This Eliminates Women from wife category
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In this episode, we talk about the abortion crisis in modern society and why we should all be pro-life. We also talk about why poor kids are less valuable than rich kids and why poor children should be prioritised over rich kids.
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With modern women, the epidemic is that even with birth control, we're getting more abortions than ever.
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If a girl gets an abortion, does that take her out of the wife category?
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It's fewer than 1%, so let's talk about the 99%.
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Why is it that whenever a dude makes a point, we always got to bring up the exception as women?
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That's not a common thing for women to experience.
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It's not necessarily pregnancy for grape, but grape in general is.
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I deal with them clients every single day of the week.
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That's your job, so you get to see them a concentration.
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But if you look in the whole of the UK, you see that it's a minority.
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No, I'm saying if you look at stats, that's not true.
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Because otherwise, we're just going off of he said, she said, and she can say anything.
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If it was a majority, then most of these women in this room would be living in it.
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Oh, no, I'm not saying the majority of women have experienced grape.
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I'm saying there's quite a large percentage of women that have experienced it.
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Just being super real and understanding about the life that we're trying to live now and what the status of the world is.
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I mean, as long as you're willing to deal with the consequences of your choices, my friend, save yourself and save your child.
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Because sometimes you get into an accident with somebody that is definitely not the man that you need to be having a child with.
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And you're definitely not in the right space of mind.
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So instead of you putting a child into your chaotic world, just be more responsible.
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It's not kill it, but before it gets to a stage where it's super gone, at the end of the day, now you've got the option of taking a little bit of control.
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If that puts bad energy into the universe, deal with the consequences.
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But at the end of the day, you'd rather do that than to bring a traumatized child into the world.
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Do you think that poor kids are less valuable than rich kids?
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Because when you think about it, we're all rich.
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Because most people in all of human history have been poor.
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Even poor people are richer than most people were in all of history.
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I would say that that's definitely not true because I'm African.
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I know what it means to be poor and still be happy and still be privileged and blessed.
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What I do mean is, for example, there are people that are just not in the best state of mind or even in a relationship that could be supportive of bringing a healthy citizen into this world.
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And then, if people don't have this sort of control, it gets to a stage where everybody's going to be messed up because their parents are making mistakes.
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At the end of the day, instead of us judging abortions, let's just first deal with sexual education, sexual discipline, and then we can avoid abortions.
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No, we're talking about taking control of something that actually hasn't got to that stage yet.
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When I first came to the show, remember I said to you, there's not a situation that I haven't experienced.
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And I wouldn't say I got put into a relationship, a very abusive relationship.
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So 17, I couldn't say I had loads of money because I was still living at home.
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And when everybody keeps on talking about grape and abuse, yes, Pearl, I did report it.
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Everybody was against it because in those days I brought shame on the family.
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And I fostered and looked after 10 children as a single parent.
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Unless your life is in danger, I still don't believe in abortion.
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That the situation and they're actually blessed with a mother that will take care of you from whatever situation.
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On the flip side, there are people that then go on to abuse their children because they don't know any better.
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There are people that go to neglect their children because they're not in a supportive relationship.
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I was a foster carer and I fostered 10 children.
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Because you're a good person and they got lucky to have you.
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And I only fostered children primary school age.
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So I had children that had been abused physically and sexually at that age.
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if the care system that allows these women to have the children,
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that also allow these women to have the children and hand them over to responsible people
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that will look after and nurture and care for those children rather than murder them.
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Because people murder their children too often.
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And then those who don't get murdered, I look after.
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I look after, I raise, I nurture, and I look after them.
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And I'm sure there's African children, Indian children, white children out there that I fostered,
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that have been to university, being models and having good, stable lives because of me.
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So I'd rather, even at my age now, I would rather look after somebody else's child.
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I've looked after children that have been sexually abused at two and three years old.
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And I'd rather have them knowing that I looked after them than they got murdered.
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And as far as I'm concerned, it's not these children.
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It's society, and if the people are messed up, people are going, they're having sexual lessons in school.
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They don't teach them parenting lessons, skills like cooking skills, managing money.
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I'm going to be the one to say, there's no poverty in England.
