This Feminist REVOLT Against Pearl for Being BAISED on Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the impact of promiscuity on society and the impact it can have on relationships. We discuss the consequences of letting a man inside you, the impact on society, and how we can prevent it.
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Self-awareness to be able to say this is what I'm still holding on to these are the people I'm still holding on to
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This is why it didn't work out. I'm choosing to move forward with that
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That's a choice and you can actively make that choice consciously, right? You're right
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Yeah, but I'm saying like every person you sleep with brings more baggage to the next relationship
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You can learn to release that baggage. You know what I mean?
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You can't you can't you can but I don't think most women do
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But then I think the conversation should be about how do we when you say that people don't owe you understanding compassion
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I would actually disagree with that because I would say at a base as humans. We owe each other
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We owe each other acceptance so that we can actually work towards a middle ground on these issues and find a way through instead of kind of just
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placing the blame and pushing people into a space where they have to victimize themselves and and and
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Struggle to take accountability because they're constantly being attacked for it. You know what I mean?
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So, well, I think accountability comes with being honest and I just think it's dishonest to say there is no consequence for sleeping around and
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And like most men will be lined up to date you even if you slept with a hundred people like that's dishonest
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But I don't and I think it's lying to a younger generation of women when we should tell them to be more pure and protect that
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Amongst babies people killing their babies. It brings more sexual transmitted diseases
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So like I was saying it's being from others single mothers. Also, like I said, is it better for society or not?
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and and and you're saying that promiscuity or some people here saying promiscuity is
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It doesn't matter, but it does because it affects society. It creates single mothers. It creates dead dead children
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And it also it does and it creates a sexual transmitted diseases
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Don't men not putting condoms on like create babies as well as women or
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I don't know women not using the for or women not using the 41 forms of birth control that are available to them
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There's like too many options to not get pregnant if a woman gets pregnant. It's on her
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Yeah, because you can also require that the men you sleep with wear condoms. You can make that a requirement
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So I would say it's like on the women if you get pregnant. It's like kind of your own fault
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because I think I think as a woman I do take it on myself because
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Obviously, I don't get pregnant, but I don't think it's all in the woman. I think it's definitely 50 50
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I'll tell you i'll give you my opinion wise that I think it's on a woman because
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Okay, and you have remember my body my choice, right?
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That's what we're told so it's your body. So it's your choice to let a man inside you, right?
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And you know the consequences of letting a man inside you
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So so so this man could be reckless. It's just like this home
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If if we let somebody in the door right now and they run in here and they go crazy, right?
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That's on us because we let them in we didn't vet them properly before we let them in, right?
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So if you didn't vet the person properly before you let them in that's on you
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So if I choose that I don't want to be on the pill or the other options
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And I decide that I want you to wear a condom and then you don't wear a condom. Is that on me as well?
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Well, hang on how do you're gonna let him inside you with that one? You didn't you didn't notice?
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Well, what I'm saying is if you trust you you're already having sex
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So there's already a sense of trust between you
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So obviously, I don't know. I'm just giving a random example if it is in the dark or whatever
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Stealthing is like a minuscule percentage of what happens during sex
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And my question no, I was more my and and well, no, my question is like why didn't you vet the guys better?
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You're sleeping with you shouldn't be sleeping with a guy you don't trust
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You did trust that person and you have and some is also
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So I might have felt like I'd vetted him well enough to be in that position
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But obviously you find out later. It's not the truth. What percent do you feel like that is? Do you feel like that's the majority?
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No, not at all. I was actually just asking what your opinion was in that particular scenario
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I think when when we have these conversations what people generally tend to do is to try to bring the exceptions more so than the rule
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We try to argue the rule more so than the exception because there's always going to be there's always going to be exceptions to things, right?
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Dogs bark some dogs have got something wrong with their
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You know, they're their boys and they don't bark but generally dogs bark. Do you know what I mean?
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So it's like if people keep arguing for the dogs that don't bark is that well dogs bark
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And and I would say I would still say it's on you because you chose not to be on birth control
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There's 41 forms of birth control so and if you don't want to do that you can get married
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I think it's actually the guy's fault if the girl gets pregnant go for it because no
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It's the guy's fault because I mean the even the pull-up method alone is 97 effective when done, right?
