JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


This Is The Worst Type Of Woman


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Length

11 minutes

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188.53017

Word count

2,219

Sentence count

224

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Misogyny

13

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and good sister, to talk about what it's like to be a millennial. We talk about our generation and how we grew up in the 80s and 90s.

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00:00:00.000 I don't know if your audience knows, getting pregnant is hard.
00:00:04.220 Statistically, it's hard.
00:00:05.440 Well, there's 40.
00:00:06.100 That's why.
00:00:07.340 When the girls come on my show, I say it just happened.
00:00:10.020 I'm like, what do you mean it just happened?
00:00:11.260 There's 41 forms of birth control.
00:00:13.320 There's 41 forms of birth control.
00:00:14.720 You ovulate like three days a month?
00:00:16.080 Three days a month.
00:00:16.920 Stop it.
00:00:17.540 And not only that, you got to have it protected, and you got to have the egg reach, the sperm reach the egg,
00:00:23.020 which is mathematically almost a miracle.
00:00:25.600 And then you have to have the baby deliver, which is a miracle.
00:00:28.140 I don't know if you guys, your audience knows, always tell my people your miracles, right?
00:00:32.140 This act is miraculous.
00:00:34.840 It's like the odds are low.
00:00:37.420 But these people do it three, four, five times.
00:00:40.420 To me, it's intentional.
00:00:41.860 It's really intentional.
00:00:43.020 When you see what happens out of here, that these people keep getting knocked up, it's completely intentional.
00:00:49.180 And then what you got birth control.
00:00:50.760 So if I wear a gown, how did I get knocked?
00:00:52.200 How did I get you knocked up?
00:00:53.280 I mean, the mathematics.
00:00:54.420 And there's abortion, too.
00:00:55.660 Like, I mean, yeah, I mean, like, I'm personally pro-life, but, like, you can, you can get, like, it's.
00:01:02.640 If you, if you said, I can't afford to have this kid, I need child support, you could have, you could have terminated.
00:01:08.260 You could have, this ended up for adoption.
00:01:10.320 You could have not got pregnant because you were unable to afford the child.
00:01:14.700 But, but you keep getting pregnant. 1.00
00:01:16.220 That's it.
00:01:17.300 And I, that's the crazy thing.
00:01:18.940 Every person I know that's, like, had an, like, irresponsible pregnancy. 0.54
00:01:23.360 Right.
00:01:23.640 They were just reckless.
00:01:25.220 They were just, it was, I'm just like, what on earth?
00:01:28.300 Well, hey, to your audience, the worst thing a woman can ever be in life is a single mother. 1.00
00:01:32.540 You heard it here first.
00:01:33.720 Yeah, I agree with you.
00:01:34.640 Single mother.
00:01:35.460 Basically, she's shooting herself from the foot. 1.00
00:01:36.920 So, I have no sympathy for single mothers out here, although I was raised by a single mother.
00:01:42.140 But I always tell my daughter, never be that.
00:01:44.660 I mean, you're basically just complicating life.
00:01:46.620 And you're penalizing the child.
00:01:48.880 And you're going to just basically ruin the child.
00:01:51.520 That's what you're not going to do.
00:01:52.540 What do you, so, okay, so.
00:01:55.780 You got divorced.
00:01:56.900 Yeah.
00:01:57.620 And you said you're married for 10 years and you got divorced.
00:02:00.120 Almost 10 years.
00:02:00.440 Almost 10 years, got divorced.
00:02:02.360 And then you entered the dating scene.
00:02:05.280 Yeah.
00:02:06.160 Dating.
00:02:06.480 What was that like?
00:02:08.160 These hoes crazy out here. 1.00
00:02:09.720 No.
00:02:10.120 What was it like?
00:02:11.200 I got an education in the generation X and millennials quite different.
