JustPearlyThings - June 29, 2023


This Amount Of DELUSION Is OUTRAGEOUS


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34 minutes

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6,940

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In this episode, we have a special guest on the show, a transgender Muslim woman who has been a part of the LGBTQ+ community for a long time. We discuss a variety of topics such as gender dysphoria, being transgender in the Muslim community, and the importance of living your truth in order to live your truth.

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00:00:00.000 next question is oh yeah go ahead go ahead okay so um i have a question if if our bones are dug up
00:00:08.640 2 000 years from now what gender would you be identified with and if the answer is binary
00:00:14.720 why should we make laws to accommodate you cannot accurately tell can i can i can i
00:00:21.920 it's not accurate 100 of the time there's like a 30 40 deviance already okay male and female
00:00:29.120 have different um pelvic structures because that's right that's right okay so it's not
00:00:35.840 right you should actually google and do some research onto this because you're just completely
00:00:40.240 wrong and should read some books on archaeology why is he wrong because you can't always tell
00:00:44.480 that easily there are women with smaller hips but you're arguing you're arguing for exceptions 1.00
00:00:49.760 rather no this is not an exception i know the okay so what i'm gonna say to you if i can answer your
00:00:54.720 question yeah it's not a surefire honestly yeah like if your if your bones are dug up
00:01:00.480 you're probably going to be classified by your gender but in my opinion yeah all that matters is
00:01:06.080 the quality of life when you're here yeah there's people that are miserable yeah there's people that
00:01:11.200 kill themselves they're depressed they don't want to live their truth there's people like yourself
00:01:15.520 they're not scared to make their opinions knowing how much they're going to be hated you know i think
00:01:21.920 people need to be celebrated people that live their truth no matter how much they're going to be
00:01:27.120 knocked and torn down they need to be celebrated because it's not easy and when i die when i'm dead
00:01:33.520 i'm going to well i don't know what happens but let's say there's an afterlife i'm going to tell you
00:01:38.640 i'm going to say you know what i've done my best here on earth i've done my best monologues when he's
00:01:43.520 asking you're not answering his questions but that's even a good point i've answered your question
00:01:47.840 problem with what you just said the reality is there is a there is almost like a facade behind
00:01:54.720 this whole transgender thing changing your gender with surgeries doesn't necessarily guarantee you a
00:01:59.760 better life in fact if you look at the statistics more people suffer after surgeries than before so
00:02:07.120 it's not like you they make it seem like when you change your gender then you automatically accept
00:02:11.120 yourself and then you're going to be comfortable with your skin in fact you actually especially for the
00:02:15.760 male to female transition you you probably have a worse life expectancy afterwards i honestly
00:02:22.640 haven't done any research about transgender people all i all i have is my own personal experiences
00:02:28.720 i can't even say i've got many uh any friends yeah um that are transgender actually yeah so like
00:02:34.240 honestly all i can go on is my own personal experience but you know i just think that quality
00:02:39.040 of life is so important we're only here for a certain amount of time and i just think it's really
00:02:42.880 important for everyone to just be happy in whatever way that means obviously you can't be like you know
00:02:48.320 doing like killing people just because it makes you happy but i think changing your body and your 0.86
00:02:52.640 physique things that are personal to yourself i don't think why it should be seen as such a big problem
00:02:57.280 some people are going to regret it right what what what if i want to be black what if should i do that it
00:03:02.160 makes me happy i should paint my skin i mean white people sometimes they go on you know sunbeds they 1.00
00:03:07.120 use sun cream i'm asking me should i do that if it makes you yes go ahead but i can i just answer
00:03:13.520 your question so when i die and my bones are like in the ground and whatnot i know that i'm gonna be
00:03:20.800 my bones are gonna come out as a woman because i identify as a woman and a woman only that's not how
00:03:25.760 that works i don't identify as anything else that's my answer i'm the only one that has ever
00:03:31.760 read into this is clear there is a certain amount of deviance we just we don't know we don't care
00:03:36.240 all right you don't care there is we don't we don't care all right go ahead it's pretty straightforward
00:03:40.880 you know there's like a pelvic difference between a man that isn't consistent and look you can look
