JustPearlyThings - This 21tons Guy Gets ROASTED For Giving Excuses On While He's OBSESSED

00:00:00.000 I had a hernia, I'd had three C-sections, my stomach was protruding, that's the recti muscle

00:00:07.140 in the middle had opened, I needed to have muscle repair.

00:00:10.300 And that cannot be fixed in the gym.

00:00:12.960 So when I was losing the weight, in fact, I actually looked better when I was bigger

00:00:16.580 because I could hold my own.

00:00:18.800 When I lost the weight, everything dropped and went down south and it looked worse, to

00:00:23.060 be fair.

00:00:24.700 So when I saw that happened after I'd lost all the weight, well, what do I do now?

00:00:28.740 Because the gym is not going to help this.

00:00:31.340 I need to have a tummy tuck. 0.87

00:00:33.620 I need to have muscle repair.

00:00:36.540 So knowing that I needed to have that done, there is a number of people out there, why don't

00:00:41.740 you go to the gym?

00:00:42.740 Well, I did.

00:00:43.740 For many years.

00:00:44.740 And my biggest thing is, too, if we're supposed to enthusiastically support people chopping off

00:00:50.220 their wieners and becoming women, you've got to shut up about this other stuff, too. 0.97

00:00:54.740 God, can I say something?

00:00:56.740 You've got to choose one.

00:00:58.340 Can I share something, please?

00:00:59.340 Go on.

00:01:00.340 Can I just remind you all that body positivity isn't only, like, people with big, big black

00:01:05.340 relations?

00:01:06.340 No, of course not.

00:01:07.340 No.

00:01:08.340 It's about unable people as well.

00:01:09.340 Yeah, yeah.

00:01:10.340 And people are born deformed. 0.93

00:01:11.340 Some people are born with disabilities.

00:01:13.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:01:14.340 And I think body positivity is also linked with that.

00:01:16.940 But the main marketing component of body positivity is towards women to say, you can be obese and 0.91

00:01:23.940 you're still beautiful.

00:01:24.940 I just don't think we should celebrate something that's a choice.

00:01:27.940 Which, you're celebrating it when you're putting it on the cover of magazines.

00:01:32.940 That's a reward.

00:01:33.940 That's like a positive thing when you're specifically giving people parts because they're plus size. 0.66

00:01:38.940 When you're specifically trying to put it out there, make that the representation in the media.

00:01:43.940 And it's interesting, too, because earlier you said, like, that you seem to say, like, you

00:01:50.940 couldn't lose the weight.

00:01:51.940 Was that what you were saying earlier?

00:01:52.940 Yes.

00:01:53.940 I couldn't.

00:01:54.940 But it's like before the podcast start, you drink a Coke.

00:01:57.940 Yes.

00:01:58.940 I'm not trying to call you out, but it's like...

00:01:59.940 No, no, no.

00:02:00.940 It's like...

00:02:01.940 No, don't get me wrong.

00:02:02.940 Yeah.

00:02:03.940 Hello.

00:02:04.940 I'm on your podcast.

00:02:05.940 I want to have a good time, you know.

00:02:06.940 I'm not at home.

00:02:07.940 I don't need to be drinking all healthy stuff.

00:02:09.940 But what I'm saying...

00:02:10.940 Okay.

00:02:11.940 The reason I say that is just because I'll hear people say that, but then I, like, watch what

00:02:15.940 they eat and I'm like, it doesn't seem to add up.

00:02:17.940 Do you know, it's just about representation.

00:02:20.940 It's basically the little things from, like, there's, for example, you can go to a store.

00:02:28.940 You can't get certain things.

00:02:31.940 You can order something from online.

00:02:34.940 You can't see.

00:02:35.940 You can't actually, because there's not the person wearing it, you can't see it.

00:02:40.940 I was actually going to say something.

00:02:43.940 What I wanted to say is, it's actually just go on, go on, take it away.

00:02:47.940 No, I think as well.

00:02:48.940 It's just the man thought just escaped.

00:02:50.940 That's fine.

00:02:51.940 I think it all starts as well from a young age and how you're brought up.

00:02:57.940 Yes.

00:02:58.940 And the way that your parents feed you and what they do for you being brought up.

00:03:04.940 Well, and that's why I think it's so important to, like, get in control of your eating habits if you want to have children.

00:03:09.940 Because it's not fair to the next generation to be brought up with eating habits that will give you an early grave.

00:03:15.940 And I even think about that with myself because I have, like, a horrible sugar addiction.

00:03:19.940 I literally love sugar.

00:03:21.940 It's so bad.

00:03:22.940 So does everybody else.

00:03:23.940 It's addictive.

00:03:24.940 Right.

00:03:25.940 But we do have, like, health problems because, like, a lot of people in my family eat a lot of, like, I forget what, the early onset something.

00:03:33.940 I don't know.

00:03:34.940 I'm not a medical person.

00:03:35.940 But, like, I think of this even for myself, you know.

00:03:37.940 Yeah.

00:03:38.940 So I think it's, like, important that we don't celebrate that sort of thing.

00:03:41.940 Yeah.

00:03:42.940 I agree with that.

00:03:43.940 Because growing up, for me, I used to see my mum forever doing different diets. 0.99

00:03:47.940 Yeah.

00:03:48.940 Going on the Cambridge diet.

00:03:49.940 You know when you just eat the shakes and you have those cardboard bars?

