JustPearlyThings - October 18, 2023


This Is Why Dillion Danis Is A G


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

207.21074

Word Count

2,115

Sentence Count

185

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary

In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and fellow podcaster, Andrew Tate, to talk about sex workers, crackheads, and strippers. We talk about the role of men in society and how they need to stop rewarding sex workers and crackheads.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 But you also talked about the social shame.
00:00:01.760 You've got to shame them into agreeing.
00:00:04.020 Well, I think we could start by not rewarding it.
00:00:06.660 I think that's step one.
00:00:07.920 Maybe no money, no OnlyFans.
00:00:10.820 Maybe the guys come in, stop marrying the Kim Kardashian,
00:00:14.620 stop giving these women commitment, Neon.
00:00:17.360 You know, men used to, like, shame other simps.
00:00:19.680 You know, Dylan Danis is really doing a service to the men throughout this country.
00:00:24.240 But, you know, it's interesting because you talk about the free markets and capitalism.
00:00:28.260 I would say the onus is on the men, the simps, the guys who are paying these women.
00:00:34.160 Because if guys stop paying the OnlyFans and the sex workers and the strippers, what have you,
00:00:39.080 then they would stop doing it.
00:00:40.540 But there's a major market for that.
00:00:42.180 So they keep doing it.
00:00:43.200 So at what level does the men have accountability for rewarding these women?
00:00:46.480 Do you have the same energy for drug dealers?
00:00:48.940 Do I have the same energy for drug dealers?
00:00:50.880 So if a guy deals drugs, is it the crack addict's fault?
00:00:54.540 Or is it the drug dealer's fault?
00:00:56.000 Well, I think addiction is a lot different for being addicted to drugs than being like,
00:01:02.500 yeah, I just want to see some ass.
00:01:03.280 Why do we have empathy for drug addiction but not sex addiction?
00:01:09.180 You know, there are studies that say that sex is a need for men.
00:01:12.480 So when you have one out of three men that are either virgins or having had sex in the past year,
00:01:16.260 it's like it's on the internet.
00:01:17.780 They're going to go somewhere.
00:01:19.420 Now, I don't believe in porn.
00:01:21.020 If this was Pearl's World, I would just ban it all.
00:01:23.280 I would just be like, that's banned.
00:01:24.480 That's banned.
00:01:25.100 But it's interesting how when women make a poor decision, we find a way to blame it on the men.
00:01:29.920 But when men make a poor decision, we blame it on them.
00:01:34.400 So interesting analogy with the drug dealers.
00:01:37.700 But at the end of the day, it comes with choice.
00:01:39.420 But like you said, you would ban it.
00:01:41.720 Banning is a slippery slope.
00:01:43.240 You know this on your social media accounts.
00:01:45.020 You know this that you don't want to be banned.
00:01:46.580 So why can you ban speech but not ban activities or ban what people want to do?
00:01:53.500 We saw what happened with Prohibition.
00:01:55.540 You tried to ban it.
00:01:57.060 It was reckless.
00:01:58.680 You try to ban people making decisions with their own bodily autonomy.
00:02:03.880 People will react to it.
00:02:05.160 How could you ban something that the market wants?
00:02:08.020 How would that work?
00:02:08.620 Well, I mean, people are still going to do it illegally, of course.
00:02:11.660 But I don't really want to live in a world like Amsterdam, where you can go down the street and get a hooker.
00:02:17.140 And that's really like, you know, have you seen that where the women are like in the front?
00:02:20.540 I've been to the red light district.
00:02:21.880 Yeah.
00:02:22.280 Yeah.
00:02:22.600 And so it's like, do you really want to be in a society that is so accepting that we accept that?
00:02:29.300 I would argue.
00:02:30.380 No.
00:02:30.480 I don't think the argument should be, well, someone's going to buy it.
00:02:33.720 We should just make it legal.
00:02:35.040 I don't really.
00:02:35.900 But there's levels to that.
00:02:36.880 And you have a point.
00:02:38.220 I get it.
00:02:38.860 Because, you know, there is some validity there.
00:02:41.380 But you're also saying that there's some sort of equivalency to a crackhead to a dude who wants to go to a strip club.
00:02:49.560 I would say that there's nuance to this.
00:02:51.380 There are sex addicts.
00:02:53.160 There are porn addicts.
00:02:54.500 And there's some guys who just kind of want to have a fun night on a Saturday night.
00:02:58.240 Just like with drugs, there's crack addicts and some guys that want to smoke a joint.
00:03:01.740 I'll tell you what we could make an equivalency to the one out of three very, very lonely men in this country.