00:03:46.080 making assumptions and i actually know it's the fact that you're going off on exceptions when
00:03:50.960 no this is literally it's like deviance is not an exception that's a fair amount what's the majority
00:03:56.240 60 okay no no that 30 no that's 30 that's not your show okay thank you go ahead she you've talked a
00:04:06.720 lot let her talk i don't know i don't know i don't know where to go from like you know but um i had one
00:04:15.840 question um it was for tas so um when you mentioned how um so you mentioned you're muslim
00:04:23.360 has being transgender like is it like a challenge for you like to be muslim and transgender at the
00:04:30.160 same time has it been it's not a challenge for me not so like say for example so um do you visit
00:04:36.720 like the mosque like i go to an inclusive mosque or i'll just pray at home okay fine um so like you
00:04:43.360 don't feel any sort of you know like going into a mosque any type of discomfort like if if if now
00:04:52.160 i decided to go to a mosque like i wouldn't go to the masjid that i went to when i was younger
00:04:57.440 but partly i didn't feel comfortable in that masjid anyway because i was in the women's section and i
00:05:02.160 felt like i was being disrespectful to to to the cis women in there knowing that i like and this is 0.96
00:05:08.240 before i even really like had the term for it like i just didn't feel comfortable i feel like i was
00:05:12.720 being disrespectful to them was it like in your like you're very um very much i am a man and i just
00:05:19.200 feel disrespectful by even being around all these women it's not even that i am a man it's just that 0.99
00:05:24.320 i am not wholly who and what they are okay like i feel like if if you take it from the point of view
00:05:31.120 yeah that for example the women women who cover their hair in masjid quite often have decided that
00:05:38.080 that is for them and the hijab or the niqab is for them yeah they will only take off their hijab or 0.95
00:05:45.760 niqab if they are around male family members of the immediate family yeah right now i don't feel
00:05:54.160 wholly female i don't feel wholly male i felt like i was being disrespectful because i was seeing hair
00:06:01.840 that was not meant for me not meant for my eyes yeah only meant for the eyes of sisters or their
00:06:08.480 immediate male family members but do you not think that you know obviously if if god made you female
00:06:15.920 does like because i don't think personally like speaking i don't think god makes any mistakes
00:06:20.720 i don't think god makes mistakes either i fully agree with that i believe in like with spirituality
00:06:27.040 sometimes i believe in like you know past lives past life karma also believe in you know lessons that
00:06:33.120 we our spirit has to go through and soul lessons and things like that so sometimes i wonder to myself
00:06:38.640 you know why you know i always like i said to you was a boy i always knew i was a little boy so sometimes
00:06:48.160 as an adult now i think to myself what type of past life karma am i paying off while i was born in a
00:06:52.800 female body this time you know so we all believe in different things so i actually have a question
00:06:58.240 that kind of goes off of that a little bit you always believed you're a boy do you think that social
00:07:03.120 media can ever brainwash kids into thinking that they're trans yeah yeah i think social media is 1.00
00:07:09.040 extremely powerful and i think that it can brainwash anyone to do a lot of things maybe so you would
00:07:15.120 agree yeah what about you sure i think yeah occultist attitudes can exist anywhere i don't know if
00:07:20.800 transgender people are the biggest issue but it can happen i can see i can imagine it happening okay 1.00
00:07:25.360 what do you think i feel like anyone like anyone anyone vulnerable enough to anything can be swayed to
00:07:32.640 anything i think social media especially for young people can can sway sway young people to do a lot
00:07:38.400 like there's there's a like i remember the happy slapping generation of our time yeah that says it
00:07:44.720 all like you've got kids out there that you know they were raised right they know they're not supposed
00:07:49.520 to put their hands on anyone they know that they're supposed to you know do this be right for each other
00:07:54.000 you know you've got your 10 commandments this is christian country and you were taught them from young
00:07:58.160 yeah but then suddenly they've got a camera phone in there out here slapping god knows who on the bus or
00:08:03.440 like walking past some random unknown person slapping them social media kind of can can cause
00:08:08.640 so many things it can tell someone you know it can it can sway someone or make someone think that
00:08:13.520 something is okay when it's not most definitely okay most definitely so this was that we all agreed
00:08:18.720 yeah do you do you guys think the trans movement is indoctrinating our youth no no i just think it's
