JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


This Modern Woman GOT Put In Her PLACE


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

215.81474

Word Count

2,218

Sentence Count

227

Misogynist Sentences

45

Hate Speech Sentences

27


Summary

In this episode we talk about how much money a man should spend on a woman and how much he should not spend on her. We also talk about the importance of being a better man and how to get women without all the money.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 When you go out and you can spend a bag and buy a bottle,
00:00:03.020 you're that guy now.
00:00:04.000 No, but do you know what?
00:00:05.340 Do you know what?
00:00:06.000 If I've got 30 racks and I spend one on a random girl,
00:00:12.580 I don't know.
00:00:12.920 I could be a...
00:00:14.240 Hang on, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:15.780 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:00:18.180 Okay, this is a warning.
00:00:19.820 Stop.
00:00:20.180 You can't be over-talking the host.
00:00:21.880 It's ruining the show.
00:00:23.020 The chat is picking up on it.
00:00:24.220 You cannot be over-talking the host.
00:00:25.540 I could be a multi-millionaire, right?
00:00:28.120 But if I don't know you,
00:00:30.760 I have no obligation to be spending hundreds, thousands on you, right?
00:00:36.120 The problem is in this generation when we're talking about simping,
00:00:39.620 there are guys that are multi-millionaires,
00:00:41.800 or maybe not even multi.
00:00:42.640 They just got a little bit of money.
00:00:44.260 And what they feel like doing, and it's for me,
00:00:47.160 is like this shows men do not know how to get women without resources, right?
00:00:54.160 They feel like their resources can get women, right?
00:00:58.120 And a lot of the time, it can, because women love money.
00:01:01.100 Women like shiny things, right?
00:01:03.000 But if men understand, if you learn to focus on yourself
00:01:06.880 and understand how to get women without resources,
00:01:10.840 when you have the resources, you understand that those resources,
00:01:14.260 regardless of whether you have them or not, it doesn't matter.
00:01:17.220 You can still get women.
00:01:18.400 But what has happened in this society,
00:01:20.300 a man will have a watch on his hand, right?
00:01:22.360 He'll have a chain on his neck, right?
00:01:24.000 He'll be at the club, he'll buy multiple bottles,
00:01:26.240 and he thinks, okay, cool, I'm going to get some women.
00:01:29.240 I'm going to tell you, bro, stop doing that,
00:01:31.840 because the bottom line is those women that you're trying to attract
00:01:34.780 do not give a damn about you.
00:01:37.160 Yeah, but then maybe he don't give a damn anymore.
00:01:39.680 That's what I'm trying to say.
00:01:40.660 If I've got a fortune of, say, like, say I've got 50 racks.
00:01:44.240 Now, say I blow one rack on girls in the club.
00:01:47.640 That doesn't make a dent in what I have.
00:01:49.760 But you look like the guy that's spending money.
00:01:53.080 So just because you've still spent enough to make you look like the guy,
00:01:56.940 but not enough to dent, like, your value, your financial value.
00:02:01.120 But that's what I'm saying.
00:02:01.700 That's the culture today that you, it has to be a cap to it.
00:02:05.200 There has to be a cap to how much you spend on this random girl in the club
00:02:08.720 to make you look like the man, but not the simp.
00:02:11.360 But the thing is, let me, let me, go on.
00:02:12.700 I have a question for the girls.
00:02:14.680 If you really like a guy, does it matter how much he spends on you?
00:02:17.980 Like, if you really, if you, if you really, really like a guy,
00:02:21.080 coffee date.
00:02:21.600 Not at all.
00:02:23.300 No, I believe that when I like a guy, I just, I care about his presence,
00:02:29.340 how he treats me, how he talks to me, these things.
00:02:32.960 Obviously, as a girl, you do like the finer things in life or whatnot,
00:02:38.240 but it's not what matters the most.
00:02:40.500 For me personally, anyways.
