This Nigerian Lady Brought DISGRACE To Nigerians By Doing This On the Show
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
210.7158
Summary
In this episode, we talk about the role of men in our society and how they protect us. We also talk about how we need to stop being overly aggressive and become more respectful towards each other. We have become so used to being aggressive that we forget that men are there to protect us from harm.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
Women, we need to get the point that men are trying to give us.
00:00:03.140
You should be grateful that I'm trying to give her the point.
00:00:12.100
Because I want you to acknowledge what men do because you said that we...
00:00:21.380
And what I'm trying to do is bring you my character.
00:00:31.020
She wasn't in this and she's about to have a...
00:00:32.640
Okay, okay, okay, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:00:34.640
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:58.140
And he's walking and he saw a man hold a woman and punch her in her face.
00:01:05.340
Now, he was with another friend and he said he moved so fast and he went to that man and
00:01:12.240
he held that man and he said, don't you ever in your life pick up your hand to another woman
00:01:32.720
He said he moved so fast to that guy to let him know that he could not put his hand on
00:01:47.920
Sometimes we take men's language, their words and their demeanor as aggression.
00:01:59.280
Actually, if we would allow them to speak, allow them to make their point and for us to
00:02:04.240
stop being pseudo masculine, because that's what I call it.
00:02:07.480
We've become so masculine ourselves that we're not realizing that sometimes men are just being
00:02:19.860
I think just listening to what's been going on here, I've seen it back and forth.
00:02:24.320
Like some of the answers we are, you know how we are violent as women?
00:02:47.280
Some of my parents have stayed in marriages that are not beneficial.
00:02:58.380
Like if you are actually Nigerian, yeah, if you're actually Nigerian, you'll be a little
00:03:03.040
bit more traditional in the way you see things.
00:03:06.200
Because I've seen the detriment of traditional Nigerian.
00:03:07.720
You're disrespecting an elder, 60-year-old woman you don't know?
00:03:11.020
No, she keeps on talking and then you're talking over her, let her speak.
00:03:14.000
She's not representative of Nigerian culture and women.
00:03:20.820
You don't think there's some level of respect you just give someone because they're a bit
00:03:27.120
Okay, okay, okay, so I'm not talking about your ethnicity, so shh, Jesus Christ.
00:03:35.700
As, you know, men and women we have our natures.
00:03:40.260
And often we're not trying to understand each other's natures.
00:03:45.680
And men do try to change women, I must say that.
00:03:48.320
But the thing is, why do we as women have to get aggressive, get defensive, and then
00:04:00.220
The reason why is because, like, so I want to get back to what I was trying to say because
00:04:05.860
So you guys make a lot of, like, brass statements.
00:04:11.020
But when we try to actually challenge it or give you information about it, you want to
00:04:14.240
start over-speaking us and then making it personal.
00:04:16.200
She wants to start speaking about Pearl's legs and you want to start asking what people
00:04:20.360
What you're doing, you're derailing the conversation.
00:04:22.340
Like, it really is not going to get us anywhere.
00:04:24.100
And the reason why I'm saying this is because we can have real conversations about things
00:04:31.160
Like, but when you come here with an agenda as you came with an agenda, the girl in the
00:04:34.840
corner, you want to say, you've seen me before.
00:04:37.960
So whatever you've seen of me in the clips, you've come with that vim.
00:04:43.640
You have to understand, sure, you match that energy.
00:04:52.240
Is it possible that you just miss, miss, like, you just took it the wrong way?
00:04:58.880
This is, this is, is it, is it possible as women sometimes we take things the wrong
00:05:06.040
And I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you something I've learned from interviewing
00:05:09.800
a lot of guys, interviewing hundreds of people.
00:05:12.960
A lot of times men feel like they cannot talk to us because they speak more direct and they're
00:05:19.440
a little bit harsher and they're a little bit more to the point.
00:05:22.260
So when they speak to us, like they talk to other men, then we get offended and prissy.
00:05:33.140
And you're so used to, most women are so used to having men cater to them and a lot of
00:05:37.040
simp guys around them speaking generally, yeah, mostly it's simp guys talking to you
00:05:44.400
And so when you say, oh, it's how you say it, it's your tone.