00:08:25.680 spreading awareness and i think it's just making it more you know it's good to talk about why do we need to
00:08:31.440 spread awareness like why do kids need to know about this stuff you know to stop prejudice i think
00:08:36.400 leave the kids out of it and maybe focus on the teenagers instead yeah the teenagers you know if
00:08:41.440 you guys kids are just so young their minds are sponges anything they they could not they could be
00:08:48.800 raised as like you know their particular genders right and then they have a talk at school like you
00:08:53.920 know how we had the sex talk at school and then they have a trans talk right which could confuse the
00:08:59.600 kids and make them feel like they're something when they're not if that makes sense i don't think
00:09:04.320 it's necessary do you mean like 13 and above or yeah so teenage years so like when they're i just
00:09:09.360 think it should come to i think they should i would say 18. um do you not think that um i know that for
00:09:16.480 an example so my little brother he's 11 and in his school they're promoting it i say promoting because
00:09:22.560 they are pushing it onto children and my parents didn't even know that it was happening so when he
00:09:29.520 came home with this ideology and this other like he's talking about things we've never even imagined
00:09:35.280 him to be talking about it's like but he never even thought he was going to be a girl or he wanted to be
00:09:41.040 a girl anyway but he's bringing it up when it's he i think it should only be a thing where it's like
00:09:48.160 okay 18 like past 18 we stop you know spreading awareness whatever you say past 18 but the
00:09:55.920 the age restriction on facebook is like 14 so and they can end up seeing stuff on facebook yeah you
00:10:02.320 can do an age-appropriate way yeah yeah you can do it i think i don't think we need to tell them at all
00:10:07.840 i think it should be something that you should discover it because if you truly are it you will
00:10:12.080 discover it there is no need for it to be promoted because if you're promoting it i think we should
00:10:15.920 hide it i don't think it's like can i say something i feel like we need to create awareness you guys are
00:10:22.000 right about awareness because till today i did not know as much as i know now about the trans movement
00:10:29.280 and just transgender people in general like it's not something that is discussed in like secondary
00:10:34.800 school or college or it's just kind of pushed past and it comes up in the news every now and then but
00:10:40.640 it's not something that we actually understand and know about if that makes sense where would you
00:10:45.600 to draw the line between some awareness and what is like promotion where what what is okay and what
00:10:51.040 is like too much too much is basically handing out forms saying would you like to trans just transition
00:11:00.240 from being a man to a woman that is a bit too much i think awareness is just saying hey these kind of 0.92
00:11:07.040 people exist yeah they're in our world yeah this is how they some of them might go through certain
00:11:13.520 situations that might be a very emotional journey for them but this is what they what is i think that's
00:11:18.720 perfect i think i think that's a conversation for the parents if they want to have it i think no
00:11:23.440 institution should be pushing that at all but you know what you know what i think would also be good
00:11:27.760 in school life skills yeah money management there's a lot of things that like curriculum that we don't
00:11:33.040 agree with like in our age group as well 34 year olds or whatever and older our curriculum is like
00:11:38.240 in you know with religious studies and well history history is all like a certain narrative that has
00:11:43.920 been pushed for us you know history more of a lack of like things your your parents used to teach you
00:11:48.720 but now it's like the average kid spends 30 minutes a day with their parents so your parents used to i
00:11:53.920 mean we have a whole generation of people that don't know how to do anything like really you know
00:11:58.800 seriously like what percent of guys can like build a house what percent of women have a cookbook i can
00:12:03.840 cook i can sew i know we're not talking about you we're talking about in general but i i think we
00:12:07.760 should promote those things i mean when i was at school they still did america instead like yeah
00:12:14.000 i'm not saying that's a bad thing like finally could promote it in school but my whole point i think
00:12:18.160 with the trans stuff like i just think that's if the parents want to talk to their kids about that
00:12:22.800 that's something for the parents but no because some parents sorry to cut you but some parents yeah really don't
00:12:28.000 give their kids knowledge like some parents they don't do their homework they're right
00:12:35.920 but why if i grew up in a christian or catholic household or muslim household like why should
00:12:40.240 we be forced to learn about something because there's a real world outside your household and