00:02:42.040 Money is easy.
00:02:42.960 If you have, if I have a million pound in the bank
00:02:45.280 and I give you a thousand pound, that's easy.
00:02:47.980 If I have 50 pound in my account and I give you 20, that means more.
00:02:51.480 But this is the problem though.
00:02:52.620 People think because you have money, you're that guy.
00:02:54.660 You're not that guy because you have money.
00:02:56.180 Anyone can make money.
00:02:56.960 I can make money.
00:02:57.660 But the thing is, you know what makes you that guy?
00:02:58.740 The way you carry yourself makes you that guy.
00:03:01.380 It's got nothing to do with money.
00:03:02.620 Because you can go and spend a thousand pound on a female,
00:03:05.540 but the way you carry yourself makes you that guy.
00:03:07.860 Do you get it?
00:03:08.300 Because then she can respect you even more by how you present yourself.
00:03:12.120 Because you can go to a chicken shop date, whatever, a chicken shop.
00:03:15.560 Get her chicken.
00:03:16.200 And you mentioned the word there.
00:03:17.700 I mentioned the word there called respect.
00:03:19.940 And the thing is, is that if a woman respects you,
00:03:23.640 it doesn't matter how much money you have.
00:03:25.000 Facts.
00:03:25.480 It doesn't matter how much money you don't have.
00:03:27.320 We've all been with broke guys here.
00:03:28.980 Let's be real.
00:03:29.340 If she respects you as a man because you show that you are a man,
00:03:34.400 you don't have to simp.
00:03:35.880 Your money don't mean anything.
00:03:37.300 Can I just say something, please?
00:03:38.900 Yeah, go on, bro.
00:03:40.580 For some guys, simping to them is not simping.
00:03:45.000 It's fishing, right?
00:03:46.680 So let's say I see this girl.
00:03:49.100 I want to get her, right?
00:03:50.360 But I know she's into money.
00:03:52.200 She's into going, you know, buying her flashy things
00:03:54.460 and spending money on her.
00:03:55.720 That's what's going to get me to be with her
00:03:59.160 or to sleep with her, right?
00:04:01.140 So for me, I wouldn't worry about all the money
00:04:04.120 that I'm spending or everything that I'm doing for her.
00:04:07.320 In the long run, I just see the bigger picture.
00:04:10.220 Can I say something?
00:04:11.360 Hang on.
00:04:11.880 Get her into bed, right?
00:04:14.320 So for men, for some men, simping is not simping.
00:04:19.940 So hang on.
00:04:21.460 I feel like simping is a really brilliant word.
00:04:23.480 Ladies, one second.
00:04:24.240 So what you're saying is that she's a prostitute?
00:04:26.480 No.
00:04:27.100 No.
00:04:27.860 Technically.
00:04:28.380 Technically.
00:04:29.180 No, that's not what I'm saying.
00:04:30.460 That's not what I'm saying.
00:04:31.660 That's not what I'm saying.
00:04:32.800 What I see is to get her into bed, right?
00:04:36.160 You spend money on her.
00:04:38.860 Hang on, wait.
00:04:39.620 So what you're saying is you spend money on a woman
00:04:41.400 to get her into bed?
00:04:42.760 But do you know what the douchebag is?
00:04:43.500 Is that not prostitution?
00:04:44.900 You're a douchebag.
00:04:45.680 No.
00:04:46.280 In essence.
00:04:47.160 No, I'm not saying...
00:04:47.880 Because you're being that nice guy
00:04:49.200 because you want something from her.
00:04:50.900 No, no.
00:04:51.440 Let me get to the point.
00:04:52.120 No.
00:04:52.380 Do you know what the difference is?
00:04:53.280 No, let me get to the point.
00:04:53.560 One at a time, let him speak it.
00:04:54.780 Let me get to the point.
00:04:55.980 If I know,
00:04:57.540 if I know you are more likely to be impressed
00:05:01.300 if I pull up on your driveway with a bench, right?
00:05:05.540 Right.
00:05:06.060 I'll go and rent that bench
00:05:07.580 to pull up...
00:05:09.280 to come to get you.
00:05:11.380 Yeah, but the thing is...
00:05:12.200 No, no.
00:05:12.820 But let me get to the point.
00:05:13.920 Sorry, God.
00:05:14.200 Women like flashy things, right?
00:05:16.320 If I know,
00:05:17.240 if I go out,
00:05:18.840 if I pop two bottles,
00:05:20.580 three bottles,
00:05:21.120 or if I go out with a bench,