00:03:07.820 A lot of these men still do jobs that run the infrastructure in society.
00:03:12.260 I mean, you heard Andrew Tate talk about when he did the cam business.
00:03:15.880 Men would send their life savings.
00:03:17.980 Yeah.
00:03:18.100 You don't think that's a form of addiction, a form of loneliness?
00:03:22.320 Like, we can't have empathy for that?
00:03:23.520 Yeah, but whose fault is that?
00:03:25.560 Everyone's choices in life is their own fault.
00:03:27.460 But my point is when we were talking about the sex workers, you immediately blame the customers.
00:03:32.100 And whenever women make a bad decision, we have a tendency to blame the men.
00:03:35.940 That was my point.
00:03:36.680 I'm not even blaming.
00:03:37.660 I'm just saying that it's a free market.
00:03:39.660 So as an example, those one-third of men, we've seen that stat.
00:03:42.180 One-third of men are virgins.
00:03:43.440 I ask myself, well, why are they virgins?
00:03:46.360 All right.
00:03:47.280 Maybe they're young.
00:03:48.620 Maybe they have no game.
00:03:49.960 Maybe they don't have any respect from women because they don't deserve respect.
00:03:53.020 They're broke.
00:03:53.780 They're fat.
00:03:54.480 They're sloppy.
00:03:55.200 They're losers.
00:03:55.820 They play video games.
00:03:56.940 They have no game.
00:03:57.960 They have no skill set.
00:03:59.340 You know what, homie?
00:04:00.420 Hector?
00:04:01.120 Maybe you should be a virgin until you improve your life.
00:04:04.860 But that's a small percentage of men.
00:04:07.360 That's like if you break down the numbers, that's not the majority.
00:04:10.120 I mean, overweight, sure, but everyone's fat.
00:04:12.380 You know, it's not like a men or women thing.
00:04:14.580 But I don't feel bad for those guys.
00:04:16.420 But again, you feel bad for those guys?
00:04:18.620 Who I feel bad for is the – there's two groups of men that I have a lot of empathy for.
00:04:23.820 One is the average men that do not get respect in this country.
00:04:26.860 Again, 45% of men, almost one out of two men, do a job that makes the country run.
00:04:32.520 And a lot of times, especially in the influencer space, I see this a ton, where we shit on the average men that make this country run.
00:04:39.420 None of us could do what we do without them.
00:04:41.720 The second group of men that I have a lot of empathy for are the traditional men that do the right thing and get married.
00:04:49.080 And they typically have average jobs, work the same job for 20 years, and then come home one day to a woman that has taken half of their assets.
00:04:57.480 And I've been on the other side of that, and I've interviewed these guys.
00:05:00.180 I have a ton of empathy for them because they have no idea what they are signing up for.
00:05:05.120 Yeah, no, men definitely need to be forewarned of sort of the pitfalls of marriage.
00:05:10.740 But I'll say this.
00:05:11.920 I'm almost taking like a different angle than you.
00:05:13.780 But I am a man.
00:05:14.640 I consult with men.
00:05:16.420 I coach men.
00:05:17.980 I'm one of those dudes that actually want men and women to win.
00:05:22.200 I'm not that person that's like, men win, women lose.
00:05:24.980 Women win, men lose.
00:05:26.160 No, I think we can all win.
00:05:27.440 But when men.
00:05:27.840 Hold on, hear me out.
00:05:29.180 Those men, from a macro standpoint, from an economic standpoint, you're absolutely right.
00:05:35.800 The millions of truck drivers, okay, the millions of guys that work with their hands, the millions of plumbers, from a macro standpoint, you're absolutely right.
00:05:45.300 But from a micro standpoint, are you basically saying that I have to respect Carl, the truck driver, just because he drives a truck?
00:05:53.340 What else is he doing with his life?
00:05:56.040 Is he a good person?
00:05:57.420 Is he contributing to society?
00:05:59.560 Is he raising his kids?
00:06:01.760 Is he actually active in his community?
00:06:04.720 Is he practicing philanthropy?
00:06:07.200 I think, but it's just because he drives a truck, I don't think he deserves respect.
00:06:11.920 I think from a macro standpoint, I respect what the men do, but I don't think I really need to respect Carl because he drives eight hours in a truck every day.
00:06:20.020 So it's very nuanced.
00:06:20.640 I think it's like a pretty privileged position to be in, honestly, because he, like, the average men allow you to do what you do and live how you live.
00:06:28.840 So I think you should treat the people that help you get to where you are with a lot of respect, yes.
00:06:34.040 Okay.
00:06:34.880 Simply for having those jobs.
00:06:36.720 Just because they have a job, they deserve respect?
00:06:38.880 I think that you should respect, I'll give you an example, Uber drivers.
