This Statement Made Her Speechless
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and why we don't need women to run society. Are women better at some things than men at others? Is society better off with women running society or without them?
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To your point, are women better at some things than men?
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For example, if you and I were to box, I would probably win.
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But I can almost guarantee you that you can suck cock better than I can.
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It's the same mouth that you're going to use if you're going to suck cock, isn't it?
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I have a bottom lip and I have a top lip and I have a tongue.
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So if you want to suck cock, you go ahead and do that.
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I'm not going to compete with you in that department.
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If you don't want to have a mature conversation, then...
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I don't know how we went from domestic abuse to suck a dick.
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I would say women need men and men do not need women outside of reproduction.
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When I'm talking about running society, so making society run, take out the reproduction,
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I don't think we need women in society for it to run.
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Because when you look at all the jobs that men mainly do, it holds the infrastructure
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I like to think of myself as young and successful, but I couldn't do what I do without this building
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that was built by men, by this microphone that was built by men, by the plump, without
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Again, without the electricity, because again, I do look up numbers, you know what I mean?
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And if you look up the sex makeup in those industries, it's 90 plus percent men.
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And what another observation I had is all the industries we complain about are mostly run
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Now I'm not saying there are not exceptions of high IQ...
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I am not saying there are not exceptions of high IQ women that cannot make an impact, right?
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Let's talk about the industries that women run.
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One I found out in the US, we have something called the DMV, driver's license.
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It is known as being so slow and inefficient that the last movie about the DMV, they made
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a sloth play the DMV person because they're so slow.
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We're always whining about education and how bad the education system is and how they're
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And the other thing is the health care is still roughly 50% men and the highest jobs
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And fourth part, I'm sorry, one more part and then I will let you go.
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When you look at successful female women, they do monetize beauty.
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And so we can look at industries where women dominate.
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It's really beauty, like it's social media, modeling and like selling makeup.
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Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, they all monetize beauty.
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Um, yes, that, that, that is my case as to why I do not think we think we need women to run the infrastructure of society.
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And then I'll let you and then I'll let you go.
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Are you suggesting the health care system is not running well because there's a less woman taking highest responsibility or what was exactly what you said about this?
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Well, I've noticed I didn't make a definitive statement about health care.
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I'm not going to pretend I know your ins and outs of your health care.
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I've just noticed a trend where the industries that women tend to dominate.
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Although women, um, and women dominate physicians, but they don't, I dominate the like brain surgery,
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But, but, but I, I've noticed a trend that a lot of the industries that have a lot of women
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in them are, there is a lot of complaints about efficiency.
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I hear a lot of complaints about health care, both here and in the U S I've heard, I hear
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I have to stop you here because complaint is exists.
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I've worked more than 22 decades working health care system.
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I work in ministry of health in one of the very large countries in the world.
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I have to advise every consultant, the ministry of health, okay, the researcher there, I work
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in many university, raise a lots of students to be midwife and nurse and whatever, the same,
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we had a lots of men, we've worked together, there are a lot of men in those industries.
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What does it mean that because men working or women work, women's working in the house.
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I just, I just example, that system doesn't work because of the portion of men and women.
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You know, the health care system doesn't work because of the policy that politician makes.
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Cause, cause no, no, no, no, but let me, let me, let me, let me talk.
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So, so I'll give you an example of this goes, who passes those policies?
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If you talk to politicians, which I have, cause I wanted to know why the child support
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So I was asking, why does this stuff like, why is it so biased?
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And the reason is most, um, politicians are catering to women because they have to single
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women are the largest voting block where, where men tend to stay the same.
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So when men, so when men vote, when men vote, this is true when men, when men, okay, you
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don't, you don't have to, you don't have to believe it, but it is true.
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Men, men tend to stay with their voting block where women tend to switch more.
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And you see this in marriages, you know, they, they give you guys free housing and women
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Look it up sixties in the U S they give women free housing and government handouts.
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And you know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, crazy, crazy, I'm very
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I'm giving you, I'm giving you, I, I just said, so, so, so one, I will, okay.
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I am one of the, I didn't, I didn't bring up race.
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Can I say, I think what you have just said is in when you put it in practice, it almost
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don't work at the marriage you don't you don't want to you don't want to fix
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things you don't want to talk about it you don't want to communicate it's
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easier to leave. Men and women leave but one's paid to. Obviously women are going to do it more.