00:03:52.940 Yeah.

00:03:53.940 Do you know the kilo diet as well?

00:03:54.940 Yeah.

00:03:55.940 All of this.

00:03:56.940 And I saw my mum do that. 0.98

00:03:57.940 And I remember being at school and my mum was happy to say, I'd be like, Mum, I want to go on a diet.

00:04:00.940 And she'd pack my rivita with my fruit.

00:04:03.940 And I was at school in year eight, year nine.

00:04:05.940 So it was 12, 13.

00:04:06.940 Yeah.

00:04:07.940 And my mum was happy to do that.

00:04:09.940 Whereas, you know, it's created bad habits for me and unhealthy parenting habits.

00:04:13.940 Yeah.

00:04:14.940 I think everything in moderation.

00:04:15.940 Yeah.

00:04:16.940 Do you know what I realized, too?

00:04:17.940 I think it's a problem that comes from moms not being in the home anymore. 1.00

00:04:22.940 Yeah.

00:04:23.940 Because when moms are in the home, they're watching, like, what everyone's eating. 0.98

00:04:26.940 Yeah.

00:04:27.940 It's tough to do that.

00:04:28.940 To watch what everyone's eating when you're working, like, 20, 30, 40 hours a week.

00:04:32.940 Yeah.

00:04:33.940 In addition to that, a lot of these food companies are behind the body positivity movement.

00:04:38.940 Because they know that their food is not really food.

00:04:41.940 It's, like, legislated poison.

00:04:42.940 Yeah.

00:04:43.940 They have so much high fructose culture and stuff.

00:04:45.940 Chemicals.

00:04:46.940 And then, in addition to that, too, the rates of home cooking is going down all across the globe.

00:04:53.940 Guilty.

00:04:54.940 Yeah. 0.66

00:04:55.940 And then, you know, people want to order Uber Eats and this and all that crap. 0.73

00:04:58.940 And then you're just eating processed food.

00:05:01.940 And I personally, this is me, I'm not, well, I don't have a food degree or whatever.

00:05:06.940 My degree is in psychology.

00:05:07.940 But I do believe that the rise that we're seeing, we're ever seeing an increasing rate of cancer in people.

00:05:15.940 I think that's directly correlated to the amount of processed food that we're consuming.

00:05:19.940 Yeah.

00:05:20.940 This is what I wanted to say earlier.

00:05:22.940 Body positivity is important.

00:05:25.940 And the reason why it's important is because people have grown, grown up watching different things.

00:05:32.940 They've watched a certain type of people.

00:05:35.940 They've watched a certain type of behavior.

00:05:37.940 And people, there are some people that don't leave their house.

00:05:41.940 There are some people who travel.

00:05:43.940 There are some people who don't experience much.

00:05:47.940 And they don't know.

00:05:49.940 They judge people.

00:05:50.940 They have certain behaviors, what was taught on telly.

00:05:54.940 And that's why it's important.

00:05:57.940 It's not because it's important like big people should be promoted.

00:06:01.940 It's important because some people actually aren't nice.

00:06:05.940 And some people do judge.

00:06:07.940 And some people speak, use a certain language.

00:06:10.940 And if there was, while growing up, if there was a mixture of people, if there were a mixture of cultures,

00:06:16.940 a mixture of backgrounds, all these things, yeah, body positivity wouldn't be needed.

00:06:23.940 But unfortunately, we've been programmed to think this is beautiful.

00:06:28.940 That is beautiful.

00:06:29.940 I don't think so.

00:06:30.940 No, no.

00:06:31.940 Because if you look at, because they did a study on this.

00:06:33.940 This is what I do for a living.

00:06:34.940 Yeah.

00:06:35.940 Let me just tell you.

00:06:36.940 Okay.

00:06:37.940 So they did a study on female attractiveness across all cultures over multiple different generations and time periods.

00:06:44.940 Wow.

00:06:45.940 And what guys like is still the same.

00:06:46.940 Yeah. 0.99

00:06:47.940 Small hips, nice butt, big breasts. 0.99

00:06:50.940 Shall I tell you why? 0.98

00:06:52.940 I have something here, too.

00:06:53.940 It says obese women are 20% less likely to marry. 1.00

00:06:57.940 This is a survey of over 10,000 people, which is a huge sample size.

00:07:01.940 According to a large 2022 social survey on dating, 65% of men would assign a rejection score to three out of five women,

00:07:11.940 meaning they would, they're more likely to reject them.

00:07:13.940 And 18% of men assign a five out of five rejection score, meaning they would definitely reject them.

00:07:18.940 So on that, I'd like to point out that we are talking about obese people because fatness is seen as the monolith of body positivity,

00:07:28.940 and fat people are an easy target. 0.91

00:07:30.940 We can have skinny people on the covers of magazines, and no one will say anything. 0.98

00:07:34.940 You won't hear a peep.

00:07:35.940 Yeah.

00:07:36.940 But their help is still in danger in many instances.

00:07:38.940 No, they did in the early 2000s.

00:07:40.940 They said the girls were too skinny. 1.00

00:07:42.940 I actually remember that face.

00:07:43.940 Yeah.

00:07:44.940 No, they definitely did.

00:07:45.940 And where's that now?

00:07:46.940 Anorexia was literally a thing.

00:07:48.940 Models were-

00:07:49.940 Yeah, they were demonizing it.

