JustPearlyThings - This Type of Women Deserve to be Cheated On

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00:00:00.920 So you're married, right, which means for better and worse, right, to death you part.

00:00:04.860 You've done all the vows.

00:00:06.640 So you've entered a contract with each other.

00:00:08.640 So ideally, no one should be cheating.

00:00:11.100 Everyone should be loving each other and giving to each other.

00:00:13.620 So what should a guy do if his wife won't sleep with him?

00:00:16.420 Have a conversation and say, hey, what's going on?

00:00:18.200 Let's sort this out because there's got to be something that's not quite right.

00:00:22.780 Maybe she's just freaking tired if she's got five kids, like this example over here.

00:00:26.720 You know what I mean?

00:00:27.340 I don't know, but like try and sort it out.

00:00:29.380 Should he get tired and then just stop paying the bills?

00:00:32.320 Stop working.

00:00:32.700 No, no, no.

00:00:33.240 What I'm saying is when there's a –

00:00:35.480 True effort.

00:00:36.140 When there's like an issue, whether it's from the guy or the girl or whoever, whatever,

00:00:43.140 they should work it out together.

00:00:45.000 They're a community.

00:00:46.240 I'm saying she is not sleeping with him.

00:00:48.360 Like she's refusing.

00:00:50.180 But why?

00:00:51.080 Give me a reason.

00:00:51.900 Like give me a reason.

00:00:52.820 And if she's like, no, no, no, then he has like – technically, yes,

00:00:57.380 because if he still is desiring that, he has a sexual drive and she doesn't,

00:01:01.680 then why not?

00:01:02.440 If she can't provide it, then, you know, but I think they need to have a conversation

00:01:06.900 before he just says, oh, well, forget you.

00:01:09.840 What can we do to sort this out if it's still not working?

00:01:12.460 They usually do.

00:01:14.080 They'll usually have a conversation and she still just won't do it.

00:01:17.660 Well, if she's like that, then he should be –

00:01:22.460 After a month.

00:01:23.100 Do you guys think that a man should be allowed to go to a strip club in a relationship?

00:01:27.820 Just watch, yes.

00:01:28.940 Yeah.

00:01:29.360 Yeah?

00:01:29.700 Yeah.

00:01:29.900 Yeah.

00:01:30.040 Bachelor parties.

00:01:31.340 My ex did it and it was okay.

00:01:32.960 He went through with his friends.

00:01:34.700 As long as he's okay with me, it's okay to go to a –

00:01:37.120 Would you go to a show in Vegas?

00:01:38.840 Go to where?

00:01:39.680 To a show in Vegas, Las Vegas, for example,

00:01:42.720 and see all these male shows that they do.

00:01:44.740 No, no, no, no, not at all.

00:01:47.100 Respect.

00:01:47.540 But we don't have to do it back if we allow and we agree with this.

00:01:51.220 I don't even do it as a single girl.

00:01:52.540 Actually, I have a question.

00:01:54.280 Have you guys ever had a celebrity DM you or message you?

00:01:58.720 Yeah.

00:01:59.600 So, no?

00:02:00.560 I dated – I don't know if he's technically a celebrity, but he's well-known in his field.

00:02:07.080 And we were dating for a long time.

00:02:09.080 Okay.

00:02:09.740 Have you ever had a celebrity?

00:02:11.040 No.

00:02:11.540 Yes.

00:02:12.740 No?

00:02:13.520 I had DM me, but I never dated.

00:02:16.260 I didn't say date.

00:02:16.960 I just said DM you.

00:02:17.840 Yes.

00:02:18.340 Yes.

00:02:18.660 Have you – you don't have Instagram.

00:02:20.900 No, but I just – back in the days, I met someone that is actually really, really famous now.

00:02:27.060 Okay.

00:02:27.480 Yes.

00:02:28.060 What about you?

00:02:28.540 Yeah.

00:02:28.720 Okay, wait.

00:02:29.680 So, show of hands, who said yes?

00:02:31.420 It was – so, out of – one, two, three, four, five, six, seven random women that – none

00:02:37.800 of you knew each other, right?

00:02:39.140 No?

00:02:39.540 Okay.

00:02:40.820 Four, five have been messaged by celebrities?

00:02:43.640 Was it the same one?

00:02:46.580 But that's the point, right?

00:02:48.940 That's why guys don't want you to have Instagram.

00:02:51.540 Like, that's why it's cheating because out of seven random chicks, more than half have been

00:02:57.660 messaged by a celebrity.

00:02:59.460 And so, when you're in a relationship, a guy can message you at any time and ruin it.

00:03:04.120 But also, just on that, surely it's what you do in response.

00:03:09.280 Exactly.

00:03:09.420 Whether you, like, delete, block, don't get involved, right?

00:03:12.620 Rather than, yeah, ooh, hoo, hoo.

00:03:15.000 You know what I mean?

00:03:15.720 Would you – all right, well, what if the roles were reversed?

00:03:18.660 Would you want your boyfriend to go to a party where every single girl wants to sleep with

00:03:23.600 him?

00:03:24.620 I mean – I mean, not really.

00:03:27.920 Not at all.

00:03:28.540 Not at all.

00:03:29.060 But it's not quite the same thing because one is physical there in your face and one is,

00:03:33.200 like, an electronic device.

00:03:34.300 Okay, would you want him to have Tinder?

00:03:36.620 Well, not if we're dating.

00:03:38.140 Absolutely not.

00:03:38.320 Why would you have Tinder if you were dating?

00:03:39.420 Yeah.

00:03:39.720 Yeah, yeah.

00:03:40.220 Any dating apps.

00:03:41.240 Instagram is not just a dating app, though.

00:03:44.200 Even though you're saying it's the most –

00:03:46.400 Why else would men message you on Instagram?

00:03:49.660 You don't have to respond.

00:03:51.060 I wouldn't respond.

00:03:51.900 He doesn't have to respond on Tinder.

00:03:53.400 He just wants to see the women that message him.

00:03:55.380 Yeah.

00:03:56.040 I get your point.

00:03:57.000 But at the same time –

00:03:57.780 Just to look at them.

00:03:58.560 I'm curious from the men.

00:03:59.820 Have any of you been messaged by a celebrity woman?

00:04:03.300 Ooh.

00:04:04.040 Yeah.

00:04:04.760 Where's the Tinder boy?

00:04:05.920 Where's the Tinder boy?

00:04:07.280 Bring him back.

00:04:08.560 Bring him back.

00:04:09.240 He probably had it all.

00:04:12.120 Yeah, but they're just friends.

00:04:13.620 Don't cap.

00:04:14.180 Yeah.

00:04:15.000 Don't cap.

00:04:15.740 Don't cap, bro.

00:04:19.060 They're just friends.

00:04:20.760 You've been messaged?

00:04:22.680 I've been messaged.

00:04:25.120 But they are not famous.

00:04:29.440 They weren't famous at the time,

00:04:30.980 and then they got famous,

00:04:31.980 and then they messaged me.

00:04:34.460 So it was like an act, sort of?

00:04:36.560 No, just like friendship, common friends,

00:04:38.220 you know, people in the industry,

00:04:39.960 and then someone gets famous,

00:04:41.980 and they're like,

00:04:42.300 oh, shit, you exist.

00:04:43.440 Hey.

00:04:43.940 Okay.

00:04:44.500 Who was it?

00:04:46.240 Names?

00:04:47.100 No names.

00:04:47.680 No names?

00:04:48.260 Names?

00:04:50.440 Nah.

00:04:50.980 No?

00:04:51.440 Names?

00:04:51.800 I had a relationship with a celebrity,

00:04:55.320 but we've met, like, in person.

00:04:56.800 She didn't text me or I didn't text you.

00:04:58.480 Oh, okay.

00:04:59.600 I'm curious out of the girls.

00:05:01.280 Anyone want to give me the names who messaged you?

00:05:03.340 I can.

00:05:03.860 Yeah?

00:05:04.440 I can.

00:05:05.020 Yeah, who?

00:05:06.380 Right now,

00:05:07.120 I don't even know how to pronounce his name.

00:05:10.800 Maximilian White.

00:05:11.680 He's the biggest cannabis.

00:05:16.760 Maximilian.

00:05:17.640 I can Google him.

00:05:20.740 What does he do?

00:05:24.560 I don't know.

00:05:25.360 He just...

00:05:25.840 He's a cannabist.

00:05:26.540 I mean, he's drunk.

00:05:27.240 Oh, he's a criminal.

00:05:28.360 No, he's not.

00:05:29.180 Oh, he's a cannabist.

00:05:32.660 Okay.

00:05:33.900 Anyone else?

00:05:34.760 Any names?

00:05:35.380 Names?

00:05:35.840 No?

00:05:36.260 No.

00:05:36.600 I respect it.

00:05:37.440 No snitching.

00:05:39.160 Okay.

00:05:39.600 That's him.

00:05:41.520 Let me see.

00:05:46.740 I've never heard of him.

00:05:48.540 You're very brave, you know,

00:05:50.100 today, saying things straight,

00:05:52.140 raw, straight.

00:05:52.880 Why is she going on?

00:05:53.640 She's funny.

00:05:54.940 Okay.

00:05:55.700 So, question.

00:05:56.580 If you refuse to sleep with your husband,

00:06:02.900 do we feel bad if you get cheated on?

00:06:07.080 I mean, first of all,

00:06:08.880 why would you refuse to sleep with your husband?

00:06:10.720 Like, what's going on?

00:06:11.660 One out of four women do it.

00:06:14.920 I don't know what to say to me.

00:06:16.180 Why'd you do it in the first place?

00:06:17.460 Why'd you sleep in the first place?

00:06:19.540 What?

00:06:19.900 Why did you have a sexual interaction in the first place?

00:06:23.400 They're married.

00:06:23.700 There's a lot more buildup before marriage.

00:06:27.700 It's not like you just met.

00:06:28.660 Like, oi.

00:06:29.500 Right.

00:06:30.060 We're going to get married.

00:06:30.760 Let's go.

00:06:31.020 No, no.

00:06:31.520 But so, I've talked to divorce attorneys about this.

00:06:34.060 Like, what happens typically is,

00:06:35.440 the woman, they'll have two kids

00:06:38.260 and then just stop sleeping with their husband.

00:06:40.500 What happens?

00:06:41.560 Their libido drops?

00:06:42.500 They're just not interested?

00:06:43.540 What?

00:06:43.780 I don't understand.

00:06:44.260 I think it's a control method.

00:06:46.180 I mean, like, because it's like,

00:06:48.460 they'll sleep with him if he does chores.

00:06:50.460 Now it's mine.

00:06:50.560 Now it belongs to me.

00:06:51.800 And I do whatever I want.

00:06:53.140 Yeah.

00:06:53.380 And I heard lots of women thinking like that.

00:06:55.580 Yeah.

00:06:56.040 In a way it's wrong.

00:06:57.080 I think it comes, so,

00:06:58.880 I've seen it happen

00:07:00.900 in my surrounding,

00:07:02.540 whether it was friends or family.

00:07:04.480 They had a great foundation,

00:07:06.320 great relationship,

00:07:07.760 five kids,

00:07:08.760 but two or three kids down the line,

00:07:11.100 things started crumbling slightly.

00:07:12.740 And it's not because someone cheated

00:07:14.100 or maybe they did,

00:07:15.480 but they worked around it

00:07:16.500 and they were still going.

00:07:17.500 And it was a decade solid example,

00:07:20.120 multiple decades that I've seen solid.

00:07:22.480 And it just slightly crumbled over time.

00:07:25.220 And it could have been from the woman's side,

00:07:27.060 from the man's side,

00:07:28.360 whether either side left.

00:07:32.180 It just...

00:07:33.220 They got five kids.

00:07:34.840 So my question is,

00:07:36.380 if the woman stops sleeping with the husband,

00:07:38.640 can he cheat?

00:07:40.100 No.

00:07:40.800 In all honesty,

00:07:41.980 that is a very weird situation.

00:07:45.580 I don't know.

00:07:45.880 That's really common.

00:07:46.820 I think it's known from both sides,

00:07:48.420 respectively.

00:07:48.960 I mean,

00:07:49.820 it's more common one way, though.

00:07:53.180 So you're married, right?

00:07:54.360 Which means for better and worse,

00:07:55.800 right?

00:07:56.260 To death you part.

00:07:57.140 You've done all the vows.

00:07:58.900 So you've entered a contract with each other.

00:08:00.920 So ideally,

00:08:01.820 no one should be cheating.

00:08:03.220 Everyone should be loving each other

00:08:04.620 and giving to each other.

00:08:05.900 So what should a guy do

00:08:06.780 if his wife won't sleep with him?

00:08:08.680 Have a conversation,

00:08:09.580 say, hey, what's going on?

00:08:10.500 Let's sort this out.

00:08:11.360 Because there's got to be something

00:08:13.980 that's not quite right.

00:08:15.040 Maybe she's just freaking tired

00:08:16.140 if she's got five kids,

00:08:17.140 like this example over here.

00:08:18.960 You know what I mean?

00:08:19.560 I don't know.

00:08:20.160 But like,

00:08:20.780 try and sort it out.

00:08:21.680 Should he get tired

00:08:22.520 and then just stop paying the bills?

00:08:24.580 Stop working?

00:08:24.940 No, no, no.

00:08:25.480 What I'm saying is

00:08:26.340 when there's a...

00:08:27.760 Group effort.

00:08:28.440 When there's like an issue,

00:08:32.460 whether it's from the guy

00:08:33.420 or the girl,

00:08:34.120 whoever, whatever,

00:08:35.380 they should work it out together.

00:08:37.240 They're a community.

00:08:37.900 Okay, but I'm saying

00:08:38.940 she is not sleeping with him.

00:08:40.600 Like she's refusing.

00:08:42.460 But why?

00:08:43.360 Give me a reason.

00:08:44.140 Like, give me a reason.

00:08:45.080 And if she's like,

00:08:45.780 no, no, no,

00:08:46.380 then he has like,

00:08:48.300 he technically, yes,

00:08:49.720 because if he still is desiring that,

00:08:52.140 he has a sexual drive

00:08:52.960 and she doesn't,

00:08:54.000 then why not?

00:08:54.700 If she can't provide it,

00:08:56.180 then, you know.

00:08:57.260 But I think they need

00:08:58.520 to have a conversation

00:08:59.180 before he just says,

00:09:00.760 oh, well, forget you.

00:09:02.100 What can we do to sort this out

00:09:03.720 if it's still not working?

00:09:04.940 They usually do.

00:09:06.320 They'll usually have a conversation.

00:09:08.400 And she still just won't do it.

00:09:09.920 Well, if she's like that,

00:09:10.720 then he should be.

00:09:12.340 If she doesn't have any reason,

00:09:13.080 she deserves it.

00:09:14.420 That's what I say.

00:09:15.440 Yeah.

00:09:16.140 Come on.

00:09:16.740 I just thought you'd think

00:09:17.740 what was going to happen.

00:09:19.240 But breakup before,

00:09:20.960 like, I think,

00:09:22.080 you know,

00:09:22.940 if he gets to the point

00:09:23.680 that you talk, talk, talk,

00:09:24.640 it means the relationship is dead.

00:09:26.320 You know,

00:09:26.860 so there's no point

00:09:27.440 to moving on

00:09:28.000 with cheating

00:09:28.760 or without cheating.

00:09:29.940 I think it's a bit tough

00:09:30.280 when she's going to take

00:09:31.180 half your shit

00:09:31.840 and your kids.

00:09:32.500 A lot of guys

00:09:32.980 stay for the kids.

00:09:34.520 Not for the kids.

00:09:35.560 I see a lot for them.

00:09:36.920 But apparently women

00:09:38.580 lose about 35%

00:09:40.620 of their wealth

00:09:41.640 when they leave divorce.

00:09:43.180 Men are the ones

00:09:44.680 that get richer.

00:09:45.960 They get child.

00:09:46.800 Well, I mean,

00:09:47.200 typically because

00:09:47.840 men are the ones that

00:09:48.500 I'll tell you why.

00:09:51.060 The reason is

00:09:51.500 because women are bad

00:09:52.200 with money.

00:09:52.700 We spend more

00:09:53.220 even though we make less.

00:09:54.120 That's why we get less

00:09:54.820 wealthy when we leave.

00:09:56.300 But it's funny

00:09:56.820 because we still get more money

00:09:58.200 because we get child support

00:09:59.360 payments 90% of the time.

00:10:00.960 But isn't that

00:10:01.360 because they predominantly

00:10:02.340 live with the mother?

00:10:04.560 Yeah, and it's sad

00:10:05.520 because the reason is

00:10:06.800 they punish men

00:10:08.040 for doing the right thing.

00:10:09.160 We want fathers that work.

00:10:10.520 And then they'll punish

00:10:11.180 the fathers that work.

00:10:12.240 The court is very,

00:10:13.160 very one-sided.

00:10:14.380 Of course.

00:10:14.880 But I think

00:10:15.460 in order to raise kids,

00:10:16.740 you need to be

00:10:17.380 emotionally there as well.

00:10:18.980 You can't just have

00:10:19.520 one parent doing

00:10:21.020 all their emotional labor.

00:10:22.340 Well, one,

00:10:23.620 we'd have to define

00:10:24.280 emotional labor.

00:10:25.300 And two,

00:10:25.800 that's why 50-50 custody

00:10:27.280 would make sense.

00:10:28.260 Or if we're really going to

00:10:29.900 go off what's best

00:10:30.620 for the kids,

00:10:31.260 single father homes

00:10:32.220 fare far better

00:10:33.780 than single mother homes.

00:10:35.260 Far better.

00:10:35.660 Or just the family.

00:10:36.760 Don't get kids

00:10:38.200 if you don't want

00:10:38.860 to have family.

00:10:40.020 And does the money

00:10:40.700 even go to the kid?

00:10:42.840 But, wow.

00:10:44.520 Why was it created

00:10:45.580 in a trust space?

00:10:45.960 I think that's one thing

00:10:47.020 that shouldn't even be a topic.

00:10:49.000 It doesn't matter

00:10:49.600 where the money goes.

00:10:50.700 That's just...

00:10:51.300 It should go to the kid.

00:10:52.400 If it was a legal thing,

00:10:53.960 it should always go to the kid.

00:10:55.160 100,000,000,000% to the kid.

00:10:57.120 Obviously,

00:10:57.420 there's some bad situations

00:10:58.680 where women do abuse the system,

00:11:00.440 but we can't ignore

00:11:01.460 the fact that,

00:11:02.820 you know,

00:11:03.140 this was created for this.

00:11:05.580 Well, I mean,

00:11:06.280 we can have the reasons,

00:11:07.320 but I'm saying

00:11:07.720 look at the outcomes.

00:11:09.400 And the outcomes

00:11:10.260 is more single mother homes.

00:11:11.760 Every problem in society

00:11:13.140 is really...

00:11:14.340 It goes back

00:11:15.240 to single mother homes.

00:11:16.440 Like,

00:11:17.060 I spoke to a guy

00:11:18.220 that works at the homeless shelter

00:11:19.380 down the street.

00:11:20.200 I said,

00:11:20.500 why are these people homeless?

00:11:21.760 What's the number one reason?

00:11:22.840 Single mother homes.

00:11:24.240 They're more likely

00:11:24.960 to run away from home.

00:11:26.000 They're more likely

00:11:26.600 to have mental problems.

00:11:28.260 Half the kids

00:11:29.040 that you see

00:11:29.440 shooting up a school

00:11:30.380 or from single mother homes.

00:11:30.840 But we have to talk

00:11:31.380 that most of guys

00:11:32.280 don't want to stay

00:11:33.020 with the kids.

00:11:34.740 And they mostly say...

00:11:35.840 And the second...

00:11:36.400 And the other thing

00:11:36.940 is that on court,

00:11:37.820 like I said,

00:11:38.320 because my parents

00:11:39.000 got divorced.

00:11:39.900 I was nine years old

00:11:40.940 and the judge

00:11:41.580 had to ask me

00:11:42.260 and my siblings,

00:11:43.160 who do we want to stay with?

00:11:44.860 And they would take it

00:11:45.620 from a child, right?

00:11:46.920 So most of...

00:11:48.340 Guys,

00:11:48.840 be honest.

00:11:49.640 If you get divorced

00:11:50.680 and you have to say,

00:11:53.360 like,

00:11:53.660 would you prefer

00:11:54.380 to stay with the kids

00:11:55.360 or you think

00:11:56.300 it would be better?

00:11:57.320 I would like to ask...

00:11:58.260 I'm asking.

00:11:59.080 I'm saying,

00:11:59.340 the reason that men

00:12:00.020 don't fight for...

00:12:00.720 I've interviewed

00:12:01.660 so many men

00:12:02.520 that are in the process

00:12:03.360 of getting divorced

00:12:04.100 and fighting for their kids.

00:12:05.340 The reason they don't fight for it

00:12:06.900 is because the system

00:12:07.760 is so stacked against them.

00:12:09.500 It is very,

00:12:10.600 very unfair.

00:12:11.640 Yeah, it is.

00:12:12.160 I've talked to men

00:12:13.420 that literally

00:12:14.060 had text messages

00:12:15.920 of the woman

00:12:16.680 trying to get him

00:12:17.820 to hit her.

00:12:18.780 So she was saying,

00:12:19.580 I want to get him

00:12:20.100 to hit her

00:12:20.540 so I can claim abuse.

00:12:22.200 Take off your headphones.

00:12:24.640 And so it's like,

00:12:26.020 guys don't want

00:12:26.520 to spend hundreds

00:12:27.080 of thousands of dollars

00:12:28.100 to not get their kid.

00:12:29.060 The deadbeat dad thing,

00:12:30.220 it's a myth.

00:12:30.820 I really don't believe it.

00:12:32.300 But you're talking

00:12:33.160 about someone

00:12:33.760 that has money, right?

00:12:34.900 Many guys

00:12:35.700 don't have money at all, right?

00:12:37.720 So it's not just financial.

00:12:40.500 And that's why

00:12:41.300 a lot of the men

00:12:42.020 that don't have money

00:12:42.700 don't fight

00:12:43.480 because they don't want

00:12:44.300 to spend hundreds

00:12:45.040 of thousands of dollars

00:12:46.120 just to not get their kids.

00:12:47.460 Lawyers will advise them

00:12:48.400 against it.

00:12:49.480 And another thing

00:12:50.120 I want to add

00:12:50.720 because you asked something,

00:12:52.060 a question, yeah,

00:12:53.340 is depends who is the woman,

00:12:55.020 for example,

00:12:55.600 and why is there a reason

00:12:56.480 we get divorced?

00:12:57.880 Who is the woman?

00:12:59.100 And then I will also decide

00:13:00.540 if I want to fight or not

00:13:01.540 because as a father,

00:13:03.780 which I'm not,

00:13:04.480 but thinking,

00:13:05.980 I would like the best

00:13:06.900 for the kid, yeah?

00:13:08.040 So if the mother was capable

00:13:09.280 and it was potentially my fault

00:13:11.140 or some her fault

00:13:12.600 but she's still capable

00:13:13.460 of being a mother,

00:13:14.700 I wouldn't really fight,

00:13:15.700 you know?

00:13:17.340 Makes sense?

00:13:18.560 It's hard work.

00:13:19.460 It's hard work

00:13:20.240 looking after kids.

00:13:22.660 But if she was a good woman,

00:13:24.160 then you would let

00:13:25.560 the kids stay with her?

00:13:27.320 I would in any case

00:13:28.240 let the kids stay with her

00:13:30.100 unless it's a really good reason

00:13:31.320 not to.

00:13:31.900 Well, and the point is

00:13:33.080 they don't have a choice.

00:13:34.620 Women get custody 90%

00:13:36.080 of the time.

00:13:36.500 They do not have a choice.

00:13:38.240 So unless the woman's bad, right?

00:13:40.020 Like has bad sort of intentions

00:13:41.780 or doesn't always neglect.

00:13:43.160 You need to prove it.

00:13:43.940 I'm saying it doesn't really matter

00:13:46.100 because the courts

00:13:46.920 are so one-sided.

