JustPearlyThings - This DELUSIONAL Woman Needs To Be Re-Educated

00:00:00.000 can i just say really quickly i promise the reason why you could say that now is because you're in a

00:00:06.000 position to be open to be receptive to her as well you know some guys would be like what you know

00:00:12.940 like we're going clubbing or you know it depends on the man as well i'm not putting blame on the

00:00:19.000 man but it's a two-way street a lot of pearly's list man has so i've probably gone through dating

00:00:24.200 women yeah through this gone through that so now when i meet someone i can analyze a good woman 1.00

00:00:29.740 do you get what i'm saying yeah and it's through action i feel like to your question of where's

00:00:34.320 all the good women gone yeah i feel like a lot of good women don't have the values of back in the 0.75

00:00:38.960 day so women i don't know back in the day because i wasn't born back in the day but i think a lot of

00:00:42.800 women don't want to show wife credentials before they're a wife so they will hold things back 1.00

00:00:47.460 expecting you to put a ring on their finger because it's like oh i can do this but i'm not

00:00:53.320 going to do these until i'm your wife but man i'm thinking man i'm thinking right all right if you're

00:00:57.380 going to cool there's other girl out here that's going to show me what a wife is but imagine acting 1.00

00:01:02.200 like a wife and doing full throttle like cooking's different but full throttle acting like a wife 1.00

00:01:05.780 for you to go and see someone else or play around but if you don't do that the man's gone so if you

00:01:10.340 so do you want to show him do you want to show him that you're a wife because a man coming into

00:01:14.700 it showing you're ready i'm a husband promotion don't you do the job that he gives you first

00:01:19.380 or do you say promote me with no work experience because you know what if i if me okay one second

00:01:25.040 me and you are in a relationship or we're building up a relationship and then we go out

00:01:29.400 and then i'm and i don't know gal beat you up or something happens i'm here to protect you but i

00:01:35.000 just stand there and just watch you when we go home now what are you going to say to me no no one

00:01:39.540 would i mean no no don't say no one would do that you can't say no one because there's there's man

00:01:43.680 out here that's not going to protect you so our job is to our job is to protect stranger would jump

00:01:48.240 involved and protect someone okay forget the semantics my job is to protect and provide for

00:01:52.340 you if i don't protect you when i'm out with you when you're rolling out with me when we go home

00:01:56.440 what are you saying to me before what as in a fighting situation that's a bit that's not a good

00:02:01.520 example okay whatever the situation where you need protecting and i don't protect you in that

00:02:06.140 situation what are you doing after that situation i don't i can't answer that question because i

00:02:10.180 don't know what you mean by protecting you're deciding that he's not the one that doesn't

00:02:14.280 make sense it's happened to me before there was like an accident yeah in costa rica there was like

00:02:18.240 a canoeing thing and a kayak thing and he didn't show up and i was i really questioned my future with

00:02:24.420 this guy that was for me it was done done of course of course it is yeah so if he didn't show up

00:02:29.380 all right but if he didn't but if you don't show your wife credentials to the man what do you think

00:02:34.100 he's gonna do the thing is there's an extent there's a limit you can't do everything because

00:02:37.900 you don't know if that man's serious yet you don't know what's going on so you can't do everything

00:02:41.500 and i'm not you're not out here listen he needs to prove to you that he's a good husband but that's

00:02:46.780 that's fear though no he don't wait wait wait that's that's fear though like that's the thing

00:02:50.960 like you're going into something in bad faith oh i can't do much too much for him otherwise he might

00:02:55.440 not pick me why do you put it anyway yeah but it's but it's like you're going into things in fear 0.94

00:03:00.060 and you don't get anything worth having if you go into shit scared exactly like you can get your 0.75

00:03:05.260 heart broke like it happens scared money don't make no money yeah but it's like you have to in 0.98

00:03:09.840 order to okay in order to to start this whole podcast i had to invest first but women want all 1.00

00:03:15.580 the outcomes without having to invest anything i feel like it's a two-way thing you didn't hear what

