JustPearlyThings - May 23, 2023


They Tried To Corner Pearl With This Misconception

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Drunk Feminist Tries To Corner Pearl With This Question You Won't BELIEVE What This Cornstar Said About Her BoyFriend

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8 minutes

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196.59

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1,708

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220

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6

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17

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In this episode, we talk about deal breakers in relationships, what to do when a guy won t go down on you, and how to deal with a guy who doesn't want to go down. We also discuss inter-sexual dynamics and how they should be handled in a relationship.

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00:00:00.600 Single, right? Both of you are single, too?
00:00:03.100 Yeah, we're both single, so.
00:00:04.320 Okay, single, single.
00:00:07.160 Single, single?
00:00:08.600 Relationships.
00:00:09.300 Both relationships? Okay.
00:00:11.840 All right.
00:00:13.420 Okay.
00:00:15.620 Here's just a filler question while I have to figure out some technical issues.
00:00:19.240 Is it the deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you?
00:00:22.240 Go ahead, start with you.
00:00:23.760 I think so, because if they're expecting me to go down on them,
00:00:26.580 I would want them to go down on me.
00:00:28.340 I feel like that's important.
00:00:30.000 Yeah, I agree completely.
00:00:34.300 Yeah, it's a total deal breaker, 100%.
00:00:36.200 I don't know if I would say it's a deal breaker,
00:00:40.640 but I think it's extremely important in a relationship
00:00:43.060 to feel sexually comfortable with each other,
00:00:45.840 especially if it's going to be a serious relationship.
00:00:49.820 Yeah, I'm agreeing with Jamie 100% on that one.
00:00:54.520 Definitely a deal breaker,
00:00:55.880 even though I have dealt with a nigga that would not go down on me. 1.00
00:01:00.620 And expected me to go down on him.
00:01:05.320 I definitely prefer somebody that would be willing to go down on me,
00:01:09.200 but I'm not going to completely cut them off.
00:01:12.460 Straight in your mic, please.
00:01:14.080 I'm not going to completely cut somebody off if they're not trying to go down on me,
00:01:20.200 but I would prefer if they did.
00:01:23.160 I agree with Jamie.
00:01:24.280 I don't think it's a deal breaker,
00:01:25.620 but I do agree with the fact that it is pretty important, I guess.
00:01:29.720 Yeah, I'd agree with that.
00:01:30.540 I think that you should always be in a relationship with somebody
00:01:32.720 who cares enough about you to do things that you like.
00:01:35.280 And so if you find that somebody will not do that,
00:01:37.400 that's kind of a red flag.
00:01:38.680 Yeah, I wouldn't say a deal breaker.
00:01:42.880 I mean, because I like giving head and I like receiving it,
00:01:45.280 but I mean, if the peen is good enough, then sure. 0.99
00:01:49.260 I mean, I really don't give two shits, so yeah. 0.99
00:01:51.640 I don't really care. 0.99
00:01:55.040 I agree with you.
00:01:55.700 I don't care.
00:01:56.560 I mean, 69 is kind of like my favorite thing in the world,
00:01:59.260 so I'd be a little bit upset.
00:02:00.720 I'm not going to lie.
00:02:01.860 But I would say, too, like...
00:02:02.960 What if you had everything else and that's the only thing?
00:02:06.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:02:06.660 That's why I was like,
00:02:07.420 I'm not going to completely cut you off if you check other boxes,
00:02:10.340 but if you don't want a 69 with me, 0.99
00:02:12.180 I mean, what the fuck am I doing here, you know? 0.99
00:02:15.200 I would also argue, too, that I might... 0.97
00:02:17.400 Like, if there's not enthusiasm
00:02:18.380 and if it's really torture for the guy,
00:02:21.640 then, you know, it's not enjoyable.
00:02:23.660 Yeah. 0.99
00:02:25.820 As long as I come, I don't give a fuck. 0.99
00:02:32.420 All right, I'm trying to trigger this TTS. 1.00
00:02:34.420 Nope.
00:02:34.820 Okay, TTS is broke.
00:02:36.160 Typical.
00:02:36.720 Okay.
00:02:37.640 Guys in the chat,
00:02:38.480 don't take advice from any females on panel,
00:02:40.240 especially the ALF corn stars. 0.98
00:02:41.620 They are sick in society and why...
00:02:43.900 Here, please, center men on the...
00:02:45.780 Need to get a passport and fly to Argentina,
