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00:00:00.920 To your point, are women better at some things than men?

00:00:04.280 Yes.

00:00:04.660 For example, if you and I were to box, I would probably win.

00:00:09.140 But I can almost guarantee you that you can suck cock better than I can. 1.00

00:00:15.880 What?

00:00:16.640 Do you not have a mouth?

00:00:17.840 It's the same mouth that you're going to use if you're going to suck cock, isn't it? 0.90

00:00:20.200 So who's the...

00:00:20.800 What?

00:00:21.520 It's the same mouth.

00:00:22.460 I'm not going to suck a dick.

00:00:23.000 I agree with the lady there.

00:00:26.240 Let's try to have a mature conversation.

00:00:27.360 Okay, no, no, no.

00:00:28.080 Let's try to have a mature conversation.

00:00:29.780 I'm being mature.

00:00:31.100 I have a bottom lip and I have a top lip and I have a tongue.

00:00:33.940 So do you.

00:00:34.720 So if you want to suck cock, you go ahead and do that. 0.63

00:00:37.100 I'm not going to compete with you in that department.

00:00:38.300 If you don't want to have a mature conversation, then...

00:00:39.980 I'm being mature.

00:00:40.800 I'd like to think we're all adults here.

00:00:42.920 We're all adults here.

00:00:43.560 We are.

00:00:43.960 We are.

00:00:44.160 I don't know how we went from domestic abuse to suck a dick.

00:00:47.960 That's just the silly.

00:00:49.360 Come on.

00:00:49.540 That's immature.

00:00:50.380 I thought we're having a...

00:00:51.180 It's immature.

00:00:51.600 I thought we're having a...

00:00:52.820 It's immature.

00:00:53.320 It's an adult conversation.

00:00:54.020 Can I just...

00:00:54.600 I'm an adult.

00:00:55.300 It's immature.

00:00:56.360 So we need each other.

00:00:57.260 Can I just say...

00:00:59.780 No, no, no, no.

00:01:00.420 I would say women need men and men do not need women outside of reproduction. 0.99

00:01:05.940 Oh, my God.

00:01:07.160 We need each other to reproduce.

00:01:08.300 We need each other.

00:01:09.340 So when I'm talking about...

00:01:10.940 This is...

00:01:11.320 Okay, I'm going to clarify what I mean.

00:01:12.960 Okay.

00:01:13.200 So I'm going to clarify.

00:01:14.260 When I'm talking about running society, so making society run, take out the reproduction, 1.00

00:01:21.780 like raising the kids part.

00:01:23.380 I don't think we need women in society for it to run. 1.00

00:01:27.680 Now, I'm going to tell you why.

00:01:29.780 Because when you look at all the jobs that men mainly do, it holds the infrastructure 0.99

00:01:36.780 of society.

00:01:37.600 For example, I'm quite...

00:01:39.300 I like to think of myself as young and successful, but I couldn't do what I do without this building

00:01:44.520 that was built by men, by this microphone that was built by men, by the plump, without

00:01:49.940 the plumbing that was built by men.

00:01:51.880 Again, without the electricity, because again, I do look up numbers, you know what I mean?

00:01:57.580 I do, I do.

00:01:58.400 I do.

00:01:59.400 And yes, I am.

00:02:00.400 I am a numbers, I am a numbers gal.

00:02:03.240 And if you look up the sex makeup in those industries, it's 90 plus percent men.

00:02:10.960 And what another observation I had is all the industries we complain about are mostly run

00:02:15.520 by women. 0.78

00:02:17.640 Now I'm not saying there are not exceptions of high IQ...

00:02:19.960 Wait, I'm going to go into them in a second.

00:02:22.800 I am not saying there are not exceptions of high IQ women that cannot make an impact, right? 0.98

00:02:28.960 But are they necessary?

00:02:30.960 Not really.

00:02:31.960 Wow.

00:02:32.960 The industries that...

00:02:33.960 Now I'm going to give you an example.

00:02:35.840 Let's talk about the industries that women run. 1.00

00:02:38.320 One I found out in the US, we have something called the DMV, driver's license.

00:02:42.480 It is known as being so slow and inefficient that the last movie about the DMV, they made

00:02:47.800 a sloth play the DMV person because they're so slow.

00:02:51.340 Education.

00:02:52.340 We're always whining about education and how bad the education system is and how they're

00:02:56.360 indoctrinating children.

00:02:57.900 Women run that industry. 1.00

00:02:59.460 Health care is another one.

00:03:00.980 I always hear people complain about.

00:03:04.120 And the other thing is the health care is still roughly 50% men and the highest jobs

00:03:09.800 in those industries are still men.

00:03:11.480 I'm going to echo what you're producing.

00:03:13.980 And fourth part, I'm sorry, one more part and then I will let you go.

00:03:19.880 When you look at successful female women, they do monetize beauty. 1.00

00:03:26.240 And so we can look at industries where women dominate. 1.00

00:03:28.300 It's really beauty, like it's social media, modeling and like selling makeup.

00:03:34.440 Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, they all monetize beauty. 1.00

00:03:37.120 All right.

00:03:38.120 Um, yes, that, that, that is my case as to why I do not think we think we need women to run the infrastructure of society. 1.00

00:03:45.740 I will let you go.

00:03:46.940 And then I'll let you and then I'll let you go.

00:03:48.620 Okay.

00:03:49.620 Go ahead.

00:03:50.620 I have a question for you.

00:03:51.760 Are you suggesting the health care system is not running well because there's a less woman taking highest responsibility or what was exactly what you said about this?

00:04:02.760 Well, I've noticed I didn't make a definitive statement about health care.

00:04:06.860 I'm not going to pretend I know your ins and outs of your health care.

