JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023


This Is The BIGGEST LIE Spread By Hollywood


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10 minutes

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2,047

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206

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Summary

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Why are women turning back on their men? Why is it that women in families are happier than women without families? Why does this happen? What can we do about it? Is it because women are more selfish than ever before?

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00:00:00.000 Women in families are happier than women without families. 1.00
00:00:03.240 Eighty percent of women that are single and childless are not happy that they're there. 0.97
00:00:06.700 By the way, the single most unhappiest demographic, the single most unhappiest demographic, 1.00
00:00:12.880 there's lots of data on this, is 40-year-old single unmarried women. 1.00
00:00:15.480 The single most unhappiest demographic.
00:00:18.400 I'm not saying everybody is like, statistics don't apply to individuals, but that's just like data.
00:00:23.100 And it's just right there.
00:00:24.520 And it's like, why do we, I feel like Hollywood, Hollywood has brainwashed us into thinking
00:00:30.840 that traditional women were not happy because there were unhappy times.
00:00:37.040 You know, I know a couple, and I've told this story a couple of times.
00:00:39.860 This couple, they were, they were together and the woman, the man actually left the house
00:00:45.580 for, for a side check.
00:00:47.520 So he left, he left the house completely, left her.
00:00:50.500 And this woman was so Catholic that she prayed, she prayed to God for a solution.
00:00:53.980 And she said, God, please, God, like, send my husband home.
00:00:56.920 I just want to work it out.
00:00:58.060 Da, da, da, da, da.
00:00:58.960 Side check died.
00:01:00.640 Da who?
00:01:01.160 Side check.
00:01:01.800 She died.
00:01:03.880 And, and he came home.
00:01:05.340 Wow.
00:01:05.560 And they, and they stayed married for 50 years.
00:01:07.300 That sounds like murder, Pearl.
00:01:09.360 No, no, no, no.
00:01:10.400 That sounds like an excuse for murder.
00:01:12.480 No, no, no, I promise.
00:01:13.740 I promise.
00:01:14.440 They, they lived far.
00:01:15.460 I promise.
00:01:15.900 I promise.
00:01:16.200 No murder, no murder.
00:01:17.360 But, but that's, that's what I mean.
00:01:18.960 And, and she wasn't spiteful.
00:01:20.480 She didn't hold it over his head.
00:01:21.820 She, she looked at herself and said, what, how did I contribute to this?
00:01:25.040 And how can we solve it?
00:01:25.940 But women, women like that don't exist anymore. 1.00
00:01:28.720 That doesn't exist.
00:01:29.720 It's true.
00:01:30.280 They don't.
00:01:30.800 They really don't.
00:01:31.460 Yeah.
00:01:31.840 Like women that really believe the families before me. 0.91
00:01:34.660 But why, why are the women, but you've got to ask yourself these questions.
00:01:39.860 Why are the women turning back on their men? 1.00
00:01:43.180 Why?
00:01:44.300 Because they're selfish.
00:01:46.240 Because they're selfish.
00:01:47.480 Apart from being selfish.
00:01:49.880 Yeah.
00:01:50.120 I need more than selfishness.
00:01:51.900 It can't be that.
00:01:52.460 Because, I mean, some of the number, like some of the top indicators of divorce are financial cheating.
00:02:01.260 What are the other ones?
00:02:02.360 It's like financial cheating and irreconcilable differences.
00:02:08.100 Yeah.
00:02:08.260 That's like the top three.
00:02:09.240 I just want to point out again.
00:02:10.600 85% of millionaires are married.
00:02:12.700 85, Google it.
00:02:13.740 All right.
00:02:13.960 85% of millionaires are married.
00:02:15.440 No, that's good.
00:02:16.260 Because that means that they have a strong woman behind them.
00:02:19.480 Oh, is that what it means?
00:02:20.200 Behind every successful woman.
00:02:21.960 Oh, see, this is.
00:02:22.420 Successful man is a strong woman. 0.98
00:02:24.420 No.
00:02:24.940 This is where the women, we take way too much credit. 1.00
00:02:27.860 I'll give you an example.
00:02:28.860 Now, Melinda, Melinda Gates and Bill Gates, okay?
00:02:32.540 Melinda Gates and Bill Gates.
00:02:34.080 Was Bill Gates suddenly lost and not, now, don't get me wrong.
00:02:38.600 I'm not saying that the women have no part to play. 0.96
00:02:40.960 What happened in that, though?
00:02:41.460 But the successful men are going to be successful regardless.
00:02:44.700 When Melinda, or let's take the Bezos, Jeff Bezos and whatever.
00:02:49.780 Look in the pack.
00:02:50.660 Whatever.
00:02:51.280 I forgot his word.
00:02:52.100 Like, he got richer, she got poorer.
00:02:54.140 Mm-mm.
00:02:54.780 Was she that important?
00:02:56.820 When it comes to his success, was he not going to be successful when raising the kids,
00:03:00.300 having a home, the family?
