JustPearlyThings - June 02, 2023


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In this episode, we discuss the concept of body count and why it's important to have a good body count in a relationship. We also talk about why we should not be so judgmental when it comes to what we consider a woman's body count.

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00:00:00.000 You actually had this one girl on here. She was wearing like a pink mask and had a kind of accent. 1.00
00:00:05.500 I don't know if you remember who I'm talking about, but she but she didn't she didn't she was saying something that I kind of agree with when she said, you know, you can't just narrow someone down to just a number.
00:00:15.980 I agree when you when you say that, and I know that you're not coming from that standpoint at all whatsoever.
00:00:20.900 So don't think I'm just directly talking to you, but just like when a guy here is a high, higher number than six, five, eight, whatever your statistics, whatever.
00:00:32.920 I mean, I'm just saying they immediately put you into a box.
00:00:37.340 And that's something that even Justin on the last podcast and him and I talked about, like, it's just this thing where it's like this construct of, oh, I'm going to be compared to this many men. 0.99
00:00:47.620 And so, holy shit. And I mean, I get it to an extent, but it's like, bro, if you feel like if you feel like you're not up to the like, it's it shouldn't even matter. 0.68
00:00:58.900 It's very simple. Guys don't want whores. We don't want to. We don't want to date the town bicycle. 1.00
00:01:04.120 But they want you to be a whore in the bedroom. No, not not necessarily. 1.00
00:01:08.440 But look, guys care about body count point blank period. Like it is what it is.
00:01:12.940 And that's why we make such blanket statements. We know every man, everyone.
00:01:16.300 Generally speaking, generally speaking, men don't want to date promiscuous women or women with a high body count.
00:01:24.840 What's high? I mean, it varies. It varies. But I mean, he said over six before, I think. Right. Right.
00:01:31.240 I don't want to put words in your mouth. It depends. I mean, that's some of the studies indicate that once you get over six, that's when your likelihood of, for example, divorce increases dramatically.
00:01:40.200 I don't remember the exact numbers on the other side.
00:01:43.480 The biggest dip is actually.
00:01:44.640 I'm going to come back on the podcast when I'm married for three years.
00:01:47.440 I'm going to do it.
00:01:48.880 But the whole point is whenever men have standards, we shame them for having standards. 0.78
00:01:52.980 Like if a girl, if a girl says, like, I don't want to date a guy that's short and broke and fat. 0.81
00:01:57.300 OK, fine. No, like they're not going to argue with that. 0.75
00:01:59.440 But if a guy says, I want to go with a low body count, like we argue for for hours and I would argue with a woman that said that you're saying like, don't judge.
00:02:10.120 And I just I honestly think you said that you said that earlier.
00:02:13.940 Yes, I never said that I was going to judge a guy who wants to be with a girl.
00:02:17.500 No, no. Who's only had one one partner or you were saying we shouldn't be so judgmental.
00:02:23.680 I never I never said anything judgmental about a man who prefers that.
00:02:27.580 Well, we're talking we've been talking about body count for the past 30 minutes.
00:02:30.040 And I'm OK. But my whole point is that like what did I say that was judgmental?
00:02:33.700 My whole no, I said you said something about that we shouldn't be so judgmental.
00:02:37.400 Yeah, I did. Yeah. OK, OK. That's what I'm addressing.
00:02:39.580 And I'm saying, you know, I don't think it's kind to act like people don't judge you for promiscuity.
00:02:45.080 I don't think that's kind to women. I think it's better to be honest. 1.00
00:02:48.000 And the world doesn't owe you understanding. The world will judge you for your decisions.
00:02:51.780 Like you don't get to get out of jail free card.
00:02:53.880 And I think it's dishonest to say that like men don't care about that stuff and there's going to be no consequences.
00:02:59.680 Because a lot of you guys have said yourself that there are like you've said out of your mouth.
00:03:06.280 I want to change this.
00:03:07.900 I mean, I don't think that I have sat here and said that there aren't consequences.
00:03:12.740 OK, don't worry about that. But you were saying that there's something about value.
00:03:15.640 You were upset that men value this in women and that you're thinking that men are diminishing women's value to their body count.