00:04:10.120 I've just noticed a trend where the industries that women tend to dominate. 1.00

00:04:15.660 So one of those is nursing, right?

00:04:17.360 Although women, um, and women dominate physicians, but they don't, I dominate the like brain surgery, 1.00

00:04:23.540 like the highest form of medicine.

00:04:26.440 But, but, but I, I've noticed a trend that a lot of the industries that have a lot of women 1.00

00:04:32.260 in them are, there is a lot of complaints about efficiency.

00:04:36.220 For example, health care is one.

00:04:37.700 I hear a lot of complaints about health care, both here and in the U S I've heard, I hear

00:04:41.140 a lot of complaints.

00:04:42.140 I have to stop you here because complaint is exists.

00:04:46.200 I've worked more than 22 decades working health care system.

00:04:50.140 Yes.

00:04:51.140 I work in ministry of health in one of the very large countries in the world.

00:04:55.380 Okay.

00:04:56.380 So is a woman here. 0.99

00:04:58.100 Okay.

00:04:59.100 I have to advise every consultant, the ministry of health, okay, the researcher there, I work

00:05:04.320 in many university, raise a lots of students to be midwife and nurse and whatever, the same, 1.00

00:05:12.060 we had a lots of men, we've worked together, there are a lot of men in those industries.

00:05:16.980 What does it mean that because men working or women work, women's working in the house. 1.00

00:05:22.340 I just, I just example, that system doesn't work because of the portion of men and women. 0.99

00:05:27.100 You know, the health care system doesn't work because of the policy that politician makes. 1.00

00:05:33.320 And, you know, I've heard that politics.

00:05:35.320 Okay.

00:05:36.320 Okay.

00:05:37.320 So this goes back to my women voting. 1.00

00:05:38.320 Okay.

00:05:39.320 Cause, cause no, no, no, no, but let me, let me, let me, let me talk.

00:05:41.620 Yeah.

00:05:42.620 Yeah.

00:05:43.620 So, so I'll give you an example of this goes, who passes those policies?

00:05:46.740 If you talk to politicians, which I have, cause I wanted to know why the child support

00:05:50.360 system was so unfair to men.

00:05:51.580 So I was asking, why does this stuff like, why is it so biased?

00:05:55.340 And the reason is most, um, politicians are catering to women because they have to single 1.00

00:06:00.180 women are the largest voting block where, where men tend to stay the same. 0.97

00:06:05.240 So like, men are much more loyal, right?

00:06:08.800 Relationships too, but also in politics.

00:06:10.580 So when men, so when men vote, when men vote, this is true when men, when men, okay, you 0.62

00:06:20.520 don't, you don't have to, you don't have to believe it, but it is true.

00:06:23.020 Okay.

00:06:24.020 Men, men tend to stay with their voting block where women tend to switch more.

00:06:28.780 Women can be bought a lot more than men.

00:06:30.660 And you see this in marriages, you know, they, they give you guys free housing and women

00:06:34.460 are like, we're leaving the men.

00:06:36.180 Now this is true.

00:06:37.740 Look it up sixties in the U S they give women free housing and government handouts. 0.73

00:06:42.380 And then they start to divorce their husbands. 1.00

00:06:43.980 Are you actually comparing societies?

00:06:46.500 Systemic.

00:06:47.500 Oh, Lord.

00:06:48.500 And you know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, crazy, crazy, I'm very

00:06:55.500 realistic.

00:06:56.500 You seem like a statistician.

00:06:58.500 Yeah.

00:06:59.500 I'm giving you, I'm giving you, I, I just said, so, so, so one, I will, okay.

00:07:07.500 I am one of the, I didn't, I didn't bring up race.

00:07:10.620 Let's not let this race. 1.00

00:07:12.140 Can I say what you..

00:07:13.180 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:07:14.460 Lady, lady.

00:07:15.460 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:07:18.260 My, my point.

00:07:19.260 This is an opinion.

00:07:20.260 So this part is an opinion.

00:07:21.260 Right?

00:07:22.260 You can disagree.

00:07:23.260 I can accept that.

00:07:24.260 Can I say, I think what you have just said is in when you put it in practice, it almost

00:07:29.780 it makes it easier for a woman to leave. 1.00

00:07:33.460 don't work at the marriage you don't you don't want to you don't want to fix

00:07:36.160 things you don't want to talk about it you don't want to communicate it's

00:07:38.740 easier to leave. Men and women leave but one's paid to. Obviously women are going to do it more. 1.00

00:07:47.080 I'm work oriented. My woman has other things you know. Oh wait I need to finish one part I'm sorry I'm

00:07:55.900 gonna let you go I'm sorry one more part and I will I will but but but the other

00:08:00.460 thing is even in the industries that women work a lot in men can easily learn 1.00

00:08:04.900 those industries men can easily become nurses men can easily become teachers

00:08:09.340 so if all the women left the work what are you talking okay okay build the

00:08:14.920 building. So if you think men learn easy things are there can we please just 0.83

00:08:25.420 remember the rules it's not just about powers about each other as well let's

00:08:28.900 stop over talking each other. I know it's hard but we need to try and should okay

00:08:33.040 should should women be in charge it just really depends on the women if she's 1.00

00:08:39.100 great at soccer let's let her coach a girls team but would I let this lady in 1.00

00:08:45.820 the pink manage a beauty salon of course not it just depends on the position so you 0.99

00:08:56.500 don't come again no no no sorry can you can you emphasize on what you're saying

00:08:59.740 I don't get that the point that you made about her running a beauty yeah I don't

00:09:04.420 get that it depends on the position it depends on should women I mean okay I don't 0.98

00:09:11.480 know if this sounds sexist or not to the to the viewers but isn't this sort of show

00:09:17.980 why women get the bad rap that they get exactly no no no no I feel like this show this show I'm