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I'm work oriented. My woman has other things you know. Oh wait I need to finish one part I'm sorry I'm
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gonna let you go I'm sorry one more part and I will I will but but but the other
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thing is even in the industries that women work a lot in men can easily learn
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those industries men can easily become nurses men can easily become teachers
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so if all the women left the work what are you talking okay okay build the
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building. So if you think men learn easy things are there can we please just
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remember the rules it's not just about powers about each other as well let's
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stop over talking each other. I know it's hard but we need to try and should okay
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should should women be in charge it just really depends on the women if she's
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great at soccer let's let her coach a girls team but would I let this lady in
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the pink manage a beauty salon of course not it just depends on the position so you
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don't come again no no no sorry can you can you emphasize on what you're saying
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I don't get that the point that you made about her running a beauty yeah I don't
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get that it depends on the position it depends on should women I mean okay I don't
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know if this sounds sexist or not to the to the viewers but isn't this sort of show
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why women get the bad rap that they get exactly no no no no I feel like this show this show I'm
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sorry it almost caters for misogynist viewers literally because I agree with Pearl to a certain
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extent my problem where me and Paul kind of like I don't agree misogynist that's a tough accusation
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can I can I can I can wait no no no no I gotta address the first part I mean that's my opinion
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what is that what is the okay what is the definition of misogyny is what exactly what
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you're saying what is it what is it no what is it what is I don't have to give your definition
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okay thank you thank you what is the definition of misogyny I just if I'm gonna call someone
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something I know okay okay okay right the fact that you just basically everything that you base
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and all the information that you base it caters literally for men's egos okay right you basically
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eradicate everything any sort of words about women okay just answer the question don't tell me it's not
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I don't have to tell you the I don't have to define you know you have an agenda there is an agenda
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there's a narrative being played in society in society there are women who are toxic and there
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are women that play a field that basically push this agenda it's like basically toxic masculinity
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so it's the same thing as toxic femininity it's just that you're basically the opposite
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let me explain something the reason why we're asking you to to define misogyny is not because
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we're trying to pick on you there's a reason we've done this show if you can look at the the
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but that's just my opinion though just one second you just keep cutting me off we've done this show
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this is episode 137 right yeah and every single time a woman this think about it how many women
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are here so we've done 137 episodes that should tell you that we've probably had over 600 women
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on this in this room so every time a woman has used the word misogyny she has not known the meaning
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of the word so I want to I just told you no you haven't told us the meaning what's the meaning
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oh my lord oh my lord you basically I just basically told you your show is almost like
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the opposite to feminism no what you basically what is the definition of the word it's sexist
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it's basically sexist it's a sex you're basically what is sex those are all adjectives these are all
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adjectives listen I'm not going because I feel I know what you guys are basically trying to sort of
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do you know exactly what I mean you push an agenda with a specific type of women and you generalize
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all women in that sense you take away literally the society we call it the um oh my gosh the
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systemic the systemic oppression of women you disregard the systemic oppression of women you do
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are you going to answer the question I'm just I'm trying to but you don't want to hear it
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what is okay oh my god I have my opinion you have your opinion and that's all but here's being
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can I ask you can I am I don't have anything can you please can you kindly tell us the definition
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I already told you so no you haven't you really haven't okay then I didn't okay then please
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kindly don't use the word again I mean that's my opinion but we move but what what what is untrue
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and this is the thing I'll tell you why like because a lot of you know people think that I'm I'm super
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hard on women right um and my my thing is historically women are just worse than we've