00:03:21.080 she just said a husband has to come to her exactly so it's a two-way thing why does the wife have to 1.00

00:03:25.980 why don't you think paul it's a two-way thing so if i'm if i'm it's 50 50 and then you're both on

00:03:31.420 the same page that's different of course i can do that but if i'm not going to do the most and

00:03:35.140 you're doing the least okay so i have a question do you when you go on dates who pays he does but i

00:03:39.680 will pay i can pay no i didn't say you can pay i said who pays the guy will okay so why does he

00:03:45.360 have to invest in you before he before you've slept but can i tell you something paul why he has to

00:03:49.520 yes no no no like we have to think about this why does he have to invest in you before you've

00:03:53.580 slept with him but i've done that before to men i've paid on first dates before i've offered like

00:03:57.440 you know because i'm done it offered and done it i'm not talking about what you have done i'm

00:04:03.940 talking about what typically happens you're a pretty girl i know these i know these men pay for you 1.00

00:04:08.240 i feel like men i feel like men are in um a stereotypical mindset where they feel like they're

00:04:14.240 the big they're the big man they have to be responsible for paying for first date and stuff

00:04:18.180 like that so i feel like that's why they do automatically because men are traditional

00:04:21.520 men are more you're you're you're right men are in more traditional roles than women so it's like

00:04:27.340 the men are coming to you in a traditional role they're taking you on a date they're paying

00:04:30.880 but you're you're saying i can't be a traditional woman for him i can't give him wifely duties when

00:04:35.440 off the bat before he even knows if he's gonna get sex from you which is what men want right he's

00:04:42.160 paying 200 pound eight night into a man so let's be honest 200 pounds hold on hold on let me just

00:04:52.580 uh show show of hands here is 200 pounds uh nothing to you guys or raise your hand if 200 pounds is

00:04:59.060 nothing if the investment goes right it's great if it doesn't go right okay okay one is 200 pounds

00:05:04.420 and nothing so none of these men are men of course they're men but there's different calibers of men

00:05:10.140 okay they're they're not they're not the right caliber yeah what's the caliber yeah what's the

00:05:13.420 caliber what's that about no but i'm i just no no i have a certain type of man like i like a man

00:05:19.720 that's you know i want to i want to i want a man that's like a leader in a high position that can

00:05:24.880 teach me because i want to be in that place too and you're willing to show him nothing no i listen

00:05:30.500 like i said 200 pounds ain't nothing to a man you could show him everything and he will just and he

00:05:35.040 could possibly not be serious of you and be speaking to another girl or sleeping with someone else

00:05:39.520 and that's the that's the only reason no until i know that you're serious i will give i can get i

00:05:45.020 can surrender to you so you're not even respecting a man's pocket on the first day like i said 200

00:05:49.520 pounds is nothing to a man that has you know you don't respect the money because you just said it's

00:05:52.920 nothing because you're looking at it unless he states he's not able to afford to go on a date or

00:05:58.400 whatever no man is gonna state anything man could have his last 200 pounds bro you don't date when

00:06:04.340 you're broke no no you don't date when you're broke so you can't say that because man are dating when

00:06:08.760 they're broke well i ain't that would never be me what do you mean 200 if he doesn't want to spend

00:06:13.160 200 pounds on a date like what no i mean you need 200 pounds on a first date for what but that's i

00:06:20.640 didn't i didn't ask no you said you said you said you said you said you said no you said 200 pounds

00:06:25.940 ain't nothing to a man yeah and then when and then when all of these guys said no that is something

00:06:30.980 to me you shat on them you said you said they're not a high enough caliber of man

00:06:35.480 but i'm saying from my experience um they people have paid and i've been on dates and i've never

00:06:42.340 spoke to a person again after and they spent a lot of money do you know what i mean what i'm saying

00:06:45.460 is yeah you're not valuing their time and money because you think that every single one of them

00:06:50.100 that's spending that money whether it's 100 pound or 200 pound you think all of them have got it

00:06:53.720 there's some man that probably have taken you out on date and that's their last probably but i'll never

00:06:56.780 know exactly so then but you're still not respecting their money i don't think about it like that