00:09:25.440 sorry it almost caters for misogynist viewers literally because I agree with Pearl to a certain

00:09:32.160 extent my problem where me and Paul kind of like I don't agree misogynist that's a tough accusation

00:09:38.740 can I can I can I can wait no no no no I gotta address the first part I mean that's my opinion

00:09:43.660 what is that what is the okay what is the definition of misogyny is what exactly what

00:09:48.620 you're saying what is it what is it no what is it what is I don't have to give your definition

00:09:52.220 okay thank you thank you what is the definition of misogyny I just if I'm gonna call someone

00:10:11.860 something I know okay okay okay right the fact that you just basically everything that you base

00:10:16.960 and all the information that you base it caters literally for men's egos okay right you basically

00:10:24.080 eradicate everything any sort of words about women okay just answer the question don't tell me it's not 0.88

00:10:31.420 I don't have to tell you the I don't have to define you know you have an agenda there is an agenda

00:10:37.700 there's a narrative being played in society in society there are women who are toxic and there 1.00

00:10:43.160 are women that play a field that basically push this agenda it's like basically toxic masculinity 1.00

00:10:49.400 so it's the same thing as toxic femininity it's just that you're basically the opposite

00:10:54.020 let me explain something the reason why we're asking you to to define misogyny is not because

00:11:00.620 we're trying to pick on you there's a reason we've done this show if you can look at the the

00:11:04.840 but that's just my opinion though just one second you just keep cutting me off we've done this show

00:11:08.920 this is episode 137 right yeah and every single time a woman this think about it how many women 1.00

00:11:16.000 are here so we've done 137 episodes that should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women 1.00

00:11:21.580 on this in this room so every time a woman has used the word misogyny she has not known the meaning

00:11:26.900 of the word so I want to I just told you no you haven't told us the meaning what's the meaning

00:11:30.720 oh my lord oh my lord you basically I just basically told you your show is almost like

00:11:36.400 the opposite to feminism no what you basically what is the definition of the word it's sexist

00:11:43.400 it's basically sexist it's a sex you're basically what is sex those are all adjectives these are all

00:11:48.400 adjectives listen I'm not going because I feel I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of

00:11:54.040 do you know exactly what I mean you push an agenda with a specific type of women and you generalize 1.00

00:12:00.020 all women in that sense you take away literally the society we call it the um oh my gosh the 1.00

00:12:07.240 systemic the systemic oppression of women you disregard the systemic oppression of women you do

00:12:13.760 are you going to answer the question I'm just I'm trying to but you don't want to hear it

00:12:17.720 what is okay oh my god I have my opinion you have your opinion and that's all but here's being

00:12:22.280 can I ask you can I am I don't have anything can you please can you kindly tell us the definition

00:12:26.880 I already told you so no you haven't you really haven't okay then I didn't okay then please

00:12:32.300 kindly don't use the word again I mean that's my opinion but we move but what what what is untrue

00:12:38.020 and this is the thing I'll tell you why like because a lot of you know people think that I'm I'm super

00:12:43.160 hard on women right um and my my thing is historically women are just worse than we've 1.00

00:12:49.100 ever been from a historical point of view it's unprecedented you know what percent of women are 1.00

00:12:53.760 virgins on their wedding days and some what this isn't misogynistic I'm about to give you stats

00:13:01.200 I'm about to give you guys numbers and stats so so so I mean you could google them pretty easy it's

00:13:07.080 pretty simple it's pretty you could google one one is one is I mean this is what the left will try

00:13:12.240 to do to like discredit you is they they just question every stat but it's you can google them

00:13:18.320 pretty easy okay so what percent of women what percent of women do you think are virgins on their 1.00

00:13:23.160 wedding day okay so if a woman was to be a virgin then the man would have to be a virgin and the man cannot be a virgin 0.79

00:13:30.240 right now okay we're gonna we're gonna go we're gonna go into this later but but but I want to say

00:13:35.680 what percent of women are virgins on their wedding in the west in the west I can we can we answer the

00:13:43.300 question probably about 25 25 okay who who thinks it's higher than all right all right it's five

00:13:54.400 percent what percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life 90 percent

00:14:01.240 but what are the reasons why women are not on birth control I've been on birth control before but it 1.00

00:14:05.740 wasn't because of sex okay okay okay fine that which is all good and well until we start looking at the

00:14:09.680 body count statistics where the where after a woman has had five partners her chance of a happy marriage

00:14:16.900 drops to 20 percent okay so and the average woman has slept with more than five men okay which

00:14:23.080 remember historically a hundred years ago 85 percent of women were virgins on their wedding nights

00:14:28.360 now what else does the men men get out of marriage they get loyalty but not today because half of

00:14:34.180 women leave then then we start to go into weight where women are overweight the average woman is five 1.00

00:14:40.740 three 170 pounds these are just numbers and yet we scream misogyny at me but these are these are just

00:14:47.540 numbers now I'm and it's like I can't say numbers without being called sexist when they are true

00:14:55.060 can I do something I'm gonna let you go I'm gonna let you go firstly I'm family therapist and I make

00:15:00.220 big research and I have a lot of numbers 80 percent of women decide to divorce you're totally right 1.00

00:15:05.440 and you're totally right that women choose but women choose from men who choose her and have sorry

00:15:11.560 that she I didn't I didn't women choose but first for example if you are one room and you have fun five 0.99

00:15:16.780 men from this five men you choose men who choose you one man make you signal I like you I smile you you go and

00:15:24.640 you choose from men who choose you if men don't like you if not has sex attraction you cannot do

00:15:30.580 anything first men need to go up and say I want this woman and then you choose from men who choose 0.69

00:15:37.300 you first second you're totally right we are women I make one my book about entrepreneur and it's

