This Is Why Only Fans Models REJECT MARRIAGE
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the importance of accountability in the dating world, and why women should be held accountable for the decisions they make regarding their bodies. We also discuss the difference between a high value man and a low value man.
Transcript
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If a woman with high body count, there's going to be guys out there that don't care.
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But, I mean, we can also have, I mean, it's even beyond just an intellectual conversation.
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We can also just say, hey, look, if you choose to partake in certain behaviors,
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if you maneuver in the world in a certain way, that's going to have consequences.
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And I know, and I always talk about, I talk about specifically that women,
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and I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women.
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I feel like the word should is such like a, when you use the word should, you're like,
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Where we're creating anxiety and unsettleness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life.
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I honestly agree with 100% of the words that just came out of this woman Zoe's mouth.
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Like, dead ass, like being, I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here
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that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right here that chose to wait until marriage
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But no, I would never say anything about their decision.
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I think that it is your body and that is a beautiful thing that you've done, even from
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the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite.
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I think that's like, if that's what, if that's what, yeah, if that's, if that's what makes
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you happy and that's what makes you think that, and whether you're right or wrong is not my
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decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me to my right
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that it can work out that way, that's totally your body, your choice.
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I just think we should, I just think we should be honest about the consequences.
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And like, that's my only thing is I just don't like lying.
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And I'm owning my shit on camera in front of 10,000 people.
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But I feel like your, I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the
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people that I make my comments geared towards too, right?
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Like if only fans girl is like, I deserve a high value man.
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I know he shouldn't care about, I'm going to be like, no, be fucking for real.
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Like, no, it matters as someone who's in the industry towards anyone.
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Just trying to take in with all of you guys are saying, but like, I agree with you.
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I really think that we should just let people live how they want to live.
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At the end of the day, it's not affecting you personally.
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Like, just let people do as they please, as long as it's not personally like getting
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in your life, then I don't see the issue with it.
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And I just, I just want people to look in introspectively, become self-aware because
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Like, look at things from other people's point of view, not just yours.
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People need to stop shoving it down other people's throats.
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Like their view is the only view that is allowed.
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Because I don't agree with like Christian views.
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I don't have to live my life that way, but I don't give a fuck if you live your life
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Like me, the bottom line is that values are different from person to person and value
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So what you may find a high value man may not be what someone next to you finds a high
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Like, you know, you're saying like, you know, if this woman is a lower value woman because
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Well, I know, I'm sure that there are many low value women with poor integrity, lack of
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integrity, bad women, dishonest who've slept with one man, right?
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So it just comes down to the values that you have.
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There is nuance, but men generally want the same things and women generally want the same
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And then we can go to the nuance of where that stems from, but I don't, you know, we're
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It stems from paternity because men historically had to make sure that the kids were theirs and
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So if a girl was promiscuous and sleeping around, basically like the man wouldn't know
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So it's not even necessarily something they can like biologically help.
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And like guys might lie to you about this, but like guys feel this way.
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If those guys care about my body count, guess what?
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That guy is not for me because my life path has not gone down that virgin life path.
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So at the end of the day, that opinion of what men want, I don't want those men.
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That's exactly why I just, that's what I said to her.
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Like, I'm not going to say that because of statistics, you are not going to have a good
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No, but like, there's no, there's no way to say that.
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I don't think it's dishonest to make that statement because there, there are rules.
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There's always exceptions and not only that, but everybody is on a different path.
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And I think, yeah, that's, that's just what I think.
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We will come back really briefly to, uh, one or two questions I have here.
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Um, yo, Pimmy Flores, thanks for the hundred man.
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I'm a paramedic from Texas and would love to take her to a baseball game as a first date,
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Also, would y'all women settle down right now if a man was serious and wanted marriage?
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Uh, so your boyfriend kind of complicated thing who has you currently knocked up.
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I mean, I think if we worked out our stuff and it was, you know, a pretty healthy relationship
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for the most part, then I wouldn't be opposed, especially with the fact that I'm carrying his
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Pearl, do you think it's hypocritical of you to preach people about settling down, being
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a virgin, not being career-oriented when you are none of these things?
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No, I mean, like, honestly, I wish I waited until I was married.
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If I could have, like, did it again, I would have waited.
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But I just think it's, like, I'd rather be honest to the next generation of women that
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Like I said, it's just the, I think I'm presenting a side of the coin that's not often represented,
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which is just, like, man, do I feel like I was very fortunate in, and I think,
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though, a lot of it was expectation setting, and this is something that I think younger
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But when I first met my husband, I told him on the first time we ever went out, I said,
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And if you don't want that, like, I'm not interested.
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And that's fine, because, like, I don't want to waste your time.
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Like, and if it's not you, I'm going to go meet somebody else.
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And that was apparently, and I think that's something now, too, when people are looking
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for relationships, they are really, women, I think a lot of times they try to hide the
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And that leads them down this primrose path of, oh, like, pretending like they don't want
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to get married, pretending like they don't want a relationship.
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And that just pushes it further and further down the line.
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And then they turn around, you know, around that, like, five to seven year mark, and they're
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And the guy's like, what are you talking about?
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And now that relationship ends up breaking apart, and then they have to go and find
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But now they're much older, and it gets more difficult, as we've talked about.
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The expectation setting is really important, and the honesty and upfrontness with somebody
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