00:03:23.720 That's not the case. It's just a metric.
00:03:25.580 I don't think. Hold on. Let me just finish. Let me finish.
00:03:28.380 It's just a metric by which men look at a potential partner and decide, hmm, is this someone I want to have a relationship with?
00:03:38.820 Is this someone I even want to be with? Justin was talking about buckets.
00:03:42.700 So it's like there's relationship, there's relationship and there's hookup.
00:03:47.640 So and a lot of guys will do that. 1.00
00:03:49.500 So like a girl who's promiscuous, they might not care so much if you have a high body count, if they're they just want to fuck you. 1.00
00:03:54.940 But for a relationship, for a long term commitment, for marriage, it's going to matter much, much more. 1.00
00:04:00.140 No, and I'm understanding that. And the person that the person that I choose to be with in the future,
00:04:05.120 I hope is understanding that my hypersexuality is something that I embraced during a time in my life and that I can say goodbye to when I'm when I meet that person.
00:04:16.180 Well, that's convenient, isn't it?
00:04:17.720 But that's that's I mean, yeah, it's convenient if I'm ready for love and that's something I want to experience next. 0.79
00:04:23.880 But it's not something I'm like fucking it's not that like earning for something.
00:04:28.860 It's not that simple, though, because the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. 0.87
00:04:32.580 And maybe I'll be alone forever.
00:04:34.080 And you guys are right.
00:04:35.000 If you've had certain I don't know what your personal like this isn't a personal thing.
00:04:39.360 But but it's like it's like if someone's done something for five years, 10 years, whatever it is, it's going to be harder and harder to quit.
00:04:46.200 So the longer you like engage in certain decisions, it's harder to stop.
00:04:49.660 And we don't even have to make it about like sleeping around.
00:04:52.060 It could be about like if you drink every day for 10 years, it's going to be harder to stop.
00:04:56.080 Yeah.
00:04:56.820 Yeah, I don't disagree.
00:04:58.360 You can get over it.
00:05:00.220 We have some we're on the same.
00:05:02.220 I'm not against you on everything.
00:05:04.180 I just know.
00:05:05.580 By the way, I don't want to be heard.
00:05:07.200 I don't know if we got to go fully around the table as far as body count goes.
00:05:12.340 But Zoe, did you answer?
00:05:15.400 No, no, no, I didn't.
00:05:16.960 Body count?
00:05:17.580 No, I really don't think it matters.
00:05:19.080 Mine's probably up where somewhere is 100.
00:05:20.880 And this is my let me just like interject a little bit because I'm waiting to talk.
00:05:25.100 This is why I consider myself.
00:05:26.000 Closer to the mic, please.
00:05:26.900 This is why I consider myself very middle ground, because at the end of the day, what she said, I agree with someone she said.
00:05:31.040 I agree with something she said. 1.00
00:05:32.060 I agree with some shit you said. 0.99
00:05:33.300 At the end of the day, it literally comes down to the reason people are bitching about this dumb stuff is because they're so unhappy and they're projecting. 1.00
00:05:40.260 They're like, ooh, you're wrong for only sleeping with one man in your life. 0.99
00:05:43.920 Ugh, prude.
00:05:44.840 Oh, you're wrong for sleeping with that so many people in life. 1.00
00:05:46.820 Ooh, whore. 1.00
00:05:47.880 If people just minded their freaking business and worried about what truly makes them happy. 0.99
00:05:52.340 If we were just like Barbie, the world would be in my place. 0.99
00:05:53.780 Holy crap, half of this stuff.
00:05:55.300 That's why half of my comments on my TikTok videos are like, she just ended all relationship podcast because I come down to it from a people, a human experience. 0.85
00:06:02.460 Right?
00:06:03.220 Like, men are not here to fund your life and make you happy. 1.00
00:06:06.160 Women aren't here to do whatever the fuck men think women are here to do. 1.00
00:06:09.300 Fuck them. 1.00
00:06:09.540 I don't fucking know. 1.00
00:06:10.300 At the end of the day, it's like, what do you want? 0.99
00:06:12.240 You want a girl with a low body count? 1.00
00:06:13.600 Guess what?
