JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


This DELUSIONAL Feminist Said THIS


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

187.1948

Word Count

1,725

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary

In this episode, we discuss what we women need to bring to the table in order to be considered a good wife. We discuss what women are looking for in a husband and what we should be looking for from a husband. We also discuss the difference between a traditional wife and a modern wife and how to balance the two.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 question was what do you think that we women need to bring to the table in order to be aware
00:00:03.760 does this sound like a traditional wife to you which part traditional i need anything i just
00:00:09.380 read back to you does that sound like a traditional life i think maybe like a textbook old-fashioned
00:00:14.520 wife would be like you know um i think nurturing caring you know can raise children can cook
00:00:20.920 can clean typical typical like wife like back in the day i mean caring so so why didn't we name
00:00:29.040 many of those things because i think we were kind of i don't know we already know that point i was
00:00:33.300 kind of balancing like both men and women like for them both to come together but as a woman
00:00:38.140 listen i named that because in all honesty like the stuff you guys listed sounds like what women
00:00:42.960 would want from a guy yeah like women and men aren't the same we don't look for the same things
00:00:49.880 like women men don't want dudes like blessing you want to date a girl that acts like a dude
00:00:53.740 yeah but the reason why the reason why i did mention
00:00:56.620 i've done this before it's not just you guys blessing would you want to date a girl
00:01:07.480 does this like sound like wife material financially stable in shape i didn't shave that's good
00:01:12.740 mentally stable um them bringing themselves to the table knowledge wisdom understanding
00:01:17.960 freakiness driven high energy singing dancing good at multitasking spiritual secure and self-love
00:01:24.520 that's the whole package is there is there anything more but you know what i also think
00:01:28.120 wait guys let him talk let him talk now i'll say some of that stuff but the majority now
00:01:33.000 what in particular sorry i'm curious yeah what did you like from that list um i like the
00:01:38.660 freakiness i told you guys this is i told you guys okay let's actually let's actually hear
00:01:51.700 no no it's more we actually look for like wifey material like naturing um yeah we don't need you
00:01:57.700 to bring anything to the table really to be honest um so you go with anyone then yeah he's not trim
00:02:02.900 yeah yeah being themselves like he's going for a girl oh yeah like we said true yeah yeah honest
00:02:10.820 yeah in themselves um nah some of the stuff is a bit pretentious like you think so yeah you think
00:02:16.420 spirituality is pretentious um depends what what kind of spirituality is it actually you know what
00:02:22.180 yeah i need to hear your answer poppy you guys let's let him speak yeah i think she has a point on
00:02:27.780 spirituality what what what spirituality is it well it depends for me i believe that all everything is
00:02:36.340 down to one so i believe every god that they serve in every religion is one god yeah that's
00:02:42.180 i think the same i believe that division is i don't know why there's division in in religion but that's
00:02:47.620 that's up to them the stories are the same yeah but i feel like everything all stems from or should stem
00:02:53.140 from love right love love is what war so would you date someone from any religion then you would say
00:03:00.820 yes i actually would depending on their mindset and how they perceive their religion and how they
00:03:06.260 believe like how they understand their religion it's all mindset it is mindset yeah i would how would
00:03:12.020 that work in your household um as long as we can compromise and you know make sure that all the
00:03:19.220 good aspects of the religion are being applied into our relationship then you believe men men are
00:03:26.260 the leaders of the relationship yes i do so if they say that my children are christian or they're muslim are
00:03:32.420 you gonna go with that i'm gonna be fine with it my mom was a christian my dad's a muslim so i was brought
00:03:37.860 up in a very diverse religion i guess i don't know but i came up to be spiritual you can say submission is
00:03:44.740 what we're looking for yeah yeah that's true who do for submission you you are a submissive woman
00:03:52.420 because i feel like a man wants to feel like a man oh yeah yeah yeah he wants to feel like a man
00:03:57.940 so if there's a woman and like she's wearing the pants and she's taking complete control he's not
00:04:02.100 gonna feel very manly i have a question if a guy said do you take that off that's too revealing are you
00:04:07.540 gonna change are you gonna argue i will question it you're gonna question so you're gonna argue i