00:05:23.420 I'm definitely going home with a girl,
00:05:25.780 then I'm fucking...
00:05:27.000 I'm doing it.
00:05:27.540 Yeah, but let me tell you something.
00:05:28.520 But that's an investment.
00:05:29.320 But let me tell you as a man.
00:05:30.560 I just feel like
00:05:31.160 if you really like the guy,
00:05:33.260 it doesn't matter.
00:05:34.100 It doesn't matter.
00:05:34.700 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:35.480 But then let me just...
00:05:36.760 In my 20s,
00:05:37.680 I'm 41 now, right?
00:05:38.680 But in my 20s,
00:05:39.520 when I was going out,
00:05:40.740 I could go out
00:05:41.720 without a bench.
00:05:43.340 True.
00:05:43.960 And come back with a woman.
00:05:45.080 True.
00:05:45.380 Times are different.
00:05:45.980 Do you know why?
00:05:46.500 But do you know why?
00:05:47.400 Why?
00:05:47.720 Because I knew how to talk to women.
00:05:49.860 Because that's...
00:05:50.400 And I knew...
00:05:51.020 And the thing is,
00:05:52.960 the problem now is,
00:05:54.580 the problem now is,
00:05:55.980 guys don't understand
00:05:57.100 how to interact with women.
00:05:59.080 Sorry.
00:06:00.160 No, I think...
00:06:00.640 I've got a cold.
00:06:01.280 Guys don't know how to interact with women.
00:06:03.300 Oh.
00:06:03.880 Hang on.
00:06:04.420 Mm-hmm.
00:06:04.640 So they're money.
00:06:07.980 Some of them speak.
00:06:09.280 I think today's...
00:06:10.220 Can I say something to that?
00:06:12.540 I think today's society of women
00:06:14.660 expect more.
00:06:15.960 I don't think it's the fact
00:06:17.060 that guys don't know
00:06:17.920 how to speak to women.
00:06:18.660 No, let me say something.
00:06:19.380 Women expect more?
00:06:20.540 Wait, like...
00:06:21.200 I know certain goals
00:06:22.600 that if a guy is nice,
00:06:24.420 they come up to them,
00:06:25.240 they've got a nice approach,
00:06:26.360 they've got a good energy,
00:06:28.000 and they're not taking them a shard,
00:06:29.320 they're not going.
00:06:30.760 Persie, I don't understand that concept.
00:06:31.920 No, I agree with you.
00:06:33.760 Women expect more
00:06:34.840 and they offer less.
00:06:36.200 We offer less than ever.
00:06:37.060 But do you know what I think it is?
00:06:38.520 But that's how women are, though.
00:06:40.200 Yeah.
00:06:40.540 Do you know what I mean?
00:06:41.540 But you've got to be like that.
00:06:42.580 You've got to expect more
00:06:43.400 because you know what you want from a guy
00:06:45.920 and you have to, as a guy,
00:06:48.080 if a guy comes into your life
00:06:49.360 and he's trying to get to know you
00:06:50.620 and you have a certain expectation
00:06:52.220 of that guy,
00:06:52.900 if he doesn't reach that expectation,
00:06:54.280 you're going to be like...
00:06:54.660 I didn't mean like offer less
00:06:56.500 in terms of like compared to him.
00:06:58.500 I'm saying like in all of human history.
00:07:00.360 Yeah, that's true.
00:07:00.680 Like women bring less to the table nowadays
00:07:02.420 in terms of women.
00:07:03.440 Do you know why?
00:07:03.980 Do you know why?
00:07:04.900 No, no, no.
00:07:06.000 Listen, women are at the table, my guy.
00:07:08.360 How are women at the table
00:07:10.000 when pretty is common?
00:07:11.340 No, no, no, no.
00:07:12.000 I'm not saying...
00:07:12.620 I'm not saying as in pretty.
00:07:14.260 Guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:07:15.320 One at a time.
00:07:15.880 Go ahead.
00:07:16.340 Go ahead, then you.
00:07:16.860 I'm not saying as in pretty
00:07:18.260 because anyone could be pretty.
00:07:19.580 You could go and get plastic surgery
00:07:20.640 and be a fucking pretty bitch.
00:07:21.820 Do you know what I mean?
00:07:22.540 Yeah, but for me...
00:07:24.120 You guys can tell.
00:07:24.780 I ain't going to come at you
00:07:25.580 dealing with you.
00:07:26.080 That's true, but as a woman...
00:07:26.880 I feel like it all comes down to like
00:07:28.580 women and men provide different things.
00:07:31.220 So like as a woman,
00:07:33.580 you provide...
00:07:34.460 I don't know.
00:07:34.900 Obviously, everyone's got their own mindsets,
