JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


This TRIGGERED Unhinged Feminist Got Kicked Out


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8 minutes

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194.6319

Word count

1,692

Sentence count

210

Harmful content

Misogyny

12

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Hate speech

6

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In this episode, we talk about how much weight is too much for a woman to be considered "average" in the eyes of modern society. We also talk about why we should stop shaming men for their body shaming choices.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 If a girl has a kid, how many letters does she go down? 1.00
00:00:05.800 D?
00:00:06.800 C.
00:00:07.300 I don't really want to talk about this.
00:00:08.800 D.
00:00:13.300 She's off the charts. 1.00
00:00:14.300 Okay, okay.
00:00:15.300 She's off the charts. 1.00
00:00:16.300 I'm going to personally say a kid puts you down to a C or a D.
00:00:22.300 My gut is telling me D.
00:00:23.800 It's D.
00:00:24.800 Yeah.
00:00:25.800 That's real sad.
00:00:27.000 That's really sad.
00:00:28.000 Who thinks that's generous?
00:00:29.000 All right, so who says you're an A and you have a kid, are you down to a B?
00:00:33.800 Raise your hand.
00:00:35.800 You're down to a C.
00:00:36.800 Raise your hand.
00:00:37.800 I think it's a C.
00:00:38.800 A C or a D, raise your hand.
00:00:41.800 All right, I say D.
00:00:43.800 Three Ds. 0.92
00:00:44.800 Okay.
00:00:45.800 Say D.
00:00:46.800 Sorry.
00:00:48.800 I think it's going to be easier.
00:00:51.800 I think it's going to be easier.
00:00:53.800 Now we have the ideal and we're going to say like what everything brings you down to.
00:00:57.800 Okay, so how much does being 20 pounds overweight bring you down?
00:01:06.600 An A goes down to a with 20 pounds.
00:01:10.400 20 pounds overweight?
00:01:11.400 That's not that much.
00:01:12.400 Hmm.
00:01:13.400 It's actually a lot, but modern women think it's not a lot. 1.00
00:01:16.400 But yeah, you would have been considered like 20 pounds would have been considered crazy 50 years ago.
00:01:21.400 We live in this delusion.
00:01:23.200 But what if some people are like, like they go to the gym and they like they build muscle, muscle.
00:01:28.200 And they should eat less.
00:01:29.200 No, but like, you know, like we weigh more if we have muscle and we like...
00:01:32.200 Yeah, but we're talking about overweight, we're not talking about that.
00:01:34.200 Yeah, but you could be BMI overweight.
00:01:36.200 No, no, no.
00:01:37.200 That's not factual.
00:01:38.200 No, but that's what they say.
00:01:39.200 Like if you go to the gym...
00:01:40.200 No, that's not true.
00:01:41.200 Because I, ever since I got back in the gym, I've actually weighed less.
00:01:46.000 But not everyone will.
00:01:47.000 And I look bigger.
00:01:48.000 But it's so...
00:01:49.000 I don't agree with that.
00:01:51.000 But those are exceptions.
00:01:52.000 Muscle doesn't weigh as much as fat.
00:01:54.000 Yeah, but what if you build and bulk and it's literally science?
00:01:59.000 No, this is propaganda.
00:02:01.000 Yeah, it actually doesn't happen like that.
00:02:03.000 All you have to do is look up...
00:02:04.000 Okay.
00:02:05.000 We're going to go through this because I really...
00:02:08.000 You guys do the metric scale.
00:02:10.000 Is that here?
00:02:11.800 Oh, as in like...
00:02:12.800 Kilograms. 0.61
00:02:13.800 Yeah, we do kilograms.
00:02:14.800 Alright, so do you guys do centimeters?
00:02:15.800 Yeah.
00:02:16.800 Yeah.
00:02:17.800 Alright, so...
00:02:18.800 Okay, wait.
00:02:19.800 I'm trying to pull this up.
00:02:20.800 So, centimeters...
00:02:22.800 And this is the thing, Kevin...
00:02:25.800 Because a lot of...
00:02:26.800 We live in delusion because the men accept it from us because we're so bad.
00:02:31.800 But like, it doesn't make it like not reality.
00:02:35.800 But yeah, so it looks like...
00:02:38.800 If you're 5'3", 160 centimeters as a chick, a healthy BMI is...
00:02:52.600 I think you have to be...
00:02:53.600 It looks like under 70 kgs.
00:02:56.600 Does that sound right?
00:02:57.600 How much is that in pounds?
00:02:58.600 I only know pounds.
00:03:00.600 70 kg.
00:03:01.600 I'm trying to see.
00:03:02.600 Wait, wait.