00:05:46.580
You're saying, hey, communicate to me like a woman.
00:05:50.700
If I was to talk direct to a guy or be very serious, then you would say, oh, she's masculine.
00:05:57.780
You've been doing that all throughout this episode.
00:06:00.160
I don't give a fuck about what you have to say.
00:06:19.640
Because when she said, what are you going to do?
00:06:21.060
If I actually got up and then she said, oh, what are you going to do?
00:06:22.920
And the reason I'm just trying to say is, no man would do that because I would get up
00:06:27.620
And the thing about this is, this is what I'm trying to say.
00:06:59.700
I can attest watching the lifespan of OnlyFans models.
00:07:05.600
It's only like, I don't remember the exact number,
00:07:23.600
It's always the dead things that always move like that.
00:07:36.420
It's always the dead and the overweight things.
00:07:54.940
It's kind of interesting when she was insulting him
00:10:14.020
But let me, let me show you guys what happened.
00:10:32.580
Today, we're doing the domestic violence experiment.
00:10:37.200
And we're going to see who gets more attention.
00:11:19.740
We're filming a social experiment for domestic violence.
00:11:33.520
Thanks a lot, though, for saying sign, you know?
00:11:36.520
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:11:40.180
Thank you guys. Look, we're filming. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for saying something.
00:12:10.180
You're cheating on me again? Texting that girl again, huh? Huh? I saw that picture. I wasn't cheating at you.
00:12:17.180
You're on the ground. I wasn't cheating on you. Are you serious? Are you serious? Are you serious? Are you serious?
00:12:30.180
You don't do that shit to me. I wasn't cheating on you. What the hell?
00:12:39.180
I texted that girl again. I wasn't cheating on you. I caught you red-handed, dude.
00:13:10.180
I wasn't cheating on you. I wasn't cheating on you. I'm cheating on you. I'm cheating on you. I don't need to be right now.
00:14:11.180
I really think it's good that there's more spotlight on violence against men.
00:14:17.180
I definitely think it's an issue that should be brought to light and should be addressed and should be, you know, spoken to.
00:14:24.180
But biologically speaking, right, a man is not going to inflict.
00:14:29.180
I mean, a woman is not going to inflict the same amount of damage.
00:14:36.180
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:14:52.180
The first thing you said was not even to talk about the issue.
00:14:55.180
It was just like, you know, but, you know, women.
00:14:57.180
I did say I said that we should address violence against men.
00:15:01.180
How would you determine which gender is more violent?
00:15:06.180
The way I would determine it is who commits violence against people that don't deserve it.
00:15:13.180
Like, you know, so like when men fight, there's usually a reason, right?
00:15:18.180
There's usually like maybe they disrespected each other.
00:15:20.180
Like there's usually something behind it, right?
00:15:24.180
I'm not saying they're good reasons, but they're reasons, right?
00:15:27.180
But when you look at children and the elderly, women are more likely to kill both.
00:15:34.180
If a direct parent kills their kid, so that means like it's their blood, 90% chance it's the mother.
00:15:41.180
I mean, even if we look at, you know, people have their thoughts on abortion.
00:15:47.180
Yeah, but I say women kill their babies the most.
00:15:49.180
Yeah, the most likely person to kill a baby in the first year is its own mother.
00:15:55.180
And this has been like a phenomenon even before like modern times.
00:15:58.180
Yeah, but let's not forget postpartum and things like that.
00:16:06.180
Yeah, but I mean we could even, okay, let's look at the elderly.
00:16:11.180
Women are much more likely to kill the elderly.
00:16:24.180
What I would say is that both men and women are violent.
00:16:31.180
We are violent for different reasons and in different ways.
00:16:43.180
Well, I just think whenever there's like a stat that makes us look bad,
00:16:46.180
I've just noticed it's always like why are we comparing?
00:16:52.180
I think that the way people talk about masculinity as though like men are very inherently violent.
00:16:58.180
I think that the thing is that life is just like survival of the fetus, right?
00:17:03.180
And you see it like with lesbian relationships.