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So I'm like unless you want to be paying child support like you should get better
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That and then the other thing is like guys should always carry condoms
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You know I because you never know when you get lucky, right?
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But but my thing is like I can do everything white right and a girl can still steal it like the nba issues statements every year
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Then he didn't do everything right what you didn't do everything right you should flush that thing
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He should take it with you when you leave yeah good point so I think yeah if if I had a son
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I would tell him hey if a girl gets pregnant. It's 1 million percent your fault
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If I had a daughter i'd say if you get pregnant, it's 1 million percent your fault and everybody that whether a boy or girl
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It's 100 your responsibility what happens in your life
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I just I think it's more on the girl because we have more power
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Right we have like we have more power than men do in every instance and and if we get pregnant
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We can still get an abortion where men have no say in that and if the child is born you can put it out for adoption
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Yeah, that's one. That's not the man doesn't have a say a man doesn't have a say in one whether or not
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And so I don't know how you men generally don't have to say
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But it just doesn't make any sense because the way the law works
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It's still gonna be the guy's responsibility as well like and the girls both of them individually
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I'm not saying as a man that we don't have responsibility. I'm not taking responsibility of the man. I'm saying
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You got to protect your womb. You are head of security for your own vagina
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Right, because we know that push comes to shove
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You're left with a baby. The guy could run to he could dip out which is why girls are more selective when choosing partners
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I'm saying that's why it's on you because i'm not condoning men like running away from their responsibilities by the way
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But i'm saying worse comes to worse. It's on you girl. It's not on me
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I can dip out. So that's why I said women have to now start vetting the men that are coming inside them
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It looks like you wanted to say a lot earlier. Yeah. Yeah. Go ahead. Well, no, I was just thinking like
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So i've i've gotten ex-girlfriends of mine pregnant not just once like many many times and every single time
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I was like young or drunk or just like being unsafe or I trusted what the woman was telling me one time
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Uh, I had a one eight stand in australia and she told me she was on birth control turns out
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She was lying right or had an ex-girlfriend who told me she has a medical issue
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She can't get pregnant and you know, she actually got pregnant and every single one of them got abortions
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But regardless it was not just traumatic for me. It was traumatic for them obviously
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But in the end it was completely my fault because I was being young and dumb and reckless
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Well, i'm i'm going back to how many women you've had abortions
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My head is spinning as to how many women you've had abortions
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But you've also just held yourself accountable to all of that
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I don't think it's entirely my fault, right? And from a different perspective you can say it was complete errors
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But um, no, but you just completely held yourself accountable and like, yeah
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I don't not believe in accountability like I think that's great
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I just think at this point in time like women have more power when it comes to reproduction degree
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And so that's why i'm saying the only ones that have worms
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Right, exactly. So be careful. You let inside there
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So if all the women here have wounds they have to be more careful because like I said worse comes to worse
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You were saying you got drunk and you had sex with this girl, but she
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Let you inside her drunk and she lied and she told me she's breaking
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Yeah, and that's what i'm saying like she had more power in that situation
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Because she got to pick if she was on birth control or not and then she was able to lie to you and basically trick you
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And so like how can you say you had more power in that situation?
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I think I should have known better. She was a stranger, right?
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Like she was a complete stranger. I just met this girl, right?
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And so what so what's stop what's stopping me from having intercourse with a girl and saying i've had a vasectomy
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nothing nothing nothing so like so that which completely shifts that power balance
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Because one is more accessible than the other one is much more accessible than the other 41
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Forms of birth control you speak of yeah, yeah, so that's more accessible
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That's more accessible and you don't have to get surgery to get it
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There are a lot of side effects to birth control though, especially hormonal especially if you kind of have predisposition to hormonal imbalance
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It can cause a lot of negative side effects even the non-hormonal ones can cause like really like a lot of pain
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Like a lot of discomfort and that sort of thing
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So the choice to not be on birth control can actually like the actual fact that there's a lot of difficulty with being on birth control
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I understand that and i'm not discounting that like
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I think there's a lot of reasons to not be on birth control
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But my thing is like we have more power when it comes to reproduction because even if you do get pregnant
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Who has the power to get an abortion? We do and even even if we have the kid who has the power to give it up for adoption?
