JustPearlyThings - This Delusional Feminist Got TRIGGERED By This

00:00:00.000 and the question is what's more what's more important money or family and back then they

00:00:04.000 had intact families now almost 50 percent of births today are out of wedlock half like this 0.98

00:00:11.600 this is the direction feminism has led society so i think we can't look less about feminism and 0.69

00:00:16.400 more about the liberalization and commercialization of sex i do agree with you this is a big problem

00:00:20.240 but i'd say this is less about feminism and more to do with people not treating sex as something 0.63

00:00:24.080 special a big part but a big part of a big part of feminism was pushing birth control with which 1.00

00:00:29.520 allowed women to do that birth control was actually invented by men it had very little to do with no

00:00:34.320 no yes yes it did in the us it was margaret sanger was a feminist i know that's why to hold my face 1.00

00:00:41.040 i couldn't believe what margaret fachar did you mean margaret sanger okay she was kind of feminist 1.00

00:00:48.240 no she wasn't she was a very anti-feminist very vehemently anti-feminist because the thing is i

00:00:52.560 think if she was in office she's got to be a feminist there's a big confusion there's a big 1.00

00:00:59.760 confusion between feminism and careerism because a woman can be very very career focused without 0.99

00:01:05.040 being feminist feminism is specifically about liberating women part of feminism is spending 1.00

00:01:13.040 your your primary reproductive years on a career and not a family that's a big part of yes a big 0.99

00:01:19.040 part of feminism is breaking up the family pushing policies that break up the family yeah but 1.00

00:01:24.960 actually what it is it's more about this idea of women are an oppressed social class by patriarchal

00:01:29.680 society and this confusion is because the confusion comes when we start saying that a woman having a

00:01:35.280 career me she's a feminist because feminists will use that as an argument feminists will use that as an 1.00

00:01:39.520 argument and they'll say that in order to be a stronger dependent woman it's using your primary 1.00

00:01:44.400 reproductive years for for a career instead of a family it's not to say you can never have a career

00:01:51.920 it's saying prioritizing isn't it yeah i mean yeah yeah it's about family before your career feminism

00:01:58.320 pushes career before your family i'd say it more pushes women against men i mean it does that too

00:02:04.560 yeah that's what i feel is doing yeah and that's yeah that's your business sounds really interesting

00:02:09.040 as well because it's really good if you look but if you look at the um the birth rate it's it's in

00:02:13.840 it's um negative to when women get more educated they have less kids so it's like a direct correlate 0.90

00:02:20.080 like if you look at the like the more educated a woman is the less kids she has 1.00

00:02:26.480 so that's why i say it's part of feminism because they wanted to like they wanted to depopulate 1.00

00:02:30.640 everybody they wanted to stop people having families more kids and break down the family

00:02:34.720 unit that's why i say i feel margaret thatcher was well she hated feminism because actually she was 0.98

00:02:40.480 very very she was married but she was also a career woman that's the point is that she hated feminism 1.00

00:02:46.000 because she was actually very pro this idea of meritocracy and individualism and i completely

00:02:51.280 agree with you by the way in the sense that yes feminism did contribute cut you off because you've been 1.00

00:02:55.600 doing it so long if everyone tries to speak you cut them off so i think you need to feel what it feels

00:03:00.560 like yeah but when someone is trying to get the point across let them speak and you can respond

00:03:05.120 everyone is going to get a chance to speak please sorry it's because i'm stimulated

00:03:12.400 it's a very interesting i want to i want to um kind of point to the dark horse in the room you know

00:03:17.600 like there's also a problem with men a big problem right like what is it 40 years ago so for the last

00:03:23.840 40 years the average testosterone levels in men have been declining by one percent a year so we have

00:03:28.800 40 percent less testosterone as men uh you know per capita than than our fathers did which is

00:03:35.680 frightening and and that's not nothing you know it's like because i think about it like okay i'm not

00:03:39.440 gonna tell a woman you know or women how to behave it's not you know i'm not i can't i don't have

00:03:45.440 agency over that maybe i have some ideas but like nobody's gonna take that seriously but but like as a

00:03:51.040 man you know and i'm lucky first of all that i was growing up like 20 years ago not now because

00:03:55.680 today it's like much worse but i saw it happening 20 years ago and so when i talk to young dudes and

00:04:00.880 i'm very passionate about mentoring young men because a lot of our company with young women

00:04:04.400 and young men that we hire and a big part of it is like yes men are having a crappy deal right now 0.97

00:04:10.720 but a lot of women are having a crappy deal too like men suck right now like they do like and i'm not 0.97

00:04:15.680 saying like i'm like you know i'm like hercules whatever like that's not the point because i know i'm 0.99