00:13:48.660 Like a girl,

00:13:50.020 so if you're in a relationship

00:13:51.180 with a guy

00:13:51.660 and you make one phone call,

00:13:52.820 you can get him kicked out

00:13:53.560 of the house for a year

00:13:54.420 before you go to trial.

00:13:55.440 Then you go to trial

00:13:56.160 and what they'll tell you is,

00:13:57.220 oh, why haven't you been

00:13:57.940 in the kid's life for a year?

00:13:59.480 And the problem is

00:14:00.260 she can get a restraining order.

00:14:01.600 So if he tries to see the kid,

00:14:04.440 he gets arrested

00:14:05.520 and then he gets punished in court.

00:14:07.420 They're like,

00:14:07.740 why haven't you been

00:14:08.520 in the kid's life?

00:14:09.980 And if they're like working,

00:14:12.020 if they're not even working

00:14:13.080 and they're spending time

00:14:14.020 with the kids,

00:14:14.920 it'd be called a bitch

00:14:15.560 by not working.

00:14:16.800 It's so funny

00:14:18.200 because we want men

00:14:19.240 that protect and provide

00:14:20.580 and then if they do it,

00:14:21.840 they're punished in court.

00:14:23.160 It's like they can't win.

00:14:24.940 That is true.

00:14:26.140 It's very high.

00:14:27.320 They'll say,

00:14:28.100 oh, he spent more,

00:14:29.000 she spent more time with the kid.

00:14:30.280 But if they cared about the kid,

00:14:31.340 why wouldn't they go

00:14:31.980 off of the statistics

00:14:33.580 that single father homes

00:14:35.400 go far fair better

00:14:36.820 than single mother homes?

00:14:42.000 Men really, really suffer,

00:14:43.740 you know, in these situations

00:14:44.620 and women don't really understand it.

00:14:47.100 But they have

00:14:47.980 a really difficult time.

00:14:49.260 I'm not saying from experience,

00:14:50.680 but from what I see,

00:14:52.340 it's like women have

00:14:53.260 a lot of control nowadays

00:14:54.540 in Western society

00:14:55.700 when it comes to this matter.

00:14:58.080 And in the UK,

00:14:59.600 you get a free lawyer

00:15:00.680 if you accuse a guy of abuse,

00:15:02.520 if he's been arrested,

00:15:03.460 you get a free lawyer.

00:15:04.280 So women have like incentive

00:15:05.480 to accuse men of abuse

00:15:07.380 and you can kind of see

00:15:08.100 what's real and what's not

00:15:09.180 by looking at who has

00:15:10.760 pressed criminal charges

00:15:12.300 and it's less than 10%.

00:15:13.460 The lawyer still works

00:15:14.820 for the government.

00:15:15.580 He doesn't privately work for you

00:15:16.980 unless you pay him.

00:15:19.400 What?

00:15:20.240 The lawyer works.

00:15:21.860 He's a solicitor.

00:15:22.820 He's a public defender.

00:15:24.100 Yeah.

00:15:24.380 Like they say in the States.

00:15:25.240 He doesn't work for you

00:15:26.980 in your favor.

00:15:28.080 So he'll go based off jurors,

00:15:30.480 based off.

00:15:31.280 And the other issue too

00:15:32.360 is their number one client

00:15:33.580 is from the women's shelters.

00:15:35.240 So if they win too many cases

00:15:37.200 for the men,

00:15:37.880 it kind of backfires

00:15:38.740 because then they don't get clients

00:15:39.840 from the women's shelters.

00:15:41.220 It's like a whole money.

00:15:42.540 It's really crazy.

00:15:43.360 I'm doing a whole documentary on it.

00:15:45.080 It's so insane.

00:15:46.160 In comparison to like UK and US.

00:15:49.380 I mean, it's.

00:15:50.060 Or just in general,

00:15:50.800 or like nation,

00:15:51.480 like probably.

00:15:52.340 I'm focusing more on the UK

00:15:53.900 because it's like,

00:15:54.760 it's definitely,

00:15:55.880 I would say worse here

00:15:56.960 across the board.

00:15:58.020 But the US,

00:15:59.520 it kind of depends

00:16:00.200 on the state you're in.

00:16:02.160 And I've heard Ireland

00:16:03.360 is like worse than here.

00:16:04.720 But yeah,

00:16:05.160 I'm doing it mostly in the UK

00:16:07.400 with a couple stories

00:16:08.680 from the US.

00:16:11.180 I forgot what question

00:16:12.320 we were even asking.

00:16:14.120 It's about cheating.

00:16:15.540 Oh, oh.

00:16:16.820 We're going to way too far.

00:16:19.320 Oh, I remember.

00:16:20.800 So you,

00:16:21.820 what?

00:16:23.380 No, no.

00:16:23.780 It was the cheating,

00:16:24.540 I think.

00:16:24.920 If you don't sleep

00:16:26.020 with your husband.

00:16:27.020 Oh, yeah.

00:16:27.520 Yeah, yes.

00:16:28.360 That's the one.

00:16:29.200 So you agreed with me, right?

00:16:31.840 That if a girl gets cheated on.

00:16:33.260 If she doesn't have any reason.

00:16:34.680 Yeah.

00:16:35.220 Like if she doesn't have any reason

00:16:37.040 and she doesn't offer

00:16:38.040 to her husband.

00:16:39.020 Yeah.

00:16:39.460 What the husband needs as well?

00:16:40.960 What would be a good reason

00:16:42.080 for a woman not to sleep

00:16:43.220 with her husband?

00:16:47.360 What?

00:16:48.000 What would be a good reason

00:16:49.200 for a woman not to sleep

00:16:50.240 with her husband?

00:16:51.280 That she just gave her birth.

00:16:53.460 She doesn't love him anymore.

00:16:54.960 That's a good reason.

00:16:55.840 That is a good reason.

00:16:56.700 Oh, if she doesn't love him anymore.

00:16:58.720 Well, then she shouldn't

00:16:59.300 be with him, right?

00:17:00.340 Yeah.

00:17:00.920 No, she should be with him.

00:17:01.740 We don't know why

00:17:02.420 she's being there with him.

00:17:04.460 Isn't that a bit subjective?

00:17:06.180 Like, wouldn't you say

00:17:06.800 feelings change every day?

00:17:09.260 Yes.

00:17:09.840 You could hate someone one day,

00:17:11.140 love them the next.

00:17:12.160 So then,

00:17:12.740 then should we not,

00:17:14.260 should we deny a guy's sex

00:17:15.580 based on our feelings

00:17:16.540 if they change every day?

00:17:19.420 Do you think that's fair?

00:17:22.000 Should he protect us

00:17:23.160 when he feels like it?

00:17:29.840 Why so quiet?

00:17:32.420 I don't know.

00:17:34.080 I'm just asking.

00:17:35.760 I think fundamentally

00:17:36.680 he should protect us.

00:17:38.120 Yeah.

00:17:38.720 But like I said,

00:17:39.820 it goes back to like

00:17:40.860 you're one,

00:17:41.940 you're communion,

00:17:43.260 you're together, right?

00:17:43.940 So like you've got

00:17:44.960 to give and take.

00:17:45.960 I just think the feelings

00:17:46.900 don't matter at all.

00:17:48.060 No, I mean,

00:17:49.000 if you're really like,

00:17:50.360 you know,

00:17:50.700 having a bad day

00:17:51.680 and all he wants

00:17:52.800 is like to canoodle,

00:17:53.940 like you might just be like,

00:17:54.860 dude, seriously.

00:17:56.180 Yeah, I mean,

00:17:57.040 once in a while,

00:17:57.900 guys are understanding,

00:17:59.400 you know?

00:17:59.800 But for like months on end

00:18:01.120 or for like years,

00:18:01.940 no, that's just not right.

00:18:02.840 There's guys that haven't been

00:18:03.760 like had sex

00:18:04.700 in like years in marriage.

00:18:06.020 No, no, no.

00:18:06.480 That's not true.

00:18:07.460 That's not right.

00:18:08.480 Guys are pretty simple.

00:18:09.540 They're food banging.

00:18:12.900 It's true.

00:18:13.580 It's true.

00:18:14.440 That's all you need.

00:18:15.400 What about you?

00:18:17.740 I don't know why

00:18:18.740 someone would want

00:18:19.520 to have sex with someone

00:18:20.480 that doesn't really want

00:18:21.360 to have sex with them.

00:18:22.300 So I think if,

00:18:23.600 I think if the answer's no,

00:18:26.200 then that's that debate there.

00:18:28.520 Can he cheat then?

00:18:30.040 If she says no?

00:18:31.160 I think he can ask

00:18:31.940 for permission to cheat.

00:18:33.600 Could he just do it?

00:18:35.120 He shouldn't just do it.

00:18:36.100 Oh, I don't know.

00:18:36.820 I'm not an expert on that.

00:18:38.580 Maybe if the girl's

00:18:39.580 not having sex

00:18:40.200 for such a long time,

00:18:41.080 maybe she's cheating as well.

00:18:42.240 How long can a girl

00:18:45.140 not sleep with her husband

00:18:46.460 before she's deemed

00:18:48.100 a bad wife?

00:18:49.720 Wow.

00:18:51.940 Depends.

00:18:52.740 What is normal to have,

00:18:54.240 how?

00:18:55.160 No, no, no.

00:18:55.800 I'm just saying in general.

00:18:57.180 How long?

00:18:57.620 Three months, I'd say.

00:18:58.580 Three months is bad wife.

00:19:00.980 Three months is a long time.

00:19:02.020 What if there's still

00:19:02.620 a show involved?

00:19:03.540 No, but there's three months

00:19:04.300 is a long time to not have sex.

00:19:04.860 There's still some sort

00:19:06.740 of exhibition amongst partners,

00:19:09.000 but it's not full intercourse,

00:19:11.600 and you just show for each other.

00:19:13.820 A show?

00:19:14.820 Wow.

00:19:16.080 Like this show?

00:19:17.240 Just being naked?

00:19:18.520 It could be naked.

00:19:19.820 It could be masturbating.

00:19:20.900 Okay, we're just talking about sex.

00:19:24.600 I'm not.

00:19:25.980 I'd say that three months

00:19:27.780 in an active relationship

00:19:29.580 is probably quite a long time

00:19:31.080 to go without.

00:19:31.820 Okay.

00:19:32.120 Without a valid reason,

00:19:33.640 like a baby or something.

00:19:34.860 Okay, and so then he can cheat?

00:19:37.480 No.

00:19:37.920 No, he has to have a conversation,

00:19:39.240 but I'm not an expert on it.

00:19:40.280 No, you don't have to be an expert.

00:19:41.860 It's just opinions.

00:19:42.560 Well, I haven't had that experience.

00:19:43.640 It's just an opinion show, you know?

00:19:45.000 I can't speak from experience,

00:19:46.620 so then I feel a bit funny

00:19:48.000 about saying.

00:19:48.820 Okay, okay.

00:19:49.860 That's all right.

00:19:50.380 What about you?

00:19:53.600 Can a guy cheat

00:19:54.860 if his wife won't sleep with him?

00:19:57.260 I don't think anybody should cheat,

00:19:59.180 male or female,

00:20:00.360 wife or husband,

00:20:01.860 if they can't sleep with each other.

00:20:04.080 Whether it's from physical deformity

00:20:06.720 or whatever it is.

00:20:07.820 Okay.

00:20:08.380 Communicate it.

00:20:09.040 And if not,

00:20:09.580 then just split.

00:20:10.400 Peace out.

00:20:10.700 How long can a woman

00:20:12.540 not sleep with her husband

00:20:13.740 until she's a bad wife?

00:20:15.220 Eternity.

00:20:16.940 Forever?

00:20:17.800 Eternity.

00:20:19.860 So she's a good wife still

00:20:21.880 if she doesn't sleep with him

00:20:22.880 for a year?

00:20:23.340 Other way around.

00:20:30.220 She's a bad wife

00:20:31.180 if she doesn't sleep

00:20:31.960 with him for a year.

00:20:33.060 Yeah.

00:20:33.580 Okay.

00:20:34.020 So if it's a month,

00:20:35.380 is she a bad wife?

00:20:36.980 No.

00:20:37.460 Well, no.

00:20:38.340 She feels a certain type of way.

00:20:39.700 She's on her period.

00:20:40.520 Maybe it could be many things.

00:20:41.560 Okay.

00:20:41.580 So one month,

00:20:42.060 three months,

00:20:42.600 is she a bad wife?

00:20:43.660 Six months,

00:20:44.380 ten months,

00:20:44.800 a year,

00:20:45.140 but at least communicate.

00:20:46.120 Tell me why.

00:20:47.460 Okay.

00:20:47.880 And then she says,

00:20:48.520 I don't want to.

00:20:49.240 Tell me why you don't want to.

00:20:52.500 Exactly again, why?

00:20:53.320 There has to be some sort of reason.

00:20:54.940 Even if you tell me,

00:20:55.740 okay,

00:20:56.080 I don't feel it,

00:20:57.580 it's a reason.

00:20:59.100 But if you tell me,

00:21:00.060 I don't know,

00:21:01.440 that's literally not a reason.

00:21:03.060 Is sex a duty in marriage?

00:21:05.380 It's a duty amongst

00:21:06.880 animal instinct,

00:21:08.760 but it's not

00:21:09.800 an obligation.

00:21:11.720 Okay.

00:21:12.200 If that makes any sense.

00:21:12.820 What is marriage?

00:21:16.200 A marriage is...

00:21:17.500 Love.

00:21:18.360 No,

00:21:18.740 a marriage is...

00:21:20.240 A contract of commitment and love.

00:21:22.580 It's two people coming together

00:21:24.240 and saying,

00:21:24.980 okay,

00:21:25.240 we agree to respect each other

00:21:28.400 and come to the same vows

00:21:30.440 and say,

00:21:31.360 okay,

00:21:31.700 if we agree to be together,

00:21:34.220 then it's just going to be us.

00:21:36.080 Okay.

00:21:36.460 And we have to be openly honest,

00:21:38.300 whether it's through positive,

00:21:40.200 through negative.

00:21:41.280 And if we don't see alike,

00:21:44.300 we can figure out a way around it

00:21:46.460 or away from it.

00:21:49.440 Because not everything always

00:21:50.900 goes together,

00:21:52.160 blends together.

00:21:52.840 Is marriage for life?

00:21:54.360 Yes.

00:21:54.940 It should be.

00:21:55.760 Okay.

00:21:56.280 So one...

00:21:57.440 I just...

00:21:58.320 Is marriage for life?

00:22:01.120 Yes.

00:22:01.680 It should be for life.

00:22:02.500 It should be.

00:22:03.300 Okay.

00:22:04.080 Until the day you...

00:22:04.960 Until death do us part.

00:22:06.980 Is it that way?

00:22:08.040 Unfortunately not,

00:22:08.940 because there are many

00:22:09.960 life-like situations

00:22:11.940 where individuals

00:22:13.880 don't feel the same way

00:22:15.380 they did

00:22:15.800 when they were first married.

00:22:17.180 Is marriage about feelings?

00:22:19.700 It's respect to each other's?

00:22:20.400 No,

00:22:20.680 it's about feelings,

00:22:21.560 commitments,

00:22:22.160 respect.

00:22:22.400 It's about a bunch

00:22:23.180 of different things.

00:22:24.040 Okay.

00:22:24.320 So what would you say

00:22:25.220 it's about?

00:22:26.320 Oh,

00:22:26.880 feelings,

00:22:27.820 commitments,

00:22:28.560 sacrifice.

00:22:29.660 Okay.

00:22:29.820 So it is about feelings.

00:22:31.420 Yeah,

00:22:31.680 definitely.

00:22:32.320 I would disagree.

00:22:33.500 I would strongly disagree.

00:22:34.940 I think if that was true,

00:22:36.540 then India wouldn't have

00:22:37.700 like the lowest divorce rate

00:22:39.120 where it's arranged.

00:22:40.860 They have no feelings,

00:22:42.100 I guess.

00:22:42.420 I guess,

00:22:43.120 no,

00:22:43.320 it's not that they have no feelings.

00:22:44.560 It's about duty,

00:22:45.200 I think.

00:22:45.780 Yeah,

00:22:46.000 it's about duty,

00:22:46.620 but then there's also

00:22:47.520 have to be some feeling

00:22:48.500 and consideration

00:22:49.340 backed behind it

00:22:51.100 because if there's a duty,

00:22:54.140 okay,

00:22:54.560 your duty is to go hunt

00:22:57.100 and kill,

00:22:58.280 but behind that duty,

00:22:59.600 there's a purpose.

00:23:01.400 If you don't kill,

00:23:02.300 you don't eat,

00:23:03.200 nobody eats.

00:23:03.740 You can eat by yourself.

00:23:04.900 Sure.

00:23:05.580 So be it.

00:23:06.220 Do you think it's good

00:23:06.980 to rely on feelings?

00:23:09.440 Not so.

00:23:09.900 Not 100%.

00:23:10.860 It depends on the situation.

00:23:13.000 No,

00:23:13.220 I do not agree,

00:23:14.700 but then there's always

00:23:15.280 a situation.

00:23:16.320 Should a guy protect

00:23:17.260 and provide

00:23:17.800 when he feels like it?

00:23:20.040 Should a guy protect

00:23:21.520 and provide

00:23:22.360 when he feels like it?

00:23:23.600 Many of them do.

00:23:24.880 Why not?

00:23:25.800 Because he feels like a duty

00:23:27.140 as an alpha.

00:23:28.560 Yeah,

00:23:28.820 he'll feel it.

00:23:29.480 Even if he feels

00:23:30.180 that he knows

00:23:30.620 that it's negative.

00:23:31.240 If there's an intruder

00:23:32.740 and he's scared,

00:23:33.700 should he run away?

00:23:35.300 If he runs away,

00:23:36.160 then he's not.

00:23:37.600 If there's an intruder

00:23:39.680 and the man runs away

00:23:41.260 and there's a household

00:23:42.340 full of women

00:23:43.660 and children,

00:23:44.680 male or female,

00:23:45.760 under the age

00:23:46.660 that cannot protect themselves

00:23:47.800 and the male alpha

00:23:48.920 runs away.

00:23:50.620 So he shouldn't do that

00:23:51.920 based on his feelings.

00:23:53.720 He shouldn't do that anyway.

00:23:55.080 No,

00:23:55.360 no,

00:23:55.460 I'm saying he shouldn't

00:23:56.180 rely on his feelings

00:23:57.080 when he's scared.

00:23:58.520 Should rely on his duty,

00:23:59.880 right?

00:24:00.880 Instinctively,

00:24:01.480 duty.

00:24:02.620 And I say this

00:24:03.300 for myself.

00:24:03.880 Okay.

00:24:04.360 Instinctively.

00:24:04.720 Would you say

00:24:05.120 it's the same

00:24:05.640 for women and sex?

00:24:10.940 Instinctively

00:24:11.300 and duty

00:24:11.740 for women and sex?

00:24:17.920 Sure,

00:24:18.400 why not?

00:24:18.840 Okay.

00:24:22.140 Did you have something

00:24:23.260 to say, Kate?

00:24:23.780 I just wanted to ask

00:24:25.060 for the ladies,

00:24:27.140 is a woman's emotional need

00:24:29.700 important in a marriage?

00:24:34.180 Yeah.

00:24:34.580 Both of them are.

00:24:35.980 I just asked

00:24:36.900 a specific question.

00:24:38.960 I didn't ask about men.

00:24:40.120 For a woman,

00:24:41.000 is her emotional need

00:24:42.160 important in a marriage?

00:24:43.600 Yeah.

00:24:44.820 Is it important

00:24:46.260 for a man

00:24:47.000 to consider

00:24:47.800 his woman's

00:24:50.480 emotional need

00:24:51.240 in a relationship

00:24:51.900 and in a marriage

00:24:52.540 for that marriage

00:24:53.060 to be successful?

00:24:53.920 Yes.

00:24:54.760 Okay,

00:24:55.260 that's good.

00:24:56.120 So for a man,

00:24:56.880 is sex important

00:24:57.680 in a relationship?

00:24:58.940 Yes.

00:25:00.160 All right.

00:25:00.520 So is it important

00:25:01.220 for a woman

00:25:01.780 to consider

00:25:02.380 a man's need

00:25:03.280 in a relationship

00:25:04.000 for that relationship

00:25:04.680 to be successful?

00:25:05.400 Yes.

00:25:06.180 Okay,

00:25:06.540 so do you realize

00:25:07.640 how you guys

00:25:08.360 have all argued

00:25:09.020 against that point?

00:25:10.860 Basically,

00:25:11.440 after you asked

00:25:11.920 that question,

00:25:12.540 yes.

00:25:13.280 I didn't answer

00:25:14.220 that question,

00:25:15.000 but I specifically.

00:25:16.800 But we said,

00:25:18.440 what is the reason

00:25:19.180 that she's not

00:25:19.820 giving sex,

00:25:20.960 right?

00:25:21.340 Exactly.

00:25:22.000 There may be

00:25:22.580 a real reason.

00:25:23.540 I don't see

00:25:24.020 no reason.

00:25:24.520 No,

00:25:24.820 I'm not saying

00:25:25.200 that no reason.

00:25:26.260 The question was

00:25:27.100 is he was allowed

00:25:27.940 to cheat

00:25:28.500 or something different.

00:25:29.700 That's good.

00:25:29.960 So do you think

00:25:31.180 there can be a reason

00:25:32.180 why a man

00:25:33.320 would not consider

00:25:34.120 a woman's emotional

00:25:34.980 need in a relationship?

00:25:36.440 Yes,

00:25:36.740 there is a reason.

00:25:37.700 I don't know

00:25:38.020 what it is,

00:25:38.520 but there's...

00:25:39.320 The woman always ask,

00:25:40.220 what is the reason

00:25:40.900 why he's not considering

00:25:41.920 before they start

00:25:43.580 making problems?

00:25:44.640 Do they try to find

00:25:46.560 out the reason

00:25:47.180 why the man

00:25:47.800 is not fulfilling

00:25:48.360 his end of the bargain

00:25:49.520 or do they just

00:25:50.200 start causing trouble?

00:25:51.220 This is why couples fight.

00:25:52.780 This is why,

00:25:53.260 because they don't

00:25:53.920 maybe communicate

00:25:55.120 and they don't really

00:25:56.180 consider each other's.

00:25:58.500 Does communicating

00:25:59.140 typically lead

00:26:00.340 to the problem

00:26:01.040 being solved?

00:26:02.100 No.

00:26:02.560 Not if they communicate

00:26:04.040 in a bad way.

00:26:06.000 So why would men

00:26:07.040 communicate more?

00:26:08.040 And they are scared.

00:26:09.560 Men,

00:26:09.800 they are scared

00:26:10.240 to communicate sometimes

00:26:11.320 because they know

00:26:12.500 the woman will

00:26:13.340 do a big fuss.

00:26:15.160 Maybe they will end

00:26:16.200 with a big fighting

00:26:17.720 and argument

00:26:18.340 and they don't want that.

00:26:19.240 I disagree on that too.

00:26:20.660 Who communicates

00:26:21.280 better,

00:26:21.640 men or women?

00:26:23.100 Depends who.

00:26:23.740 In general,

00:26:24.240 in general,

00:26:24.740 even in relationships,

00:26:25.880 who do you think

00:26:26.300 communicates better,

00:26:26.940 men or women?

00:26:27.600 Women.

00:26:28.940 I would say women.

00:26:30.640 Are you sure?

00:26:31.880 I think women

00:26:32.460 are more open to talk.

00:26:33.620 I don't feel

00:26:34.620 women want to talk

00:26:35.340 at all.

00:26:36.000 Women are more open

00:26:36.940 to talk.

00:26:37.980 Do women typically

00:26:39.740 communicate

00:26:40.340 and get to the point?

00:26:42.000 No.

00:26:42.460 They will go around

00:26:43.340 the subject.

00:26:44.620 Just yes or no.