00:02:50.160 Colombia, or South Korea.
00:02:51.640 Okay, Cheeks, who is this directed to?
00:02:57.420 All of them, most of us.
00:02:58.580 All the ALF girls.
00:03:00.380 Oh, he's a passport. 0.78
00:03:00.920 It's like 90% passport.
00:03:02.200 I mean, honestly, in general,
00:03:03.680 I don't think that, like,
00:03:04.500 men should really take relationship advice from women. 0.89
00:03:07.760 Oh.
00:03:07.940 You have a dating plan.
00:03:08.780 Interesting, I like that.
00:03:09.680 I don't give advice, though.
00:03:10.700 Isn't that your job?
00:03:11.360 We're talking about intersexual dynamics.
00:03:12.700 Is that not your job, though?
00:03:13.840 No, I don't give advice,
00:03:15.000 not to men on dating.
00:03:16.420 I've said multiple times.
00:03:17.620 It's like a misconception.
00:03:18.600 I like that.
00:03:21.720 Okay, so where would you suggest...
00:03:22.980 Because it's like,
00:03:23.600 how, what am I going to tell a guy
00:03:24.700 how to approach a girl 0.99
00:03:25.720 when I've never...
00:03:27.540 No, because I've never approached women.
00:03:29.540 But you're a woman,
00:03:30.060 and you know how women want to be approached.
00:03:31.480 No, no, I think women, 1.00
00:03:32.220 like, we don't typically, like, know.
00:03:33.940 I mean, I think you would know how to be approached.
00:03:35.460 But as a woman,
00:03:36.080 you know what you want.
00:03:37.320 Yeah, I think you can give, like,
00:03:38.700 tips for what you like,
00:03:39.700 what may work for you.
00:03:40.220 Yeah, but like, the thing is,
00:03:41.380 like, women don't even know 1.00
00:03:42.360 what we want half the time.
00:03:43.220 I know what I want.
00:03:44.020 I do for that.
00:03:44.880 Yeah, so I definitely do that.
00:03:46.140 What do you want?
00:03:46.560 I feel like it depends on what you're asking.
00:03:49.300 Okay.
00:03:50.280 Like, in what context.
00:03:51.960 How do you like to be approached?
00:03:53.660 Very confidently.
00:03:54.920 Okay.
00:03:55.840 It depends on the woman, 1.00
00:03:56.880 because if you're going up to, like,
00:03:57.860 a bookworm,
00:03:58.480 and he's very shy,
00:03:59.460 and he comes over like, 1.00
00:04:00.180 hey, you're hot as shit, 1.00
00:04:01.360 you know what I mean? 1.00
00:04:01.680 That's intimidating.
00:04:02.500 Yeah, you know what I mean?
00:04:03.400 But it depends.
00:04:03.980 It's read-the-room type deal.
00:04:05.240 Yeah, I don't want to say it,
00:04:06.120 like, it's for everybody.
00:04:07.100 I'm direct.
00:04:07.620 I'll probably hit on the guy first.
00:04:08.820 Oh.
00:04:09.200 Yeah, same.
00:04:09.820 I'm with my eyes.
00:04:10.460 Yeah, me as well.
00:04:12.460 Can I have you straighten your mic, please?
00:04:14.300 Just, yeah, there you go.
00:04:16.140 Wait, so you guys would hit on the guy first?
00:04:18.280 Yeah, sometimes.
00:04:19.060 It depends on the situation.
00:04:21.600 You'd hit on the guy first?
00:04:22.620 Yeah.
00:04:23.840 I was interested, yeah.
00:04:24.680 You've done it before?
00:04:25.440 Oh, yeah.
00:04:26.040 Okay.
00:04:27.640 And for those of you here
00:04:29.060 who have hit on the guy first,
00:04:30.620 generally speaking,
00:04:32.140 does it go over pretty well?
00:04:33.540 Does it work?
00:04:34.240 That's really, yeah.
00:04:34.860 99% of the time, yeah.
00:04:36.380 Yeah.
00:04:38.120 It works for you?
00:04:39.500 It works for you?
00:04:39.960 Like, you don't really get rejected, do you?
00:04:42.280 I have been.
00:04:43.460 When you've gone up to a guy?
00:04:44.680 Yeah.
00:04:45.040 How did you get rejected?
00:04:47.540 I mean, sometimes I'll just say,
00:04:49.000 no, I'm not interested.
00:04:50.240 No, I have a girlfriend.
00:04:51.960 Or just, no, I'm not interested.
00:04:54.380 That's okay.
00:04:55.220 Okay.
00:04:56.140 I'm too blunt sometimes.
00:04:56.540 Especially with dancing,
00:04:57.900 you have to learn how to approach men.
00:04:59.840 Yeah.
00:05:00.020 Especially when working in the club,
00:05:01.340 you have to learn how to approach men
00:05:03.080 and be able to come up to them
00:05:04.260 and talk to them and hit on them first.
00:05:06.980 Is it just you two that are dancers?
00:05:08.960 I danced.
00:05:09.520 I danced as well.
00:05:11.020 Anybody danced?
00:05:11.700 That's how we met.
00:05:12.140 I used to be a dancer like five years ago.
00:05:13.720 Did you guys ever date anyone
00:05:15.100 that you met at the club?
00:05:16.340 Never.
00:05:16.560 And would you?
00:05:17.200 Never.
00:05:18.760 Absolutely not.
00:05:19.400 I let him take me on dates,
00:05:21.440 but I never did anything sexual with him.