00:04:19.920 gonna get attacked for saying men suck but yeah like the average guy sucks i mean they've been 0.99

00:04:23.920 raised like women for 50 years they've been i mean it's from it's from school no we see we see 1.00

00:04:29.520 we see how it is but it's like it's like there's a couple things like number one like if your wife

00:04:34.000 is like making you do the dishes it's because you're not making enough money like i said this

00:04:37.520 before and again like men need to man up and learn how to do hard things they don't want to do in

00:04:41.120 order to get results they want not the methods they like because it's like lebron james's wife is like 1.00

00:04:45.680 lebron you're never home to do the dishes it's like that's never come up he's just like get a

00:04:50.720 maid get three maids i don't care right so i have a question so i i spoke to some like housewives in 0.99

00:04:56.640 the u.s um and they were telling me you need about sixty thousand dollars um to raise like she raised

00:05:02.800 four or five kids on 60k a year um which i think equates to i don't know like 70 80. in pounds it's less

00:05:11.040 it's like 40 000. but the way that she would do it is she said her husband would work in the city

00:05:15.920 and commute but they would just have a really low standard of living right and and like they would

00:05:20.720 just do the hand-me-downs she would um like far like they had chicken like they just lived a very

00:05:26.400 very frugal lifestyle so do you think if a guy makes enough money to live on like basically a low

00:05:33.760 standard of living but still provide for a family is it then on the women or the men like does he still

00:05:38.320 need to earn more so so that's an interesting question like and my philosophy on this is just

00:05:42.240 going to offend everybody and i've said it on the show before and of course i got a lash but it's

00:05:45.600 like i retired my wife she was and people are like and i said this and it got taken out of context i'm

00:05:49.760 going to contextualize it because i love that let me say yeah wait so i'm saying like i understand what

00:05:54.160 you're saying like so i'm saying you can retire your wife at 60 000 a year in the u.s so the the problem

00:06:01.040 is not is not the problem the problem is that man didn't reach his potential that's the problem it's like

00:06:06.240 dude if you're raising a family in 60 000 a year you took some shortcuts and you took the easy way

00:06:11.520 as a man like i'm sorry i know there's a lot of guys watching it they're not making that money

00:06:14.720 you can make more money like it's a okay let's put it this way is making money important to the

00:06:19.680 outcome of your life is it important to the health of your family of course it especially in the states

00:06:23.200 with the health stuff right is it important to the uh outcome of your children's future huge like

00:06:27.840 kids from higher income homes live in better neighborhoods they go to schools they get more

00:06:30.800 connected they have more opportunities in life and you're like well i wasn't born a millionaire well

00:06:35.040 make sure your kids are so i have another question when you think of society as a whole there's jobs

00:06:40.800 that we need to have done that aren't going to make a ton of money but we like we need them in society

00:06:46.160 like we need bus drivers we need i know i know some of these are going to like vary the income but like

00:06:51.120 we need plumbers we need electricians so when when i was like when i was let me tell you something

00:06:55.920 this is really cool so when i was a college student i went door-to-door selling encyclopedias you know that i did

00:06:59.680 it for six years and eventually uh once i gained some confidence and some let's say you know

00:07:04.880 vernacular panache i decided to knock on doors in wealthy neighborhoods i'm talking about very

00:07:09.200 very rich like multi-million dollar homes money i had never seen before i was shocked to find out

00:07:13.920 that i was meeting a lot of plumbers and i was meeting a lot of mechanics these were like i was

00:07:18.800 expecting all the wealthy to be doctors yeah that's upper middle class but upper class like high net worth

00:07:23.840 and and like upper upper middle it's like 56 business owners so so and what kind of businesses

00:07:29.360 do they run do they run like cigar businesses no they do the crappy work nobody wants to do

00:07:33.760 i had one of my wealthiest clients even in our company today he runs a waste disposal business

00:07:38.080 i'm not talking about garbage he cleans up after concerts you know those portable toilets they bring

00:07:42.960 in that's the that's what he was doing in college is cleaning toilets and he built a business out of

00:07:47.840 it right now of course you're going to say that's not available to everybody and that's

00:07:51.040 scarcity thinking because most people are inflicted with scarcity thinking but you can actually educate

00:07:57.520 your mind as a man or a woman you can educate your mind you can educate i mean your dad's an

00:08:01.760 entrepreneur it's giving you a crazy abundant thinking but i guess i guess the way i think is

00:08:06.560 like even my dad's an entrepreneur but there were people in his company that made around the income

00:08:11.920 we're talking about yeah because your dad paid that were really no your dad paid them to stop pursuing