00:12:43.760 there's a lot of things that we can learn about but we don't have to learn about everything because
00:12:47.520 it's a big so so but now it's like now you're saying you should raise your kids the way that i think
00:12:52.080 you should no i'm not saying that you are because what i'm saying is that there's certain things yeah
00:12:57.760 look not every family is the brady bunch not every parent is gold star and gives all their you
00:13:03.280 know their children all the information there are some parents that neglect their kids don't give the
00:13:08.160 kids the appropriate teachings and rely just on the school you're acting like trans like not teaching 0.99
00:13:13.200 them trans is somehow neglecting them i was never i was never taught that that's not sorry that's not
00:13:17.600 what i'm saying let me rephrase what i'm trying to say is in as a whole you do have some parents that
00:13:22.320 neglect their children from you know uh knowledge yeah knowledge that's out here in the world that
00:13:27.520 that will prepare them for the world when it comes to trance wouldn't you agree that there's nothing
00:13:31.280 wrong with a parent not teaching them no no if a parent doesn't want to then that's fine but it
00:13:35.360 would just make their child ignorant and then it would make their child go out into the world and
00:13:39.120 not know about these things institutions should not push this i think they should push it because it's
00:13:44.080 something that is going on in the world okay so that then that goes back to indoctrinating the kids like
00:13:49.520 this is where you have to understand this is where the conservatives i think it should come in right
00:13:53.120 but i don't think it should be pushed i think it should be just awareness that's pushing it on the
00:13:57.360 kids because you're i'm just going to tell you where we're coming from because a lot of times the trans 1.00
00:14:02.640 people will say we're not pushing it on the kids but if i'm in if i'm in a christian or conservative or
00:14:07.440 muslim household like we don't agree with that like we think that's wrong yeah and we we don't think 1.00
00:14:12.720 we should have to teach our kids about that we want to keep the kids innocent 100 okay but and that doesn't
00:14:17.840 take away the innocence by giving someone knowledge i would i would say it does i would say it doesn't
00:14:22.400 it doesn't it doesn't it's very confusing i have i have younger siblings right and trying to explain
00:14:27.760 to them that you can be a woman i have younger brothers right you can be a woman it'd be very
00:14:34.640 confusing to be about how what how do you do that how does that work what do you take do they feed you
00:14:40.160 drugs it's fine just answer the questions you can't talk about that because you know there's
00:14:47.120 lots of things that over complicated things yeah it's just it's like it's like you're happy to talk
00:14:51.040 about certain things but how do you explain to your child who's asking that question how do you explain
00:14:55.200 well you go to a doctor you pay a certain amount of money and then you get your genitalia changed
00:15:01.040 all you do is say look sometimes i've done it i've got good kids i've got good kids i've got younger
00:15:05.760 cousins got nieces and nephews yeah and they obviously know me they know so it's a little
00:15:11.120 bit maybe biased to use myself as an example because they could obviously see and be like okay
00:15:15.120 yeah it makes sense but you know for kids that don't have the example right in front of them it's
00:15:19.840 really simple you just say um you know this person didn't feel comfortable being a boy and they wanted
00:15:24.400 to be a girl kids are so understanding they're not like adults they're so they're so understanding they
00:15:30.320 might pick on other kids but you know at the end of the day it's all just for fun they don't realize
00:15:37.600 this is where we're coming from though when we're saying it's indoctrinating the children
00:15:41.520 because again you like the way you feel like you feel like this knowledge should be spread so you
00:15:46.560 think that school should teach it where the christians in school should teach you earlier you might have
00:15:53.920 changed your opinion but you didn't say that earlier i'm not changing my opinion i'm just putting words
00:15:57.360 in my mouth all i'm saying is i don't i'm not against it being taught in schools i'm not for it
00:16:01.600 but i don't see why it's an issue for it to be i would say it's an issue because again it's
00:16:07.520 normalizing something that we don't want to be normalized because we don't agree with it and also
00:16:12.320 he made a point he made a point he said um he said um there are some parents that don't give their
00:16:20.320 children knowledge and that's a very good point so if there are parents that that exist like that i don't
00:16:25.360 give their children knowledge how is giving them trans knowledge going to help their situation