00:05:23.420 And why do you say absolutely not?
00:05:25.340 I just think that if you want to have
00:05:28.120 a healthy relationship with somebody,
00:05:29.380 I can't speak for everybody,
00:05:30.600 but I would not be okay with my,
00:05:32.880 I know what goes on in the strip club 0.99
00:05:34.280 and I'm not okay with my-
00:05:35.720 What goes on in the strip club?
00:05:37.140 Oh my gosh.
00:05:38.240 A lot.
00:05:38.800 A lot of stuff.
00:05:40.160 A lot.
00:05:40.720 The stuff with some other dancers.
00:05:42.840 Some dancers do extras.
00:05:44.080 I don't.
00:05:45.220 The men too, though.
00:05:46.500 I can't tell you how many times
00:05:48.180 I have been sitting at a table
00:05:50.020 with a guy who's just going on and on
00:05:51.780 about how much he hates his wife
00:05:53.500 or his girlfriend or whatever.
00:05:55.580 And that just,
00:05:56.720 that's not what I want for myself.
00:05:59.960 And any man that I see in the strip club, 0.93
00:06:01.960 like you're there for a reason.
00:06:03.820 And that's not the kind of man that I want.
00:06:06.980 You still dance currently, correct?
00:06:08.920 I do, yeah.
00:06:09.460 Okay.
00:06:09.940 Do you have a celebrity crush?
00:06:12.520 No, not really.
00:06:13.800 I was going to say,
00:06:14.280 if he walks into the strip club,
00:06:15.560 do you?
00:06:16.500 Do you date him, bud?
00:06:18.020 Okay.
00:06:19.720 So, really quick here.
00:06:21.900 Who's single?
00:06:23.860 Show of hands.
00:06:26.620 Show of hands.
00:06:27.360 Kind of.
00:06:28.780 Kind of-ish.
00:06:29.900 You're kind of-ish,
00:06:30.880 but you're pregnant. 1.00
00:06:31.700 Hello?
00:06:32.600 Are you on dating apps right now?
00:06:34.320 Absolutely not, no.
00:06:35.340 No dating apps?
00:06:36.040 I stopped doing what I do for work
00:06:38.400 when I met the person I got pregnant from.
00:06:40.480 Wait, hold on.
00:06:41.220 But so you do traditional, 0.99
00:06:44.260 I'm just fucking whatever. 1.00
00:06:45.280 You do traditional porn. 1.00
00:06:46.620 I was doing it up until I met this person 0.87
00:06:49.240 and I was very comfortable with them.
00:06:52.260 So I stopped doing it like a week into us talking.
00:06:54.820 I like stopped doing the actual corn,
00:06:59.400 like being on a website.
00:07:00.580 I haven't shot anything at all since I met him.
00:07:04.840 So, yeah.
00:07:07.000 Can I ask you,
00:07:07.920 I'm so sorry.
00:07:08.560 No, go ahead.
00:07:08.920 As someone who's done that before for a partner that I met,
00:07:12.060 totally regret it.
00:07:12.960 Why did you quit porn for a,
00:07:15.360 not even a man,
00:07:16.080 a person?
00:07:16.520 Honestly, I just have been getting,
00:07:19.520 there's been a lot of stuff in the industry
00:07:21.060 that's been going on
00:07:21.980 that I was already kind of getting tired of.
00:07:23.820 So I was slowly transitioning out of it
00:07:25.940 and going more towards OnlyFans
00:07:27.340 because I like being able to,
00:07:30.000 in charge,
00:07:31.220 and being able to do what I want to do.
00:07:33.220 Yeah.
00:07:34.960 So I like that.
00:07:36.300 So I was already kind of getting out of it
00:07:37.900 and I just really do care
00:07:38.980 and appreciate this person very much.
00:07:40.740 And, you know,
00:07:41.540 he didn't tell me to stop doing it,
00:07:45.020 but I could tell that it made him uncomfortable.
00:07:46.800 Yeah, they didn't ever have to tell you.
00:07:48.120 Yeah.
00:07:48.380 I could tell that it made him uncomfortable
00:07:49.940 and like I really do care about this person
00:07:52.460 and I'm trying to make it work.
00:07:53.580 So for now,
00:07:54.340 I'm not going to be working
00:07:55.980 in the corn industry.
00:07:58.380 What are your long-term goals?
00:08:01.620 So I'm starting to make better money
00:08:03.420 on OnlyFans right now
00:08:04.340 and I want to get like Airbnb properties.
00:08:06.300 Nice.
00:08:07.180 Also, I lived in Israel.
00:08:08.400 I served in the army in Israel also.
00:08:11.280 So I do want to go back there
00:08:12.360 and like I want to get my nursing degree
00:08:15.000 and go back to Israel 0.99
00:08:16.100 and like help out over there. 0.93
00:08:17.580 Oh, wow.
00:08:18.060 Yeah.
00:08:18.620 It's very noble.
00:08:20.060 Nick, don't unstar the red chats, please.
00:08:22.900 You got to keep them up.
00:08:24.800 Here, I restart it.
00:08:26.880 Okay.
00:08:30.240 So, okay.
00:08:32.160 The guy you're currently seeing though,
00:08:33.940 he's definitely the one that...
00:08:36.980 A hundred percent.
00:08:37.660 There's no way that it's not.
00:08:41.000 Okay.