This Is Why Boss Babes Are Single And Lonely
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the importance of staying in your feminine energy and how to be a better wife, mother, daughter, and friend to your partner. We also talk about how important it is to stay in the feminine energy so you can be the best version of yourself.
Transcript
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I think women are having burnout, endocrine disruption, cancer, depression.
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I mean, there's all these issues with women's health because they're trying to be a man.
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He said women and men don't handle stress the same.
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And it really messes up our hormones being in high stress positions.
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And you know what, Madison, if you stay in your feminine energy and you come home and you look after your partner,
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your man is going to want to look after and do everything in his power to make sure you're good.
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As long as you stay in your feminine and you look after that man, he's going to do everything for you.
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But earlier with what I was saying, if you're not showing certain things to him, he's going to see that.
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But if he sees you're making effort, like even cooking, cooking, if you want to get through to a man's heart, it's through his belly.
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Yeah, and I also, I fell into the boss babe culture for a long time when I was obese and I started losing weight.
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And it was when I had the daddy issues, when I didn't have a good relationship with my father.
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And it wasn't until I healed my relationship with my father that I was like, oh, okay.
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I actually, you know, it's really important that I don't have to work like a man.
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I just, I flipped two houses last year and I was like, I don't want to do this anymore.
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And I think that's another part of where all the good women have gone inside of this independence,
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And like Pearl was saying earlier, if you don't have the example, how are you supposed to know?
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And it was like growing up with you as my mom, like you played both roles, the dad and the mom.
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And so that was very interesting because I grew up thinking, oh, I don't need men.
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And I even thought my dad's father was terrible, but now he's like my best friend.
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And I think where the good women are going is they think that it's a bad thing to be feminine.
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I think that the mindset of women today feel like, if I'm like that.
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And now if you're feminine and traditional online, people are like, you're, you know, you're not a feminist.
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Like women are the most beautiful things on planet.
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Well, I think it's probably because women want women to fail and see them.
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I think it's because we're not supposed to be competing with our mom's generation.
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Because the thing is, like, if you have a 45-year-old and you have like a 25-year-old girl, it's like a lot of times the guys you might want are the same age.
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Because women like 45 tend to want guys like, it's like five to seven years younger.
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Where women, 25 want guys five to seven years older, this crossover.
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And I think bitter older women that don't want you to win will tell you the wrong information.
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And it's because, like, if they're being a hoe, right?
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Like, what's the worst feeling when you take a test and you fail?
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What's the worst feeling when everyone else succeeded?
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But if you turn around and they say, I failed too, it's like you feel a little bit better.
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So it's like these women want other people to be miserable in their negative decisions.
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And I've lost hundreds of people because of it.
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Because of succeeding in my relationship and having a healthy relationship with my father.
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And it's like, why do you hate me for having a healthy relationship with my family?
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And especially, I'm like, they don't want you to win.
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They want you to be divorced, miserable, sad, fat, on your phone, on TikTok, dying.
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So would you say that this is like technically just a woman's problem then?
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Because it's women that, it's not technically men that put down women, you know.
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The women trying to be men are hurting the feminine, not the feminine, the beta men, right?
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Well, I think it becomes a problem because you have 80% of women screwing 20% of men.
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I did a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver.
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And it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity.
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But like, it's like you have average chicks thinking they're, they're so great when it's
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like literally you are average, you're average looking, you're an average mindset.
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Most people are average and men will accept this, but women won't.
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So then you, you won't see normal women dating normal men.
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But do you feel like that, that is because social media has a lot to play for it.
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They feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people.
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I mean, they do like, because the issue nowadays, because this is what made me think about this.
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And I was thinking about this and I made a chart and I had like the body count of a woman
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on one hand and I had the looks of a woman on a one hand.
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And so I was like a woman that's eight to 10 with a high or a low body count.
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Do you know what the list is going to be for a girl that that's like that hot with like,
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And so it's like, you could be dating a woman and if there's high competition for her,
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And then I was thinking about it and I was like, unless a guy sleeps with a lot of women,
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how is he going to know the difference between a woman that's been out with everybody and
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No, they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls.
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And I'm like, it's kind of unfortunate because it's like the only solution for the men seems
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to be to sleep around, which I don't think is, you know, great for society, but it's like
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it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping.
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Do you think that men should have more than one woman?
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Um, I, I think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy.
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So I think it's silly to date, say, Jason Derulo, Chris Brown.
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These are extreme examples, but there are certain men that it's very silly to expect it because
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he's never been monogamous and they never will be.
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I think monogamy in general is better for a society.
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Forget the higher, I'm even talking on average men, normal men on a day to day, because obviously
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you've said earlier on that there's more women on the earth than men.
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So on average, how we are naturally, do you think that the average man should have one
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Um, I think that it's better for society if monogamy is better because you get like a
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growing, um, having a lot of sex, sexless men, like usually causes society to collapse.
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Um, so I think monogamy is better by and large, but I think that a certain percentage of men
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Um, and that's kind of the way it's been the last like 2 million years.
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Cause 85%, it's like the last, I don't want to say the, how long it's been like this cause
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I don't remember off the top of my head, but I know like historically they always, it seems
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like all of society has been non-monogamous because 17, um, men, um, reproduced for every,
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uh, one, 17 women reproduced for every one man, like 8,000 years ago.
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And on top of that, there's like two women have always reproduced for every one man, but
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it's actually, um, or 40% of men have never reproduced or 40% of men, I'm sorry, I'm butchering
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this, but, but the 85% of, um, like 85% of society has generally been monogamous where
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the top 15% of men have just been like slaying.
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I know a lot of average men out here that's probably not on these stats doing the same
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And when I say a lot, I'm talking, if you're just talking average men in London, obviously
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Um, I'm, I'm, I can even give you examples of, of, of a few average men.
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That are big in weight and just got no more jobs that are dealing with a lot of women
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So, I mean, typically again, like there's been studies on dating apps and in, in person
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Would you say the top percentage of men are on these dating apps?
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Um, but, but, but, uh, I think that, I think that if you look at the numbers, social media
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is the number one way people, way people are meeting.
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And like when you look at, so then the question is if that's where people are meeting, what
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So that means on the number one way people are meeting, we're sharing men.
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It's always going to be men because we're the hunters.
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We're always going, we're going to be the higher anyway.
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But when you're saying the average men that get women, they probably get women over the
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And so in their twenties, I fully agree with that.
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Because I feel like in the twenties, you're a hundred percent right.
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Between 20 and 30, women are very selective in what they do.
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And then when they get to the 80, you started wheeling off a lot of stats about pregnancy,
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They feel like they can come back to the average man or even go back to a man that was
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trying to get them when they were 18, 19 and feel like they can go back to them.
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But obviously with men, it's a bit different because men at 30,
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And so that's why I say women pick non-monogamy in their twenties when they have the most leverage.
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And they pick the 20% of men that in their thirties, they, we tend to pick like the rest
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And so the issue is like when, when, when women cheat, who do they typically cheat with?
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So the issue that a lot of these guys are getting into, and this is why guys
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don't like typically, like a lot of guys will say, I don't date women over 30 and it's
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It's that if she's 30, like how many relationships has she had as one of those guys better than
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And the odds are he probably is because in her twenties, she had more leverage than
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So what are the odds in her thirties she can get a better guy than in her twenties?