JustPearlyThings - This Is Why Only Fans Models REJECT MARRIAGE

00:00:00.640 If a woman with high body count, there's going to be guys out there that don't care. 1.00

00:00:04.820 There are some guys out there that don't care.

00:00:07.560 But, I mean, we can also have, I mean, it's even beyond just an intellectual conversation.

00:00:12.260 We can also just say, hey, look, if you choose to partake in certain behaviors,

00:00:16.600 if you maneuver in the world in a certain way, that's going to have consequences.

00:00:21.240 Yeah, 100%.

00:00:22.100 You know, like accountability.

00:00:23.620 And I know, and I always talk about, I talk about specifically that women, 1.00

00:00:27.600 and I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women.

00:00:32.560 But who am I to tell a woman she shouldn't?

00:00:35.680 You know what I mean?

00:00:35.900 I feel like the word should is such like a, when you use the word should, you're like,

00:00:40.840 you should, this is what makes you a real man.

00:00:42.480 You should do these things.

00:00:43.240 What makes you a real woman. 1.00

00:00:43.900 You should do these things.

00:00:45.440 Where we're creating anxiety and unsettleness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life.

00:00:51.820 I honestly agree with 100% of the words that just came out of this woman Zoe's mouth. 0.99

00:00:56.660 Like, dead ass, like being, I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here 1.00

00:01:04.540 that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right here that chose to wait until marriage 1.00

00:01:09.860 has done anything you're a beautiful woman to.

00:01:13.220 Thank you.

00:01:13.580 This pretty lady.

00:01:14.240 Thank you.

00:01:14.680 Talk about a pick me, right?

00:01:15.820 I'm just kidding.

00:01:16.800 But no, I would never say anything about their decision.

00:01:20.940 I think that it is your body and that is a beautiful thing that you've done, even from

00:01:25.240 the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite.

00:01:29.020 I think that's like, if that's what, if that's what, yeah, if that's, if that's what makes

00:01:33.180 you happy and that's what makes you think that, and whether you're right or wrong is not my

00:01:38.560 decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me to my right

00:01:43.580 that it can work out that way, that's totally your body, your choice.

00:01:47.760 I just think we should, I just think we should be honest about the consequences.

00:01:51.860 Of course.

00:01:52.160 And like, that's my only thing is I just don't like lying. 0.99

00:01:54.260 And I'm owning my shit on camera in front of 10,000 people. 0.99

00:01:56.480 I'm not saying you're not. 0.98

00:01:57.480 But I feel like your, I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the

00:02:01.960 people that I make my comments geared towards too, right?

00:02:04.000 Like if only fans girl is like, I deserve a high value man. 0.98

00:02:07.000 I know he shouldn't care about, I'm going to be like, no, be fucking for real. 0.69

00:02:09.440 Like, no, it matters as someone who's in the industry towards anyone. 0.97

00:02:12.740 It's just what I think.

00:02:14.120 Can I say something?

00:02:15.260 Yeah.

00:02:15.580 I really agree with what you said earlier.

00:02:17.680 I've been like listening the whole time.

00:02:19.220 Just been kind of quiet.

00:02:20.400 Just trying to take in with all of you guys are saying, but like, I agree with you.

00:02:23.320 I really think that we should just let people live how they want to live.

00:02:26.160 At the end of the day, it's not affecting you personally.

00:02:28.920 So I don't see how that's a big issue.

00:02:30.640 Yeah.

00:02:30.900 Like, just let people do as they please, as long as it's not personally like getting

00:02:35.840 in your life, then I don't see the issue with it.

00:02:39.200 Like.

00:02:39.360 Yeah.

00:02:39.800 And I just, I just want people to look in introspectively, become self-aware because

00:02:43.220 a lot of people lack it.

00:02:44.020 Men and women.

00:02:44.480 Like, look at things from other people's point of view, not just yours.

00:02:46.860 People need to stop shoving it down other people's throats.

00:02:49.420 Like their view is the only view that is allowed.

00:02:51.500 Yeah.

00:02:51.660 Yeah.