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It's the parents and the people that have the money that are mismanaging it.
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So rather than go out there and say, oh, this is a poor person, look at what they're doing.
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Because I guarantee you, those children who come from those households, look, the parents are smoking.
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The children have got all the latest phones and tablets and everything.
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But yet they're going to say there's poverty because they have no food.
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So as far as I'm concerned, no child deserves to be killed unless the mother's going to die.
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It's a very touchy topic because obviously it's sensitive.
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I believe that children, to me, are one of the purest things in the world.
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And if it gets to a stage where actually you have a choice, either terminate this life right here, right now, the energy is still in the world, the energy still exists.
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But terminate it now instead of a lot of playing with chance of letting a child go into the system and become an extremely wounded human being.
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I'd rather do the other because you'll go to a better place.
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The same way I believe in euthanasia is the same way I believe in abortion.
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See, that's different because I don't believe in any form of murder.
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I wanted to hear the rest of what you had to say, Zuby.
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Like, everything you just said there, that's freaking horrifying to me.
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Yeah, well, I used to be a crip, so I'm with you.
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I don't get to talk to people that have always varying different opinions all the time.
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I'm very interested in why you don't believe in abortion outside of the killing people.
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Because we kill people with tons of other things.
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I think it is wrong to intentionally terminate an innocent human life.
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I think it's a crime to corrupt an innocent human life.
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Can I just say, if I'd had an abortion, I would never have been able to have another
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She said, I've been seeing this married man for years.
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And you know, like when you get them women back in the day that that was their woman.
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And he said to me, it's either me or the child.
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And she said to me, when I was having the child, there were complications.
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And she said, I'll never be able to have another child.
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And exactly what happened to her happened to me.
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I, I, I, I too was in a very complicated relationship.
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Because I said, listen, I would rather take that risk and to create, do that for my child.
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Because this person is definitely not going to be a good father to my child.
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And if it gets to a point where I can't have any children, I'll do an alternative.
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I will bless other souls and give my love and my energy to somebody that is not even my child.
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Regardless of whatever happens, whether I can have children or not, I'll still bless people.
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Even if biologically that was my, not meant to be my destiny.
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But one thing that I believe that we should do is ensure that whatever energy we put into or whatever children we are raising,
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we're going to put them in a situation where they can be better human beings.
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In England, it's very easy, like for people to have children when they're teenagers.
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The majority of abortions are not from teenagers.
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No, and what I'm saying is in the UK, I think the UK is actually the country in Europe that has the highest rate of teenage pregnancy.
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And you can see actually how that's affecting society.
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There needs to be a certain way of controlling this type of, I would say, unhealed, traumatized kind of DNA to keep passing on.
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If you're not ready to have a child and you can recognize that, you have a choice to either make the situations worse for you and affect an innocent child,
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And if it means you don't have kids again, save somebody else's child, go foster, go adopt.
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There's too many people that are needing your love for it.
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Because giving it up for adoption, you're putting your child in a situation where actually you can fall on either side of statistics.
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Either you're going to be with an angel person or you're going to be with a devil that's going to physically abuse you, sexually abuse you, and put you into a system.
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Why does your mind always go to the worst possible scenario?
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No, but I'm saying I could think of many situations where adoption worked out really well.
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Like my mom got pregnant when she was 17 and she could have thought, you know, my life was over and she gave that kid up for adoption.
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Unfortunately, on my side where actually because I'm even from my demographic where I come from, what I see and what is actually a lot of what I feel like is the masses.
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Most of the people that I know that are in those situations come from very hard stories and backgrounds.
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And when they speak to me, I can see how damaged they are and how much pain they still feel now because not everybody's even equipped to learn how to heal themselves.
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But they're alive, but they're still suffering.
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One of my friends, my sister, she had a friend.
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And they were all really, really sad and they cried and everything.
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Actually, I feel like she's in a better place because this world was not treating her right.
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I think what's happening now is, I don't know, Zuby, if you're religious.
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What I'm saying is, I think a big part of it is a lot of times, like I don't believe in abortion,
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but I do not also think that I have the right to tell a woman what to do with her body.