00:04:13.140 would ask that's how they see it that's how they see it go i would argue you would argue i'll question
00:04:18.100 it and try to understand depending on the occasion on why you're telling me to take it off because if
00:04:22.980 i'm going for a girl's night out why can't i skin out and i would argue a little bit because i like
00:04:27.700 a bit of excitement a little bit of flair i like a little bit of jealousy as well so i would argue but
00:04:32.100 then um i'll still go out with the same outfit too bad do you think do you think that makes all
00:04:41.380 of you toxic yes you just said you'd be okay with submission but when he told you what to do you're
00:04:46.100 gonna argue i mean when it comes to telling someone what to do like telling me i can't wear a certain
00:04:50.740 outfit because it's too revealing like he wants to protect you it's like but the thing is is he
00:04:58.660 protecting me from other men or is he insecure and not comfortable with me going out because
00:05:03.940 other men are going to look at me if you have if you have a nice car i mean are you going to put a
00:05:09.780 for sale sign on it are you going to advertise well i'm not even the same concept it is the same night
00:05:19.380 can i ask a question yeah what is submission to you guys i think submission is just being
00:05:25.620 a feminine woman a feminine woman like i really like in a man yeah when he can like not take control
00:05:30.260 of me but take control of certain situations so like say if we like plan to go somewhere he planned
00:05:36.420 it or he can like make decisions for himself but also for the both of us but like within reason like
00:05:42.340 certain decisions like need to be communicated between like both partners yeah but like yeah
00:05:47.460 yeah because we're both human that that is no submission okay what's the submission i think
00:05:52.980 submission is when um the female is very much in her well some is what she said but let's do that's
00:06:00.580 the guy that kind of um take control in some situations and that's sexy that's more attractive
00:06:06.980 yeah i love that make me feel petite let me let me let me let me feel like the damsel in distress
00:06:23.300 so for you guys our mission is a bit more sexual i didn't even get to answer that but submission is
00:06:27.300 abiding by the rules of your um opposite sex so what when he says oh yeah don't wear that you're
00:06:33.460 literally saying some something like yes sir i'm not going to do it because you have your reasons
00:06:38.820 to why i'm not even questioning it but you guys just said right now that you'll not do it i mean
00:06:43.300 it depends like if you're wearing a dress and you're like your nipples are hanging out i'm just
00:06:46.580 answering your question i think that's different it's a bit different i did say it wasn't different
00:06:50.820 if it's like a little mini dress and you're going to the club of your girls then i don't see why it
00:06:54.260 should be an issue but then like if it's like something super like your ass cheeks are hanging out
00:06:58.340 your nipples are popping out every walk then that fair enough my point is as a man is gonna is there
00:07:06.580 to lead his family has a vision for his family so if he says in my family in my household if we don't
00:07:11.860 wear that you're supposed to be like okay yeah yeah but if you guys are what you're saying is no uh
00:07:19.060 there's some things you can decide but the you say something i said i said i'm gonna question it
00:07:23.940 and depending on the occasion i understand the reason why i mean there's always compromise so
00:07:29.060 what do you think being submissive actually is then there's actually only one definition
00:07:38.180 once you submit you should actually just trust him you can't even question it that's what we
00:07:41.700 expected what does submit mean to you because i thought we stated it i feel like i feel like that
00:07:46.340 stems of tradition guys guys the definition the death wait the definition is the action of accepting
00:07:53.380 or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person so about him by his
00:07:58.900 rules so i'm gonna decide whether or not if i should abide by his rules but i'm sorry i didn't say i'm
00:08:05.380 gonna say what do you think what do you think old-fashioned okay well men and women should actually
00:08:09.060 be equal but obviously let them make some of the decisions i guess it's about balance you can't just
00:08:14.740 say oh i'm gonna oh he's a superior worship him no that's the definition of submission taking into
00:08:21.060 account um i don't know how old you are but like if you're an older guy you're gonna have slightly
00:08:25.460 different like values like as a 20 year old 22 year old sorry as a 22 year old we want to go out
00:08:32.660 and like have fun and we'll wear our little tight dress i feel like your tradition and the way you
00:08:44.980 were raised up what do you have as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized
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