00:15:43.900 absolutely in numbers we are women we are not so smart like men we cannot make many things which make men

00:15:50.440 never ever because our brain it's different it's different we cannot we cannot run so fast we cannot

00:15:56.800 make some big numbers you're totally right that the business which make we are women it's psychologists

00:16:02.800 coaching beauty it's cannot be male men and if a woman for good she is a woman she become to be sick 1.00

00:16:09.460 every day I work with women who cannot be pregnancy today is the biggest problem in our society in UK and what 1.00

00:16:16.440 they are do they become to be men she have a lot of cortisol she has opinion about it it messes up 0.99

00:16:21.960 your she want to be a feminist and after she came to me like family therapist I want to be pregnancy what 1.00

00:16:27.060 you do 40 years you hate men you hate your father you try to show that you have big balls and after 0.61

00:16:33.840 say I want to be a woman what you did before you need first to be a woman and woman it's totally different 0.97

00:16:40.200 quality quality quality which you need to survive as a man you need to be strong and we know usually

00:16:45.840 what woman today tell to me Natalia I want to find the pain which very kind very rich very good looking

00:16:52.020 are very sexy love me like a crazy he's very crazy to accept my child he want to take care about him

00:16:59.040 about my child he wants to marry me and from some reason he's single in 40 years old and of course she

00:17:06.480 couldn't find it after she's very disappointed and you are right that woman choose but probably 0.90

00:17:12.180 that woman have too high acceptation she want to be a princess she doesn't want to change herself to 1.00

00:17:18.220 go to fitness to take care about how she looks how she speak with men how she listen man because a 0.99

00:17:24.220 woman must listen not to speak you need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen and to speak exactly 0.97

00:17:30.960 admiring admire your man admire to him admire him and about single and separation has big difference

00:17:37.960 you can be separate with your partner but he continued to help you he continued to help your

00:17:43.560 child he continued to take care about you he continued to be your best friend and to call you

00:17:47.940 every time when you need him if you make normal relationship you must do divorce only when you

00:17:53.760 have financial independence loyal independence your emotional stability you love yourself you are

00:18:00.240 love your partner but you can develop because you say i want something else and you continue to say

00:18:05.600 your child your father is the best man in the world and your child if he can be divorced but he can

00:18:12.000 love both of parents and not have psychological trauma you can be in marriage to be in toxic relationship

00:18:18.960 and you can destroy your child a woman must to love it's the most important mission of women which 1.00

00:18:25.520 forgot not compare with men you are not a man you are a woman i agree with that can i follow on from

00:18:31.200 what you're saying i i agree with a lot of what you're saying in the terms of when women and men were

00:18:36.960 physiologically different mentally we're different our brains are wired differently i think men crave and

00:18:42.800 demand respect even in marriage if i don't respect my husband i can't expect my husband to love me in the

00:18:48.480 way that i want to be loved if i don't give him the respect there's a book i read i can't remember

00:18:51.760 the artist the artist the author's name it's literally called respect and love and if you don't

00:18:57.040 give each to the other what the other needs and what the other wants it becomes a crazy cycle

00:19:01.680 so if i don't give my husband the respect he's not going to love me in the way that i want

00:19:05.120 and he will give me love but ultimately he wants me to respect him and not a respect that i should be

00:19:10.000 submissive and oh yes sir you know kneeling on the floor every time he says jump and i say oh how high no

00:19:14.720 he needs to give me a level of respect too can i say it will only work if you love and respect

00:19:20.000 yourself 100 can i just carry on from what you mentioned when i um when i started to live with

00:19:27.280 my husband he said to me that you need to you need to remember that you have a man because i'll do

00:19:34.480 things that carry all the bags independent independently by myself to the door and he'd say

00:19:38.640 why didn't you call me so it's just learning little things that i had to do to be more feminine and

00:19:43.440 understand that i am in a marriage and there are roles i know people don't like to um the

00:19:48.880 terminology of gender roles but sometimes they are in in a marriage or in a relationship where

00:19:53.920 men need to feel like they are men they need to feel like their woman needs them to some extent and 0.77

00:19:59.680 that's what i had to learn i had to learn i had to relearn how to be feminine because i was single for 0.95

00:20:04.640 so long i kind of forgot doing it by yourself yeah i kind of forgot how to depend on a man i had that

00:20:11.120 with my father oh daddy please daddy please oh yes yes yes and he'd give me whatever i wanted but

00:20:15.840 that's also the sense of him being needed my father knew that i needed him and he provided

00:20:21.520 so it was the same in my marriage i need you and he provided but when i don't let him know that he's

00:20:27.520 needed like me getting up on a chair and trying to change a light bulb myself i know how to do it

00:20:32.480 but baby can you come and please you know i don't really want can you yeah of course he'll come and do it

00:20:37.280 so it's those little things that also add to um to making your man know that you do need him you

00:20:43.200 might not well you might not need him but you allow him to feel needed even though you can do it and

00:20:48.240 that's kind of the feminine femininity and masculinity in the relationship the the yin and the yang that 1.00

00:20:53.680 goes together collectively pearl i would like to just stand up for your show um i think they're trying

00:21:00.960 to essentially say that this show is promoting misogyny when literally all you did was give all

00:21:07.360 of these ladies a platform to speak on it's it's not pearl's fault that there's these ladies speak the

00:21:15.200 way they do for example for example the lady over here is screaming misogyny yet she doesn't even know 1.00

00:21:22.320 the definition you know exactly what i meant but carry on yeah it's just that whether i don't have

00:21:30.560 to take a dictionary if you know i don't have to say to you in a dictionary english word by word you

00:21:35.360 know exactly what i mean but the reason why you know i just said to you i basically reply to you

00:21:40.080 is when you take away where you basically don't acknowledge you don't acknowledge a woman um women