00:26:46.100 Do women typically

00:26:46.880 communicate and get

00:26:47.740 to the point?

00:26:48.340 No.

00:26:49.260 So why do we

00:26:50.700 think they communicate

00:26:53.040 better when we

00:26:53.980 don't get to the point?

00:26:56.700 Trying is better

00:26:58.940 than nothing

00:26:59.400 because some men

00:27:00.480 they don't even

00:27:00.920 want to talk.

00:27:01.520 If I try to lose weight

00:27:05.460 and I don't,

00:27:06.180 does it matter?

00:27:09.660 Have you actually tried?

00:27:12.620 When it's two.

00:27:15.780 I think women

00:27:16.820 have brainwashed

00:27:17.860 society into thinking

00:27:19.840 we communicate better

00:27:20.980 but we communicate

00:27:21.760 worse.

00:27:23.000 I don't agree.

00:27:24.100 I don't really agree.

00:27:25.200 Do men not communicate

00:27:27.500 in relationships

00:27:28.200 or do women not like

00:27:29.940 the way men communicate?

00:27:31.520 The second?

00:27:32.640 The second, yeah.

00:27:33.840 I would say the second

00:27:34.560 as well.

00:27:35.780 I think it depends

00:27:36.600 still.

00:27:37.180 Yeah, I'm using that word.

00:27:37.960 Do women talk over them?

00:27:41.100 I mean,

00:27:41.600 I think generally

00:27:43.400 if you're going to be

00:27:44.360 a generalization again,

00:27:45.660 once again we're doing

00:27:46.460 the generally,

00:27:47.380 women speak with

00:27:48.920 emotion, right?

00:27:49.880 and so they speak emotionally.

00:27:51.160 I feel this,

00:27:51.760 I feel that.

00:27:52.600 Whereas men speak,

00:27:53.720 this is the facts

00:27:54.480 that they think

00:27:56.000 rather than maybe

00:27:57.340 feelings coming into it

00:27:59.820 and so that's

00:28:00.300 the difference.

00:28:02.100 But what I've learned

00:28:02.940 from my marriage

00:28:04.060 was from my ex-husband

00:28:05.440 that he was saying to me,

00:28:07.020 you all the times

00:28:07.780 you go around the subject,

00:28:09.200 he was saying to me

00:28:10.060 that I'm going around

00:28:10.880 the subject like this

00:28:11.820 and he is coming,

00:28:13.040 this is the problem,

00:28:13.840 this is the solution,

00:28:14.700 let's do something.

00:28:15.760 Exactly.

00:28:16.420 It's simple for the men

00:28:17.440 and we as a woman

00:28:19.620 we are making the fuss

00:28:21.740 and we are going

00:28:22.520 around the problem.

00:28:24.100 I think that's

00:28:25.000 a generalization

00:28:25.820 because I think

00:28:26.620 It's a generalization

00:28:27.540 in general.

00:28:28.280 This is what women

00:28:29.120 are doing.

00:28:30.840 Bullet points.

00:28:31.780 So,

00:28:32.680 the cheating.

00:28:33.540 Should a man cheat

00:28:34.360 if his wife

00:28:34.960 will not sleep with him?

00:28:37.480 Sure.

00:28:39.120 I mean,

00:28:40.040 I'm not married,

00:28:41.720 never been married

00:28:42.460 but I've lived

00:28:44.320 with different partners

00:28:45.480 and sometimes

00:28:47.020 it's painful

00:28:48.120 because you get that look

00:28:49.200 and it's like

00:28:50.680 almost like a

00:28:51.480 first it's a no,

00:28:54.480 it's bad.

00:28:55.520 Then it's almost

00:28:56.720 like a disgust

00:28:57.580 after a while

00:28:58.240 like,

00:28:58.580 why would I sleep with you?

00:29:00.380 I'm like,

00:29:00.780 fuck,

00:29:01.160 we've been together

00:29:01.820 for like years.

00:29:07.420 So,

00:29:07.880 yeah,

00:29:08.080 for sure.

00:29:09.340 After a while,

00:29:09.940 yeah,

00:29:10.100 or break up.

00:29:10.980 Fuck it.

00:29:11.260 How long

00:29:14.540 can a woman

00:29:15.260 not sleep

00:29:15.860 with a man

00:29:16.420 until she's

00:29:16.960 a bad wife?

00:29:21.120 One week.

00:29:22.180 It's been a,

00:29:22.820 it wasn't,

00:29:24.080 a week.

00:29:25.600 Who said that?

00:29:26.600 A week.

00:29:30.560 They're going to be like,

00:29:31.460 okay,

00:29:31.860 we'll overlook

00:29:32.640 the cheating.

00:29:33.240 I don't know,

00:29:39.740 it depends on

00:29:40.620 the man's libido

00:29:41.360 if he wants it a lot

00:29:42.640 and then all of a sudden

00:29:43.760 it's gone for like a week.

00:29:44.740 Just in general.

00:29:45.420 We're just talking about

00:29:45.940 in general.

00:29:47.400 For the average guy.

00:29:47.880 Bad wife,

00:29:48.520 a couple of months.

00:29:49.740 A couple of months.

00:29:50.400 Six?

00:29:51.760 Two.

00:29:52.420 Two.

00:29:53.060 Okay.

00:29:53.620 Okay.

00:29:53.900 Two, three months.

00:29:54.640 That is rough.

00:29:55.680 What?

00:29:56.160 One couple of months.

00:29:58.500 They're lower than it.

00:29:59.600 They're like,

00:30:00.000 ah,

00:30:00.220 we're not dealing with this.

00:30:01.760 Okay,

00:30:02.580 what about you?

00:30:04.620 Okay,

00:30:05.060 on this,

00:30:05.520 like,

00:30:06.140 I have a different opinion.

00:30:07.340 I don't think

00:30:07.740 it will make it

00:30:08.340 a bad wife

00:30:09.180 if she doesn't

00:30:10.040 sleep with you.

00:30:11.120 I strongly believe

00:30:12.100 that as a practical man

00:30:13.300 I should try to find

00:30:14.140 why is that happening?

00:30:15.260 Maybe I'm doing

00:30:15.720 something wrong,

00:30:16.340 maybe or not.

00:30:17.780 But if,

00:30:19.000 let's say,

00:30:19.980 I'm doing everything right,

00:30:23.140 yeah,

00:30:23.800 I wouldn't like

00:30:24.480 way too much.

00:30:25.280 Do you think

00:30:25.680 women reward

00:30:26.460 good behavior?

00:30:27.580 No.

00:30:28.700 So then,

00:30:29.480 why would you look

00:30:30.240 to see if you're

00:30:30.780 doing everything right?

00:30:32.200 Recognize,

00:30:32.780 but not reward.

00:30:33.800 No,

00:30:33.980 not everything right.

00:30:35.180 I mean,

00:30:35.380 like,

00:30:35.640 maybe something

00:30:36.940 like is major

00:30:37.720 that makes her

00:30:39.280 stay away.

00:30:40.140 Not for small things

00:30:41.160 because no one

00:30:41.800 is perfect,

00:30:42.360 right?

00:30:43.160 But,

00:30:44.420 yeah,

00:30:44.740 they definitely

00:30:45.560 don't reward

00:30:46.260 good behavior.

00:30:48.100 So if she keeps

00:30:49.120 not sleeping with you,

00:30:50.180 how long?

00:30:52.860 I don't know.

00:30:53.720 It never happened to me.

00:30:54.620 but I would

00:30:57.660 address the issue

00:30:58.280 immediately,

00:30:58.840 probably

00:30:59.160 the first few times

00:31:02.300 of attempt.

00:31:03.540 Okay.

00:31:04.740 I cannot say days

00:31:05.740 because maybe you

00:31:06.560 don't want to

00:31:07.100 give her like a week.

00:31:08.580 No,

00:31:08.680 no,

00:31:08.820 it's not about time.

00:31:10.500 It's about like

00:31:11.200 a few attempts,

00:31:13.400 let's say,

00:31:13.760 because maybe

00:31:14.580 I don't want to either,

00:31:15.760 but let's say I won't like

00:31:16.820 and there is no like

00:31:17.920 something like

00:31:18.820 women issue

00:31:19.580 and she does say

00:31:21.300 no one,

00:31:21.940 no twice.

00:31:22.340 The third time

00:31:22.720 I'm going to say,

00:31:23.140 listen,

00:31:23.480 what's going on?

00:31:25.120 And then it's done.

00:31:26.840 Maybe it's going to be

00:31:27.520 the first day.

00:31:28.340 Who knows?

00:31:29.080 If not now,

00:31:29.680 I'm going to leave you.

00:31:30.360 What do you think

00:31:33.980 about men cheating

00:31:34.740 if their wife

00:31:35.340 doesn't sleep with them?

00:31:36.280 Is that the woman's fault

00:31:37.140 or the man's fault?

00:31:42.020 That's an interesting

00:31:42.700 question,

00:31:43.200 you know.

00:31:44.600 It's common.

00:31:45.520 I think it's both.

00:31:46.720 It's equal?

00:31:47.700 No,

00:31:47.900 it's not equal.

00:31:48.240 No,

00:31:48.340 we got to pick a fault.

00:31:50.320 Okay.

00:31:54.180 If a man cheats,

00:31:55.800 right?

00:31:56.100 Yeah.

00:31:56.700 And because the woman

00:31:57.600 wouldn't sleep with him.

00:31:58.500 I think it's woman's fault.

00:32:01.320 But I don't strongly

00:32:02.360 agree on that.

00:32:05.180 Okay,

00:32:05.660 what do you think?

00:32:07.960 Whose fault is it

00:32:09.000 if the man cheats

00:32:09.820 because the woman

00:32:10.480 won't sleep with him?

00:32:11.880 It's the woman's fault.

00:32:13.040 It's the woman's fault.

00:32:14.220 And you said a week

00:32:15.000 until she's a bad wife?

00:32:16.180 Yeah.

00:32:17.340 See,

00:32:17.800 this is why,

00:32:18.360 this is why the men

00:32:19.800 want to stay.

00:32:20.600 They're like,

00:32:20.840 whatever.

00:32:21.540 I want to say,

00:32:22.780 when you marry,

00:32:23.600 it gets different.

00:32:24.920 Yeah.

00:32:25.620 It's different.

00:32:26.460 Now,

00:32:26.720 you wait up.

00:32:27.520 No,

00:32:27.900 I haven't.

00:32:28.500 Okay.

00:32:28.960 I haven't.

00:32:29.680 Talking to you back.

00:32:30.960 Go ahead.

00:32:31.440 Yeah.

00:32:32.360 I just feel like

00:32:33.540 when it gets to marriage

00:32:36.080 and you're together

00:32:36.820 forever,

00:32:37.860 because you're going

00:32:38.320 to be forever,

00:32:39.240 you just need to

00:32:40.080 please each other

00:32:40.760 with whatever

00:32:42.040 the other person asks.

00:32:43.880 And that's why,

00:32:44.740 again,

00:32:45.100 I'm going back,

00:32:46.100 that's why from the beginning

00:32:47.120 you should say,

00:32:47.840 okay,

00:32:48.000 I don't like this.

00:32:49.100 You don't like this.

00:32:50.500 Are you willing to do this?

00:32:52.220 Are you not willing?

00:32:53.340 And it's just like,

00:32:54.240 it's just simple

00:32:54.800 conversation for me.

00:32:56.100 Okay.

00:32:56.860 What about you?

00:32:57.560 Same.

00:32:58.620 I keep going back

00:32:59.220 to like,

00:32:59.840 what's the reason?

00:33:00.740 Why?

00:33:01.080 Talk.

00:33:01.960 Like,

00:33:02.140 I think it's very,

00:33:03.080 now it's almost like,

00:33:04.240 oh.

00:33:04.380 Is there a good reason

00:33:05.280 to not sleep

00:33:05.980 with your husband?

00:33:06.840 No.

00:33:07.080 There could be.

00:33:07.900 You don't know.

00:33:08.340 What is,

00:33:08.740 what would be,

00:33:09.100 what if you had,

00:33:09.620 what if you had,

00:33:10.120 what if you had,

00:33:10.800 what if you had,

00:33:10.860 what if you had,

00:33:11.520 what would be a good reason?

00:33:13.560 If you had a kid

00:33:14.600 and it would be

00:33:15.140 absolutely hurting you?

00:33:16.220 Something went down there

00:33:16.980 and it's been absolutely painful.

00:33:18.080 Outside of a medical issue.

00:33:19.480 So,

00:33:19.760 okay,

00:33:20.060 take the medical issue

00:33:21.140 out of it.

00:33:22.660 What would be a good reason

00:33:23.680 to not sleep

00:33:24.340 with your husband?

00:33:25.760 I don't know.

00:33:26.040 I've never been

00:33:26.380 in that situation.

00:33:28.200 So,

00:33:28.620 so why,

00:33:29.220 why,

00:33:29.600 why does your automatic

00:33:30.820 gut reaction

00:33:31.860 to say like,

00:33:32.840 but,

00:33:33.140 but there could be reasons

00:33:34.180 if you've never had,

00:33:34.980 there could be reasons.

00:33:35.580 But I'm saying

00:33:35.960 if you personally

00:33:36.660 have never had a reason,

00:33:37.780 like,

00:33:37.900 why is your gut reaction

00:33:39.220 to go,

00:33:39.760 there must be a reason?

00:33:40.740 Because why wouldn't

00:33:41.680 you want to have sex?

00:33:42.620 Like,

00:33:42.760 why wouldn't you want

00:33:43.500 to sleep with your partner?

00:33:45.700 Do you think women

00:33:46.680 can be controlling?

00:33:48.520 Yeah.

00:33:48.760 Absolutely.

00:33:49.460 Okay, okay.

00:33:49.960 Do you think women

00:33:51.000 use sex to control men?

00:33:53.020 They can do.

00:33:54.160 So,

00:33:54.460 you know that happens,

00:33:55.260 right?

00:33:55.620 But it's just interesting

00:33:57.060 because you've never

00:33:57.920 had a reason

00:33:58.500 to not have sex

00:33:59.740 yet,

00:34:00.860 but you know

00:34:01.500 that women can control

00:34:02.460 men through sex,

00:34:03.380 but your gut reaction

00:34:04.340 is still to protect

00:34:05.400 the woman.

00:34:06.640 That's maybe

00:34:06.960 because I can force

00:34:07.740 women to have sex as well.

00:34:09.820 Right?

00:34:10.380 Huh?

00:34:10.740 Men can force

00:34:11.500 women to have sex

00:34:12.320 as well.

00:34:12.800 Like,

00:34:12.980 we agreed that men

00:34:13.700 are stronger,

00:34:14.480 right?

00:34:14.700 Not legally.

00:34:15.240 But it's not intelligent

00:34:16.160 then to make

00:34:16.700 this other question,

00:34:17.900 you know,

00:34:18.080 if you're not considering

00:34:18.920 the other things

00:34:20.040 as well.

00:34:20.600 And I think last,

00:34:21.340 I know we were talking

00:34:22.800 about generalization.

00:34:24.080 What happens

00:34:24.620 if a man forces

00:34:25.580 a woman to have sex?

00:34:26.300 Then it's rape.

00:34:26.800 He will go.

00:34:27.380 So,

00:34:27.760 what will happen to him?

00:34:29.800 He's gonna go to court,

00:34:31.520 right?

00:34:31.680 Okay,

00:34:32.040 so he'll likely go to...

00:34:33.920 Yes.

00:34:34.620 Do you think

00:34:34.960 the justice system

00:34:35.980 favors men or women?

00:34:37.640 In this case,

00:34:38.380 a man is forcing

00:34:39.360 a woman physically

00:34:40.380 to...

00:34:40.820 When they're married?

00:34:42.600 Of course.

00:34:43.140 Do you think

00:34:43.460 the justice system...

00:34:44.880 Okay,

00:34:45.260 okay,

00:34:45.560 so it favors women.

00:34:46.660 Are you pro...

00:34:47.960 So,

00:34:48.200 so my question is,

00:34:51.500 he cannot just

00:34:52.680 have sex with her

00:34:53.420 because the court

00:34:54.280 will prosecute him,

00:34:55.680 right?

00:34:55.900 if it's physically forced.

00:34:57.620 Correct.

00:34:57.960 Correct.

00:34:58.800 So he can't just

00:35:00.140 force sex?

00:35:01.640 No.

00:35:02.440 Physically.

00:35:03.380 Physically.

00:35:03.980 Correct.

00:35:04.480 Even if they're married?

00:35:05.460 Correct.

00:35:06.000 Even if they're married?

00:35:08.120 He can do...

00:35:08.760 You sign the paper,

00:35:09.720 you're mine,

00:35:10.140 I'm yours.

00:35:10.780 I can do whatever.

00:35:12.460 No.

00:35:12.620 No.

00:35:12.960 You are wrong.

00:35:14.660 Excuse me.

00:35:15.640 You are wrong.

00:35:16.840 Very wrong.

00:35:17.240 If you say someone,

00:35:19.200 like,

00:35:19.800 that's wrong.

00:35:20.840 Doesn't matter

00:35:21.300 if you are married

00:35:21.880 or not.

00:35:22.780 Yeah.

00:35:23.500 I don't know.

00:35:24.520 I grew up...

00:35:25.580 No one has any right

00:35:25.740 to no one.

00:35:26.700 No,

00:35:27.020 no,

00:35:27.220 it used to be thought

00:35:28.060 of that way.

00:35:28.900 It's like lifetime consent,

00:35:30.780 but now the feminists

00:35:31.960 kind of get in there.

00:35:34.080 I don't know

00:35:34.880 if there's like...

00:35:35.980 But similar things

00:35:37.040 to this happen

00:35:37.800 to my mother.

00:35:39.200 My mom and dad,

00:35:40.260 they're married 34 years

00:35:41.460 and they're still together

00:35:42.480 just because my mom

00:35:43.360 sits down and just,

00:35:44.760 okay,

00:35:45.080 you're my husband anyway,

00:35:46.380 so...

00:35:47.240 Okay.

00:35:48.080 Why do you...

00:35:48.560 So I've been curious.

00:35:49.800 Yeah.

00:35:50.100 Why...

00:35:50.460 If your parents

00:35:50.880 were together 34 years,

00:35:52.400 why are you so anti-relationship?

00:35:54.780 It seems like you

00:35:55.480 have been a good model.

00:35:56.440 I've been...

00:35:56.640 Yeah,

00:35:56.980 I've been to like

00:35:58.400 quite many relationships

00:35:59.880 and I just feel like

00:36:01.160 it comes to how deep

00:36:05.820 is the people that I'm...

00:36:07.660 Because I believe

00:36:08.760 I'm very like

00:36:10.280 giving person.

00:36:11.380 Okay.

00:36:12.160 And I've just been

00:36:13.440 giving too much

00:36:15.060 and not really

00:36:16.620 appreciated

00:36:17.380 and then...

00:36:18.200 And they didn't...

00:36:18.820 And then...

00:36:19.320 They didn't do anything

00:36:20.120 in return?

00:36:20.880 Not really.

00:36:21.920 Nothing.

00:36:22.200 They didn't...

00:36:22.440 And I also...

00:36:23.200 I've also been

00:36:23.940 in an abusive relationship.

00:36:25.660 So they didn't ever

00:36:26.480 took you on dates?

00:36:27.620 They never...

00:36:28.600 Maybe one time.

00:36:30.540 Okay.

00:36:30.900 So you went on one date

00:36:31.780 before a relationship?

00:36:33.160 Yes.

00:36:33.940 And one holiday

00:36:34.860 out of 10

00:36:35.800 with his friends.

00:36:36.520 Was there...

00:36:37.060 What?

00:36:38.220 In one holiday

00:36:39.280 out of 10

00:36:40.520 with his friends.

00:36:41.740 So he went 10 times

00:36:43.080 with his friends

00:36:43.660 and one with me.

00:36:44.320 Okay.

00:36:44.900 So how long

00:36:45.480 were you with him?

00:36:46.340 One and a half year.

00:36:47.500 One and a half years.

00:36:48.660 So why did you stay

00:36:49.860 so long

00:36:50.380 if he wasn't

00:36:51.000 treating you well?

00:36:52.780 Because I tried

00:36:53.780 and I tried

00:36:54.380 and I tried.

00:36:55.000 I said,

00:36:55.360 okay, cool.

00:36:55.960 Maybe it's fine.

00:36:56.880 Maybe...

00:36:57.180 How old were you?

00:36:58.860 Just two years ago.

00:37:00.500 Was he rich?

00:37:01.660 I'm 28.

00:37:02.960 Okay.

00:37:03.280 So it was when

00:37:03.600 you were 26.

00:37:04.360 Before that,

00:37:04.900 did you want to get married?

00:37:06.500 I never wanted

00:37:07.300 to get married.

00:37:07.820 So I'm asking

00:37:09.280 like why is that?

00:37:10.340 If you had...

00:37:10.800 It seems like you had...

00:37:11.580 Because I just...

00:37:13.080 I just don't feel

00:37:14.320 nowadays people

00:37:15.320 like they're together

00:37:16.300 for the right reason.

00:37:17.840 Like especially here.

00:37:19.200 I'm not from here.

00:37:19.800 Were your parents together

00:37:21.060 for the right reason

00:37:21.860 you think?

00:37:22.440 I think so, yeah.

00:37:23.460 Okay.

00:37:23.800 So when did you start

00:37:25.240 feeling like that?

00:37:27.460 Basically when I came here.

00:37:28.980 Okay.

00:37:29.460 So when you came...

00:37:30.400 I just feel like...

00:37:31.160 How old were you?

00:37:32.560 21.

00:37:33.380 Okay.

00:37:33.700 So when you were 21

00:37:34.580 your view changed

00:37:35.480 on relationships?

00:37:36.420 No.

00:37:36.920 I came here.

00:37:38.220 And I came in this country.

00:37:40.420 Right?

00:37:40.760 Okay.

00:37:41.380 Right.

00:37:42.080 And I just like...

00:37:44.040 So that here

00:37:45.800 things are different.

00:37:46.920 It's not like

00:37:47.960 okay we like each other.

00:37:49.160 We love each other.

00:37:50.020 We already like to do

00:37:51.040 compromise and all

00:37:51.920 of that stuff.

00:37:52.620 Here is completely different.

00:37:54.160 Here is like

00:37:54.640 what you bring to the table.

00:37:55.760 Where are you from again?

00:37:56.620 Greece.

00:37:57.200 Okay.

00:37:57.420 So you're from Greece.

00:37:58.240 So relationships

00:37:58.900 were more simple there.

00:38:00.040 More simple

00:38:00.620 and more like

00:38:01.480 we like each other.

00:38:02.420 we love each other.

00:38:03.820 I'm Greek too.

00:38:07.040 It's not simple at all.

00:38:08.940 I don't know.

00:38:09.560 This is how I felt there.

00:38:11.800 When here is like...

00:38:12.980 How many years ago?

00:38:16.060 Yeah a lot.

00:38:17.540 Yeah.

00:38:18.180 When I was there.

00:38:19.320 Are you from Greece?

00:38:20.960 Yes.

00:38:21.440 Okay.

00:38:21.820 So has it changed?

00:38:24.440 Absolutely.

00:38:24.880 Dating there?

00:38:25.660 Like what was dating like?

00:38:28.380 I don't know.

00:38:29.400 Was it more traditional

00:38:30.340 10 years ago?

00:38:31.220 No way.

00:38:31.520 Yeah.

00:38:31.880 Speak about when we were there.

00:38:33.340 Not now.

00:38:33.880 Because I haven't been there.

00:38:35.140 So yeah.

00:38:36.240 10 years ago

00:38:36.920 I was seeing it different

00:38:38.780 than how it is right now.

00:38:40.720 I think social media

00:38:41.640 played a big role

00:38:42.720 on that

00:38:43.100 because they somehow

00:38:44.560 diluted the quality

00:38:47.060 of relationships

00:38:47.960 and all the reasons

00:38:50.080 why women do stuff

00:38:51.260 and men.

