JustPearlyThings - August 20, 2023


This Modern Woman Could Not ACCEPT This Fact


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

219.61766

Word Count

2,895

Sentence Count

322

Misogynist Sentences

42

Hate Speech Sentences

18


Summary

In this episode, the guys talk about cheating, body count, and why men have a higher body count than women. Also, why is it so hard for women to have sex with a man that they can t even get a good night's rest?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Hold on, we have a man in the room, so I think he should be.
00:00:03.120 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, I missed this.
00:00:04.800 That's just what that is.
00:00:06.500 What were you saying about the woman tattered in the room?
00:00:08.780 Say that again?
00:00:09.580 I mean, she could be tattered, she could be not tattered,
00:00:10.940 but I actually know women that are completely gorgeous bodies,
00:00:13.580 beautiful faces, intelligent, bring a lot to the table,
00:00:16.380 and they still are getting mistreated and cheated on
00:00:19.320 and pushed to the side.
00:00:20.580 Look at Halle Berry.
00:00:21.620 Yeah.
00:00:23.300 Here's the stat.
00:00:24.040 Oh, I got no...
00:00:25.240 Let me tell you, I met Halle Berry.
00:00:28.020 You want me to tell you about Halle Berry?
00:00:29.080 I wouldn't touch her with a 10-foot pole.
00:00:31.300 That woman's like a dude.
00:00:32.960 Masculine, bossy as hell.
00:00:34.240 I love it.
00:00:34.540 And anybody who gets to that, just like Kim Kardashian,
00:00:36.680 oh, she's a boss bitch.
00:00:38.200 Dude, she's been through so many dudes,
00:00:40.320 her body count's higher than, like, the tax returns.
00:00:44.300 I used to hang out with Kim back in the day.
00:00:48.420 But regarding those high-value men, yeah, look at Kevin Hart, Jay-Z.
00:00:52.840 They all cheated, right?
00:00:53.940 But guess what?
00:00:55.700 She still stayed with them.
00:00:57.240 She still stayed with them, right?
00:00:58.880 So the question is, if you were in a relationship with Drake
00:01:01.180 and married to Drake and he cheated on you,
00:01:02.660 would you still stay married to him?
00:01:04.420 No.
00:01:05.260 Why do guys get to have such a high body count
00:01:08.240 and women don't?
00:01:09.580 That's my big problem.
00:01:10.800 And, like, I don't really...
00:01:12.040 Let me ask you a good question.
00:01:12.760 No, no, no.
00:01:13.580 Guys and women are different.
00:01:14.720 Hold on.
00:01:15.260 They get away with everything.
00:01:16.040 Wait, hold on.
00:01:16.440 Or we can get away with shit.
00:01:17.220 Let me just finish real quick.
00:01:17.780 We get away with everything.
00:01:19.300 We're fat.
00:01:20.020 We're smart.
00:01:20.500 We're fat.
00:01:21.440 We're whores nowadays.
00:01:22.560 We're on birth control.
00:01:23.840 We get away with everything.
00:01:24.680 I don't really...
00:01:25.300 I'm like...
00:01:26.300 I'm somebody who's been taking advantage of a lot,
00:01:29.120 so I don't really do the whole, like,
00:01:31.100 hypersexual thing.
00:01:32.060 Sure, sure, sure.
00:01:32.480 I don't have a lot of bodies up under me.
00:01:34.440 But I still stand with women,
00:01:36.620 which don't judge a man...
00:01:38.460 Like, don't not judge a man
00:01:39.980 when he has a high body count.
00:01:41.480 But if a woman fucks who the fuck she want
00:01:43.360 because she can,
00:01:44.200 because she's a bad bitch,
00:01:45.480 why the fuck you calling her a hug?
00:01:47.020 I don't like that.
00:01:48.020 First of all,
00:01:48.920 you don't have to be a bad bitch
00:01:50.560 to fuck a bunch of guys.
00:01:51.780 Any girls can fuck that.
00:01:52.460 You can be a mid-bitch.
00:01:53.080 Every girl in here can get on the phone.
00:01:55.460 I'm talking about the bad bitches.