00:21:46.880 going through the systemic it's almost it's very that's one male side that is not the meaning of

00:21:51.840 it's you it's a form it's a form of oppression it's a form of oppression towards women yes it is

00:21:56.720 misogyny has a specific definition but you see this is the problem can we have it i feel like no

00:22:02.000 listen listen what is it then you tell me educate me i could actually tell you

00:22:12.080 i need to reiterate the rules because if you keep doing this you'll be kicked off the show

00:22:15.920 unfortunately but the reality is whether you like it or not language exists for a reason

00:22:22.480 women keep talking about oh communication this communication that women are better at 1.00

00:22:26.160 communicating than men yet in the same breath you would say a word and misuse it and then still

00:22:33.920 argue that what you think it means is the definition when it clearly isn't okay the reason why i can

00:22:39.360 confidently say this is because like i said before this is episode 137 we've done this show

00:22:44.880 137 times and every single time a woman has used the word misogyny we have come to find out that

00:22:50.560 she doesn't know the meaning so is it wrong for me to be able to now make an analytical logical

00:22:56.320 conclusion that you probably don't know the meaning as well that's your opinion it's not an opinion

00:23:00.800 that's your opinion this is how science is is propagated i literally gave you examples of it but you

00:23:06.960 no i asked for an example i asked for a definition if i had to ask you what's the definition of a woman 1.00

00:23:12.400 i'm sure you probably don't even know that as well

00:23:16.800 i think it's too much attacking to this lady 100 but it's not a chance that they want to push

00:23:21.360 do you know the crazy thing is you've talked more than anyone like you've talked the most of this

00:23:35.520 show out of all the guests are you referring to you i'm not even saying anything no you were just

00:23:40.480 talking the whole show and you'll say it to me pushing an agenda i can't make words come out of

00:23:44.800 your mouth and the crazy thing is i'm just so tired of this narrative that women are oppressed in any way 0.98

00:23:50.560 women are not women are more likely to get custody of their of their children women are more likely to 1.00

00:23:57.440 get child support alimony men are more likely to commit suicide men do the hardest jobs men are the

00:24:03.280 majority of workplace deaths and yet women will live in a society that men built and cry misogyny and

00:24:09.840 oppression um i have a question from this lady here um just correct me if in case i understood wrong

00:24:20.720 you said that men are more clever than women have i heard it correctly exactly okay how you can 1.00

00:24:30.400 um how we can prove that they have very big difficult medical uh things when when take this two

00:24:39.840 part of brain and show the logical way for example if men play chess he can play 10 steps they make the same

00:24:48.240 experiment with women can be maximum five her brain not have deepest level which have men it's approved 1.00

00:24:55.200 it's approved if you're interested in finding it in google it means iq it's man iq it's man how deep he

00:25:02.240 can make if you take all statistic women we cook every day but chefs it's always men women can be nurse 1.00

00:25:09.840 but the biggest men who make operation it's men women can help and manage things but owner of business 1.00

00:25:16.400 it's men if you open forbes because i'm a big research in my life and i have academic to high

00:25:21.920 education of psychology clinical medical psychology and i work in hospital and i have experience about

00:25:28.320 this and yes i can say this absolutely numbers if you're not new you can check on google yes man clever

00:25:34.880 much stronger also try to check in the tennis man can faster because they have uh in all man he's bigger we

00:25:42.240 can not this lady in the red is you know the lady in the red is actually nailing it i mean and it's 0.98

00:25:48.080 and it's a shame that women like the one in the red get you know suppressed cancelled uh because she's 1.00

00:25:55.920 actually saying common sense you know i work just so you know i work with fashion models in new york

00:26:00.400 for about 10 years i was nightclub promoter and i pearl and i were talking about this where the the eastern

00:26:07.760 european models and comparing them to the brazilian model and the eastern european ones that were way

00:26:15.200 more uh traditional submissive and they respected the man you know they didn't give a maybe how he

00:26:22.560 looked brazilian ones might have loved it they had fun playboy but the but the eastern european women 1.00

00:26:28.240 they had a standard of expectations of what they wanted from a man they wanted a strong man they placed

00:26:33.360 that higher as a life partner but then they were willing to give that in return the problem is when

00:26:39.120 women want all x y and z but their net when it suits them but then they also want x y and z when it you 1.00

00:26:47.840 know they want their cake and they eat it too man it just it can't work that way it doesn't work that way

00:26:52.720 and i think you i think you i think you i think i think i i don't have very much discussion over whatever

00:26:59.440 you said is i'm completely disagree when you said men are more clever than women because i'm in

00:27:08.000 clinical field as well okay so i'm working in hospital as well and iq we have seven types actually

00:27:15.840 seven types of iq that um you know have recognized we have a sport iq have a math iq have either you can't

00:27:24.480 say generalize that a woman are less um clever how many discovery has a women how many discovery 1.00

00:27:32.720 how many discovery has a women okay do you want how many theory have how many philosophy has a women 1.00

00:27:39.280 how many uh artists has a women no open google no this is billionaires let's talk about the billionaires

00:27:45.760 the richest women billionaires divorce that's the funniest thing the most successful women got their 1.00

00:27:51.840 money why divorce why divorce has a relationship with the iq um no no but i'm saying i'm but i'm

00:27:59.280 asking about outcomes so the women with the most money how did they get there was it was it they're 1.00

00:28:05.040 being so smart and competent they are let's let's let's let's think about i'm thinking about our female 1.00

00:28:11.360 billionaires one has a sex tape one sells makeup and the others got their money through divorce i'm an ex-model

00:28:18.320 model and i work in healthcare what and i'm ex-model you're you're a model i'm a model okay and you

00:28:25.440 work in healthcare and i work in healthcare yes okay great and i have a black belt in karate and i bet