00:16:29.840 anyways i think you know more confusing no i think all it does is it just it just gives people yeah
00:16:35.680 an option an opportunity sorry to deal with these type of situations appropriately when they're
00:16:41.200 confronted with it but if the person already missed out on all the knowledge as important
00:16:45.840 to be a good person in the first place how is having trans going to be any better in making them 1.00
00:16:52.000 whoever you want you know what it's not about being a good person because someone can still
00:16:56.240 have all of the knowledge about what a transgender person is what it means and still and still be
00:17:00.640 disrespectful still think it's rubbish still think is so having the knowledge on the subject it doesn't
00:17:05.680 make make you a good or bad person but knowledge is always beneficial there's nothing wrong with
00:17:09.520 having knowledge okay so should we should we should children have knowledge on how to build warheads and
00:17:14.400 how to build no because that's a negative thing that's a that's not exactly the best example
00:17:22.240 parents think that the transgender ideology is detrimental to their children and how they want 0.72
00:17:27.120 them to be raised that's the point i think you know when we're talking about human beings and what
00:17:31.600 human beings are are doing with themselves in terms of how they feel about themselves sexuality
00:17:37.840 whether they like to marry inside of their religion outside of their religion you've got to think
00:17:41.280 about all of the people that have had to face difficulties marrying outside of their religion
00:17:45.280 and it's all a form of prejudice and this is what i'm trying to say when i use race and these things
00:17:49.600 as an example i understand it's a social construct opposed to like a physical thing but it's still
00:17:54.560 prejudice all right wouldn't you say your prejudice prejudice against religious people because you
00:17:59.120 think we're brainwashed no no no like that's the thing the left does the same exact thing they just do
00:18:03.680 it to the conservatives no no no and the religious people can i say something yeah you can wait can i just
00:18:08.720 answer your thing one second put a pin on it i'm not prejudiced i used to be religious yeah um i used
00:18:14.800 to i used to uh classify myself as christian i went to a christian church with my jamaican grandparents
00:18:20.800 and i was so for so long searching for purpose searching for a higher purpose because i knew that
00:18:26.240 there was more to this life than just me and my human form but in my in my search for black history
00:18:34.160 um christianity just didn't it black history and christianity doesn't match yeah there's conflict
00:18:42.960 and so that's the reason why i'm not a christian because uh as black people and that's i'm mixed
00:18:49.440 race but you know i identify as mixed race but more so black than anything else um we we we we these
00:18:57.440 these type of things you know like in terms of like christianity and islam has been put upon us
00:19:02.240 like christianity started in africa though yeah uh it didn't bro i'm from nigeria christian side in
00:19:08.960 africa i started in utopia and i didn't yeah it really did it really did it really did Jerusalem
00:19:17.840 no christianity started in africa yeah go on the the the religions that in africa predate christianity
00:19:25.120 and predate islam yeah but it started in africa it may have been there but africa's a continent
00:19:31.360 that's been around for obviously a very long time a real fast question if we're making the basis of
00:19:38.320 religion our argument are you against schools teaching science because that directly contradicts
00:19:44.000 religion obviously not right no one here is against science science complements religion evolution
00:19:49.520 science against adam and eve literally it's only idiots that argue that science and like it's the 0.88
00:19:55.120 reality is science actually most of the things that are proven in science if you look in the bible
00:19:59.440 it's almost the same thing they just they just argue on semantics adam and eve directly contradicts
00:20:04.160 evolution even even if it contradicts you know honestly i think the parents have the right to
00:20:10.000 have their kids have whatever knowledge they want i think the parents will always have the best
00:20:14.000 interest of the child at heart if you're good i would say there is there is nobody that has a more
00:20:21.040 incentive for the kid to turn out good than the parents even shitty parents want their kid to turn
00:20:25.920 out good even even shitty parents it's more like what they consider good right but but the parents are
00:20:32.720 always going to do more for the kid than a stranger so you're saying oh the strangers which is the school
00:20:39.200 is going to do better knows best for my kid when every kid is different and no person has more 1.00
00:20:44.960 information on the children than the parents like i'll give you an example like one thing they always