00:38:52.880 It tested the loyalty

00:38:54.480 and respect

00:38:55.140 that we have

00:38:55.960 for each other

00:38:57.440 and for the people

00:38:58.480 that are around us.

00:38:59.880 Sorry.

00:39:00.380 I think the social media

00:39:02.560 tested our loyalty

00:39:04.000 and respect

00:39:04.900 that we have

00:39:05.820 for the people

00:39:06.360 around us

00:39:06.920 and for ourselves

00:39:08.220 as a person.

00:39:08.840 I don't think it tested

00:39:09.740 sorry.

00:39:10.260 I don't think it tested

00:39:11.300 I don't think it's

00:39:11.640 important to the country

00:39:12.720 because it changed

00:39:13.520 everywhere.

00:39:13.760 It changed it globally

00:39:15.500 not in Greece

00:39:16.560 not in England

00:39:17.520 it's everywhere.

00:39:18.360 Obviously yeah.

00:39:19.940 Do you think

00:39:20.520 social media

00:39:21.320 changed men

00:39:22.200 or women more?

00:39:22.960 all of

00:39:24.580 both of us.

00:39:25.360 Women.

00:39:26.120 No both of us

00:39:27.100 the same.

00:39:27.420 Remember

00:39:27.780 we got to pick one

00:39:28.940 there's no

00:39:29.580 we got to pick one

00:39:30.540 the generalization

00:39:31.520 I'd say women

00:39:32.480 I'd say women

00:39:33.300 the key word

00:39:34.760 was more

00:39:35.460 come on

00:39:36.300 I know you can pick one

00:39:37.560 men

00:39:38.400 all right

00:39:40.480 she said women

00:39:41.520 women men

00:39:42.240 women

00:39:43.020 women

00:39:43.480 women

00:39:44.100 I don't know

00:39:45.480 because I don't deal

00:39:46.420 with social media

00:39:47.180 there is no way

00:39:50.340 you don't know

00:39:50.840 I don't know

00:39:51.920 I'm not I'm not

00:39:53.260 looking into all of

00:39:54.100 this stuff

00:39:54.480 I don't know

00:39:55.020 what do you think

00:39:57.240 what do you feel

00:39:58.260 what do you see

00:39:59.560 I really don't know

00:40:04.340 I feel like I'm out

00:40:06.480 of all of these

00:40:07.400 Instagram live

00:40:08.480 all of these

00:40:09.320 people that we follow

00:40:10.440 I just feel I'm out

00:40:11.900 I just me

00:40:12.680 but I know

00:40:13.760 and my opinion

00:40:14.580 I'm curious

00:40:16.240 is a girl posting

00:40:17.980 a selfie

00:40:18.680 while in a relationship

00:40:19.780 cheating

00:40:20.380 if you think yes

00:40:21.580 raise your hand

00:40:22.280 posting a selfie

00:40:24.780 yeah selfie

00:40:25.360 in a relationship

00:40:26.060 cheating

00:40:26.600 no

00:40:27.220 not physical

00:40:28.500 but yeah

00:40:29.960 the attention she will get

00:40:31.220 and the replies she will give

00:40:32.600 yeah I think

00:40:33.040 yeah I'll say yes

00:40:33.800 anyone else say yes

00:40:35.460 okay

00:40:36.720 is a guy DMing

00:40:38.080 another girl

00:40:38.880 cheating

00:40:39.540 raise your hand

00:40:40.660 yes

00:40:41.680 I mean

00:40:42.240 in a relationship

00:40:43.200 yes

00:40:43.540 to flirt right

00:40:44.420 what is he

00:40:46.820 what is he

00:40:47.200 what is he saying to her

00:40:48.000 what is she posting

00:40:49.380 the selfie for

00:40:50.160 attention

00:40:52.360 she wants it

00:40:53.980 no

00:40:57.040 no not the same

00:40:58.200 no

00:40:58.860 not the same

00:40:59.460 no

00:40:59.700 who's more likely

00:41:01.840 who's more likely

00:41:04.300 um

00:41:05.220 to get

00:41:06.940 attention

00:41:08.100 attention

00:41:09.020 the guy DMing a girl

00:41:11.220 or the girl

00:41:12.100 the selfie

00:41:12.740 the selfie

00:41:13.380 100%

00:41:14.320 so why is one

00:41:15.780 so much worse

00:41:16.900 than the other

00:41:17.460 because I think

00:41:19.000 that when you're DMing

00:41:19.840 you're taking the

00:41:20.620 direct action

00:41:21.780 to do that

00:41:22.580 aren't you taking a direct action

00:41:24.200 to like get attention

00:41:25.320 from everyone

00:41:26.400 yeah

00:41:27.100 from everyone

00:41:27.980 he's just

00:41:28.880 DMing one girl

00:41:30.140 and you're just

00:41:31.060 exposing yourself

00:41:32.120 to everyone

00:41:32.660 I'm thinking about like

00:41:33.740 my mind is a mother

00:41:34.840 that you know

00:41:35.580 we have

00:41:36.120 sometimes

00:41:36.820 do post

00:41:37.400 but even me

00:41:38.060 I don't post

00:41:38.500 do you think

00:41:39.360 it's cheating

00:41:40.000 for women

00:41:40.680 to get attention

00:41:41.480 from other men

00:41:42.240 to seek it

00:41:43.280 intentionally

00:41:43.980 yes

00:41:44.920 if she's looking for it

00:41:46.000 yeah

00:41:46.260 if she's like

00:41:46.960 actively looking for

00:41:47.980 she wants to have

00:41:48.740 attention from other men

00:41:49.640 I think when you're

00:41:50.380 talking physically

00:41:51.080 like in

00:41:51.860 if you're out and about

00:41:53.040 that's different

00:41:54.220 again

00:41:54.680 social media's

00:41:55.520 different thing

00:41:56.160 no I said

00:41:57.060 is it cheating

00:41:58.080 to get attention

00:41:58.960 from other men

00:41:59.820 to seek out attention

00:42:01.000 from other men

00:42:01.640 in a relationship

00:42:02.320 yes

00:42:02.840 yeah

00:42:03.260 to seek yes

00:42:04.220 so then why wouldn't

00:42:05.460 the selfie be cheating

00:42:06.700 because that's for everyone

00:42:08.520 exactly

00:42:08.980 who says that

00:42:09.580 she's posting a selfie

00:42:10.620 to get attention from men

00:42:11.580 no no

00:42:12.120 it's interesting

00:42:12.800 what you say

00:42:13.520 you say it's from everyone

00:42:14.940 but you don't really

00:42:16.500 why you upload something

00:42:17.860 why you upload a story

00:42:18.780 or a picture

00:42:19.120 why not

00:42:19.460 I want my friends

00:42:20.840 and people I know

00:42:21.540 and whoever

00:42:22.040 to see what I'm getting up to

00:42:23.340 what's the outcome

00:42:24.240 I get some likes

00:42:26.020 but I don't really

00:42:26.700 do you ever post

00:42:27.800 selfies

00:42:28.700 to get attention from men

00:42:30.180 no

00:42:30.880 never

00:42:31.400 never

00:42:31.940 never

00:42:32.400 you've never posted

00:42:33.280 anything on social media

00:42:34.580 thinking a guy that you like

00:42:35.900 would see it

00:42:36.640 no

00:42:36.800 really

00:42:37.660 in all honesty

00:42:38.420 everyone needs attention

00:42:39.960 especially a girl

00:42:40.920 if I think I look good

00:42:42.360 we all did that

00:42:43.580 at least one time

00:42:44.580 it's not for someone else

00:42:45.720 we all did it

00:42:47.580 come on

00:42:48.020 come on

00:42:48.700 you know what

00:42:49.420 we're not speaking about

00:42:50.760 cheating now

00:42:51.540 you know

00:42:52.380 when you upload the story

00:42:53.660 do you watch

00:42:55.080 do you check

00:42:55.660 who was the story

00:42:56.960 of course

00:42:57.460 only if I'm interested

00:42:58.600 in someone specific

00:42:59.420 I might

00:43:00.060 but I don't

00:43:00.940 post a story

00:43:01.860 for a person

00:43:02.780 but I don't post it

00:43:04.940 for that person

00:43:05.860 what'd you say

00:43:07.540 what'd you say

00:43:07.980 go back

00:43:08.680 so

00:43:09.280 if I post a story

00:43:10.860 I want all my friends

00:43:12.340 to see it

00:43:12.740 I want everyone

00:43:13.240 to see it

00:43:13.620 whatever

00:43:13.880 because that's why

00:43:14.600 I'm posting it

00:43:15.220 and he said

00:43:16.040 do I go and see

00:43:18.100 if someone I like

00:43:19.400 in my life

00:43:20.120 what if someone you like

00:43:20.860 in general

00:43:21.380 do you go and check

00:43:22.180 how many

00:43:22.660 no no no

00:43:23.420 like

00:43:23.680 no

00:43:24.160 no

00:43:24.700 but mostly

00:43:26.180 the people that comment

00:43:27.460 are like friends

00:43:28.400 or like people I know

00:43:29.420 and I appreciate that

00:43:30.660 that's what I

00:43:31.120 have you ever

00:43:32.620 excuse me

00:43:33.360 have you ever deleted

00:43:34.140 something that didn't go well

00:43:35.380 no

00:43:36.080 guys

00:43:37.740 guys got their ways

00:43:40.100 as well

00:43:40.440 very quick answer

00:43:41.420 but here's the thing

00:43:43.000 this is how deeply

00:43:44.180 we have been programmed

00:43:45.180 and how a lot of us

00:43:46.280 have been brainwashed

00:43:47.000 you think it's bad

00:43:48.720 for you as a woman

00:43:49.960 to post something

00:43:50.820 to attract a man

00:43:51.800 but then you think

00:43:52.900 it's perfectly fine

00:43:53.900 to post something

00:43:54.880 just to get attention

00:43:56.020 from your friends

00:43:57.700 like

00:43:58.380 in my opinion

00:43:59.720 like

00:44:00.060 that just sounds

00:44:01.560 kind of backwards to me

00:44:02.440 because first of all

00:44:03.100 why are we placed on earth

00:44:04.140 we are placed on earth

00:44:05.340 to build relationships

00:44:06.240 mostly with the opposite sex

00:44:08.200 for the purpose

00:44:08.800 of forging the human race

00:44:09.820 because part of

00:44:10.920 making a relationship

00:44:11.820 with the opposite sex

00:44:12.520 is to reproduce

00:44:13.180 so

00:44:13.980 if you're making it seem

00:44:15.460 like

00:44:15.720 trying to attract

00:44:16.880 the opposite sex

00:44:17.620 is such a bad thing

00:44:18.740 I kind of think

00:44:19.620 that's kind of weird

00:44:20.400 and then

00:44:21.120 because

00:44:21.660 it's true

00:44:22.600 in the western world

00:44:23.280 everyone is just

00:44:23.980 focused on these

00:44:25.020 little things

00:44:25.980 that actually add up

00:44:26.800 to nothing

00:44:27.220 everyone wants to get money

00:44:28.260 just to be important

00:44:29.520 everyone wants to

00:44:30.640 be noticed

00:44:31.440 and have attention

00:44:32.140 and get all these

00:44:32.720 dopamine hits

00:44:33.400 but then when you ask them

00:44:34.620 would you do this

00:44:35.520 for the opposite sex

00:44:36.580 which most humans

00:44:38.380 our lives

00:44:39.200 and our livelihood

00:44:41.120 and us being normal

00:44:42.520 and being

00:44:43.280 emotionally stable

00:44:45.800 actually

00:44:46.880 depends on

00:44:47.600 forming

00:44:48.080 meaningful relationships

00:44:49.820 with the opposite sex

00:44:50.740 but yet

00:44:51.280 you always see

00:44:52.000 women fighting this

00:44:52.900 no

00:44:53.220 I can't do this

00:44:54.040 for a man

00:44:54.440 it doesn't make sense

00:44:55.980 so for example

00:44:57.600 if I go on holiday

00:44:58.840 and I post a picture

00:45:00.080 that I'm on holiday

00:45:00.860 it's because

00:45:01.500 I'm sharing

00:45:02.540 the fun time

00:45:03.400 that I'm having

00:45:04.040 with the friends

00:45:04.800 that didn't come

00:45:05.460 on holiday

00:45:05.820 with me

00:45:06.400 that time

00:45:06.900 do you talk

00:45:08.600 to your friends

00:45:09.320 yeah I do

00:45:10.020 as well

00:45:10.560 so why couldn't

00:45:11.300 you just text them

00:45:12.300 a picture

00:45:12.680 I do send it

00:45:13.520 but I have

00:45:13.840 quite a lot of friends

00:45:14.680 how many

00:45:15.120 quite a lot

00:45:16.360 how many

00:45:17.080 quite a lot

00:45:17.860 but you see

00:45:18.340 it's like

00:45:18.800 do you think

00:45:19.240 social media

00:45:19.940 is real life

00:45:20.840 no

00:45:21.500 okay

00:45:22.240 so why are we

00:45:23.040 so attached to it

00:45:24.080 well I'm not

00:45:24.760 I told you

00:45:25.220 I'd give it up

00:45:25.740 for a great husband

00:45:26.860 no but it's like

00:45:29.460 you're fighting

00:45:29.940 so hard

00:45:30.680 over the selfie

00:45:31.540 and I would even

00:45:32.700 challenge what you

00:45:33.660 just said

00:45:34.040 you don't have

00:45:34.660 a lot of friends

00:45:35.940 this is also part

00:45:37.020 of the delusion

00:45:37.660 we all tell ourselves

00:45:38.240 how do you have

00:45:38.820 a lot of friends

00:45:39.360 because I have

00:45:40.440 like five different

00:45:41.340 jobs

00:45:41.740 and I have

00:45:42.620 different friend groups

00:45:43.500 so it's just

00:45:44.520 those are not

00:45:44.780 your friends

00:45:45.260 they are

00:45:46.200 they are

00:45:46.620 like I have

00:45:47.580 personal friends

00:45:48.300 friends across the world

00:45:49.760 like it is

00:45:51.040 I need to ask

00:45:51.720 one question

00:45:52.240 they are fine

00:45:53.120 things

00:45:53.420 they are not

00:45:53.780 so if someone

00:45:54.780 goes

00:45:55.080 is your Instagram

00:45:55.820 like private

00:45:56.840 or public

00:45:58.180 sometimes it's private

00:45:59.560 sometimes it's not

00:46:01.160 I'm not going to ask

00:46:01.940 based on what

00:46:02.460 it changes

00:46:02.960 I'm going to ask

00:46:03.600 something

00:46:03.900 if as some man

00:46:05.840 goes and check

00:46:07.120 your profile

00:46:07.720 would she think

00:46:08.420 like oh

00:46:09.080 this girl is

00:46:10.380 to be married

00:46:11.300 I want a wife here

00:46:12.900 I don't know

00:46:15.220 really

00:46:15.480 it's not

00:46:16.000 my Instagram

00:46:16.880 is not like

00:46:17.660 it's not that

00:46:19.400 it's not that

00:46:19.960 interesting

00:46:20.320 to be honest

00:46:21.060 it's not

00:46:21.520 wife material

00:46:22.020 I think it's

00:46:22.500 interesting

00:46:23.000 I mean

00:46:23.620 it's got some

00:46:24.280 it's not

00:46:24.840 it's not just

00:46:25.620 selfies and stuff

00:46:26.520 it's like actually

00:46:27.280 stuff that I do

00:46:28.240 like it's work

00:46:29.000 stuff

00:46:29.360 but it

00:46:29.840 but it doesn't

00:46:30.540 it's not

00:46:30.980 we can pull it up

00:46:31.600 if you want

00:46:32.060 I mean

00:46:32.700 do what you need

00:46:33.300 to do

00:46:33.760 do what you need

00:46:34.900 to do

00:46:35.440 you might be

00:46:36.520 surprised at what

00:46:37.160 you find

00:46:37.600 but it's not

00:46:38.360 it's not that

00:46:39.000 interesting

00:46:39.480 it's okay

00:46:40.300 if I was

00:46:41.680 to be with you

00:46:42.640 yeah

00:46:42.860 and I was telling you

00:46:43.600 okay I understand

00:46:44.440 you do that

00:46:45.220 some work

00:46:45.800 make it purely

00:46:47.640 professional

00:46:48.240 no more pictures

00:46:49.160 of you

00:46:49.660 but some

00:46:50.700 of my work

00:46:51.260 is because

00:46:51.980 I have pictures

00:46:52.840 of me

00:46:53.220 like I do

00:46:53.720 a bit of modeling

00:46:54.240 I do a bit

00:46:54.820 of acting

00:46:55.360 and stuff

00:46:55.620 so it is

00:46:56.280 it's all relative

00:46:56.940 but I also do

00:46:57.680 some local

00:46:58.160 how long do you

00:46:58.960 plan to model

00:46:59.700 and act

00:47:00.560 like till

00:47:01.440 I don't get paid

00:47:02.420 anymore

00:47:02.840 basically

00:47:05.480 it's just

00:47:07.020 interesting

00:47:07.600 oh you said

00:47:08.280 you'd give up

00:47:08.700 the Instagram

00:47:09.140 for the guy

00:47:09.780 yeah

00:47:10.080 if he's the right

00:47:11.000 like husband

00:47:11.920 husband material

00:47:12.680 we already

00:47:13.120 you know

00:47:13.900 it has to be

00:47:14.440 the real deal

00:47:15.220 yeah

00:47:15.680 I'm gonna read

00:47:18.500 super chats

00:47:19.280 let me see

00:47:22.640 okay

00:47:25.240 here we go

00:47:25.860 alright guys

00:47:27.220 I'm gonna read

00:47:28.100 super chats

00:47:28.700 these are not

00:47:29.240 my opinions

00:47:29.800 but the opinions

00:47:30.440 of the chat

00:47:31.100 okay Rob

00:47:32.600 can you clip

00:47:33.140 this segment

00:47:33.680 so I can send

00:47:34.440 it to my wife

00:47:35.340 F.S. Claire

00:47:36.400 logic is the worst

00:47:37.440 enemy of the woman

00:47:38.360 overall call it

00:47:39.360 doublespeak

00:47:39.940 they want to be

00:47:40.480 treated equal

00:47:41.240 until they don't

00:47:42.540 but also want to

00:47:43.240 be treated like

00:47:43.840 a lady

00:47:44.200 this is the mindset

00:47:45.000 of two individuals

00:47:46.000 cult or

00:47:46.840 children or cult

00:47:48.540 members

00:47:49.100 ninja smoke

00:47:50.340 tank top guy

00:47:51.620 and lil asian

00:47:52.460 are all cap

00:47:53.180 chat is pretty

00:47:53.880 based

00:47:54.280 in my opinion

00:47:54.840 this is why

00:47:55.440 fresh and fit

00:47:56.500 don't break nobody

00:47:57.420 men

00:47:57.820 simping for the

00:47:58.840 ladies

00:47:59.220 delusional

00:48:00.020 enter black

00:48:01.340 dragon

00:48:01.820 what does this

00:48:03.260 panel

00:48:03.620 think of age

00:48:04.400 gaps

00:48:04.780 I'm 41

00:48:05.460 and she's 21

00:48:06.480 women do not

00:48:07.760 understand the

00:48:08.300 biology of men

00:48:09.600 men are not

00:48:10.700 biologically built

00:48:11.640 monogamous

00:48:12.200 it's a sociological

00:48:13.600 practice that

00:48:15.600 eventually fails

00:48:16.560 due to need

00:48:17.440 46 and 2

00:48:18.900 is woman telling

00:48:19.740 their husbands

00:48:20.320 no sex

00:48:21.060 if you don't

00:48:22.000 do what I say

00:48:22.880 guilty

00:48:23.560 as a woman

00:48:25.760 telling her

00:48:26.340 sex

00:48:26.680 and her husband

00:48:27.540 no sex

00:48:28.220 until you do

00:48:29.220 what I say

00:48:29.740 guilty of

00:48:30.300 coercion

00:48:30.900 I'm just curious

00:48:31.620 if a woman

00:48:34.620 says no sex

00:48:35.500 no sex

00:48:36.240 until you

00:48:36.780 meet my

00:48:37.240 emotional needs

00:48:38.080 did she

00:48:38.420 coerce them

00:48:39.040 I don't know

00:48:39.940 I mean if they're

00:48:40.640 locked into a

00:48:41.440 binding legal

00:48:42.300 agreement

00:48:42.800 which is what

00:48:43.880 marriage is

00:48:44.760 it's not

00:48:46.300 coercion

00:48:47.140 but what about

00:48:48.180 the coerced

00:48:48.840 men

00:48:49.360 okay

00:48:51.500 why is it

00:48:52.400 harder for

00:48:52.800 women to take

00:48:53.380 accountability

00:48:53.820 for cheating

00:48:54.580 why do they

00:48:56.160 the person

00:48:56.740 they cheat

00:48:57.400 on

00:48:57.700 Carlos Pearl

00:48:59.340 Norm MacDonald

00:49:00.320 broke the

00:49:00.820 Tiger Woods

00:49:01.420 example

00:49:01.920 men

00:49:02.480 example

00:49:02.960 down

00:49:03.380 in his

00:49:04.180 stand-up

00:49:04.620 special

00:49:05.080 me doing

00:49:05.560 stand-up

00:49:06.060 the clip

00:49:06.520 is on

00:49:06.920 YouTube

00:49:07.320 DJ Bfit

00:49:08.240 how many

00:49:09.060 of you guys

00:49:09.440 broke up

00:49:09.880 with

00:49:10.020 saw

00:49:10.160 we've read

00:49:10.500 that already

00:49:10.960 let me refresh

00:49:12.100 it real

00:49:12.520 quick guys

00:49:13.480 I just wanted

00:49:16.520 to point out

00:49:17.000 real quick

00:49:17.460 90% of

00:49:19.280 women

00:49:19.660 would never

00:49:20.640 get the

00:49:21.080 man they

00:49:21.400 want

00:49:21.700 and this

00:49:22.840 is because

00:49:23.360 most women

00:49:23.840 want a man

00:49:24.460 that is

00:49:24.680 assertive

00:49:25.320 confident

00:49:25.880 strong

00:49:26.580 a leader

00:49:27.200 and all

