JustPearlyThings - This O.F Model Said THIS

00:00:00.000 We have Filthy with the 100. Thank you, man.

00:00:04.900 Do the women in the adult film industry, OF, want to have children? 1.00

00:00:08.580 If so, are you worried about the effects your actions will have on them in the future, specifically for boys?

00:00:19.440 Remember, the internet is forever, and what we do in life echoes in eternity.

00:00:25.840 Your response to Filthy?

00:00:27.780 I mean, I didn't really think about it before I got pregnant, but after I did, I definitely, again, I don't regret anything I've done in my life because it has gotten me to where I am today, but I wish I could have went about things differently.

00:00:46.080 I wish I didn't fully get into being able for people to search me up on The Hub and stuff.

00:00:53.980 I'm fine with the OnlyFans aspect of it, but yeah, I mean, it is not going to be the easiest when I have, if I do have a son, and they go to school, and he gets older, and his friends are like, hey, you know, your mom's on The Hub.

00:01:11.700 I just looked her up.

00:01:12.660 So that's also why, like, I'm glad that I took a step back when I did from being on Pornhub.

00:01:20.620 Okay.

00:01:21.160 Anybody else who does OF want to answer that?

00:01:23.480 Anybody?

00:01:24.160 Kirsten?

00:01:24.840 I mean, I think it'll definitely affect children.

00:01:27.240 Like I said before, I've had one of my old managements, she was huge on Pornhub, and her kids are severely bullied because of it. 0.99

00:01:34.240 It definitely will.

00:01:35.100 Well, you know, when I get to that point, when I do eventually want to have kids, I'm going to do my best to wipe myself from the internet, but you know what?

00:01:41.400 I made the decisions that I made, and I'm okay with that.

00:01:44.040 I think it's just also having a conversation with your kids and sitting them down and letting them know beforehand, because I would rather sit my kids down before it gets to a certain age where people start going on these websites and letting them know so they're aware of it, and they can kind of get a thicker skin before they walk into something that they're not aware of.

00:02:01.540 Yeah, kind of control the narrative a little bit.

00:02:03.340 Yeah, exactly.

00:02:03.820 Have an open and safe space to be able to communicate.

00:02:06.960 Open line of communication for your child is super important.

00:02:09.360 My mom was a stripper, and it was in a small town, very local.

00:02:14.940 People knew that she did that, and my mom was also a very young mom, so I always joked that I had previous experience at a strip club because I was in my mom's womb while she was the stripper or whatever. 1.00

00:02:30.080 So, I don't know.

00:02:33.900 I just feel as if it's like, as long as you have that open line of communication, I'm not saying that that makes it any easier on the child's experience because obviously the other kids aren't having that same conversation with their parents, but as long as you're open and they're not finding out through the other kids.

00:02:54.100 Yeah, word of mouth.

00:02:55.920 Yeah, and I mean, it's something that we're going to have to deal with when it gets to that point, whether it's eight months from now or ten years down the line, you know?

00:03:06.820 Are you going to teach your daughters about the industry, and if so, what will you teach them about it?

00:03:13.060 Oh, absolutely, 100%.

00:03:14.640 I mean, I'm not just going to be like, hey, here's the porn world, and you know, you should definitely do it.

00:03:20.900 And here's me.

00:03:21.640 Do you want that for them?

00:03:24.200 I am not going to judge my children at all on what they decide to do because I don't have the support of my parents at all, and I don't talk to them, and I always said growing up that I would be completely opposite of what my parents have done for me.

00:03:41.040 So I will always have my kids back.

00:03:45.140 I will give them guidance if they do decide to sit me down one day and say that they do want to get into the industry.

00:03:51.480 I would give them my experience and what I went through, and, you know, I didn't have that guidance.

00:03:57.360 My mom did work for kind of like Playboy.

00:04:00.720 It was a different magazine.

00:04:02.180 Hustler?