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So what I think, not that you guys are this, but I think a big part of it is that you, a lot of times,
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I have aunts and people who are very religious, life is suffering to them.
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And I think what you're arguing, no offense to you or anybody, I think it's very different than what she's saying.
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I agree with auntie for the most part, both of you guys.
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But I think what you're getting at is from your personal experience in life and what you've been through
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and how you came out of that experience versus auntie and Zuby and Pearl are coming from a different,
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Pearl's talking about she had a relative who was a sibling who was raised in a wonderful world because they were adopted.
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I think you're coming from your personal experiences of what you've seen.
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I'm not coming from any perspective of experience.
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I'm just saying in my head, I go, I just want to know if she would say she was spiritual or religious
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because nine times I'm saying this is just my personal experience.
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When I talk to spiritual or not really religious people, they lean towards her more
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But what I'm saying is, Pearl, you're saying you had a sibling raised beautifully out of adoption.
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This young woman is saying a very different thing, but it's based in her personal experience
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and life and so on and so forth, which is okay.
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I'm just saying I don't believe in abortion, but at the same time, I don't think I can tell
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a woman or anybody what to do with their person.
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You're comfortable telling someone not to kill someone, though, right?
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I'm comfortable telling people not to, but I'm not at liberty to say that I shouldn't be.
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So for me, I'm saying from my background, I can't tell somebody not to kill someone.
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But for an innocent life, Zuby, I agree with you.
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Can anyone else comment on whether they would...
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Everyone has got a reasonable standpoint for what they're saying.
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But me personally, I've done a TikTok where I said, for instance, at one point, broke people
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shouldn't be having kids because you bring kids into a life of struggle and hardship.
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I think, especially someone like me who came from a background of struggle and hardship,
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like wearing hand-me-downs and all of this and getting laughed and bullied and all of that
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Some people are just not meant to have kids, bro.
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What you're talking about saying that you came from hardship.
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Yours is mild in comparison to what's happening out there.
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And from what I've seen, I've got friends that, boom, their parents were crackheads.
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They just were waste men, waste women, whatever, and they've just been freestyling through life
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I get where you're coming from because I came, again, my mum, very, very hard Pentecostal
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church, Nigerian woman, bro, no messing around, innit?
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So I get where you're coming from and where Zuby's coming from.
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It's an innocent life, but it's just like, bro, at the end of the day, everyone's going
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to have to answer for their own actions at the end of the day.
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I can't judge somebody and say, oh, why did you do that?
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But some people know that, bro, if I have a kid, I'm going to mess this kid's life up,
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Do you think, and this is kind of to both of you, do you think that poor people are less
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Because when you, a lot of people don't know this, but that's a common argument that people
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So basically, so basically that, that poor people should be eradicated.
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And in some of like the founders of Planned Parenthood, which is more of a, it's more of
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Like that was what they were fighting for was eugenics, which is like basically poor people
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No, it's not about poverty, it's about trauma, it's about trauma, it's about passing on unhealed
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souls that are going to then go, because hurt people hurt people.
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Because even like people that are in like the lowest income bracket now, they're still richer
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And so then like, because without that logic, then everyone pretty much should have died all
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Now, this is the thing, like, I'll tell you something, I grew up privileged, then my dad passed
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away, my life turned around, and I came to England, and all of a sudden I went from
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being up there to being down here and being the poor kid, but none of that situation changed
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my happiness because my mom is a loving woman who did everything to make sure that we were
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We didn't have all the money, and yet all her support and love got me to be a woman that
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On the flip side, I have friends that went through similar things or completely different
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situations where their parents were not equipped to give them the love and the support that
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they needed to be wholesome human beings, wholesome adults that can actually lead a life responsibly
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and not have to have those traumas that are getting them to get themselves in trouble.
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That's why people go, that's why a lot of black people go to prison.
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It's like, I would say probably to the point where the brain starts to develop because once
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the brain starts to develop properly, then that's when the life, like the more consciousness
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starts to go, when you're actually picking up a lot of the signals from the outside where
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your, the, the fetus turns into actually something that's aware, yeah, aware, yeah, that's it.
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Well, that's still not developed enough, that's just brain waves.
