In this episode, we discuss how women in their late 20s and early 30s tend to pick men that they would have never picked in their 20s or early 30's. We talk about why this is happening and why women tend to go for men in their 30s.
00:00:00.000So basically women share with men in their 20s and then in their 30s pick a leftover guy, typically, that they wouldn't have picked in their 20s.
00:00:13.380Like when I was in school, you get the really crisp-looking girl that everyone wanted, and she would only pick who she deemed to be really handsome or whatever it was.
00:00:23.160And then as she got into her 30s, had three or four children, and body shape's now no longer the same.
00:00:28.740All of a sudden, because for me, I truly believe that men, as they get older, they become more attractive.
00:00:35.040There's a reason they age like fine wine.
00:01:42.360I think that women, some women just make a lot of mistakes and are looking in the wrong way.
00:01:47.260Because I'm like a relationship person.
00:01:49.320I wasn't just like, you know, going all around the place.
00:01:51.780But what's high value when you're younger or what you think is high value when you're younger isn't what you're not kind of linking it to a husband.
00:02:34.160And you don't realise as well that when you're saying the beta is like, say at school, at college, whatever, just the good looking guy is the one that all the girls want.
00:02:44.840But you don't realise these guys over here are the ones that are going to make the money, have their own businesses.
00:02:48.740And you're not, that's just not in your head at all.
00:02:53.040It's not, you're not thinking it through, if you see what I mean.
00:02:55.060It's not like a decision you've made on purpose.
00:02:56.960Well, there's a reason historically, like the dads would keep their daughters away from certain guys.
00:03:01.520Like this is why, it's like, that's why women, like we suck at relationships.
00:03:05.980We don't pick the right guys in general.
00:03:07.660Because this is the first time, because in the 20s, it switched where women used to live with their dad and then they went straight to their husband.
00:03:16.260So there was no period like in between.
00:03:19.260And so in the 20s, that was when women started to go out.
00:03:21.600You know, that's why they say the roaring 20s.
00:03:24.480You know, they cut their hair off, all this wild stuff.
00:03:26.980And so that was the first time where women were more in control of sex and more in control of who they were picking.
00:03:32.220And that's when you start to see the birth, like women having less children.
00:03:35.220And that's when you, well, you see the divorce rate more go down in 65 when women were 100% in control of reproduction because we got birth control.
00:03:43.600But my whole point is that when women are in charge, we make bad choices.
00:05:43.060So I'm trying to accept things that I don't accept and trying to make this person into something instead of finding a man that is already someone I want.
00:05:50.260Right, but he's saying, like, again, you're, could you, could you explain?
00:06:15.420But the reality is you get, you know, women get to a certain age and they start looking at these other attributes, but that's not genuine desire.
00:06:35.480And that's, you know, my body doesn't mean that you don't sexually desire the partner that you've checked because it sure doesn't, but it doesn't lock out and find somebody who is all of the things that you're 100%.