00:07:50.940 The casting directors were getting sued all sorts.

00:07:52.940 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

00:07:53.940 People complained.

00:07:54.940 Where is that now?

00:07:55.940 The skinny girls aren't on the covers anymore. 1.00

00:07:57.940 They're replaced. 0.97

00:07:58.940 You think they're being replaced by fat people? 0.99

00:08:00.940 Yes. 0.99

00:08:01.940 No, no.

00:08:02.940 That's not true.

00:08:03.940 Please.

00:08:04.940 No, Perl.

00:08:05.940 That's not true.

00:08:06.940 I'm sorry.

00:08:07.940 Let's look at the Victoria's Secret fashion show.

00:08:09.940 Come on.

00:08:10.940 That was like the epitome of modeling.

00:08:12.940 Yeah.

00:08:13.940 But Victoria's-

00:08:14.940 That was one of the top, like the epitome.

00:08:16.940 You cannot tell me.

00:08:17.940 Yeah.

00:08:18.940 That was not one of the most competitive, like everyone wanted to be a Victoria's Secret model.

00:08:22.940 And then since they've switched too, Victoria's Secret has been bleeding money.

00:08:26.940 They're losing money right now.

00:08:28.940 They're no longer a profitable business.

00:08:29.940 No.

00:08:30.940 But you need to think about how these brands are moving as well.

00:08:32.940 With Victoria's Secret, it was this tall woman. 0.86

00:08:36.940 There's this blonde hair.

00:08:38.940 Yeah.

00:08:39.940 She's a certain looking type. 1.00

00:08:41.940 And you really see a difference in what Rihanna's doing.

00:08:45.940 She's involving a whole load of rage and she's getting themselves. 1.00

00:08:49.940 So Victoria's Secret didn't move with the time and now the event is taking over.

00:08:53.940 I mean-

00:08:54.940 But I don't think we should have to adjust because of people's choices.

00:08:57.940 Mm-hm.

00:08:58.940 Like I don't like- because if you make a choice to be overweight, like why does society have

00:09:02.940 to adjust to you?

00:09:03.940 Like why does there have to be representation?

00:09:05.940 Wait, let me finish.

00:09:06.940 Why does there have to be representation on the cover of magazines? 0.89

00:09:09.940 Why do they have to make specific stores for bigger people when really we should be focusing

00:09:13.940 on losing the weight?

00:09:14.940 But Pearl, imagine for you as a tall person-

00:09:17.940 I used to be- I used to be pretty big.

00:09:19.940 Yeah.

00:09:20.940 So you're tall, so-

00:09:21.940 Sorry, I just- I keep on losing my thoughts.

00:09:24.940 Sorry.

00:09:25.940 You're tall-

00:09:26.940 Right.

00:09:27.940 And imagine you going to- I'm guessing loads of places you go and you're like, oh gosh,

00:09:32.940 I'm tall.

00:09:33.940 I can't actually- I can't include myself in that.

00:09:36.940 Just like with plus size people. 1.00

00:09:37.940 Now some people-

00:09:38.940 Yeah, but life is-

00:09:39.940 Life isn't fair though.

00:09:40.940 But some people are- some people are lazy-

00:09:42.940 And I have to pay extra money, but I live.

00:09:44.940 You know what I mean?

00:09:45.940 Yeah.

00:09:46.940 Life isn't fair.

00:09:47.940 But that's the thing.

00:09:48.940 Some people have a choice of being big.

00:09:51.940 Some people are ill and they're big.

00:09:53.940 There are different types of reasons why people are big.

00:09:56.940 Some people-

00:09:57.940 I'll personally-

00:09:58.940 And I'll put this on the podcast.

00:10:00.940 Anyone says that they have no choice in being big, I'll pay for their personal training

00:10:04.940 and their nutrition.

00:10:05.940 I'll pay for it myself.

00:10:06.940 Well, Pearl, if I want to lose weight-

00:10:07.940 Okay.

00:10:08.940 If I want to lose weight, can I get in touch with you if I want to lose weight?

00:10:11.940 Yes, I'll pay.

00:10:12.940 And you're going to pay for it.

00:10:13.940 Yeah, I'll pay for it.

00:10:14.940 I'll pay for it.

00:10:15.940 I'm doing it with you.

00:10:16.940 I'm not wasting money.

00:10:17.940 Okay.

00:10:18.940 You have to meet me at the gym.

00:10:20.940 We'll see, Pearl.

00:10:21.940 I'm not-

00:10:22.940 I'm not-

00:10:23.940 But then look, there's certain laws of physics too that are like-

00:10:25.940 Yeah.

00:10:26.940 Like you can't just spontaneously get fat.

00:10:29.940 Like the only way you get fat is from over-consuming calories.

00:10:34.940 There's no ands, ifs, or buts about it.

00:10:36.940 My mom just came to Tokyo and I told her, I'm going to take care of you, but you got

00:10:40.940 to be in fat camp because I want my mom around, right?

00:10:43.940 And so I brought her over and I had to teach her the fundamentals of losing weight, fasting,

00:10:49.940 physical fitness training, muscle training, all these things, right?

00:10:53.940 And she was grossly, grossly undereducated on these things.

00:10:56.940 And in three months, she lost 25 pounds. 0.61

00:10:59.940 And I sent her back home, right?