00:28:32.480 i bet you he could still say i need you say that women are not clever no no she said she said the men are 0.61

00:28:39.760 more clever okay no i'm completely disagree we can't say who is where we have to say i think we can

00:28:46.640 look at the outcome so we can see who is not outcome is which category you know the men can't be better

00:28:54.400 runner if the if they run with women because they have testosterone they have a bigger muscles okay not

00:29:02.240 because they are more clever they active you know the sport iq then higher but you can compare this

00:29:09.120 lady with this lady okay these men with comparing the men you said once one time you said men are

00:29:15.600 different with women the brain is different the size is different at home and then you compare the 0.99

00:29:20.800 iq together it's absolutely wrong exactly it's absolutely i'm i'm looking i'm looking at outcomes i'm

00:29:27.760 looking at i'm looking at what well well i don't not beautiful i'm not talking about beauty no you

00:29:32.640 said beauty i said we monetize i i said okay let's talk about value added to society what makes society

00:29:39.360 run okay no no no wait wait wait wait wait let me let me let me i need you ah ah remember remember

00:29:46.240 muter mike again all right this is your final warning one more time you're gonna go okay so so i don't

00:29:52.080 think of me i'm sorry okay thank you all right thank you all right all right wait what did you

00:29:58.240 say respect your guess okay actually you can go now thank you goodbye yeah goodbye um security will

00:30:04.320 escort you out wow yeah that's pretty yeah i've warned you like three times to stop over talking me we

00:30:13.120 read you the rules at the beginning of the show it's all right go ahead everyone talking with each other

00:30:16.960 no all right and now you're going to keep talking back goodbye goodbye go please wow please exclude

00:30:24.480 my conversation no it's live so i'll see you oh my god it's very impolite of you you didn't invite me

00:30:35.440 i didn't want to yeah but i'm calling the people who invite me i work since eight morning

00:30:41.680 okay okay okay all right okay all right okay i mean if you knew all that you could have just

00:30:54.080 followed the rules though because she warned you over and over again to stop over talking and even

00:31:00.720 while you were doing it just now she still told you okay stop stop stop but you just didn't y'all

00:31:04.880 y'all see how y'all see how y'all see how it's like y'all see how her emotions just took over

00:31:10.480 though right it's just a clear example of how everything she was saying was bullshit

00:31:20.080 all right it's a clear that's a clear example can you take her out please thank you

00:31:23.760 no no she doesn't no go take out take your show no no no no no no no please leave please leave

00:31:38.560 can you just leave leave leave leave leave this is this is the problem it's not worth it like

00:31:47.200 no take her out take her out can i just say i don't take her get out just get out 1.00

00:31:52.160 i don't think they don't worry about it it's just a it's just a show it's just a show it's just a

00:31:58.960 show just it's just a show i respect you but it i just just sit down and have a good show i don't

00:32:05.200 want you to leave no no good one good right now she's go just please be respectful that's all she's

00:32:11.200 saying okay yeah just watch out bro watch watch out bro she's a black belt in karate

00:32:22.160 oh gosh it's so crazy she's a black belt in karate that's saying watch out

00:32:29.360 yes goodbye goodbye goodbye goodbye

00:32:42.560 i don't remember what we're talking about um sorry can i just go to her

00:32:48.160 no i don't remember what we're talking about um sorry can i just go to her

00:33:04.240 yeah okay go ahead can i speak so you said you're a psychologist

00:33:18.080 yeah yeah so you think why do you think why do you think why do you think men are more clever

00:33:23.840 what's the psychology behind that you know it's about to understand who you are and which energy

00:33:29.520 you have more female or male of course exists now a lot of male women where are you where are you from

00:33:34.640 where's that um from oh i have a long story i born in russia after i lived many many years in bulgara

00:33:40.080 i didn't know it had to have been eastern i was like it has to be east yeah

00:33:44.880 um i have experience in marriage 19 years and i know all about relationship and we're sure in something

00:33:52.960 men they're very strong and we need to respect them and something women they're very strong

00:33:57.920 and women we are most strong and emotional you are right that men cannot live without us

00:34:02.960 and we also give inspiration of men and we have very big role for men and the woman just need to

00:34:08.480 understand what is her role well my my issue is i'm just talking about the infrastructure of society

00:34:14.560 so it's like if we're not doing if we're not making the most money if we're not doing the most

00:34:18.320 dangerous jobs how can we say we have an equal impact as men when it comes to running society 0.92

00:34:23.120 it's the biggest problem the problem if men make less money than women very often it disappears 1.00

00:34:30.880 sexual attraction because automatically we are women not because we want money money from it of course

00:34:36.800 it's great i like to receive gifts help of men but if men all time have less money than women

00:34:44.400 he become to be her son she was he become to be her son and she doesn't respect him we are women we must 0.60

00:34:51.760 respect men who are stronger and bigger than us otherwise we can very like him you can know my son

00:34:58.160 you my cute boy and we become to be like mother and son and men inside us he also hate if we are

00:35:05.280 more stronger because cannot feel correct and not feel good with us and it's um before many years when

00:35:11.440 we live in cave men go he take one big meal and say her wife it's your meal eat it and she cooked and

00:35:18.160 she eat it now a woman say you know a meal um a meal which you gave me it's not enough i can make it 1.00

00:35:23.440 faster and bigger yeah and the woman says stay home in cave take care about child i go to make a 0.78

00:35:28.800 hunting i will take a man i will take a meal and now i'm uh you have to switch your headphones just so

00:35:35.120 you know so you take off the headphones you have put those on just because otherwise it's gonna yeah there

00:35:39.440 you go by the way i'm curious no by the way while you were gone did you uh look up the definition of

00:35:45.200 misogyny no why what do you want me to look while we're still going on this on this thingy

