JustPearlyThings - June 23, 2023


This is MISOGYNISTIC In Today's World


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9 minutes

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1,932

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179

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Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

16

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In this episode, we discuss the impact that Andrew Tate has had on young men and how he has impacted the culture and society in general. We also talk about the importance of a masculine father figure and how important it is to have a strong masculine father.

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00:00:00.660 What impact do you think Tate has had on young men?
00:00:04.640 Oh my god, a lot.
00:00:06.900 A lot.
00:00:08.300 I would say overall positive.
00:00:09.860 I mean, I don't think these guys are like, yeah, I want to be like Andrew Tate, time to human traffic some hoes. 1.00
00:00:16.840 They're like, no, I want to be rich, I want to be jacked.
00:00:19.720 And I think, you know, again, like his past stuff, when he talks about some of the stuff that's not necessarily the most favorable in the current light that he's in right now,
00:00:28.760 I think that his overall message to young men is really beneficial, because I think there's a lot of directionless men in the world right now.
00:00:36.980 And with these directionless men, I mean, there's so much, just every agenda trying to push them towards something that's not going to be beneficial to them.
00:00:45.000 Because society is kind of, in the West right now, is kind of having a lot of trouble because men are not strong anymore.
00:00:52.080 Men are not leaders.
00:00:53.060 Men don't even know how to lead. 0.96
00:00:54.760 Well, they're told they're not allowed to lead.
00:00:56.620 Right.
00:00:56.840 I mean, even, even insinuating that a man should lead a relationship is like crazy nowadays.
00:01:02.120 Like even, even saying you should listen to your man is crazy or you belong to your man.
00:01:06.960 Like, I think most people haven't even seen a traditional relationship.
00:01:10.220 Yeah.
00:01:10.560 I think that's, I think both sides too, because I think a lot of women too just have no idea. 1.00
00:01:15.360 Right.
00:01:15.840 How to like be decent in a relationship.
00:01:18.480 You know, it's both sides.
00:01:19.580 It's a Western phenomenon.
00:01:20.700 Yeah.
00:01:20.860 Well, and how are we supposed to know when most, you know, most people, even if their parents were married, they fought all the time.
00:01:26.920 Yeah.
00:01:27.060 It's like, we have an epidemic of single mother homes. 1.00
00:01:29.740 We have an epidemic of people that are in sexless marriages.
00:01:33.160 We have an epidemic of people that are fighting all the time.
00:01:35.940 And we have an epidemic of women divorcing their husbands. 1.00
00:01:39.020 So it's like, how, how are people supposed to learn if they've never seen it?
00:01:42.780 And also the school systems have a massive impact, impact on relationships in general, because even in my school, I went to an all girls school and we were very much taught that if you're not, if you're not a feminist, you're a bad person. 0.93
00:01:56.640 And you, you know, you're a bad woman for not standing with other women and believing that women believe all women. 0.91
00:02:02.160 Yeah.
00:02:02.560 No matter what.
00:02:03.240 Believing that they're like, you know, the epitome of life.
00:02:06.680 So I actually had a teacher say in assembly one day, if you're not a feminist, you should be ashamed of yourself. 1.00
00:02:12.180 Yeah.
00:02:12.580 And that is like a message, which is so damaging because it literally means you go into your life thinking that you are somehow on the same level or above men in every aspect when actually you're not.
00:02:26.580 And if you go into a relationship with that mindset, you ruin it.
00:02:29.680 It just, it doesn't work.
00:02:30.840 And how many girls call themselves a queen, a 10? 1.00
00:02:33.580 You don't see men doing that.
00:02:35.140 If they do, they're shamed immediately.
00:02:37.300 Yeah.
00:02:37.520 But all of this is having a massive effect.
00:02:39.500 And then men are being, or boys in school are being told not to, not to be aggressive, not to show their masculine side.