00:11:02.940 So, but you know what she told me before she came to Tokyo?

00:11:07.940 She's like, well, I have been going through menopause.

00:11:10.940 That's why I'm gaining weight.

00:11:11.940 I was like, mom, I love you.

00:11:12.940 But that is literally impossible for you just to spontaneously create fat cells.

00:11:20.940 It doesn't work like that.

00:11:22.940 Like it is understanding your daily calorie needs.

00:11:26.940 And then if you over consume those daily calorie needs, your body will convert the remainder

00:11:31.940 of food into fat.

00:11:33.940 And there is no ands, ifs, or buts about it.

00:11:35.940 So I'm not saying, I understand what you're saying, like being fat isn't choice, but because

00:11:39.940 I think people are just undereducated because when you do over consume food, because a lot

00:11:44.940 of people like, you know, when I see these girls drinking these like venti size Starbucks with 1.00

00:11:50.940 like 800, like one drink is like 800 calories.

00:11:56.940 That's like a ribeye steak.

00:11:58.940 Mine's 300.

00:12:01.940 I don't ever mind if I get a skinny skinny.

00:12:03.940 Pearl, honestly, this whole obesity thing, look at what the food industry is doing.

00:12:09.940 Look at the policies and procedures that are changing.

00:12:11.940 A lot of food, remember, a lot of obesity starts because people are reacting with what's

00:12:18.940 in our food that's not actually good for us.

00:12:21.940 Air fryers, they're having causes. 0.56

00:12:24.940 They're the worst.

00:12:25.940 I love air fryers.

00:12:26.940 I'm sorry, but with the internet, there's just no excuse.

00:12:28.940 I agree.

00:12:29.940 You can look into all of this stuff.

00:12:30.940 You know, like we can't blame the food industry.

00:12:32.940 You can get it like that.

00:12:33.940 You know, I still drink my, I've been trying to lose 15 pounds forever, but I still drink

00:12:37.940 my Starbucks every day. 0.99

00:12:38.940 It's my own damn fault. 0.99

00:12:39.940 We had pizza last night. 0.99

00:12:41.940 Yeah, I know.

00:12:42.940 Some people.

00:12:43.940 I tried to cook something.

00:12:46.940 I didn't eat breakfast or lunch today because we had pizza.

00:12:50.940 No, that's me either.

00:12:51.940 I have the same thing.

00:12:52.940 And some people maybe can only offer dollar store food.

00:12:56.940 You don't know.

00:12:57.940 Or pan shops.

00:12:58.940 Or Iceland.

00:12:59.940 Eggs are cheap.

00:13:00.940 Yeah.

00:13:01.940 Eggs are cheap.

00:13:02.940 Like chicken is pretty cheap.

00:13:03.940 The cheap one is cheap.

00:13:04.940 I mean, because it's got stuff in it.

00:13:06.940 But if you want to get an organic one.

00:13:08.940 Oatmeal is cheap.

00:13:09.940 I mean, there's not really.

00:13:10.940 No, there's really.

00:13:11.940 But you'd be surprised how many stuff is in our meat, in our chicken.

00:13:14.940 I did this.

00:13:15.940 I actually have an episode on Wife School if you want to watch it.

00:13:17.940 Like, Auntie got me 50 pounds for two weeks of groceries, all organic food.

00:13:21.940 So if you guys do want to learn about it, it's on Wife School.

00:13:24.940 You can do it though.

00:13:25.940 It really is about habits.

00:13:26.940 I think it was maybe start this year or last year.

00:13:30.940 I literally went grocery shopping.

00:13:32.940 And I went to obviously like Aldi or something like that, right?

00:13:35.940 Luxury.

00:13:36.940 You know, it's cheap.

00:13:38.940 But like you can get good, you know, healthy foods there.

00:13:41.940 And I was like, I was vegetarian for nine months.

00:13:44.940 I did live with an Indian family at the time as well.

00:13:46.940 So like it helped me.

00:13:47.940 I was at that time literally 10 kilograms heavier than I am now.

00:13:52.940 And when I went vegetarian for nine months, I'd have like meat every so often.

00:13:57.940 When I was at my ex-boyfriend's now house.

00:14:00.940 But like just cutting out the meat for me all that time helped me actually lose that weight.

00:14:08.940 But also compared to Australia and here, your food here goes off so much quicker.

00:14:13.940 Which is a good thing.

00:14:14.940 Yeah.

00:14:15.940 And in Australia, it can be in my fridge for like two months, a month.

00:14:19.940 And it's still, I can still eat it.

00:14:21.940 Yeah.

00:14:22.940 It doesn't last more than three days here.

00:14:23.940 The best kind of food expires in like five days.

00:14:25.940 And after five days, you're like, oh.

00:14:27.940 Which is good.

00:14:28.940 Like I live in Japan.

00:14:29.940 Like the Japanese wives, they go to the grocery store every day. 1.00

00:14:32.940 Yeah.

00:14:33.940 Because it does go off quickly.

00:14:34.940 Yeah.

00:14:35.940 Do you know what?

00:14:36.940 The world is going to get fatter and fatter.

00:14:37.940 Shall I tell you why?

00:14:38.940 Why?

00:14:39.940 Because you know a lot of these vegan foods, these processed sausages and all that.

00:14:42.940 And they're saying it's vegan.

00:14:43.940 Oh, again.

