JustPearlyThings - June 13, 2023


This Is Why Modern Men Are Weak

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Drake Andrew Tate Danelva Joker Denel
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Length

9 minutes

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217.23

Word count

2,043

Sentence count

186

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Misogyny

38

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Toxicity

36

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23

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Summary

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In this episode, we have a special guest on the show, Deneva, who is an expert in the field of men's mental health. We discuss how modern men are the problem and how modern women are the solution to this problem.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Yeah, because then it's like, how can you be superior to me as a man?
00:00:02.920 You're like, okay, I'm a woman.
00:00:03.780 I'm better than you, but I don't know how to regulate my body weight 0.99
00:00:06.880 and understand when someone's fucking manipulating me. 0.98
00:00:08.820 Like, well, you've got to find a balance. 0.98
00:00:10.200 And I think, too, women just are more, like, they enjoy shopping, 0.99
00:00:15.140 and they enjoy blowing money.
00:00:16.480 They do.
00:00:17.260 Like a guy, listen, how many of you guys have gone to a guy's house,
00:00:20.440 and you've seen, like, a sofa, a mattress, and a TV, 0.95
00:00:24.300 and you're like, how the fuck does this guy live like this? 0.91
00:00:26.940 You know what I was thinking about, though? 0.99
00:00:28.200 Men don't live like that nowadays.
00:00:28.700 What does this show, though, of women are making 80% of consumer buying decisions, 0.99
00:00:32.260 that women are leading the house? 1.00
00:00:34.460 Because it's like the women are making all the financial decisions in the house. 1.00
00:00:38.360 Women love shopping. 1.00
00:00:39.400 Can I say something, then?
00:00:40.600 Women love shopping. 1.00
00:00:41.220 May I just say, then, oh, my God, the poor modern man, like I said earlier, he's a bitch. 1.00
00:00:47.200 And he's a bitch because he's raised by one. 1.00
00:00:49.120 No, he's a bitch because he's just one, 1.00
00:00:51.140 because not every single modern man out there is from a single mother home. 1.00
00:00:54.440 But the majority of them are.
00:00:56.240 Deneva, Deneva, you're talking to a guy that coaches men.
00:00:58.960 He coaches, like, I would, right?
00:01:01.420 You coach men that need to.
00:01:02.460 Yeah, I coach thousands of men.
00:01:04.580 So he knows more than you do about, like, what type of homes these men come from.
00:01:09.440 Can I say something?
00:01:09.980 Okay, that's fantastic.
00:01:10.920 But I'm the one that deals with men on a more personal level because I'm a woman,
00:01:14.720 and I know how most of these modern men act more than what he will know
00:01:18.620 because they don't try to chat him.
00:01:19.700 No, listen, they, I've talked, listen, you're wrong, with all due respect, my love.
00:01:23.300 Tell me.
00:01:23.720 Okay, I talk to thousands of men for tens of thousands of hours,
00:01:30.480 and I understand intimately what the problem is.
00:01:32.920 And a lot of things just do, one thing a lot of these single moms do is they will guilt trip 1.00
00:01:39.400 and turn these sons into, like, a de facto husband where the son is now helping paying the rent.
00:01:47.940 The son is, like, helping, like, he becomes their, like, husband placement holder.
00:01:52.260 And that happens a lot.
00:01:53.440 And if you watch that movie The Joker, right, there's a scene at the end when he kills his mother.
00:01:58.840 And a lot of these guys from the incel community and stuff, like, you know, I wish, like, that's how I feel.
00:02:04.400 My mom was oppressing me and stuff like that. 0.53
00:02:06.340 So, I mean, when you're just trying to say that this is entirely men's fault, you're wrong.
00:02:13.020 And it's also wrong when we say it's entirely women's fault because, listen, because it's the truth. 0.99
00:02:20.060 Because here's the thing.
00:02:20.880 If women want all the rights and responsibilities that men have, 1.00
00:02:27.000 they also must have the accountability that comes with the responsibility.
00:02:31.660 Because you can't have responsibility without accountability.
00:02:34.720 And that's why I love exactly what you said, because you acknowledge the fact that it's both of our faults
00:02:38.960 rather than just being the typical red pill who just says, it's women's fault, it's women's fault. 0.85
00:02:43.080 And another thing I wanted to mention is that you said...
00:02:44.960 Can I point something out, though?
00:02:45.700 Whenever we bring up a problem about women, the gut reaction is always to say, but men.
00:02:49.940 When we always are talking about men.