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ever been from a historical point of view it's unprecedented you know what percent of women are
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virgins on their wedding days and some what this isn't misogynistic I'm about to give you stats
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I'm about to give you guys numbers and stats so so so I mean you could google them pretty easy it's
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pretty simple it's pretty you could google one one is one is I mean this is what the left will try
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to do to like discredit you is they they just question every stat but it's you can google them
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pretty easy okay so what percent of women what percent of women do you think are virgins on their
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wedding day okay so if a woman was to be a virgin then the man would have to be a virgin and the man cannot be a virgin
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right now okay we're gonna we're gonna go we're gonna go into this later but but but I want to say
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what percent of women are virgins on their wedding in the west in the west I can we can we answer the
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question probably about 25 25 okay who who thinks it's higher than all right all right it's five
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percent what percent of women have been on birth control at some point in their life 90 percent
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but what are the reasons why women are not on birth control I've been on birth control before but it
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wasn't because of sex okay okay okay fine that which is all good and well until we start looking at the
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body count statistics where the where after a woman has had five partners her chance of a happy marriage
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drops to 20 percent okay so and the average woman has slept with more than five men okay which
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remember historically a hundred years ago 85 percent of women were virgins on their wedding nights
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now what else does the men men get out of marriage they get loyalty but not today because half of
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women leave then then we start to go into weight where women are overweight the average woman is five
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three 170 pounds these are just numbers and yet we scream misogyny at me but these are these are just
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numbers now I'm and it's like I can't say numbers without being called sexist when they are true
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can I do something I'm gonna let you go I'm gonna let you go firstly I'm family therapist and I make
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big research and I have a lot of numbers 80 percent of women decide to divorce you're totally right
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and you're totally right that women choose but women choose from men who choose her and have sorry
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that she I didn't I didn't women choose but first for example if you are one room and you have fun five
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men from this five men you choose men who choose you one man make you signal I like you I smile you you go and
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you choose from men who choose you if men don't like you if not has sex attraction you cannot do
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anything first men need to go up and say I want this woman and then you choose from men who choose
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you first second you're totally right we are women I make one my book about entrepreneur and it's
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absolutely in numbers we are women we are not so smart like men we cannot make many things which make men
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never ever because our brain it's different it's different we cannot we cannot run so fast we cannot
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make some big numbers you're totally right that the business which make we are women it's psychologists
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coaching beauty it's cannot be male men and if a woman for good she is a woman she become to be sick
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every day I work with women who cannot be pregnancy today is the biggest problem in our society in UK and what
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they are do they become to be men she have a lot of cortisol she has opinion about it it messes up
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your she want to be a feminist and after she came to me like family therapist I want to be pregnancy what
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you do 40 years you hate men you hate your father you try to show that you have big balls and after
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say I want to be a woman what you did before you need first to be a woman and woman it's totally different
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quality quality quality which you need to survive as a man you need to be strong and we know usually
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what woman today tell to me Natalia I want to find the pain which very kind very rich very good looking
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are very sexy love me like a crazy he's very crazy to accept my child he want to take care about him
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about my child he wants to marry me and from some reason he's single in 40 years old and of course she
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couldn't find it after she's very disappointed and you are right that woman choose but probably
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that woman have too high acceptation she want to be a princess she doesn't want to change herself to
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go to fitness to take care about how she looks how she speak with men how she listen man because a
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woman must listen not to speak you need to speak 10% and 90% you need to listen and to speak exactly
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admiring admire your man admire to him admire him and about single and separation has big difference
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you can be separate with your partner but he continued to help you he continued to help your