00:14:44.940 You need to see what's actually in them.

00:14:45.940 They're the worst. 0.97

00:14:46.940 They're the worst. 0.99

00:14:47.940 Yeah.

00:14:48.940 They actually, they're not.

00:14:50.940 They're the market.

00:14:51.940 It's a never marketing thing.

00:14:52.940 It's another agenda.

00:14:53.940 Yeah.

00:14:54.940 Well, all this vegan food is still going to carry on the obesity-ness because what they're

00:15:00.940 putting in, it's not great.

00:15:02.940 And that's the truth.

00:15:03.940 And that's why I say anyone who wants to lose weight, since this is a plus size topic, 1.00

00:15:07.940 eat natural foods.

00:15:08.940 Agreed.

00:15:09.940 great your vegetable try and go as organic as you can and just think about green what's good what's

00:15:16.820 yeah what can you take from the earth that's been provided naturally and that's my advice

00:15:22.740 i would say walk i just wanted to say like when like we were going on the um topic of like front

00:15:29.300 of magazines and stuff like that the covers of magazines do you not also think that this whole

00:15:34.580 you know 10 perfect image can also have a detrimental effect mentally women because we 1.00

00:15:41.460 are going to strive to want to be that 10 so that's going to then create a whole that was

00:15:46.820 me you got it you got it yeah i have an answer i have an answer only if you're mentally weak 0.60

00:15:58.820 i want my self-esteem to be a little bit humbled and lowered when i look on the

00:16:04.340 covers i remember the days when i could pull the cover off and put it on my fridge

00:16:09.300 and she was my motivation yeah i liked those days that's a good thing right but it does

00:16:17.220 create more issues for those people who have the trauma well and i also think it's okay to be an

00:16:22.180 average chick like why do we live in this world where you need to be top 10 but there's a new 1.00

00:16:28.580 average if people are growing more corpulent and obesity is becoming the norm than the average

00:16:34.260 is actually changing and what i want lowered right well you would agree are you saying being

00:16:39.300 it's being changed i didn't say lowered or elevated because i think that's quite subjective we're

00:16:44.020 talking about beauty we're talking about health health i don't think is as subjective as

00:16:48.260 subjective men find genuine generally the same things attractive in what cultures and at what

00:16:53.860 time periods if we read up on it across cultures you could see that in history being on the heavier

00:16:59.140 side was actually a sign of being wealthy we've had so many people bring this up on the shows it's not

00:17:09.380 true not across the board yeah they what cultures is it not true it goes back to like mesopotamia

00:17:16.740 and are we talking about so when i say it was a sign of being wealthy or rich we're talking about people

00:17:23.140 not having enough money and therefore starving and being on the gaunter side of the spectrum right

00:17:28.740 versus people who are wealthy and obviously when you have money you're you know your discipline

00:17:33.140 decreases and so you're spending on food and you grow to be more corpulent and so what i'm trying to

00:17:38.740 say is like there there have been multiple time periods multiple cultures where they studied multiple 0.99

00:17:44.900 fertility gods and goddesses of sex and they all were the same they were big nice round butt 1.00

00:17:51.780 small hips big breasts yeah flat stomach okay young yes right and that's literally multiple time 0.99

00:17:58.980 periods over multiple cultures that couldn't even communicate with each other so you're talking about

00:18:02.260 asia africa you know the aztecs all of these europe they have all of these things and it's correlating

00:18:10.020 across all of these cultures during all these time periods so it's it is an objective marker and

00:18:16.980 then if you look at now too like despite this gigantic corporate push towards body positivity

00:18:24.820 dudes still like skinny hot girls big boobs okay and those same women who are the personification of 1.00

00:18:32.340 beauty for men how do we know that they are not equally unhealthy as someone who is perhaps my shape who

00:18:39.140 is a little bit on the on the rounder side and people might look at me and have health concerns that's a

00:18:43.700 good place like let's talk about the difference the disparity between how someone presents and what

00:18:49.700 is going on on the inside because this discussion it transcends health and beauty we're talking about

00:18:56.420 i'll give you two things one is a lot more common so the the obesity is much more common than anorexia

00:19:02.500 only like yeah i don't know the exact number but it's less than five percent of women are even underweight 1.00

00:19:07.300 so one is much more common um and the second thing is um morbidly obese people's life expectancy drops

00:19:14.980 so by by molt i don't i don't know the exact number off the top of my head so when you look at the

00:19:18.980 numbers of the people that are underweight and the people that are morbidly obese the people that are

00:19:22.660 morbidly obese have a lower life expectancy yeah like these these style models these plus size models 1.00

00:19:28.260 are starting to drop off there was this latina plus size model she was 37 years old she died from heart

00:19:33.620 heart attack and the number one reason people die in the world is due to circulatory issues

00:19:38.980 and once you're obese and you're consuming too much food your veins and everything they actually get

00:19:44.740 clogged up with excess amounts of fat when you're a skinny person that's just i mean biologically it's

00:19:50.500 impossible because you don't have an excess amount of fat so when you talk about markers of health

00:19:55.540 that's what i'm trying to say is like the larger girls that one marker of health in regards to 1.00

00:20:00.580 circulatory health is going to be lower compared to somebody who is thinner and we're talking about

00:20:06.500 that one specific marker of health well do you know do you know which uh which people live the