00:49:28.400 of that

00:49:28.680 good stuff

00:49:29.120 has money

00:49:29.740 tall

00:49:30.380 beautiful

00:49:31.100 whatever

00:49:31.720 but at

00:49:33.080 the same

00:49:33.400 time

00:49:33.620 they say

00:49:34.080 well he

00:49:34.700 can't tell

00:49:35.080 me what

00:49:35.360 to do

00:49:36.080 typically

00:49:36.740 a man

00:49:37.260 that's

00:49:37.460 like that

00:49:37.920 is not

00:49:38.500 going to

00:49:38.840 take your

00:49:39.260 direction

00:49:39.700 he's going

00:49:40.320 to do

00:49:40.600 what he

00:49:41.040 does

00:49:41.360 and he's

00:49:41.780 going to

00:49:41.980 expect

00:49:42.300 you to

00:49:42.660 follow

00:49:42.920 so it's

00:49:43.920 very funny

00:49:44.340 when women

00:49:44.740 come out

00:49:45.120 and say

00:49:45.440 I want

00:49:46.020 this guy

00:49:46.460 I want

00:49:46.720 that guy

00:49:47.080 but then

00:49:47.460 they still

00:49:47.840 come out

00:49:48.140 and try

00:49:48.520 to act

00:49:48.860 like they

00:49:49.200 are the

00:49:49.380 man

00:49:49.540 in the

00:49:49.720 relationship

00:49:50.100 it never

00:49:50.700 works

00:49:51.000 and it's

00:49:51.240 never

00:49:51.380 going to

00:49:51.620 work

00:49:51.820 I mean

00:49:52.940 the earlier

00:49:53.500 women start

00:49:54.080 to understand

00:49:54.560 that

00:49:54.820 either you

00:49:55.500 want that

00:49:55.880 guy

00:49:56.160 or you

00:49:56.580 just go

00:49:56.980 for a

00:49:57.320 guy

00:49:57.480 you

00:49:57.620 can

00:49:57.780 control

00:49:58.180 usually

00:49:59.060 there's

00:49:59.300 no

00:49:59.420 middle

00:49:59.620 ground

00:49:59.920 and it's

00:50:01.020 interesting

00:50:01.400 that they

00:50:01.800 want

00:50:02.020 all

00:50:02.180 these

00:50:02.380 things

00:50:02.780 but

00:50:03.400 they

00:50:03.920 cannot

00:50:04.240 really

00:50:04.680 offer

00:50:05.340 something

00:50:05.760 in return

00:50:06.340 something

00:50:06.960 that is

00:50:07.300 worth

00:50:07.560 enough

00:50:07.880 for what

00:50:08.200 they

00:50:08.360 ask

00:50:08.660 do you

00:50:11.040 disagree

00:50:11.380 many times

00:50:13.280 I think

00:50:14.920 it comes

00:50:15.340 a lot

00:50:15.640 of maturity

00:50:16.260 as well

00:50:16.900 and also

00:50:17.520 a lot

00:50:17.720 of the

00:50:18.020 brainwash

00:50:18.420 because I

00:50:18.680 don't agree

00:50:19.060 with many

00:50:19.720 things

00:50:20.200 and that's

00:50:20.580 why I always

00:50:21.260 say like

00:50:21.720 I'll protect

00:50:22.320 my family

00:50:22.860 and my

00:50:23.340 relationship

00:50:23.920 right

00:50:24.660 and there

00:50:25.100 is some

00:50:25.660 if you're

00:50:27.220 really like

00:50:27.740 mature

00:50:28.160 mature

00:50:28.520 woman

00:50:28.860 you

00:50:29.140 you will

00:50:29.700 know

00:50:29.960 what you

00:50:30.460 have to

00:50:30.720 do

00:50:30.880 and

00:50:31.040 what

00:50:31.200 a

00:50:31.320 man

00:50:31.440 I

00:50:31.580 don't

00:50:31.720 agree

00:50:32.000 that

00:50:32.240 they

00:50:32.640 are

00:50:32.800 equal

00:50:33.200 that

00:50:33.400 they

00:50:33.520 do

00:50:33.640 the

00:50:33.800 same

00:50:33.980 things

00:50:34.380 no

00:50:34.860 and

00:50:35.560 especially

00:50:35.960 inside

00:50:36.320 a

00:50:36.480 home

00:50:36.720 you

00:50:37.320 know

00:50:37.480 it

00:50:37.880 works

00:50:38.320 in

00:50:38.460 different

00:50:38.800 ways

00:50:39.100 I

00:50:39.540 think

00:50:39.720 it

00:50:40.040 demands

00:50:40.340 a lot

00:50:40.560 of

00:50:40.740 intelligence

00:50:41.480 wisdom

00:50:42.300 and

00:50:42.960 maturity

00:50:43.520 to

00:50:44.520 you know

00:50:45.580 to occur

00:50:46.360 this dynamic

00:50:47.100 between men

00:50:47.680 and women

00:50:48.080 and I

00:50:48.620 think

00:50:48.700 we've been

00:50:49.000 programmed

00:50:49.520 that's

00:50:49.980 why we

00:50:50.240 are so

00:50:50.580 resistant

00:50:51.140 and things

00:50:51.520 like this

00:50:51.840 and why

00:50:52.480 so many

00:50:52.840 relationships

00:50:53.240 don't work

00:50:53.720 what do

00:50:54.100 women bring

00:50:54.680 to the

00:50:54.980 table

00:50:55.240 in 2023

00:50:55.980 okay

00:50:56.460 I don't

00:50:57.040 understand

00:50:57.480 what

00:50:57.960 is this

00:50:58.400 table

00:50:58.740 where

00:50:59.480 do we

00:50:59.720 find

00:50:59.980 this

00:51:00.220 table

00:51:00.600 is

00:51:00.980 it

00:51:01.120 manageable

00:51:01.580 table

00:51:02.380 like

00:51:03.220 this

00:51:03.900 is

00:51:04.060 what

00:51:04.180 I was

00:51:04.420 trying

00:51:04.680 to say

00:51:05.040 before

00:51:05.340 when

00:51:05.580 I came

00:51:05.880 in this

00:51:06.080 table

00:51:07.060 what

00:51:07.500 table

00:51:07.740 are we

00:51:07.940 talking

00:51:08.140 about

00:51:08.440 okay

00:51:09.080 what

00:51:09.440 should

00:51:10.240 women

00:51:10.500 bring

00:51:10.800 to a

00:51:11.120 relationship

00:51:11.680 like

00:51:14.040 when you

00:51:14.380 when you

00:51:14.640 go on a

00:51:14.920 date

00:51:15.060 with a

00:51:15.360 man

00:51:15.580 you

00:51:15.780 typically

00:51:16.160 expect

00:51:16.640 him

00:51:16.920 to pay

00:51:17.340 for it

00:51:17.760 right

00:51:18.040 no

00:51:18.400 not me

00:51:19.740 I've

00:51:23.400 I've been

00:51:23.560 I've been

00:51:24.400 with homeless

00:51:24.960 guy

00:51:25.260 for two

00:51:25.660 and a half

00:51:25.940 years

00:51:26.380 so you

00:51:27.020 don't

00:51:27.240 know me

00:51:27.740 homeless

00:51:28.240 guy

00:51:28.620 you don't

00:51:29.120 know me

00:51:29.800 are you

00:51:30.600 homeless

00:51:30.940 too

00:51:31.300 but this

00:51:33.020 is the

00:51:33.200 thing

00:51:33.320 that's not

00:51:33.700 that's not

00:51:34.140 like a

00:51:34.620 good rebuttal

00:51:35.300 to what

00:51:35.580 she's saying

00:51:36.020 you're saying

00:51:36.560 that like

00:51:36.940 that's

00:51:37.320 that's

00:51:37.680 okay

00:51:37.940 because

00:51:38.280 you've

00:51:38.460 been

00:51:38.560 a

00:51:38.680 homeless

00:51:38.920 guy

00:51:39.180 so

00:51:39.440 that's

00:51:39.920 no

00:51:40.240 no

00:51:40.780 no

00:51:41.020 no

00:51:41.160 one

00:51:41.360 second

00:51:41.620 one

00:51:41.880 second

00:51:42.060 I

00:51:42.220 said

00:51:42.440 that

00:51:42.600 because

00:51:42.920 she

00:51:43.160 just

00:51:43.360 mentioned

00:51:43.600 oh

00:51:43.920 like

00:51:44.520 if

00:51:45.000 pay

00:51:45.420 it's

00:51:45.980 me

00:51:46.340 I'm

00:51:46.540 not

00:51:46.660 I'm

00:51:47.340 saying

00:51:47.580 it's

00:51:47.840 not

00:51:48.020 that

00:51:48.240 I don't

00:51:48.620 I don't

00:51:48.900 have

00:51:49.100 like

00:51:49.340 it needs

00:51:50.240 to be

00:51:50.500 this

00:51:50.740 or

00:51:50.880 it needs

00:51:51.160 to be

00:51:51.460 this

00:51:51.800 okay

00:51:52.340 the

00:51:52.620 standard

00:51:53.060 that

00:51:53.300 women

00:51:53.560 expect

00:51:54.080 so

00:51:54.280 you're

00:51:54.520 saying

00:51:54.760 that

00:51:55.000 is

00:51:55.200 not

00:51:55.380 really

00:51:55.700 like

00:51:55.900 answering

00:51:56.180 the

00:51:56.300 question

00:51:56.480 you're

00:51:56.640 just

00:51:56.780 trying

00:51:56.980 to

00:51:57.600 throw

00:51:57.860 off

00:51:58.320 the

00:51:58.520 question

00:51:58.880 without

00:51:59.180 really

00:51:59.480 answering

00:51:59.820 it

00:52:00.320 I'm

00:52:01.000 saying

00:52:01.480 not

00:52:02.000 me

00:52:02.320 not

00:52:02.720 me

00:52:03.020 I'm

00:52:03.240 talking

00:52:03.480 about

00:52:03.800 me

00:52:03.980 I

00:52:04.700 can

00:52:04.880 ask

00:52:05.100 I

00:52:05.480 can

00:52:05.700 answer

00:52:05.980 just

00:52:06.820 as

00:52:07.060 me

00:52:07.360 not

00:52:07.620 like

00:52:07.900 other

00:52:16.340 you

00:52:16.460 what

00:52:16.860 does

00:52:17.280 the

00:52:17.480 average

00:52:17.840 woman

00:52:18.160 bring

00:52:18.440 to

00:52:18.600 the

00:52:18.740 table

00:52:19.020 in

00:52:19.180 2023

00:52:19.680 well

00:52:21.000 so

00:52:25.680 can

00:52:26.840 I

00:52:27.000 say

00:52:27.220 can

00:52:27.580 I

00:52:27.680 say

00:52:27.800 something

00:52:28.000 exactly

00:52:28.480 no

00:52:29.680 no

00:52:30.020 wait

00:52:30.360 I

00:52:30.720 want

00:52:30.900 to

00:52:31.240 give

00:52:31.360 a

00:52:31.820 good

00:52:32.040 actual

00:52:33.540 answer

00:52:33.960 I

00:52:34.480 mean

00:52:34.620 there

00:52:34.760 are

00:52:34.880 many

00:52:35.220 things

00:52:35.660 you

00:52:35.820 know

00:52:35.940 you

00:52:36.160 have

00:52:36.360 to

00:52:36.520 sort

00:52:37.260 of

00:52:37.420 be

00:52:37.700 mentally

00:52:38.520 aligned

00:52:39.320 because

00:52:39.740 you

00:52:40.040 want

00:52:40.220 to

00:52:40.300 have

00:52:40.480 good

00:52:40.800 communication

00:52:41.420 you

00:52:41.660 want

00:52:41.780 to

00:52:41.860 be

00:52:41.940 able

00:52:42.080 to

00:52:42.260 talk

00:52:42.440 about

00:52:42.640 stuff

00:52:42.860 experiences

00:52:43.440 and

00:52:43.820 you

00:52:44.180 know

00:52:44.300 things

00:52:44.480 are

00:52:44.620 women

00:52:44.880 good

00:52:45.060 communicators

00:52:45.820 some

00:52:46.300 are

00:52:46.560 is

00:52:47.880 the

00:52:48.000 average

00:52:48.300 woman

00:52:48.540 a

00:52:48.680 good

00:52:48.800 communicator

00:52:49.360 some

00:52:51.040 are

00:52:51.400 no

00:52:51.620 no

00:52:51.840 I

00:52:51.940 said

00:52:52.100 is

00:52:52.220 the

00:52:52.380 average

00:52:52.680 woman

00:52:52.940 I

00:52:53.180 am

00:52:53.460 okay

00:52:54.140 okay

00:52:54.940 so

00:52:55.240 do

00:52:57.560 men

00:52:57.800 typically

00:52:58.200 want

00:52:58.600 communication

00:52:59.320 from

00:52:59.660 women

00:52:59.900 is that

00:53:00.220 what

00:53:00.340 they

00:53:00.500 seek

00:53:00.820 they

00:53:01.320 want

00:53:01.600 they

00:53:01.840 want

00:53:02.060 communication

00:53:02.640 they

00:53:02.940 want

00:53:03.320 femininity

00:53:04.720 as well

00:53:05.080 to be

00:53:05.360 honest

00:53:05.640 and

00:53:06.200 they

00:53:06.360 do

00:53:07.380 want

00:53:07.600 attractiveness

00:53:08.120 obviously

00:53:08.760 but

00:53:09.640 you

00:53:10.400 can't

00:53:11.000 be

00:53:11.720 that

00:53:11.940 superficial

00:53:12.460 for

00:53:12.860 one

00:53:13.720 date

00:53:13.960 yes

00:53:14.320 maybe

00:53:14.640 two

00:53:15.000 but

00:53:15.380 then

00:53:15.500 the

00:53:15.660 third

00:53:15.880 date

00:53:16.040 men

00:53:16.360 do

00:53:16.900 want

00:53:17.140 communication

00:53:17.740 yeah

00:53:18.340 okay

00:53:18.800 so

00:53:19.160 the

00:53:19.660 average

00:53:20.300 woman

00:53:20.540 brings

00:53:20.820 communication

00:53:21.460 what

00:53:21.740 else

00:53:22.000 well

00:53:22.340 I don't

00:53:22.520 know about

00:53:22.720 the

00:53:22.840 average

00:53:23.100 woman

00:53:23.340 but

00:53:23.540 you know

00:53:23.840 good

00:53:24.140 women

00:53:24.480 okay

00:53:25.360 keep

00:53:27.700 going

00:53:27.960 what else

00:53:28.360 good

00:53:28.420 they also

00:53:31.040 want

00:53:31.620 someone that

00:53:32.980 looks good

00:53:33.460 they want

00:53:33.840 someone that

00:53:34.380 you know

00:53:35.040 is

00:53:35.760 their level

00:53:36.960 to be

00:53:37.800 honest

00:53:38.160 okay

00:53:38.500 so they

00:53:38.820 bring

00:53:39.920 looks

00:53:40.340 and

00:53:40.500 communication

00:53:41.080 what else

00:53:41.600 care

00:53:42.320 femininity

00:53:44.120 whatever

00:53:44.460 that

00:53:44.720 are women

00:53:45.460 feminine

00:53:45.980 in

00:53:46.240 2020

00:53:46.620 not

00:53:47.040 really

00:53:47.320 there's

00:53:47.580 a lot

00:53:47.760 of

00:53:47.860 alphas

00:53:48.240 out

00:53:48.460 there

00:53:48.660 okay

00:53:49.160 so

00:53:49.660 you

00:53:50.280 kind

00:53:50.460 of

00:53:50.540 have

00:53:50.720 to

00:53:50.880 be

00:53:51.180 dog

00:53:52.620 eat

00:53:52.740 dog

00:53:52.920 world

00:53:53.080 there are

00:53:56.820 a lot

00:53:56.980 of

00:53:57.160 fake

00:53:57.400 alphas

00:53:57.780 out there

00:53:58.180 including

00:53:58.540 men

00:53:59.100 that's

00:54:00.860 true

00:54:01.060 okay

00:54:01.220 so

00:54:01.620 women

00:54:02.020 bring

00:54:02.840 femininity

00:54:03.720 sometimes

00:54:04.400 sometimes

00:54:04.880 okay

00:54:05.440 what else

00:54:06.060 do women

00:54:06.420 bring

00:54:06.840 well they

00:54:08.900 can bring

00:54:09.260 status

00:54:09.780 depending

00:54:10.780 what they

00:54:11.140 do

00:54:11.420 as well

00:54:11.760 do men

00:54:12.060 care about

00:54:12.580 status

00:54:13.080 I don't

00:54:13.600 know

00:54:13.780 I think

00:54:14.140 some do

00:54:14.780 some do

00:54:15.320 my ex

00:54:15.820 actually did

00:54:16.380 okay

00:54:17.020 does the

00:54:17.520 average man

00:54:18.060 care about

00:54:18.520 status

00:54:19.020 I don't

00:54:20.020 know about

00:54:20.260 average

00:54:20.560 men

00:54:20.740 I've only

00:54:21.120 dated

00:54:21.520 quite

00:54:22.240 you know

00:54:22.800 okay

00:54:23.140 good

00:54:23.460 okay

00:54:24.680 I mean

00:54:25.260 yeah

00:54:25.780 you and

00:54:26.160 everyone

00:54:26.560 does the

00:54:28.820 man

00:54:29.100 women

00:54:29.440 typically

00:54:30.000 want

00:54:30.400 care

00:54:30.660 about

00:54:30.900 status

00:54:31.300 no

00:54:32.180 because

00:54:32.420 he'll

00:54:32.620 probably

00:54:32.820 bring

00:54:33.060 her

00:54:33.180 up

00:54:33.360 if

00:54:33.540 you're

00:54:33.680 going

00:54:33.840 to

00:54:33.940 go

00:54:34.060 average

00:54:34.560 but

00:54:35.320 I do

00:54:35.780 think

00:54:36.060 that

00:54:36.340 if

00:54:36.680 you

00:54:36.820 are

00:54:36.980 a

00:54:37.120 certain

00:54:37.280 level

00:54:37.660 of

00:54:37.880 guy

00:54:38.180 then

00:54:38.680 you

00:54:39.000 want

00:54:39.200 something

00:54:39.420 more

00:54:39.760 than

00:54:39.980 just

00:54:40.360 a

00:54:40.660 pretty

00:54:40.820 girl

00:54:41.060 on

00:54:41.180 the

00:54:41.260 arm

00:54:41.460 okay

00:54:42.000 okay

00:54:42.660 so

00:54:43.080 the

00:54:44.040 average

00:54:44.360 woman

00:54:44.640 brings

00:54:45.000 communication

00:54:45.800 no

00:54:46.560 not

00:54:47.040 the

00:54:47.180 average

00:54:47.460 woman

00:54:47.740 the

00:54:48.160 slightly

00:54:48.380 above

00:54:48.700 average

00:54:48.980 woman

00:54:49.380 brings

00:54:51.100 communication

00:54:51.900 femininity

00:54:52.740 and looks

00:54:54.200 they

00:54:54.420 should

00:54:54.780 I like

00:54:55.320 how you're

00:54:55.600 not

00:54:55.780 answering

00:54:56.160 the

00:54:56.320 question

00:54:56.700 I

00:54:56.940 asked

00:54:57.420 it's

00:54:57.940 like

00:54:58.060 women

00:54:58.340 when

00:54:58.540 we

00:54:58.660 you

00:54:58.860 don't

00:54:59.060 like

00:54:59.320 the

00:54:59.500 answer

00:55:00.020 that

00:55:00.540 we

00:55:00.900 would

00:55:01.060 have

00:55:01.260 to

00:55:01.440 give

00:55:01.820 it's

00:55:02.080 like

00:55:02.200 let

00:55:02.380 me

00:55:02.540 answer

00:55:02.940 how

00:55:03.160 I

00:55:03.400 want

00:55:03.620 to

00:55:03.780 answer

00:55:04.140 okay

00:55:04.640 so

00:55:04.900 ask

00:55:05.260 the

00:55:05.360 question

00:55:05.540 one

00:55:05.680 more

00:55:05.760 time

00:55:05.940 what

00:55:06.080 does

00:55:06.840 the

00:55:07.020 average

00:55:07.420 woman

00:55:07.840 bring

00:55:08.220 to

00:55:08.400 the

00:55:08.540 table

00:55:08.900 in

00:55:09.120 2023

00:55:09.760 so

00:55:10.260 the

00:55:10.400 average

00:55:10.780 woman

00:55:11.240 it

00:55:13.180 depends

00:55:13.600 usually

00:55:14.200 I guess

00:55:15.220 don't remember

00:55:15.820 that's a

00:55:16.240 banned

00:55:16.560 word

00:55:16.840 yes

00:55:17.120 it's

00:55:17.340 banned

00:55:17.660 okay

00:55:18.060 so

00:55:18.260 the

00:55:18.440 average

00:55:18.880 woman

00:55:19.260 I guess

00:55:19.780 is

00:55:19.980 everyone

00:55:20.460 that is

00:55:20.980 on

00:55:21.160 social

00:55:21.540 media

00:55:21.900 so

00:55:22.140 they

00:55:22.280 bring

00:55:22.500 looks

00:55:22.960 how

00:55:23.580 about

00:55:23.760 that

00:55:24.020 as

00:55:24.300 simple

00:55:24.540 as

00:55:24.720 that

00:55:24.900 anything

00:55:25.280 else

00:55:25.700 I mean

00:55:26.380 I'm sure

00:55:26.780 there are

00:55:27.080 but if you're

00:55:27.480 going on a date

00:55:27.940 and you don't know

00:55:28.400 the person

00:55:28.780 how do you know

00:55:29.360 you get to know

00:55:29.880 them

00:55:30.080 okay

00:55:30.280 okay

00:55:30.520 what does

00:55:30.840 the average

00:55:31.340 woman

00:55:31.680 bring

00:55:31.940 yeah

00:55:32.140 so

00:55:32.240 we're

00:55:32.420 talking

00:55:32.660 about

00:55:33.000 average

00:55:33.560 average

00:55:33.940 means

00:55:34.260 already

00:55:34.560 that

00:55:34.840 it

00:55:35.040 doesn't

00:55:35.280 bring

00:55:35.500 much

00:55:35.940 right

00:55:36.240 and

00:55:36.520 women

00:55:36.980 are

00:55:37.180 being

00:55:37.360 forced

00:55:37.840 to

00:55:38.740 to

00:55:39.360 bring

00:55:40.360 on the

00:55:40.600 table

00:55:40.820 things

00:55:41.140 that

00:55:41.380 I

00:55:41.540 think

00:55:41.700 for

00:55:41.860 men

00:55:42.020 it's

00:55:42.140 not

00:55:42.300 very

00:55:42.540 useful

00:55:42.960 anymore

00:55:43.480 so

00:55:43.800 we've

00:55:44.160 been

00:55:44.400 forced

00:55:45.120 like

00:55:45.300 if

00:55:45.440 you

00:55:45.540 talk

00:55:45.740 to

00:55:45.880 most

00:55:46.160 of

00:55:46.340 girls

00:55:46.560 here

00:55:46.800 they

00:55:47.160 have

00:55:47.420 like

00:55:47.740 really

00:55:48.000 good

00:55:48.220 jobs

00:55:48.480 working

00:55:48.760 for

00:55:48.920 governments

00:55:49.440 high

00:55:49.740 education

00:55:50.500 and

00:55:51.060 that's

00:55:51.240 not

00:55:51.400 what

00:55:51.600 men

00:55:51.860 need

00:55:52.220 like

00:55:52.460 in

00:55:52.580 a

00:55:52.660 relationship

00:55:53.080 like

00:55:53.460 sex

00:55:53.740 if

00:55:53.900 you

00:55:54.000 put

00:55:54.160 on

00:55:54.260 the

00:55:54.360 top

00:55:54.520 for

00:55:54.700 men

00:55:54.860 is

00:55:55.000 number

00:55:55.240 one

00:55:55.600 right

00:55:56.200 and

00:55:56.940 unfortunately

00:55:57.420 the

00:55:57.720 other

00:55:58.040 things

00:55:58.400 affect

00:55:58.800 women

00:55:59.080 on

00:55:59.260 this

00:55:59.460 way

00:55:59.720 and

00:55:59.960 things

00:56:00.200 like

00:56:00.400 this

00:56:00.580 why

00:56:11.140 very

00:56:13.840 well

00:56:14.220 educated

00:56:14.840 and

00:56:15.440 have

00:56:15.720 a

00:56:15.840 job

00:56:16.100 of

00:56:16.320 course

00:56:16.460 if

00:56:16.600 you

00:56:16.680 live

00:56:16.840 in

00:56:16.980 London

00:56:17.240 if

00:56:17.460 you

00:56:17.560 don't

00:56:17.760 work

00:56:17.980 if

00:56:18.100 you

00:56:18.160 don't

00:56:18.320 make

