JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


This Nigerian Lady Brought DISGRACE To Nigerians By Doing This On the Show


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Length

38 minutes

Words per minute

210.7158

Word count

8,057

Sentence count

910

Harmful content

Misogyny

114

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Hate speech

88

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In this episode, we talk about the role of men in our society and how they protect us. We also talk about how we need to stop being overly aggressive and become more respectful towards each other. We have become so used to being aggressive that we forget that men are there to protect us from harm.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Women, we need to get the point that men are trying to give us. 1.00
00:00:03.140 You should be grateful that I'm trying to give her the point.
00:00:05.720 And I gave you a hug and I said, thank you.
00:00:07.660 That's not the point.
00:00:08.540 That's not what I want.
00:00:09.380 That's not what I want.
00:00:10.240 That's not the point.
00:00:11.120 So why bring it up then?
00:00:12.100 Because I want you to acknowledge what men do because you said that we...
00:00:15.120 I did by saying thank you.
00:00:15.800 No, it's not about you.
00:00:17.740 She said men wouldn't do anything. 0.97
00:00:19.120 So I said to you, what did I do in the lift?
00:00:21.380 And what I'm trying to do is bring you my character.
00:00:23.000 You've never...
00:00:23.340 Who said men wouldn't do anything? 0.99
00:00:24.620 Oh, you know what?
00:00:25.240 I said men wouldn't do anything. 0.67
00:00:26.320 If a woman was in danger of being hurt...
00:00:29.060 Please, Pearl, let me tell you the story.
00:00:31.020 She wasn't in this and she's about to have a... 1.00
00:00:32.640 Okay, okay, okay, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:00:34.640 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:38.100 Okay, this is your last warning.
00:00:39.640 Stop.
00:00:40.220 I've told you to stop.
00:00:41.180 I've still...
00:00:41.600 Okay, then get out.
00:00:42.360 Go.
00:00:43.040 Go.
00:00:43.380 Bye.
00:00:49.160 All right, you had a story?
00:00:50.880 Yeah, with regards to...
00:00:52.660 I have a son and he's an adult male now.
00:00:55.760 And he's coming back from wherever.
00:00:58.140 And he's walking and he saw a man hold a woman and punch her in her face.
00:01:05.340 Now, he was with another friend and he said he moved so fast and he went to that man and
00:01:12.240 he held that man and he said, don't you ever in your life pick up your hand to another woman
00:01:18.940 again, ever.
00:01:20.620 And the woman was scared.
00:01:23.840 He wasn't going to hit the man.
00:01:24.960 He just let him know.
00:01:26.860 He didn't know who this woman was.
00:01:28.660 He didn't know who the man was.
00:01:30.380 But it was his natural instinct.
00:01:31.940 He didn't think.
00:01:32.720 He said he moved so fast to that guy to let him know that he could not put his hand on
00:01:38.820 that woman again. 0.99
00:01:39.700 Now, that's what you call protection.
00:01:41.920 And that's respect towards the other person.
00:01:44.120 Okay.
00:01:44.980 So sometimes I think we're not seeing.
00:01:47.920 Sometimes we take men's language, their words and their demeanor as aggression.
00:01:55.600 And it's not aggression.
00:01:59.280 Actually, if we would allow them to speak, allow them to make their point and for us to
00:02:04.240 stop being pseudo masculine, because that's what I call it. 0.98
00:02:07.480 We've become so masculine ourselves that we're not realizing that sometimes men are just being
00:02:14.120 protective.
00:02:15.620 We need to understand the nature of a man.
00:02:19.860 I think just listening to what's been going on here, I've seen it back and forth.
00:02:24.320 Like some of the answers we are, you know how we are violent as women? 1.00
00:02:28.880 With our mouths and our tongues.
00:02:31.340 Facts.
00:02:32.140 We are so disrespectful.
00:02:34.100 Not just women. 0.67
00:02:35.400 No, I never said just women.
00:02:37.380 I'm talking about specifically what women do. 1.00
00:02:41.760 She's 60. 0.68
00:02:43.000 Like she's old enough to be your mom.
00:02:44.900 She's seen life.
00:02:45.920 So can you actually listen to her?
00:02:47.280 Some of my parents have stayed in marriages that are not beneficial.
00:02:49.900 I don't care about age.
00:02:50.340 Can you just listen to her?
00:02:51.780 You don't care about age.
00:02:53.020 Cool, that's fine.
00:02:53.900 But can you listen to her?
00:02:54.900 Wait, what country are you from?
00:02:55.800 I'm Nigerian.
00:02:56.500 Wow.
00:02:57.380 I'm Nigerian too.
00:02:58.380 Like if you are actually Nigerian, yeah, if you're actually Nigerian, you'll be a little 1.00
00:03:03.040 bit more traditional in the way you see things.
00:03:05.620 No, I wouldn't.
00:03:06.200 Because I've seen the detriment of traditional Nigerian. 0.95
00:03:07.380 So what?
00:03:07.720 You're disrespecting an elder, 60-year-old woman you don't know?
00:03:09.920 How am I disrespecting her?
00:03:10.580 Wow.
00:03:11.020 No, she keeps on talking and then you're talking over her, let her speak.
00:03:14.000 She's not representative of Nigerian culture and women.
00:03:16.200 She's not.
00:03:16.580 She's not.
00:03:16.820 Okay, do you?
00:03:17.440 Well, I was raised in the Western world.
00:03:18.760 All right, all right.
00:03:19.180 So was I.
00:03:19.720 I have a question.
00:03:20.820 You don't think there's some level of respect you just give someone because they're a bit
00:03:25.820 older?
00:03:26.460 Yeah, I get that.
00:03:27.120 Okay, okay, okay, so I'm not talking about your ethnicity, so shh, Jesus Christ.
00:03:32.440 Go ahead.
00:03:33.440 Basically, I mean, this is the thing.
00:03:35.700 As, you know, men and women we have our natures.
00:03:40.260 And often we're not trying to understand each other's natures.
00:03:43.180 Women are trying to change men. 1.00
00:03:45.680 And men do try to change women, I must say that. 0.99
00:03:48.320 But the thing is, why do we as women have to get aggressive, get defensive, and then 0.86
00:03:55.200 not listen, and then become personal?
00:03:58.640 Why?
00:04:00.220 The reason why is because, like, so I want to get back to what I was trying to say because
00:04:04.500 she kept on interrupting it.
00:04:05.860 So you guys make a lot of, like, brass statements.
00:04:09.420 That's fine.
00:04:09.820 You can say what you want to say.
00:04:11.020 But when we try to actually challenge it or give you information about it, you want to
00:04:14.240 start over-speaking us and then making it personal.
00:04:16.200 She wants to start speaking about Pearl's legs and you want to start asking what people
00:04:19.980 do.
00:04:20.360 What you're doing, you're derailing the conversation.
00:04:22.340 Like, it really is not going to get us anywhere.
00:04:24.100 And the reason why I'm saying this is because we can have real conversations about things
00:04:27.520 that we don't, like, necessarily agree on.
