JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023


This Modern Woman SAID This About Women On AIR

Topics
judging based on appearance
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Abraham Fellas Zoros Pearl Keef
Married man drops Red Pill truths Monkey branching from a woman’s perspective

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

205.45

Word count

1,900

Sentence count

279

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

sentences flagged

Toxicity

4

sentences flagged

Hate speech

12

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and discuss the importance of a healthy relationship and how to deal with conflict in a healthy one. They talk about what they look for in a partner, how to handle conflict, and what to look out for when dealing with a partner who is not on the same page as you.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What if your wife, for example, feels like what you're saying doesn't really align with
00:00:07.040 what she believes to be right or true?
00:00:10.480 Do you feel like that's her going against you or that's her?
00:00:13.520 Well, for me personally, I would question it.
00:00:15.760 I'd be like, okay, so why?
00:00:16.840 I wouldn't necessarily want to have an argument.
00:00:19.340 I wouldn't necessarily want to go against what you're saying.
00:00:21.760 I just want to understand from your perspective, how has that favored you in the past?
00:00:28.260 That means that you're not compatible.
00:00:30.000 That means you don't have the same vision and you're not aligned.
00:00:32.620 I'm a Christian and as a Christian, there's a story in the Bible about Abraham, who basically
00:00:37.940 had a conversation with God and he told him to just go and that was just between him and
00:00:42.880 God.
00:00:43.880 And he had to take his wife.
00:00:44.880 His wife did not know where he was going and she just followed that submission to me.
00:00:49.300 She trusted him.
00:00:50.300 Yeah.
00:00:51.300 Trust and bring submission.
00:00:52.300 So if you don't have that, that means maybe you're just not compatible.
00:00:56.300 Okay.
00:00:57.300 I actually agree with that.
00:01:00.000 Okay.
00:01:01.000 I do.
00:01:02.000 To an extent.
00:01:03.000 What's your name again?
00:01:04.000 Blessing.
00:01:05.000 You have been a blessing.
00:01:07.000 Truly a blessing.
00:01:07.940 Truly a blessing.
00:01:08.940 At the end of the day, I think the main goal for a lot of people is just peace.
00:01:11.880 You don't want arguments.
00:01:12.880 You don't want toxicity.
00:01:13.880 Exactly.
00:01:14.880 Yeah.
00:01:15.880 Didn't we start the show and like two of you said you like toxicity.
00:01:19.880 I have changed so much throughout this podcast.
00:01:23.880 Literally.
00:01:24.880 My view is everything has changed.
00:01:25.880 Sorry.
00:01:26.880 Right?
00:01:27.880 I've come from, you know, whatever.
00:01:29.880 That's in the past now.
00:01:30.880 That's what I'm saying.
00:01:31.880 Now it's about.
00:01:32.880 Sorry.
00:01:33.880 Sorry to be the person.
00:01:34.880 Peace.
00:01:35.880 But you can have peace and someone can stay cheap behind your back and just make it seem
00:01:38.880 as if, yeah, it's normal.
00:01:39.880 As long as I'm with you and I'm getting money, it's fine.
00:01:40.880 But you don't let it affect you because you won't let it affect you because you don't
00:01:43.880 want to be at peace with yourself.
00:01:44.880 There's different scenarios.
00:01:45.880 You can be at peace, but the guy's doing stuff that you shouldn't be doing and you're just
00:01:49.880 being submissive.
00:01:50.880 Do you get it?
00:01:51.880 So it's like everyone's situation is different.
00:01:52.880 Yeah, but it could go the other way around too.
00:01:53.880 I mean, like he could, like she could be doing stuff that she's not supposed to be doing
00:01:57.880 too.
00:01:58.880 But like, it's like as women, we're always bringing up the worst case scenarios.
00:02:01.880 It's like, what could go wrong instead of what could go right?
00:02:04.880 I agree with that.
00:02:05.880 100%.
00:02:06.880 I think we have a very, very negative mindset when we get into relationships.
00:02:09.880 A lot of people are like, oh, what if he cheats on me?
00:02:11.880 What if he does this?
00:02:12.880 Or he's sneaky.
00:02:13.880 He's this, he's that.
00:02:14.880 But why is that though?
00:02:15.880 Why don't you just look at the positive?
00:02:16.880 Is that because of like what society reveals to us?
00:02:19.880 And you think that they make men to be these villains?
00:02:22.880 I think social media plays a huge part.
00:02:24.880 No, no, definitely.
00:02:25.880 Social media has played a huge part.
00:02:26.880 There's a reason why we think like this.
00:02:28.880 We don't just think like this, like that out of nowhere.