00:20:49.280 push is sex ed in schools right and i've always always always said anti-sex ed i think it's weird i
00:20:54.640 think it's gross i don't know why they're talking about that to kids but and the reason i say that is
00:20:59.440 because different kids need that conversation at different points like i i have i can think of two two
00:21:05.360 friends i had growing up one one one would have needed that conversation at like 12 you know what
00:21:09.600 i mean and the other was so innocent like she would she wouldn't even need it till 20 and so but the the
00:21:15.040 parents always have the most information and know their kid the best so you know maybe the parent would
00:21:22.000 think that one kid would need to know the trans stuff the evolution whatever it is but i think at the
00:21:27.920 end of the day the parents have a right to pick what information their kids get and i don't think
00:21:32.800 science is that sec curriculum i don't know if you can even opt out but you can you can homeschool
00:21:38.400 your kids again i think the parents have the right to raise their kids how they want i don't think the
00:21:42.960 state had like should have more power on raising the kids than the parents i think in this day and age 1.00
00:21:48.720 as well i think um lgbtq and like transgender like it is so like it will come up anyway in the household
00:21:57.200 or between the parent and the child it doesn't need to be promoted in school because
00:22:01.040 it is so easy for a parent to take their child out take them outside and the child will just
00:22:06.480 naturally be confused they'll be curious and there will be there are people at different stages within
00:22:11.600 their transitioning journey and the child might be like oh well dad um you know why is a man wearing 0.67
00:22:18.480 a skirt or you know why is he wearing a wig or the child will ask the parent and then it's the parent's
00:22:23.760 job to then see if the child is young or young enough or old enough to you know know like they
00:22:30.960 need to know about it or not like it's not it doesn't need to be promoted in schools i think it's
00:22:35.200 ridiculous i guess so it's the word it's the word promotion it's the word promotion because it is
00:22:41.200 promotion it's not a promotion it's not a promotion it's not a campaign because the way they're
00:22:43.920 imposing it on children it's promotion is what we're doing now a promotion because some people
00:22:48.240 would classify this air time no i would say i would say because you choose to to watch my channel or you
00:22:54.080 don't but with the school they don't get a choice so so if the teachers are talking about trans i would 0.51
00:23:00.960 say the same thing with with gay i would say the same thing with anything that you know religious people
00:23:05.920 or a certain group might disagree with if if if the if they are talking about it then there is no
00:23:11.600 choice and you know what that's fine because there's a lot of things in schools that you don't
00:23:16.240 want to learn about that's why when you get to a certain point in your school time you get to pick
00:23:20.080 subjects but sometimes that's not comparable that's not it no because why is that not it because it's the
00:23:25.360 same thing as learning as learning sex sexual education in school because it all leads to sex and 0.99
00:23:30.560 you know the child is too young to know anything about okay so whatever age they do
00:23:35.520 no i just think we should take sex out of schools like why get get rid of the sex ed get rid of 1.00
00:23:42.400 all of it like i don't want to i don't want i don't want the trans stuff i don't want the gay stuff 0.99
00:23:47.120 i kind of disagree with because we need that in schools i i disagree with that because but see
00:23:53.120 the issue is we look at outcomes like it's always like the idea of it but never outcomes because i at
00:23:57.760 one point i used to think maybe sex ed would be a good thing but but the thing is people are more
00:24:02.080 promiscuous after sex said than before because it was implemented in around the 70s
00:24:11.600 we could look at body count we could look at abortions we could like again people are more
00:24:16.000 promiscuous now than they were 50 years ago i don't think that's controversial but the thing is like
00:24:22.560 about kids getting pregnant it's just nonsense it's like it's like it's general now like it's very common 0.65
00:24:29.680 and it shouldn't be common because it's a very sacred thing i think it's so sacred i think the
00:24:34.240 things sorry glenn it's just i just think it just shouldn't be accessible like that well all of these
00:24:40.640 kids have the internet they're going to find out like a level of the world go to their parents and
00:24:44.400 ask their parents about it and their parents will word it in a way that isn't going to corrupt them i'll
00:24:48.480 be honest they probably won't go to their parents they'll go to their mates well i went to my parents
00:24:53.040 well and and the parents the parents can choose if they have cell phones or not the parents can i