00:04:29.380 We don't have to start making it personal.
00:04:31.160 Like, but when you come here with an agenda as you came with an agenda, the girl in the 0.94
00:04:34.840 corner, you want to say, you've seen me before.
00:04:36.580 You've seen me on social media.
00:04:37.960 So whatever you've seen of me in the clips, you've come with that vim.
00:04:40.960 But you haven't seen the full clip.
00:04:42.380 You haven't watched the full episodes.
00:04:43.640 You have to understand, sure, you match that energy.
00:04:45.760 You match how you're perceived.
00:04:47.020 You came in.
00:04:48.200 Your vibe was very aggressive.
00:04:50.220 You was very...
00:04:50.640 Is it, is it ever a question?
00:04:52.240 Is it possible that you just miss, miss, like, you just took it the wrong way?
00:04:56.720 No.
00:04:57.000 Of course not.
00:04:57.300 I mean, I agree.
00:04:58.540 Of course not.
00:04:58.880 This is, this is, is it, is it possible as women sometimes we take things the wrong 1.00
00:05:03.300 way?
00:05:03.540 It's not even a woman. 0.64
00:05:04.520 And I feel like it's just disrespect.
00:05:06.040 And I'll tell you, I'll tell you, I'll tell you something I've learned from interviewing
00:05:09.800 a lot of guys, interviewing hundreds of people.
00:05:12.960 A lot of times men feel like they cannot talk to us because they speak more direct and they're
00:05:19.440 a little bit harsher and they're a little bit more to the point.
00:05:22.260 So when they speak to us, like they talk to other men, then we get offended and prissy.
00:05:28.060 And it's not an aggressive thing.
00:05:29.520 It's not that they're trying to come at you.
00:05:30.980 They just speak directly.
00:05:33.140 And you're so used to, most women are so used to having men cater to them and a lot of 0.73
00:05:37.040 simp guys around them speaking generally, yeah, mostly it's simp guys talking to you
00:05:43.320 like a woman. 0.80
00:05:44.400 And so when you say, oh, it's how you say it, it's your tone.
00:05:46.580 You're saying, hey, communicate to me like a woman. 0.98
00:05:49.280 Men do not talk like that.
00:05:50.700 If I was to talk direct to a guy or be very serious, then you would say, oh, she's masculine. 1.00
00:05:56.520 You are very masculine.
00:05:57.780 You've been doing that all throughout this episode.
00:05:59.260 I don't care.
00:06:00.160 I don't give a fuck about what you have to say.
00:06:02.220 You're swearing.
00:06:03.360 Wow.
00:06:03.740 So masculine. 0.61
00:06:04.160 Can I correct?
00:06:04.860 Is this how your Nigerian parents raised you? 0.98
00:06:06.400 Can I just correct?
00:06:07.380 Are you insane?
00:06:08.460 Let me correct something.
00:06:10.040 A woman cannot be masculine. 0.98
00:06:14.260 She can be pseudo masculine.
00:06:16.440 A man can be masculine.
00:06:17.880 You're insane.
00:06:18.360 Of course you can't be masculine.
00:06:19.640 Because when she said, what are you going to do?
00:06:21.060 If I actually got up and then she said, oh, what are you going to do?
00:06:22.920 And the reason I'm just trying to say is, no man would do that because I would get up
00:06:26.260 and do something.
00:06:27.620 And the thing about this is, this is what I'm trying to say.
00:06:30.400 Whoever raised her, disgusting upbringing.
00:06:32.920 Are you mad?
00:06:33.800 Disgusting upbringing.
00:06:35.060 Are you okay?
00:06:35.820 Disgusting upbringing.
00:06:36.880 I don't have to watch my mouth.
00:06:38.020 Don't try it.
00:06:38.520 I have to be disgusting.
00:06:39.020 I'm a podcaster.
00:06:42.300 I'm a podcaster.
00:06:42.860 You ain't got no money.
00:06:43.640 I ain't got no money.
00:06:44.540 I ain't got no money.
00:06:45.720 He's not OnlyFans though.
00:06:47.820 Okay.
00:06:48.260 No, but I'm talking to...
00:06:49.520 OnlyFans girls got more money than him. 1.00
00:06:51.780 That's the problem.
00:06:52.860 Women think it's all about money. 1.00
00:06:54.660 Actually, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:55.780 I can attest after...
00:06:57.380 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:58.640 I can wait.
00:06:59.700 I can attest watching the lifespan of OnlyFans models.
00:07:02.980 None of them are good with money.
00:07:04.260 They're broke out.
00:07:05.600 It's only like, I don't remember the exact number,
00:07:08.820 but like 5 to 10% make it after 40.
00:07:11.280 They age out.
00:07:12.640 And then...
00:07:13.000 But Pearl, it's not even that.
00:07:14.020 It's just even when someone's like,
00:07:15.520 oh, you got more...
00:07:16.460 Like, what?
00:07:17.640 What?
00:07:18.940 It's always...
00:07:19.420 So I wanted to show you guys a video
00:07:21.160 because we said that like men don't protect...
00:07:23.600 It's always the dead things that always move like that.
00:07:25.220 I've realized that.
00:07:26.140 Pretty guys.
00:07:26.500 No, no, no, no.
00:07:27.300 I've realized that.
00:07:27.920 Good looking girls never do that. 1.00
00:07:29.260 Good looking girls never do that. 1.00
00:07:31.400 It's always the dead things.
00:07:32.280 China.
00:07:33.140 China, don't say that.
00:07:34.800 I understand it.
00:07:36.420 It's always the dead and the overweight things.
00:07:37.980 Their man always got attitude.
00:07:38.940 No, come on. 0.85
00:07:39.480 Pretty women don't do that. 1.00
00:07:40.620 Do you know why?
00:07:41.040 Because they secure.
00:07:41.620 Pretty women don't have attitude. 1.00
00:07:42.660 No, they have pretty women attitude, 1.00
00:07:43.920 but that's disgusting. 0.79
00:07:44.720 What's the difference?
00:07:45.300 What's the difference?
00:07:45.800 That one's there.
00:07:46.280 I don't get normal attitude.
00:07:47.300 Just disgusting attitude.
00:07:48.640 You know what's so interesting?
00:07:50.000 It's like, you guys...
00:07:50.920 You know what's so...
00:07:51.400 Wait, wait, wait.
00:07:52.920 I want to just say something.
00:07:54.940 It's kind of interesting when she was insulting him
00:07:57.200 about his money
00:07:57.960 that nobody really had that reaction
00:07:59.680 that if he goes for her looks. 0.85
00:08:01.780 Like, she can't... 1.00
00:08:03.420 Yeah.
00:08:04.220 She came at him first. 1.00
00:08:05.880 And this is another thing.
00:08:06.940 No, this is actually...
00:08:07.680 I do agree.
00:08:08.260 And I actually got money
00:08:09.020 and she's ugly, 1.00
00:08:09.640 so there's a difference.
00:08:10.140 This is another thing.
00:08:11.780 This is another thing.
00:08:13.300 I actually have money
00:08:14.100 and she's actually ugly, 1.00
00:08:15.520 so...
00:08:15.860 I'm not ugly.
00:08:16.400 You're ugly.
00:08:17.040 Am I?
00:08:17.720 Am I?
00:08:18.180 You're the one talking about
00:08:18.960 you getting bullied in school
00:08:19.780 for your looks.
00:08:20.280 Get out of here, girl. 1.00
00:08:21.400 Deating.
00:08:22.140 Deating.
00:08:22.940 Deating.
00:08:23.560 Jesus Christ.
00:08:24.100 Okay, so I have a video I'm going to show.
00:08:25.920 Okay, so...
00:08:26.720 She said that men don't protect women. 1.00
00:08:29.300 I had a feeling these two were going to go.
00:08:31.100 Pearl, Pearl, Pearl.