00:03:03.600 5'7".
00:03:04.400 160 maybe?
00:03:05.400 That's doable if you're 5'3".
00:03:07.400 The normal weight is green.
00:03:09.400 Yeah, it's more than doable.
00:03:10.400 So, 5'7 is...
00:03:12.400 Yeah, 150.
00:03:13.400 You have to be under 150.
00:03:15.400 Yeah, to be in shape.
00:03:17.200 So, 20 pounds overweight.
00:03:19.200 I think...
00:03:20.200 Honestly, I think 20 pounds brings you down...
00:03:23.200 Depends on how you carry it, but I'm going to say 1.
00:03:26.200 Maybe 2.
00:03:27.200 That's my gut.
00:03:29.200 What do you guys think?
00:03:30.200 Who thinks it brings you down to a B?
00:03:33.200 Probably.
00:03:34.200 Yeah.
00:03:35.200 B?
00:03:36.200 Yeah.
00:03:37.200 We'll do B.
00:03:38.200 We can do B.
00:03:39.200 We can do B.
00:03:42.200 All right, 40 pounds.
00:03:44.400 Where does that bring you?
00:03:45.600 To a C or a D?
00:03:48.800 C.
00:03:50.200 C?
00:03:53.200 I'm just going to go in 20.
00:03:56.800 See, it's like funny.
00:03:57.600 Are you guys uncomfortable?
00:03:58.600 I feel so uncomfortable, right?
00:04:00.000 I don't want to talk about this.
00:04:01.600 I just think it's...
00:04:02.600 I hate it.
00:04:03.400 Yes, but we could do this with men and it would be so easy.
00:04:05.800 We are going to do...
00:04:06.800 Horrible.
00:04:07.800 Degrade in men as well?
00:04:09.200 Why is that any better?
00:04:10.400 Just because you're going to degrade men?
00:04:11.800 I just don't like body shaming anyone.
00:04:13.800 That doesn't mean you need to degrade them, score them on a board.
00:04:17.400 Okay, you don't think we should shame bad choices?
00:04:19.600 No, I think it's rude as fuck to sit and put things on a thing.
00:04:22.400 Should we shame men from being criminals?
00:04:26.400 You're not writing that on the board, though, are you?
00:04:29.400 That's the thing.
00:04:30.400 You've already put D as a kid, yet when you get married to someone,
00:04:34.000 so the minute you have a kid with someone you're married to, now you're a D.
00:04:36.600 Are you trying to misunderstand or are you dumb?
00:04:39.200 No, it's just rude.
00:04:40.200 What, so you're telling me you're not degrading women? 0.92
00:04:42.200 You've literally got grades on a board, degrading them?
00:04:44.200 I'm not degrading anybody.
00:04:45.200 You are, though.
00:04:46.200 Let's live in reality.
00:04:48.200 We're talking about a kid bringing it into a marriage, not one that you create.
00:04:53.200 All right, so we got 20, 40 pounds, a kid.
00:04:57.800 100 pounds would be E, obviously.
00:04:59.800 I think that would be a U.
00:05:01.800 Well, I got rid of it.
00:05:02.800 No, that's also a grading system here, but yes.
00:05:05.800 Unmarkable.
00:05:06.800 Yeah.
00:05:07.800 And not every man's even going to agree with what you're writing on the board
00:05:10.800 because everyone's got a preference.
00:05:11.800 We're going to ask them.
00:05:12.800 We're going to ask them in a second.
00:05:14.800 They're going to come in.
00:05:15.800 There's a whole world in this room, isn't there?
00:05:18.000 Well, I mean.
00:05:19.000 No, it's not this well, Manny.
00:05:21.400 Why are you saying that?
00:05:23.000 Because it's horrible.
00:05:24.200 You're literally degrading women on a board. 1.00
00:05:26.400 What's nice about that?
00:05:28.200 What's this going to do for anyone?
00:05:30.000 What is degrading?
00:05:31.000 Make them make better choices.
00:05:32.000 Putting them next degrees and bringing them down.
00:05:34.000 It'll hold them accountable.
00:05:35.400 It'll hold them accountable so they make better choices.
00:05:38.000 Show them that actions have consequences.
00:05:39.800 Because if you're going to someone on your level like that you're all preaching
00:05:42.200 all fucking podcasts, they're not going to matter about this, are they? 0.91
00:05:44.600 I have a question.
00:05:45.600 Is it better that the world tells them through the outcomes of their life?
00:05:49.600 But they're not going to.
00:05:50.600 Because if you're settling for people on your level, they're not going to start grading you
00:05:52.600 on a board, are they?
00:05:53.600 They don't think they're prestige.
00:05:54.600 They don't do it mentally.
00:05:55.600 They don't want to do it on a board mentally.
00:05:57.600 You can whine about it all you want, but this is how men think.