00:07:36.900 but men provide like...
00:07:38.820 They are providers as...
00:07:40.340 Where women, they like...
00:07:42.280 They cook.
00:07:43.280 They look after the children.
00:07:44.960 They clean.
00:07:45.360 How many women...
00:07:46.840 How many women really cook and clean?
00:07:48.560 It's automated nowadays.
00:07:49.560 No, there is.
00:07:50.260 I mean, there is.
00:07:51.540 It depends on where you're looking.
00:07:53.020 I think the difference is.
00:07:54.980 If you're going for City Girl,
00:07:56.440 she's never going to go cook for you.
00:07:58.140 She's going to clean for you.
00:07:58.980 She's not going to take care of the kids.
00:08:00.260 She's not going to do anything
00:08:01.220 that you look for in a woman.
00:08:03.160 But if you go for a respectful woman,
00:08:04.720 a woman that's been raised right in a family,
00:08:06.940 her family's taught her good manners
00:08:08.500 and everything,
00:08:09.380 you're going to get everything that you want.
00:08:11.500 But a man...
00:08:11.840 I agree, but there's not as many of those.
00:08:13.680 That's true.
00:08:14.700 That's true.
00:08:15.440 That's very true.
00:08:16.160 But that's because of society nowadays.
00:08:18.440 I would say it's...
00:08:19.700 The average age of first marriage
00:08:20.900 is 31 in the UK.
00:08:23.040 But that's the UK though.
00:08:24.540 You're right.
00:08:25.040 It's 27, 28.
00:08:26.080 It's like 35 in Ireland.
00:08:27.560 Like it's in the West.
00:08:28.520 It's an epidemic basically.
00:08:29.940 But everyone in the UK is from different cultures.
00:08:31.380 How many bodies does a girl have by 31, 35, 28?
00:08:35.180 And I'm saying like people used to marry...
00:08:37.240 Men used to know they could provide for a girl
00:08:38.840 and get a young virgin.
00:08:39.940 They can't get that anymore.
00:08:41.220 Do you know why I think women need to kind of have
00:08:43.840 a higher standard than men?
00:08:45.760 Because you see if I'm a girl
00:08:46.960 and I meet a guy,
00:08:47.920 my standard's the subpar.
00:08:49.400 I sleep with him.
00:08:51.020 Doesn't work out.
00:08:52.260 Happens again, happens again.
00:08:53.380 When my body count gets to a certain level,
00:08:55.900 I'm seen as a hoe.
00:08:56.940 I'm seen as...
00:08:57.360 You can't wife that.
00:08:58.400 But a guy could have double, triple my body count
00:09:00.900 and it doesn't devalue him.
00:09:02.420 So I feel like...
00:09:03.480 We have to have a higher standard
00:09:08.520 because if we don't
00:09:10.200 and we act like men...
00:09:11.360 When I say guys can do it,
00:09:13.500 that's not getting me no brownie points.
00:09:15.280 I'm still a hoe.
00:09:15.940 But wouldn't it make more sense
00:09:17.700 to ask those guys what it was?
00:09:20.120 But guys just lie.
00:09:21.880 I'm saying like...
00:09:23.060 Ask the men what they want
00:09:25.000 and try to be more of what they want.
00:09:26.620 No, because guys...
00:09:27.260 This is my point.
00:09:28.080 Like he said,
00:09:28.580 when a girl wants a Benz,
00:09:30.600 a guy will say he'll go rent a Benz.
00:09:32.820 This is what...
00:09:33.780 Guys love the chase.
00:09:35.280 Guys love the chase.
00:09:36.280 Guys that aren't ready to settle down
00:09:37.840 love the chase.
00:09:38.440 Guys love the chase.
00:09:39.420 Guys that aren't actually looking to settle down,
00:09:42.220 they love the chase.
00:09:42.860 Guys that actually are looking for something serious.
00:09:44.460 But you see the differences.
00:09:45.520 I've talked to men like...
00:09:46.580 I've talked to men like successful, attractive men
00:09:49.400 like where I'm looking to matchmake them
00:09:51.360 and they're not really into the game
00:09:53.000 if they're looking for a wife.
00:09:55.420 But the key is a lot of times
00:09:57.140 like we date guys our age,
00:09:58.320 they're not looking for a wife.
00:10:00.340 As many of you know,
00:10:01.440 I was just banned on TikTok
00:10:03.580 and we are demonetized
00:10:05.300 on a daily basis
00:10:06.520 on this platform.
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