00:08:31.660 I just had a feeling.
00:08:32.220 Pearl, look, I'll be honest with you, yeah?
00:08:34.320 You have to get rid of them, too.
00:08:35.320 So maybe we can have some conversations
00:08:36.480 because all they wanted to do
00:08:37.900 was try to come at me, yeah?
00:08:39.460 She saw me from the social media,
00:08:40.800 so she thought she could come
00:08:41.620 and try to attack me.
00:08:42.560 And I've realized this.
00:08:43.560 I am really that relevant.
00:08:44.960 I've realized...
00:08:45.560 In this last two weeks, Pearl,
00:08:46.780 I am so relevant within the UK.
00:08:48.440 All the major blogs post me.
00:08:49.860 People recognize me.
00:08:50.720 So when people see me,
00:08:51.560 I'm not even gassed up.
00:08:52.340 I mean, I'm just going to talk my shit.
00:08:54.060 So when people see me now,
00:08:55.120 they want to come at me.
00:08:55.980 I just got monetized.
00:08:56.920 She's telling me you're just a YouTuber.
00:08:58.440 I'm making money from YouTube.
00:08:59.800 No, but let's not do this.
00:09:01.300 Let's not do this.
00:09:02.260 Let's not do this.
00:09:03.220 Sorry, Pearl.
00:09:03.900 Let's watch a video.
00:09:04.720 All right.
00:09:05.320 You're right.
00:09:06.220 Okay, so we wanted to talk about how men...
00:09:08.540 And I'm pretty sure...
00:09:09.480 I hope this is the right video
00:09:10.540 because I just pulled this up on my phone.
00:09:13.180 You know, women, I think, 1.00
00:09:14.260 a lot of times walk around in la-la land.
00:09:16.740 And I call it la-la land 0.86
00:09:18.020 because women in general 1.00
00:09:19.400 don't have to face reality
00:09:20.700 until we're about, like, 45.
00:09:22.480 There's a couple hot ones 0.77
00:09:23.660 that make it after.
00:09:24.640 Yeah, because the world's just nicer to you
00:09:26.300 because you're pretty and young.
00:09:27.580 All of us.
00:09:28.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:09:29.220 I mean, there's such thing as privilege.
00:09:31.520 There's a little thing I can recognize.
00:09:32.660 So women hit 18. 1.00
00:09:36.400 We're born with value.
00:09:37.680 The men are nicer to us.
00:09:39.120 We get special jobs and privileges.
00:09:41.400 Then the beauty goes.
00:09:42.540 And then that's when you see
00:09:43.220 all the women going crazy. 1.00
00:09:44.120 At, like, 45, they're like,
00:09:45.220 ah, you look great, though.
00:09:47.060 You don't look 60 at all.
00:09:49.140 Yeah, she's a good, she's a good. 0.58
00:09:51.440 When you said 60,
00:09:52.500 I wanted to say the same thing.
00:09:54.220 So, so, so, okay.
00:09:56.660 But one of the things,
00:09:58.160 I think women have this idea at night 1.00
00:10:00.080 that we, like, we can't,
00:10:01.040 we don't get this protection.
00:10:02.520 It's so scary for us.
00:10:03.440 But really, it's much scarier for the men.
00:10:05.860 And they did a social experiment
00:10:07.360 where a woman was hitting a man in public
00:10:09.560 and a man was hitting a woman in public.
00:10:11.740 And I hope this is the right video.
00:10:13.380 I think it is.
00:10:14.020 But let me, let me show you guys what happened.
00:10:15.480 Okay.
00:10:19.140 What's going on, guys?
00:10:28.800 This is Mo.
00:10:29.360 This is CT.
00:10:30.000 And this is ARK TV.
00:10:30.820 Today, we're with singer-actress Yo Ying.
00:10:32.580 Today, we're doing the domestic violence experiment.
00:10:35.100 I'm going to be abusing him.
00:10:36.200 He's going to be abusing me.
00:10:37.200 And we're going to see who gets more attention.
00:10:38.940 You stalking him last night?
00:10:40.300 Listen.
00:10:41.200 Listen.
00:10:42.180 Listen, yeah.
00:10:42.960 Listen, you can tell me the truth.
00:10:44.300 Don't rush.
00:10:45.180 You can tell me the truth!
00:10:46.640 Why are you talking to that guy last night?
00:10:49.380 I wasn't.
00:10:50.320 Listen.
00:10:51.180 Don't talk to God.
00:10:53.280 Listen.
00:10:54.620 Why are you talking?
00:10:57.000 I'm not playing.
00:10:58.700 I'm not playing.
00:10:59.560 Yo, yo. 0.99
00:11:00.040 What are you doing?
00:11:01.220 Oh, chill, chill, chill.
00:11:03.400 Yo, yo, we're filming.
00:11:04.360 We're filming.
00:11:05.360 Look, are you all right?
00:11:06.340 We're filming a social experiment, look.
00:11:08.380 Look, look, look, look.
00:11:09.580 You okay?
00:11:10.000 We're just raising awareness.
00:11:11.980 We're just, listen, we're just filming, man.
00:11:15.220 No, we're filming a social experiment.
00:11:17.680 It's cool, man.
00:11:18.340 Thanks for raising awareness, man.
00:11:19.740 We're filming a social experiment for domestic violence.
00:11:22.720 Thanks a lot, man.
00:11:23.360 You two, right?
00:11:23.960 You two?
00:11:24.820 Yeah.
00:11:25.220 Yeah.
00:11:25.500 I know, it's a prank type.
00:11:26.540 They do stuff like that.
00:11:27.140 Yeah.
00:11:27.660 We're just filming a...
00:11:28.780 I don't know about you, but...
00:11:30.780 He's about to attack you right now, too.
00:11:32.800 Yeah.
00:11:33.520 Thanks a lot, though, for saying sign, you know?
00:11:36.520 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:11:39.980 Yo.
00:11:40.180 Thank you guys. Look, we're filming. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for saying something.
00:12:10.180 You're cheating on me again? Texting that girl again, huh? Huh? I saw that picture. I wasn't cheating at you.
00:12:17.180 You're on the ground. I wasn't cheating on you. Are you serious? Are you serious? Are you serious? Are you serious?
00:12:30.180 You don't do that shit to me. I wasn't cheating on you. What the hell? 1.00
00:12:39.180 I texted that girl again. I wasn't cheating on you. I caught you red-handed, dude.
00:12:49.180 I wasn't cheating. I wasn't cheating on you.
00:12:57.180 It's allowed. Not in the public.
00:13:00.180 I'm trying to get in the public. I'm upset.
00:13:10.180 I wasn't cheating on you. I wasn't cheating on you. I'm cheating on you. I'm cheating on you. I don't need to be right now.
00:13:30.180 Kidding me right now?
00:13:37.180 What?
00:13:38.180 Kidding you what?
00:13:42.180 I wasn't kidding.
00:13:43.180 Why are you hitting me for it?
00:13:45.180 Why are you hitting me for it?
00:13:50.180 Huh?
00:14:00.180 Where are the female protectors? 1.00
00:14:03.180 Right.
00:14:04.180 Okay.
00:14:05.180 No.
00:14:06.180 Okay.
00:14:07.180 I have thoughts about this.
00:14:09.180 I'm not trying to minimize.
00:14:11.180 I really think it's good that there's more spotlight on violence against men.
00:14:17.180 I definitely think it's an issue that should be brought to light and should be addressed and should be, you know, spoken to.
00:14:24.180 But biologically speaking, right, a man is not going to inflict.
00:14:29.180 I mean, a woman is not going to inflict the same amount of damage. 1.00
00:14:32.180 You told you that.
00:14:33.180 That's what I'm saying.
00:14:34.180 No, no, no.
00:14:35.180 You did say that.
00:14:36.180 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:14:39.180 So what is the great equalizer?
00:14:42.180 Freaking knife.
00:14:44.180 No, I feel like no one should touch anyone.
00:14:46.180 No, no.
00:14:47.180 Right.