00:35:51.280 me saying that if i feel if i if i feel i don't understand what the issue is it's my

00:35:56.400 it's an opinion that i have that i feel there's a lot of things that go again like things that you're

00:36:00.560 saying is against women but that's like me calling but that's that's like me calling someone 1.00

00:36:04.880 fatter not knowing what that is talking to the mic just if you're doing things that are against

00:36:12.480 women or you're saying what is against women like i just want to know what is against women 1.00

00:36:19.360 what do you mean what is against like because you say i say things that are against women what is

00:36:22.960 against women can i say something oh i think i'm not i'm not gonna speak for you i can't even hello

00:36:28.160 i can't be i'm not gonna speak for you it's when you're like not racism but when you're not like

00:36:33.200 sexism prejudice towards certain that's how i know okay hold on some of the things that you say

00:36:39.280 and it's okay for me to feel that way it's not i don't know this is this is my feeling this is my

00:36:43.680 opinion from this is just off the back of what you're saying there's some statements that people

00:36:48.400 can make and as yourself as a host that you've made it puts the women in a negative light oh we know 1.00

00:36:53.520 what do women's are they true what it might not be true that's your opinion that's the same you're 1.00

00:36:58.400 saying facts and all of that we can go and google we're not we're not allowed to be enough and that's

00:37:01.360 part of the rules right i'm sure if i could go on google right now and bring us i can break us on

00:37:04.800 facts same way this lady here natalia she's researched and done some studies she's got her her area of 0.98

00:37:10.400 expertise there's so many women as well that have contributed loads of you know perfect things it's not 1.00

00:37:15.120 perfect thing loads of great things to society look at when you know england and whatever went to war

00:37:19.840 and all the soldiers went who were called to come and help rebuild who was defending the society

00:37:25.520 though who they they couldn't even work in the factories if the men were defending the society

00:37:30.480 okay but that's it shows that how they were part of the infrastructure they were they were able to

00:37:35.360 help rebuild they were so it showed that they had a purpose they were they were able to help but

00:37:39.680 they still didn't do the thing that was the most necessary which was defending society if the men were 0.91

00:37:46.480 not women not in the army now women go out to war now do you know what's crazy do you know what's

00:37:51.280 crazy one um women can't become navy seals or whatever the highest excellent because they can't 1.00

00:37:56.720 physically do it and they're lowering standards of the military because they want to include women 0.99

00:38:01.760 which i think is a bad thing i think they keep telling us we're equal to men and we are not i think

00:38:06.800 they keep saying that we can do the same things that men can do and we cannot i don't think that makes

00:38:11.040 me mean or misogynistic i think it's true there are certain things that physically women cannot do 0.69

00:38:18.160 that only men can do to a certain degree you have categories the same way in olympics you're not

00:38:23.040 going to put a woman to compete against a man because physiologically you can't compete if there's 1.00

00:38:27.440 a weightlifting championship women want to women want to excel the same way men do right okay so if 1.00

00:38:34.480 you enter a man's world then compete be a man and if you can't do it but they don't do that though the

00:38:39.440 thing is they're going to have categories women are going to compete against women men are going

00:38:43.600 to compete against men when there's a race um natalia you were talking about women can't run as fast as 1.00

00:38:48.320 men fine we can accept that so you race you stay in your lane you stay in your category correct you 0.52

00:38:53.520 race against those and women can be fast but my whole point is women do not do the hardest jobs in 0.88

00:39:00.800 society some women do i'm sorry they really do very much an exception there are brain surgeons who are 1.00

00:39:05.760 women there are scientists who are women it is the exception it is not the rule okay inventions

00:39:11.440 80 of things that are invented were by men and the rest of the 20 percent the 20 percent the remaining

00:39:17.680 20 percent are women and i just want to know what is women what is holding us back 0.92

00:39:24.320 it was actually men who invented these things because if i came up with an invention and i said babes

00:39:28.800 um progress this for me please i'm sure he would be happy i just want to understand i just want to

00:39:33.360 understand your premise so your premise right now is that all the inventors it was their wives

00:39:38.400 actually but it's so crazy because when a woman accomplishes something we never say oh it was 1.00

00:39:45.440 probably the man behind her in general and i might do that but but in general in society right but vice 0.85

00:39:51.920 versa it's like we we say all of the things that that men have accomplished we attribute them to women

00:39:57.760 in some way probably because historically men were the leaders in society women are told to be quiet

00:40:04.960 as you mentioned previously we listen more so even if we do even if we did invent something it would

00:40:11.920 be the men to carry it forward because they are one of the first one of the earliest millionaires in

00:40:16.880 in the u.s one of like the very first millionaire was was a woman and she i don't remember what she 1.00

00:40:21.520 invented but she invented yeah yeah and so and this is like another this is uh i can't i can't remember

00:40:26.800 but i i know she was the first female millionaire and this is like um this this is a narrative that

00:40:31.680 woman couldn't have high step have couldn't be influential in society that women couldn't talk 1.00

00:40:36.640 it's just incorrect there are right like cleopatra jonah bark there have always been high iq women 1.00

00:40:42.080 that have been very impactful in society there have been um queens and rulers that men have traveled

00:40:47.520 thousands of miles to get wisdom from this idea that women just could not get ahead is not true

00:40:55.040 women can get ahead and if we're going to go on facts obviously i can't bring up my facts now but

00:41:00.560 we know that that women have been silenced in in many situations if you look at different cultures

00:41:05.920 different contexts you know women don't have the same voice or not given the same voice or the opinion

00:41:11.280 to speak up as men or even if they do speak they're not heard because women your place is to stay on the 1.00

00:41:15.680 side you know be submissive no but i'm saying that's not true it is true in certain contexts

