This Modern Woman Could NOT See The TRUTH In THIS
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why women should get married and why they don t get married. We discuss the difference between virgins and virgins, why women don t have sex on their wedding night, and why it s hard for us to get married in the modern era.
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i mean i would argue what women are left for men no no if you look okay if you look by and a lot
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of people think i hate on women but it's just if you look at an evolutionary point of view
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most women today would be cast out yeah like based on what age for one like over 30 you were
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kind of done um kids from other marriages or guys done um not being a virgin on your wedding night
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your your chance of being married was like no you're a concubine at that point but 95 percent
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of women are not virgins on their wedding i'm not i'm not saying we have to be but i'm saying
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if we're going for historical from a historical point of view most women today would have been
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thrown out yeah but that because it was chauvinist male society that's why no no what percentage of
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male are virgin under a wedding well but women don't but women don't select for that like women
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don't give a about a man's virginity true women don't care about purity so it's not the same
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stability is what we're like most women after a certain age go for yeah but women still out earn
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men you know it's funny because women like if we're going to go for traditional values like maybe men
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don't make like enough for one income but they still make more money um than women but i would say
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most women are more sexually experienced than most men i doubt that this doesn't sound right well
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it doesn't mean i'm not well because i yeah because i just one out of three men are either
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virgins or having had sex in the past year i don't see that same trend but i don't see that same trend
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in women when you when you look at those statistics you got to remember that's just a uh like a small
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population that they sit there and and you know study and ask these questions so this is not in no
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no they got it from um doctors i think that's how they gathered that data it was from everybody
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lies to their doctor it's like are you kidding me well i bet we can argue they're lying by 10
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but if they do it in multiple cities and they're coming up with the same conclusion in the west you
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start to see a trend but this is right you know what i'm saying because like like i mean if you want
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to take like body count statistics for women tend to be way more variable than like men because again
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they'll do it in different cities to see but what's just but it's still a targeted populated audience it's
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not like in whole because if you actually look at it in whole and you like fairly went to every
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single different group every cultural race wise all of that those statistics would be so much
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different but they sit there and it's a certain audience they target so they can get the results
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that they want to get in multiples it's like so in multiple cities they're all talking to each other
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and saying try to get these results what are we talking about worldwide so when no in the west it's
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it's like they've done it in different cities and it's roughly the same europe but yes uk and us
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okay so if you look in the uk and us right did they sit there and go to the same demographic as far as
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like hospitals or whatever like did they sit there and go to maybe all of the well-to-do hospitals or
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were they going to the hood as well accidents like were they going into every single region
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culture like different cultural regions to get these statistics probably not there was probably one
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set group that they wanted what numbers would you like to go off of that i mean it's like i said
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it's different i'm a i'm a i'm a black woman so the statistics that are given to us is actually one
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in 23 for black women dating a single black man so it's it that's why one in 23 what like as far as
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like to get a single man one in 23 for black women to get a single black man like that's that's what
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we're looking at 23 women at one man 23 women to one man wow a straight a straight man i thought
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i thought there it was like 45 percent were single child listen in the middle class of black men i i
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could be wrong but i thought it was like 35 to 45 percent but a single straight black man single
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straight black man this is why it's so hard this is why so many black women are unmarried and it is hard
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for us to get married because we are fighting with thousands of other women just to get one man
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well but but this is the problem as women it's like we'll kind of blame the men instead of looking
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at the quality of women because the trend of women not getting married is across the board like like i
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think white women it's 50 percent like and and every generation it's coming less and less and less
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so a lot of times it's like we'll blame the men when it's like we don't look at the quality of the women
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but these are good these are good quality women these are doctors these are lawyers these are good
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but you're looking at the things that like men want and like that women want in men like men don't care
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about your career they don't care if you're a doctor they don't care if you're a lawyer they don't care
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if you make money they just want you to be hot but which is true but think about it if you're a man