00:14:48.180 Right.
00:14:49.180 But you just made an excuse.
00:14:50.180 That's the point.
00:14:51.180 That's where the problem starts.
00:14:52.180 The first thing you said was not even to talk about the issue.
00:14:55.180 It was just like, you know, but, you know, women. 1.00
00:14:57.180 I did say I said that we should address violence against men.
00:15:01.180 How would you determine which gender is more violent? 0.99
00:15:06.180 The way I would determine it is who commits violence against people that don't deserve it.
00:15:12.180 Now I know what you're thinking.
00:15:13.180 Like, you know, so like when men fight, there's usually a reason, right?
00:15:18.180 There's usually like maybe they disrespected each other.
00:15:20.180 Like there's usually something behind it, right?
00:15:22.180 Like, I don't know.
00:15:23.180 I know gangs go at each other.
00:15:24.180 I'm not saying they're good reasons, but they're reasons, right?
00:15:27.180 But when you look at children and the elderly, women are more likely to kill both. 1.00
00:15:31.180 I would argue women are more violent, yeah? 1.00
00:15:34.180 If a direct parent kills their kid, so that means like it's their blood, 90% chance it's the mother.
00:15:41.180 I mean, even if we look at, you know, people have their thoughts on abortion.
00:15:45.180 One out of three women have had an abortion.
00:15:47.180 Yeah, but I say women kill their babies the most. 1.00
00:15:49.180 Yeah, the most likely person to kill a baby in the first year is its own mother. 0.59
00:15:54.180 Of course.
00:15:55.180 And this has been like a phenomenon even before like modern times.
00:15:58.180 Yeah, but let's not forget postpartum and things like that.
00:16:01.180 Yeah, there's some psychological stuff here.
00:16:04.180 Not excusing it, but yeah, you're right.
00:16:06.180 Yeah, but I mean we could even, okay, let's look at the elderly. 0.63
00:16:08.180 It's the same thing.
00:16:10.180 In terms of?
00:16:11.180 Women are much more likely to kill the elderly. 1.00
00:16:13.180 Can we Google it?
00:16:14.180 I think the point I agree with is that...
00:16:18.180 Guys, we can look at the NHS, that nurse.
00:16:20.180 How many murders did she just get done for? 1.00
00:16:23.180 China.
00:16:24.180 What I would say is that both men and women are violent. 1.00
00:16:29.180 Why not just leave it at that?
00:16:31.180 We are violent for different reasons and in different ways.
00:16:35.180 Right, but the thing is...
00:16:37.180 It's mostly men at the end of the day.
00:16:38.180 The thing is...
00:16:39.180 I just think...
00:16:40.180 I wouldn't say mostly.
00:16:41.180 I would say that we can both be...
00:16:43.180 Well, I just think whenever there's like a stat that makes us look bad,
00:16:46.180 I've just noticed it's always like why are we comparing?
00:16:49.180 No, but generally, generally I think that...
00:16:52.180 I think that the way people talk about masculinity as though like men are very inherently violent.
00:16:58.180 I think that the thing is that life is just like survival of the fetus, right?
00:17:02.180 That's right.
00:17:03.180 And you see it like with lesbian relationships. 1.00
00:17:06.180 I think that women are not just as violent, quote unquote, as men because they don't have the opportunity to. 0.98
00:17:12.180 Correct.
00:17:13.180 Right?
00:17:14.180 Now, if you check the stats for, you know, like whatever lesbian relationships, the domestic violence is more. 0.97
00:17:24.180 Yeah.
00:17:25.180 We men will abuse you when they know that they can.
00:17:28.180 Biologically though, obviously men have testosterone, so they will be more violent. 0.60
00:17:32.180 So guys, the thing about this thing right here, they've always been violent men.
00:17:37.180 You guys keep talking about men.
00:17:38.180 Men have always done the most violence, but the difference was you was protected by the group.
00:17:42.180 You was protected by your brother, your uncle or your man or your father, right?
00:17:45.180 And then up until the point you got married, you were protected by them.
00:17:48.180 And then we have police.
00:17:49.180 So now you're protected by the police.
00:17:51.180 You are not owed safety.
00:17:52.180 I'm not owed safety.
00:17:54.180 I've been stabbed before.
00:17:55.180 I've been shot at before.
00:17:56.180 Most of my friends have been stabbed before.
00:17:58.180 When you women, when she was talking about, oh, it's safer for, do you know how dangerous it is for us men?
00:18:02.180 When we speak about all the stabbing and stuff, it's not women getting stabbed.
00:18:05.180 It's very dangerous for young black men, particularly.
00:18:08.180 And it's not even dangerous because you're doing anything.
00:18:10.180 Like you could just be walking in the wrong ends and the man says, where are you from cause?
00:18:14.180 And that's it.
00:18:15.180 And you women don't understand that violence. 1.00
00:18:17.180 Hold on a second.
00:18:18.180 Hold on a second.
00:18:19.180 So you've got brothers.
00:18:20.180 Yeah.
00:18:21.180 So even when it comes down to this, so when you speak about, oh, oh, it's more dangerous for women. 0.97
00:18:24.180 Yes.
00:18:25.180 In some aspects it is.
00:18:26.180 But us men, we, we realize that if I walk danger, if I walk late at night, someone might jack me.
00:18:31.180 Someone might try to move to me.
00:18:32.180 Someone might stab. 0.93
00:18:33.180 I didn't say it is more dangerous.
00:18:34.180 I respect the fact that in both genders, actually, it's just as dangerous leaving at any time.
00:18:39.180 Okay, cool.
00:18:40.180 Throughout the day, actually, I'll be honest.
00:18:41.180 Okay, cool.
00:18:42.180 I fear for my brothers.
00:18:43.180 What I was saying with you, what I would say to you is you got that thing that my sister had, but it came an age where I told her to stop doing that.
00:18:49.180 Because you start dealing with men that don't care about your sister.
00:18:52.180 They don't care about like, when you deal with the role, they don't care about your mother.
00:18:55.180 They don't care about none of this.
00:18:56.180 If you could see it up, that's it on site.
00:18:58.180 To be fair, no one does outside your house.
00:18:59.180 Huh?
00:19:00.180 No one does.
00:19:01.180 No one cares about it.
00:19:02.180 So, it's not feasible for women to say, you know what, like, I'm gonna do what you do, because more time men will do you the same way. 1.00
00:19:11.180 The whole point is, like, women act like they can't walk, like, they're like, oh, I can't walk home alone at night, no one can. 1.00
00:19:17.180 Like, that's the whole point.
00:19:18.180 Like, we live in such a safe, we live in such a safe world that we think, like, we have, we're so, we live in this la-la land where we feel like we're entitled to safety.
00:19:27.180 Do you not think we should be, though?
00:19:29.180 I think, no, I would say, I would actually say no, not anymore.
00:19:34.180 Why not?
00:19:35.180 Because, you know, I think safety goes back to traditionalism, and feminism is what's the norm now. 0.93
00:19:41.180 Women want to be equal, so be equal. 1.00
