and energy doesn't mean anything.
00:09:38.900 So when I coach, when I coach guys, right?
00:09:40.820 Cause I do date coaching on the side.
00:09:41.940 Now it's the first step is always to help them to understand that.
00:09:44.820 Like you have value, bro.
00:09:46.420 Like, like guys just have this idea that like,
00:09:48.420 Oh, it's pick up artistry.
00:09:49.540 So I'm going to read this book and learn these patterns and do this.
00:09:52.260 And then when she does this, I'm going to do this.
00:09:53.700 And I'm thinking, bro, you've, you forgot one thing, self-respect.
00:09:56.980 You haven't even judged this person.
00:09:58.740 Like these,
00:09:59.220 some of these guys who are new to the dating game often go into clubs and they
00:10:02.660 give their time and attention to people based on looks.
00:10:04.660 And I'm standing there thinking, I can tell this one's got a boyfriend.
00:10:07.460 This one's just for attention.
00:10:08.740 This one's emotionally available.
00:10:09.860 Actually likes the other guy at the back of the room,
00:10:11.540 but it's talking to you because you've got game,
00:10:13.140 but she's going to waste your time later.
00:10:14.820 Modern guys have been so brainwashed and told to be emotional and feminine.
00:10:18.660 And like your time doesn't mean anything.
00:10:19.700 You should be,
00:10:20.100 you should be lucky to have any woman around you that they waste their time.
00:10:23.380 As many of you know,
00:10:24.260 I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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