00:01:56.900 I'm not saying that.
00:01:57.600 You have to be one to do it.
00:01:58.380 Right, but women...
00:02:00.160 All you women right now
00:02:01.160 can get on the phone
00:02:01.800 and have sex tonight.
00:02:02.760 Yes, right.
00:02:03.500 It's very hard for men to do that.
00:02:04.680 You can just walk out down the strip
00:02:06.440 and be like,
00:02:07.140 sex,
00:02:07.700 and then someone will come.
00:02:08.720 It's very hard for men to...
00:02:10.560 You know what I'm saying?
00:02:12.880 It's very hard for men to...
00:02:14.480 A lot of women don't believe this.
00:02:15.700 It's very hard for men
00:02:16.560 to have sex with women.
00:02:17.440 I've heard men say that.
00:02:18.300 It's very challenging.
00:02:19.020 Let me explain something.
00:02:19.880 For you?
00:02:20.300 No, no.
00:02:20.760 10% of men are actually sexually active.
00:02:23.540 A lot of women think all these dudes.
00:02:24.980 And the 10% that are sexually active,
00:02:27.100 they're the ones having sex with y'all.
00:02:29.240 You see what I'm saying?
00:02:30.480 Yeah.
00:02:30.700 So what happens is
00:02:31.820 for a man to go out and have sex,
00:02:33.140 for him to have access to women
00:02:34.780 and have options,
00:02:36.540 he's got to be on point,
00:02:38.000 high valued,
00:02:38.840 have status,
00:02:39.520 have swag.
00:02:40.320 He's worked hard to get to that level.
00:02:41.900 Now, to answer your question on
00:02:42.900 why is it bad,
00:02:43.980 when a woman gets past six men body count,
00:02:46.520 her pair bonding starts,
00:02:49.200 her ability to pair bond with a man
00:02:51.040 goes down to 25%.
00:02:52.260 Where did you learn this?
00:02:53.260 I read psychology books on relationships,
00:02:55.600 people that have interviewed 10,000 people.
00:02:57.320 You have a specific number.
00:02:58.900 Yeah.
00:02:59.420 Let me explain something.
00:03:00.640 Your oxytocin levels go down.
00:03:02.460 It's hard for you to pair bond with a man.
00:03:04.340 The more men you've been with.
00:03:05.760 Actually, I can speak on this.
00:03:06.700 I'm sorry.
00:03:07.260 But I'm going to have Pearl talk to you.
00:03:08.480 But that's a good question.
00:03:09.320 I've been fucking for 21 years.
00:03:10.340 You think it ain't...
00:03:11.340 But you're not with a man.
00:03:14.160 You have a choice, right?
00:03:15.080 Yes.
00:03:15.540 But to my point,
00:03:17.200 you'll see women go through guys
00:03:19.000 or go through relationships,
00:03:20.000 have problems.
00:03:20.960 It's hard for them to bond.
00:03:22.720 Well, okay.
00:03:23.560 So I agree that we should be saving ourselves
00:03:27.520 a little bit better than what we do these days.
00:03:29.120 Yes.
00:03:29.440 Okay.
00:03:29.680 Whatever.
00:03:30.060 Who cares?
00:03:30.900 But I don't believe in this pair bonding thing.
00:03:33.900 And I only say that is because oxytocin
00:03:36.660 is something that gets regenerated in your body.
00:03:39.040 Sure.
00:03:39.140 And it actually gets regenerated super quick.
00:03:41.740 Like, after sex...
00:03:42.740 Okay.
00:03:42.840 Do you...
00:03:43.380 I have a question.
00:03:44.080 Do you think that a virgin and a hooker
00:03:45.860 have the same pair bonding abilities?
00:03:47.980 So...
00:03:48.700 Yes or no?
00:03:49.160 Okay.
00:03:49.460 My question also...
00:03:50.260 Yes or no?
00:03:51.540 I...
00:03:51.860 Do you think it's the same?
00:03:53.020 I do not.
00:03:53.680 But I don't believe...
00:03:54.340 So you do believe it to some extent?
00:03:56.040 Yes.
00:03:56.520 Okay.
00:03:56.760 But what I'm saying is the science
00:03:58.440 behind actual pair bonding
00:04:00.060 and the six partner thing,
00:04:01.920 I don't think that's actually true science.
00:04:03.660 And I only say this is because