00:19:43.180 And if you can't be equal, that means you have to give up some power to the men.
00:19:47.180 Which is what, men get, women get abused?
00:19:49.180 No, that's not what I said.
00:19:51.180 Why was it abused?
00:19:52.180 What do you mean by that?
00:19:54.180 So you need to give some power to the men, which is... 0.93
00:19:57.180 Okay, so I'll give you an example.
00:19:58.180 I don't believe, this is a, you know, popular opinion.
00:20:01.180 Everyone knows, I don't know if you guys do, but I don't think women should vote. 1.00
00:20:04.180 And the reason I don't think women should vote is because in the U.S., we vote for the commander-in-chief. 1.00
00:20:10.180 So that's the leader of the army, he decides if they go to war, right?
00:20:13.180 And the thing is, when a man turns 18, he cannot vote if he is not enrolled in selective service.
00:20:19.180 Selective service is kind of like the draft, but it basically means in war times, if shit goes south, yeah, you got, you got to go to war.
00:20:26.180 You have no choice.
00:20:27.180 I think until women want to do the same thing, which then you don't get the same rights. 1.00
00:20:34.180 Right, but vote-
00:20:35.180 Is that voting or is that war?
00:20:37.180 Because I've got my own agreement to some of the things you said that are also controversial.
00:20:42.180 Okay.
00:20:43.180 But do you mean war or do you mean vote in general?
00:20:46.180 Which, what do you mean?
00:20:47.180 Can you say the question a different way?
00:20:49.180 Okay, so for example, you just said now, I'll base it on like, let's say hormones, for example.
00:20:54.180 Yeah.
00:20:55.180 Okay.
00:20:56.180 Are you saying that women shouldn't vote because based on those types of decisions? 0.99
00:20:59.180 Is that, are you saying that as war?
00:21:01.180 I have a couple different, I have a couple different reasons for it.
00:21:04.180 So the first is that like women, I think if you want the equal freedom, then you have to have the equal responsibility or equal work.
00:21:11.180 I agree.
00:21:12.180 So if you want all of, I think if you want all the free, like, okay, if you have a house and you want to do whatever that you want in the house, right, I think you should pay the bills.
00:21:20.180 Isn't that, or at least put on an equal load.
00:21:22.180 Which they do.
00:21:23.180 Or put on an equal load as the men.
00:21:25.180 And they're also looking after their kids too.
00:21:27.180 So, and that's actually wrong.
00:21:28.180 Have you heard of triple share?
00:21:29.180 So that's actually, so I'm going to wait, wait, I'm going to wait.
00:21:31.180 So women, if we look at society, like imagine society as a house. 1.00
00:21:35.180 Okay.
00:21:36.180 Women aren't building anything in society. 1.00
00:21:38.180 We're not building the houses.
00:21:40.180 We're not, we're not running the factories that build the phones, the electronic, like none of the super hard jobs women are doing. 1.00
00:21:46.180 You could say teaching nursing is a hard job, but not compared to like an oil rig.
00:21:50.180 You mean like directors, CEOs, that type of thing.
00:21:52.180 They're not owning big companies.
00:21:53.180 None of the infrastructure that we need.
00:21:55.180 So you could argue, you know, cause there's a lot of stress that comes with like the fortune 500 CEOs.
00:22:01.180 Like most women wouldn't want to do those jobs. 1.00
00:22:03.180 Those jobs are like, you don't have a life.
00:22:05.180 I've, I've interviewed some of those guys.
00:22:07.180 Oh, trust me.
00:22:08.180 Like you, we don't want to do that.
00:22:10.180 It's so funny.
00:22:11.180 Cause women always say, oh, we are not fortune 500. 1.00
00:22:13.180 I'm like, bitch.
00:22:14.180 You don't want to be.
00:22:15.180 But anyways, anyways, so we, we look at all the hardest jobs in society.
00:22:19.180 Women aren't doing them. 1.00
00:22:20.180 On top of that, we're a net tax loss.
00:22:22.180 That means we spend more money than we make.
00:22:24.180 Okay.
00:22:25.180 So we're the majority of the ones on benefits and yet we're the biggest voting block.
00:22:30.180 So I just don't think it's fair when we pay less taxes.
00:22:33.180 We're not the ones going to war and we do the least amount of work that we have the most say.
00:22:38.180 And the politicians all make policies for us.
00:22:41.180 Right.
00:22:42.180 But we're both, we're both living in a world.
00:22:44.180 So obviously it shouldn't only men be voting because women are living here as well.
00:22:47.180 So obviously they should be allowed, allowed to say.
00:22:50.180 Well, I mean, I think we should, we maybe I could like, you know, I've heard a couple different like ideas where it's only women that are net taxpayers, only women that are enrolled in the military.
00:22:59.180 Like, but my point is, and I just think we need to do equal work.
00:23:03.180 So either be a net taxpayer.
00:23:05.180 Fine.
00:23:06.180 Be in the military.
00:23:07.180 Fine.
00:23:08.180 I'd also argue the crack heads down the street shouldn't vote either.
00:23:10.180 You know what I mean?
00:23:11.180 Like, why did that do they get to say?
00:23:13.180 But the thing is, most of women nowadays are basically crack heads. 1.00
00:23:16.180 They're like in debt.
00:23:17.180 We're in a ton of debt.
00:23:18.180 You know, we don't really do any of the hard jobs.
00:23:21.180 We have a lot of, and that's why I wasn't even trying to come at her when I said we chose to do anything and we're only fans models.
00:23:26.180 Statistically, that's true.
00:23:28.180 But when we have more women picking only fans and that doesn't even include the women that are Instagram models. 1.00
00:23:33.180 Right.
00:23:34.180 And basically are doing prostitution.
00:23:35.180 So it's probably, if I get to guess, I guess five to 10% of women are doing this under the age of 35. 1.00
00:23:41.180 So this is what we're picking to do.
00:23:43.180 We're picking the easy stuff.
00:23:44.180 That's just what we pick.
00:23:45.180 So my thing is, why do we get the same say?
00:23:48.180 Like that's, that's my argument.
00:23:50.180 I feel like whenever someone does get a choice to do something easier, whether it's a male or a female, you'll choose the easiest road.
00:23:56.180 Well, no, I think that's a female thing actually. 1.00
00:23:58.180 Not men. 0.69
00:23:59.180 Because, because men, like men pick hard jobs because they know someone's got to do it.
00:24:03.180 And, and they don't have the same options as us.
00:24:05.180 Sometimes we think that we don't.
00:24:06.180 That is true.
00:24:07.180 But we do as women, if we're, if we're honest and fair, you know, as a woman.
00:24:12.180 Okay.
00:24:13.180 I'm no longer 18, but you know, if I'm 18 or 20, I know I can put on a miniskirt and high heels and maybe scope out where footballers are.
00:24:23.180 Oh my God.
00:24:24.180 Or wherever.
00:24:25.180 And you know, get myself hooked up and become a wife, a trophy wife. 1.00
00:24:29.180 It's facts though.
00:24:30.180 And it's facts.
00:24:31.180 And then, and I could live the good life.
00:24:33.180 But the man now from 18, he's got to graft.
