JustPearlyThings - December 24, 2022


This Level of ENTITLEMENT is AMAZING!

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Brittany Andrew
Modern Women DON'T Look At BIG PICTURE

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

188.12

Word count

1,561

Sentence count

191

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

sentences flagged

Toxicity

25

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with a good friend of mine, Andrew, to talk about our relationship and how we first met. We talk about how we met, our biggest disagreements, and what we've learned from each other.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What were your biggest disagreements with me before you met me?
00:00:05.840 Biggest disagreements?
00:00:09.280 Or anything on the show that you've disagreed with that I said.
00:00:13.840 I think there were maybe three things.
00:00:15.380 Okay.
00:00:16.400 The first, well, I had only watched one video on your Instagram.
00:00:20.400 Okay.
00:00:20.680 Because I didn't want to do too deep of a dive just yet, right?
00:00:23.200 And it was the women aren't entitled to safety. 1.00
00:00:25.060 And I think it's triggering because, like, you think of, like, well, why can't, like,
00:00:30.860 why do I have to fear going down a dark alley, right?
00:00:33.280 But then when you actually think about it, none of us are entitled to safety.
00:00:36.100 So that statement is actually true.
00:00:38.240 So that was one thing.
00:00:40.920 So I kind of went through my own thought process.
00:00:42.700 We moved forward.
00:00:43.200 I don't even know.
00:00:43.660 I've had so many people triggered over that one.
00:00:45.360 Yeah, because it's like you do want to be like, well, why can't I go down an alley at 1 in the morning?
00:00:49.840 Well, you can, but, you know, whatever.
00:00:52.120 But I think the other thing we had on the show, again, I don't disagree with, okay, maybe the fat comments aren't that nice.
00:01:03.080 I can't say it anymore.
00:01:04.880 I would say that I get.
00:01:06.300 The large and majestic creatures.
00:01:07.220 I don't think they're nice.
00:01:10.380 I get.
00:01:11.100 They started, though.
00:01:12.660 Okay.
00:01:13.200 But, I mean, so I get you trying to defend yourself.
00:01:15.840 And, like, when somebody says something mean to you, or, again, if someone's not nice to you, you're going to be not nice back.
00:01:21.380 So, even from your perspective, I still get it.
00:01:25.220 It's like you attack me. 0.94
00:01:26.020 Well, I'm going to, you're going to hit me. 0.90
00:01:27.280 I'm going below the belt. 0.96
00:01:28.280 You're going low. 1.00
00:01:28.980 I'm going to hell. 1.00
00:01:29.700 You know what I mean?
00:01:30.240 So, I also, even, even though I don't agree, I understand.
00:01:33.700 Because if you're going to talk about me, I'm going to talk about you too, right?
00:01:35.480 And I think the only thing during our talk with Andrew that I think I got maybe a little hyper was when we were talking about the child support stuff.
00:01:44.500 And that's just because that is a close-to-home topic.
00:01:48.200 And it is a very, it is a topic that, to me, is talked about a lot. 0.99
00:01:53.260 And people who don't have a fucking kid, who aren't going through this process, the lawyers, the custody, child support, all that stuff, you don't have a fucking clue, you know? 0.98
00:02:03.140 So, every law, every state has different laws. 0.99
00:02:06.820 So, I think that was the only thing where I felt kind of hyper.
00:02:09.240 But we talked about that, like, on the show.
00:02:11.700 We kind of got into that stuff and why I felt the way I felt.
00:02:14.000 So, I don't know.
00:02:15.300 I like you.
00:02:15.900 I'm going to be honest.