00:06:14.300 Go get it. 1.00
00:06:15.020 You want a girl who's a whore and will just suck your dick at any point at the time of day, at the drop of a hat? 1.00
00:06:20.080 Guess what? 1.00
00:06:20.640 She exists and you can find it.
00:06:22.460 And that's where I find that a lot of people find solace in my content because I love the arguments.
00:06:26.560 You know what I mean?
00:06:26.820 It's content.
00:06:27.800 It makes the world go round.
00:06:28.700 It's entertaining.
00:06:29.260 But at the end of the day, if people were truly happy in how they lived life, no one would argue with each other.
00:06:36.280 But the fact that people are so, and it's not like, oh, don't judge.
00:06:39.460 Only God.
00:06:39.820 It's not that simple.
00:06:41.360 If people were actually doing the things that make them happy.
00:06:43.420 Yeah.
00:06:43.600 It's just about the fact. 0.98
00:06:44.260 No one would give a shit about any of this. 0.97
00:06:46.160 Well, I mean, you're kind of, you're a little bit dismissing. 0.98
00:06:49.000 Like, we can have intellectual conversations about these topics.
00:06:51.840 And yes, you're right.
00:06:53.000 At the end of the day, if a woman with high body count, there's going to be guys out there that don't care. 1.00
00:06:58.720 There are some guys out there that don't care.
00:07:01.860 But, I mean, we can also have, I mean, it's even beyond just an intellectual conversation.
00:07:06.540 We can also just say, hey, look, if you choose to partake in certain behaviors, if you maneuver in the world in a certain way, that's going to have consequences.
00:07:15.540 Yeah, 100%.
00:07:16.400 You know, like accountability.
00:07:17.600 And I know, and I always talk about, I talk about specifically that women, I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women.
00:07:26.800 But who am I to tell a woman she shouldn't?
00:07:29.980 You know what I mean?
00:07:30.200 I feel like the word should is such like a, it, it, when you use the word should, you're like, you should, this is what makes you a real man.
00:07:36.800 You should do these things.
00:07:37.540 What makes you a real woman. 1.00
00:07:38.080 You should do these things where we're creating anxiety and unsettleness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life.
00:07:46.240 I honestly agree with 100% of the words that just came out of this woman Zoe's mouth. 0.96
00:07:50.960 Like, dead ass, like being, I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right here that chose to wait until marriage has done anything you're a beautiful woman to. 0.98
00:08:07.520 Thank you. 0.99
00:08:07.880 This pretty lady.
00:08:08.720 Thank you.
00:08:08.940 Talk about a pick me, right?
00:08:10.120 I'm just kidding.
00:08:11.280 But, but no, I would never say anything about their decision.
00:08:15.240 I think that it is your body and that is a beautiful thing that you've done, even from the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite.
00:08:23.340 I think that's like, if that's what, if that's what, yeah, if that's, if that's what makes you happy and that's what makes you think that, and whether you're right or wrong is not my decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me to my right that it can work out that way.
00:08:40.220 That's totally your body, your choice.
00:08:42.060 I just think we should, I mean, I just think we should be honest about the comments.
00:08:45.460 Consequences.
00:08:46.180 Of course.
00:08:46.380 And like, that's my only thing is I just don't like lying. 0.99
00:08:48.600 And I'm owning my shit on camera in front of 10,000 people. 0.99
00:08:50.800 I'm not saying you're not. 0.99
00:08:51.780 But I feel like your, I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the people that I make my comments geared towards too, right? 0.98
00:08:58.360 Like if OnlyFans girl is like, I deserve a high value man, you know, he shouldn't care about, I'm going to be like, no, be fucking for real. 1.00
00:09:03.760 Like, no, it matters as someone who's in the industry. 0.88
00:09:06.100 It's not geared towards anyone.
00:09:07.040 It's just what I think.
00:09:08.580 Can I say something?
00:09:09.540 Yeah.
00:09:09.740 I really agree with what you said earlier.
00:09:12.000 I've been like listening the whole time.
00:09:13.440 I've just been kind of quiet, just trying to take in with all of you guys are saying.
00:09:16.800 But like, I agree with you.
00:09:17.640 I really think that we should just let people live how they want to live.