00:02:52.740 No, but I'm saying, but we have so many conversations.
00:02:55.280 There's been 50 years of media talking about men's issues.
00:02:58.520 I don't want no scrub.
00:03:00.140 And you know, you know. 0.99
00:03:01.360 And this is, like, the men ain't shit as normal. 0.99
00:03:04.280 Like, we have so many. 0.99
00:03:05.600 And you don't see the men come in and say, oh, but women. 1.00
00:03:09.640 And there's a shift, too.
00:03:10.760 You got, okay, Denel, you're, like, in your 30s.
00:03:12.780 How old are you?
00:03:13.200 30.
00:03:13.760 Yeah, so you remember the song?
00:03:15.520 I forgot who sang it, but she would say, the boy is mine.
00:03:19.200 Remember that?
00:03:20.260 Now you have these songs, like, I don't need no man. 1.00
00:03:22.760 Fuck this guy, you know? 1.00
00:03:24.380 It's like a big shift. 1.00
00:03:25.820 Do you know what?
00:03:26.780 Hold on.
00:03:27.320 I do agree that...
00:03:28.520 Men's songs have gotten simpier.
00:03:29.520 Do you know why I get...
00:03:31.160 Drake?
00:03:31.800 No, no, no.
00:03:32.700 Drake has changed.
00:03:33.500 Even Drake is thinking he's a gangster.
00:03:35.440 Men used to serenade ladies in their songs.
00:03:38.760 Hotline Bling?
00:03:39.680 I don't know.
00:03:40.120 Hotline Bling?
00:03:40.840 That's a simp song right there.
00:03:41.960 It's not the trend, that's what it is.
00:03:43.440 No, Drake is a simp, I'm not going to lie.
00:03:45.900 There you go, there you go.
00:03:47.420 But not all music nowadays is made by simps.
00:03:51.800 A lot of these men are talking to the great people.
00:03:52.860 Listen, what's that song like, won't you stay with...
00:03:56.220 That guy would get taken to an alley and beaten in the 80s.
00:03:59.460 That's pretty old, though.
00:03:59.480 That's how it's singing now.
00:04:00.740 Now what is he singing?
00:04:01.600 Back in the day...
00:04:01.960 Do you know what I mean? 1.00
00:04:05.560 I avoid that shit like the plague, I don't know. 1.00
00:04:07.740 Back in the day, men used to serenade women with their songs. 1.00
00:04:10.800 They used to sing outside, used to like, it's raining, they're singing their heart out.
00:04:13.480 But the difference is women used to be worth serenading. 1.00
00:04:16.980 Now they just have like big boobies. 0.99
00:04:19.860 That's a W on Pearl for that.
00:04:21.160 That's a W on Pearl.
00:04:22.680 They downgrade you in their songs, and they just have like, you're half naked, and they
00:04:26.300 say that you're basically worthless, you're just, you're good for one night.
00:04:29.300 But who's dressing half naked? 0.91
00:04:30.940 Who's on a free fit?
00:04:31.960 They don't like you.
00:04:33.120 No, but there's less...
00:04:34.800 Come on, Nikki, let it out.
00:04:37.800 Let it out. 0.99
00:04:38.000 All right, just question, and I need, raise your hand, are there more whores today than 1.00
00:04:42.880 there were 50 years ago? 0.97
00:04:44.720 Raise your hand if you think yes.
00:04:45.860 Everything's different.
00:04:46.700 No, no, no.
00:04:47.620 Yes.
00:04:48.260 Okay.
00:04:48.660 Come on.
00:04:49.220 Thank you.
00:04:49.960 Come on.
00:04:50.660 Yeah. 0.98
00:04:51.300 So, is it really, like, can we blame them for treating us like whores when there are more 0.99
00:04:56.840 whores to treat like that? 1.00
00:04:58.200 Can I say something? 1.00
00:04:59.980 This is the problem I have, right? 1.00
00:05:01.500 If a dad constantly tells his daughter, you're a whore, you're a whore, you're a whore, you're 1.00
00:05:05.100 ugly, you're ugly, you're ugly, guess what's going to happen? 1.00
00:05:07.060 She's going to continue to think that. 1.00
00:05:08.480 For sure.
00:05:08.740 It's the same thing with one of these rappers.
00:05:10.420 When they continue to call women hoes, hoes, hoes, BBBs, tricks, tricks, tricks, women
00:05:14.620 are going to actually start to believe that this is what they like or this is what they
00:05:17.480 want.
00:05:17.920 And this is what I mean by this, this lack of acknowledgement when it comes to whether men
00:05:21.980 are going wrong in this type of conversation.
00:05:23.860 But we acknowledge it all the time in media and music, like, even in general conversation,
00:05:30.200 like, it's, okay, he knocked her up.
00:05:32.440 Who's the accountability on?
00:05:34.040 Him.
00:05:34.780 And we have so many phrases that just, like, literally absolve women of any accountability.
00:05:39.700 And so it's like whenever men have a movement, like, women feel the need to police how they 0.93
00:05:43.860 speak about women. 1.00
00:05:44.940 But what I feel like, sorry, can I just quickly say something?
00:05:47.280 What I feel like is what's, because I used to really be this, like, red pill type of thing,
00:05:51.420 but now that I'm looking deep into it, what I'm scared of is that society is going to