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We do and even if even if we keep the kid who has the power to get to get get a guy on child support
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We do and then who who also has the option to get married to the guy and then leave and take half you do
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So like when it comes to reproduction, we just have a lot of power much power when it comes to reproduction
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You don't think there's some like um, but hang on. Sorry
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Articulate it. You can say it's absurd but articulate
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The entire arguments a complete logical fallacy you're arguing that like what the women have more power because they have reproductive organs
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That's like it like it doesn't it doesn't make any sense like you're speaking from the
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Perspective of a man though. You don't have a womb. Of course. I am. I was the one that raised that point earlier, right?
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So if you speak to women and ask women do that dude after we've actually had this argument
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Do they think that they have more power than we do? Would you say yes or no?
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What kind of no? No, no, I'm asking the women like
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Do you think you have more power than us when it comes to reproduction question?
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As a woman, do you think you have more power when it comes to reproduction than men do?
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As in a baby being born so you and you're talking about power as in like power to get the
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Keep the baby not have the baby get the baby fostered or adopted or
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um, I think that there's like a lot you know bringing up the womb womb people letting people in the womb, but
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Your your sperm should be quite you know quite important in this
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So the question I asked was do women have more power than men like do women have the final say yeah?
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No, no, so men have the final say so it's not your body your choice anymore
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I don't I don't I think it's I think when it comes to a baby
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And I think that there's two people who have made this baby two people have a decision to make together
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The the two people and the possible baby, okay, so so using that i'll say okay, so it's two to tango
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Okay, you get pregnant. I have sex with you. You get pregnant. I say
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I don't want a baby great me neither. No i'm saying
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Me saying that do I have the power to stop it? Yes. Yeah, I don't have the power to stop you from having a child
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Because it's your body your choice you can choose I can't I can't choose to get rid of that baby for you
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Yeah, otherwise every man you can do that. Yeah, otherwise every minute would be getting rid of accidental pregnancy exactly
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Um, would you be okay with men being able to sign off their rights as a father?
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Um, because we have the right to get an abortion
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Yes, so you'd be okay with like them being able to sign off financial
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I think that both people should be able to do that if it's consented and communicated
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Any like people should be able people should be able to do so even if women like want to keep the kid you'd be cool with that
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Yes, okay. Like at least what about you guys? What do you think? I feel like you can do that
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I feel like there is a way that you can sign up here
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Not necessarily you can though. It depends where you're at but not necessarily
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In some places that is already a thing because I do agree
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I think both people have the option to decide how involved they're going to be in a child's upbringing
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And if someone doesn't want to be a part of that then there's it's not a good idea to force them
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Right, and what about child support you'd be okay with them being able to sign off and
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Um, yes, I think if two people have had this baby accidentally there's a good chance that they're
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Independent anyway, so kind of relying on your own kind of independent source of income
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Especially if you're the one choosing the other person isn't and yes, I think that's fair
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And him and my mother were quite young and they didn't yeah didn't get along and
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My mother made her choice and it was it was grand and i've
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Lived to be a happy adult and i've caught up with my biological father many times
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And he's fine, but I don't have a I don't have a
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Continuous ongoing relationship with him and it's completely fine like it's not like like yeah
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It hasn't affected me i'm in the slightest like yeah
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I agree that they should be able to sign off because yeah because i've got friends that have been
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Gotten pregnant where a guy they're not with in a relationship with he doesn't want her to have the baby she goes ahead
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I think at that point when you have that discussion and he decides
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You'll know how that's then gonna go so then it's your choice if you want to make that choice and have the baby then
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I would say no absolutely not to to give them an ex like from a selfish point of view
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Yeah, oh man, we get to sign off i'm out of here
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But from economical point of view that's probably the worst thing we can do is allow men to negate their responsibility to that child
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And let them sign off and have an easy pass out because I think a lot of
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I don't want to generalize, but i'm assuming a lot of women are saying it's fine. I can do it myself
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But it's not about you. It's about what's best for the kid and the kid needs his father
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So do you think abortion should be illegal then?