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child he continued to take care about you he continued to be your best friend and to call you
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every time when you need him if you make normal relationship you must do divorce only when you
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have financial independence loyal independence your emotional stability you love yourself you are
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love your partner but you can develop because you say i want something else and you continue to say
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your child your father is the best man in the world and your child if he can be divorced but he can
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love both of parents and not have psychological trauma you can be in marriage to be in toxic relationship
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and you can destroy your child a woman must to love it's the most important mission of women which
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forgot not compare with men you are not a man you are a woman i agree with that can i follow on from
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what you're saying i i agree with a lot of what you're saying in the terms of when women and men were
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physiologically different mentally we're different our brains are wired differently i think men crave and
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demand respect even in marriage if i don't respect my husband i can't expect my husband to love me in the
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way that i want to be loved if i don't give him the respect there's a book i read i can't remember
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the artist the artist the author's name it's literally called respect and love and if you don't
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give each to the other what the other needs and what the other wants it becomes a crazy cycle
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so if i don't give my husband the respect he's not going to love me in the way that i want
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and he will give me love but ultimately he wants me to respect him and not a respect that i should be
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submissive and oh yes sir you know kneeling on the floor every time he says jump and i say oh how high no
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he needs to give me a level of respect too can i say it will only work if you love and respect
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yourself 100 can i just carry on from what you mentioned when i um when i started to live with
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my husband he said to me that you need to you need to remember that you have a man because i'll do
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things that carry all the bags independent independently by myself to the door and he'd say
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why didn't you call me so it's just learning little things that i had to do to be more feminine and
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understand that i am in a marriage and there are roles i know people don't like to um the
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terminology of gender roles but sometimes they are in in a marriage or in a relationship where
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men need to feel like they are men they need to feel like their woman needs them to some extent and
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that's what i had to learn i had to learn i had to relearn how to be feminine because i was single for
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so long i kind of forgot doing it by yourself yeah i kind of forgot how to depend on a man i had that
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with my father oh daddy please daddy please oh yes yes yes and he'd give me whatever i wanted but
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that's also the sense of him being needed my father knew that i needed him and he provided
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so it was the same in my marriage i need you and he provided but when i don't let him know that he's
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needed like me getting up on a chair and trying to change a light bulb myself i know how to do it
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but baby can you come and please you know i don't really want can you yeah of course he'll come and do it
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so it's those little things that also add to um to making your man know that you do need him you
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might not well you might not need him but you allow him to feel needed even though you can do it and
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that's kind of the feminine femininity and masculinity in the relationship the the yin and the yang that
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goes together collectively pearl i would like to just stand up for your show um i think they're trying
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to essentially say that this show is promoting misogyny when literally all you did was give all
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of these ladies a platform to speak on it's it's not pearl's fault that there's these ladies speak the
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way they do for example for example the lady over here is screaming misogyny yet she doesn't even know
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the definition you know exactly what i meant but carry on yeah it's just that whether i don't have
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to take a dictionary if you know i don't have to say to you in a dictionary english word by word you
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know exactly what i mean but the reason why you know i just said to you i basically reply to you
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is when you take away where you basically don't acknowledge you don't acknowledge a woman um women
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going through the systemic it's almost it's very that's one male side that is not the meaning of
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it's you it's a form it's a form of oppression it's a form of oppression towards women yes it is
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misogyny has a specific definition but you see this is the problem can we have it i feel like no
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listen listen what is it then you tell me educate me i could actually tell you