00:08:16.080 their goals but i'm saying like they still like that we still need those men like it's not like

00:08:22.080 at some point you still need men that are doing the average jobs and so i i don't know like that's fine

00:08:27.840 so yeah i agree with you so wait wait so i'm asking you like in that case like do we still have this

00:08:35.200 mindset of like you need to do more when they're doing a job that we do need in society i 100 agree with

00:08:41.280 you i i'm just coming at it from the perspective like don't be that man yeah like i'm sorry like

00:08:45.680 like if you're that man like don't like my dad is that guy right like my dad is almost 70 he's

00:08:50.240 still working in the same job he's been for 35 years even more still the same drive to work he's

00:08:54.480 he's a mechanic he fixes motorhomes you know and it's like it's fine we do need those men but but i'm

00:09:00.000 making an argument to like to the men that are listening to this is like guys don't like figure out

00:09:05.280 a way um i have a great interview i filmed with eddie hall and i think you should put it on your

00:09:09.360 channel because it's 20 men you know eddie hall world's strongest man and uh i i asked him in

00:09:13.680 this interview like what were you like at 18 he's like i bought my first house at 18. i'm like what

00:09:17.920 he goes i bought my second house at 19. he's not old he's like in his 30s right and he goes because

00:09:22.880 i watched my dad and he used this line word for it he's like i watched my dad be a lemming 0.84

00:09:28.400 you know suffering with dignity that whole thing he's like and i didn't want to be like that and i knew

00:09:31.920 that i wanted out because i didn't want to live his life so yes of course there's going to be most

00:09:36.160 men like that and most women etc and probably they have to make some compromises in their life

00:09:40.960 in order to you know adjust their lifestyle and by the way there's this whole bs it's like

00:09:45.600 back in my you know my grandfather's age you could work a nine to five job and uh buy a house it's like

00:09:50.800 yeah your granddad bought a house in a city that didn't exist yet it's like well he bought it in new

00:09:55.760 york it's like two generations ago new york was not new york today it was like it was like it was a hellhole

00:10:00.880 it was gross in fact one generation ago nobody wanted to live in new york right so it's like yes

00:10:05.840 your grandfather bought a house on his income because he took a i guess i guess the question

00:10:10.320 i have is like not everybody is going to make a ton of money and i like i know an individual but

00:10:15.440 i'm looking at it like a society at a society point of view like if we look at society as a whole

00:10:20.960 there's average jobs that people have to fill in for in order for society to run yeah so if we want

00:10:26.240 families to come together i guess the question is should women be more willing to go down in lifestyle 1.00

00:10:31.680 or should men make more money actually it wouldn't happen like that you know what would happen is if 0.82

00:10:34.800 women and i'm not saying women should do this but less women you know like incomes like nominal 1.00

00:10:38.800 incomes got reduced when women entered the workforce now we had twice as much labor available 0.99

00:10:42.560 so obviously the price of labor goes down right back before you know back before the the feminist 1.00

00:10:47.520 revolutions it's like the cost of labor was much higher so people made more money because only half

00:10:52.560 the workforce was available right yeah well she was because this is this is the housewife i i was in 0.98

00:10:57.200 her because i was genuinely curious like how much money you need because just as women we can't like add or do 1.00

00:11:01.840 anything like so so i was curious like how much money do you really need to like um to have like

00:11:08.720 kids at home and all that stuff and she was saying like when she started um he was making 30k

00:11:13.840 when we got married and now he makes triple that we lived a frugal homesteading lifestyle when the

00:11:18.160 kids were young and it was actually really nice and peaceful so i don't know like i think a lot of times

00:11:23.680 we think like we need to have a guy that like makes a ton of money in order to have a family i just don't think it's like what they say

00:11:29.840 but part of that thinking is girls nowadays can go on a date with a guy who'll fly him to dubai and

00:11:33.680 dispose them a week later so it's like girls are experiencing lives that they can't sign up for 1.00

00:11:37.360 long term because they're investing in a man's present not in man's future and you know why

00:11:40.880 women used to go to college before college now are 80 percent women i know you know but why did 1.00

00:11:44.960 women used to go to college yeah okay my mom told me that she's like it's your mr your mrs degree

00:11:50.160 your mrs degree yeah yeah but then i went to the school it was like all women yeah so right now

00:11:55.440 right now universities are 80 female and the men's rates are dropping substantially but back in the

00:12:00.640 day i mean this is something that we don't talk about now but i i knew about this growing up it's

00:12:04.080 like women went to university to to find a man with a successful future that's it's like sounds 0.62

00:12:09.040 offensive that's what they did

JustPearlyThings - July 18, 2023

This Delusional Feminist Got TRIGGERED By This

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