00:05:59.600 No, whining is rude. 0.69
00:06:00.600 It's actually rude.
00:06:01.600 It's reality.
00:06:02.600 You're a whiner.
00:06:03.600 You're on a relationship podcast.
00:06:06.600 That's what we're talking about.
00:06:07.600 It doesn't mean you need to degrade women. 0.88
00:06:08.600 No, I'm saying like, what else would we be talking about?
00:06:10.600 Not putting nets to grade.
00:06:11.600 You can say what we bring them down and what your preference is.
00:06:13.600 You don't need to start grading women. 0.99
00:06:15.600 Because all the women watching this are now thinking, what grade am I because of someone's
00:06:18.600 running on a board?
00:06:19.600 But this is how it happens.
00:06:20.600 This is reality.
00:06:21.600 Men and women.
00:06:22.600 I'll shut up.
00:06:23.600 Spine, carry on.
00:06:24.600 We've tried to have the conversation.
00:06:27.600 We've had conversations about this.
00:06:29.600 Does it mean you need to grade people?
00:06:30.600 Can I make my point?
00:06:31.600 We've tried to have a conversation and you still didn't get the point.
00:06:34.600 This is called a visual exercise.
00:06:35.600 This is not going to make me understand your point, the grading women. 0.97
00:06:38.600 If you're there, then that just means that you're-
00:06:40.600 No, you're all just against like, it's horrible.
00:06:42.600 It's horrible to be a part of.
00:06:44.600 I'm not going to lie.
00:06:45.600 I'm just going to be real.
00:06:46.600 What you're doing right now, you're just trying to be emotional to derail the conversation.
00:06:50.600 Emotional?
00:06:51.600 Because you're degrading women? 1.00
00:06:52.600 If you don't want to be part of it, you can get up and leave.
00:06:54.600 You don't have to.
00:06:55.600 I said I wouldn't.
00:06:56.600 No one is forcing you to sit here.
00:06:59.600 No, but you asked for my opinion.
00:07:01.600 Did you not?
00:07:02.600 Yes, and then you could say you don't have anything to say.
00:07:04.600 But if you don't-
00:07:05.600 And I did and I would still ask my opinion.
00:07:06.600 Yeah, but you're still trying to derail the conversation.
00:07:08.600 You can just say, well, I'm not going to say-
00:07:10.600 I'm not the only one who said it's horrible.
00:07:12.600 Yeah, that's fine.
00:07:13.600 But you keep trying to-
00:07:15.600 My point is you keep trying to derail the conversation.
00:07:17.600 Why don't you just go?
00:07:18.600 If you don't like it, just go.
00:07:20.600 It's as simple as that.
00:07:21.600 Yeah.
00:07:22.600 Alright.
00:07:23.600 So, next we're going to do-
00:07:26.600 What were we going to do?
00:07:28.600 It was kids.
00:07:30.600 Oh no.
00:07:31.600 Alright, if a girl isn't submissive, how much does that bring her down? 1.00
00:07:36.600 Probably to like a D.
00:07:38.600 A D?
00:07:39.600 Yeah, like that attitude.
00:07:41.600 How much-
00:07:42.600 I'm over this.
00:07:43.600 Like I'm just wondering.
00:07:45.600 D?
00:07:46.600 D?
00:07:47.600 She's starting to get it.
00:07:48.600 What do you guys think?
00:07:49.600 I think it's a C because it's an average of, I mean, based on man preference.
00:07:54.600 So, it's a C.
00:07:56.600 I can't wait to chat.
00:07:57.600 But this is all men, this is all through preference. 0.86
00:07:59.600 So, it's like, we can think that, but some guys won't think that.
00:08:02.600 Well, we're going to ask the guys what they think in a second.
00:08:04.600 So, we're just trying to make it simple.
00:08:06.600 Who thinks C?
00:08:07.600 Raise your hand.
00:08:08.600 A bad attitude brings you down to a C.
00:08:10.600 Are you asking girls?
00:08:11.600 Yeah, girls, girls. 1.00
00:08:12.600 Raise your hand.
00:08:13.600 I'm actually going to say like a C because apparently if you're hot, it's fine.
00:08:17.600 It's not what we said.
00:08:18.600 I don't, I don't know if you're listening, but it's all right.
00:08:21.600 I'd say a D.
00:08:22.600 I said occasionally, not by and large, but they get divorced later anyway because they
00:08:26.600 just make their husband's life miserable and then they get divorced. 1.00
00:08:28.600 Yeah.
00:08:29.600 So, I'm going to pick C.
00:08:30.600 All right.
00:08:31.600 C. What do you think?
00:08:32.600 C or D?
00:08:33.600 D?
00:08:34.600 C.
00:08:35.600 D?
00:08:36.600 D?
00:08:37.600 D?
00:08:38.600 D?
00:08:39.600 D?
00:08:40.600 D?