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i need to reiterate the rules because if you keep doing this you'll be kicked off the show
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unfortunately but the reality is whether you like it or not language exists for a reason
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women keep talking about oh communication this communication that women are better at
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communicating than men yet in the same breath you would say a word and misuse it and then still
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argue that what you think it means is the definition when it clearly isn't okay the reason why i can
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confidently say this is because like i said before this is episode 137 we've done this show
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137 times and every single time a woman has used the word misogyny we have come to find out that
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she doesn't know the meaning so is it wrong for me to be able to now make an analytical logical
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conclusion that you probably don't know the meaning as well that's your opinion it's not an opinion
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that's your opinion this is how science is is propagated i literally gave you examples of it but you
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no i asked for an example i asked for a definition if i had to ask you what's the definition of a woman
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i'm sure you probably don't even know that as well
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i think it's too much attacking to this lady 100 but it's not a chance that they want to push
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do you know the crazy thing is you've talked more than anyone like you've talked the most of this
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show out of all the guests are you referring to you i'm not even saying anything no you were just
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talking the whole show and you'll say it to me pushing an agenda i can't make words come out of
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your mouth and the crazy thing is i'm just so tired of this narrative that women are oppressed in any way
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women are not women are more likely to get custody of their of their children women are more likely to
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get child support alimony men are more likely to commit suicide men do the hardest jobs men are the
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majority of workplace deaths and yet women will live in a society that men built and cry misogyny and
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oppression um i have a question from this lady here um just correct me if in case i understood wrong
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you said that men are more clever than women have i heard it correctly exactly okay how you can
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um how we can prove that they have very big difficult medical uh things when when take this two
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part of brain and show the logical way for example if men play chess he can play 10 steps they make the same
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experiment with women can be maximum five her brain not have deepest level which have men it's approved
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it's approved if you're interested in finding it in google it means iq it's man iq it's man how deep he
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can make if you take all statistic women we cook every day but chefs it's always men women can be nurse
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but the biggest men who make operation it's men women can help and manage things but owner of business
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it's men if you open forbes because i'm a big research in my life and i have academic to high
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education of psychology clinical medical psychology and i work in hospital and i have experience about
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this and yes i can say this absolutely numbers if you're not new you can check on google yes man clever
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much stronger also try to check in the tennis man can faster because they have uh in all man he's bigger we
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can not this lady in the red is you know the lady in the red is actually nailing it i mean and it's
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and it's a shame that women like the one in the red get you know suppressed cancelled uh because she's
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actually saying common sense you know i work just so you know i work with fashion models in new york
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for about 10 years i was nightclub promoter and i pearl and i were talking about this where the the eastern
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european models and comparing them to the brazilian model and the eastern european ones that were way
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more uh traditional submissive and they respected the man you know they didn't give a maybe how he
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looked brazilian ones might have loved it they had fun playboy but the but the eastern european women
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they had a standard of expectations of what they wanted from a man they wanted a strong man they placed
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that higher as a life partner but then they were willing to give that in return the problem is when
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women want all x y and z but their net when it suits them but then they also want x y and z when it you
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know they want their cake and they eat it too man it just it can't work that way it doesn't work that way
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and i think you i think you i think you i think i think i i don't have very much discussion over whatever
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you said is i'm completely disagree when you said men are more clever than women because i'm in
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clinical field as well okay so i'm working in hospital as well and iq we have seven types actually
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seven types of iq that um you know have recognized we have a sport iq have a math iq have either you can't
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say generalize that a woman are less um clever how many discovery has a women how many discovery