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This is the thing, once your brain, there's different stages to it, so when, when the brain
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is development, developing, there's brain waves, and then there's other things that will
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you receive certain information, it depends on the level of information that, that brain
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Well, I would say probably the cut-off point at three to four months is actually quite good,
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Yeah, it's six months in the UK, and after six months, if there is any, even a minor disability,
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such as a cleft palate, or something, you know, something that minor, there's no limit.
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Can I just add, like, with the question you asked before last night,
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at the end of the day, my mindset to it, it's not about poor people being less valuable.
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Like, that's not even what we're talking about, what I'm talking about.
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What I'm saying is that at the end of the day, if you know you're living, and this is
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a very common thing, yeah, a lot of times, people who are living in struggle and poverty,
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who can't even look after themselves, they're just fucking.
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Like, they have nothing else going on, and they're fucking, and they bring,
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hold on, let me just say this, bro, like, yeah, and then they just bring,
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they just having kids, bro, like, you could, just go outside, you're going to see people
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pushing prams, and like, they have nothing going on, and their kids, bro, a lot of these
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Join gangs, crime, they go prison, end up in the ground, whatever, bro.
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Like, so, like, all of these other fairy tales, oh, yeah, maybe they're going to end up being,
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those, yeah, it happens, but bro, it's rare, really and truly, majority of them are going
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But those actually aren't the women getting abortions, only 8% of women below the poverty
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line are getting abortions, where one out of three women that make over $47,000 per
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No, but basically, your question was about the people that was in poverty, that's who I'm
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Well, yeah, but I'm saying, like, like, those, like, I'm saying, when you argue that, like,
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you're basically, like, you might not mean it like that, but when you're arguing that
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those people should get abortions, you're basically saying that poor people should never write
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I've never said poor people shouldn't get abortions, though.
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For example, yeah, you are, like, let's say 25, you go to the club, and you meet this
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asshole, but he's hot, and you decide to have a more night stand.
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I know, you decide to open your legs, that's your fault, blah, blah, blah, blah, you get
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You are definitely not equipped to be a mother, you're not even responsible or whatever, and
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the guy on top of that, he's not a partner, that he's going to be able to even support
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If you want to terminate it, you terminate it then.
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That's not about money, it's about mental, it's about how prepared are you as a person,
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and if you're afraid and you don't want to do it, okay, but just be ready to deal with
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In the room, there's days, actually, like, you know, contraception.
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You know, there's so much contraception, so when you're in that stage where you're
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having a pregnancy, what have you done to prevent that?
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I understand auntie's situation was very, you know, it happened.
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That's why I said that, I'm an exception to every rule, and I accept that, yeah.
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Yeah, there's contraception involved to stop these things from happening, and we've completely
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ignored that, and went on to the fact that we've been reckless and got pregnant.
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Really, for a guy, all you can do is wear condoms.
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Because in my opinion, I think women really need to do a better job of, like, making sure
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that they don't fall into that trap, because the majority of the contraception is down to
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And then even, let's say, even if you have a girlfriend, and you get her pregnant, and
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she doesn't want to have the kid, she ain't having it, bro.
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There's pre-cautions, you can get the morning after.
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Because I always get this question, and I don't know enough about it.
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I'm talking about the actual mechanism by which it works.
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I think they all stop the embryo from attaching to the...
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When the sperm touches the egg, that's already like an embryo.
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It's an emergency contraceptive because you don't know.
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By the way, I've tried to actually find the answer to this,
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and it seems to be a little bit up in the air that it's not totally clear the mechanism.
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So it's only all right as long as the sperm touches the egg.
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I care about being intellectually honest and consistent, right?
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This is why it's dumb when people make that point.
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It's like, no, because a sperm on its own doesn't do anything.
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But once they meet, if we were to rewind any of our lives
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But you can get a pill that you take up to five days after.
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because you don't know whether it's going to get fertilized or not.
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So the earlier you take it, it will strip the womb.
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It would depend on what the actual mechanism is.
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No, what I'm trying to say is that 72 hours, 72 hours,
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you know there's not going to be any fertilization,
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How many of you know I was just banned on TikTok?
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And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.