00:04:02.780 Perfect 10.

00:04:03.960 Okay.

00:04:04.260 Yeah, it was like an old magazine in the 2000s, and I like grew up in that house pretty much, and it was exactly like the Playboy house.

00:04:11.460 No way.

00:04:12.640 Yeah, so it was the Perfect 10.

00:04:13.880 How old were you?

00:04:14.100 I was young.

00:04:15.680 So it was like the Perfect 10 house, so there was like a bunch of models walking around everywhere. 0.65

00:04:20.520 They lived at the house, some of them.

00:04:22.720 I remember Easter's.

00:04:24.120 They would have like wrestling matches outside.

00:04:25.980 They were like naked wrestling and stuff, and like I grew up around the sex worker industry.

00:04:34.880 So, again, I am going to sit my daughter down, and if she decides that that's what she wants to do,

00:04:40.680 I will always be supportive, and I will guide her as much as I can to make the wrong or right decisions.

00:04:45.840 Do you want that, though?

00:04:46.800 That's what I'm asking.

00:04:48.040 Of course you would.

00:04:49.020 You know, you would love your child.

00:04:50.540 Oh, of course.

00:04:51.100 But do you want that for them?

00:04:52.460 That's what I want to know.

00:04:53.180 I mean, I don't think it's the most ideal job, no.

00:04:58.400 But, again, if that is what they want to do, I will 100% support them, and I will 100% have their back.

00:05:03.640 But, again, I will give them the experience that I went through and the good things and the bad things.

00:05:08.760 And I think that every person can agree that they want to do more for their child than their parent did for them,

00:05:17.040 and they also want more for their child than they had for themselves, right?

00:05:21.320 And I think it comes down to the kind of life that your child wants.

00:05:24.500 You know, I mean, some porn stars have been offered experiences that they wouldn't otherwise have had, right?

00:05:28.980 And it's just a matter of—and even with, you know, me and my journey as an OnlyFans model, like, to be honest,

00:05:34.260 I haven't, through my experience as a model, because, you know, and I haven't been subject to, like,

00:05:39.360 some of the toxic aspects of the industry, you know?

00:05:41.360 I've been in charge.

00:05:42.700 It's been really a positive experience for me and a really empowering one.

00:05:46.740 And it's offered me, I mean, just through social media, so many, like, access to experiences that I'm really grateful for,

00:05:53.440 incredible freedoms, and I absolutely love my life that I've built and the opportunities that I have.

00:05:57.780 And entrepreneurially, I feel, like, a lot of potential.

00:06:01.260 Would it be worth it if you never got married?

00:06:04.560 Well, I mean, I've never really been one of those girls who's, like—

00:06:07.660 Okay, so you don't care.

00:06:08.720 I mean, I—

00:06:09.640 Single, unmarried women at the happiest demographic.

00:06:11.460 I mean, like, what do you want to get left to look like at 65?

00:06:14.580 A lot of friendship, a lot of self-expression, authentic self-expression.

00:06:20.040 Because, like, I mean, do what you want, but, like, my thing is a lot of times people make these decisions

00:06:24.060 and then whine about the consequences later.

00:06:26.540 Well, yeah, absolutely.

00:06:27.920 I mean, I hear that.

00:06:28.920 I think it really just depends on how you go into anything.

00:06:31.380 And, like, even just to take it back to, like—

00:06:33.360 I mean, like, you know, anything.

00:06:35.100 Even if you take it back to the original conversation about, you know, even escorting.

00:06:38.640 I'm like, I think when it comes to any part of, like, you know, sexual objectification,

00:06:43.480 it's really, like, how your perspective is.

00:06:47.080 The way that you go into and experience that situation determines whether or not you feel power from it

00:06:52.260 or you give power through it and you lose power and whether it becomes, like, traumatic or empowering.

00:06:57.400 Like, they're two different things.