00:27:32.720
how many discovery has a women okay do you want how many theory have how many philosophy has a women
00:27:39.280
how many uh artists has a women no open google no this is billionaires let's talk about the billionaires
00:27:45.760
the richest women billionaires divorce that's the funniest thing the most successful women got their
00:27:51.840
money why divorce why divorce has a relationship with the iq um no no but i'm saying i'm but i'm
00:27:59.280
asking about outcomes so the women with the most money how did they get there was it was it they're
00:28:05.040
being so smart and competent they are let's let's let's let's think about i'm thinking about our female
00:28:11.360
billionaires one has a sex tape one sells makeup and the others got their money through divorce i'm an ex-model
00:28:18.320
model and i work in healthcare what and i'm ex-model you're you're a model i'm a model okay and you
00:28:25.440
work in healthcare and i work in healthcare yes okay great and i have a black belt in karate and i bet
00:28:32.480
i bet you he could still say i need you say that women are not clever no no she said she said the men are
00:28:39.760
more clever okay no i'm completely disagree we can't say who is where we have to say i think we can
00:28:46.640
look at the outcome so we can see who is not outcome is which category you know the men can't be better
00:28:54.400
runner if the if they run with women because they have testosterone they have a bigger muscles okay not
00:29:02.240
because they are more clever they active you know the sport iq then higher but you can compare this
00:29:09.120
lady with this lady okay these men with comparing the men you said once one time you said men are
00:29:15.600
different with women the brain is different the size is different at home and then you compare the
00:29:20.800
iq together it's absolutely wrong exactly it's absolutely i'm i'm looking i'm looking at outcomes i'm
00:29:27.760
looking at i'm looking at what well well i don't not beautiful i'm not talking about beauty no you
00:29:32.640
said beauty i said we monetize i i said okay let's talk about value added to society what makes society
00:29:39.360
run okay no no no wait wait wait wait wait let me let me let me i need you ah ah remember remember
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muter mike again all right this is your final warning one more time you're gonna go okay so so i don't
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think of me i'm sorry okay thank you all right thank you all right all right wait what did you
00:29:58.240
say respect your guess okay actually you can go now thank you goodbye yeah goodbye um security will
00:30:04.320
escort you out wow yeah that's pretty yeah i've warned you like three times to stop over talking me we
00:30:13.120
read you the rules at the beginning of the show it's all right go ahead everyone talking with each other
00:30:16.960
no all right and now you're going to keep talking back goodbye goodbye go please wow please exclude
00:30:24.480
my conversation no it's live so i'll see you oh my god it's very impolite of you you didn't invite me
00:30:35.440
i didn't want to yeah but i'm calling the people who invite me i work since eight morning
00:30:41.680
okay okay okay all right okay all right okay i mean if you knew all that you could have just
00:30:54.080
followed the rules though because she warned you over and over again to stop over talking and even
00:31:00.720
while you were doing it just now she still told you okay stop stop stop but you just didn't y'all
00:31:04.880
y'all see how y'all see how y'all see how it's like y'all see how her emotions just took over
00:31:10.480
though right it's just a clear example of how everything she was saying was bullshit
00:31:20.080
all right it's a clear that's a clear example can you take her out please thank you
00:31:23.760
no no she doesn't no go take out take your show no no no no no no no please leave please leave
00:31:38.560
can you just leave leave leave leave leave this is this is the problem it's not worth it like
00:31:47.200
no take her out take her out can i just say i don't take her get out just get out
00:31:52.160
i don't think they don't worry about it it's just a it's just a show it's just a show it's just a
00:31:58.960
show just it's just a show i respect you but it i just just sit down and have a good show i don't
00:32:05.200
want you to leave no no good one good right now she's go just please be respectful that's all she's
00:32:11.200
saying okay yeah just watch out bro watch watch out bro she's a black belt in karate
00:32:22.160
oh gosh it's so crazy she's a black belt in karate that's saying watch out
00:32:42.560
i don't remember what we're talking about um sorry can i just go to her
00:32:48.160
no i don't remember what we're talking about um sorry can i just go to her
00:33:04.240
yeah okay go ahead can i speak so you said you're a psychologist
00:33:18.080
yeah yeah so you think why do you think why do you think why do you think men are more clever
00:33:23.840
what's the psychology behind that you know it's about to understand who you are and which energy
00:33:29.520
you have more female or male of course exists now a lot of male women where are you where are you from
00:33:34.640
where's that um from oh i have a long story i born in russia after i lived many many years in bulgara
00:33:40.080
i didn't know it had to have been eastern i was like it has to be east yeah
00:33:44.880
um i have experience in marriage 19 years and i know all about relationship and we're sure in something
00:33:52.960
men they're very strong and we need to respect them and something women they're very strong
00:33:57.920
and women we are most strong and emotional you are right that men cannot live without us
00:34:02.960
and we also give inspiration of men and we have very big role for men and the woman just need to
00:34:08.480
understand what is her role well my my issue is i'm just talking about the infrastructure of society
00:34:14.560
so it's like if we're not doing if we're not making the most money if we're not doing the most
00:34:18.320
dangerous jobs how can we say we have an equal impact as men when it comes to running society
00:34:23.120
it's the biggest problem the problem if men make less money than women very often it disappears
00:34:30.880
sexual attraction because automatically we are women not because we want money money from it of course
00:34:36.800
it's great i like to receive gifts help of men but if men all time have less money than women
00:34:44.400
he become to be her son she was he become to be her son and she doesn't respect him we are women we must
00:34:51.760
respect men who are stronger and bigger than us otherwise we can very like him you can know my son
00:34:58.160
you my cute boy and we become to be like mother and son and men inside us he also hate if we are
00:35:05.280
more stronger because cannot feel correct and not feel good with us and it's um before many years when
00:35:11.440
we live in cave men go he take one big meal and say her wife it's your meal eat it and she cooked and