00:02:46.760 They're being told to act like women because it's, they're being told it's more attractive to girls when actually it's the opposite.
00:02:53.660 Yeah.
00:02:53.840 And I learned that the older I got and I thought that I would find more feminine men attractive, like if they were more sensitive, more calm.
00:03:01.980 Gay. 0.98
00:03:02.260 Yeah. 0.96
00:03:02.980 When actually I didn't find that attractive because when I came across it, I was like, oh, this is horrible.
00:03:08.440 Yeah.
00:03:08.680 And then I just, I just want to like leave.
00:03:11.220 So this is the thing you need, you need a man who is masculine, who is strong and who stands up for himself in every sense of the, you know, meaning of that.
00:03:21.620 And he does that and he's shown men, young men, especially to do that.
00:03:26.480 And I think that is something which is so commendable and so rare to come by.
00:03:30.800 And he, I think he's made a massive impact on young men, especially.
00:03:34.380 It's irrefutable.
00:03:35.640 His impact.
00:03:36.360 I mean, another thing is this too, you know, just objectively speaking, he didn't like knock on all these young men's doors and like force them to watch him and follow him.
00:03:45.520 You know, there is a gigantic vacuum.
00:03:48.440 This is why Jordan Peterson has become popular.
00:03:51.000 This is why people like Jocko Willink, right?
00:03:53.560 I mean, there has been a rise of masculine father, like leadership type people.
00:03:58.640 Andrew Tate's like the kind of the cooler, edgier, older brother.
00:04:01.520 And so right now you're having this kind of like, you know, digital masculine renaissance happening.
00:04:07.020 And it's not because, you know, guys are bored or whatever.
00:04:10.560 It's like they are looking for this.
00:04:12.260 They're looking for guidance.
00:04:13.240 And then, you know, I saw the writing on the wall in 2012.
00:04:16.420 That's why I left America.
00:04:17.620 I was like, this thing is going south.
00:04:19.420 Yeah.
00:04:19.780 And, you know, traditionally too, in like Asia, you know, they're still adhered to the traditional values.
00:04:26.600 And, you know, there's not like school shootings in Asia.
00:04:29.660 You know, there's not like wild, crazy stuff happening like that.
00:04:32.680 It's a very peaceful, harmonious existence over there.
00:04:35.440 And, you know, I think Joe Rogan said it west.
00:04:38.620 Like he says, we have a mental health crisis in America disguised as a gun crisis.
00:04:43.780 Yeah.
00:04:44.000 And there's just so many people that are unwell.
00:04:46.100 And the backbone of being a well-balanced individual is coming from a stable household.
00:04:52.400 Do you know what made me realize how unwell people are?
00:04:56.940 Like getting on social media.
00:04:59.180 Oh, my God.
00:04:59.460 Yeah.
00:04:59.780 Because it would be so weird.
00:05:01.420 It would be like girls that like I don't even know that well would get so mad at me over something I didn't say to them.
00:05:08.920 Do you know what I mean? 0.91
00:05:09.940 And I'm just like, you have to be crazy to be this angry.
00:05:14.060 Like I'll have girls like that I was friends with before or knew and they'll just like walk past because they're so mad. 1.00
00:05:19.700 Like I had one girl threaten to fight one of my friends for being friends. 0.97
00:05:23.080 And I was like, what? 0.97
00:05:24.040 What household did you grow up in to like to be this crazy? 1.00
00:05:28.960 Single mother most likely. 0.99
00:05:30.100 I don't know.
00:05:31.140 I don't know.
00:05:32.040 But it's like it kind of opened my eyes where I'm like people really didn't grow up in like a sound two-parent environments.
00:05:38.520 And there's lasting effects that happen for generations because it's like if the women and the men aren't learning how to be husbands and wives, like what is that?
00:05:46.260 What are they going to teach their kids?
00:05:48.780 Yeah.
00:05:49.240 Yeah.
00:05:50.800 It's broken.
00:05:51.600 It's broken families.
00:05:52.740 It's broken families and broken people raising broken people.
00:05:55.260 And it's like kind of like, you know, it's cascading because the number of single mother households is not going down.
00:06:00.920 It's going up.
00:06:01.680 It's going up.
00:06:02.460 Yeah.
00:06:02.640 It's an endless cycle.
00:06:03.660 So actually, I think that men have been emasculated for a very long time.