00:02:52.000 Because I don't agree with like Christian views. 0.99

00:02:53.740 I don't have to live my life that way, but I don't give a fuck if you live your life 0.99

00:02:56.860 that way, if you're not affecting me directly. 0.88

00:02:58.380 Like me, the bottom line is that values are different from person to person and value

00:03:02.880 is different from person to person.

00:03:04.320 It's in your mind.

00:03:04.820 So what you may find a high value man may not be what someone next to you finds a high

00:03:09.120 value man.

00:03:09.780 Right.

00:03:10.280 And same with value as woman. 1.00

00:03:11.880 Like, you know, you're saying like, you know, if this woman is a lower value woman because

00:03:15.160 she slept with many people. 0.99

00:03:16.240 Well, I know, I'm sure that there are many low value women with poor integrity, lack of 1.00

00:03:20.520 integrity, bad women, dishonest who've slept with one man, right? 1.00

00:03:24.240 Or none.

00:03:24.660 So it just comes down to the values that you have.

00:03:27.160 There is nuance, but men generally want the same things and women generally want the same

00:03:31.540 things in general.

00:03:33.200 But there is always going to be nuance.

00:03:34.480 I guess men generally want a virgin.

00:03:36.420 I didn't know this.

00:03:38.120 And then we can go to the nuance of where that stems from, but I don't, you know, we're

00:03:41.180 actually going to get into that.

00:03:42.160 That's like, no, I mean, but.

00:03:43.940 Paternity. 0.97

00:03:44.440 It stems from paternity because men historically had to make sure that the kids were theirs and

00:03:48.500 historically we didn't have DNA tests.

00:03:50.080 So if a girl was promiscuous and sleeping around, basically like the man wouldn't know 1.00

00:03:54.680 that if the kid was his.

00:03:56.080 So it's not even necessarily something they can like biologically help.

00:04:00.200 Like it's just how they feel about it.

00:04:01.860 And like guys might lie to you about this, but like guys feel this way.

00:04:05.800 That's great.

00:04:06.420 But guess what?

00:04:06.840 I don't care about those guys.

00:04:07.860 If those guys care about my body count, guess what?

00:04:09.340 That guy is not for me because my life path has not gone down that virgin life path.

00:04:13.520 Those guys were not meant for me.

00:04:14.720 So at the end of the day, that opinion of what men want, I don't want those men.

00:04:18.180 And that's okay.

00:04:18.760 They're not wrong for feeling that way.

00:04:20.460 They don't want me.

00:04:21.260 I don't want them.

00:04:22.040 We're cool.

00:04:22.540 Why would I argue about it?

00:04:23.380 You know what I mean?

00:04:23.740 That's exactly why I just, that's what I said to her.

00:04:25.720 Like, I'm not going to say that because of statistics, you are not going to have a good

00:04:30.160 relationship in the end.

00:04:31.400 I'm not going to say that.

00:04:31.640 You will have a good relationship.

00:04:32.660 You'll have the relationship you want.

00:04:34.100 Yeah.

00:04:34.320 No, but like, there's no, there's no way to say that.

00:04:36.340 I don't think it's dishonest to make that statement because there, there are rules.

00:04:39.760 There's always exceptions and not only that, but everybody is on a different path.

00:04:43.200 And I think, yeah, that's, that's just what I think.

00:04:45.580 I agree.

00:04:46.440 I agree with you.

00:04:46.900 All right, let me get a couple of chats.

00:04:48.480 We will come back really briefly to, uh, one or two questions I have here.

00:04:52.700 Okay.

00:04:52.900 We have, uh, I'm not going to read that one.

00:04:55.420 That one's kind of mean.

00:04:56.180 Um, yo, Pimmy Flores, thanks for the hundred man.

00:04:58.600 She isn't there tonight, but it's Tara single.

00:05:00.760 I'd ask in person, but I can't.

00:05:02.200 I'm a paramedic from Texas and would love to take her to a baseball game as a first date,

00:05:06.600 31 year old, 5'10 Hispanic.

00:05:08.360 Also, would y'all women settle down right now if a man was serious and wanted marriage? 0.97

00:05:14.100 Okay.

00:05:15.100 Uh, so your boyfriend kind of complicated thing who has you currently knocked up.

00:05:23.780 If he proposes to you, do you say yes?