00:24:58.560 i know i have i have a whole no i i know people that do it without i know most people will but at the
00:25:04.720 end of the day the power should be with the parents not the school i think i think when it comes to
00:25:10.560 to schools schools should teach things like body language they should teach things like how to create
00:25:16.800 boundaries for yourself consent no no i don't think that's so subjective no but it's about
00:25:26.880 understanding for example yeah i think math science english also we do like science now writing instead
00:25:34.000 of learning sex ed i would far rather my kids learn what it is like in a group environment to see
00:25:41.440 different body languages and how this person is not happy right now why are they not happy
00:25:47.120 this person is happy why could they be happy what is it that this person and this person have a
00:25:51.840 difference right now and how are they viewing the situation i think things like that would be far
00:25:55.840 more beneficial than how to put a condom on it's not that i don't this it is not that i don't agree
00:26:00.720 with you i agree with you 100 but when from my experiences learning sex ed i was scared to even get
00:26:08.640 myself into that position of being promiscuous because of all the stds of getting pregnant
00:26:14.480 disappointing my parents all those things because those pictures that they showed us yeah very
00:26:19.600 graphic and made me feel like okay cool maybe i'm not going to mess around and do things and just be
00:26:25.280 free and whatnot no and i i think there could be hypothetical benefits but again i just think again
00:26:31.440 it should be the parents picking that out the state yeah so i don't have a problem with showing that to
00:26:36.480 your kids but it's kind of like consent forms should go around in the schools like they should take them
00:26:40.880 home and let them parent let the parents read the form if they want their children to learn about
00:26:45.120 sex ed then it's like i don't even want that i don't want my kids being around kids that had sex ed 0.86
00:26:51.520 that's gonna be a struggle even even like let's say you get all these creeps you have these grown
00:26:56.080 ass adults talking to these kids about sex we got a video so it wasn't like people talking it was
00:27:02.240 literally just a video it's teaches at my school i even think it's weird i went to a catholic school i don't even think they should do like abstinence talks i think it's weird i think go to your
00:27:10.720 parents what's what's an absolute like oh stopping not having sex at all yeah it's like um yeah it's
00:27:17.040 don't have sex basically but it's like in an inspirational way did you like celibacy or something
00:27:21.680 yeah yeah it's like they come in and they say like don't have sex and i do go to a religious primary
00:27:26.400 school and i remember that so we had a jehovah's witness and they could opt out of a bunch of things
00:27:30.800 i'm sure if you're super desperate for your kid to not do things you can talk to the teachers and ask them
00:27:36.800 but i if you really want to keep them away from other kids that are learning this too that's going
00:27:40.560 to be hard unless you homeschool them i don't know i mean that's a lot a lot of conservatives are going
00:27:45.040 that route because you can totally do that that's just fine yeah probably the best bet if you have a
00:27:50.160 problem with things like that it's probably best to just homeschool yeah you can teach your kid more
00:27:54.240 yeah taxes bills they can learn way more way more than they should have done taxes and pshe for sure
00:28:01.200 100 yeah and pensions because that's long yeah man also i looked into the i googled the differences
00:28:08.960 in the pelvic bone of male and female and i've been scrolling for days it's not about pelvic bones
00:28:13.600 it's about the bones that was my argument but i haven't seen any argument that supports what you
00:28:18.400 said everything what did i say i said the female what did i say i don't know what you said i can't tell
00:28:25.280 you what i said whatever i said no we actually we had a guy super chat to this but he i actually
00:28:35.520 know who it is he's the author of the history of sex so he's written like books on this stuff
00:28:40.480 um i'll find it in a second but i'm gonna read super chats um and then i'll ask one more question
00:28:45.920 then we'll close out the show give you guys a timeline um let me go down oh what were you saying
00:28:53.280 i'm sorry king did i cut you off oh yeah i was just saying like i i googled it and literally what
00:28:58.240 i said was the female pelvic bone is designed differently from the male pelvic bone because
00:29:04.400 the female pelvic bone has to expand during childbirth now i know there are women that might not be able 1.00
00:29:10.320 to give birth but that doesn't change the fact that they are designed for it we don't so it's it's not 0.99