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But it should be legal and so then why do you think legally women should get a choice whether or not they want to be mothers
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But men shouldn't have a what why men shouldn't have a choice whether or not they want to be fathers
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If i'm raising a son and I tell them a girl gets pregnant. It's a hundred percent your fault
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I've been with way too many women. I've never got a girl pregnant
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So there's no excuse that I can say no i'm talking about from a legal perspective though
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So then why don't you say the same thing to a woman like if you got pregnant, it's your responsibility
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Right, but you're saying one should be legal and one shouldn't why do you like why the double standard?
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No, what double standard so the double standard where a woman has a choice of whether or not she wants to be a mother
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But a guy doesn't have a choice of whether or not he wants to be a father
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So I said I said he wants to sign I'll weigh his rights and I'm saying should they have the option?
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Yes, I believe the option should exist. Okay. I'm not like saying I would create a society where i'm promoting it
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I don't think it's healthy. I agree. I agree with you
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I think if you look around how many dumb people that exist on this planet
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I think a lot of these people that get pregnant should not be having kids
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And I think the worst thing you can do for our economy is allow them to bring another baby in this law into this world
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When they're already pretty messed up or on drugs
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I'm thinking that kid's gonna end up in the foster care. My parents are foster parents
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So I can just see the trickle effect for all this stuff
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So and that even though I don't like abortion and stuff like that. I just think it should absolutely
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I personally think that this whole like feminism has given women a lot of power
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And taken power away from men and then what happens is a lot of the time women
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Generally tend to use that power to their advantage when and where they see fit
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So like in these cases like in the cases of abortion like look my body my choice my body my choice
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All right, cool. I'm a dad. I get to choose not to oh, you're a deadbeat dad
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What's that all about like if you can get to choose not to be a mother? Why can't I get to choose not to be a dad?
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I I don't think you should not be able to choose to be a dad. That's what
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Yeah, she you were gone. She agreed, but they they didn't so or he didn't so that's why I was asking
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I think if if you do get a girl pregnant you still are gonna have to finance it
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Because if you don't finance it who's gonna finance it, right?
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The woman has to take care of the child and raise a child and
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She's gonna be spending all her time raising that kid
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And she won't have time to work and then the government's gonna have to step in where's that money come from, right?
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So it makes sense that the government wants, you know, men to pay child support for their baby
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Well, it was her choice to have the baby though
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It is the guy's choice to get her pregnant. No, it wasn't. Yeah, it was
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I've trust me. I've slept there's so many women never got a girl pregnant
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So it's his fault. It was it was his choice like just like you said, right?
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So his fault. Yeah, it was my choice to not use a condom and ejaculate
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It was his choice to not use a condom. It wasn't his choice to get her pregnant. He ejaculated in her. Of course he did
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So once he ejaculates in her and he's and she's lied to him. It's still his fault. He believed her
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He shouldn't have believed her. I'm assuming this is more cautious, but with the like I think the point we're making is like you're promoting a double standard
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Because you life's full of double standards though. Yeah, I know why did you tend to benefit women?
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I'm just basically saying every if i'm having a son the conversation i'm having with them
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It's 1 million percent your fault. We're not talking about your son
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Like you keep bringing up your son what we're saying as a philosophy. No, no, i'm talking about legally
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I've said that legally i'm saying like legally there's a double standard why if i get a girl pregnant
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Like women have the right not to be mothers men don't have the right not to be fathers from a legal perspective
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Right, you can get put on child support even though the child's not biologically yours indeed. I've heard stories like that. That sucks
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You know, it's really unfortunate for those men
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Very yeah, they think it's theirs. They're raising it for a couple years. They find out later
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It's not theirs and then they're legally obligated to support that child. Do you think a man could do that?