00:05:26.520 I mean, I think if we worked out our stuff and it was, you know, a pretty healthy relationship

00:05:31.460 for the most part, then I wouldn't be opposed, especially with the fact that I'm carrying his

00:05:35.920 child.

00:05:36.320 So, okay.

00:05:38.920 And, uh, would you get married right now?

00:05:43.360 Would you settle down right now?

00:05:45.420 No.

00:05:46.360 Huh?

00:05:47.300 You wouldn't?

00:05:47.600 I'm not ready.

00:05:48.340 You're not ready?

00:05:48.640 To get married.

00:05:49.680 Yeah.

00:05:49.880 Settle down.

00:05:50.740 I'm not ready.

00:05:52.180 Ready for kids?

00:05:52.740 Kids.

00:05:53.220 No, I mean, yeah, not kids either.

00:05:54.900 I have a lot of healing growth.

00:05:56.760 Oh, sorry.

00:05:57.340 Hold on.

00:05:57.880 Hold on.

00:05:58.180 Just a second.

00:05:58.620 Donated $199.

00:06:01.000 Hey, thank you.

00:06:01.860 Pearl, do you think it's hypocritical of you to preach people about settling down, being

00:06:06.680 a virgin, not being career-oriented when you are none of these things?

00:06:11.120 Seems like no one wants this pick-me-board.

00:06:16.060 Pearl, do you want to respond?

00:06:19.180 British voice, by the way. 0.98

00:06:22.640 Is it hypocritical? 0.99

00:06:24.320 Probably.

00:06:25.980 That's it?

00:06:26.440 That's all you got?

00:06:26.940 No, I mean, like, honestly, I wish I waited until I was married.

00:06:31.300 Like, I genuinely wish I did.

00:06:33.060 So, like, yeah.

00:06:34.640 I didn't get all the way there.

00:06:36.480 I did get fortunate.

00:06:37.600 If I could have, like, did it again, I would have waited.

00:06:39.940 But, you know, I didn't.

00:06:41.000 But I just think it's, like, I'd rather be honest to the next generation of women that

00:06:45.240 there are, like, consequences.

00:06:46.360 Like I said, it's just the, I think I'm presenting a side of the coin that's not often represented,

00:06:50.840 which is just, like, man, do I feel like I was very fortunate in, and I think,

00:06:54.600 though, a lot of it was expectation setting, and this is something that I think younger

00:06:58.120 women especially should probably hear. 1.00

00:06:59.680 But when I first met my husband, I told him on the first time we ever went out, I said,

00:07:04.260 I'm not going to sleep with you.

00:07:05.160 I don't want to get married.

00:07:05.920 I don't want to have kids.

00:07:06.540 And if you don't want that, like, I'm not interested.

00:07:08.320 And that's fine, because, like, I don't want to waste your time.

00:07:09.960 I got stuff to do.

00:07:10.700 Like, and if it's not you, I'm going to go meet somebody else.

00:07:13.120 And that was apparently, and I think that's something now, too, when people are looking

00:07:16.800 for relationships, they are really, women, I think a lot of times they try to hide the 1.00

00:07:22.300 fact that they do want that.

00:07:23.540 And that leads them down this primrose path of, oh, like, pretending like they don't want

00:07:27.540 to get married, pretending like they don't want a relationship.

00:07:29.780 And that just pushes it further and further down the line.

00:07:31.980 And then they turn around, you know, around that, like, five to seven year mark, and they're

00:07:35.640 like, hey, I want to get married.

00:07:36.540 And the guy's like, what are you talking about?

00:07:38.000 You know, you said you didn't care.

00:07:39.240 But then they really do.

00:07:40.620 And now that relationship ends up breaking apart, and then they have to go and find

00:07:44.560 somebody else.

00:07:45.080 But now they're much older, and it gets more difficult, as we've talked about.

00:07:49.300 But anyway, it's an interesting thing.

00:07:52.500 The expectation setting is really important, and the honesty and upfrontness with somebody

00:07:55.680 that you want to be with.

00:07:56.860 And that's regardless of anything.

00:07:58.580 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis

00:08:04.900 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - May 25, 2023

This Is Why Only Fans Models REJECT MARRIAGE

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