00:20:12.340 longest on the planet which hey isn't it isn't it mediterranean no it's japanese women oh no way japan 1.00

00:20:21.540 has the third lowest obesity rate in the world you know as a direct correlation to that so i tell you why

00:20:27.940 why why because they eat their own food and they ain't eating no processed foods they stuck to their

00:20:33.460 rice yeah they stuck to their steamed fish they stuck to all the natural foods that's why because they

00:20:40.500 kept it not they kept it good but with i think with the western food in general a lot of it is processed

00:20:48.820 that that is the issue a lot of it's all about money when it's quick yeah it's quick it's accessible

00:20:53.380 quick and easy accessible like when people sit around they they people sit around and they eat carbs

00:20:58.980 and they think like i'm just eating carbs like i'm because i feel hungry but they keep eating it and then

00:21:04.500 they wonder why they keep feeling hungry is because they're not getting satiated they're not getting

00:21:08.100 the vitamins they need they're not getting nutrients the micronutrients all these things so like i noticed

00:21:13.620 personally that when i switched to just eating two grass-fed grass-finished steaks a day like i would

00:21:19.460 be completely satiated but i mean when was last time you're eating potato chips you're like yeah i've

00:21:24.660 had enough potato chips let's talk about your cholesterol then you're not just slamming them down yeah let's

00:21:28.980 talk about your cholesterol because aren't there some schools of thought that say if you over index on

00:21:33.060 red meat that your cholesterol goes through the roof yes and butter no as well potentially i i actually had a

00:21:39.540 woman that only eats red meat yeah on the show and what her insides look good what did she look good 1.00

00:21:45.700 she looked great she had really um clear skin and all of her annual like um autoimmune issues

00:21:51.140 on a way like she had like a bunch of health problems and all went away but eating i don't know

00:21:55.140 it's sold down to the meat industry where does she get her meat we don't know she probably gets good meat 1.00

00:21:59.620 and if she has a heart attack tomorrow what do we what do we say to that then it probably didn't work 0.81

00:22:03.460 like but but so far she hasn't had a heart attack so far so far but then there are loads of uh sort of

00:22:08.900 plus size people myself include i haven't had a heart attack yet and i'm i'm like my bmi is terrible

00:22:14.260 i haven't had a heart attack and i can still stand for an hour you're only you're only you're only 24

00:22:19.300 though it's like i've talked to people like your size roughly and they they'll say like after like 30

00:22:23.940 that's when they really start to get healthy yes girl it really comes in like honestly as soon as you hit

00:22:29.460 30 i'm telling you i i wish i prepared personally so my advice is before you reach 30 just start

00:22:37.860 stretching stretching is one thing i wish i did more of and now i'm learning the lesson in the

00:22:43.620 hard way but now that i've got myself into practice it's just so much easier about stretching i just

00:22:48.740 think too as a culture people like just eat too much in general people eat when they're i mean did you

00:22:54.420 guys eat when you were bored yes yeah i would eat for fun all the time i'd be sitting at home and

00:23:00.820 i'd be like oh i'm bored let me just go to the pantry and find something oh there's nothing there

00:23:04.820 oh let me okay what else can i do i looked at the health effects of being over obese and then it's

00:23:10.100 at all causes of death so it's like high blood pressure high high cholesterol low cholesterol type 2

00:23:16.820 diabetes coronary heart disease stroke strokes gallbladder um osteoarthritis sleep apnea low

00:23:24.020 quality of mental illness such as clinical depression anxiety and other mental disorders

00:23:29.060 body pain and so it's like i just think it's like we wouldn't put someone that like that's a

00:23:34.820 my cousin he was a heroin addict and i we wouldn't put heroin addicts on the covers of magazines but

00:23:40.020 more people are kill or die from obesity related yeah causes you know how many people die from obesity

00:23:45.700 every day 1400 people die every day you know how many people died in september 11th how many just 500 no

00:23:53.460 9 000 just over 3 000 i don't know i just guess you know so you're having like i was on brian

00:23:58.340 and carter's show and he was telling me this so he says like every three days you're having a september

00:24:02.260 11th in modern life so you know it like yeah i think it's just it's because nobody wants to be called

00:24:10.420 fat nobody wants to be told you're ugly nobody wants to be sexually unattractive men or women we all

00:24:17.460 want to be hot we all want to be sexy yeah yeah you know we want to be good looking it doesn't that

00:24:23.140 never leaves you and so when you're confronted with an uncomfortable reality most people and it's

00:24:30.420 sad to say but most people can't handle the truth yeah and so they choose a nice little lie that makes

00:24:37.700 them feel better and that's why oprah has money that's why the view has money that's why dr ross has money

00:24:42.340 that's why dr phil has money sit down down and lie to women come on down you know and sometimes it's

00:24:48.100 like i think harsh truths that time can make you make life changes yeah like like i i was i was pretty

00:24:54.180 heavy at one point and what made me like 200 club yeah what was your weight um what was the highest that

00:25:00.820 uh like like 210 maybe 215. that would be a dream for me is that pounds or what pounds i don't know what that is

00:25:09.220 like 90 92 93 kilos i saw a picture of myself no that was partially well i'll tell you natalie that happened

00:25:16.660 to me i'll tell you i'll show you the picture i'll tell you i'll tell you i'll tell you i played i played volleyball

00:25:22.980 my whole life so i was training like five hours a day from the time i was like i don't know 10 years old