00:41:22.240 two things can be true at once that's the thing we have to look at things in a wider perspective

00:41:27.040 in a big perspective just because it's not true here it doesn't mean it's not true

00:41:32.960 whenever i like refute a point it's like you guys are like jumping through hoops to try to make us the

00:41:37.040 victim i'm not making it's like women women are not victims let me let me jump on that point

00:41:43.600 because you mentioned nigeria yeah back in the day if you were to trace it back into history because

00:41:47.840 she's very right women have always nothing society has never said and it has never been in law where 0.99

00:41:53.680 women can't do anything yes the reality is most people throughout history couldn't do anything it was 1.00

00:41:59.680 usually the elites and the rich people that could do stuff and the women in those realms could do whatever 1.00

00:42:04.800 they wanted to do yes so but were they recognized of course they were why why do we know cleopatra's

00:42:11.200 name today why do we know why do we why do we know joan of arc's name why do we know all the female

00:42:16.960 inventors madam cj walker yes why do we know um this woman that helped to release slaves in america um 0.69

00:42:24.880 because if you're excellent you will be celebrated the reason why most people are not women were 0.99

00:42:31.440 oppressed is because most people were seen as less than all throughout history at the time yeah so

00:42:35.840 it wasn't women that were being oppressed women were being oppressed in a certain way and men were

00:42:39.600 being oppressed in a different oh i agree with that i agree with that i know we're not going to make

00:42:44.480 it about race but even when we look at race that was so many people have been kept oppressed because of

00:42:49.360 race and it's the same way you can race is a category so it's a social construct you know women yes we 0.89

00:42:54.720 are physiological you can mark us by the way we are that's women but men don't necessarily look at your body 0.91

00:43:00.800 and see okay she's women they will look at you you know you you're talking about all society society 1.00

00:43:04.880 as well how society thinks that's how they look at you as a woman they will they will put you know 1.00

00:43:10.080 perspectives and mindsets on you because you're a woman no i think you have a privilege as a woman

00:43:14.320 i think it's easier i think you're more of your advantage in certain areas no i think as a young

00:43:23.760 woman you have so much privilege in society more than men yes yes you absolutely i agree with that

00:43:32.160 because i have six brothers and when i first come to england there are certain comments my brothers

00:43:38.320 made and they were more like but it's easier for you being a woman and i do agree with that there are

00:43:44.320 certain things especially culture it's much harder for them you know as a man to go out and start like

00:43:51.920 for us we can get like you said we get attracted by so many men they want to take care of us it's

00:43:59.120 much easier for us i totally agree and there's so many women's shelters that help us yeah there are

00:44:04.080 no men's shelters yeah it's true there are women what are you talking about women's shelters for what

00:44:09.040 the abuse yes there's what about what about male victims of abuse it's true because it's highly 0.98

00:44:15.680 disproportionate no it's actually so so the majority the majority no no no because one i worked the

00:44:20.800 majority the majority the majority the majority of abuse is mutual meaning they are both hitting each

00:44:27.360 other yes and so and so and you know what's crazy was when they looked into it they found that one

00:44:33.760 sided abuse was more likely the woman to hit the man than the man hitting the woman and the other

00:44:38.400 part we don't talk about is all the false abuse allegations especially in this country because there

00:44:43.200 are incentives for women to falsely accuse men of abuse because what they do is they expand the

00:44:47.680 definition of abuse into goddamn anything they have financial abuse emotional abuse they have 0.79

00:44:53.280 expanded it and what what they do is there is incent financial incentives for women to falsely accuse 1.00

00:44:59.440 men because they get free lawyers in child support or in um family court i'm not taking that away for you

00:45:06.400 from you but the percentage is extremely small so you're no it's actually it's actually no so it's actually

00:45:12.800 it's a roughly i can't remember exactly but it's around roughly 10 to 20 percent of women that file 0.66

00:45:17.920 abuse in family court actually go to criminal court and in family court it's based on a balance of

00:45:21.920 probabilities that's actually not based off of evidence and it's not it's not based on um guilty

00:45:26.720 it's basically guilty until proven innocent or vice versa and i have a lot of experience interviewing

00:45:31.520 these guys in family court organizations out there that do support male men can be victims of domestic

00:45:37.280 abuse however however it's because of society how we've used how we view men men are meant to be

00:45:42.880 strong you're meant to be a leader oh my god no way can a man come forward and say my wife abuses me 0.90

00:45:47.120 yes you're right there's so many categories when it comes to domestic abuse not just physical

00:45:50.480 it can be financial it can be mental it can be so many other you know aspects so a man will feel shame

00:45:56.960 a man will feel shame you know god forbid he's to come out and say oh my god this is what i mean

00:46:00.800 there are organizations that do support them i don't know about shelters real quick yes to your point

00:46:06.800 are women better at some things than men yes for example for example if you and i were to box

00:46:12.960 i would probably win but i can almost guarantee you that you can suck cock better than i can 1.00

00:46:21.120 what do you not have a mouth it's the same mouth that you're going to use if you're going to suck 0.97

00:46:24.640 cock isn't it so who's it well it's the same mouth

00:46:27.680 i'm being mature i have a bottom lip and i have a top lip and i have a tongue so do you

00:46:39.760 so if you want to suck cock you go ahead and do that i'm not going to compete with you 1.00

00:46:43.120 in that department if you don't want to have a mature conversation i'm being mature i'd like

00:46:46.480 to think we're all adults we are we are i don't know how we went from i don't know how we went from

00:46:51.200 domestic abuse that's just that's just the silly come on that's immature i thought we're having a

00:46:56.080 it's immature i thought we're having an adult country can i just say i'm an adult but it's immature

00:47:01.280 i'm really sorry i'm not

JustPearlyThings - July 03, 2023

This Statement Made Her Speechless

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