00:07:00.960 exactly because you're still you're still saying that you you can't give them too much but they're

00:07:05.580 spending 200 pounds on you in a first date but i don't think the way guys go on they act like money

00:07:10.260 is nothing to them and they and they do what i mean so why would i be so conscious like unless i love

00:07:14.980 you and i know about your financial situation it'll be completely okay but this is the thing you're just

00:07:18.640 not appreciative because you're saying oh no you're not i'm listening to you speak does she come

00:07:23.440 off appreciative to anyone no no no i'm not a grateful person like for real okay but we're

00:07:28.240 i'm listening to you speak if i liked a guy and he and i spoke to him on level and he came to me and

00:07:33.400 said i can't even afford to take you out in a certain place i would not have a problem of that

00:07:36.860 believe me but you just you just said it ain't nothing to a man and when all the guys right but i

00:07:44.400 said when all the guys in here said no that is something to me you said you said they are not the

00:07:48.800 caliber of man you insulted them no no that's not really no i said broke men don't date that's what

00:07:55.940 i said okay so a man's broke if he doesn't want to spend 200 pounds again i'm from i'm from a one

00:08:00.940 percent like top earning family my like broke men can just not want to spend 200 pounds on someone

00:08:06.480 they don't know they don't have to yeah but i don't ask for it's not that but you know what if a man

00:08:10.760 really likes you and he's into you he will spend his last 200 pound on you without you knowing i would

00:08:15.580 not have known that because they go like they have money and they go on like oh like everything's fine

00:08:19.520 so it's not like a man's going on like anything man's just not good we're not going to openly say

00:08:24.460 oh we're going to the dinner table the bill comes out oh you know i can't afford this but someone

00:08:28.580 i've never been in a situation you're never going to be in that i've never been so i can't relate

00:08:32.340 to that royal royal you're never going to be in that situation where a man's going to be at the

00:08:36.700 table and tell you i had one guy say to me that like go for coffee and you know he's he i think he's i

00:08:42.220 think he was testing me but i was fine with that because i actually liked him like it's not an issue

00:08:45.440 i don't care about the money no he never but he said that you know i'm not in a great position

00:08:50.000 right now and that's fine because i knew he was intelligent and i knew that he was someone i

00:08:53.300 could build with because he's very smart he just wasn't in the right place at the time now i didn't

00:08:57.300 have an issue with that unfortunately it didn't work out why didn't it work out well he's he's he's

00:09:02.220 muslim bro it's not about money like i i'm not a shallow person so please let's not do that

00:09:07.620 but i know i'm not a shallow person we're just repeating back what you're saying but i'm speaking from my

00:09:11.760 own experience so far i can't say anything else but what i've experienced there could have been

00:09:15.200 at least two i've never had a man that's not been able to pay something that he i'm aware of and he

00:09:19.880 has i've never had that you're aware of there could have been at least one man that took you on that

00:09:24.020 date that was the last time probably yeah and i would never have knew so and i'll and i'm

00:09:27.580 compassionate about that i do respect that but i think if you think broke men shouldn't date then

00:09:33.400 should or then should fat women not date i just don't know if we have the same energy 0.98

00:09:41.820 you know do you know what it is i feel like beauty is in the eye of the beholder so

00:09:44.780 sorry beauty is in the eye of the beholder period so there's a guy that might be attracted to

00:09:50.200 money isn't it money is in the eye of the beholder um listen money money is in the eye of the beholder 1.00

00:09:56.060 listen if if you have if your mentality is above average and you're broke i fuck with you because 0.98

00:10:01.220 i know you got potential and that we can build together we can be power couple what is potential 0.99

00:10:05.760 it's money later like that's all it is potential is money later it's more about like life just

00:10:10.940 okay okay if you meet bro if you meet brokey at 25 and you're with him for five years he's still

00:10:16.520 brokey unemployed what you're staying say that again sorry brokey he meet a brokey guy 25 and he's

00:10:23.100 unemployed and now now um he's 30 um you're still with him he's unemployed are you staying or going

