This Delusional Feminist Got TRIGGERED By This
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In this episode, we discuss feminism and the role of women in society. We discuss what feminism has done to society, what it has not done, and the impact of feminism on society as a whole. We also discuss the impact feminism has had on society and what the future of feminism looks like in the future.
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and the question is what's more what's more important money or family and back then they
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had intact families now almost 50 percent of births today are out of wedlock half like this
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this is the direction feminism has led society so i think we can't look less about feminism and
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more about the liberalization and commercialization of sex i do agree with you this is a big problem
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but i'd say this is less about feminism and more to do with people not treating sex as something
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special a big part but a big part of a big part of feminism was pushing birth control with which
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allowed women to do that birth control was actually invented by men it had very little to do with no
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no yes yes it did in the us it was margaret sanger was a feminist i know that's why to hold my face
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i couldn't believe what margaret fachar did you mean margaret sanger okay she was kind of feminist
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no she wasn't she was a very anti-feminist very vehemently anti-feminist because the thing is i
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think if she was in office she's got to be a feminist there's a big confusion there's a big
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confusion between feminism and careerism because a woman can be very very career focused without
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being feminist feminism is specifically about liberating women part of feminism is spending
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your your primary reproductive years on a career and not a family that's a big part of yes a big
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part of feminism is breaking up the family pushing policies that break up the family yeah but
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actually what it is it's more about this idea of women are an oppressed social class by patriarchal
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society and this confusion is because the confusion comes when we start saying that a woman having a
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career me she's a feminist because feminists will use that as an argument feminists will use that as an
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argument and they'll say that in order to be a stronger dependent woman it's using your primary
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reproductive years for for a career instead of a family it's not to say you can never have a career
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it's saying prioritizing isn't it yeah i mean yeah yeah it's about family before your career feminism
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pushes career before your family i'd say it more pushes women against men i mean it does that too
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yeah that's what i feel is doing yeah and that's yeah that's your business sounds really interesting
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as well because it's really good if you look but if you look at the um the birth rate it's it's in
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it's um negative to when women get more educated they have less kids so it's like a direct correlate
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like if you look at the like the more educated a woman is the less kids she has
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so that's why i say it's part of feminism because they wanted to like they wanted to depopulate
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everybody they wanted to stop people having families more kids and break down the family
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unit that's why i say i feel margaret thatcher was well she hated feminism because actually she was
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very very she was married but she was also a career woman that's the point is that she hated feminism
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because she was actually very pro this idea of meritocracy and individualism and i completely
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agree with you by the way in the sense that yes feminism did contribute cut you off because you've been
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doing it so long if everyone tries to speak you cut them off so i think you need to feel what it feels
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like yeah but when someone is trying to get the point across let them speak and you can respond
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everyone is going to get a chance to speak please sorry it's because i'm stimulated
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it's a very interesting i want to i want to um kind of point to the dark horse in the room you know
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like there's also a problem with men a big problem right like what is it 40 years ago so for the last
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40 years the average testosterone levels in men have been declining by one percent a year so we have
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40 percent less testosterone as men uh you know per capita than than our fathers did which is
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frightening and and that's not nothing you know it's like because i think about it like okay i'm not
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gonna tell a woman you know or women how to behave it's not you know i'm not i can't i don't have
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agency over that maybe i have some ideas but like nobody's gonna take that seriously but but like as a
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man you know and i'm lucky first of all that i was growing up like 20 years ago not now because
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today it's like much worse but i saw it happening 20 years ago and so when i talk to young dudes and
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i'm very passionate about mentoring young men because a lot of our company with young women
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and young men that we hire and a big part of it is like yes men are having a crappy deal right now
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but a lot of women are having a crappy deal too like men suck right now like they do like and i'm not
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saying like i'm like you know i'm like hercules whatever like that's not the point because i know i'm
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gonna get attacked for saying men suck but yeah like the average guy sucks i mean they've been
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raised like women for 50 years they've been i mean it's from it's from school no we see we see
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we see how it is but it's like it's like there's a couple things like number one like if your wife
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is like making you do the dishes it's because you're not making enough money like i said this
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before and again like men need to man up and learn how to do hard things they don't want to do in
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order to get results they want not the methods they like because it's like lebron james's wife is like
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lebron you're never home to do the dishes it's like that's never come up he's just like get a
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maid get three maids i don't care right so i have a question so i i spoke to some like housewives in
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the u.s um and they were telling me you need about sixty thousand dollars um to raise like she raised
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four or five kids on 60k a year um which i think equates to i don't know like 70 80. in pounds it's less
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it's like 40 000. but the way that she would do it is she said her husband would work in the city
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and commute but they would just have a really low standard of living right and and like they would
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just do the hand-me-downs she would um like far like they had chicken like they just lived a very
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very frugal lifestyle so do you think if a guy makes enough money to live on like basically a low
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standard of living but still provide for a family is it then on the women or the men like does he still
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need to earn more so so that's an interesting question like and my philosophy on this is just
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going to offend everybody and i've said it on the show before and of course i got a lash but it's
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like i retired my wife she was and people are like and i said this and it got taken out of context i'm
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going to contextualize it because i love that let me say yeah wait so i'm saying like i understand what
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you're saying like so i'm saying you can retire your wife at 60 000 a year in the u.s so the the problem
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is not is not the problem the problem is that man didn't reach his potential that's the problem it's like
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dude if you're raising a family in 60 000 a year you took some shortcuts and you took the easy way
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as a man like i'm sorry i know there's a lot of guys watching it they're not making that money
