This Modern Woman SAID This About Women On AIR
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and discuss the importance of a healthy relationship and how to deal with conflict in a healthy one. They talk about what they look for in a partner, how to handle conflict, and what to look out for when dealing with a partner who is not on the same page as you.
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What if your wife, for example, feels like what you're saying doesn't really align with
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Do you feel like that's her going against you or that's her?
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I wouldn't necessarily want to have an argument.
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I wouldn't necessarily want to go against what you're saying.
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I just want to understand from your perspective, how has that favored you in the past?
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That means you don't have the same vision and you're not aligned.
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I'm a Christian and as a Christian, there's a story in the Bible about Abraham, who basically
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had a conversation with God and he told him to just go and that was just between him and
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His wife did not know where he was going and she just followed that submission to me.
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So if you don't have that, that means maybe you're just not compatible.
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At the end of the day, I think the main goal for a lot of people is just peace.
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Didn't we start the show and like two of you said you like toxicity.
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I have changed so much throughout this podcast.
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But you can have peace and someone can stay cheap behind your back and just make it seem
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As long as I'm with you and I'm getting money, it's fine.
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But you don't let it affect you because you won't let it affect you because you don't
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You can be at peace, but the guy's doing stuff that you shouldn't be doing and you're just
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So it's like everyone's situation is different.
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Yeah, but it could go the other way around too.
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I mean, like he could, like she could be doing stuff that she's not supposed to be doing
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But like, it's like as women, we're always bringing up the worst case scenarios.
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It's like, what could go wrong instead of what could go right?
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I think we have a very, very negative mindset when we get into relationships.
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A lot of people are like, oh, what if he cheats on me?
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Is that because of like what society reveals to us?
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And you think that they make men to be these villains?
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We don't just think like this, like that out of nowhere.
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I think it depends what kind of content you consume on social media.
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Because the popular, like pop culture, yeah, is very, very toxic.
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Like constantly like people, couples arguing and all of this.
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If you don't watch that, if you don't watch that, then you're not going to get influenced
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And you can choose what, like what you want to absorb and what you don't.
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But what you absorb, it does have an effect on you, whether you think it or not.
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I definitely know I consume some really bad stuff.
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And you also control what you double tap and follow.
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Based on this conversation, who on the panel out of the four of you, would you want to set
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Based on like what we've said about relationships.
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I have a reason actually, because I feel like similar morals.
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I'm going to take a second to read Super Chats.
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No, I'm judged off of what you've brought to the show.
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Watch how your brother would date someone who actually has a nose pier.
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I come from a lot of men that a lot of women would want to date.
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I grew up around like the top 1% men in society that make millions of people.
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I'm judged off of what your brother would know.
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I'm judged off of what you've brought to the show.
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I come from a lot of men that a lot of like women would want to date.
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They're up around like the top 1% men in society that make millions of dollars.
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And I can tell you absolutely men judge you by the way you dress and by the way you carry
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So when you're wearing slutty clothes, they'll judge you.
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When they wear a ton of makeup, they judge you.
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And so I could lie to you and say, oh, they don't care, but they do care.
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Which is fine, but if you want to be alone, that's fine.
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If you're trying to sell a car, why would you not want to understand the buyer?
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But realistically, before anything, men always look at how you look.
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If they're not physically attracted to you, then they're not going to come and approach
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You might not, you might have like, oh, like I go for personality, but like looks is always
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And we judge them based on, you know, their income.
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So it might be ambition or driven, but I mean, I'm sure when I, when I was your age,
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Um, you know, women judge them on their height.
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Like if they dress like a, what do they, what do they say?
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Um, I'm going to read the super chats though for a second.
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Um, I, as I know I've said this so many times a show.
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But we've got a really cool community going on at just pearly things.
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Um, we are going to be doing parties in different cities.
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I'm even thinking about matchmaking for like traditionally minded people, but I have to
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I have to build a base of people that want to be a part of it.
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We're also going to sell, um, beautiful majestic creature merch, but I can't sell it on YouTube
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Um, also guys, make sure you like the video at a thousand likes.
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We are going to open up the chat and that is the most important metric that YouTube uses
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What if society called you stupid, weak and small for wanting a man making more money,
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taller, confident, ambitious leaders, stop shaming men for our standards.
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Um, chief Keef, um, FOMO of high lifestyle lives are generally miserable.
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The UK economist, please ask your guests what they, why they think they deserve traditional
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