00:25:28.660 so i was just an athlete and when i stopped playing my eating habits were horrible like

00:25:33.540 absolutely horrible so i gained weight like really really fast because i just couldn't burn off all

00:25:37.940 the calories i was burning before and i was working a sales job and there was a guy i had a crush on at

00:25:42.660 work i had the biggest crush on this guy's and i heard i heard him laughing with um the other guys at

00:25:49.220 work saying oh like the the one guy was like oh i'm like 190 or something and he's like you can't be that

00:25:54.980 big that's so that's so heavy i would never like and then they were talking about girls and they're

00:25:59.140 like i would never date a girl over 200 and i was like they didn't think i was that big because i'm

00:26:04.340 tall so i carry it a bit better yeah but really but that but that harsh truth like i lost a bunch of

00:26:09.300 weight after that and i've kept it off ever since yeah so you know sometimes you need that kick don't

00:26:14.980 you just to make you realize yeah and like you know it might have been harsh at first but it was true

00:26:19.380 yeah if we're talking about self-esteem doesn't you mentioned being weak-minded earlier hearing

00:26:24.500 your crush or people that you might fancy and and realizing that your type doesn't like you back

00:26:29.860 does that not make you weak-minded then if self-esteem is really in self and you're hearing

00:26:34.340 people you find desirable talk about you in an undesirable way and you're saying that made you

00:26:38.820 change even though the change was for the positive let's say does that not make you weak of mind

00:26:43.620 because no i think it makes me strong because i made me do something strong i ran a marathon

00:26:48.580 because i was like you know if those are the type of guys i want to date this is what they want

00:26:52.660 and the difference is women have never heard what men want but men always change to try to get us like

00:26:57.460 they try to make more money they try to get better shade steroids they learn how to talk to women 0.92

00:27:06.260 and it's like we have never heard what men want like ever because the media is constantly telling us

00:27:12.340 what we want to hear so no i i don't think it makes me a weak person i think i could have it would

00:27:17.700 have been weak to go and cry but i went and did something about it yeah yeah but taking on

00:27:21.860 someone's opinion and letting that influence your lifestyle and your actions is not weak i i don't

00:27:28.180 think it's a bad thing to be maybe it's not an opinion i mean i mean it's a it's a fact yeah i think i

00:27:33.140 think that because then you you kind of fall into the school of thoughts like you know because like

00:27:37.380 if you're getting fired from job after job after job you're like well these people have a poor opinion

00:27:41.780 of me like but that's what can i just say something that's what that's what's wrong with

00:27:47.780 the world people care too much yeah yeah and and and i think people don't care enough i think people

00:27:52.660 don't care enough has an effect like you said earlier but i think you you like i think we should

00:27:56.580 care about outcomes especially as women because it's like if we don't in our 20s and like early 30s

00:28:02.340 get our together like we don't get to have children but power and so it's like like one obesity

00:28:07.620 effects effects if you get to have kids and two it affects the type of husband you you get because

00:28:12.420 geriatric pregnancy starts at 35. don't don't ever assume big people can't they're honestly big people

00:28:19.460 likely to conceive as a big guy i'm not even gonna i feel ugly most of my life but when i went knightsbridge

00:28:25.780 i'm not gonna i learned the power of being big all these people from uae they'll be beeping the car

00:28:32.820 so they'd be saying hello there's numbers on this at least for women i i don't research it as much for 0.99

00:28:38.500 men but like i research it more for women like men that don't make as much money tend to date bigger

00:28:43.860 but like it's really yeah yeah because they get free food probably and they get hugs and cuddles

00:28:50.340 no because i mean what what guy with money power and status married a big girl someone who has a 1.00

00:28:57.220 preference yeah i'm saying i'm saying nobody the guys that have all the options nobody does it just

00:29:04.020 like a beautiful woman is never going to pick a broke man in the same way so the most the top 10 15 0.92

00:29:10.420 no no it's not agree it's like if we look at the men that have everything the most desired men in society

00:29:15.620 they don't typically pick big girls the same way the most desired women in society don't typically pick 1.00

00:29:21.220 broke man yeah just like i've actually got my own pam pam disagrees i want to hear what because it's it

00:29:26.980 falls down to to your preference what you actually like so if you know yourself and you know what you

00:29:34.020 like whether that person has money or not it wouldn't even matter yeah just like it from from women to 1.00

00:29:38.740 men or men what are you talking from women's like from my from women to men to men so if you don't

00:29:44.100 have any money or you need a bit of help but i like you anyway i'm gonna like you for who you are

00:29:48.020 yeah i've got a theory by the way guys can i share my theory data it just doesn't like it's really

00:29:53.460 nice when we could say this and maybe that applies to you but at large it just doesn't like women when 1.00

00:29:58.180 women get a promotion at work they're more likely to divorce their husband when women out earn their 1.00

00:30:02.660 man that's really why i think that people are crazy i think the world's gone mad my theory is okay people

00:30:09.700 who have come up to me like a lot of people have come up to me and i don't know why once i asked one of

00:30:16.420 them how long were you breastfed for four and they replied saying oh a bit older and i realized

00:30:23.060 everyone that likes big people yeah they've been breastfed for long and or their mom or they are

00:30:30.900 they had a big auntie or a big mom so and they used to like that sort of feeling so as an older adult