00:56:18.480 money

00:56:18.760 the

00:56:19.160 city

00:56:19.320 is

00:56:19.440 gonna

00:56:19.580 swallow

00:56:19.900 you

00:56:20.220 do

00:56:20.440 men

00:56:20.900 typically

00:56:21.360 want

00:56:21.640 to

00:56:21.740 marry

00:56:21.980 young

00:56:22.280 women

00:56:22.620 yes

00:56:23.360 of

00:56:23.560 course

00:56:23.760 so

00:56:24.120 what

00:56:24.420 was

00:56:25.000 stopping

00:56:25.700 us

00:56:26.040 from

00:56:26.280 getting

00:56:26.520 married

00:56:26.940 at

00:56:27.100 21

00:56:27.520 yeah

00:56:28.860 that's

00:56:29.520 a

00:56:29.700 really

00:56:29.900 good

00:56:30.160 question

00:56:30.420 we

00:56:30.660 wanted

00:56:30.760 to

00:56:30.920 be

00:56:31.260 more

00:56:31.700 we

00:56:31.900 wanted

00:56:32.120 to

00:56:32.260 be

00:56:32.400 independent

00:56:32.960 and

00:56:33.300 this

00:56:33.620 is

00:56:33.800 the

00:56:34.000 problem

00:56:34.420 nowadays

00:56:35.040 yeah

00:56:41.140 it

00:56:41.960 was

00:56:42.140 my

00:56:42.340 personal

00:56:42.760 choice

00:56:43.280 right

00:56:43.620 so

00:56:44.280 that's

00:56:45.080 that's

00:56:45.540 one of

00:56:46.040 the main

00:56:46.380 reasons

00:56:46.740 why not

00:56:47.300 correct

00:56:48.060 but

00:56:48.540 I'm

00:56:48.980 saying

00:56:49.320 like

00:56:49.660 like

00:56:50.380 that

00:56:50.520 it was

00:56:50.740 still

00:56:50.900 a choice

00:56:51.280 we

00:56:51.460 weren't

00:56:51.640 forced

00:56:52.100 yeah

00:56:53.280 of course

00:56:54.000 a man

00:56:54.440 of value

00:56:55.020 like

00:56:55.460 maybe

00:56:55.760 didn't

00:56:56.200 propose

00:56:56.640 maybe

00:56:57.100 it

00:56:57.260 wasn't

00:56:57.520 the

00:56:57.640 right

00:56:57.860 man

00:56:58.260 like

00:56:58.700 that

00:56:58.920 proposed

00:56:59.240 why

00:56:59.500 would

00:56:59.680 a man

00:57:01.440 not

00:57:01.660 propose

00:57:02.140 I don't

00:57:02.900 know

00:57:03.040 because

00:57:03.360 you're

00:57:03.540 too

00:57:03.740 young

00:57:04.020 maybe

00:57:04.520 or

00:57:04.880 it's

00:57:05.120 not

00:57:05.340 or

00:57:05.800 you

00:57:06.360 don't

00:57:06.620 bring

00:57:06.840 like

00:57:07.240 you're

00:57:07.420 saying

00:57:07.580 the

00:57:07.700 young

00:57:11.140 got

00:57:11.240 married

00:57:11.460 they've

00:57:12.020 had

00:57:12.140 long

00:57:12.280 relationships

00:57:12.820 but

00:57:13.060 they

00:57:13.180 don't

00:57:13.340 get

00:57:13.500 married

00:57:13.820 in

00:57:14.140 their

00:57:14.340 20s

00:57:15.100 they

00:57:15.180 just

00:57:15.420 don't

00:57:15.840 right

00:57:16.120 but

00:57:16.380 I'm

00:57:16.660 saying

00:57:17.080 why

00:57:17.320 would

00:57:17.460 a

00:57:17.580 man

00:57:17.720 not

00:57:17.960 propose

00:57:18.440 probably

00:57:19.240 because

00:57:19.580 economically

00:57:20.200 he

00:57:20.600 wants

00:57:20.860 to be

00:57:21.060 of a

00:57:21.300 certain

00:57:21.480 stature

00:57:21.920 okay

00:57:22.320 why

00:57:22.860 couldn't

00:57:23.440 she

00:57:23.600 get

00:57:23.780 a

00:57:23.920 guy

00:57:24.240 that

00:57:24.760 makes

00:57:26.040 a lot

00:57:26.320 of

00:57:26.420 money

00:57:26.920 well

00:57:27.800 I

00:57:28.080 think

00:57:28.260 at

00:57:28.420 21

00:57:28.760 you

00:57:28.980 don't

00:57:29.080 have

00:57:29.260 maturity

00:57:29.760 enough

00:57:30.240 to

00:57:30.520 handle

00:57:31.040 a

00:57:31.200 house

00:57:31.380 nowadays

00:57:32.000 nowadays

00:57:32.480 you

00:57:33.280 know

00:57:33.520 but

00:57:33.720 my

00:57:35.060 mom

00:57:35.500 the

00:57:35.960 my

00:57:37.320 mom

00:57:37.580 the

00:57:37.800 same

00:57:38.060 but

00:57:38.420 nowadays

00:57:38.860 I'm

00:57:39.280 a

00:57:39.400 teacher

00:57:39.680 as

00:57:39.920 well

00:57:40.100 right

00:57:40.400 I

00:57:40.960 see

00:57:41.180 the

00:57:41.360 girls

00:57:41.800 you

00:57:42.220 know

00:57:42.400 even

00:57:42.900 if

00:57:43.080 I

00:57:43.140 talk

00:57:43.300 to

00:57:43.420 many

00:57:43.660 friends

00:57:43.940 of

00:57:44.100 mine

00:57:44.400 there

00:57:44.840 so

00:57:45.460 now

00:57:45.800 in

00:57:45.980 the

00:57:46.100 past

00:57:46.340 years

00:57:46.620 things

00:57:46.980 have

00:57:47.260 been

00:57:47.540 happening

00:57:48.240 that

00:57:49.180 people

00:57:49.500 are

00:57:49.640 not

00:57:49.840 and

00:57:49.980 that's

00:57:50.280 what's

00:57:50.760 going

00:57:50.880 to

00:57:50.960 happen

00:57:51.140 if

00:57:51.340 you

00:57:51.480 married

00:57:51.780 it

00:57:52.080 means

00:57:52.320 in

00:57:52.460 a

00:57:52.580 while

00:57:52.800 you

00:57:52.960 are

00:57:53.020 going

00:57:53.140 to

00:57:53.200 have

00:57:53.400 kids

00:57:53.740 that's

00:57:55.880 wrong

00:57:56.140 no

00:57:56.560 but

00:57:56.820 mostly

00:57:57.260 we're

00:57:57.540 talking

00:57:57.780 generally

00:57:58.340 you're

00:57:58.820 going

00:58:05.960 not

00:58:06.240 taking

00:58:06.500 responsibility

00:58:07.140 what

00:58:07.540 is

00:58:07.660 the

00:58:07.820 most

00:58:08.180 important

00:58:08.740 people

00:58:09.080 are

00:58:09.200 not

00:58:09.340 able

00:58:09.560 to

00:58:09.720 take

00:58:09.880 responsibilities

00:58:10.480 if

00:58:11.180 you

00:58:11.260 get

00:58:11.380 married

00:58:11.680 young

00:58:12.100 nowadays

00:58:12.700 with

00:58:12.860 the

00:58:13.000 brain

00:58:13.260 that

00:58:13.420 they

00:58:13.560 are

00:58:13.680 having

00:58:14.060 they're

00:58:14.660 not

00:58:15.240 going

00:58:15.480 to

00:58:15.560 be

00:58:15.680 able

00:58:15.980 to

00:58:16.180 raise

00:58:16.440 kids

00:58:16.720 properly

00:58:17.160 and

00:58:17.420 that's

00:58:17.760 going

00:58:17.940 to

00:58:18.080 fuck

00:58:18.280 up

00:58:18.500 the

00:58:18.620 kid

00:58:18.940 right

00:58:19.300 that's

00:58:19.820 what

00:58:19.940 I

00:58:20.020 see

00:58:20.180 in

00:58:20.340 schools

00:58:20.760 happening

00:58:21.220 do

00:58:21.360 you

00:58:21.440 think

00:58:21.620 it's

00:58:21.800 harder

00:58:22.060 for

00:58:22.300 women

00:58:22.560 to

00:58:22.760 change

00:58:23.080 the

00:58:23.260 older

00:58:23.620 they

00:58:23.880 are

00:58:24.140 or

00:58:24.260 the

00:58:24.380 younger

00:58:24.720 they

00:58:24.940 are

00:58:25.260 I

00:58:25.800 think

00:58:25.960 for

00:58:26.120 every

00:58:26.420 human

00:58:26.700 being

00:58:26.920 it's

00:58:27.080 harder

00:58:27.360 the

00:58:27.560 older

00:58:27.780 you

00:58:27.940 get

00:58:28.100 and

00:58:28.220 that's

00:58:28.400 okay

00:58:28.680 okay

00:58:29.060 scientifically

00:58:29.720 okay

00:58:30.620 so

00:58:30.960 wouldn't

00:58:31.240 it

00:58:31.360 make

00:58:31.520 more

00:58:31.740 sense

00:58:32.020 to

00:58:32.180 get

00:58:32.320 married

00:58:32.620 younger

00:58:33.100 rather

00:58:33.460 than

00:58:33.740 older

00:58:34.160 so

00:58:34.600 you

00:58:34.780 can

00:58:35.060 molt

00:58:35.600 like

00:58:35.820 you

00:58:35.940 can

00:58:36.100 grow

00:58:36.280 together

00:58:36.680 with

00:58:36.940 the

00:58:37.080 man

00:58:37.360 so

00:58:37.900 it

00:58:38.180 depends

00:58:38.540 how

00:58:38.960 the

00:58:39.340 younger

00:58:39.620 you

00:58:39.800 get

00:58:40.120 usually

00:58:40.600 the

00:58:40.860 highest

00:58:41.180 the

00:58:41.500 rate

00:58:41.900 of

00:58:42.020 divorces

00:58:42.520 are

00:58:42.740 higher

00:58:43.140 so

00:58:43.660 it's

00:58:43.760 not

00:58:43.900 about

00:58:44.100 the

00:58:44.280 age

00:58:44.620 it's

00:58:44.940 about

00:58:45.180 maturity

00:58:45.800 because

00:58:46.120 you

00:58:46.300 can

00:58:55.260 it's

00:58:55.340 a

00:58:55.480 matter

00:58:55.700 of

00:58:56.040 maturity

00:58:56.600 do

00:58:58.220 you

00:58:58.340 think

00:58:58.520 that's

00:58:58.820 what

00:58:59.060 men

00:58:59.600 want

00:58:59.920 maturity

00:59:00.500 of

00:59:01.820 course

00:59:02.140 if

00:59:02.380 a

00:59:02.580 wise

00:59:02.780 man

00:59:03.040 wants

00:59:03.280 maturity

00:59:03.660 otherwise

00:59:04.140 what

00:59:04.500 happens

00:59:04.820 with

00:59:05.080 men

00:59:05.320 so

00:59:05.680 what

00:59:05.880 does

00:59:06.000 the

00:59:06.160 average

00:59:06.460 woman

00:59:06.760 bring

00:59:07.180 in

00:59:07.760 2023

00:59:08.460 as

00:59:08.980 I

00:59:09.080 said

00:59:09.300 average

00:59:09.740 means

00:59:10.100 already

00:59:10.540 that

00:59:10.780 it

00:59:10.900 doesn't

00:59:11.220 bring

00:59:11.460 much

00:59:11.920 okay

00:59:12.440 okay

00:59:13.020 so

00:59:13.320 she

00:59:13.580 doesn't

00:59:13.880 bring

00:59:14.060 much

00:59:14.400 average

00:59:15.060 people

00:59:15.520 don't

00:59:15.820 bring

00:59:16.020 much

00:59:16.260 to

00:59:16.400 the

00:59:16.480 table

00:59:16.740 either

00:59:17.140 men

00:59:17.480 or

00:59:17.660 women

00:59:17.980 I

00:59:18.300 would

00:59:18.780 argue

00:59:19.960 that

00:59:25.260 40

00:59:25.480 you

00:59:25.800 know

00:59:25.920 half

00:59:26.260 of

00:59:26.420 men

00:59:26.620 have

00:59:26.800 infrastructure

00:59:27.400 jobs

00:59:27.940 it

00:59:28.320 means

00:59:28.500 one

00:59:28.900 out

00:59:29.020 of

00:59:29.100 every

00:59:29.280 two

00:59:29.520 men

00:59:29.740 you

00:59:29.880 meet

00:59:30.080 is

00:59:30.200 running

00:59:30.460 the

00:59:30.620 infrastructure

00:59:31.000 to

00:59:31.280 the

00:59:31.380 table

00:59:31.620 to

00:59:31.820 society

00:59:32.300 or

00:59:32.820 to

00:59:33.140 their

00:59:33.520 relationship

00:59:34.020 I'm

00:59:34.740 saying

00:59:34.960 a lot

00:59:35.220 of

00:59:35.340 times

00:59:35.580 average

00:59:35.940 women

00:59:36.220 think

00:59:36.460 they're

00:59:36.600 better

00:59:36.820 than

00:59:37.020 average

00:59:37.420 men

00:59:37.840 in

00:59:38.360 society

00:59:39.260 would

00:59:39.700 they

00:59:39.840 bring

00:59:40.320 to

00:59:40.480 society

00:59:40.860 or

00:59:41.160 in

00:59:41.320 relationship

00:59:41.800 I

00:59:42.160 would

00:59:42.420 argue

00:59:42.940 that

00:59:43.260 the

00:59:43.420 average

00:59:43.800 man

00:59:44.160 brings

00:59:44.480 more

00:59:44.720 than

00:59:55.260 woman

00:59:55.560 she

00:59:55.920 will

00:59:56.080 have

00:59:56.280 lots

00:59:56.560 of

00:59:56.680 requests

00:59:57.080 what

00:59:57.880 she

00:59:58.240 will

00:59:58.380 have

00:59:58.540 lots

00:59:58.840 of

00:59:58.980 requests

00:59:59.360 if

00:59:59.680 she's

00:59:59.920 the

01:00:00.040 average

01:00:00.340 woman

01:00:00.660 yes

01:00:00.920 she

01:00:01.860 will

01:00:01.980 request

01:00:02.380 but

01:00:02.720 she

01:00:02.840 will

01:00:02.940 not

01:00:03.140 give

01:00:03.460 what

01:00:04.000 she's

01:00:04.240 requesting

01:00:04.640 also

01:00:05.260 part of

01:00:06.260 what social

01:00:06.660 media

01:00:06.920 has

01:00:07.160 done

01:00:07.420 to

01:00:07.560 our

01:00:07.680 society

01:00:08.080 is

01:00:08.580 back

01:00:09.160 in

01:00:09.300 the

01:00:09.400 day

01:00:09.560 before

01:00:09.780 social

01:00:10.080 media

01:00:10.440 it

01:00:11.240 would

01:00:11.760 be

01:00:11.920 usually

01:00:12.280 very

01:00:12.660 hard

01:00:12.980 for

01:00:13.180 a woman

01:00:13.540 to

01:00:13.820 even

01:00:14.100 date

01:00:14.420 outside

01:00:14.760 of

01:00:14.920 her

01:00:15.080 social

01:00:15.360 class

01:00:15.800 back

01:00:16.460 in

01:00:16.600 the

01:00:16.700 days

01:00:16.920 there

01:00:17.080 was

01:00:17.200 not

01:00:17.820 going

01:00:18.180 without

01:00:18.800 the

01:00:19.100 husband

01:00:19.520 the

01:00:20.960 point

01:00:21.240 is

01:00:21.580 these

01:00:22.600 days

01:00:23.020 a lot

01:00:23.320 of

01:00:23.480 women

01:00:23.820 think

01:00:24.820 they

01:00:25.080 are

01:00:25.240 more

01:00:25.540 valuable

01:00:26.020 than

01:00:26.380 they

01:00:26.540 actually

01:00:26.940 are

01:00:27.300 and

01:00:28.160 I'm

01:00:28.280 not

01:00:28.420 saying

01:00:28.560 that

01:00:28.720 to

01:00:28.860 be

01:00:29.020 this

01:00:29.400 in

01:00:29.800 terms

01:00:30.060 of

01:00:30.320 a

01:00:30.660 woman

01:00:30.880 who

01:00:31.040 sleep

01:00:31.300 with

01:00:31.480 like

01:00:31.680 maybe

01:00:31.860 a

01:00:32.040 celebrity

01:00:32.360 that

01:00:32.560 went

01:00:32.740 in

01:00:32.880 her

01:00:33.020 DM

01:00:33.240 and

01:00:33.500 automatically

01:00:33.940 in

01:00:34.280 her

01:00:34.400 head

01:00:34.660 she

01:00:34.980 thinks

01:00:35.240 that

01:00:35.420 she

01:00:35.580 can

01:00:35.840 only

01:00:36.300 get

01:00:36.840 married

01:00:37.120 to

01:00:37.280 someone

01:00:37.560 on

01:00:37.700 that

01:00:37.860 level

01:00:38.200 that

01:00:39.000 is

01:00:39.120 what

01:00:39.880 messes

01:00:40.240 up

01:00:40.400 a lot

01:00:40.600 of

01:00:40.720 women

01:00:40.920 the

01:00:41.440 reality

01:00:41.800 is

01:00:42.120 most

01:00:42.440 of

01:00:42.600 those

01:00:42.780 guys

01:00:43.140 just

01:00:44.160 look

01:00:44.540 at

01:00:44.660 those

01:00:44.880 women

01:00:45.180 as

01:00:45.500 okay

01:00:45.780 well

01:00:46.000 this

01:00:46.260 is

01:00:46.380 better

01:00:46.540 than

01:00:46.700 my

01:00:46.860 hand

01:00:47.120 but

01:00:47.700 then

01:00:47.900 the

01:00:48.060 woman

01:00:48.280 goes

01:00:48.560 after

01:00:48.900 that

01:00:49.200 and

01:00:49.360 then

01:00:49.480 she

01:00:49.640 thinks

01:00:49.900 okay

01:00:50.160 well

01:00:50.480 I

01:00:51.400 slept

01:00:51.640 with

01:00:51.880 Lebron

01:00:52.360 James

01:00:52.640 so

01:00:52.840 now

01:00:53.140 I

01:00:53.640 can

01:00:53.820 only

01:00:54.100 get

01:00:54.900 married

01:00:55.100 to

01:00:55.240 a

01:00:55.340 basketballer

01:00:55.960 meanwhile

01:00:56.500 she

01:00:56.780 would

01:00:56.900 actually

01:00:57.220 be

01:00:57.380 more

01:00:57.580 equally

01:00:57.940 yoked

01:00:58.280 to

01:00:58.460 get

01:00:58.920 married

01:00:59.140 to

01:00:59.280 a

01:00:59.480 plumber

01:00:59.900 for

01:01:00.600 most

01:01:00.820 women

01:01:01.040 who

01:01:01.240 see

01:01:01.440 themselves

01:01:01.800 as

01:01:01.960 above

01:01:02.360 being

01:01:02.660 married

01:01:02.920 to

01:01:03.080 a

01:01:03.160 plumber

01:01:03.440 that's

01:01:04.180 the

01:01:04.300 problem

01:01:04.560 with

01:01:04.700 society

01:01:05.040 because

01:01:05.360 they

01:01:05.500 are

01:01:05.660 unrealistic

01:01:06.520 they

01:01:07.320 cannot

01:01:08.600 make

01:01:09.000 the

01:01:09.180 difference

01:01:09.540 between

01:01:10.100 the

01:01:10.580 reality

01:01:11.060 and

01:01:11.440 what

01:01:11.660 they

01:01:11.820 have

01:01:12.060 in

01:01:12.200 their

01:01:12.400 head

01:01:12.720 also

01:01:13.400 the

01:01:15.640 person

01:01:15.960 that

01:01:16.100 goes

01:01:16.300 and

01:01:16.480 sleeps

01:01:16.700 with

01:01:16.860 someone

01:01:17.100 willy-nilly

01:01:17.540 like

01:01:17.800 that

01:01:18.140 with

01:01:18.540 anyone

01:01:18.860 whether

01:01:19.080 just

01:01:19.400 because

01:01:19.620 they're

01:01:19.780 a

01:01:19.860 celebrity

01:01:20.200 is

01:01:20.440 weird

01:01:20.740 I

01:01:20.940 wouldn't

01:01:21.180 even

01:01:21.340 say

01:01:21.580 it's

01:01:21.760 willy-nilly

01:01:22.320 I'd

01:01:22.680 say

01:01:22.820 women

01:01:23.100 date

01:01:23.640 celebrities

01:01:24.240 for

01:01:24.700 a

01:01:24.860 couple

01:01:25.060 months

01:01:25.520 a

01:01:25.720 year

01:01:26.060 two

01:01:26.500 years

01:01:26.820 and

01:01:26.980 think

01:01:27.160 they're

01:01:27.340 on

01:01:27.460 the

01:01:27.600 level

01:01:27.960 but

01:01:28.760 usually

01:01:29.340 those

01:01:29.620 celebrities

01:01:30.020 have

01:01:30.460 multiple

01:01:31.000 girlfriends

01:01:31.500 so

01:01:32.000 it's

01:01:32.160 just

01:01:32.320 one

01:01:32.460 of

01:01:32.560 many

01:01:32.820 so

01:01:33.420 it's

01:01:33.700 a

01:01:33.860 hype

01:01:34.200 huh

01:01:35.060 so

01:01:35.580 it

01:01:35.780 all

01:01:36.060 sounds

01:01:36.420 like

01:01:36.620 a

01:01:36.800 hype

01:01:37.200 that's

01:01:37.720 a

01:01:37.820 specific

01:01:38.220 type

01:01:38.720 of

01:01:38.900 women

01:01:39.120 which

01:01:39.320 is

01:01:39.420 okay

01:01:39.780 which

01:01:40.120 is

01:01:40.260 okay

01:01:40.560 that's

01:01:41.620 not

01:01:41.760 a

01:01:42.060 lot

01:01:42.240 of

01:01:42.400 women

01:01:42.660 that's

01:01:43.060 a

01:01:43.180 certain

01:01:43.420 that's

01:01:43.700 like

01:01:43.880 a

01:01:44.040 few

01:01:44.300 women

01:01:44.600 I

01:01:44.840 would

01:01:44.960 say

01:01:45.100 that's

01:01:45.300 attractive

01:01:45.740 women

01:01:46.200 yeah

01:01:47.020 but

01:01:47.180 not

01:01:47.360 all

01:01:47.720 attractive

01:01:48.060 not

01:01:48.900 all

01:01:49.280 but

01:01:49.440 I

01:01:49.520 would

01:01:49.680 say

01:01:49.900 more

01:01:50.200 do

01:01:50.460 than

01:01:50.700 don't

01:01:51.100 I

01:01:51.240 think

01:01:51.460 it's

01:01:51.680 a

01:01:52.040 mentality

01:01:52.600 type

01:01:53.280 though

01:01:53.520 right

01:01:53.760 it's

01:01:54.000 not

01:01:54.120 the

01:01:54.300 same

01:01:54.500 thing

01:01:54.800 so

01:01:55.000 like

01:01:55.260 to

01:01:55.600 generalize

01:01:56.180 that

01:01:56.340 is

01:01:56.500 really

01:01:56.720 quite

01:01:57.000 sweeping

01:01:57.380 but

01:01:57.700 we

01:01:57.840 have

01:01:58.140 to

01:01:58.280 talk

01:01:58.560 in

01:01:58.740 general

01:01:59.060 I

01:01:59.680 agree

01:02:00.520 it's

01:02:00.840 all

01:02:01.040 women

01:02:01.320 because

01:02:01.740 every

01:02:03.120 woman

01:02:03.580 unless

01:02:04.360 the

01:02:04.760 woman

01:02:04.960 is

01:02:05.160 probably

01:02:05.600 she

01:02:05.980 has

01:02:06.120 mental

01:02:06.460 problems

01:02:06.940 or

01:02:07.140 she

01:02:07.360 has

01:02:07.740 trauma

01:02:08.280 usually

01:02:09.260 women

01:02:09.700 will

01:02:09.920 go after

01:02:10.340 men

01:02:10.620 that

01:02:10.760 better

01:02:11.020 than

01:02:11.240 them

01:02:11.440 the

01:02:12.040 problem

01:02:12.460 is

01:02:13.020 how

01:02:13.640 do

01:02:13.860 you

01:02:14.040 secure

01:02:19.520 man

01:02:19.840 she

01:02:20.520 can't

01:02:20.780 secure

01:02:21.000 him

01:02:21.120 gets

01:02:21.300 to

01:02:21.400 the

01:02:21.500 next

01:02:21.660 man

01:02:21.820 and

01:02:21.940 they

01:02:22.020 are

01:02:22.100 all

01:02:22.240 high

01:02:22.400 value

01:02:22.640 men

01:02:23.200 she

01:02:23.580 should

01:02:23.860 actually

01:02:24.180 look

01:02:24.500 and

01:02:24.660 see

01:02:24.860 why

01:02:25.140 have

01:02:25.380 I

01:02:25.500 not

01:02:25.620 been

01:02:25.780 able

01:02:25.900 to

01:02:26.080 secure

01:02:26.360 any

01:02:26.620 of

01:02:26.760 these

01:02:26.900 men

01:02:27.200 what

01:02:27.480 is

01:02:27.620 wrong

01:02:27.760 with me

01:02:28.080 probably

01:02:28.480 playing out

01:02:29.680 of my