00:04:04.720 I tried to read up on it
00:04:06.320 because I was actually curious about it.
00:04:08.380 And they said that they got this information
00:04:11.600 from a mammal called the prairie roll.
00:04:14.420 Have you heard of that?
00:04:15.300 So this whole thing that you're talking about
00:04:17.460 with six partners
00:04:18.480 actually came from a different mammal
00:04:20.000 that was not like...
00:04:22.280 Well, and we could argue it's 10.
00:04:24.460 We could argue it's 15.
00:04:25.620 But we know what's true
00:04:27.160 is the more you sleep with,
00:04:28.360 the harder it is to buy.
00:04:29.360 But I also believe that has...
00:04:30.760 Yes, it's hormones.
00:04:32.320 Yeah.
00:04:32.460 But it's also trauma.
00:04:33.980 It's allowing people in.
00:04:35.720 And you can also...
00:04:36.880 But it's like, okay,
00:04:37.820 if I drink every single day of my life,
00:04:39.940 then alcohol is not going to affect me
00:04:41.340 every bunch as much.
00:04:42.780 If you fuck every single person you meet,
00:04:45.680 you're not going to bond as much to each one.
00:04:47.860 Yeah.
00:04:48.200 So I'm not saying six is the number.
00:04:50.360 It could be 10.
00:04:51.120 It could be 15.
00:04:51.440 That's the only thing I'm like.
00:04:52.280 It's the six.
00:04:53.040 It's the oxytocin thing.
00:04:54.140 Even if it's...
00:04:55.300 I mean, women lie anyway.
00:04:56.400 Who knows what those chicks' body counts were.
00:04:58.120 So it's like, all right, let's say...
00:04:59.200 I stopped counting like five, six years ago.
00:05:01.740 So I always used to tell my girlfriends...
00:05:03.260 I don't give a fuck.
00:05:03.460 So I used to be a cocktail waitress at a strip club.
00:05:05.960 Right.
00:05:06.240 And they used to always tell me,
00:05:07.240 why aren't you going to be a dancer?
00:05:08.580 And I said, I don't want to be
00:05:09.600 because I feel like me,
00:05:11.380 this is just a me thing.
00:05:13.200 You have to be an actress.
00:05:14.820 And when a guy comes in,
00:05:16.060 I have to figure out
00:05:16.700 what role am I playing in his life
00:05:18.220 to receive that money.
00:05:19.960 So I was nervous
00:05:20.900 that it was going to mess my mind up
00:05:22.460 when it comes to a man that's coming in my life.
00:05:24.480 And I'm like,
00:05:24.840 am I going to switch myself for this person
00:05:27.140 and not be who I am?
00:05:28.520 And then inevitably,
00:05:29.280 they're going to see the real person
00:05:30.680 and we're going to have an issue.
00:05:32.000 So it's going to mess, I guess,
00:05:33.640 the pair of them in that way.
00:05:35.440 But the whole point is that less is better, right?
00:05:38.500 In general.
00:05:39.000 I agree.
00:05:39.560 I think we should save ourselves a little bit more
00:05:41.680 because I think we're just...
00:05:42.880 Well, I think...
00:05:43.800 Honestly, but I just want to put this
00:05:46.100 in a historical point of view.
00:05:47.820 You know, a hundred years ago,
00:05:49.040 what percent of women were virgins
00:05:50.380 on their wedding days?
00:05:51.220 A hundred years ago.
00:05:52.220 Yes.
00:05:52.460 Probably almost like a hundred percent of them.
00:05:54.060 Yes.
00:05:54.260 Like 90 percent.
00:05:55.980 Eighty-five percent of women were virgins.
00:05:58.400 Now, let's just say,
00:05:59.120 because we all know women lie,
00:06:00.420 so it's like, all right, let's double it.
00:06:01.520 I would have loved to be a virgin
00:06:02.860 on my wedding day
00:06:03.680 if I would have been, you know,
00:06:05.340 in a sexual assault as a child.
00:06:07.320 You know, and a lot of women
00:06:08.300 go through that as well.
00:06:08.920 And that's unfortunate.
00:06:09.920 That's an exception.
00:06:10.820 A lot of women go through that as well.