00:30:37.940 that's what they seek and that's the truth that means unfortunately it's a cycle i don't know if it's

00:30:42.260 also unfortunate but it is a cycle i mean fat fat fat people raise fat children because they pass

00:30:48.340 you you pass your ways on you know but sometimes the parents ain't that's why rich people typically

00:30:53.860 their children are also rich because they pass on the knowledge of being but sometimes i know families

00:30:59.780 i know families where the parents are like twigs and the kids are like monsters i literally and

00:31:04.740 i don't mean that in a bad way but compared to the parents this whole physical look again this is

00:31:12.180 an open invite look at anybody that thinks they cannot lose weight for whatever reason it's impossible

00:31:18.340 look at i'll pay for it come come to london come on down

00:31:24.660 you need to be careful what you say because there might be a lot of big people that start messaging you

00:31:28.660 okay okay first first two first two yeah not unlimited you know can i say something there yeah

00:31:39.460 yeah um i just wanted to um touch on the point of food the reality is it doesn't really matter what

00:31:47.380 you eat processed foods healthy foods the reality is the science is clear if you eat more calories than

00:31:54.820 your body can can convert to energy you're gonna get fat yeah that's irrefutable that's not i don't

00:32:01.060 believe in that i'll tell you why i mean it look it looks like he doesn't believe in that though

00:32:05.380 it's true i'll give you my anecdotal experience agreed for the most part of my life i have i have

00:32:09.940 been eating unhealthy like i don't eat healthy the only times i really ate healthy was when i was young

00:32:15.380 but for most of my adult years i don't have time to cook i don't have time to do all of that but i eat once a

00:32:20.900 day and i exercise so it's the science is clear i don't know if anyone here is repeating the science

00:32:28.020 does anyone here disagree that the more calories you consume and you don't exercise yeah we all agree

00:32:35.300 said he disagreed okay you can't put calories on a leaf you can't put calories on spinach you can't do

00:32:44.020 that you see you just eat it goes from the ground that's when i think with all this calorie counting

00:32:50.020 and stuff like that how do you actually calorie count a carrot because each carrot is different

00:32:57.860 and also did you know calories did you know you know you weigh the food you know food calories when

00:33:03.780 they say on the label like whatever calories it is did you know each person consumed in their

00:33:09.940 body when they consume food the calories change and it's different for each person it then boils down

00:33:14.580 to your metabolism yeah yeah pretty much but you can do a metabolism test like my whole point is this

00:33:19.940 is all we can all fit like this is something that can be fixed it can be changed and then and that's

00:33:24.580 the great thing about like women most of the things that men want can be fixed like men want fit

00:33:30.100 feminine friendly women those are all things that can be fixed we're faithful yeah good good good

00:33:36.420 good good good trust them right but on the other hand it's like men they can't make themselves taller

00:33:42.900 no but they don't complain near as much as we do about men's preferences we are we can we are our own

00:33:49.940 worst enemy to be fair yeah um and cancelled a woman speaking the truth banned and then we try to as a

00:34:00.100 woman we try to look for a solution and sometimes that solution um i mean my job is i take women 1.00

00:34:06.260 for surgery i take them to turkey i take them to the dominican republic um they they come to me we

00:34:11.620 sit down we look at the mental health issues surrounding that um and then i provide them with

00:34:16.340 their post-operative care so so i see yeah genius it's amazing it's amazing i've recently been shut down

00:34:22.340 by instagram myself as well so i know what that's like but um but but we have a generation now of women 1.00

00:34:29.140 today who um they're they're they're using some of them not all are using surgery as a as a as a

00:34:36.820 way as a way to lose weight as a quick fix and they're not getting healthy um and you've got clinics

00:34:43.460 now um that are easily accessible the price is now great and and they're going for surgery and they're

00:34:49.380 having these surgeries and they're coming home and they're coming home with issues yeah so so i've been

00:34:54.900 dedicated and i've and i have a passion for making sure that that women are are fully informed um as

00:35:01.860 to what they are doing why they are doing that and to understand the processes that happen afterwards

00:35:07.380 yeah but we have a problem we have a real real issue especially here in the uk um where women are 1.00

00:35:14.340 dying yeah because of it yeah kanye west's mother she went to get plastic surgery died you know but

00:35:22.420 and there's you know because um after i got so for men do you know what happens to men after you 0.99

00:35:27.060 get liposuction no tell me so so your penis swells up wait wait hang on a second that happens to the 0.99

00:35:35.700 vagina does it happen wow i'm learning something today guys no no because here's the thing the the the 1.00

00:35:48.020 all the fluids and everything gravity dry you know it it drops down there yeah but i guarantee 0.99

00:35:55.060 your vagina didn't look like a huge purple eggplant my vagina was purple blue it was huge and nobody 1.00

00:36:02.340 told me about me either me either i had surgery five years ago you could see it in my documentary 0.99

00:36:07.380 i'll link you i will link you yeah i was i couldn't believe it it was huge no you know you know

00:36:16.580 i don't know who's as big of yours or mine's but believe me when i saw mine i said this this is not 0.98

00:36:22.580 normal no mine mine was like my so my testicles and my my balls swole up i'm not even joking to the 0.98

00:36:29.220 size of like a like an overly like a super gm as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock 0.97

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JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023

This 21tons Guy Gets ROASTED For Giving Excuses On While He's OBSESSED

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