JustPearlyThings - June 13, 2023


This Is Why Modern Men Are Weak


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

217.23257

Word Count

2,043

Sentence Count

144

Misogynist Sentences

38

Hate Speech Sentences

23


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Yeah, because then it's like, how can you be superior to me as a man?
00:00:02.920 You're like, okay, I'm a woman.
00:00:03.780 I'm better than you, but I don't know how to regulate my body weight
00:00:06.880 and understand when someone's fucking manipulating me.
00:00:08.820 Like, well, you've got to find a balance.
00:00:10.200 And I think, too, women just are more, like, they enjoy shopping,
00:00:15.140 and they enjoy blowing money.
00:00:16.480 They do.
00:00:17.260 Like a guy, listen, how many of you guys have gone to a guy's house,
00:00:20.440 and you've seen, like, a sofa, a mattress, and a TV,
00:00:24.300 and you're like, how the fuck does this guy live like this?
00:00:26.940 You know what I was thinking about, though?
00:00:28.200 Men don't live like that nowadays.
00:00:28.700 What does this show, though, of women are making 80% of consumer buying decisions,
00:00:32.260 that women are leading the house?
00:00:34.460 Because it's like the women are making all the financial decisions in the house.
00:00:38.360 Women love shopping.
00:00:39.400 Can I say something, then?
00:00:40.600 Women love shopping.
00:00:41.220 May I just say, then, oh, my God, the poor modern man, like I said earlier, he's a bitch.
00:00:47.200 And he's a bitch because he's raised by one.
00:00:49.120 No, he's a bitch because he's just one,
00:00:51.140 because not every single modern man out there is from a single mother home.
00:00:54.440 But the majority of them are.
00:00:56.240 Deneva, Deneva, you're talking to a guy that coaches men.
00:00:58.960 He coaches, like, I would, right?
00:01:01.420 You coach men that need to.
00:01:02.460 Yeah, I coach thousands of men.
00:01:04.580 So he knows more than you do about, like, what type of homes these men come from.
00:01:09.440 Can I say something?
00:01:09.980 Okay, that's fantastic.
00:01:10.920 But I'm the one that deals with men on a more personal level because I'm a woman,
00:01:14.720 and I know how most of these modern men act more than what he will know
00:01:18.620 because they don't try to chat him.
00:01:19.700 No, listen, they, I've talked, listen, you're wrong, with all due respect, my love.
00:01:23.300 Tell me.
00:01:23.720 Okay, I talk to thousands of men for tens of thousands of hours,
00:01:30.480 and I understand intimately what the problem is.
00:01:32.920 And a lot of things just do, one thing a lot of these single moms do is they will guilt trip
00:01:39.400 and turn these sons into, like, a de facto husband where the son is now helping paying the rent.
00:01:47.940 The son is, like, helping, like, he becomes their, like, husband placement holder.
00:01:52.260 And that happens a lot.
00:01:53.440 And if you watch that movie The Joker, right, there's a scene at the end when he kills his mother.
00:01:58.840 And a lot of these guys from the incel community and stuff, like, you know, I wish, like, that's how I feel.
00:02:04.400 My mom was oppressing me and stuff like that.
00:02:06.340 So, I mean, when you're just trying to say that this is entirely men's fault, you're wrong.
00:02:13.020 And it's also wrong when we say it's entirely women's fault because, listen, because it's the truth.
00:02:20.060 Because here's the thing.
00:02:20.880 If women want all the rights and responsibilities that men have,
00:02:27.000 they also must have the accountability that comes with the responsibility.
00:02:31.660 Because you can't have responsibility without accountability.
00:02:34.720 And that's why I love exactly what you said, because you acknowledge the fact that it's both of our faults
00:02:38.960 rather than just being the typical red pill who just says, it's women's fault, it's women's fault.
00:02:43.080 And another thing I wanted to mention is that you said...
00:02:44.960 Can I point something out, though?
00:02:45.700 Whenever we bring up a problem about women, the gut reaction is always to say, but men.
00:02:49.940 When we always are talking about men.
00:02:52.740 No, but I'm saying, but we have so many conversations.
00:02:55.280 There's been 50 years of media talking about men's issues.
00:02:58.520 I don't want no scrub.
00:03:00.140 And you know, you know.
00:03:01.360 And this is, like, the men ain't shit as normal.
00:03:04.280 Like, we have so many.
00:03:05.600 And you don't see the men come in and say, oh, but women.