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That's what i'm trying to say the double there's a
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Life's not fair and you know, I understand we're trying to make it equal
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But it's not always going to be equal and some sticky situations like these. It's like sorry, buddy
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Yeah, I can read superchats. And then we can get to the second half. Okay
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Um, okay, let me read the superchats. So young lex, um, send these guys back to canada, please
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Of course, the antifa guy is laughing about the babies being aborted and has cringe takes it fits his ideology
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sarah dropping truths and logic even though it's not a popular opinion with this modern half not popular opinion
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With the modern gender modern with the modern half the gender population
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Men have to work beyond hard to successfully bed a woman morally and naturally
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It does take two to tango. However, if a modern woman gets pregnant nowadays, even with the many forms of birth control available
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Bozzy dude in the black in the middle with glasses as a rude guest
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He's condescending to others and thinks he knows it all h vargas 207. I agree with dozzy simpsons sat equals sos
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The guy in the middle is a typical example of the men that get taken advantage of by women northwest pearl
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My ex chose to stop taking birth control two years after we had started having sex together now
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We have a four-year-old and don't talk men protect birth
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Um, the sky metric 52. Why do they use women for the plural instead of women? It's driving me insane
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fyi listen to pearl she's the real deal road to
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dozzy these guys are all simps wow, this is kind of hard to watch they can't be saved chris brown
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This is the most clueless group of guests you've ever had on guy laughing at abortion needs to sort out his attitude
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P.S. You don't appreciate bras until they're gone
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If you bear the greatest risk you bear the greater proportion of the responsibility
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The biological imperative results in the assurance of paternity the imperative itself is men being inherently territorial and protective
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Also, don't forget the damage to women pair bonding the savvy ninja
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I bought I just bought craft mac and cheese because I love it
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Jimmy john bought craft because it's all he could afford mary sue bought craft because her kids wanted her to why
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Why does it matter? We all bought it still low key?
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21 stealthing is a crime in the u.s. Um third degree grape a marriage calls causes divorces would red
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Would red had give sarah a criminal compassion?
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Please ask your guests if they prefer a conservative provider who values purity or a left-leaning progressive man for a husband
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The girl with the red hair is a typical example of women trying to tell men what they think men should be
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Edgar shepherd body count matters just like job resumes matters
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Having one job for 10 years is better than having 10 jobs for in 10 years
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Marriage causes divorces tall redhead data shows high body count equals divorce high body count also shows drama
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chaos baggage attention seeking and daddy issues
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Why do mom and what modern women always tell men that they shouldn't care about their body count men will always care about a woman's past?
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exception to the rule doesn't eliminate the rule on average women establish an emotional connection prior and or
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During intimacy hence their ability to pair bond decreases in relation to their body count increasing
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most in 1938 that 20 of failed marriages when the female doesn't have any previous partners could be because she wasn't and gave him crabs lol
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most in 1938 the biggest concern was when i was 14 year old boy was to make sure you didn't leave the vhs
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Tape that you're not supposed to have in the vcr when your parents come home
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marriage causes divorces virgin or not is irrelevant do not get married in the uk you generally lose about 70 in the uk
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Getting 30 is not enough to survive as a guy most in 1938 the reason why girls in religious schools still lose their virginity
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Is because they're exposed to the don't judge me i'm a free woman feminist jargon?
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nas009 thank you for the super chat sticker i'm going to refresh it really quick just to make sure i didn't miss any
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also guys like the video it's the most important metric that youtube uses to push out the
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Live we should have a thousand likes in here we have over a thousand people we should have a thousand likes we're only at 500
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so make sure you like the video um um as cc blue the most beta panel of men guy on the couch put your
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socks on your feet died two years ago h vargas 207 a woman would abort a beta but would keep an alpha
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um nas thank you for the super chat alexandra society should always have children's best
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interests as a priority dc081 it's conversations like these that will make artificial rooms the future
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and men will circumvent women altogether and women will have no power big brown are there any masculine
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men in england kilton daniels get simps off the panel pearl thpp it's ludicrous and intellectually
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dishonest to say men have more reproductive rights than women the laws are written that way purposely
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unless a man can take a woman and make her get or not get an abortion it's not equal young lex send
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these guys back to canada please oh i read that one okay that was a very interesting bunch of super
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chats um getting back to the topic when it comes to virginity do you think the church promote
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let me try and rephrase this in church it is told that to be a virgin is a good thing however do you
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think that churches are generally generally have virgins in them nope i don't think they have virgins
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in them no explain what do you mean why i've got real life proof examples of girls i've met in church
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that are not virgins so these non-virgins in church do you think that even the most pure place that
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women are supposed to be church cannot stop human beings from being promiscuous i mean i think humans
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are promiscuous by nature i think that's just what we are i think it's more socially accepted for women
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to have sex now whereas before is more frowned upon so it's okay women have sex it's okay like
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it's not a this big taboo thing anymore um if we're talking about women still we're talking about just
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men and women yeah men and women yeah virgins in general i think humans are humans i think whether
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they're part of a church or not i think maybe it's promoted more to hold your virginity in a church but
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i don't really see that being uh in my experience where i grew up i didn't really see that being a factor
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you grew up in church pal what was the virginity like amongst the people in church when you grew
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up um i mean i would say like it was just delayed because i went to catholic school so everything that
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like the public school kids were doing at like 14 15 like we did just like when we got to college
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i would say it was kind of delayed um the other church i was a part of was like a christian church
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and i would say that girls there was a couple girls i met there that like waited till they were
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married to have sex but they got married pretty young so i i don't see girls being more pure like
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over a certain age in church like if they do if they are like they're married typically at like 20 21.