00:29:16.240 just about the pelvic bone it's about it's very difficult when you're digging up bones if you're an
00:29:21.920 actual archaeologist right there's a certain amount of bones that you just can't tell if they're
00:29:26.400 boys if they're girls or if they're an adult you're moving you're moving the goal post the goal post to
00:29:32.400 argue when he's just talking about he's just talking about the bones i'm just saying i'm just saying if
00:29:36.960 you were to dig up bones of people and obviously you could see the pelvic you would know who's a male
00:29:44.800 and who's a female and i'm saying unfortunately it's not as easy as that it would be great if it was to be
00:29:49.600 honest i mean i wouldn't have anything to argue against if it was dr dr david baker flower dress
00:29:54.560 you apparently aren't a theologian either majority of christian denominations do not interpret genesis
00:30:00.560 literally stop straw manning millions of people uh with ideas of fundamentalist minorities um gib and
00:30:06.800 dishonest uh bb if anything uh sex ed should be uh rp empty hands with grace as a person who is confused
00:30:15.040 as a child i can tell them this stop living with the lust of the flesh and seek jesus in spirit and
00:30:21.920 in truth to be free one-to-one relationship with god read the gospel um this was this was the guy i was
00:30:27.200 telling you about he he wrote a book on like the history of sex the history of the universe i interviewed
00:30:32.000 this dude um flower dress you aren't an archaeologist archaeologist either a complete um undamaged
00:30:39.280 pelvis identifies sex with a high accuracy where there is damaged tooth proteins still identify sex
00:30:45.040 on a binary and never what the person identified as which is the damn point puffy uh vegas vegas people
00:30:52.480 do um drugs we should teach kids how to use them black a phoenix um treat people like you want to be 0.91
00:30:58.880 treated i don't call people straight phobic or say you're brainwashed the term cis also came from a pedo
00:31:05.200 dragon stallion 1001 dress you don't know squat pelvic uh mare male narrower heart shaped female open
00:31:13.760 circular uh i can't read this skyic notch male narrower female there are six different bones that
00:31:21.600 archaeologists use to identify the sex 90 frito pie pale lady close your lips god doesn't give cancer
00:31:30.160 we humans have made cancer food and materials it's sad but god has nothing to do with it
00:31:34.960 dug mpa uh what trans on the couch would be okay with being drafted iceman clown world bb easier to 0.87
00:31:43.360 put on a dress than to go to the gym climb that male hierarchy which is brutal and become a teacher
00:31:48.880 uh become a teacher to get around kids black uh phoenix oh wait i read this one already okay let me
00:31:56.320 refresh it really quick before uh i'm gonna ask one more question uh pearl uh woman 1.00
00:32:04.960 is a pale woman is a snake early fathers of of science acknowledged god as an authority over
00:32:13.600 science you're just a basic woman like any woman work at mcdonald's okay um sorry um 0.99
00:32:21.840 sorry i'm a vegetarian
00:32:25.840 um okay so i'm gonna ask one last question which is do you guys think god intended there to be two genders
00:32:34.960 yes yes yes why are they intersex people i don't know okay so like religious arguments are a bit
00:32:43.360 lost on me i'm not like i i went to a religious primary school okay i'm not like hateful of religious
00:32:49.120 people it's just i'm not what i base my arguments from because if god exists he's done a lot of heinous
00:32:55.120 shit so i don't know man i don't know man i think just like we believe in the devil too just so you 0.63
00:33:01.920 know yeah but i just see all the kids that suffer babies born with cancer and
00:33:06.240 shit it's just like there's a god that exists yeah i mean i mean we believe in like the devil too
00:33:12.160 so that's kind of how we would do you think the devil does it fair enough so your question yeah god made
00:33:19.920 two genders it's techie because yes but like my definition of gender and your definition of gender
00:33:28.960 is not the same so when i answer your question is yes it's not the same yes that you say because
00:33:33.840 automatically i view gender differently to you so i i i class trans men as men even though they've
00:33:42.640 transitioned into men so they still fit the category of one of the other gender yeah and same for trans 0.80
00:33:51.360 women so yes there's two genders and there's still two genders however some of those people and some of 0.97
00:33:58.240 those genders are trans genders okay what about you um i believe god made me exactly as i am i believe
00:34:11.840 god made me exactly as i am like my not not you just like how many genders i don't believe it's the binary
00:34:21.280 okay like a spokesperson cannot speak for god like god made me as i am so no i don't agree okay so how
00:34:29.760 many genders did he make i can't put a name on it unlimited it could i don't know okay all i know
00:34:36.480 is that it's not not two not two okay