00:17:06.180
I think that women are not just as violent, quote unquote, as men because they don't have the opportunity to.
00:17:14.180
Now, if you check the stats for, you know, like whatever lesbian relationships, the domestic violence is more.
00:17:25.180
We men will abuse you when they know that they can.
00:17:28.180
Biologically though, obviously men have testosterone, so they will be more violent.
00:17:32.180
So guys, the thing about this thing right here, they've always been violent men.
00:17:38.180
Men have always done the most violence, but the difference was you was protected by the group.
00:17:42.180
You was protected by your brother, your uncle or your man or your father, right?
00:17:45.180
And then up until the point you got married, you were protected by them.
00:17:58.180
When you women, when she was talking about, oh, it's safer for, do you know how dangerous it is for us men?
00:18:02.180
When we speak about all the stabbing and stuff, it's not women getting stabbed.
00:18:05.180
It's very dangerous for young black men, particularly.
00:18:08.180
And it's not even dangerous because you're doing anything.
00:18:10.180
Like you could just be walking in the wrong ends and the man says, where are you from cause?
00:18:21.180
So even when it comes down to this, so when you speak about, oh, oh, it's more dangerous for women.
00:18:26.180
But us men, we, we realize that if I walk danger, if I walk late at night, someone might jack me.
00:18:34.180
I respect the fact that in both genders, actually, it's just as dangerous leaving at any time.
00:18:43.180
What I was saying with you, what I would say to you is you got that thing that my sister had, but it came an age where I told her to stop doing that.
00:18:49.180
Because you start dealing with men that don't care about your sister.
00:18:52.180
They don't care about like, when you deal with the role, they don't care about your mother.
00:19:02.180
So, it's not feasible for women to say, you know what, like, I'm gonna do what you do, because more time men will do you the same way.
00:19:11.180
The whole point is, like, women act like they can't walk, like, they're like, oh, I can't walk home alone at night, no one can.
00:19:18.180
Like, we live in such a safe, we live in such a safe world that we think, like, we have, we're so, we live in this la-la land where we feel like we're entitled to safety.
00:19:29.180
I think, no, I would say, I would actually say no, not anymore.
00:19:35.180
Because, you know, I think safety goes back to traditionalism, and feminism is what's the norm now.
00:19:43.180
And if you can't be equal, that means you have to give up some power to the men.
00:19:54.180
So you need to give some power to the men, which is...
00:19:58.180
I don't believe, this is a, you know, popular opinion.
00:20:01.180
Everyone knows, I don't know if you guys do, but I don't think women should vote.
00:20:04.180
And the reason I don't think women should vote is because in the U.S., we vote for the commander-in-chief.
00:20:10.180
So that's the leader of the army, he decides if they go to war, right?
00:20:13.180
And the thing is, when a man turns 18, he cannot vote if he is not enrolled in selective service.
00:20:19.180
Selective service is kind of like the draft, but it basically means in war times, if shit goes south, yeah, you got, you got to go to war.
00:20:27.180
I think until women want to do the same thing, which then you don't get the same rights.
00:20:37.180
Because I've got my own agreement to some of the things you said that are also controversial.
00:20:43.180
But do you mean war or do you mean vote in general?
00:20:49.180
Okay, so for example, you just said now, I'll base it on like, let's say hormones, for example.
00:20:56.180
Are you saying that women shouldn't vote because based on those types of decisions?
00:21:01.180
I have a couple different, I have a couple different reasons for it.
00:21:04.180
So the first is that like women, I think if you want the equal freedom, then you have to have the equal responsibility or equal work.
00:21:12.180
So if you want all of, I think if you want all the free, like, okay, if you have a house and you want to do whatever that you want in the house, right, I think you should pay the bills.
00:21:29.180
So that's actually, so I'm going to wait, wait, I'm going to wait.
00:21:31.180
So women, if we look at society, like imagine society as a house.
00:21:40.180
We're not, we're not running the factories that build the phones, the electronic, like none of the super hard jobs women are doing.
00:21:46.180
You could say teaching nursing is a hard job, but not compared to like an oil rig.