00:03:00.640 He was always going to be successful.
00:03:02.280 That's the point.
00:03:03.020 Like, behind every successful man is not always a successful woman. 0.99
00:03:07.240 It's a supportive woman.
00:03:08.120 If the statistics are 85% of millionaires.
00:03:11.980 It has to balance out, though.
00:03:12.920 You know, of a millionaires, they're married, right?
00:03:15.880 That means that they're truly happy.
00:03:18.360 They're happy to make money.
00:03:20.200 They're happy to go home.
00:03:21.720 They're happy to be with their wives.
00:03:23.740 And happiness makes a success.
00:03:25.600 And they're not marrying you.
00:03:27.180 That should be a concern.
00:03:28.700 No, it's not about me.
00:03:30.380 It's about statistics.
00:03:31.320 No, but you're saying, here's what a man, blah, blah, blah, successful, blah, woman, this and that.
00:03:35.620 It's like, where is your millionaire?
00:03:37.520 I chose not to be, okay?
00:03:40.960 I chose not to be.
00:03:42.180 We have choices.
00:03:43.440 Like she says, women are always breaking up the home. 1.00
00:03:45.640 Maybe it was me.
00:03:46.520 I walked away.
00:03:47.840 I did.
00:03:48.480 Do you think that you have no room for improvement?
00:03:51.380 There's no room.
00:03:52.600 There's room.
00:03:53.560 There's a lot of room.
00:03:54.560 But you've got to do it with the right people.
00:03:56.240 So why is that your answer?
00:03:58.540 Why?
00:03:58.720 So because it's like, if someone says to me, millionaires aren't trying to marry you, I would
00:04:02.840 be like, okay, well.
00:04:03.740 I'm not trying to hear that.
00:04:05.120 You're just saying 85%.
00:04:06.680 I don't know why you had to break it down.
00:04:08.460 I like that.
00:04:09.000 I find that a bit harsh.
00:04:09.760 Listen, listen, okay.
00:04:11.520 It's the question is, how can I improve to get there?
00:04:14.100 If you're not where you want to be, how can you improve to get there?
00:04:17.100 But you have to admit there's a problem in order to get there.
00:04:19.840 So by taking the steps and if you're being distracted by men that, you know, they're not
00:04:25.900 going to be supportive on your journey.
00:04:28.040 Okay.
00:04:28.360 It's going to be a fickle journey.
00:04:29.980 If you had a partner and you turn around to him and say, babe, I'm going to quit my job
00:04:37.960 and I'm going to be a TikToker. 0.83
00:04:39.600 He's going to look at you like, what, babe?
00:04:41.360 Really?
00:04:42.060 He ain't going to even see your vision or your goal.
00:04:45.500 Would you want your man to stick by you on your journey?
00:04:48.280 I didn't.
00:04:48.960 I didn't have a boyfriend then, but honestly, when I told my dad, he supported me.
00:04:54.560 That's your father, babe.
00:04:55.540 No, but this is, this is what, but this is, if just because, but just because this is,
00:05:00.300 and not many men do.
00:05:01.120 Listen, listen, my gosh, listen, listen, just because the men, that's the men you pick.
00:05:05.320 That's the men you deal with.
00:05:06.580 A founder.
00:05:07.440 That's, that's the men that you pick.
00:05:09.320 All men are not like that.
00:05:11.080 Wow.
00:05:11.520 Most men that I, that I've dated have been extremely supportive.
00:05:14.500 And to be fair, I must admit the man who has been truly supportive.
00:05:18.020 I'm just not attracted to him.
00:05:20.320 Obviously.
00:05:20.940 I can't.
00:05:21.560 Obviously.
00:05:22.480 Obviously.
00:05:22.760 No, but that is my personal choice.
00:05:26.480 Why is it so wrong for me to have choices?
00:05:28.620 It's not, it's not wrong, but it's, it's like anytime anyone says anything to you, it's
00:05:33.920 like you're arguing.
00:05:35.040 I just know, but I have, you know, I'm, I'm probably coming from a place where I'm talking
00:05:41.320 from a lot of women who's probably coming from the, um, another different background 1.00
00:05:45.660 and it hasn't been so privileged.
00:05:47.960 I mean, I talk to, you know how many people I talk to?
00:05:50.380 Oh my God.
00:05:50.960 I talked to, I've talked to hundreds of women. 0.98
00:05:53.680 I've talked to hundreds and, and I'm telling you, you sound, it, it sounds delusional.
00:05:59.640 Like the way you talk just sounds so, but like, it's not, it is not, you've got to be
00:06:05.580 deluded in order to quit your job and be a TikToker. 0.71
00:06:09.520 You've got to be deluded, you've got to be so far more delusion.
00:06:12.800 And yet, but this is the thing.
00:06:15.460 I have outcomes.
00:06:17.100 Yes.
00:06:17.680 Outcomes.
00:06:18.080 And, and when, and when, and when I figured out I wasn't getting, listen, listen, and
00:06:23.240 when you figure out you're not getting the outcome you want, you have to change something.
00:06:28.760 Definitely.
00:06:29.140 And there were times where I was not getting the outcome I wanted and I had to change
00:06:32.860 something.
00:06:33.680 But when you, it's like, there's no, you, you act like there's no room for improvement