00:24:36.180 And maybe by the time he's 30, you know, he would have made enough money.
00:24:41.180 Maybe.
00:24:42.180 Maybe.
00:24:43.180 Exactly.
00:24:44.180 And the other thing is the men, they, they used to give protection, but they got something in return.
00:24:51.180 So they would say, Hey, okay, we're going to, we're going to give you all you women together. 1.00
00:24:55.180 We will protect you.
00:24:56.180 We will die for you.
00:24:57.180 But you give us children and you give us purity.
00:25:02.180 So we're virgin.
00:25:03.180 You're virgins on our wedding day. 1.00
00:25:04.180 And you give us, they used to have 7.2 kids for every woman.
00:25:07.180 Now we're not even having enough kids to replace the population.
00:25:10.180 Not having seven kids, which is pushing out.
00:25:14.180 Well, and this is the point.
00:25:18.180 We don't really have traditional women anymore. 1.00
00:25:20.180 They don't.
00:25:21.180 But I'm not saying it's.
00:25:22.180 Nothing's traditional.
00:25:23.180 But the family dynamic has changed.
00:25:25.180 I went to the toilet and saw a man in there.
00:25:28.180 Nothing's traditional.
00:25:29.180 But that comes down to women. 1.00
00:25:31.180 And that's kind of a conversation we have to have in society.
00:25:35.180 Like what, what is it moving forward?
00:25:37.180 Are we going to, are we going to push policies that make us more equal?
00:25:40.180 So we, we have to go into the military or are we going to give up freedoms?
00:25:45.180 Right.
00:25:46.180 Biologically though, we literally, it can't be 50-50 in the military.
00:25:49.180 You did say, I think it was China actually that said that, that men wouldn't even put women on the front lines.
00:25:55.180 Correct.
00:25:56.180 Do you feel like a woman could protect you on the front line? 1.00
00:25:59.180 Be honest.
00:26:00.180 No.
00:26:01.180 Imagine, imagine.
00:26:02.180 Hold on.
00:26:03.180 If she got a gun.
00:26:04.180 All right.
00:26:05.180 That's it.
00:26:06.180 That's it.
00:26:07.180 No, but that's the point.
00:26:08.180 But you're missing the point.
00:26:09.180 You don't feel protected by a woman. 1.00
00:26:10.180 No, but you're literally, no, you're literally missing the point.
00:26:12.180 And if you let me explain, I might try to explain.
00:26:15.180 You're missing the point because we don't think women will be able to protect us. 1.00
00:26:19.180 That's why we are fighting against it.
00:26:21.180 But it's the women that are still trying to fight back and say, no, we want to protect you by all means necessary.
00:26:26.180 We're telling you, logically, it doesn't make sense.
00:26:29.180 It's the same thing with the conversation of when she said nothing is transgender and nothing is traditional anymore.
00:26:36.180 You went into the toilet and you saw a man.
00:26:38.180 Who are the majority that are supporting that?
00:26:40.180 Is it men or women?
00:26:41.180 Women. 0.81
00:26:42.180 I don't think it's women in there. 1.00
00:26:44.180 No, no, no.
00:26:45.180 It's the men who've got something to hide.
00:26:47.180 No, no.
00:26:48.180 It's like the trans movement. 0.61
00:26:49.180 It's actually mostly women in it. 1.00
00:26:51.180 But the elites though.
00:26:52.180 Who's up there?
00:26:53.180 Who's up there?
00:26:54.180 It's the men up there that's passing all those laws.
00:26:56.180 No, because they're pushing an agenda that they know they can use to control us.
00:26:59.180 The men are pushing an agenda.
00:27:00.180 There's a lot of those elites that are doing things behind closed doors.
00:27:03.180 But this is the problem.
00:27:04.180 You don't want to listen.
00:27:05.180 The reality is, in this life, since the beginning of time, there has always been an elite group
00:27:10.180 that have seeked to control the population for their personal benefit.
00:27:13.180 And they will stop at nothing to get what they want.
00:27:16.180 Now, what is happening is that, because back in the day at least, women had no choice. 0.58
00:27:21.180 If you were on your own, you would die.
00:27:23.180 So women had to work with men. 1.00
00:27:25.180 But now, men have built the world and given you all this safety.
00:27:28.180 And now you've turned your backs on the very same men that gave you this safety.
00:27:32.180 To side with the same elites that you're speaking about.
00:27:45.180 So you're generalizing?
00:27:46.180 Yes, I am generalizing.
00:27:47.180 Because he's not saying every single woman.
00:27:51.180 Can I give you an example?
00:27:52.180 I mean, all three women in here thought they were entitled to tell men how to talk. 1.00
00:27:56.180 Is this the three?
00:27:57.180 Yes.
00:27:58.180 Yes.
00:27:59.180 Sorry.
00:28:00.180 You all were talking about their tone.
00:28:02.180 That's telling men how to talk. 0.97
00:28:04.180 If you feel disrespected, are you going to say anything?
00:28:07.180 Sorry, if you feel or if you are.
00:28:09.180 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:28:11.180 No, I just, I, okay.
00:28:12.180 Did you see me getting all mad when she was insulting me? 1.00
00:28:15.180 I mean, obviously, obviously you're used to this.
00:28:17.180 Because, no, no, because, because, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:28:20.180 Of course not, it's not.
00:28:21.180 But it's different.
00:28:22.180 At the end of the day, it's different.
00:28:23.180 I didn't do it in the beginning when I started the shows.
00:28:25.180 Because my mom raised me to not react.
00:28:28.180 But the thing is, we have a bunch of women that didn't have strong masculine fathers in the home. 1.00
00:28:32.180 Yeah.
00:28:33.180 I had the, I have the best dad on the planet.
00:28:35.180 He always told me, like, do not get mad.
00:28:37.180 Just stay calm.
00:28:38.180 And that's it.
00:28:39.180 And, and it's like women think that, like, just because you feel a certain way, you're entitled to act how you want. 0.99
00:28:45.180 And, and, no.
00:28:47.180 Yeah.
00:28:48.180 And, and that's the thing, right?
00:28:49.180 You can always tell who, I say you can always tell who someone's been raised by.
00:28:52.180 Because throughout this whole time, I've been provoked.
00:28:54.180 I've been prodded.
00:28:55.180 I've been called aggressive.
00:28:56.180 I've been insulted.
00:28:57.180 I've done, you guys have done everything you can do to poke the bear.
00:29:00.180 And if I was a lesser man, if I was a man that didn't care about women, I could, I could react.
00:29:04.180 And I'm just trying to show you the double standard.
00:29:06.180 I had a woman tell me what you're going to do. 1.00
00:29:07.180 You're giving sassy, bitch. 1.00
00:29:09.180 Like, do you see that language there?
00:29:11.180 I still agree with that though.
00:29:12.180 No, no, no, no, no, no, but you're saying, no, hold on a second.
00:29:15.180 Wait, you're saying it now.
00:29:16.180 I mean, I want to point, I want to point out one thing too.
00:29:18.180 It's like, they left.
00:29:19.180 The room was calm.
00:29:20.180 Yeah.
00:29:21.180 Right.
00:29:22.180 So who was the problem?
00:29:23.180 It was those people antagonizing.