00:02:16.020 So, younger millennials tend to, they want to push off marriage as long as they possibly could.
00:02:22.720 My generation was not quite like that.
00:02:24.720 It was getting to that point.
00:02:26.200 But millennials typically go like 29, 30, 32, 34.
00:02:31.000 But before all of that, they was going to be in these streets, right?
00:02:34.520 They were going to be out here.
00:02:35.580 They were getting ran through more times than the Holland Tunnel, all right?
00:02:38.800 So, they were going to be partying.
00:02:40.820 We call it the Holland Tunnel in New York.
00:02:42.540 So, they got ran through more times than the Holland Tunnel.
00:02:44.680 And the Holland Tunnel was the busiest tunnel in New York.
00:02:47.140 It goes from New York to New Jersey, okay?
00:02:49.140 Busiest tunnel almost in America.
00:02:50.720 And a lot of women started to show that that's the lifestyle that they live, sex in the city. 1.00
00:02:57.740 Yeah, I'm going to live over here and go over here, backpack through Europe, and blah, blah, blah.
00:03:01.360 And then they were going to say, oh, I'm marriage material now.
00:03:05.100 Well, the marriage rates have plummeted since this generation, that generation, millennials. 1.00
00:03:10.620 But they will say millennials are staying married more and all of that stuff.
00:03:16.960 But they're not being honest because they're still young.
00:03:20.280 Many of them are barely hitting 40.
00:03:22.980 So, yeah, that's now.
00:03:24.940 But, you know, there's generation.
00:03:26.760 There's this baby boomers getting divorced right now in the 70s, right? 0.99
00:03:30.160 So, just wait.
00:03:32.080 Give it time.
00:03:33.860 But dating-wise, I thought, you know, let me give your audience some context.
00:03:39.620 When I got married and was engaged, there was no dating apps.
00:03:45.500 There was no smartphones.
00:03:48.240 There was not even text messages back and forth.
00:03:51.460 They started making phones.
00:03:53.500 I'm 47.
00:03:55.880 By the time you guys see this, I'm 47.
00:03:57.540 I'm 46 right now.
00:03:58.540 So, there was no, we had pagers and stuff like that and little link pagers.
00:04:04.520 But we had no smartphone where you could just get an app, swipe, swipe, swipe.
00:04:08.340 That was 2002.
00:04:09.960 I think 2002 when I got engaged.
00:04:13.120 2004 by the time I got married.
00:04:15.060 So, that's what that was.
00:04:16.880 And even dating, they had dating websites like Match.com was around, I believe.
00:04:21.260 And there was other things.
00:04:22.880 But you were a loser if you were on Match.
00:04:26.220 You were a complete loser.
00:04:27.740 Like, you were a loser.
00:04:29.740 You on a dating site?
00:04:31.400 Loser.
00:04:32.600 So, the idea that you couldn't get your person out in the open, right?
00:04:37.140 That was loser shit.
00:04:38.540 So, with that being said, I got divorced and separated 2012.
00:04:44.440 There's smartphones now.
00:04:45.940 There's Tinder.
00:04:46.980 There's plenty of fish.
00:04:48.320 There's Instagram.
00:04:49.540 There's Instagram is just starting up.
00:04:51.880 So, that's what I got reintroduced in the dating market.
00:04:54.740 So, it was like a highway.
00:04:56.840 It was like a fast-moving highway.
00:04:58.700 But before, it was a crawl.
00:05:00.640 Did you try to, like, court some, like, hoes at all? 1.00
00:05:04.400 When you entered, like, the dating scene?
00:05:07.620 I didn't court them.
00:05:08.620 I ran through them, too.
00:05:09.780 You know what I mean?
00:05:11.760 I had my fun.
00:05:13.140 You know what I mean?
00:05:13.580 You're like, what's your body kind of want to add to it?
00:05:16.060 I think what happened was sex was much easier given.
00:05:20.180 See, this is what the crazy thing is.
00:05:22.280 To get sex when I was about getting engaged was tough.
00:05:25.480 You had to work.
00:05:26.640 You had to talk to the woman.