00:05:55.360 turn into what the feminist movement is turning into, which is just putting the blame on women, 1.00
00:05:59.840 women, women, the way we used to put the blame on men, men, men. 0.99
00:06:02.360 When are we just going to stop, pause, and try to find, like, a middle ground between each
00:06:05.780 other?
00:06:05.960 Because I genuinely feel like this is what it's turning into.
00:06:08.840 It's going to turn into another movement.
00:06:10.100 But there is no middle ground with the way the laws are.
00:06:12.780 If the idea is, hey, let's come to a compromise and get married, I think most men are for that.
00:06:17.620 But the problem is, women have voted for these systems that actively oppress men. 0.98
00:06:22.220 And we can see it with the Tate interview, because a top 1% guy that can afford the best
00:06:26.800 lawyers in the world is in a prison because the women Me Too'd him. 1.00
00:06:31.560 And so, the difference is, I'll tell you the difference, the difference is men have no power
00:06:35.860 right now.
00:06:36.620 Yeah, I will push back on that, and it is in the Romanian justice system, which is, Romania
00:06:41.920 is notoriously corrupt.
00:06:43.080 So, like, I do, but I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, like, you know,
00:06:47.960 there is objective truth in the sense that when it comes to divorce and breaking up the
00:06:56.600 families, 78% of the women are doing this. 0.98
00:07:00.480 And so, let's just theoretically say the men are at fault for the divorces.
00:07:06.620 Why aren't women better at choosing good guys? 1.00
00:07:10.620 Because they don't have fathers in the home to teach them how to. 0.58
00:07:13.120 Who kicked the father out of the home?
00:07:14.600 They did.
00:07:15.300 A woman is not just going to decide, I don't want a husband in the home. 1.00
00:07:18.020 For no reason.
00:07:18.280 The husband has to do something, and that's the part of the conversation that no one is
00:07:22.000 acknowledging that's kind of annoying.
00:07:24.080 Like, a woman's not just going to decide, I'm going to kick you out. 1.00
00:07:26.360 The man has to be being very useless for him to kick him out.
00:07:29.060 So then why is she choosing a bad guy? 0.66
00:07:31.180 How are you going to know?
00:07:31.580 Because maybe she didn't even have a dad, because her dad wasn't even in the home to teach
00:07:34.980 how to choose a good guy.
00:07:36.980 And so, okay, cool, cool, cool.
00:07:38.820 So who kicked her dad out of the house? 0.51
00:07:40.940 Can I tell you?
00:07:41.580 He kicked himself out of the house.
00:07:42.420 Can I add something?
00:07:43.540 Can I add something?
00:07:44.660 Can I add something?
00:07:45.680 Because we keep talking.
00:07:47.340 Whenever we have these conversations, I can argue for both men and women very easily.
00:07:51.960 But if we're going to learn anything from Andrew Tate, and one of the things that he
00:07:55.460 does say that I stand for the most, and I'm like, yeah, do you know what?
00:07:58.060 You're a G for seeing this.
00:07:59.160 It's the matrix, right?
00:08:00.600 And the matrix is that there is just like a figurative term to explain the people that
00:08:07.140 are running this whole thing, the whole machine that actually influences the whole world on
00:08:11.240 every level, from media to energy industries to politics to everything.
00:08:16.860 And those people at the top are men.
00:08:19.560 The world is actually run by men. 0.98
00:08:21.940 As much as we're trying to run away from that, that is a fact.
00:08:24.880 Women have a lot of power in a man's world because we have the sexuality side of things, 1.00
00:08:29.700 but it's men running this machine.
00:08:30.880 I agree with you.
00:08:32.220 And they use women as a tool, in my opinion, because they know that we know that women can 1.00
00:08:38.320 be easily propagated and manipulated.
00:08:41.680 Because we agreed to.
00:08:43.280 Because we agreed to it.
00:08:44.640 And so it goes back to the point of saying, man then, start getting smarter.
00:08:49.240 Since we are supposed to be the weaker beings, why are you letting this mess up?
00:08:52.360 What percentage of men are, like what percentage of men are making those decisions versus women
00:08:58.060 being manipulated?
00:08:59.900 And even, it's funny, I say manipulated, like the women don't choose this. 0.96
00:09:02.880 Like, it's like in our language, right?
00:09:05.880 Women are being manipulated, men are being manipulated. 0.98
00:09:08.100 I'm saying like, if we're going to go, it's men versus women. 0.99
00:09:10.740 I agree with you.
00:09:11.400 It is a small percentage of men running things.
00:09:13.980 And they use women as a tool. 1.00
00:09:15.560 But I'm saying more women are being used as a tool than men running things. 1.00
00:09:19.140 Because that's a very, very small percentage of men.
00:09:22.060 That's like less than 1%.
00:09:23.380 And Danelva, you're correct.