00:06:12.100 I was raised in a very, you know,
00:06:13.380 religious household.
00:06:14.100 I would have loved to get married
00:06:15.700 and be a virgin.
00:06:16.220 And you would agree
00:06:17.340 that would have been the best outcome.
00:06:18.380 I agree.
00:06:19.060 I do agree.
00:06:19.680 But unfortunately, there are people
00:06:22.120 who are monsters out here
00:06:23.580 and they criticize those women
00:06:25.400 that are virgins.
00:06:26.340 They take that innocence from them.
00:06:28.160 No, I don't think that's the majority.
00:06:29.780 I think there are exceptions.
00:06:31.360 I don't think that's the majority.
00:06:31.660 I think the majority of us women,
00:06:33.520 we meet a guy that's handsome
00:06:35.200 and we just, yeah, we fuck,
00:06:36.960 I think in general.
00:06:37.900 Like, it's not.
00:06:40.240 Oh, that's what I do.
00:06:41.120 And so in a way, in a way,
00:06:42.560 like women, in a way,
00:06:44.100 women, we're the ones picking non-monogamy.
00:06:46.840 Because when we have the most choice,
00:06:48.720 which is early 20s,
00:06:49.740 we don't pick monogamy.
00:06:51.100 Hey, I'm polyamorous, so you're right.
00:06:52.800 Right, yeah.
00:06:53.520 I'll pick monogamy.
00:06:54.500 No, you didn't.
00:06:55.700 I mean, for-
00:06:56.200 I will pick monogamy.
00:06:57.140 Well, no, you didn't.
00:06:58.300 Because how old are you again?
00:06:59.580 I'm 28.
00:07:00.240 Okay, you're 28.
00:07:01.140 So you could have,
00:07:01.840 I know you had that happen to you,
00:07:03.760 but after that,
00:07:04.460 you could have at 18, 20, 22,
00:07:06.200 picked a guy, gotten married,
00:07:07.780 stayed with him.
00:07:08.740 And you did it.
00:07:09.800 None of us did.
00:07:11.040 If I picked someone,
00:07:12.400 it would have happened,
00:07:13.260 but it didn't happen.
00:07:14.100 Right, but that's the point.
00:07:15.300 It wasn't a priority to you.
00:07:17.740 Not necessarily.
00:07:18.620 It wasn't a priority.
00:07:19.820 It just wasn't,
00:07:21.140 I didn't meet anyone
00:07:22.220 that made that happen.
00:07:23.520 Right, but it's like,
00:07:25.260 but it's like,
00:07:26.640 if we put that towards,
00:07:28.700 well, I should have been,
00:07:29.620 and I was chasing college sports.
00:07:31.280 Like, that's what I was doing.
00:07:32.320 I was chasing a priority.
00:07:33.620 And correct.
00:07:34.620 And that's what I'm saying.
00:07:35.540 Like, when we have the choice,
00:07:37.320 we don't do it.
00:07:38.380 And so in a way,
00:07:39.520 it's like,
00:07:40.600 we're the ones picking non-monogamy
00:07:42.340 and we whine
00:07:43.320 when the men don't pick monogamy later.
00:07:46.560 Go ahead.
00:07:46.580 I got to,
00:07:47.300 Asia, I want to hear from you.
00:07:48.360 You haven't said a lot.
00:07:49.540 What are your thoughts on this?
00:07:51.080 My thoughts,
00:07:53.200 I guess what I can say is,
00:07:55.500 I'm divorced.
00:07:56.880 So I'm 25 and I'm divorced.
00:07:59.300 And I did choose monogamy young.
00:08:02.240 I always,
00:08:02.800 we got married when I was 23.
00:08:05.080 And.
00:08:06.900 Why didn't you stay married?
00:08:08.840 Why didn't I?
00:08:09.660 Yeah.
00:08:13.660 I did something.
00:08:15.000 I,
00:08:15.400 I got divorced because I couldn't compromise
00:08:19.700 because my ex-husband,
00:08:21.540 he,
00:08:21.800 he was an alcoholic.
00:08:23.060 So he didn't want to stop drinking.
00:08:26.120 He,
00:08:26.740 I tried everything that I could.
00:08:27.940 I tried therapy.
00:08:29.400 I tried offering services,
00:08:33.160 but you can't change what somebody.
00:08:35.780 Did you know he was an alcoholic
00:08:36.960 when you married him?
00:08:37.900 No,
00:08:38.360 I didn't.
00:08:39.140 There's no warning signs.
00:08:40.620 Was he an alcoholic when you married him