00:02:30.880 But you know what?
00:02:31.880 I think it depends what kind of content you consume on social media.
00:02:35.880 Because the popular, like pop culture, yeah, is very, very toxic.
00:02:40.880 Like constantly like people, couples arguing and all of this.
00:02:43.880 People get influenced by it, right?
00:02:44.880 If you don't watch that, if you don't watch that, then you're not going to get influenced
00:02:47.880 by it.
00:02:48.880 Like social media is a platform.
00:02:49.880 Yeah.
00:02:50.880 And you can choose what, like what you want to absorb and what you don't.
00:02:53.880 But what you absorb, it does have an effect on you, whether you think it or not.
00:02:56.880 Like subconsciously, it does affect you.
00:02:58.880 I definitely know I consume some really bad stuff.
00:03:01.880 And you also control what you double tap and follow.
00:03:05.880 I'm joking.
00:03:06.880 Not me.
00:03:08.880 I have a question.
00:03:09.880 I have a question.
00:03:10.880 All right.
00:03:11.880 Based on this conversation, who on the panel out of the four of you, would you want to set
00:03:16.880 your brother up with?
00:03:17.880 Starting you, go around.
00:03:18.880 Her.
00:03:19.880 I would want to, yeah.
00:03:20.880 Who would you pick?
00:03:21.880 Oh, based on what?
00:03:22.880 Yeah, I had a brother.
00:03:23.880 Yeah, based on just the show.
00:03:24.880 I'm just curious.
00:03:25.880 Just the show.
00:03:26.880 Oh, okay.
00:03:27.880 Based on like what we've said about relationships.
00:03:28.880 All right.
00:03:29.880 Go ahead.
00:03:30.880 Yeah, probably you, you know.
00:03:32.880 You're very spiritual, like your free spirit.
00:03:34.880 Like I love that.
00:03:35.880 Go ahead.
00:03:36.880 Who would you set your brother up with?
00:03:38.880 Cousin.
00:03:39.880 I don't know.
00:03:40.880 If you don't get a brother, just pick cousin.
00:03:41.880 Cousin.
00:03:42.880 A good one.
00:03:43.880 A good one.
00:03:44.880 It's going to get lit with me.
00:03:47.880 Come on.
00:03:48.880 Who me?
00:03:49.880 Okay.
00:03:50.880 We'll do cousin.
00:03:51.880 You know what?
00:03:52.880 I was going to say you as well.
00:03:53.880 Do you know why?
00:03:54.880 Do you know why?
00:03:55.880 Do you know why?
00:03:56.880 I have a reason actually, because I feel like similar morals.
00:03:59.880 I feel like you're very chill.
00:04:01.880 There's peace already there.
00:04:02.880 Does that make sense?
00:04:03.880 There's no, you have to do the overthinking.
00:04:05.880 Sometimes you just got to be calm.
00:04:07.880 None of nothing.
00:04:08.880 You know what I mean?
00:04:09.880 That just, you know what I mean?
00:04:11.880 Genuine.
00:04:12.880 Not too much going on.
00:04:15.880 Does that make sense?
00:04:16.880 Yeah.
00:04:17.880 I'm going to take a second to read Super Chats.
00:04:19.880 Who would you set your brother up?
00:04:21.880 Oh, yeah.
00:04:22.880 Who would you set your brother up?
00:04:23.880 Your cousin.
00:04:24.880 Your cousin.
00:04:25.880 Or your nephew.
00:04:26.880 Of all of us.
00:04:27.880 I'll tell you why.
00:04:29.880 Spirituality.
00:04:30.880 That's weird stuff.
00:04:32.880 I don't need you to pick a religion or just.
00:04:35.880 She's the following.
00:04:36.880 I don't need my brother.
00:04:37.880 She's not.
00:04:38.880 You guys both said you wouldn't listen.
00:04:40.880 Depending on what it is.
00:04:41.880 You got the nose ring.
00:04:42.880 I just don't like nose rings.
00:04:43.880 You cannot.
00:04:44.880 Wow.
00:04:45.880 You're just judging.
00:04:46.880 Yeah.
00:04:47.880 Yeah.
00:04:48.880 That's not too much judging.
00:04:49.880 That's just what your brother would know.
00:04:50.880 No, I'm judged off of what you've brought to the show.
00:04:51.880 Okay.
00:04:52.880 And yeah, I'm judging.
00:04:53.880 Yeah, but you can't judge based on appearance.
00:04:54.880 Everyone has those things, no?
00:04:55.880 Everyone has those things.
00:04:56.880 Literally, everyone has.
00:04:57.880 Everyone judges based on.
00:04:58.880 Watch how your brother would date someone who actually has a nose pier.
00:04:59.880 Okay.
00:05:00.880 Okay.
00:05:01.880 Okay.
00:05:02.880 I come from.
00:05:03.880 So I come from a 1% family.
00:05:04.880 Okay.
00:05:05.880 I come from a lot of men that a lot of women would want to date.
00:05:08.880 I grew up around like the top 1% men in society that make millions of people.
00:05:09.880 Yeah.
00:05:10.880 Yeah.
00:05:11.880 I'm judged off of what your brother would know.
00:05:12.880 I'm judged off of what you've brought to the show.
00:05:13.880 Okay.
00:05:14.880 Okay.
00:05:15.880 Okay.
00:05:16.880 Okay.
00:05:17.880 Okay.
00:05:18.880 I come from.
00:05:19.880 So I come from a 1% family.
00:05:20.880 Okay.
00:05:21.880 I come from a lot of men that a lot of like women would want to date. 0.94