00:02:16.480 It's like, I definitely want to shoot more stuff together.
00:02:19.740 The pair of nobody saw coming. 1.00
00:02:22.300 Yeah, like, I think you're cool as fuck. 0.99
00:02:24.160 So, I don't know. 0.98
00:02:25.160 Like, I think that I watched a lot of videos about you on TikTok.
00:02:30.960 People were very, like, ugly to you.
00:02:34.800 And I don't think they really see your personality.
00:02:37.840 And they don't understand that there is a voice.
00:02:42.160 Every voice is very important, right?
00:02:44.820 Everybody's voice. 0.71
00:02:45.580 It doesn't matter how, what shitty you think their content is, you think they're this.
00:02:49.540 Their point, their perspective is valid.
00:02:51.420 And they are representing a group of people.
00:02:53.300 So, you can't, if you care about feelings and you care about truth, then you wouldn't try to downplay other people's perception.
00:02:59.640 Like, it's valid.
00:03:00.880 And there's a lot of things, too, that we talk about.
00:03:03.200 Like, that you talk about with the marriage and the contracts and disadvantages and biological things.
00:03:08.320 Those are things that just cannot be argued.
00:03:10.500 Like, from a biological standpoint, a lot of stuff makes sense.
00:03:13.240 So, I like what you're doing, personally.
00:03:15.940 And I like you as a person.
00:03:17.240 And I think if more people actually sat down and talked to you, they would like you to.
00:03:21.420 That's just my opinion.
00:03:22.120 Yeah, tell that to the beautiful, majestic creatures.
00:03:26.340 I'm not saying that anymore.
00:03:27.960 It's the beautiful, the sea creatures.
00:03:31.340 Come on.
00:03:32.220 Okay, guys.
00:03:34.020 If you have a question to submit to Brittany, go on my story.
00:03:38.980 I'm going to pick a couple right now.
00:03:40.640 It's on Instagram.
00:03:41.600 Just pearly things.
00:03:42.640 One.
00:03:43.580 They took away my actual ones.
00:03:45.340 I'm going to go.
00:03:46.540 Okay.
00:03:47.220 Okay.
00:03:47.800 Oh, this is a good one.
00:03:48.520 Am I looking oily?
00:03:49.260 Am I good?
00:03:50.080 Do you think body count matters?
00:03:53.560 For men or women?
00:03:54.500 For women.
00:03:54.960 Well, if we're talking about this space that we're in, it does matter.
00:03:59.800 They're literally using body count as a way.
00:04:02.780 It's a scale.
00:04:04.600 Of course, I'm going to say no because I don't want to be judged for my body count.
00:04:07.560 I wouldn't judge a man for his body count.
00:04:09.420 But we're in a world where women are judged. 1.00
00:04:12.180 So, to a lot of men, it does matter.
00:04:14.280 There are some men.
00:04:15.500 We don't know the percentage.
00:04:16.240 Whatever. 0.99
00:04:16.560 There are some men who don't give a fuck. 0.99
00:04:18.100 So, yeah. 1.00
00:04:18.800 I think yes and no.
00:04:19.740 Would you agree that better marriages tend to be formed when they're both virgins or
00:04:26.420 when the woman's a virgin, at least? 0.51
00:04:27.820 I would say from my theory about that is if you don't know about anything else, there's
00:04:37.640 a greater chance you're going to stay.
00:04:39.380 So, what I've come to realize with having different types of sex, when you have a big one, you know
00:04:49.020 when it's a small one, right?
00:04:51.480 You know, like, and these things, this experience, it shapes how you view what the ideal partner
00:04:59.600 or guy or sex is like.
00:05:01.760 And so, if I take the concept of we're both virgins, we both don't know about, you can get 0.99
00:05:07.200 choked, get spitting in mouths and anal and all this crazy stuff. 0.99
00:05:10.460 Sorry. 1.00
00:05:10.840 But I'm just saying.
00:05:12.040 Wait, y'all spit in each other's mouths? 1.00
00:05:15.360 Oh, my God.
00:05:15.980 You never have?