00:08:42.000 or did that happen after?
00:08:42.800 So it gradually got worse as we,
00:08:46.080 after,
00:08:46.520 actually after we had gotten married.
00:08:47.500 Was it like work related?
00:08:48.620 Like that he wasn't able to provide like that.
00:08:50.560 So it started to get on him
00:08:51.780 because I know that about that happened.
00:08:53.040 Well,
00:08:53.580 he,
00:08:53.980 he's prior military.
00:08:55.300 He was deployed.
00:08:56.320 He was in combat and he had,
00:08:59.260 yeah,
00:08:59.540 he had a lot of that.
00:09:01.060 And in the beginning it was regulated with medication
00:09:04.400 and it was good,
00:09:06.160 you know,
00:09:06.580 but after a while,
00:09:07.980 like sometimes,
00:09:09.400 definitely,
00:09:09.780 it's not enough.
00:09:10.300 Do you know how he's doing now?
00:09:11.300 Yeah.
00:09:11.540 We still have contact even to this day.
00:09:13.760 He's okay now or better or what?
00:09:15.040 He's right where I left him.
00:09:17.020 Yeah.
00:09:17.360 Unfortunately.
00:09:18.060 Yeah.
00:09:19.400 Wow.
00:09:20.020 I don't blame you one bit for leaving that.
00:09:21.700 Yeah.
00:09:22.160 No.
00:09:22.560 And it,
00:09:22.960 yeah,
00:09:23.480 it wasn't something that I could compromise with any longer.
00:09:25.860 And when I tell you I did everything that I could to stay with him,
00:09:28.920 I did.
00:09:29.460 And I would have done anything that he needed.
00:09:31.380 But you didn't stay with him.
00:09:32.960 So how could you say you did everything you could to stay if you left?
00:09:36.380 I'm not,
00:09:36.660 I'm not even saying you're wrong for it,
00:09:38.140 but I'm saying like,
00:09:38.780 it's kind of not true because,
00:09:40.380 you know,
00:09:40.500 women used to date alcoholics for like a decade and then they'd stop.
00:09:44.700 They would just like stick with it.
00:09:45.880 And then they always regret it.
00:09:47.140 I'm not,
00:09:47.620 I'm not,
00:09:47.860 I'm not,
00:09:48.440 I'm not,
00:09:48.480 I'm not,
00:09:49.900 what I'm not pushing back on is saying,
00:09:51.880 Oh,
00:09:51.900 you shouldn't have left that or whatever.
00:09:53.520 What I am saying is like this idea that we did everything.
00:09:57.060 You're there for like what?
00:09:57.960 I guess what is,
00:09:58.760 you're 25.
00:09:59.580 So it was like two years.
00:10:00.520 Yeah.
00:10:00.700 But what is the timeline for that?
00:10:02.720 Exactly.
00:10:03.300 That's what I want to,
00:10:04.040 that's what I want to,
00:10:04.480 you know,
00:10:04.740 I'm,
00:10:04.960 I'm Catholic,
00:10:05.660 so I don't believe in divorce.
00:10:07.300 So I actually,
00:10:08.340 I think it's like for richer,
00:10:09.700 for poorer,
00:10:10.380 for better,
00:10:10.880 for worse and sickness and in health.
00:10:12.540 So I don't,
00:10:13.460 I don't believe in divorce.
00:10:14.420 So if somebody was manipulating you every single day,
00:10:17.340 usually the more manipulative ones.
00:10:19.240 Anyway,
00:10:19.560 I think your dad,
00:10:20.720 I think we would all be in a better place if our dads helped us pick husbands.
00:10:24.320 Cause we don't pick very well.
00:10:26.360 My dad's not here.
00:10:28.220 Yeah.
00:10:28.340 My dad's not here either.
00:10:31.620 No.
00:10:32.140 Well,
00:10:32.580 if you want to,
00:10:35.680 if you want to talk about the dads,
00:10:37.180 then like the moms picked the dad,
00:10:38.880 you're you guys's dad.
00:10:40.160 So it's like,
00:10:40.800 if they're,
00:10:41.280 I think we need the dads involved.
00:10:43.240 How many of you grew up in a nuclear family,
00:10:45.180 like a mom and dad at home before they pass away,
00:10:47.680 before they pass away.
00:10:48.420 Okay.
00:10:49.200 Two of you.
00:10:49.700 Okay.
00:10:50.320 All right.
00:10:50.820 I come from a broken home.