00:29:24.180 But even when that happened, no, no, but like you're, you're having it.
00:29:29.180 What does it say?
00:29:30.180 If he's here now, you guys are here.
00:29:31.180 None of you were offended.
00:29:32.180 It was them too.
00:29:33.180 Yeah.
00:29:34.180 But it's, it's, that's what I mean.
00:29:35.180 It's down to the individual.
00:29:36.180 Okay.
00:29:37.180 So that's, that's my point.
00:29:38.180 It's like, and it's funny because you guys were so quick to defend them.
00:29:40.180 And I know deep down, you know, he wasn't, you know, he wasn't.
00:29:43.180 I didn't defend.
00:29:44.180 Okay.
00:29:45.180 I was going like this to her.
00:29:46.180 I know, I know, I know.
00:29:47.180 I see it.
00:29:48.180 But what I'm saying is, yeah, what you guys did is a collective thing.
00:29:50.180 What you women do. 1.00
00:29:51.180 When you women get together, you see, you feel like your periods and your vaginas align 1.00
00:29:54.180 you.
00:29:55.180 So when you, when there's a man is, it's fine.
00:29:56.180 It's cool.
00:29:57.180 I grew up with.
00:29:58.180 Do you want a vagina? 1.00
00:29:59.180 Is that what you're saying?
00:30:00.180 I had three sisters and a mother.
00:30:01.180 I grew up in a house full of women. 1.00
00:30:02.180 I know how it is.
00:30:03.180 Right.
00:30:04.180 I am.
00:30:05.180 See, China, exclude me. 0.99
00:30:06.180 Oh, sorry.
00:30:07.180 I'm very, very, very.
00:30:09.180 Thank you.
00:30:10.180 Yes.
00:30:11.180 Sorry.
00:30:12.180 Sorry.
00:30:13.180 Very masculine.
00:30:14.180 And the reason I say this is because they try, what I am is what they try to push out.
00:30:17.180 Yes.
00:30:18.180 Strong men that are willing to speak up.
00:30:19.180 You guys normally, all pretty women in here. 0.99
00:30:21.180 You normally have men that pander to you, that pitter pat around you because they normally
00:30:25.180 want something.
00:30:26.180 I don't want anything from, from any of you women, other than the conversation that we 1.00
00:30:29.180 can learn more about each other.
00:30:30.180 I can learn something I can take and I can grow.
00:30:32.180 Right.
00:30:33.180 And the audience can get something from that.
00:30:34.180 That's how.
00:30:35.180 So when I come around women, I will tell you about yourself because I don't, I'm not, I 1.00
00:30:39.180 don't want not only fans, girl.
00:30:40.180 I'm not, I ain't no fan boy.
00:30:42.180 And the thing is, and the thing is like women respond really quickly to social shame. 1.00
00:30:47.180 I'll give you an example.
00:30:48.180 I did my show Pearl daily.
00:30:51.180 I like cover the news every day.
00:30:52.180 It's going to premiere after this guys, just so you know, but I reacted today to a girl 1.00
00:31:00.180 that lived in Japan for a year and she was like, this is what I used to wear in America.
00:31:03.180 It was like leggings, the tight stuff.
00:31:05.180 And she's like, guys, do not wear this in Japan.
00:31:07.180 Like I do not do it.
00:31:08.180 And she showed her outfit in Japan.
00:31:10.180 It was like these running basketball shorts with leggings underneath and like a tight top.
00:31:15.180 So women respond really quickly to social shame. 1.00
00:31:17.180 So a lot of times when men are shaming you like for things, it's because they're trying to protect you.
00:31:23.180 And you know what it was?
00:31:24.180 Yeah.
00:31:25.180 Well, I wouldn't even try to shame her.
00:31:26.180 I don't know if anyone's seen.
00:31:27.180 Well, and the thing is, shame comes from within.
00:31:29.180 Yeah.
00:31:30.180 Like nobody can make you feel shame.
00:31:31.180 But when you guys were saying like, guys, I never called her any, I didn't call her out of her name.
00:31:35.180 I didn't, I literally, I didn't speak about all.
00:31:37.180 I said, wow, you got a daughter and you do OnlyFans.
00:31:40.180 That's four.
00:31:41.180 You know what you're saying.
00:31:42.180 You called the other girl.
00:31:43.180 No, but listen to this.
00:31:44.180 You called the other girl.
00:31:45.180 Yeah, but guys, guys, again, like you, this is the other thing that like women want to poke the bear and get mad when they respond. 1.00
00:31:51.180 I agree.
00:31:52.180 I agree.
00:31:53.180 I very much agree.
00:31:54.180 I don't respect that.
00:31:55.180 She called him broke.
00:31:56.180 She called, she said she hated, he hated black women and like women just want to poke, poke, poke and then get mad. 0.99
00:32:00.180 And then when she said that and I got mad and she said, oh, you're getting mad.
00:32:04.180 How dare you?
00:32:05.180 You don't know my up and you don't know who my father is.
00:32:07.180 You don't know my relationship with my sisters and my nieces.
00:32:09.180 And then you tell me I hate black women because I'm talking about black women's hair and what society's done. 1.00
00:32:13.180 Here's the point.
00:32:14.180 Here's the point.
00:32:15.180 What it is, is that when you start to say things that prick, you understand?
00:32:20.180 Then women get very, very difficult. 1.00
00:32:22.180 How is that fair to me?
00:32:23.180 It's not.
00:32:24.180 No, it's not fair to you.
00:32:25.180 It's not.
00:32:26.180 Yeah, but we are unfair as women. 1.00
00:32:28.180 And we have to face that truth.
00:32:30.180 No, but women don't care about men's mental health. 1.00
00:32:32.180 I always say, you guys are treating me unfair.
00:32:35.180 Please let me finish.
00:32:36.180 It is true.
00:32:37.180 You just said it.
00:32:38.180 We don't care enough about men's feelings. 0.92
00:32:41.180 We do not.
00:32:42.180 And a lot of the time in the environment that we've been raised, we've been made to feel that we're entitled to.
00:32:49.180 We're entitled to speak to men in a certain way.
00:32:52.180 And that if they respond to us, oh, now they're aggressive.
00:32:55.180 But I want, what I'm here is trying, I'm trying to say men have feelings too, you know?
00:32:59.180 We're not just some, you guys say, oh, men should go.
00:33:01.180 Men are scared too, you know?
00:33:02.180 Well, you think we just want to go to some random group of people and we can't get.
00:33:05.180 Have you ever, wait, can I ask you a question?
00:33:07.180 Has any of you guys ever been stabbed here before?
00:33:09.180 Has any of you guys ever been on life support machine before?
00:33:11.180 No.
00:33:12.180 I have.
00:33:13.180 I know what it feels like.
00:33:14.180 So we're not, but it's not, what I'm trying to say to you, and that came from an argument over a car park space.
00:33:17.180 It had nothing to do with, are you listening?
00:33:19.180 A car park space, an argument, and I got stabbed and put on life support machine.
00:33:23.180 You women don't understand violence. 1.00
00:33:25.180 You don't.
00:33:26.180 I wouldn't speak on it like that though.
00:33:28.180 So when I say women, I'm generalising. 0.96
00:33:31.180 If it's not you, please, I'm not throwing it at you.
00:33:33.180 I'm saying generalised women don't understand violence. 1.00
00:33:35.180 Because when you were speaking earlier on, you had no idea what can happen.
00:33:38.180 So when I said to him, would you say to me what she said?