01:02:30.000 league

01:02:30.300 but

01:02:30.600 they

01:02:30.760 wouldn't

01:02:31.020 do

01:02:31.140 that

01:02:31.340 no

01:02:31.520 they

01:02:31.720 would

01:02:31.880 rather

01:02:32.140 keep

01:02:32.460 trying

01:02:32.960 to

01:02:33.180 get

01:02:33.640 to

01:02:33.780 the

01:02:33.940 next

01:02:34.160 man

01:02:34.480 who

01:02:35.040 is

01:02:35.180 probably

01:02:35.460 even

01:02:35.720 higher

01:02:36.280 than

01:02:49.520 and

01:02:50.020 then

01:02:50.200 you

01:02:50.420 want

01:02:50.560 to

01:02:50.660 go

01:02:50.740 to

01:02:50.840 the

01:02:50.960 next

01:02:51.160 floor

01:02:51.380 the

01:02:51.760 man

01:02:52.580 has

01:02:52.880 something

01:02:53.220 better

01:02:53.580 and

01:02:54.020 then

01:02:54.120 you

01:02:54.220 keep

01:02:54.360 going

01:02:54.620 until

01:02:54.820 you

01:02:54.920 get

01:02:55.040 to

01:02:55.140 the

01:02:55.280 seventh

01:02:55.560 floor

01:02:55.760 and

01:02:55.860 you

01:02:55.940 find

01:02:56.120 out

01:02:56.260 that

01:02:56.400 there

01:02:56.540 are

01:02:56.600 no

01:02:56.740 men

01:02:56.900 left

01:02:57.220 that's

01:02:57.700 usually

01:02:57.940 what

01:02:58.120 happens

01:02:58.380 to

01:02:58.540 most

01:02:58.720 women

01:02:59.000 and

01:02:59.420 I

01:03:19.520 happening

01:03:19.900 in

01:03:20.380 professional

01:03:20.820 side

01:03:21.300 and

01:03:21.600 also

01:03:22.080 into

01:03:22.700 relationships

01:03:23.380 right

01:03:24.180 and

01:03:24.380 I've

01:03:24.600 seen

01:03:24.860 also

01:03:25.180 like

01:03:25.460 men

01:03:25.800 that

01:03:26.000 they

01:03:26.200 will

01:03:26.840 you

01:03:27.160 know

01:03:27.380 follow

01:03:27.760 this

01:03:28.020 girl

01:03:28.320 or

01:03:28.520 like

01:03:29.480 that

01:03:29.720 there's

01:03:29.880 going

01:03:30.000 to

01:03:30.040 be

01:03:30.180 who

01:03:30.380 is

01:03:30.480 the

01:03:30.620 hottest

01:03:30.900 and

01:03:31.160 I

01:03:31.320 have

01:03:31.900 a lot

01:03:32.140 of

01:03:32.260 friends

01:03:32.520 of

01:03:32.660 mine

01:03:32.840 males

01:03:33.300 that

01:03:34.100 they

01:03:34.440 really

01:03:34.660 want

01:03:34.800 to

01:03:34.840 be

01:03:34.920 in

01:03:35.000 a

01:03:35.060 relationship

01:03:35.400 and

01:03:35.560 say

01:03:35.660 like

01:03:35.800 so

01:03:35.960 why

01:03:36.160 are

01:03:36.300 you

01:03:36.480 not

01:03:36.880 instead

01:03:37.400 because

01:03:37.640 there

01:03:37.800 are

01:03:37.840 many

01:03:38.000 options

01:03:38.480 and

01:03:39.480 there

01:03:39.640 and

01:03:39.840 there

01:03:40.000 is

01:03:40.240 so

01:03:40.480 social

01:03:49.520 everyone

01:03:50.260 so

01:03:51.420 what do

01:03:52.320 you

01:03:52.420 think

01:03:52.600 the

01:03:52.780 average

01:03:53.120 woman

01:03:53.400 brings

01:03:53.720 to

01:03:53.880 the

01:03:54.000 table

01:03:54.240 in

01:03:54.400 2023

01:03:54.880 first

01:03:55.480 of

01:03:55.680 all

01:03:55.800 lots

01:03:56.020 of

01:03:56.160 requests

01:03:56.620 lots

01:03:58.380 of

01:03:58.440 requests

01:03:58.940 when

01:04:01.760 I'm

01:04:02.600 speaking

01:04:02.840 about

01:04:03.260 this

01:04:03.620 I'm

01:04:03.820 thinking

01:04:04.040 about

01:04:04.500 most

01:04:05.440 of

01:04:05.620 the

01:04:05.760 women

01:04:06.000 that

01:04:06.240 I

01:04:06.420 met

01:04:06.720 in

01:04:06.880 this

01:04:07.080 life

01:04:07.460 like

01:04:08.020 colleagues

01:04:08.640 maybe

01:04:09.220 friends

01:04:09.960 old

01:04:10.320 friends

01:04:10.680 and

01:04:11.440 I

01:04:12.220 think

01:04:12.540 their

01:04:12.860 level

01:04:13.980 was

01:04:14.440 quite

01:04:15.080 mediocre

01:04:15.620 but

01:04:17.260 what

01:04:17.780 they

01:04:18.280 were

01:04:19.260 requesting

01:04:19.700 from

01:04:19.960 their

01:04:20.140 partners

01:04:20.600 or

01:04:20.980 from

01:04:21.340 the

01:04:21.540 future

01:04:21.820 partners

01:04:22.240 because

01:04:22.540 they

01:04:22.740 didn't

01:04:22.980 have

01:04:23.140 a

01:04:23.280 partner

01:04:23.580 due

01:04:24.120 to

01:04:24.320 this

01:04:24.680 request

01:04:25.200 and

01:04:25.780 their

01:04:25.920 level

01:04:26.240 no

01:04:26.980 this

01:04:27.240 is

01:04:27.380 reality

01:04:27.820 like

01:04:28.220 it's

01:04:28.400 not

01:04:28.600 funny

01:04:29.080 it's

01:04:29.580 funny

01:04:29.860 in a

01:04:30.120 way

01:04:30.260 but

01:04:30.500 it's

01:04:30.760 sad

01:04:31.060 because

01:04:31.840 they

01:04:32.460 are

01:04:32.820 not

01:04:33.020 able

01:04:33.240 to

01:04:33.440 make

01:04:33.580 the

01:04:33.740 difference

01:04:34.120 anymore

01:04:34.580 about

01:04:35.760 what

01:04:36.060 I

01:04:36.180 was

01:04:36.300 saying

01:04:36.500 about

01:04:36.700 the

01:04:36.880 reality

01:04:37.260 and

01:04:37.540 about

01:04:38.000 what

01:04:38.480 they

01:04:38.840 can

01:04:39.160 have

01:04:39.580 right

01:04:40.320 so

01:04:40.900 they

01:04:41.080 request

01:04:41.680 too

01:04:41.920 much

01:04:42.180 yeah

01:04:42.380 okay

01:04:43.060 what

01:04:43.240 do

01:04:43.320 you

01:04:43.420 think

01:04:43.560 the

01:04:43.700 average

01:04:44.000 woman

01:04:44.280 brings

01:04:44.540 to

01:04:44.680 the

01:04:44.800 table

01:04:45.060 in

01:04:45.220 2023

01:04:45.660 I

01:04:46.620 would

01:04:46.800 say

01:04:47.120 less

01:04:47.420 dependency

01:04:48.140 there's

01:04:48.920 less

01:04:49.220 need

01:04:49.560 to

01:04:49.940 look

01:04:50.280 after

01:04:50.620 a

01:04:50.800 woman

01:04:50.980 financially

01:04:51.620 now

01:04:52.000 there's

01:04:52.760 the

01:04:53.120 two

01:04:53.520 in fact

01:04:55.980 combined

01:04:56.600 they're

01:04:56.960 stronger

01:04:57.240 together

01:04:57.660 and I

01:04:58.020 think

01:04:58.180 that's

01:04:58.560 the

01:04:58.800 beautiful

01:04:59.080 thing

01:04:59.320 about

01:04:59.540 modern

01:04:59.840 times

01:05:00.240 is that

01:05:00.680 they're

01:05:01.300 more

01:05:01.460 powerful

01:05:02.180 do you

01:05:03.520 think

01:05:03.660 that's

01:05:03.900 a good

01:05:04.080 unit

01:05:04.380 do you

01:05:05.080 think

01:05:05.240 it's

01:05:05.420 a good

01:05:05.680 thing

01:05:05.880 that

01:05:06.020 women

01:05:06.220 are

01:05:06.380 more

01:05:06.580 independent

01:05:07.040 yes

01:05:08.620 I

01:05:08.780 think

01:05:08.940 it

01:05:09.060 takes

01:05:09.280 some

01:05:09.420 of

01:05:09.480 the

01:05:09.560 pressure

01:05:09.840 of

01:05:10.060 men

01:05:10.380 I

01:05:10.680 think

01:05:10.820 men

01:05:11.060 suffer

01:05:11.400 quite

01:05:11.700 a

01:05:11.840 lot

01:05:12.000 from

01:05:12.340 expectation

01:05:13.960 and

01:05:14.240 burden

01:05:14.600 sometimes

01:05:15.160 financially

01:05:15.760 and that

01:05:16.220 keeps

01:05:16.540 them

01:05:16.680 maybe

01:05:16.900 in

01:05:17.140 jobs

01:05:17.420 that

01:05:17.600 they

01:05:17.740 wouldn't

01:05:17.940 be

01:05:18.100 happy

01:05:18.400 in

01:05:18.600 perhaps

01:05:19.100 who

01:05:19.700 is

01:05:21.980 more

01:05:22.160 likely

01:05:22.440 to

01:05:22.680 leave

01:05:22.940 a

01:05:23.120 woman

01:05:23.300 that's

01:05:23.580 independent

01:05:24.080 or

01:05:24.400 dependent

01:05:24.920 no

01:05:26.020 idea

01:05:26.400 an

01:05:26.540 independent

01:05:26.960 woman

01:05:27.780 something

01:05:30.940 I want

01:05:31.220 to say

01:05:31.620 it's

01:05:32.100 the most

01:05:32.480 interesting

01:05:32.880 answer

01:05:33.320 I've

01:05:33.520 heard

01:05:33.700 right

01:05:33.900 now

01:05:34.120 but

01:05:34.320 actually

01:05:34.580 this

01:05:34.760 is

01:05:34.840 a

01:05:34.960 negative

01:05:35.400 thing

01:05:35.760 when

01:05:35.940 it

01:05:36.080 comes

01:05:36.320 to

01:05:36.580 a

01:05:37.140 relationship

01:05:37.520 because

01:05:38.060 the fact

01:05:39.700 that you

01:05:40.000 can

01:05:40.160 provide

01:05:40.640 this

01:05:40.880 you

01:05:41.000 can

01:05:41.200 give

01:05:41.620 that

01:05:41.780 doesn't

01:05:42.000 mean

01:05:42.100 that

01:05:42.240 the

01:05:42.340 man

01:05:42.480 really

01:05:42.700 want

01:05:42.940 that

01:05:43.180 understand

01:05:44.260 it's an

01:05:45.500 interesting

01:05:45.820 like

01:05:46.200 answer

01:05:46.640 to be

01:05:47.420 looked

01:05:47.680 after

01:05:48.180 no

01:05:49.340 no

01:05:49.500 to

01:05:49.940 be

01:05:50.300 independent

01:05:50.740 the

01:05:52.680 man

01:05:52.920 will

01:05:53.200 not

01:05:53.460 feel

01:05:53.800 that

01:05:54.020 he's

01:05:54.340 a

01:05:54.520 man

01:05:54.780 anymore

01:05:55.360 if

01:05:55.800 the

01:05:55.980 woman

01:05:56.200 is

01:05:56.440 too

01:05:56.620 independent

01:05:57.120 and

01:05:57.720 that's

01:05:57.960 a

01:05:58.060 problem

01:05:58.380 nowadays

01:05:58.940 because

01:05:59.800 who

01:06:00.320 watches

01:06:01.520 the

01:06:02.440 kids

01:06:02.900 if

01:06:03.580 the

01:06:03.720 woman

01:06:03.920 is

01:06:04.060 independent

01:06:04.500 and

01:06:04.760 works

01:06:05.020 who

01:06:05.200 watches

01:06:05.500 the

01:06:05.680 kids

01:06:05.900 the

01:06:06.100 man

01:06:06.440 the

01:06:10.780 parents

01:06:12.260 and the

01:06:12.580 grandparents

01:06:12.980 if

01:06:13.560 a

01:06:13.720 man

01:06:13.860 watching

01:06:14.260 the

01:06:14.500 kids

01:06:14.800 and a

01:06:15.100 family tree

01:06:15.680 in a

01:06:15.860 family

01:06:16.080 system

01:06:16.460 you're

01:06:16.700 not

01:06:16.820 going

01:06:16.900 to

01:06:17.000 trust

01:06:17.200 anybody

01:06:17.580 besides

01:06:18.000 family

01:06:18.500 no

01:06:19.120 a

01:06:19.400 kid

01:06:19.600 will

01:06:19.820 be

01:06:19.940 in

01:06:20.060 the

01:06:20.200 hands

01:06:20.440 of

01:06:20.640 the

01:06:20.780 institutions

01:06:21.380 where

01:06:21.940 do

01:06:22.380 they

01:06:22.520 send

01:06:22.780 them

01:06:22.900 in

01:06:23.020 the

01:06:23.120 UK

01:06:23.500 school

01:06:24.620 school

01:06:24.940 and

01:06:25.440 and

01:06:26.340 where

01:06:26.580 they

01:06:26.880 will

01:06:27.220 go

01:06:27.560 you

01:06:29.360 know

01:06:29.500 the

01:06:29.640 answer

01:06:29.960 and

01:06:30.480 school

01:06:31.120 and

01:06:31.660 clubs

01:06:32.320 nurseries

01:06:32.960 what's

01:06:35.240 better

01:06:35.480 for a

01:06:35.820 kid

01:06:36.020 the

01:06:36.200 parents

01:06:36.560 watching

01:06:37.000 them

01:06:37.340 or

01:06:37.800 the

01:06:38.200 strangers

01:06:39.140 watching

01:06:39.680 them

01:06:39.960 I mean

01:06:40.320 I'm

01:06:41.780 going to

01:06:42.040 talk on me

01:06:42.420 as a

01:06:42.640 teacher

01:06:42.840 now

01:06:43.040 I'm

01:06:43.180 going to

01:06:43.360 say

01:06:43.460 that

01:06:43.560 depends

01:06:43.900 because

01:06:44.180 some

01:06:44.480 parents

01:06:44.960 don't

01:06:45.380 do

01:06:45.540 shit

01:06:45.720 with

01:06:45.840 their

01:06:45.940 kids

01:06:46.180 and

01:06:46.520 they

01:06:46.620 literally

01:06:46.800 just

01:06:47.000 put

01:06:47.160 them

01:06:47.280 behind

01:06:47.520 TV

01:06:47.840 put

01:06:48.280 them

01:06:48.420 behind

01:06:48.660 an

01:06:48.780 iPad

01:06:48.980 and

01:06:49.440 if

01:06:49.560 they

01:06:49.680 go

01:06:49.880 to

01:06:50.080 like

01:06:50.360 an

01:06:54.620 some

01:06:54.980 I

01:06:55.300 know

01:06:55.480 I'm

01:06:55.840 not

01:06:55.980 allowed

01:06:56.140 to

01:06:56.260 say

01:06:56.400 the

01:06:56.540 word

01:06:56.720 but

01:06:57.760 is

01:06:58.900 it

01:06:59.020 the

01:06:59.160 majority

01:06:59.680 is

01:07:00.240 it

01:07:00.420 generally

01:07:00.940 better

01:07:01.340 for

01:07:01.660 strangers

01:07:02.200 to

01:07:02.520 watch

01:07:02.780 the

01:07:02.980 kid

01:07:03.280 or

01:07:03.520 the

01:07:03.700 parents

01:07:04.200 to

01:07:04.400 watch

01:07:04.560 the

01:07:04.720 parents

01:07:05.240 generally

01:07:06.960 but

01:07:08.440 then

01:07:09.000 we're

01:07:09.320 talking

01:07:09.600 about

01:07:09.880 ideal

01:07:10.280 parents

01:07:10.800 and

01:07:11.080 also

01:07:11.380 again

01:07:11.700 it

01:07:11.840 depends

01:07:12.200 location

01:07:13.120 social

01:07:13.740 things

01:07:14.060 of course

01:07:14.400 it

01:07:14.640 will

01:07:14.720 always

01:07:15.120 be

01:07:15.300 the

01:07:15.500 parents

01:07:15.920 but

01:07:16.680 in

01:07:16.920 general

01:07:17.260 in

01:07:18.000 general

01:07:18.420 it

01:07:19.700 should

01:07:19.820 be

01:07:20.020 the

01:07:20.920 parent

01:07:21.240 I

01:07:21.500 want

01:07:21.760 do

01:07:22.640 you

01:07:23.180 think

01:07:23.480 it's

01:07:23.720 funny

01:07:24.040 it's

01:07:24.260 funny

01:07:24.540 guys

01:07:25.300 I'm

01:07:25.500 just

01:07:25.660 curious

01:07:26.000 in

01:07:26.280 general

01:07:26.700 who's

01:07:27.140 it

01:07:27.260 better

01:07:27.460 to

01:07:27.640 watch

01:07:27.900 the

01:07:28.080 kids

01:07:28.340 a

01:07:28.500 stranger

01:07:29.000 or

01:07:29.260 the

01:07:29.360 parents

01:07:29.600 logically

01:07:30.680 parents

01:07:32.600 family

01:07:33.100 anybody

01:07:33.540 that's

01:07:33.860 in the

01:07:34.040 bloodline

01:07:34.700 what do

01:07:35.280 you think

01:07:35.700 parents

01:07:36.040 what do

01:07:36.360 you think

01:07:36.800 yeah

01:07:37.420 I think

01:07:37.820 that

01:07:38.020 first of

01:07:38.580 all I

01:07:38.740 need to

01:07:38.980 say

01:07:39.140 that

01:07:39.380 all the

01:07:39.980 questions

01:07:40.260 are

01:07:40.480 pretty

01:07:40.780 straightforward

01:07:41.340 we can

01:07:42.160 overcomplicate

01:07:43.100 it as much

01:07:43.560 as we

01:07:43.840 want

01:07:44.060 but it's

01:07:44.580 like

01:07:44.980 parents

01:07:45.360 that's

01:07:45.640 it

01:07:45.860 we'll

01:07:47.300 say

01:07:47.520 women are

01:07:48.400 better

01:07:48.620 communicators

01:07:49.600 come on

01:07:50.660 like

01:07:51.940 this is the

01:07:52.640 most standard

01:07:53.300 questions

01:07:53.680 you can't

01:07:54.080 answer

01:07:54.260 strict

01:07:54.660 questions

01:07:55.000 okay

01:07:57.300 I don't

01:07:58.240 even remember

01:07:58.740 the original

01:07:59.400 look at this

01:08:01.480 I lose

01:08:01.900 what bring

01:08:03.240 women to the

01:08:03.700 table

01:08:04.000 I'm gonna ask

01:08:05.720 the men after

01:08:06.380 because I know

01:08:06.780 it'll be quicker

01:08:07.460 what does the

01:08:09.340 average woman

01:08:09.940 bring to

01:08:10.340 no no

01:08:10.960 no I didn't

01:08:11.640 answer

01:08:11.840 please

01:08:13.040 I didn't

01:08:13.440 okay okay

01:08:13.960 I'm gonna give

01:08:14.580 you the chance

01:08:15.160 but if you talk

01:08:15.780 about your

01:08:16.180 homeless exes

01:08:17.120 I'm gonna go

01:08:17.620 to the next

01:08:18.160 one okay

01:08:18.920 go ahead

01:08:20.480 okay

01:08:20.880 I just think

01:08:22.520 there is no

01:08:23.060 table

01:08:23.400 are we calling

01:08:24.520 are we calling

01:08:25.980 a relationship

01:08:26.440 table

01:08:26.940 because

01:08:27.660 next

01:08:28.380 next

01:08:28.900 next

01:08:29.220 okay

01:08:29.820 next

01:08:30.340 no I agree

01:08:30.940 I agree

01:08:31.660 I think a lot

01:08:32.320 of women now

01:08:32.760 are way more

01:08:33.340 independent

01:08:33.680 and we don't

01:08:34.520 need the men

01:08:35.080 to pay for

01:08:35.700 everything anymore

01:08:36.420 okay

01:08:36.840 we

01:08:37.200 and that's

01:08:37.900 what we bring

01:08:38.400 I think so

01:08:39.520 do you think

01:08:39.960 that's useful

01:08:40.500 to men

01:08:40.900 I think so

01:08:42.060 I think

01:08:42.660 that takes

01:08:42.920 some pressure

01:08:43.320 of men

01:08:43.740 okay

01:08:44.260 is that

01:08:44.880 typically

01:08:45.280 what men

01:08:45.720 look for

01:08:46.300 in wives

01:08:46.880 no

01:08:47.760 do we

01:08:49.780 typically

01:08:50.160 want men

01:08:50.700 that don't

01:08:51.140 provide

01:08:51.540 for us

01:08:52.080 no

01:08:52.820 thank you

01:08:54.380 oh you guys

01:08:55.000 are so much

01:08:55.400 better now

01:08:55.980 but to be fair

01:08:58.160 like

01:08:58.600 I can't just

01:09:00.500 talk about

01:09:01.060 myself

01:09:01.360 but I know

01:09:01.900 myself

01:09:02.260 and like

01:09:02.660 I have quite

01:09:03.300 a lot

01:09:03.620 a big group

01:09:04.240 of strong

01:09:04.760 women around

01:09:05.260 me

01:09:05.600 okay

01:09:05.880 we can

01:09:07.120 take care

01:09:07.420 of ourselves

01:09:07.840 you can

01:09:08.580 but

01:09:08.800 yeah

01:09:09.180 but

01:09:09.400 this is

01:09:12.980 a lie

01:09:13.380 like men

01:09:13.920 do not

01:09:14.440 want

01:09:14.840 emotionally

01:09:15.460 detached

01:09:16.120 women

01:09:16.480 that can

01:09:16.840 take care

01:09:17.280 of ourselves

01:09:17.880 like

01:09:18.440 it's

01:09:18.780 this

01:09:18.940 brainwashing

01:09:19.700 they fed

01:09:20.180 to us

01:09:20.520 for like

01:09:20.880 15 years

01:09:21.740 and it's

01:09:22.040 really sad

01:09:22.700 because we

01:09:23.140 end up

01:09:23.620 at the end

01:09:24.360 of this

01:09:24.620 single by

01:09:25.200 ourselves

01:09:25.600 with a bunch

01:09:26.160 of cats

01:09:26.500 you know

01:09:26.720 if you hit

01:09:27.020 30

01:09:27.360 you're not

01:09:28.080 married

01:09:28.400 you're

01:09:28.540 honestly

01:09:28.840 you know

01:09:30.500 you know

01:09:30.780 if you hit

01:09:31.080 30

01:09:31.360 and you're

01:09:31.620 not married

01:09:32.000 you're more

01:09:32.300 likely to

01:09:32.680 not have

01:09:33.060 children

01:09:33.420 than have

01:09:33.840 them

01:09:34.100 that means

01:09:34.620 there's

01:09:34.780 more than

01:09:35.040 a 50%

01:09:35.640 chance

01:09:35.940 you will

01:09:36.200 never have

01:09:36.900 a child

01:09:37.280 never reproduce

01:09:38.160 that's

01:09:39.120 that's the

01:09:39.440 end of what

01:09:39.900 they've taught

01:09:40.340 us

01:09:40.560 because what

01:09:41.100 we bring to

01:09:41.560 the table

01:09:41.940 is independence

01:09:42.660 but why

01:09:43.700 is reproducing

01:09:44.680 so important

01:09:45.380 exactly

01:09:45.700 why is it still

01:09:46.320 now that it

01:09:46.840 has to happen

01:09:47.240 it doesn't

01:09:48.140 have to happen

01:09:48.880 but 80%

01:09:49.620 of women said

01:09:50.300 they wanted

01:09:50.760 it to happen

01:09:51.360 before

01:09:51.840 so and

01:09:53.220 and women

01:09:53.760 are more

01:09:54.160 depressed

01:09:54.500 like you know

01:09:55.200 how lonely

01:09:55.760 is when your

01:09:56.180 looks go

01:09:56.700 life is lonely

01:09:57.600 like like

01:09:58.420 if you're

01:09:59.280 when your looks

01:09:59.780 go and you

01:10:00.240 don't get

01:10:00.500 attention from

01:10:01.240 men like you

01:10:01.780 used to

01:10:02.180 you don't

01:10:02.440 get help

01:10:02.880 from men

01:10:03.360 like you

01:10:04.000 used to