00:10:53.640 I had to pretty much build what I had in regards to what my preferences could be.
00:11:02.220 Yeah.
00:11:02.620 Yeah.
00:11:02.860 And that's really,
00:11:03.460 that's sad.
00:11:04.420 And I think again,
00:11:05.560 cause it'll go to our parents.
00:11:07.400 Right.
00:11:07.780 And a lot of our parents didn't pick well either.
00:11:10.120 Like a lot of our moms.
00:11:10.840 I wouldn't say that I didn't have that type of guidance.
00:11:13.740 I mean,
00:11:13.960 I definitely have that relationship with my dad where I could bring him.
00:11:17.020 I did bring my dad to,
00:11:19.120 or bring my husband to my dad at the time,
00:11:21.940 you know?
00:11:22.320 And your dad was like,
00:11:23.120 this is a great choice.
00:11:24.200 He thought he was great.
00:11:25.360 He thought he was,
00:11:26.480 and he probably was,
00:11:27.140 but he was,
00:11:28.300 and everything else.
00:11:29.400 Right.
00:11:29.580 And there's a lot of factors that play into it.
00:11:31.420 Okay.
00:11:31.720 And so he just started drinking and then just became an alcoholic.
00:11:35.420 And he started,
00:11:36.400 he was drinking.
00:11:37.400 How long were you married?
00:11:38.840 We were together.
00:11:39.520 We were together for a year.
00:11:41.760 We were married for two years.
00:11:44.200 Okay.
00:11:44.560 So we were together for all in all three years.
00:11:46.900 Okay.
00:11:47.160 And good job for getting the fuck out of there.
00:11:49.320 Thank you.
00:11:49.920 You're welcome.
00:11:50.820 You know,
00:11:51.160 at the end of the day too,
00:11:52.020 he's,
00:11:52.560 it's,
00:11:53.560 he's a great person.
00:11:55.060 Like I'm not knocking him on that at all.
00:11:57.560 Like that's one thing.
00:11:58.740 That's one of the reasons why I loved him.
00:12:01.780 Everyone on this earth needs to put their own happiness first above everything.
00:12:05.740 I think you got to put your happiness last.
00:12:07.880 If you are,
00:12:08.760 I think,
00:12:09.160 how can you pour from an empty cup?
00:12:11.020 I think that's just nonsense,
00:12:13.080 feminist garbage.
00:12:14.040 No,
00:12:14.180 it's not.
00:12:14.540 Basically it's for people.
00:12:15.520 No,
00:12:15.900 no,
00:12:16.180 because you're going to be unhappy in marriage at some point.
00:12:19.960 You think our great grandmothers stayed together for 50 years,
00:12:24.580 60 years thinking about themselves.
00:12:27.300 You know how I could tell the generational switch.
00:12:29.680 You can hear it in the music.
00:12:30.940 We got the Taylor Swift generation,
00:12:33.200 which is I'm a victim.
00:12:34.500 Blah,
00:12:34.820 blah,
00:12:35.140 blah.
00:12:35.680 Where do you remember?
00:12:36.420 Do you remember the song?
00:12:37.280 Jolene?
00:12:37.880 Do you remember the song?
00:12:38.780 I love that song.
00:12:39.940 No,
00:12:40.140 no,
00:12:40.280 but that's how women used to react.
00:12:42.000 Please don't take my man.
00:12:43.000 Please don't take my man because she,
00:12:45.260 because she was worried that her man was cheating.
00:12:48.000 And instead of keying his car,
00:12:49.980 which,
00:12:50.200 you know,
00:12:50.380 Carrie Underwood keying his car,
00:12:52.060 she,
00:12:52.800 she,
00:12:53.500 no,
00:12:53.700 but she stayed with them.
00:12:54.740 I heard her talk about that.
00:12:56.340 And it's like,
00:12:57.360 it was just a completely different mindset where she's like,
00:12:59.660 I can't live without this guy.
00:13:01.460 Where now it's like women,
00:13:02.860 we just care about ourselves and our happiness.
00:13:04.840 And if the outcomes were good,
00:13:06.800 then why aren't families together?
00:13:08.320 And you know,
00:13:08.800 I don't,
00:13:09.080 I don't.
00:13:09.260 I don't.
00:13:09.380 I don't.
00:13:09.640 I don't.
00:13:10.620 I don't.