This Is The BIGGEST LIE Spread By Hollywood
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Summary
Why are women turning back on their men? Why is it that women in families are happier than women without families? Why does this happen? What can we do about it? Is it because women are more selfish than ever before?
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Women in families are happier than women without families.
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Eighty percent of women that are single and childless are not happy that they're there.
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By the way, the single most unhappiest demographic, the single most unhappiest demographic,
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there's lots of data on this, is 40-year-old single unmarried women.
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I'm not saying everybody is like, statistics don't apply to individuals, but that's just like data.
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And it's like, why do we, I feel like Hollywood, Hollywood has brainwashed us into thinking
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that traditional women were not happy because there were unhappy times.
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You know, I know a couple, and I've told this story a couple of times.
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This couple, they were, they were together and the woman, the man actually left the house
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So he left, he left the house completely, left her.
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And this woman was so Catholic that she prayed, she prayed to God for a solution.
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And she said, God, please, God, like, send my husband home.
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And they, and they stayed married for 50 years.
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She, she looked at herself and said, what, how did I contribute to this?
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But women, women like that don't exist anymore.
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Like women that really believe the families before me.
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But why, why are the women, but you've got to ask yourself these questions.
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Because, I mean, some of the number, like some of the top indicators of divorce are financial cheating.
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It's like financial cheating and irreconcilable differences.
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Because that means that they have a strong woman behind them.
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This is where the women, we take way too much credit.
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Now, Melinda, Melinda Gates and Bill Gates, okay?
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Was Bill Gates suddenly lost and not, now, don't get me wrong.
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I'm not saying that the women have no part to play.
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But the successful men are going to be successful regardless.
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When Melinda, or let's take the Bezos, Jeff Bezos and whatever.
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When it comes to his success, was he not going to be successful when raising the kids,
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Like, behind every successful man is not always a successful woman.
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You know, of a millionaires, they're married, right?
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No, but you're saying, here's what a man, blah, blah, blah, successful, blah, woman, this and that.
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Like she says, women are always breaking up the home.
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Do you think that you have no room for improvement?
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So because it's like, if someone says to me, millionaires aren't trying to marry you, I would
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It's the question is, how can I improve to get there?
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If you're not where you want to be, how can you improve to get there?
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But you have to admit there's a problem in order to get there.
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So by taking the steps and if you're being distracted by men that, you know, they're not
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If you had a partner and you turn around to him and say, babe, I'm going to quit my job
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He ain't going to even see your vision or your goal.
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Would you want your man to stick by you on your journey?
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I didn't have a boyfriend then, but honestly, when I told my dad, he supported me.
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No, but this is, this is what, but this is, if just because, but just because this is,
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Listen, listen, my gosh, listen, listen, just because the men, that's the men you pick.
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Most men that I, that I've dated have been extremely supportive.
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And to be fair, I must admit the man who has been truly supportive.
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It's not, it's not wrong, but it's, it's like anytime anyone says anything to you, it's
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I just know, but I have, you know, I'm, I'm probably coming from a place where I'm talking
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from a lot of women who's probably coming from the, um, another different background
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I mean, I talk to, you know how many people I talk to?
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I've talked to hundreds and, and I'm telling you, you sound, it, it sounds delusional.
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Like the way you talk just sounds so, but like, it's not, it is not, you've got to be
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deluded in order to quit your job and be a TikToker.
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You've got to be deluded, you've got to be so far more delusion.
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And, and when, and when, and when I figured out I wasn't getting, listen, listen, and
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when you figure out you're not getting the outcome you want, you have to change something.
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And there were times where I was not getting the outcome I wanted and I had to change
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But when you, it's like, there's no, you, you act like there's no room for improvement
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Based on the way you've, you've conducted yourself in this conversation and you can take
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What do you mean there's no room for improvement?
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Can I, um, I have a really funny, this is a Jerry Seinfeld joke and it's like, it's been
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called, I think it's Jerry Seinfeld and I want to give the right credit.
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He said, the funniest thing ever is that when you see two homeless people talking to each
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When you see two homeless, when you see two homeless people talking to each other, one
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And one of the things I teach the young fellows and gals in our company, I say this really
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I say, never take advice from somebody with whom you wouldn't trade lives with.
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So, guys, if you're watching this right now, Pearl, you have an awesome audience.
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They're trying to decipher what's true, what's not true, because they're getting different
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Look at the person that you would love their life and follow their advice.
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And then look at the person that you would not want their life and do the opposite.
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And that's probably the core of what people want to get at.
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Okay, guys, I'm going to read Super Chats, and then I think we're going to close out the
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Guys, make sure you like the video, and all Super Chats are going towards Blessing.
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Pearl, can I just compliment what you're doing?
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Like, I don't know what your dad told you or if you just picked it up.
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Like, you have a guy that's, like, employed by you or working with you, and you give him
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a vision and a goal, something that can be achieved.
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You make it public, so you crystallize it, so you're committed to that goal.
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Like, dude, she cares about you, and she actually wants you to win.
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See, I just, I've always felt like my skill has always been getting the most talented
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people in a room, and Blessing, genuinely, is the best producer, and there's no one better
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Well, you posted on LinkedIn today that you were looking for an editor or something, and
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I have a guy that's got, I think, 1.6 million followers there on LinkedIn, and I tagged him
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Because I was like, when I met your team last time, I went back to my video guy.
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I'm like, he couldn't come on this trip, and you need to come with me.
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You need to come with me, because we need to learn from these guys, because they're
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No, I mean, I've just always felt like you should give, because I'm just not very money
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And so I just felt like if I have someone that's really talented, like, why would I not
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give them all the resources that they can to, and, you know, now I think we have the best
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But he does run my credit card like it's no tomorrow.
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So, you know, we were running out of money, you know what I mean?
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Maybe, you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
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