00:35:18.160
she eat it now a woman say you know a meal um a meal which you gave me it's not enough i can make it
00:35:23.440
faster and bigger yeah and the woman says stay home in cave take care about child i go to make a
00:35:28.800
hunting i will take a man i will take a meal and now i'm uh you have to switch your headphones just so
00:35:35.120
you know so you take off the headphones you have put those on just because otherwise it's gonna yeah there
00:35:39.440
you go by the way i'm curious no by the way while you were gone did you uh look up the definition of
00:35:45.200
misogyny no why what do you want me to look while we're still going on this on this thingy
00:35:51.280
me saying that if i feel if i if i feel i don't understand what the issue is it's my
00:35:56.400
it's an opinion that i have that i feel there's a lot of things that go again like things that you're
00:36:00.560
saying is against women but that's like me calling but that's that's like me calling someone
00:36:04.880
fatter not knowing what that is talking to the mic just if you're doing things that are against
00:36:12.480
women or you're saying what is against women like i just want to know what is against women
00:36:19.360
what do you mean what is against like because you say i say things that are against women what is
00:36:22.960
against women can i say something oh i think i'm not i'm not gonna speak for you i can't even hello
00:36:28.160
i can't be i'm not gonna speak for you it's when you're like not racism but when you're not like
00:36:33.200
sexism prejudice towards certain that's how i know okay hold on some of the things that you say
00:36:39.280
and it's okay for me to feel that way it's not i don't know this is this is my feeling this is my
00:36:43.680
opinion from this is just off the back of what you're saying there's some statements that people
00:36:48.400
can make and as yourself as a host that you've made it puts the women in a negative light oh we know
00:36:53.520
what do women's are they true what it might not be true that's your opinion that's the same you're
00:36:58.400
saying facts and all of that we can go and google we're not we're not allowed to be enough and that's
00:37:01.360
part of the rules right i'm sure if i could go on google right now and bring us i can break us on
00:37:04.800
facts same way this lady here natalia she's researched and done some studies she's got her her area of
00:37:10.400
expertise there's so many women as well that have contributed loads of you know perfect things it's not
00:37:15.120
perfect thing loads of great things to society look at when you know england and whatever went to war
00:37:19.840
and all the soldiers went who were called to come and help rebuild who was defending the society
00:37:25.520
though who they they couldn't even work in the factories if the men were defending the society
00:37:30.480
okay but that's it shows that how they were part of the infrastructure they were they were able to
00:37:35.360
help rebuild they were so it showed that they had a purpose they were they were able to help but
00:37:39.680
they still didn't do the thing that was the most necessary which was defending society if the men were
00:37:46.480
not women not in the army now women go out to war now do you know what's crazy do you know what's
00:37:51.280
crazy one um women can't become navy seals or whatever the highest excellent because they can't
00:37:56.720
physically do it and they're lowering standards of the military because they want to include women
00:38:01.760
which i think is a bad thing i think they keep telling us we're equal to men and we are not i think
00:38:06.800
they keep saying that we can do the same things that men can do and we cannot i don't think that makes
00:38:11.040
me mean or misogynistic i think it's true there are certain things that physically women cannot do
00:38:18.160
that only men can do to a certain degree you have categories the same way in olympics you're not
00:38:23.040
going to put a woman to compete against a man because physiologically you can't compete if there's
00:38:27.440
a weightlifting championship women want to women want to excel the same way men do right okay so if
00:38:34.480
you enter a man's world then compete be a man and if you can't do it but they don't do that though the
00:38:39.440
thing is they're going to have categories women are going to compete against women men are going
00:38:43.600
to compete against men when there's a race um natalia you were talking about women can't run as fast as
00:38:48.320
men fine we can accept that so you race you stay in your lane you stay in your category correct you
00:38:53.520
race against those and women can be fast but my whole point is women do not do the hardest jobs in
00:39:00.800
society some women do i'm sorry they really do very much an exception there are brain surgeons who are
00:39:05.760
women there are scientists who are women it is the exception it is not the rule okay inventions
00:39:11.440
80 of things that are invented were by men and the rest of the 20 percent the 20 percent the remaining
00:39:17.680
20 percent are women and i just want to know what is women what is holding us back
00:39:24.320
it was actually men who invented these things because if i came up with an invention and i said babes
00:39:28.800
um progress this for me please i'm sure he would be happy i just want to understand i just want to
00:39:33.360
understand your premise so your premise right now is that all the inventors it was their wives
00:39:38.400
actually but it's so crazy because when a woman accomplishes something we never say oh it was
00:39:45.440
probably the man behind her in general and i might do that but but in general in society right but vice
00:39:51.920
versa it's like we we say all of the things that that men have accomplished we attribute them to women
00:39:57.760
in some way probably because historically men were the leaders in society women are told to be quiet
00:40:04.960
as you mentioned previously we listen more so even if we do even if we did invent something it would
00:40:11.920
be the men to carry it forward because they are one of the first one of the earliest millionaires in
00:40:16.880
in the u.s one of like the very first millionaire was was a woman and she i don't remember what she
00:40:21.520
invented but she invented yeah yeah and so and this is like another this is uh i can't i can't remember
00:40:26.800
but i i know she was the first female millionaire and this is like um this this is a narrative that
00:40:31.680
woman couldn't have high step have couldn't be influential in society that women couldn't talk
00:40:36.640
it's just incorrect there are right like cleopatra jonah bark there have always been high iq women
00:40:42.080
that have been very impactful in society there have been um queens and rulers that men have traveled
00:40:47.520
thousands of miles to get wisdom from this idea that women just could not get ahead is not true
00:40:55.040
women can get ahead and if we're going to go on facts obviously i can't bring up my facts now but
00:41:00.560