00:21:50.180
You mean like directors, CEOs, that type of thing.
00:21:55.180
So you could argue, you know, cause there's a lot of stress that comes with like the fortune 500 CEOs.
00:22:01.180
Like most women wouldn't want to do those jobs.
00:22:11.180
Cause women always say, oh, we are not fortune 500.
00:22:15.180
But anyways, anyways, so we, we look at all the hardest jobs in society.
00:22:25.180
So we're the majority of the ones on benefits and yet we're the biggest voting block.
00:22:30.180
So I just don't think it's fair when we pay less taxes.
00:22:33.180
We're not the ones going to war and we do the least amount of work that we have the most say.
00:22:44.180
So obviously it shouldn't only men be voting because women are living here as well.
00:22:47.180
So obviously they should be allowed, allowed to say.
00:22:50.180
Well, I mean, I think we should, we maybe I could like, you know, I've heard a couple different like ideas where it's only women that are net taxpayers, only women that are enrolled in the military.
00:22:59.180
Like, but my point is, and I just think we need to do equal work.
00:23:08.180
I'd also argue the crack heads down the street shouldn't vote either.
00:23:13.180
But the thing is, most of women nowadays are basically crack heads.
00:23:18.180
You know, we don't really do any of the hard jobs.
00:23:21.180
We have a lot of, and that's why I wasn't even trying to come at her when I said we chose to do anything and we're only fans models.
00:23:28.180
But when we have more women picking only fans and that doesn't even include the women that are Instagram models.
00:23:35.180
So it's probably, if I get to guess, I guess five to 10% of women are doing this under the age of 35.
00:23:50.180
I feel like whenever someone does get a choice to do something easier, whether it's a male or a female, you'll choose the easiest road.
00:23:56.180
Well, no, I think that's a female thing actually.
00:23:59.180
Because, because men, like men pick hard jobs because they know someone's got to do it.
00:24:03.180
And, and they don't have the same options as us.
00:24:07.180
But we do as women, if we're, if we're honest and fair, you know, as a woman.
00:24:13.180
I'm no longer 18, but you know, if I'm 18 or 20, I know I can put on a miniskirt and high heels and maybe scope out where footballers are.
00:24:25.180
And you know, get myself hooked up and become a wife, a trophy wife.
00:24:36.180
And maybe by the time he's 30, you know, he would have made enough money.
00:24:44.180
And the other thing is the men, they, they used to give protection, but they got something in return.
00:24:51.180
So they would say, Hey, okay, we're going to, we're going to give you all you women together.
00:24:57.180
But you give us children and you give us purity.
00:25:04.180
And you give us, they used to have 7.2 kids for every woman.
00:25:07.180
Now we're not even having enough kids to replace the population.
00:25:18.180
We don't really have traditional women anymore.
00:25:31.180
And that's kind of a conversation we have to have in society.
00:25:37.180
Are we going to, are we going to push policies that make us more equal?
00:25:40.180
So we, we have to go into the military or are we going to give up freedoms?
00:25:46.180
Biologically though, we literally, it can't be 50-50 in the military.
00:25:49.180
You did say, I think it was China actually that said that, that men wouldn't even put women on the front lines.
00:25:56.180
Do you feel like a woman could protect you on the front line?
00:26:10.180
No, but you're literally, no, you're literally missing the point.
00:26:12.180
And if you let me explain, I might try to explain.
00:26:15.180
You're missing the point because we don't think women will be able to protect us.
00:26:21.180
But it's the women that are still trying to fight back and say, no, we want to protect you by all means necessary.
00:26:26.180
We're telling you, logically, it doesn't make sense.
00:26:29.180
It's the same thing with the conversation of when she said nothing is transgender and nothing is traditional anymore.
00:26:54.180
It's the men up there that's passing all those laws.
00:26:56.180
No, because they're pushing an agenda that they know they can use to control us.
00:27:00.180
There's a lot of those elites that are doing things behind closed doors.
00:27:05.180
The reality is, in this life, since the beginning of time, there has always been an elite group
00:27:10.180
that have seeked to control the population for their personal benefit.
00:27:13.180
And they will stop at nothing to get what they want.