00:05:25.880 They're up around like the top 1% men in society that make millions of dollars.
00:05:29.880 And I can tell you absolutely men judge you by the way you dress and by the way you carry
00:05:33.880 yourself.
00:05:34.880 That is true.
00:05:35.880 Yeah.
00:05:36.880 100%.
00:05:37.880 So when you're wearing slutty clothes, they'll judge you. 0.92
00:05:38.880 When you're wearing piercings, they judge you.
00:05:40.880 When they wear a ton of makeup, they judge you.
00:05:42.880 And so I could lie to you and say, oh, they don't care, but they do care.
00:05:46.880 But luckily it's not for you.
00:05:47.880 Luckily it's not for you men.
00:05:48.880 We don't do it for you men anyway.
00:05:50.880 But before any job.
00:05:51.880 Which is fine, but if you want to be alone, that's fine.
00:05:54.880 It's got nothing to do with being alone.
00:05:55.880 You've got to be content with yourself.
00:05:56.880 You've got to be content with yourself.
00:05:57.880 If you're trying to sell a car, why would you not want to understand the buyer?
00:06:06.880 Before anything.
00:06:07.880 If you want to be alone, fine.
00:06:09.880 That's totally fine.
00:06:10.880 But realistically, before anything, men always look at how you look.
00:06:13.880 Oh yeah, they do.
00:06:14.880 If they're not physically attracted to you, then they're not going to come and approach
00:06:17.880 you.
00:06:18.880 And yeah, it's the same for women as well.
00:06:19.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:20.880 You might not, you might have like, oh, like I go for personality, but like looks is always
00:06:24.880 there.
00:06:25.880 Yeah.
00:06:26.880 A hundred percent.
00:06:27.880 It is.
00:06:28.880 And we judge them based on, you know, their income.
00:06:29.880 Like you're not, I mean, you guys are young.
00:06:30.880 Oh, I have an idea.
00:06:31.880 You guys are young.
00:06:32.880 So it might be ambition or driven, but I mean, I'm sure when I, when I was your age,
00:06:36.880 it was like, is he in sports?
00:06:37.880 Is he doing something in the school?
00:06:39.880 He has to be doing something.
00:06:40.880 Right.
00:06:41.880 And later that's going to translate to income.
00:06:43.880 Um, you know, women judge them on their height. 1.00
00:06:46.880 Women judge them based on how they dress. 1.00
00:06:48.880 Like if they dress like a, what do they, what do they say? 0.64
00:06:50.880 A lame.
00:06:51.880 What the kids say?
00:06:52.880 A lame.
00:06:53.880 Whoring. 0.68
00:06:54.880 Whoring. 0.68
00:06:55.880 Um, I'm going to read the super chats though for a second.
00:06:59.880 Um, guys sign up for our email list.
00:07:02.880 Um, I, as I know I've said this so many times a show.
00:07:05.880 Okay.
00:07:06.880 But we've got a really cool community going on at just pearly things.
00:07:08.880 All right.
00:07:09.880 Um, we are going to be doing parties in different cities.
00:07:12.880 We're going to do meetups in different cities.
00:07:14.880 I'm even thinking about matchmaking for like traditionally minded people, but I have to
00:07:19.880 build an email list.
00:07:20.880 I have to build a base of people that want to be a part of it.
00:07:23.880 We're also going to sell, um, beautiful majestic creature merch, but I can't sell it on YouTube
00:07:29.880 because I might get kicked off.
00:07:30.880 So sign up for the email list.
00:07:32.880 Um, also guys, make sure you like the video at a thousand likes.
00:07:36.880 We are going to open up the chat and that is the most important metric that YouTube uses
00:07:39.880 to push out these streams.
00:07:40.880 So.
00:07:41.880 Zoros lost. 1.00
00:07:42.880 What if society called you stupid, weak and small for wanting a man making more money, 1.00
00:07:48.880 taller, confident, ambitious leaders, stop shaming men for our standards. 1.00
00:07:52.880 Um, chief Keef, um, FOMO of high lifestyle lives are generally miserable.
00:07:57.880 The UK economist, please ask your guests what they, why they think they deserve traditional
00:08:02.880 men if they aren't traditional virgins.
00:08:04.880 Uh, black Moses. 0.78
00:08:06.880 Thank you.
00:08:07.880 Pearl for showing us women.
00:08:08.880 What women to avoid. 1.00
00:08:09.880 None of them mentioned peace.
00:08:11.880 They are all side chicks. 0.99
00:08:12.880 Fellas invest in cat food and boxed wine.
00:08:14.880 Um, 90 friso pie.
00:08:16.880 It takes four women to answer one question. 1.00
00:08:19.880 Um, Poppy.
00:08:20.880 Her dress is so little.
00:08:21.880 She has to cross her legs.
00:08:23.880 Zoro slosh. 0.92
00:08:24.880 Most of the, most of the women.
00:08:26.880 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:08:28.880 As many of you know, I was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:08:34.880 on this platform.
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