we know that that women have been silenced in in many situations if you look at different cultures
00:41:05.920
different contexts you know women don't have the same voice or not given the same voice or the opinion
00:41:11.280
to speak up as men or even if they do speak they're not heard because women your place is to stay on the
00:41:15.680
side you know be submissive no but i'm saying that's not true it is true in certain contexts
00:41:22.240
two things can be true at once that's the thing we have to look at things in a wider perspective
00:41:27.040
in a big perspective just because it's not true here it doesn't mean it's not true
00:41:32.960
whenever i like refute a point it's like you guys are like jumping through hoops to try to make us the
00:41:37.040
victim i'm not making it's like women women are not victims let me let me jump on that point
00:41:43.600
because you mentioned nigeria yeah back in the day if you were to trace it back into history because
00:41:47.840
she's very right women have always nothing society has never said and it has never been in law where
00:41:53.680
women can't do anything yes the reality is most people throughout history couldn't do anything it was
00:41:59.680
usually the elites and the rich people that could do stuff and the women in those realms could do whatever
00:42:04.800
they wanted to do yes so but were they recognized of course they were why why do we know cleopatra's
00:42:11.200
name today why do we know why do we why do we know joan of arc's name why do we know all the female
00:42:16.960
inventors madam cj walker yes why do we know um this woman that helped to release slaves in america um
00:42:24.880
because if you're excellent you will be celebrated the reason why most people are not women were
00:42:31.440
oppressed is because most people were seen as less than all throughout history at the time yeah so
00:42:35.840
it wasn't women that were being oppressed women were being oppressed in a certain way and men were
00:42:39.600
being oppressed in a different oh i agree with that i agree with that i know we're not going to make
00:42:44.480
it about race but even when we look at race that was so many people have been kept oppressed because of
00:42:49.360
race and it's the same way you can race is a category so it's a social construct you know women yes we
00:42:54.720
are physiological you can mark us by the way we are that's women but men don't necessarily look at your body
00:43:00.800
and see okay she's women they will look at you you know you you're talking about all society society
00:43:04.880
as well how society thinks that's how they look at you as a woman they will they will put you know
00:43:10.080
perspectives and mindsets on you because you're a woman no i think you have a privilege as a woman
00:43:14.320
i think it's easier i think you're more of your advantage in certain areas no i think as a young
00:43:23.760
woman you have so much privilege in society more than men yes yes you absolutely i agree with that
00:43:32.160
because i have six brothers and when i first come to england there are certain comments my brothers
00:43:38.320
made and they were more like but it's easier for you being a woman and i do agree with that there are
00:43:44.320
certain things especially culture it's much harder for them you know as a man to go out and start like
00:43:51.920
for us we can get like you said we get attracted by so many men they want to take care of us it's
00:43:59.120
much easier for us i totally agree and there's so many women's shelters that help us yeah there are
00:44:04.080
no men's shelters yeah it's true there are women what are you talking about women's shelters for what
00:44:09.040
the abuse yes there's what about what about male victims of abuse it's true because it's highly
00:44:15.680
disproportionate no it's actually so so the majority the majority no no no because one i worked the
00:44:20.800
majority the majority the majority the majority of abuse is mutual meaning they are both hitting each
00:44:27.360
other yes and so and so and you know what's crazy was when they looked into it they found that one
00:44:33.760
sided abuse was more likely the woman to hit the man than the man hitting the woman and the other
00:44:38.400
part we don't talk about is all the false abuse allegations especially in this country because there
00:44:43.200
are incentives for women to falsely accuse men of abuse because what they do is they expand the
00:44:47.680
definition of abuse into goddamn anything they have financial abuse emotional abuse they have
00:44:53.280
expanded it and what what they do is there is incent financial incentives for women to falsely accuse
00:44:59.440
men because they get free lawyers in child support or in um family court i'm not taking that away for you
00:45:06.400
from you but the percentage is extremely small so you're no it's actually it's actually no so it's actually
00:45:12.800
it's a roughly i can't remember exactly but it's around roughly 10 to 20 percent of women that file
00:45:17.920
abuse in family court actually go to criminal court and in family court it's based on a balance of
00:45:21.920
probabilities that's actually not based off of evidence and it's not it's not based on um guilty
00:45:26.720
it's basically guilty until proven innocent or vice versa and i have a lot of experience interviewing
00:45:31.520
these guys in family court organizations out there that do support male men can be victims of domestic
00:45:37.280
abuse however however it's because of society how we've used how we view men men are meant to be
00:45:42.880
strong you're meant to be a leader oh my god no way can a man come forward and say my wife abuses me
00:45:47.120
yes you're right there's so many categories when it comes to domestic abuse not just physical
00:45:50.480
it can be financial it can be mental it can be so many other you know aspects so a man will feel shame
00:45:56.960
a man will feel shame you know god forbid he's to come out and say oh my god this is what i mean
00:46:00.800
there are organizations that do support them i don't know about shelters real quick yes to your point
00:46:06.800
are women better at some things than men yes for example for example if you and i were to box
00:46:12.960
i would probably win but i can almost guarantee you that you can suck cock better than i can
00:46:21.120
what do you not have a mouth it's the same mouth that you're going to use if you're going to suck
00:46:24.640
cock isn't it so who's it well it's the same mouth
00:46:27.680
i'm being mature i have a bottom lip and i have a top lip and i have a tongue so do you
00:46:39.760
so if you want to suck cock you go ahead and do that i'm not going to compete with you
00:46:43.120
in that department if you don't want to have a mature conversation i'm being mature i'd like
00:46:46.480
to think we're all adults we are we are i don't know how we went from i don't know how we went from
00:46:51.200
domestic abuse that's just that's just the silly come on that's immature i thought we're having a
00:46:56.080
it's immature i thought we're having an adult country can i just say i'm an adult but it's immature