00:09:20.480 At the end of the day, it's not affecting you personally.
00:09:23.240 So I don't see how that's a big issue.
00:09:25.640 Like, just let people do as they please.
00:09:27.820 As long as it's not personally like getting in your life, then I don't see the issue with it.
00:09:33.460 Yeah.
00:09:34.100 And I just, I just want people to look in introspectively.
00:09:36.560 Become self-aware because a lot of people lack it.
00:09:38.320 Men and women.
00:09:38.800 People need to think from other people's point of view, not just yours.
00:09:41.160 People need to stop shoving it down other people's throats.
00:09:43.740 Like, their view is the only view that is allowed.
00:09:46.020 Yeah.
00:09:46.280 Because I don't agree with like Christian views. 0.74
00:09:48.020 I don't have to live my life that way. 0.99
00:09:49.820 But I don't give a fuck if you live your life that way, if you're not affecting me directly. 0.99
00:09:52.960 Like me. 0.98
00:09:53.460 The bottom line is that values are different from person to person.
00:09:56.380 And value is different from person to person.
00:09:58.640 String your mic.
00:09:59.020 So, what you may find a high-value man may not be what someone next to you finds a high-value man, right?
00:10:04.580 And same with value as a woman. 0.99
00:10:06.220 Like, you know, you're saying like, you know, if this woman is a lower-value woman because she slept with many people. 0.87
00:10:10.660 Well, I'm sure that there are many low-value women with poor integrity, lack of integrity, bad women, dishonest, who have slept with one man, right? 1.00
00:10:18.560 Or none.
00:10:19.220 So, it just comes down to the values that you have.
00:10:21.380 There is nuance, but men generally want the same things.
00:10:24.380 And women generally want the same things in general. 1.00
00:10:27.500 But there is always going to be nuance.
00:10:28.780 I guess men generally want a virgin.
00:10:30.720 I didn't know this.
00:10:32.400 And then we can go to the nuance of where that stems from.
00:10:34.780 But, you know, we're not actually going to get into that.
00:10:36.460 That's like, no.
00:10:37.640 I mean, but.
00:10:38.200 Paternity. 0.97
00:10:38.760 It stems from paternity because men historically had to make sure that the kids were theirs.
00:10:42.700 And historically, we didn't have DNA tests.
00:10:44.420 So, if a girl was promiscuous and sleeping around, basically like the man wouldn't know that if the kid was his. 1.00
00:10:50.160 So, it's not even necessarily something they can, like, biologically help.
00:10:54.520 Like, it's just how they feel about it.
00:10:56.160 And, like, guys might lie to you about this, but, like, guys feel this way.
00:11:00.200 That's great.
00:11:00.720 But guess what?
00:11:01.140 I don't care about those guys.
00:11:02.140 If those guys care about my body count, guess what?
00:11:03.620 That guy is not for me because my life path has not gone down that virgin life path.
00:11:07.820 Those guys were not meant for me.
00:11:09.020 So, at the end of the day, that opinion of what men want, I don't want those men.
00:11:12.480 And that's okay.
00:11:13.080 They're not wrong for feeling that way.
00:11:14.780 They don't want me.
00:11:15.540 I don't want them.
00:11:16.300 We're cool.
00:11:16.840 Why would we not argue about it?
00:11:17.640 You know what I mean?
00:11:17.940 That's exactly why I just. 0.99
00:11:18.700 Holy shit. 0.99
00:11:19.060 That's what I said to her. 0.99
00:11:20.020 Like, I'm not going to say that because of statistics, you are not going to have a good
00:11:24.460 relationship in the end.
00:11:25.680 I'm not going to say that.
00:11:25.940 You will have a good relationship.
00:11:26.980 You will have the relationship you want.
00:11:28.380 Yeah.
00:11:28.620 No, but, like, there's no way to say that.
00:11:30.640 I don't think it's dishonest to make that statement because there are rules.
00:11:34.060 There's always exceptions.
00:11:35.020 And not only that, but everybody is on a different path.
00:11:37.680 And I think, yeah, that's just what I think.
00:11:39.900 I agree.
00:11:40.740 I agree with you.
00:11:41.660 All right.
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