00:05:27.940 You couldn't, you know, unless you just met a fabulous 304 and you were just lucky that night.
00:05:33.520 Remember, it was getting lucky.
00:05:34.900 There's no such thing as getting lucky.
00:05:36.160 It was just almost a guarantee.
00:05:37.680 So, by the time I'm getting back out, Instagram had just started becoming a thing.
00:05:43.180 This was the baby infancy of Instagram.
00:05:45.460 And so, I'm getting divorced during Instagram's peak.
00:05:49.520 People were, girls were flying in, themselves in.
00:05:53.540 They were flying themselves in.
00:05:55.140 Girls were driving hours. 1.00
00:05:56.580 I mean, it was just like what I call the digital sexual revolution.
00:06:00.240 And it was nothing like that when I was getting married or a situation like that.
00:06:06.360 Yeah, it was nothing like that.
00:06:07.680 So, what did you find out about female nature, like, through this?
00:06:14.580 What did I find out about female nature? 1.00
00:06:17.820 I just think that, by that time, what did I find out?
00:06:21.620 How are you doing all year?
00:06:22.880 Yeah, that's good.
00:06:23.680 I keep checking it.
00:06:24.500 So, we're good.
00:06:24.980 We're good.
00:06:25.240 Like, female nature at that time. 1.00
00:06:29.180 I think I was learning that what they say and what they do are two separate things.
00:06:34.160 Okay.
00:06:34.800 So, that was basically the epiphany.
00:06:37.120 I was like, they're saying this, but they're doing this.
00:06:39.080 They're doing this under the cover at night.
00:06:40.900 But they're out there.
00:06:41.700 I'm an angel.
00:06:42.460 You know what I mean?
00:06:42.960 Like, that type of stuff.
00:06:44.080 And I'm like, this is crazy.
00:06:45.640 So, that probably was the epiphany and to not trust what they do.
00:06:52.200 Because I think what people will tell you, and I will tell you, young men, whatever your belief system in women, it's going to be validated by social media and dating apps.
00:07:03.880 So, if you think girls are out here being pure, well, based on your experience, is that true? 1.00
00:07:11.340 Most of the time, if you're using social media and dating apps, you're going to find out that there's a lot of fast and loose women. 1.00
00:07:18.460 Then that's going to validate what your belief system is going forward and backwards, right?
00:07:23.860 You're going to look back on the relationship.
00:07:25.500 My girl disappeared all the time Friday at 8 o'clock.
00:07:29.100 What was she doing?
00:07:30.340 You know, she was learning how to use her easy bake oven or she was getting piped down, right? 0.92
00:07:35.060 She's getting piped down because it's easy.
00:07:38.060 So, you will know that because you'll be the guy piping women down that Friday. 0.61
00:07:42.300 And when she goes radio silent on her guys that she's dating, she's got multiple options.
00:07:46.860 And also, when you get that text message, this is the text message.
00:07:52.360 I don't know if it's popular now, but the, oh, I fell asleep.
00:07:56.440 You know, you text them at 8 o'clock.
00:07:59.280 Oh, I fell asleep.
00:08:00.180 She texts you in the morning.
00:08:01.220 Oh, I fell asleep.
00:08:02.260 You know, I'm getting back to you.
00:08:03.900 Well, based on your experience, you know that that's not true.
00:08:07.580 She was getting ran through.
00:08:09.920 As we called it over here, she was getting her insides pushed to her esophagus. 1.00
00:08:12.980 That's what she was doing.
00:08:14.100 She wasn't just falling asleep, you know.
00:08:16.120 So, what about the guys that say not all women are like that?
00:08:20.940 That could be true.
00:08:22.040 Yeah.
00:08:22.680 That could be true.
00:08:23.560 I mean, people will say there's no unicorn.
00:08:26.020 There's no any of that type of stuff.
00:08:28.160 If you believe that not all women are like that, I tell you, roll the dice.
00:08:32.340 Roll the dice, bet on her.
00:08:34.360 And then you'll find out whether you're going to win or lose.