00:05:18.660 No? 1.00
00:05:19.260 I've done a lot of shit, though, girl. 1.00
00:05:20.520 What? 1.00
00:05:21.080 Ew.
00:05:21.560 No, that's ew.
00:05:23.280 Sorry.
00:05:23.860 Sorry.
00:05:24.240 I feel like, yeah, you only know of each other, so there's a greater chance.
00:05:28.560 Like, your mind doesn't necessarily, I'm not going to say it doesn't wander, but I would
00:05:32.480 say that there's a, the probability is a lot lower because you don't know anything.
00:05:35.920 That's it.
00:05:36.920 You know?
00:05:37.400 You don't know what a, you know, a Lysol can's like because you ain't ever been one.
00:05:42.280 Your husband's a five-incher, he's a six-incher.
00:05:47.240 Okay.
00:05:50.740 Do you think you've peaked?
00:05:53.220 And if so, what age?
00:05:54.820 Peaked and what?
00:05:55.500 Like, look-wise?
00:05:56.160 Yeah, look-wise.
00:05:57.240 Do you think you've peaked physically?
00:05:58.460 And if so, what age?
00:05:59.320 Like, when I was in my best shape, I mean, obviously, I've had a baby now, so my body's
00:06:05.960 changed.
00:06:06.340 I will say that the base is still pretty much the same.
00:06:09.920 I feel like my favorite body, if I'm looking back at old pictures, probably 2019. 0.98
00:06:18.580 It's probably like, all the pictures I took then, I'm like, damn. 0.93
00:06:22.720 How old were you? 0.95
00:06:24.200 2019.
00:06:25.000 I'm not good at math.
00:06:25.660 But, um, sorry, I can't even-
00:06:29.300 So, like, two years ago?
00:06:30.660 Yeah.
00:06:32.180 I feel like that-
00:06:32.820 Three years ago.
00:06:33.300 Three years ago.
00:06:33.640 I'm sorry.
00:06:34.120 Like I said, yeah.
00:06:35.020 Sometimes.
00:06:35.820 I feel like, body-wise, 2019.
00:06:39.200 Yeah, I feel like that was my favorite body.
00:06:41.700 Because, again, I feel like I've always had a really, because genetically, I've just always
00:06:44.800 had a really nice body, and I was always in the gym as well.
00:06:48.080 But I think I was a lot skinnier in the 2015, 2016.
00:06:52.300 So, 2019 was probably, like, my favorite.
00:06:54.300 And then, yeah.
00:06:55.200 When do you think most women peak? 1.00
00:07:00.500 Also, probably, like, mid-20s, maybe, yeah?
00:07:03.280 I mean, I'm going off of, when I look at the girls I went to high school with on my Facebook,
00:07:09.780 I'm like, she used to be that girl. 0.59
00:07:12.340 And she's not that girl now.
00:07:14.400 You know?
00:07:14.800 Not trying to be mean.
00:07:15.660 It's just, like, they just look a lot-
00:07:17.540 It's honest.
00:07:18.040 And it's like, you can't control a lot of it.
00:07:20.380 It's genetic.
00:07:21.040 So, unless you have the money to get, like, work done, you're going to age.
00:07:24.520 It's a natural thing.
00:07:25.600 So, I don't even say that to be nasty.
00:07:27.140 I just feel like, probably, like, mid-20s.
00:07:29.000 Like, 25?
00:07:30.260 26, maybe?
00:07:31.420 25.
00:07:31.740 Usually, yeah.
00:07:32.620 That would be my guess.
00:07:33.720 I think- I actually think most girls peak at, like, 19.
00:07:37.380 I think most of the people-
00:07:38.240 19?
00:07:38.520 Yeah, I really do.
00:07:39.700 You're, like, still babies, I feel like.
00:07:41.220 You're still growing into your body and stuff.
00:07:43.100 Um, most girls I know in the U.S. got fat. 1.00
00:07:46.560 Like, most girls were in better shape when they were 19, and I think that's, like, half of it.
00:07:51.720 Okay.
00:07:52.680 Um, maybe some got a little better style by, like, 21, 22, but I feel like I noticed, yeah, I think 19.
00:07:59.760 19?
00:08:00.280 Okay.
00:08:00.580 For most girls.
00:08:01.460 Okay.
00:08:01.620 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:08:08.500 platform.
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