00:03:09.640 And there's a shift, too.
00:03:10.760 You got, okay, Denel, you're, like, in your 30s.
00:03:12.780 How old are you?
00:03:13.200 30.
00:03:13.760 Yeah, so you remember the song?
00:03:15.520 I forgot who sang it, but she would say, the boy is mine.
00:03:19.200 Remember that?
00:03:20.260 Now you have these songs, like, I don't need no man.
00:03:22.760 Fuck this guy, you know?
00:03:24.380 It's like a big shift.
00:03:25.820 Do you know what?
00:03:26.780 Hold on.
00:03:27.320 I do agree that...
00:03:28.520 Men's songs have gotten simpier.
00:03:29.520 Do you know why I get...
00:03:31.160 Drake?
00:03:31.800 No, no, no.
00:03:32.700 Drake has changed.
00:03:33.500 Even Drake is thinking he's a gangster.
00:03:35.440 Men used to serenade ladies in their songs.
00:03:38.760 Hotline Bling?
00:03:39.680 I don't know.
00:03:40.120 Hotline Bling?
00:03:40.840 That's a simp song right there.
00:03:41.960 It's not the trend, that's what it is.
00:03:43.440 No, Drake is a simp, I'm not going to lie.
00:03:45.900 There you go, there you go.
00:03:47.420 But not all music nowadays is made by simps.
00:03:51.800 A lot of these men are talking to the great people.
00:03:52.860 Listen, what's that song like, won't you stay with...
00:03:56.220 That guy would get taken to an alley and beaten in the 80s.
00:03:59.460 That's pretty old, though.
00:03:59.480 That's how it's singing now.
00:04:00.740 Now what is he singing?
00:04:01.600 Back in the day...
00:04:01.960 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:05.560 I avoid that shit like the plague, I don't know.
00:04:07.740 Back in the day, men used to serenade women with their songs.
00:04:10.800 They used to sing outside, used to like, it's raining, they're singing their heart out.
00:04:13.480 But the difference is women used to be worth serenading.
00:04:16.980 Now they just have like big boobies.
00:04:19.860 That's a W on Pearl for that.
00:04:21.160 That's a W on Pearl.
00:04:22.680 They downgrade you in their songs, and they just have like, you're half naked, and they
00:04:26.300 say that you're basically worthless, you're just, you're good for one night.
00:04:29.300 But who's dressing half naked?
00:04:30.940 Who's on a free fit?
00:04:31.960 They don't like you.
00:04:33.120 No, but there's less...
00:04:34.800 Come on, Nikki, let it out.
00:04:37.800 Let it out.
00:04:38.000 All right, just question, and I need, raise your hand, are there more whores today than
00:04:42.880 there were 50 years ago?
00:04:44.720 Raise your hand if you think yes.
00:04:45.860 Everything's different.
00:04:46.700 No, no, no.
00:04:47.620 Yes.
00:04:48.260 Okay.
00:04:48.660 Come on.
00:04:49.220 Thank you.
00:04:49.960 Come on.
00:04:50.660 Yeah.
00:04:51.300 So, is it really, like, can we blame them for treating us like whores when there are more
00:04:56.840 whores to treat like that?
00:04:58.200 Can I say something?
00:04:59.980 This is the problem I have, right?
00:05:01.500 If a dad constantly tells his daughter, you're a whore, you're a whore, you're a whore, you're
00:05:05.100 ugly, you're ugly, you're ugly, guess what's going to happen?
00:05:07.060 She's going to continue to think that.
00:05:08.480 For sure.
00:05:08.740 It's the same thing with one of these rappers.
00:05:10.420 When they continue to call women hoes, hoes, hoes, BBBs, tricks, tricks, tricks, women
00:05:14.620 are going to actually start to believe that this is what they like or this is what they
00:05:17.480 want.
00:05:17.920 And this is what I mean by this, this lack of acknowledgement when it comes to whether men
00:05:21.980 are going wrong in this type of conversation.
00:05:23.860 But we acknowledge it all the time in media and music, like, even in general conversation,
00:05:30.200 like, it's, okay, he knocked her up.
00:05:32.440 Who's the accountability on?
00:05:34.040 Him.
00:05:34.780 And we have so many phrases that just, like, literally absolve women of any accountability.
00:05:39.700 And so it's like whenever men have a movement, like, women feel the need to police how they
00:05:43.860 speak about women.
00:05:44.940 But what I feel like, sorry, can I just quickly say something?
00:05:47.280 What I feel like is what's, because I used to really be this, like, red pill type of thing,
00:05:51.420 but now that I'm looking deep into it, what I'm scared of is that society is going to
00:05:55.360 turn into what the feminist movement is turning into, which is just putting the blame on women,
00:05:59.840 women, women, the way we used to put the blame on men, men, men.
00:06:02.360 When are we just going to stop, pause, and try to find, like, a middle ground between each