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you can make more money like it's a okay let's put it this way is making money important to the
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outcome of your life is it important to the health of your family of course it especially in the states
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with the health stuff right is it important to the uh outcome of your children's future huge like
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kids from higher income homes live in better neighborhoods they go to schools they get more
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connected they have more opportunities in life and you're like well i wasn't born a millionaire well
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make sure your kids are so i have another question when you think of society as a whole there's jobs
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that we need to have done that aren't going to make a ton of money but we like we need them in society
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like we need bus drivers we need i know i know some of these are going to like vary the income but like
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we need plumbers we need electricians so when when i was like when i was let me tell you something
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this is really cool so when i was a college student i went door-to-door selling encyclopedias you know that i did
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it for six years and eventually uh once i gained some confidence and some let's say you know
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vernacular panache i decided to knock on doors in wealthy neighborhoods i'm talking about very
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very rich like multi-million dollar homes money i had never seen before i was shocked to find out
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that i was meeting a lot of plumbers and i was meeting a lot of mechanics these were like i was
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expecting all the wealthy to be doctors yeah that's upper middle class but upper class like high net worth
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and and like upper upper middle it's like 56 business owners so so and what kind of businesses
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do they run do they run like cigar businesses no they do the crappy work nobody wants to do
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i had one of my wealthiest clients even in our company today he runs a waste disposal business
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i'm not talking about garbage he cleans up after concerts you know those portable toilets they bring
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in that's the that's what he was doing in college is cleaning toilets and he built a business out of
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it right now of course you're going to say that's not available to everybody and that's
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scarcity thinking because most people are inflicted with scarcity thinking but you can actually educate
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your mind as a man or a woman you can educate your mind you can educate i mean your dad's an
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entrepreneur it's giving you a crazy abundant thinking but i guess i guess the way i think is
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like even my dad's an entrepreneur but there were people in his company that made around the income
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we're talking about yeah because your dad paid that were really no your dad paid them to stop pursuing
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their goals but i'm saying like they still like that we still need those men like it's not like
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at some point you still need men that are doing the average jobs and so i i don't know like that's fine
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so yeah i agree with you so wait wait so i'm asking you like in that case like do we still have this
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mindset of like you need to do more when they're doing a job that we do need in society i 100 agree with
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you i i'm just coming at it from the perspective like don't be that man yeah like i'm sorry like
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like if you're that man like don't like my dad is that guy right like my dad is almost 70 he's
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still working in the same job he's been for 35 years even more still the same drive to work he's
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he's a mechanic he fixes motorhomes you know and it's like it's fine we do need those men but but i'm
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making an argument to like to the men that are listening to this is like guys don't like figure out
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a way um i have a great interview i filmed with eddie hall and i think you should put it on your
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channel because it's 20 men you know eddie hall world's strongest man and uh i i asked him in
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this interview like what were you like at 18 he's like i bought my first house at 18. i'm like what
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he goes i bought my second house at 19. he's not old he's like in his 30s right and he goes because
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i watched my dad and he used this line word for it he's like i watched my dad be a lemming
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you know suffering with dignity that whole thing he's like and i didn't want to be like that and i knew
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that i wanted out because i didn't want to live his life so yes of course there's going to be most
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men like that and most women etc and probably they have to make some compromises in their life
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in order to you know adjust their lifestyle and by the way there's this whole bs it's like
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back in my you know my grandfather's age you could work a nine to five job and uh buy a house it's like
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yeah your granddad bought a house in a city that didn't exist yet it's like well he bought it in new
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york it's like two generations ago new york was not new york today it was like it was like it was a hellhole
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it was gross in fact one generation ago nobody wanted to live in new york right so it's like yes
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your grandfather bought a house on his income because he took a i guess i guess the question
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i have is like not everybody is going to make a ton of money and i like i know an individual but
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i'm looking at it like a society at a society point of view like if we look at society as a whole
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there's average jobs that people have to fill in for in order for society to run yeah so if we want
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families to come together i guess the question is should women be more willing to go down in lifestyle
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or should men make more money actually it wouldn't happen like that you know what would happen is if
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women and i'm not saying women should do this but less women you know like incomes like nominal
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incomes got reduced when women entered the workforce now we had twice as much labor available
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so obviously the price of labor goes down right back before you know back before the the feminist
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revolutions it's like the cost of labor was much higher so people made more money because only half
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the workforce was available right yeah well she was because this is this is the housewife i i was in
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her because i was genuinely curious like how much money you need because just as women we can't like add or do
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anything like so so i was curious like how much money do you really need to like um to have like
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kids at home and all that stuff and she was saying like when she started um he was making 30k
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when we got married and now he makes triple that we lived a frugal homesteading lifestyle when the
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kids were young and it was actually really nice and peaceful so i don't know like i think a lot of times
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we think like we need to have a guy that like makes a ton of money in order to have a family i just don't think it's like what they say
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but part of that thinking is girls nowadays can go on a date with a guy who'll fly him to dubai and
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dispose them a week later so it's like girls are experiencing lives that they can't sign up for
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long term because they're investing in a man's present not in man's future and you know why
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women used to go to college before college now are 80 percent women i know you know but why did
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women used to go to college yeah okay my mom told me that she's like it's your mr your mrs degree
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your mrs degree yeah yeah but then i went to the school it was like all women yeah so right now
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right now universities are 80 female and the men's rates are dropping substantially but back in the
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day i mean this is something that we don't talk about now but i i knew about this growing up it's
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like women went to university to to find a man with a successful future that's it's like sounds