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right like you don't meet a lot of 25 year old virgins in church no
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um he didn't leave guys he just went to the bathroom everyone was like he left
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do you think church nowadays because i've been to a few churches um i don't go to church anymore but
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um i would look at the the outfits in church from some of the ladies right like do you think that church
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promotes purity when it comes to like some of the like things that people do in church or do you think
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it's just like a show i think it's the very conservative pure mindset where we don't talk
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about sex because it's taboo and you shouldn't have sex because you know you will be judged and
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you have to you know preserve yourself and that sort of thing and i think naturally when people are told
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that they can't do something they kind of get more curious about it um and i think we can kind of
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sexualize anything if we feel like it um so kind of you know when you have like an excessively pure
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space right it's really easy to start sexualizing that because that's kind of the whole um opposites
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you know on the same spectrum right there's always going to be a middle ground and you can really kind
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of really project that onto it it's it's easy to distort it like that that makes sense i remember your
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video per when you're saying that um these these pastors are like oh pimping out these oh oh no
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okay i have this theory about church yeah go on and i will say this isn't my church because i grew
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up in catholic so catholic was a little different but i have this theory that like the the pastors
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are like the homemakers and what they do is they say you can be forgiven for being a hoe because they
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want to sleep with all the congregation because that's what they do
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so they're like yeah yeah you you can get forgiven and then they're like chatting to him after and
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wow yeah so like and then they market it because what they'll do is they market honus because they
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have the chastity speakers come back and they're like yeah i did this this and this and it's always
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the girl that got ran through and then the husband that married her and who did it and he was like more
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pure and then he's the the girl's like yeah um i got ran through i did all this stuff but then i found
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god and found my husband and so they're like yeah you can just do whatever you want and then still
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find a husband at the end of it and so i feel like in a way some churches market hodum when you
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said ran through are you saying being slept with with lots like yeah like like like you know that's
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yeah yeah like like i slept with him and him and him him him him him so like yeah i just wanted some
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clarification on that i wasn't sure yeah i don't know what the run through what would you say is
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the specific point someone has ran through i don't know what the number is yeah no i'm gonna
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leave those statistics to you guys i mean i know i mean i've heard i've heard a lot of women in
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college have trains run on them that's it that's that's i would say that's the definition being ran
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through it's like more than like two sexual partners in a night two sexual maybe two or three i don't know
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four yeah okay and so does that apply to a male as well no no no absolutely no it's just it's just
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strictly towards the female yeah well because men and women are different it's hard for men to get
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sex it's easy for women to get sex okay all right sweet i'm just yeah still just clarifying do you
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do you think men can be hoes nope why explain for a man to sleep with a lot of women he has to be
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inherently attractive or have value he can't just run around sleeping with women it doesn't work like
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that but if he has is attracted and has value and runs around sleeping a lot of women could he be a
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hoe no why because again right attraction is a very subjective term and women don't typically
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look at a man's physical appearance to determine traction they typically look at behavior and like
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a communication style fine but if he's sleeping with a lot of women and if we're putting women in
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the same context if she sleeps with a lot of men she's a hoe if a man sleeps with a lot of women
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regardless of who he is you know how attractive his value whatever if he's sleeping with another
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woman wouldn't he be a hoe you're applying the exact same parameters but withdrawing
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well he can't a man can't get pregnant right and so there's no negative consequence
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