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and you have 20 different hot women in front of you it's like the hunger games you're literally
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playing the hunger games to get a man these days just i i think that you're kind of removed from the
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average males experience dating because i i don't think that's the average guy's experience dating
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at all that what there's many women to choose from no the app the arrow the average joe definitely
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there's definitely if you look at each man right the average man he's at least probably talking to
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six women no no you don't get no because the data shows the number one way people under 30 are meeting
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is dating apps yeah so so a lot of people say dating apps isn't real life but it is now that's the
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number one way that people are meeting under 30. so what percent of the time do you think women swipe
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right and say yes i'd like to go on a date with this man just swipe just to swipe not even what percent
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yeah it's vanishingly small isn't it like what one in 20 pictures or something like that one in 20 okay
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what do you think no idea i've never been one but i have actually friends who met on tinder and got
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married okay but what percent what percent what the percent of of men do you think oh how many pics she
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swipes until she says yeah what percent um um let's say 35 okay 35 what do you think as an avid dating
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app user i would probably say less than 10 percent it's less than 10 what do you think yeah i'd say
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one in 50. it's five percent so if women the number one way people are meeting is dating apps and we're
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only swiping right five percent of the time how is it how is a guy going to talk to six chicks at a time
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because as soon as you walk out your building yo ma hey ma can i talk to you
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we try to date smarter as women we go on these dating apps a lot of time because it's easier for
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us to you know not waste our time in public like some men may be intimidated to come up and walk to
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a woman and be like hey let me come hit on you or whatever like that okay so how how many girls how
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many girls does a guy typically have to approach to get a number i would say probably like
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like every 15 to 20 girls maybe 15 to 20 girls are you are you yeah i mean it depends on someone's
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ability and uh you know how much reference they have but i mean if i was out of a guy and seeing
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him throw it down he's probably going to do 10 interactions till he finds one what what kind of
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average are we talking about though are we talking about you know the average for johnny or are we
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talking about the average for all men average guy okay all men how many earners like how many how many
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women are they gonna have to approach to get a number and like they're not gonna you know like
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it's no there's no trickery like yeah oh i've got a well i was gonna parcel that's yours can i borrow
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your number like this is legitimate yeah we know what it's about yeah um i'm working with these guys
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i'm i i mean i think that there's well yeah but i i don't think they're average men johnny you've been
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taking them to india to meet the delai lama that's a certain sect but that's not for yeah to be quite
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honest um i think that there are a huge number of men who could walk around asking women for their number
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for the rest of their lives and they wouldn't get one
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so you said you do this all the time yeah i've had 15 years of experience doing okay tell me tell
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me your experience well i mean you know you've got the opportunity to meet someone for the first time
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as soon as you leave your house that's what we like to encourage people to do men or women um when it
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comes to strategy you've got to have a bit of an audit on how you live in your life where you're
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spending it who you're spending it with and be honest is it giving you a good return on your time
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if not let's move some parts around to get that better return on your time who's giving you the
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access to the demographic that you want and also you need to improve your confidence you need to do
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it you need to start talking to people you're going to get shot down it's going to hurt but you're going
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to get better and then eventually you're going to show up as the version that they want to experience
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of you and that's when you start getting a high percentage of of their contact details and then
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i think though there is a real difficulty for young men in particular they've been fed these messages
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that women are all terrified of them and a lot of women are actually terrified of them feminism is
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teaching women that actually in any you know if a if a man gets a chance he will want to s-a-u or whatever
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yeah um and so yeah boys or young men are scared to try because they don't want to scare a woman
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um and you know if they don't try then they're not going to build the confidence they're not going to
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build the resilience they're never going to learn how to do it and it's not only the societal messages
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we've got you know the force of the law behind um you know it's kind of misogyny as a hate crime laws
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and all of this kind of stuff that is threatening and certainly hr departments you know you go and
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ask one of your colleagues who if you're say a man who's not overly confident but he knows this woman
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because he works with her all the time so maybe he could ask her for a coffee
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if she responds badly and goes to hr he's lost his job it's