00:06:58.600 So, you know, it's just a really matter of personal preference and opinion. 0.97

00:07:02.400 My life, I've never wanted a normal, typical fucking life, and I haven't had one. 0.94

00:07:06.780 And do I want what most people want at 65? 0.99

00:07:09.500 Probably not.

00:07:10.120 I also feel like I would rather, if I was saying where I would be at 60,

00:07:15.900 I would rather be by myself at 60 or 65 and genuinely happy with myself

00:07:20.400 and where I have come in my life than be in a toxic relationship in a husband or whatever.

00:07:24.100 But why are those the only two options?

00:07:27.180 I mean, you could be OnlyFans and I'm in a happy relationship.

00:07:29.520 Obviously, we have our ups and downs, but, like, overall, I have a very happy relationship.

00:07:33.780 Good for you.

00:07:35.100 But I feel like you're saying over here that you can't have a happy relationship.

00:07:38.060 You're never going to get married if you're OnlyFans are in a relationship.

00:07:39.560 I think it's less likely.

00:07:40.680 My boyfriend's very supportive.

00:07:41.580 I don't do OnlyFans, but I dance, and he's very supportive.

00:07:43.800 You know, I think it's less likely.

00:07:45.580 I mean, you guys are young, though.

00:07:48.140 You don't know what life's going to look like at 35, 40.

00:07:50.680 And I've talked to older women that have done OnlyFans and done corn work, 0.99

00:07:55.080 and a lot of times, like, a guy will date you in his 20s

00:07:57.460 and then, like, dump you when he wants to find his wife.

00:07:59.800 I know a lot of people that are kind of women. 1.00

00:08:01.980 It's not early to say, though, what the future looks like for OnlyFans, which is so new.

00:08:05.820 Especially for our generation specifically,

00:08:08.940 it's very, I'm not saying that it's super right,

00:08:13.280 but it is a lot more normalized than a 30-year-old man's generation is.

00:08:18.800 And let's also, too, though, like, just acknowledge the fact, too,

00:08:21.620 that OnlyFans is a premium content platform.

00:08:24.140 There are comedians with OnlyFans.

00:08:25.960 There's such a wide variety of the kind of content that's on OnlyFans.

00:08:28.060 I mean, the connotation, yeah.

00:08:29.060 There's a total stigma, but it is not porn industry.

00:08:31.800 I'm not saying that nobody is going to get married.

00:08:35.220 That's not what I'm saying, especially when you have a really attractive...

00:08:37.820 Like, you guys are all very pretty, so, you know...

00:08:40.060 Thank you, so are you.

00:08:41.200 Thank you.

00:08:41.840 But sometimes, like, pretty women have different outcomes than the average chick. 1.00

00:08:46.440 And so the average chick is going to sign up to OnlyFans. 1.00

00:08:48.640 Yeah, and that's what I'm saying.

00:08:49.840 Like, I don't know you guys personally.

00:08:51.640 Totally true.

00:08:52.180 But there are a lot of girls that are going to do OnlyFans, 1.00

00:08:54.460 and it's not going to end well for them.

00:08:57.620 And it's easy to say this now, oh, I'm in a happy relationship.

00:09:00.340 But you don't know what your life's going to be like in 10, 15, 20 years.

00:09:02.780 But I also think, too, like, you know, what somebody does for a period of time

00:09:04.580 doesn't define what they are and what they do forever, right?

00:09:07.240 It does, though, because, like, if I'm going to date a guy

00:09:10.300 and he said I went to prison for five years, like, I'm out.

00:09:13.380 Well, I don't see.

00:09:14.360 If he said I got three women pregnant, but don't worry, I've changed.

00:09:18.200 I'm like, you know what?

00:09:18.940 That's not for me.

00:09:20.040 I'm good. 0.73

00:09:20.840 So, Piana, you said you'd be a nerd.

00:09:22.180 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok,

00:09:25.760 and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - May 25, 2023

This O.F Model Said THIS

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