00:27:16.180
Now, what is happening is that, because back in the day at least, women had no choice.
00:27:25.180
But now, men have built the world and given you all this safety.
00:27:28.180
And now you've turned your backs on the very same men that gave you this safety.
00:27:32.180
To side with the same elites that you're speaking about.
00:27:52.180
I mean, all three women in here thought they were entitled to tell men how to talk.
00:28:04.180
If you feel disrespected, are you going to say anything?
00:28:12.180
Did you see me getting all mad when she was insulting me?
00:28:15.180
I mean, obviously, obviously you're used to this.
00:28:17.180
Because, no, no, because, because, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:28:23.180
I didn't do it in the beginning when I started the shows.
00:28:28.180
But the thing is, we have a bunch of women that didn't have strong masculine fathers in the home.
00:28:39.180
And, and it's like women think that, like, just because you feel a certain way, you're entitled to act how you want.
00:28:49.180
You can always tell who, I say you can always tell who someone's been raised by.
00:28:52.180
Because throughout this whole time, I've been provoked.
00:28:57.180
I've done, you guys have done everything you can do to poke the bear.
00:29:00.180
And if I was a lesser man, if I was a man that didn't care about women, I could, I could react.
00:29:04.180
And I'm just trying to show you the double standard.
00:29:12.180
No, no, no, no, no, no, but you're saying, no, hold on a second.
00:29:16.180
I mean, I want to point, I want to point out one thing too.
00:29:24.180
But even when that happened, no, no, but like you're, you're having it.
00:29:38.180
It's like, and it's funny because you guys were so quick to defend them.
00:29:40.180
And I know deep down, you know, he wasn't, you know, he wasn't.
00:29:48.180
But what I'm saying is, yeah, what you guys did is a collective thing.
00:29:51.180
When you women get together, you see, you feel like your periods and your vaginas align
00:30:14.180
And the reason I say this is because they try, what I am is what they try to push out.
00:30:21.180
You normally have men that pander to you, that pitter pat around you because they normally
00:30:26.180
I don't want anything from, from any of you women, other than the conversation that we
00:30:30.180
I can learn something I can take and I can grow.
00:30:35.180
So when I come around women, I will tell you about yourself because I don't, I'm not, I
00:30:42.180
And the thing is, and the thing is like women respond really quickly to social shame.
00:30:52.180
It's going to premiere after this guys, just so you know, but I reacted today to a girl
00:31:00.180
that lived in Japan for a year and she was like, this is what I used to wear in America.
00:31:05.180
And she's like, guys, do not wear this in Japan.
00:31:10.180
It was like these running basketball shorts with leggings underneath and like a tight top.
00:31:15.180
So women respond really quickly to social shame.
00:31:17.180
So a lot of times when men are shaming you like for things, it's because they're trying to protect you.
00:31:27.180
Well, and the thing is, shame comes from within.
00:31:31.180
But when you guys were saying like, guys, I never called her any, I didn't call her out of her name.
00:31:35.180
I didn't, I literally, I didn't speak about all.
00:31:37.180
I said, wow, you got a daughter and you do OnlyFans.
00:31:45.180
Yeah, but guys, guys, again, like you, this is the other thing that like women want to poke the bear and get mad when they respond.
00:31:56.180
She called, she said she hated, he hated black women and like women just want to poke, poke, poke and then get mad.
00:32:00.180
And then when she said that and I got mad and she said, oh, you're getting mad.
00:32:05.180
You don't know my up and you don't know who my father is.
00:32:07.180
You don't know my relationship with my sisters and my nieces.
00:32:09.180
And then you tell me I hate black women because I'm talking about black women's hair and what society's done.
00:32:15.180
What it is, is that when you start to say things that prick, you understand?
00:32:30.180
No, but women don't care about men's mental health.
00:32:42.180
And a lot of the time in the environment that we've been raised, we've been made to feel that we're entitled to.
00:32:49.180
We're entitled to speak to men in a certain way.
00:32:52.180
And that if they respond to us, oh, now they're aggressive.
00:32:55.180
But I want, what I'm here is trying, I'm trying to say men have feelings too, you know?