00:10:28.520 uh no because you're not pushing me to my limit no i wouldn't well five you wouldn't ride out five

00:10:32.760 years if he is unemployed and broke for five years and doesn't want to make a move i can't be with you

00:10:37.280 how long does it take to create a proper business and be successful in life if you're

00:10:40.340 unemployed not doing nothing i don't i don't think you should like don't let it look i forgot i'm

00:10:45.840 unemployed for five years now no no no no no i said unemployed oh you said

00:10:50.440 okay yeah so that's what i said i'm with you i'm i'm with you but my my my point is you're you're

00:10:57.020 lying like it's it's lying yeah you're just lying because you're like oh if he has the right mentality

00:11:02.220 i don't care about money okay but i said like all that ambition translates to is money later so when

00:11:07.940 women say oh i don't care about money yes it does because because because women women do leave 1.00

00:11:13.380 if they then don't make enough money if women out earn the men they leave the average woman but i feel

00:11:18.540 like the average woman will leave facts but you are the average woman i mean the average mindset 1.00

00:11:23.760 woman the average mindset woman you have no i don't i don't i definitely don't i definitely don't

00:11:28.740 and everyone tells me i don't i'm different you just no i'm telling you you're you're i promise you

00:11:35.140 okay what makes you different because i i'm just i feel like i'm very deep and um i've just learned

00:11:40.760 i've really taken that time out to study life and to understand how life is i'm 32 now okay

00:11:47.400 last month so i feel like i've taken time out from to go inwards and to learn about life and to

00:11:54.000 just you know be more not logical but be more um on point i don't know how to explain it but

00:11:59.240 i don't think my mindset's average i don't think i will ever be average and i really believe in

00:12:03.500 myself so i'm a different okay so you're you're 100 average you're a comedian no no no no look at me

00:12:11.100 look at me dead serious average and that's not an insult i think i think i'm an average chick i don't

00:12:17.220 think you are because i even said before i came on the show she's a she's a badass like she's built 1.00

00:12:21.580 all this you're lying again no but didn't i say that to you i've been talking about that stuff before

00:12:26.340 i met you but but i'm saying like the way you speak okay and i'm telling you i've met women

00:12:32.160 with a top 10 20 you know how many women i speak to hundreds hundreds and i'm saying like i've met

00:12:37.960 women with a top 10 20 mindset i'm not saying it's horrible but i'm saying an average chick when it 0.97

00:12:42.940 comes to mindset do you know what i think i just like i don't i think money's i don't i don't think

00:12:47.400 money is important so it's nothing to me but see you've contradicted yourself like 20 times in this

00:12:52.320 conversation it's very chaotic to like speak to you like it's very chaotic because i don't really

00:12:57.280 understand what you're saying okay because at one hand you kind of we're speaking down to the men in

00:13:02.240 the room because they don't want to spend 200 pounds on a date then you're saying money is nothing do you

00:13:06.440 see how that's confusing i mean money is nothing so paying 200 pounds what is that that i don't that's

00:13:10.080 fine okay it's nothing because they said i don't appreciate it and i do but it's not it's not i don't think

00:13:15.940 about it because it's money is money it just is what it is because you don't that's what i mean

00:13:20.080 i understand what you're saying i just don't think you understand how it sounds and it sounds

00:13:28.500 really unappreciated then it is what it is i can't change my opinion it is what it is

00:13:35.060 can you spend 200 pounds every night on dinner on yourself me i spend a lot of money not every

00:13:40.400 night no no i can't why because it's irresponsible i invest my money money is nothing i invest my money

00:13:48.640 i invest money so what about the man that invests money that's his business i didn't ask him to

00:13:53.600 take me out and take me to a place that costs 200 pounds i didn't ask for that so it's not my

00:13:57.560 problem you don't care about the man's money the thing is well i don't ask for money i don't ask a

00:14:02.260 man for money i've never asked him i've never had a man well i've had a long time relationship where

00:14:06.460 we live together but i've never relied on a man for anything in my whole entire life so

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JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023

This DELUSIONAL Woman Needs To Be Re-Educated

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