00:06:05.780 other?
00:06:05.960 Because I genuinely feel like this is what it's turning into.
00:06:08.840 It's going to turn into another movement.
00:06:10.100 But there is no middle ground with the way the laws are.
00:06:12.780 If the idea is, hey, let's come to a compromise and get married, I think most men are for that.
00:06:17.620 But the problem is, women have voted for these systems that actively oppress men.
00:06:22.220 And we can see it with the Tate interview, because a top 1% guy that can afford the best
00:06:26.800 lawyers in the world is in a prison because the women Me Too'd him.
00:06:31.560 And so, the difference is, I'll tell you the difference, the difference is men have no power
00:06:35.860 right now.
00:06:36.620 Yeah, I will push back on that, and it is in the Romanian justice system, which is, Romania
00:06:41.920 is notoriously corrupt.
00:06:43.080 So, like, I do, but I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, like, you know,
00:06:47.960 there is objective truth in the sense that when it comes to divorce and breaking up the
00:06:56.600 families, 78% of the women are doing this.
00:07:00.480 And so, let's just theoretically say the men are at fault for the divorces.
00:07:06.620 Why aren't women better at choosing good guys?
00:07:10.620 Because they don't have fathers in the home to teach them how to.
00:07:13.120 Who kicked the father out of the home?
00:07:14.600 They did.
00:07:15.300 A woman is not just going to decide, I don't want a husband in the home.
00:07:18.020 For no reason.
00:07:18.280 The husband has to do something, and that's the part of the conversation that no one is
00:07:22.000 acknowledging that's kind of annoying.
00:07:24.080 Like, a woman's not just going to decide, I'm going to kick you out.
00:07:26.360 The man has to be being very useless for him to kick him out.
00:07:29.060 So then why is she choosing a bad guy?
00:07:31.180 How are you going to know?
00:07:31.580 Because maybe she didn't even have a dad, because her dad wasn't even in the home to teach
00:07:34.980 how to choose a good guy.
00:07:36.980 And so, okay, cool, cool, cool.
00:07:38.820 So who kicked her dad out of the house?
00:07:40.940 Can I tell you?
00:07:41.580 He kicked himself out of the house.
00:07:42.420 Can I add something?
00:07:43.540 Can I add something?
00:07:44.660 Can I add something?
00:07:45.680 Because we keep talking.
00:07:47.340 Whenever we have these conversations, I can argue for both men and women very easily.
00:07:51.960 But if we're going to learn anything from Andrew Tate, and one of the things that he
00:07:55.460 does say that I stand for the most, and I'm like, yeah, do you know what?
00:07:58.060 You're a G for seeing this.
00:07:59.160 It's the matrix, right?
00:08:00.600 And the matrix is that there is just like a figurative term to explain the people that
00:08:07.140 are running this whole thing, the whole machine that actually influences the whole world on
00:08:11.240 every level, from media to energy industries to politics to everything.
00:08:16.860 And those people at the top are men.
00:08:19.560 The world is actually run by men.
00:08:21.940 As much as we're trying to run away from that, that is a fact.
00:08:24.880 Women have a lot of power in a man's world because we have the sexuality side of things,
00:08:29.700 but it's men running this machine.
00:08:30.880 I agree with you.
00:08:32.220 And they use women as a tool, in my opinion, because they know that we know that women can
00:08:38.320 be easily propagated and manipulated.
00:08:41.680 Because we agreed to.
00:08:43.280 Because we agreed to it.
00:08:44.640 And so it goes back to the point of saying, man then, start getting smarter.
00:08:49.240 Since we are supposed to be the weaker beings, why are you letting this mess up?
00:08:52.360 What percentage of men are, like what percentage of men are making those decisions versus women
00:08:58.060 being manipulated?
00:08:59.900 And even, it's funny, I say manipulated, like the women don't choose this.
00:09:02.880 Like, it's like in our language, right?
00:09:05.880 Women are being manipulated, men are being manipulated.
00:09:08.100 I'm saying like, if we're going to go, it's men versus women.
00:09:10.740 I agree with you.
00:09:11.400 It is a small percentage of men running things.
00:09:13.980 And they use women as a tool.
00:09:15.560 But I'm saying more women are being used as a tool than men running things.
00:09:19.140 Because that's a very, very small percentage of men.
00:09:22.060 That's like less than 1%.
00:09:23.380 And Danelva, you're correct.