00:06:38.360 ever.
00:06:39.240 What do you mean?
00:06:40.320 Based on the way you've, you've conducted yourself in this conversation and you can take
00:06:45.020 it or leave it.
00:06:45.520 It's your life.
00:06:46.020 What do you mean there's no room for improvement?
00:06:48.320 I don't get that part.
00:06:49.840 Can I, um, I have a really funny, this is a Jerry Seinfeld joke and it's like, it's been
00:06:54.900 called, I think it's Jerry Seinfeld and I want to give the right credit.
00:06:57.280 He said, the funniest thing ever is that when you see two homeless people talking to each
00:07:01.320 other, one is giving the other advice.
00:07:04.100 Oh, bless.
00:07:05.260 Let's just think about that again.
00:07:06.440 I want to say it again.
00:07:07.220 When you see two homeless, when you see two homeless people talking to each other, one
00:07:11.860 is giving the other advice.
00:07:13.740 Are they both homeless?
00:07:14.560 Well, yeah, so, so the point that, right.
00:07:16.180 So that's really kind of funny.
00:07:17.280 It's like, what's he telling?
00:07:18.120 Yeah, do this.
00:07:18.760 Oh, okay.
00:07:19.240 Like, it's like, it's so absurdly funny.
00:07:21.480 And one of the things I teach the young fellows and gals in our company, I say this really
00:07:25.760 with no irony.
00:07:26.540 I say, never take advice from somebody with whom you wouldn't trade lives with.
00:07:31.400 So, guys, if you're watching this right now, Pearl, you have an awesome audience.
00:07:35.660 They're trying to decipher what's true, what's not true, because they're getting different
00:07:38.460 messages, right?
00:07:39.380 Look at the person that you would love their life and follow their advice.
00:07:43.620 And then look at the person that you would not want their life and do the opposite.
00:07:47.240 And that's probably the core of what people want to get at.
00:07:50.640 Okay, guys, I'm going to read Super Chats, and then I think we're going to close out the
00:07:55.940 show.
00:07:58.600 Guys, make sure you like the video, and all Super Chats are going towards Blessing.
00:08:05.320 Tell them what camera you want, Blessing.
00:08:07.220 I got to get this to the Super Chat button.
00:08:10.640 It's 281.
00:08:13.340 Let's get that camera. 0.71
00:08:14.300 How much is it?
00:08:17.420 Five something.
00:08:18.740 Five?
00:08:19.220 How are you killing me?
00:08:19.940 Pearl, can I just compliment what you're doing?
00:08:21.520 It's brilliant.
00:08:21.960 This is leadership.
00:08:22.720 Like, I don't know what your dad told you or if you just picked it up.
00:08:25.420 Like, this is amazing.
00:08:26.280 Like, you have a guy that's, like, employed by you or working with you, and you give him
00:08:30.140 a vision and a goal, something that can be achieved.
00:08:32.360 You make it public, so you crystallize it, so you're committed to that goal.
00:08:35.760 Like, dude, she cares about you, and she actually wants you to win.
00:08:38.900 Yeah, Blessing.
00:08:39.300 That's freaking great leadership, man.
00:08:40.880 I'm really, like, that's really impressive.
00:08:43.320 See, I just, I've always felt like my skill has always been getting the most talented
00:08:49.100 people in a room, and Blessing, genuinely, is the best producer, and there's no one better
00:08:53.380 than Blessing.
00:08:53.920 Well, you posted on LinkedIn today that you were looking for an editor or something, and
00:08:57.860 I have a guy that's got, I think, 1.6 million followers there on LinkedIn, and I tagged him
00:09:02.680 in, and he's been boosting that post.
00:09:04.100 Check it out.
00:09:04.460 Because I was like, when I met your team last time, I went back to my video guy.
00:09:07.940 I'm like, he couldn't come on this trip, and you need to come with me.
00:09:10.220 You need to come with me, because we need to learn from these guys, because they're
00:09:12.660 pros.
00:09:12.920 Like, really good people.
00:09:14.300 Yeah.
00:09:14.720 No, I mean, I've just always felt like you should give, because I'm just not very money
00:09:20.580 motivated.
00:09:21.200 I'm just very, like, project motivated.
00:09:23.380 And so I just felt like if I have someone that's really talented, like, why would I not
00:09:27.040 give them all the resources that they can to, and, you know, now I think we have the best
00:09:31.000 set on YouTube, in my opinion.
00:09:33.220 Shout out, Blessing.
00:09:34.700 Yeah, shout out to you, Blessing.
00:09:35.980 Shout out to Missy. 1.00
00:09:37.060 But yeah, guys.
00:09:39.980 But he does run my credit card like it's no tomorrow.
00:09:43.220 Oh my God.
00:09:44.440 He just goes crazy.
00:09:45.540 I had to ban him for, like, a month or two.
00:09:47.780 So, you know, we were running out of money, you know what I mean?
00:09:51.060 Stop sending super chats.
00:09:52.220 Maybe, you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:09:58.560 this platform.
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