00:33:40.180 No.
00:33:41.180 I said to King.
00:33:42.180 And the reason they won't, because they know automatically, that's a beef response.
00:33:45.180 But women are safe. 1.00
00:33:46.180 Society, the place, the studio has made you feel safe.
00:33:48.180 And the fact that I'm a nice guy.
00:33:50.180 Yeah.
00:33:51.180 And she knows it deep down.
00:33:52.180 That's why she did it. 0.99
00:33:53.180 Because if she felt like I was actually going to do something, there's no way she would have done that.
00:33:57.180 And then guess what?
00:33:58.180 I would have been the bad guy.
00:33:59.180 I do not disagree with what you're saying.
00:34:00.180 My brothers, yeah.
00:34:01.180 So my two youngest ones.
00:34:02.180 Okay.
00:34:03.180 I'll talk about a conversation from my youngest one.
00:34:04.180 Yeah.
00:34:05.180 For example.
00:34:06.180 He came to me.
00:34:07.180 He knows, everybody, all of my family knows not to put your hand on a woman. 0.79
00:34:10.180 You just don't, you don't put your hand on a woman.
00:34:12.180 I disagree.
00:34:13.180 Some bitches deserve it. 1.00
00:34:18.180 But I'll talk on that.
00:34:19.180 I'll talk on that.
00:34:20.180 My brother came to me and said,
00:34:21.180 right, well, what happens in a scenario where there's a girl coming at me and she is literally throwing fists, antagonizing me. 0.98
00:34:27.180 Like you said, poking the bear.
00:34:28.180 I said, at that point, if someone's got their hand on your throat or punching up, it's self-defense at that point.
00:34:33.180 You've got to fight back at the end of the day.
00:34:34.180 I don't respect if you, just because you think you're a woman. 1.00
00:34:37.180 And this is why I said, sometimes it may sound like I'm agreeing with you in some respects, but I do feel like you need to know your place.
00:34:42.180 You are not stronger than a man.
00:34:44.180 Yeah.
00:34:45.180 And you shouldn't be antagonizing a man that's bigger and stronger.
00:34:47.180 Even if he's smaller than you.
00:34:48.180 A short king.
00:34:49.180 A short king.
00:34:50.180 Don't put your hand on nobody.
00:34:51.180 That's not your child.
00:34:52.180 You didn't raise that child.
00:34:53.180 Don't put your hand on that child.
00:34:54.180 Well, we keep seeing men in the news getting killed by their girlfriends.
00:34:57.180 Like that OnlyFans model, the blonde chick. 1.00
00:35:00.180 It's there.
00:35:01.180 It's prevalent.
00:35:02.180 It's prevalent.
00:35:03.180 Abuse is abuse.
00:35:04.180 We need to.
00:35:05.180 But also, I want to touch on something you said.
00:35:06.180 I wouldn't say it's women that don't acknowledge the fact that men's mental health is something as a society that we need to respect. 0.93
00:35:14.180 I feel like men that reinforce it a bit more though.
00:35:16.180 We need to respect that.
00:35:18.180 I'll actually tell you what my take on mental health is.
00:35:22.180 I actually think men have mental health problems because women tell them to communicate like women and they're not. 1.00
00:35:28.180 I agree on that too.
00:35:29.180 So they'll tell men to be like more in touch with their feelings and talk about their problems.
00:35:33.180 And men just don't communicate like that.
00:35:35.180 They weren't raised like that.
00:35:36.180 I've had conversations with my friends.
00:35:39.180 They don't communicate like that.
00:35:40.180 I've had conversations with my friends where they're saying, why doesn't he da da da?
00:35:42.180 How does he not know to just call me and da da da?
00:35:44.180 Why wouldn't he ask me?
00:35:45.180 And I said, because he's not you.
00:35:46.180 He doesn't think like you.
00:35:47.180 But Jaz, you guys literally.
00:35:48.180 He doesn't think like you.
00:35:49.180 You guys literally try to tone police me this whole time.
00:35:51.180 But also this is the problem.
00:35:52.180 Men thinking that's why we're different.
00:35:53.180 We're not the same.
00:35:54.180 You said something.
00:35:55.180 I always like to pick up on the very little things.
00:35:58.180 You said they weren't raised like that.
00:36:01.180 Men shouldn't be raised like that.
00:36:02.180 That's the point.
00:36:03.180 It's because.
00:36:04.180 I'll tell you why.
00:36:05.180 Testosterone is an action hormone.
00:36:08.180 It's not there to sit around and talk about its feelings.
00:36:11.180 It's there to go out and do things.
00:36:14.180 Literally in the Bible, the Bible gave two curses.
00:36:17.180 It gave a curse to the woman. 1.00
00:36:18.180 It gave a curse to the man.
00:36:19.180 The man's curse was to go out and toil the earth.
00:36:21.180 That's the man's curse.
00:36:22.180 So do you not think if a man talks about his feelings, is it not going to improve men's 0.62
00:36:25.180 men's health?
00:36:26.180 It doesn't make any sense.
00:36:27.180 But then if we're talking about the Bible, the Bible also says men are to protect.
00:36:30.180 Men are to protect.
00:36:31.180 Why not listen to his point?
00:36:32.180 Can you listen?
00:36:33.180 I'm not saying a man should never speak about his feelings.
00:36:36.180 But a man should only decide to start talking about his feelings after he has gone out to put out action.
00:36:43.180 Not before.
00:36:44.180 And he should always strive to do it with other men.
00:36:48.180 And this is the difference between men and women. 0.52
00:36:53.180 Because women, we feel better when we talk about the problem. 1.00
00:36:55.180 Men feel better when they solve it.
00:36:57.180 So them talking about the problem doesn't make them feel better.
00:37:00.180 They just want to figure out how to fix it.
00:37:01.180 We're wired different.
00:37:02.180 And like you said, what's King?
00:37:05.180 King mentioned the Bible.
00:37:07.180 If we're going to mention the Bible, let's wrap it all up here then.
00:37:09.180 What do you mean?
00:37:10.180 Well, because the Bible, if we're going to base it on that then, then don't just take what you want from it.
00:37:14.180 Look at all of it then.
00:37:15.180 The Bible specifically, hold on.
00:37:17.180 The Bible specifically talks about gender roles.
00:37:19.180 Does it not?
00:37:20.180 Yeah.
00:37:21.180 Let's not pick and choose then.
00:37:22.180 Don't pick it when it suits you.
00:37:23.180 The Bible talks about the men being the protectors.
00:37:25.180 And the women being what the home raises and whatever, which is what you're basically saying. 0.62
00:37:29.180 Alright, so let's do that then.
00:37:30.180 Yeah, but it's women that have decided to leave the home. 1.00
00:37:33.180 Yeah, women don't want to. 1.00
00:37:34.180 Women don't want to be under the man. 1.00
00:37:35.180 Not women. 1.00
00:37:36.180 It's the whole of society of what's going on right now.
00:37:39.180 No, no, no.
00:37:40.180 Everything's changed.
00:37:41.180 Nothing traditional.
00:37:42.180 Let's talk about transgender.
00:37:44.180 Let's talk about gay. 1.00
00:37:45.180 But even from your mouth, you literally just said.
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00:38:07.180 And I love it.
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