00:08:37.020 But I think we talk in generalities here.
00:08:39.660 I can't talk specifically about who does what.
00:08:43.080 But I have some women that I would thought never was 304s. 1.00
00:08:47.360 And when they got to the crib, they was full on 304s. 0.98
00:08:51.280 And then vice versa.
00:08:52.320 Some women, I was like, she is scab peeling skeezer. 1.00
00:08:54.680 And then all of a sudden, she gets to the house and she's all nervous about things.
00:08:58.480 What the hell is going on?
00:08:59.400 So, it's almost different.
00:09:01.720 Yeah.
00:09:02.560 So, tell me about your interview.
00:09:06.240 Can we talk about the interview you did?
00:09:08.280 Yeah, we can talk about that.
00:09:09.980 That seems to be going around like wild right now.
00:09:12.420 Yeah, that's like going crazy right now.
00:09:14.740 Yeah.
00:09:16.120 Yeah, I got invited to this show.
00:09:18.880 And then, you know, Hafiz was there.
00:09:22.220 And obviously, people wanted to see the debate between our particular content.
00:09:27.240 But I didn't know he was going to be there.
00:09:31.040 So, I showed up.
00:09:32.360 And I was like, what?
00:09:33.200 We doing what?
00:09:34.280 But so, I never considered it a debate.
00:09:36.700 I just recorded the interview and said what I said.
00:09:39.100 They were asking me questions directly.
00:09:41.180 And then they would see if he disagreed.
00:09:43.140 That's basically how the debate went.
00:09:45.520 So, I was on trial.
00:09:47.980 He would just basically get a chance to respond.
00:09:50.520 That's kind of how it looked at.
00:09:51.900 What were some of his rebuttals?
00:09:54.300 I've watched the interview.
00:09:55.180 You watched the interview?
00:09:55.820 Yeah, but remind them.
00:09:57.180 Okay, I would say most of his rebuttals.
00:09:59.160 I think what he's trying to stand on is trying to have a balanced conversation, right?
00:10:02.840 So, he looks at people who are in the red pill space as imbalanced.
00:10:07.460 I don't think that's an authentic argument because we're content creators as well.
00:10:11.800 So, if you want balance, I mean, I think what you're trying to do is tell me to torpedo my lane and my channel.
00:10:17.960 What are you trying to tell me to do?
00:10:19.020 Because we can have a balanced conversation by having two different opinions.
00:10:24.380 But my opinion is this.
00:10:25.880 Like, so, if I'm saying my channel is about Ferraris and then you want me to tell me to drive forward tomorrow.
00:10:32.980 What do you want me to do?
00:10:34.840 You know what I mean?
00:10:35.840 He did that to me, too.
00:10:37.440 He did that to me.
00:10:38.400 He did that to you?
00:10:39.340 Yeah, I interviewed him the next day.
00:10:41.400 Okay, okay.
00:10:42.040 So, look, people, he should know how content works.
00:10:47.120 Right.
00:10:47.660 So, that's where he's not authentic because he knows how this works.
00:10:53.260 And now you're telling me to be balanced based on your interpretation of how it works.
00:10:57.980 But that's not the conversation that we have on social media.
00:11:01.160 I think people tend to subscribe to channels that have a certain message.
00:11:07.620 Period.
00:11:08.020 Now, if you go off that, if I invite you into my channel and say this is what we're talking about,
00:11:12.320 and the next day I flip to try to have a balanced conversation, that's not authentic.
00:11:16.900 But then his argument is, well, you're only doing it for the money.
00:11:19.340 Look, this is how social media works.
00:11:21.420 You know, what are we doing here?
00:11:22.520 Are we going to have an authentic conversation about how social media works?
00:11:25.980 Or you want a balanced conversation?
00:11:28.120 But it can't be both.
00:11:30.220 Many of you know I was just banned on TikTok.
00:11:33.140 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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