00:06:43.340 I couldn't get anywhere without my Uber drivers.
00:06:45.660 Now, it's a normal job, right?
00:06:47.460 It doesn't, you know, it's not like a necessarily hard job to do, but yes, I think the average men in this country that work normal nine to fives deserve respect.
00:06:57.360 So, you know, Elon Musk has a quote that you are paid in the proportion to the problem that you solve.
00:07:04.340 You get paid by delivering value.
00:07:06.820 So as an example, I work, and I'm not doing this, in the financial markets, okay?
00:07:11.040 I'm a financial wholesaler for a very niche product, and I'm, my company, myself,
00:07:15.400 are the best in the world at this one thing called life settlements.
00:07:19.060 We are the best of the best of the best, and we are highly compensated for it.
00:07:23.120 That's how I made my money.
00:07:24.080 That's how I met PPD in the financial world.
00:07:26.040 But very few people can do it, and that's why we're paid a lot.
00:07:29.720 But anybody can drive Uber, Uber.
00:07:33.800 Anyone can clean a studio, be a janitor.
00:07:38.080 So the lower level of a job, the less problems you're solving, the less you'll be paid.
00:07:45.520 So, you know, how many YouTubers are out there, okay?
00:07:49.540 There's tens of millions.
00:07:51.680 How many YouTubers have more than 100,000 subs?
00:07:55.100 2%?
00:07:55.940 How many have more than a million subs like Pearl?
00:07:59.240 Less than 1%?
00:08:01.020 So it'd be like saying, just because you're a YouTuber, you deserve respect.
00:08:06.440 It's like, no, respect is earned, not given.
00:08:09.420 It's you need to establish some credibility and competence in order to get that respect.
00:08:15.680 So if you own the trucking company, it's like, all right, that guy built the company
00:08:19.640 and hired all the guys respect.
00:08:21.480 But the guy on his first day of a job just because he drives a truck,
00:08:24.260 I'm not like, oh, my God, respect.
00:08:25.360 So do you not respect the employees that work for you unless they work their way up
00:08:29.540 and own the company?
00:08:30.240 I respect the hell out of them.
00:08:31.700 But that's the point.
00:08:32.800 Like, I think that you should respect the people that allow you to do what you do.
00:08:37.740 And so you have it here, and I'm also talking about in society as well.
00:08:42.520 So, you know, the Uber drivers allow you to get from point A to point B.
00:08:46.580 Yes, I think they deserve it.
00:08:48.240 We're saying the same thing.
00:08:49.600 These guys are respect.
00:08:50.540 We just have a different.
00:08:51.120 So you ever given an Uber driver a five star?
00:08:53.600 Yeah.
00:08:54.420 All the time, right?
00:08:55.340 Yeah.
00:08:55.760 You ever given an Uber driver a one star?
00:08:58.100 No.
00:08:58.780 Never?
00:08:59.420 No.
00:08:59.720 How about a two star?
00:09:01.080 Never.
00:09:01.560 How about a four star?
00:09:02.420 I always just click five.
00:09:03.520 Okay, so I'll tell you.
00:09:04.600 How often do you Uber?
00:09:05.920 All the time.
00:09:06.920 I Uber everywhere.
00:09:07.640 I don't even have a car.
00:09:08.220 I haven't had a car in 10 years, bro.
00:09:09.460 Yeah, I don't even.
00:09:09.820 Perfect.
00:09:10.500 Let me tell you something.
00:09:11.720 Nine out of 10 trips, they're getting a five star.
00:09:14.400 Yeah.
00:09:14.740 You picked me up.
00:09:15.520 You were there on time.
00:09:16.320 You took me to where I was going.
00:09:17.720 Cool.
00:09:18.180 Awesome.
00:09:18.580 Great job.
00:09:19.040 Respect.
00:09:20.000 But every one in 10 trips, someone's getting a three star.
00:09:23.120 Someone's getting a one motherfucking star.
00:09:25.240 Why?
00:09:25.860 Their car smelled.
00:09:27.000 They took the wrong route.
00:09:28.280 They were rude.
00:09:29.460 There's a million different reasons.
00:09:31.000 But the point is, I'll respect you.
00:09:33.540 If you do a good job and do the job you're supposed to do, five star, homie.
00:09:37.280 All right?
00:09:37.860 Great job, Pedro.
00:09:39.000 But if you don't do a good job, sorry, Rick.
00:09:42.680 You just got one star.
00:09:43.960 So the whole, like, I'm just going to respect you because you're an Uber driver, at what
00:09:50.100 point does merit and value come into the equation?
00:09:52.360 See, now you're kind of switching it.
00:09:53.740 You're, like, adding something in where you're like, well, what about the ones that don't do
00:09:56.900 a good job?
00:09:57.640 Correct.
00:09:58.120 And, yes, we know there are exceptions, Adam.
00:10:01.120 But you've never given a one star.
00:10:02.700 But my point, well, I mean, I probably would.
00:10:06.220 You should.
00:10:06.740 But I just, I'm pretty easy to please.
00:10:09.480 It's like, you get me to point A to point B.
00:10:11.480 I'm happy.