00:06:10.880 And Andrew came here to spread a message that young men were thriving to hear that masculinity matters, that masculinity, because they all have that drive inside of them.
00:06:21.480 But it has been shut up and they didn't know how to express it.
00:06:25.520 But Andrew came and tried to awaken this in their in their minds.
00:06:30.940 So I think his message is extremely positive.
00:06:34.140 He didn't he does not teach something bad.
00:06:36.600 If you look at the core of the message itself, it's basically just learning good habits and investing on the oneself and the mindset and taking good action in the world.
00:06:47.760 And this is a good message to humanity.
00:06:49.700 And I don't see like a point.
00:06:51.420 Why would people argue?
00:06:53.540 You know, you know what I think gets these guys in trouble, like the super masculine ones.
00:06:57.820 It's like locker room talk.
00:06:59.760 It's like because most women have never heard the way guys talk like amongst themselves. 1.00
00:07:05.760 It's, you know, I don't know if you've ever been in like a room full of guys and you're like, oh, why do you talk like that?
00:07:11.460 And so it's like these guys like Trump, like Tate, like all the super masculine, you know, toxically masculine guys will get in trouble when locker room talk gets leaked, basically.
00:07:21.660 Yeah.
00:07:22.060 Which especially when in early, like when you're early in the manosphere, it's basically locker room talk because it's all guys.
00:07:28.380 Yeah.
00:07:28.720 Yeah.
00:07:28.960 And this is the thing.
00:07:29.980 I've come across so many guys who are like, yeah, but haven't you heard what he said?
00:07:33.400 Like he's so disrespectful towards women.
00:07:35.600 And I'm like, I know for a fact that when you're alone with your friends, you say things, which if they were leaked and if you were a public figure, that would get you in so much trouble.
00:07:44.480 People would completely be turned against you.
00:07:46.820 The media would twist things.
00:07:48.420 And I know for a fact you've said things in private to your friends that you would never want to be leaked out.
00:07:53.620 So just put yourself in that situation.
00:07:55.240 It's just happened to him.
00:07:56.200 And it's, you know. 1.00
00:07:57.160 The people who act like they're the most self-righteous say like the worst shit. 1.00
00:08:01.120 They got the worst like skeletons in their closet. 1.00
00:08:03.860 You know, when you have somebody who's just like pushing whatever agenda, like, you know, I don't know if I should say his name, but like, you know, all these big facing names.
00:08:13.520 And it's just so funny how they get all self-righteous because it's the same thing.
00:08:17.520 Like when you see the stuff in the manosphere and the Redfield creators, like some of these guys, like, you know, my girl always submits to me.
00:08:23.000 And like, we never have problems.
00:08:24.380 And like every time we have sexy orgasms, it's like, no, that's not true.
00:08:28.820 That's just not true. 1.00
00:08:29.660 Anybody trying to put on this facade of perfection, morally, you know, physically, relationship-wise, whatever, that's a thousand percent bullshit. 0.99
00:08:38.800 Because we are all flawed people. 0.98
00:08:40.820 Nobody's perfect.
00:08:42.140 You know, I think the number one thing that matters is you just strive to do better.
00:08:45.320 But, well, and the one thing that irritates me is they just, especially like from the conservative side, they'll crucify him for the cam work stuff.
00:08:53.840 Yeah.
00:08:54.120 And I'm just like, I'm just like, he's not perfect.
00:08:56.160 Like, I know he's religious now, but he wasn't always.
00:08:59.500 So you can't judge them by the same.
00:09:01.640 I mean, you can judge them and disagree with it, but it doesn't mean they belong in prison.
00:09:06.040 Yeah.
00:09:06.420 But the thing is, do these same men not watch porn? 0.98
00:09:09.360 Yeah. 0.84
00:09:09.740 Like, I can guarantee you that they're the ones who watch porn secretly. 1.00
00:09:14.020 So it's just, the whole thing is so hypocritical and just pathetic to listen to. 0.99
00:09:20.040 I'm not going to lie. 0.99
00:09:20.940 He made a lady's money too.
00:09:22.440 He made himself money.
00:09:23.820 So I don't really understand what the issue is.
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