00:32:59.180
We're not just some, you guys say, oh, men should go.
00:33:02.180
Well, you think we just want to go to some random group of people and we can't get.
00:33:07.180
Has any of you guys ever been stabbed here before?
00:33:09.180
Has any of you guys ever been on life support machine before?
00:33:14.180
So we're not, but it's not, what I'm trying to say to you, and that came from an argument over a car park space.
00:33:19.180
A car park space, an argument, and I got stabbed and put on life support machine.
00:33:31.180
If it's not you, please, I'm not throwing it at you.
00:33:33.180
I'm saying generalised women don't understand violence.
00:33:35.180
Because when you were speaking earlier on, you had no idea what can happen.
00:33:38.180
So when I said to him, would you say to me what she said?
00:33:42.180
And the reason they won't, because they know automatically, that's a beef response.
00:33:46.180
Society, the place, the studio has made you feel safe.
00:33:53.180
Because if she felt like I was actually going to do something, there's no way she would have done that.
00:34:03.180
I'll talk about a conversation from my youngest one.
00:34:07.180
He knows, everybody, all of my family knows not to put your hand on a woman.
00:34:10.180
You just don't, you don't put your hand on a woman.
00:34:21.180
right, well, what happens in a scenario where there's a girl coming at me and she is literally throwing fists, antagonizing me.
00:34:28.180
I said, at that point, if someone's got their hand on your throat or punching up, it's self-defense at that point.
00:34:33.180
You've got to fight back at the end of the day.
00:34:34.180
I don't respect if you, just because you think you're a woman.
00:34:37.180
And this is why I said, sometimes it may sound like I'm agreeing with you in some respects, but I do feel like you need to know your place.
00:34:45.180
And you shouldn't be antagonizing a man that's bigger and stronger.
00:34:54.180
Well, we keep seeing men in the news getting killed by their girlfriends.
00:35:05.180
But also, I want to touch on something you said.
00:35:06.180
I wouldn't say it's women that don't acknowledge the fact that men's mental health is something as a society that we need to respect.
00:35:14.180
I feel like men that reinforce it a bit more though.
00:35:18.180
I'll actually tell you what my take on mental health is.
00:35:22.180
I actually think men have mental health problems because women tell them to communicate like women and they're not.
00:35:29.180
So they'll tell men to be like more in touch with their feelings and talk about their problems.
00:35:40.180
I've had conversations with my friends where they're saying, why doesn't he da da da?
00:35:42.180
How does he not know to just call me and da da da?
00:35:49.180
You guys literally try to tone police me this whole time.
00:35:55.180
I always like to pick up on the very little things.
00:36:08.180
It's not there to sit around and talk about its feelings.
00:36:14.180
Literally in the Bible, the Bible gave two curses.
00:36:19.180
The man's curse was to go out and toil the earth.
00:36:22.180
So do you not think if a man talks about his feelings, is it not going to improve men's
00:36:27.180
But then if we're talking about the Bible, the Bible also says men are to protect.
00:36:33.180
I'm not saying a man should never speak about his feelings.
00:36:36.180
But a man should only decide to start talking about his feelings after he has gone out to put out action.
00:36:44.180
And he should always strive to do it with other men.
00:36:48.180
And this is the difference between men and women.
00:36:53.180
Because women, we feel better when we talk about the problem.
00:36:57.180
So them talking about the problem doesn't make them feel better.
00:37:07.180
If we're going to mention the Bible, let's wrap it all up here then.
00:37:10.180
Well, because the Bible, if we're going to base it on that then, then don't just take what you want from it.
00:37:17.180
The Bible specifically talks about gender roles.
00:37:23.180
The Bible talks about the men being the protectors.
00:37:25.180
And the women being what the home raises and whatever, which is what you're basically saying.
00:37:30.180
Yeah, but it's women that have decided to leave the home.
00:37:36.180
It's the whole of society of what's going on right now.
00:37:45.180
But even from your mouth, you literally just said.
00:37:47.180
As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:37:50.180
And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
00:37:55.180
If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below.
00:37:59.180
Every donation helps and it helps make what we do possible.