00:00:00.000You actually had this one girl on here. She was wearing like a pink mask and had a kind of accent.
00:00:05.500I don't know if you remember who I'm talking about, but she but she didn't she didn't she was saying something that I kind of agree with when she said, you know, you can't just narrow someone down to just a number.
00:00:15.980I agree when you when you say that, and I know that you're not coming from that standpoint at all whatsoever.
00:00:20.900So don't think I'm just directly talking to you, but just like when a guy here is a high, higher number than six, five, eight, whatever your statistics, whatever.
00:00:32.920I mean, I'm just saying they immediately put you into a box.
00:00:37.340And that's something that even Justin on the last podcast and him and I talked about, like, it's just this thing where it's like this construct of, oh, I'm going to be compared to this many men.
00:00:47.620And so, holy shit. And I mean, I get it to an extent, but it's like, bro, if you feel like if you feel like you're not up to the like, it's it shouldn't even matter.
00:00:58.900It's very simple. Guys don't want whores. We don't want to. We don't want to date the town bicycle.
00:01:04.120But they want you to be a whore in the bedroom. No, not not necessarily.
00:01:08.440But look, guys care about body count point blank period. Like it is what it is.
00:01:12.940And that's why we make such blanket statements. We know every man, everyone.
00:01:16.300Generally speaking, generally speaking, men don't want to date promiscuous women or women with a high body count.
00:01:24.840What's high? I mean, it varies. It varies. But I mean, he said over six before, I think. Right. Right.
00:01:31.240I don't want to put words in your mouth. It depends. I mean, that's some of the studies indicate that once you get over six, that's when your likelihood of, for example, divorce increases dramatically.
00:01:40.200I don't remember the exact numbers on the other side.
00:01:48.880But the whole point is whenever men have standards, we shame them for having standards.
00:01:52.980Like if a girl, if a girl says, like, I don't want to date a guy that's short and broke and fat.
00:01:57.300OK, fine. No, like they're not going to argue with that.
00:01:59.440But if a guy says, I want to go with a low body count, like we argue for for hours and I would argue with a woman that said that you're saying like, don't judge.
00:02:10.120And I just I honestly think you said that you said that earlier.
00:02:13.940Yes, I never said that I was going to judge a guy who wants to be with a girl.
00:02:17.500No, no. Who's only had one one partner or you were saying we shouldn't be so judgmental.
00:02:23.680I never I never said anything judgmental about a man who prefers that.
00:02:27.580Well, we're talking we've been talking about body count for the past 30 minutes.
00:02:30.040And I'm OK. But my whole point is that like what did I say that was judgmental?
00:02:33.700My whole no, I said you said something about that we shouldn't be so judgmental.
00:02:37.400Yeah, I did. Yeah. OK, OK. That's what I'm addressing.
00:02:39.580And I'm saying, you know, I don't think it's kind to act like people don't judge you for promiscuity.
00:02:45.080I don't think that's kind to women. I think it's better to be honest.
00:02:48.000And the world doesn't owe you understanding. The world will judge you for your decisions.
00:02:51.780Like you don't get to get out of jail free card.
00:02:53.880And I think it's dishonest to say that like men don't care about that stuff and there's going to be no consequences.
00:02:59.680Because a lot of you guys have said yourself that there are like you've said out of your mouth.
00:03:49.500So like a girl who's promiscuous, they might not care so much if you have a high body count, if they're they just want to fuck you.
00:03:54.940But for a relationship, for a long term commitment, for marriage, it's going to matter much, much more.
00:04:00.140No, and I'm understanding that. And the person that the person that I choose to be with in the future,
00:04:05.120I hope is understanding that my hypersexuality is something that I embraced during a time in my life and that I can say goodbye to when I'm when I meet that person.
00:04:35.000If you've had certain I don't know what your personal like this isn't a personal thing.
00:04:39.360But but it's like it's like if someone's done something for five years, 10 years, whatever it is, it's going to be harder and harder to quit.
00:04:46.200So the longer you like engage in certain decisions, it's harder to stop.
00:04:49.660And we don't even have to make it about like sleeping around.
00:04:52.060It could be about like if you drink every day for 10 years, it's going to be harder to stop.
00:05:33.300At the end of the day, it literally comes down to the reason people are bitching about this dumb stuff is because they're so unhappy and they're projecting.
00:05:40.260They're like, ooh, you're wrong for only sleeping with one man in your life.
00:05:55.300That's why half of my comments on my TikTok videos are like, she just ended all relationship podcast because I come down to it from a people, a human experience.
00:06:53.000At the end of the day, if a woman with high body count, there's going to be guys out there that don't care.
00:06:58.720There are some guys out there that don't care.
00:07:01.860But, I mean, we can also have, I mean, it's even beyond just an intellectual conversation.
00:07:06.540We can also just say, hey, look, if you choose to partake in certain behaviors, if you maneuver in the world in a certain way, that's going to have consequences.
00:07:17.600And I know, and I always talk about, I talk about specifically that women, I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women.
00:07:26.800But who am I to tell a woman she shouldn't?
00:07:30.200I feel like the word should is such like a, it, it, when you use the word should, you're like, you should, this is what makes you a real man.
00:07:38.080You should do these things where we're creating anxiety and unsettleness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life.
00:07:46.240I honestly agree with 100% of the words that just came out of this woman Zoe's mouth.
00:07:50.960Like, dead ass, like being, I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right here that chose to wait until marriage has done anything you're a beautiful woman to.
00:08:11.280But, but no, I would never say anything about their decision.
00:08:15.240I think that it is your body and that is a beautiful thing that you've done, even from the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite.
00:08:23.340I think that's like, if that's what, if that's what, yeah, if that's, if that's what makes you happy and that's what makes you think that, and whether you're right or wrong is not my decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me to my right that it can work out that way.
00:08:40.220That's totally your body, your choice.
00:08:42.060I just think we should, I mean, I just think we should be honest about the comments.
00:08:51.780But I feel like your, I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the people that I make my comments geared towards too, right?
00:08:58.360Like if OnlyFans girl is like, I deserve a high value man, you know, he shouldn't care about, I'm going to be like, no, be fucking for real.
00:09:03.760Like, no, it matters as someone who's in the industry.
00:10:06.220Like, you know, you're saying like, you know, if this woman is a lower-value woman because she slept with many people.
00:10:10.660Well, I'm sure that there are many low-value women with poor integrity, lack of integrity, bad women, dishonest, who have slept with one man, right?