01:10:04.360 people don't

01:10:04.860 talk to you

01:10:05.360 on the street

01:10:05.900 like you

01:10:06.340 used to

01:10:06.720 it is lonely

01:10:07.580 if you do

01:10:08.000 not have a

01:10:08.420 family around

01:10:09.060 you

01:10:09.340 and it's funny

01:10:10.320 it's funny

01:10:10.800 when women

01:10:11.240 ask questions

01:10:11.920 like why

01:10:12.360 is reproduction

01:10:12.900 so important

01:10:13.660 meanwhile

01:10:14.300 if you had to

01:10:15.200 if we had to

01:10:15.780 start listing

01:10:16.280 all the things

01:10:16.740 that men

01:10:17.100 were good at

01:10:17.520 and all the

01:10:17.880 things that

01:10:18.180 women were

01:10:18.520 good at

01:10:18.840 reproduction

01:10:19.280 is the first

01:10:20.040 thing that

01:10:20.260 will come

01:10:20.480 out of

01:10:20.580 women's

01:10:20.880 mouth

01:10:21.200 and also

01:10:22.640 like if

01:10:23.980 reproduction

01:10:24.320 wasn't so

01:10:24.840 important

01:10:25.200 like how

01:10:26.020 did you get

01:10:26.500 here

01:10:26.760 like it's

01:10:27.620 just

01:10:27.800 sometimes

01:10:28.660 I know

01:10:29.120 but I

01:10:29.480 think it's

01:10:29.980 a bit

01:10:30.280 it's a bit

01:10:30.880 much all this

01:10:31.480 expectation

01:10:32.140 talk about

01:10:32.820 that

01:10:33.080 I mean I

01:10:33.920 just had

01:10:34.560 surgery

01:10:34.960 and I

01:10:35.280 can't have

01:10:35.680 children

01:10:36.000 and I

01:10:36.580 don't

01:10:37.320 I don't

01:10:37.960 feel differently

01:10:38.460 about myself

01:10:39.060 I don't

01:10:39.360 want people

01:10:39.740 to look

01:10:40.040 at me

01:10:40.260 differently

01:10:40.620 and I

01:10:41.340 think it's

01:10:41.880 it's almost

01:10:42.340 offensive these

01:10:43.140 days for

01:10:43.540 everyone to

01:10:43.900 expect

01:10:44.440 that women

01:10:45.400 must want

01:10:46.000 kids or to

01:10:46.700 be part of

01:10:47.340 that circle

01:10:47.940 but that's

01:10:47.960 conflating the

01:10:48.580 general topic

01:10:49.260 with your

01:10:49.680 personal

01:10:50.060 circumstance

01:10:50.580 because you

01:10:51.100 didn't say

01:10:51.740 why is

01:10:52.380 reproduction

01:10:52.820 so important

01:10:53.920 to me

01:10:54.320 you said

01:10:54.640 why is

01:10:54.920 reproduction

01:10:55.280 so important

01:10:56.080 so in general

01:10:56.500 it's important

01:10:58.360 for the human

01:10:59.560 race to continue

01:11:00.580 without reproduction

01:11:02.100 that is literally

01:11:02.780 the end of the

01:11:03.380 human race

01:11:03.760 and right now

01:11:04.960 and this is the

01:11:05.540 thing like

01:11:05.960 it's very easy

01:11:08.080 for you to

01:11:08.660 be stuck

01:11:09.720 in your

01:11:10.060 personal

01:11:10.400 circumstance

01:11:10.980 and not think

01:11:11.580 about the

01:11:12.360 knock-on effect

01:11:13.480 that your

01:11:13.940 decisions have

01:11:15.280 on the entire

01:11:16.160 population

01:11:17.540 I'm not making

01:11:18.120 decisions

01:11:18.340 no I know

01:11:18.740 but the point

01:11:19.500 is right now

01:11:20.380 the human race

01:11:21.260 especially in the

01:11:21.900 western world

01:11:22.580 is at a point

01:11:24.500 where we're not

01:11:24.940 replacing the

01:11:26.480 people that are

01:11:26.960 dying at an

01:11:27.880 effective rate

01:11:28.540 to keep society

01:11:29.420 going

01:11:29.860 eventually

01:11:30.660 so if we

01:11:31.980 keep thinking

01:11:32.640 like this

01:11:33.240 it's literally

01:11:34.120 going to be the

01:11:34.620 end of western

01:11:35.200 civilization

01:11:35.820 so when people

01:11:37.000 say oh why

01:11:37.480 this is important

01:11:38.020 why is this so

01:11:38.500 important

01:11:38.800 it's really like

01:11:39.880 yeah if you look

01:11:41.400 at it from your

01:11:41.780 point of view

01:11:42.220 it might not be

01:11:42.580 that important

01:11:43.020 but on a

01:11:43.860 general scale

01:11:44.720 the fact that

01:11:45.980 you live in

01:11:46.380 society

01:11:46.920 society runs

01:11:47.700 because there

01:11:48.100 are some men

01:11:48.700 that really

01:11:50.040 don't want to

01:11:50.480 get up in the

01:11:51.020 morning at 6am

01:11:52.000 that need to

01:11:52.520 go and run

01:11:53.280 the trains

01:11:53.780 society runs

01:11:54.620 because there

01:11:55.000 are some men

01:11:55.420 that really

01:11:55.720 don't want to

01:11:56.540 but they have

01:11:57.480 to go and

01:11:58.160 do the plumbing

01:11:58.760 society runs

01:11:59.660 because there

01:12:00.040 are some men

01:12:00.380 that really

01:12:00.800 don't want to

01:12:01.220 but they have

01:12:01.520 to go on oil

01:12:02.160 rigs in the

01:12:02.960 high sea

01:12:03.460 risk their lives

01:12:04.620 and make sure

01:12:05.340 that you have

01:12:05.760 oil to run

01:12:06.600 your gas

01:12:08.280 and all of

01:12:08.680 this stuff

01:12:09.300 these things

01:12:10.020 are not things

01:12:10.520 that men

01:12:10.840 want to do

01:12:11.440 but we have

01:12:12.000 to do them

01:12:12.460 but the one

01:12:13.240 thing that women

01:12:13.780 claim is God's

01:12:15.320 giving power to

01:12:15.960 them which is

01:12:16.420 reproduction

01:12:16.860 which is what

01:12:18.100 they know that

01:12:18.640 they can do

01:12:19.000 that men can do

01:12:19.720 that's the one

01:12:20.600 thing you're still

01:12:21.080 failing at doing

01:12:21.860 so it's just

01:12:23.280 funny because

01:12:23.940 women only want

01:12:25.440 to like make

01:12:26.620 use of those

01:12:27.300 arguments when it

01:12:28.140 benefits them

01:12:28.680 but when it

01:12:29.060 makes them look

01:12:30.600 bad then

01:12:31.040 automatically

01:12:31.440 there are these

01:12:32.040 reasons why

01:12:32.940 it's not important

01:12:33.840 why we should

01:12:35.200 all have

01:12:35.760 a say

01:12:36.240 and the truth

01:12:38.460 of the matter

01:12:38.980 is when women

01:12:39.540 don't have kids

01:12:40.420 we get depressed

01:12:41.580 single childless

01:12:43.240 women are on

01:12:43.900 antidepressants

01:12:44.840 at a higher rate

01:12:45.740 than anyone else

01:12:46.480 it's right after

01:12:47.240 our looks go

01:12:47.940 we get pretty sad

01:12:49.060 because now

01:12:50.100 we're not attractive

01:12:52.480 to men anymore

01:12:53.460 they're starting

01:12:54.640 to not even want

01:12:55.200 to sleep with us

01:12:56.060 barely

01:12:56.500 and then we're

01:12:57.920 just by ourselves

01:12:58.720 at Christmas

01:12:59.360 it's not a happy

01:13:00.260 bright future

01:13:01.260 it's pretty sad

01:13:02.020 I'm pro kids

01:13:02.900 and I think

01:13:03.360 everyone I want

01:13:04.040 to have a big

01:13:04.580 family and I hate

01:13:06.320 when people say

01:13:07.080 like oh it's too

01:13:08.780 expensive to have

01:13:10.020 a child

01:13:10.480 poor people have

01:13:12.060 more kids than

01:13:12.640 rich people

01:13:13.180 yeah that's true

01:13:14.140 so I see this is

01:13:15.400 the first thing

01:13:16.080 that I hear

01:13:16.880 so I always say

01:13:17.660 like people

01:13:18.160 have kids

01:13:18.860 but that's what

01:13:19.680 that's what I realized

01:13:20.500 they train us

01:13:21.240 they first tell us

01:13:22.000 to go after a career

01:13:23.140 and women are so

01:13:24.800 easy to propagate

01:13:25.600 so we do

01:13:26.400 and then they basically

01:13:28.000 they tell us

01:13:28.700 you can't afford

01:13:29.300 to have kids

01:13:30.080 which isn't even true

01:13:30.860 I've talked to women

01:13:31.800 that we're stay-at-home

01:13:33.460 moms on a single salary

01:13:34.840 then they give us

01:13:35.900 the social media

01:13:36.820 to think we deserve

01:13:37.580 a lifestyle

01:13:38.100 and a man that we don't

01:13:39.400 and it's just

01:13:40.060 it's just crazy

01:13:40.820 and also like

01:13:41.780 that's why I always say

01:13:42.660 like feminists

01:13:43.480 and we as women

01:13:44.240 we have to need

01:13:45.220 we need to be critical

01:13:46.160 because now

01:13:47.220 these people

01:13:48.320 and institutions

01:13:48.920 they are promoting

01:13:51.160 this

01:13:51.480 they started promoting

01:13:52.320 more and

01:13:53.400 about feminism

01:13:54.300 they're profiting

01:13:55.400 on you

01:13:56.160 and they're already

01:13:56.860 starting to fulfill

01:13:57.920 markets for single

01:13:59.500 women in the future

01:14:00.820 so they're doing

01:14:02.100 a lot of stuff

01:14:02.860 for potential clients

01:14:04.200 for single women

01:14:05.060 so these things

01:14:06.320 that they're happening

01:14:06.940 now

01:14:07.260 they've been planned

01:14:08.720 and they're

01:14:09.280 you know

01:14:09.920 and half of us

01:14:11.380 half of us

01:14:11.980 will never get married

01:14:12.800 and never have kids

01:14:13.680 that's what they're predicting

01:14:14.500 half of us

01:14:16.160 and first of all

01:14:16.880 like they're already

01:14:17.800 on the planet

01:14:18.260 more women than men

01:14:19.420 so that's why

01:14:20.220 when I sit there

01:14:20.980 I say

01:14:21.180 I will do everything

01:14:22.560 to protect my relationship

01:14:24.320 and my family

01:14:25.200 when I have it

01:14:26.620 so I think

01:14:27.880 that's a message

01:14:28.920 that has to be spread

01:14:29.940 so women have

01:14:31.000 critical thinking

01:14:31.800 I know

01:14:32.200 for some kind of

01:14:33.480 doing

01:14:33.940 you know

01:14:34.840 so

01:14:35.260 okay

01:14:40.400 what do women

01:14:41.760 bring to the table

01:14:42.520 in 2023

01:14:43.240 2023

01:14:45.900 women bring to the table

01:14:47.880 let's see

01:14:50.800 let's say

01:14:55.140 image

01:14:56.400 communication

01:14:57.240 boundaries

01:14:59.420 wow

01:15:00.420 boundaries

01:15:01.180 yeah

01:15:01.760 we all got them right

01:15:02.940 no I think

01:15:04.020 it's just women

01:15:04.680 yeah

01:15:05.240 boundaries

01:15:06.300 it's either

01:15:07.460 it's either women

01:15:08.160 say that

01:15:08.820 or a woman

01:15:09.420 teaches a man

01:15:10.240 to say that

01:15:10.940 but the average

01:15:12.580 woman comes

01:15:13.420 with boundaries

01:15:14.160 what is the average

01:15:15.060 woman

01:15:15.400 I'm asking

01:15:17.020 5'4", 170 pounds

01:15:19.460 what

01:15:20.900 what

01:15:21.320 5'4", 170 pounds

01:15:22.860 I don't know

01:15:23.220 what that is

01:15:23.600 in kgs

01:15:24.700 average woman

01:15:27.320 brings

01:15:27.780 some sort of

01:15:29.240 all right

01:15:36.260 so social media

01:15:37.220 let's say

01:15:37.680 has changed

01:15:38.320 what an average

01:15:39.220 woman can bring

01:15:40.120 and

01:15:40.740 unfortunately

01:15:42.380 what society

01:15:44.020 not as a

01:15:45.660 greater whole

01:15:46.160 but people see

01:15:47.180 what a

01:15:47.660 woman can bring

01:15:49.120 could be

01:15:50.640 image

01:15:51.020 could be

01:15:51.720 beauty

01:15:52.240 could be

01:15:53.080 social group

01:15:54.200 could be

01:15:55.000 connections

01:15:58.900 with people

01:15:59.720 and that's what

01:16:00.720 some may see it as

01:16:02.220 but what it should bring

01:16:04.180 I mean

01:16:04.740 there is no should

01:16:06.140 it's just

01:16:06.920 women should

01:16:08.140 not that should

01:16:10.340 I mean that's okay

01:16:11.020 woman

01:16:11.600 just be herself

01:16:13.480 and enjoy

01:16:15.300 her

01:16:15.720 her presence

01:16:16.620 around

01:16:16.940 individual

01:16:17.520 around

01:16:18.140 around

01:16:18.420 should

01:16:19.120 should

01:16:19.580 a woman

01:16:19.800 have to do

01:16:20.320 anything

01:16:20.660 in a relationship

01:16:21.440 not that she

01:16:22.420 shouldn't want

01:16:22.880 to

01:16:22.980 no

01:16:23.200 I didn't ask

01:16:25.800 what she

01:16:26.080 want

01:16:26.380 I said

01:16:26.620 should

01:16:26.960 she

01:16:27.220 you know

01:16:27.520 how men

01:16:28.020 should protect

01:16:28.780 and provide

01:16:29.460 should women

01:16:29.960 have to do

01:16:30.440 anything

01:16:30.760 in a relationship

01:16:31.440 love and nurture

01:16:33.520 and support

01:16:34.060 stand ground

01:16:37.580 and stand ground

01:16:39.120 would be

01:16:39.680 if you take

01:16:42.060 your time

01:16:42.620 to share

01:16:43.540 or partake

01:16:44.280 or come

01:16:44.620 into an union

01:16:45.020 with someone

01:16:45.500 then yeah

01:16:46.900 you agree

01:16:47.480 on that

01:16:48.060 okay so she

01:16:49.460 should stay

01:16:50.200 no

01:16:52.280 no she

01:16:54.320 shouldn't

01:16:54.600 so she

01:16:54.940 shouldn't

01:16:55.400 stay

01:16:55.800 no

01:16:57.580 okay so

01:16:58.660 should she

01:16:59.100 do anything

01:16:59.820 well you see

01:17:02.540 honestly I

01:17:03.560 know we've been

01:17:04.140 going

01:17:04.360 yeah we're

01:17:05.960 back and forth

01:17:06.700 right now

01:17:07.120 the thing is

01:17:07.740 I was going to

01:17:08.460 say I know

01:17:08.800 we've been

01:17:09.040 going at the

01:17:09.480 women a lot

01:17:10.140 throughout this

01:17:10.500 show but

01:17:10.820 really let's

01:17:11.620 be real

01:17:11.920 like bro

01:17:13.140 come on

01:17:13.640 like this

01:17:14.480 is the reason

01:17:14.860 why a lot

01:17:15.200 of women

01:17:15.400 complain

01:17:15.800 like men

01:17:16.380 men need

01:17:17.020 to like

01:17:17.660 really figure

01:17:18.300 their shit

01:17:18.680 out and

01:17:19.380 understand what

01:17:20.220 their purpose

01:17:20.800 is and be

01:17:21.960 able to

01:17:22.780 direct their

01:17:23.380 women bro

01:17:23.880 like literally

01:17:24.700 you need to

01:17:25.360 be able to

01:17:25.960 answer a

01:17:27.000 question

01:17:27.320 like come

01:17:28.340 on

01:17:28.620 all right

01:17:31.960 woman should

01:17:32.360 stand her

01:17:32.800 ground

01:17:33.160 know where

01:17:33.820 she's at

01:17:34.360 know that

01:17:35.000 if that's

01:17:35.500 the man

01:17:35.780 that she's

01:17:36.120 with

01:17:36.380 that's

01:17:36.680 the solemn

01:17:37.040 man that

01:17:37.440 she's with

01:17:37.860 that he

01:17:38.220 represents her

01:17:38.880 and they

01:17:39.080 represent each

01:17:39.700 other

01:17:39.940 and if they

01:17:40.600 go on

01:17:41.000 forth

01:17:41.440 so be

01:17:42.080 it

01:17:42.260 if they

01:17:42.720 want to

01:17:43.020 have

01:17:43.240 bicker

01:17:43.600 and have

01:17:44.220 problems

01:17:44.560 along the

01:17:44.860 way so

01:17:45.260 be it

01:17:45.680 they figure

01:17:46.140 it out

01:17:46.560 along the

01:17:47.160 way whether

01:17:47.620 they stay

01:17:47.980 together or

01:17:48.480 not so

01:17:49.200 be it

01:17:49.680 but there

01:17:52.300 should be a

01:17:52.980 minimum base

01:17:53.700 of communication

01:17:54.400 whether it

01:17:55.300 is to

01:17:55.580 understanding

01:17:56.180 or misunderstanding

01:17:57.300 okay i don't

01:17:59.360 feel like you

01:17:59.900 answered my

01:18:00.380 question of

01:18:01.060 what women

01:18:01.540 should bring

01:18:02.260 to the table

01:18:03.360 in 2023

01:18:04.420 or i said

01:18:06.520 should women

01:18:06.980 do anything

01:18:07.700 bring anything

01:18:08.920 to a

01:18:09.200 relationship

01:18:09.640 no

01:18:12.280 nothing okay

01:18:14.040 thank you for

01:18:14.780 being honest

01:18:15.260 all right

01:18:15.700 so what do

01:18:18.640 average women

01:18:19.540 bring to the

01:18:20.060 table in 2023

01:18:20.980 i mean

01:18:21.980 on my instagram

01:18:23.860 the average woman

01:18:24.560 is actually quite

01:18:25.160 pretty like

01:18:25.900 but i was

01:18:26.820 saying like

01:18:27.160 okay yeah

01:18:27.860 um i mean

01:18:29.140 that's all the

01:18:30.560 same really

01:18:31.180 like um

01:18:32.280 to get

01:18:34.080 like i invited

01:18:35.840 laura to the

01:18:36.960 to the podcast

01:18:38.020 she came but

01:18:39.000 to get to laura

01:18:40.500 actually not even

01:18:41.120 to get to laura

01:18:41.540 i knew laura

01:18:42.000 would come

01:18:42.280 but even then

01:18:43.440 i was asking

01:18:44.020 like loads

01:18:44.860 of girls

01:18:45.220 um to come

01:18:46.500 out and

01:18:47.080 i put up

01:18:47.460 my story

01:18:48.080 it's all the

01:18:49.140 same game

01:18:49.640 like um

01:18:50.460 i'll dm

01:18:51.080 them hey

01:18:51.700 come out

01:18:52.320 um come

01:18:53.000 to this

01:18:53.300 podcast

01:18:53.820 they say

01:18:54.920 i'm too

01:18:55.180 scary

01:18:55.700 they do

01:18:56.620 say it's

01:18:57.100 scary

01:18:57.480 yeah

01:18:57.920 when they

01:18:58.420 research

01:18:58.860 they say

01:18:59.320 you're scary

01:18:59.860 i'm very

01:19:00.900 scary

01:19:01.560 but it's

01:19:02.220 fine like

01:19:02.680 but then

01:19:03.300 they'll go

01:19:03.660 and this

01:19:04.800 is game

01:19:05.120 four guys

01:19:05.940 um they'll

01:19:06.560 be like

01:19:06.900 hey how

01:19:07.720 about let's

01:19:08.280 meet up

01:19:08.680 on the

01:19:08.940 weekend

01:19:09.200 so it's

01:19:10.020 like and

01:19:10.840 it's a big

01:19:11.180 circle um

01:19:12.640 i'll show

01:19:13.060 that i'm

01:19:13.320 having fun

01:19:13.780 on the

01:19:14.020 podcast

01:19:14.480 same again

01:19:16.000 like girls

01:19:16.940 would message

01:19:17.500 me back

01:19:18.020 again

01:19:18.400 and and

01:19:19.540 it's the

01:19:19.760 same again

01:19:20.160 like date

01:19:20.740 date

01:19:21.000 date

01:19:21.080 date

01:19:21.600 yeah

01:19:21.820 but looks

01:19:23.140 that's it

01:19:23.900 like and

01:19:24.500 then i'll put

01:19:24.860 them on the

01:19:26.100 on my profile

01:19:27.860 store again

01:19:28.660 is that your

01:19:30.720 strategy

01:19:31.240 is that your

01:19:31.940 strategy

01:19:32.200 it is my

01:19:32.660 strategy

01:19:33.000 so women

01:19:35.160 shouldn't do

01:19:35.800 anything in a

01:19:36.540 relationship

01:19:37.060 just look nice

01:19:38.480 be nice

01:19:39.260 like be kind

01:19:40.200 be nice

01:19:40.940 be kind

01:19:41.720 be kind to

01:19:42.660 your dude

01:19:43.000 okay what do

01:19:43.900 you think

01:19:44.300 i

01:19:45.940 will not get

01:19:46.760 into details

01:19:47.500 what they

01:19:47.880 bring i'm

01:19:48.380 just gonna

01:19:48.760 say that

01:19:49.260 whatever the

01:19:49.980 average or

01:19:50.620 i would say

01:19:51.300 even a little

01:19:52.680 bit above

01:19:53.100 average woman

01:19:53.800 brings is

01:19:54.420 irrelevant to

01:19:55.840 what a

01:19:56.620 relationship

01:19:57.000 needs so

01:19:58.300 cannot really

01:19:59.780 be something

01:20:01.100 important

01:20:01.680 if that

01:20:02.800 makes sense

01:20:03.340 no

01:20:04.020 okay

01:20:05.020 what do

01:20:05.700 a relationship

01:20:06.120 needs for

01:20:06.980 from your

01:20:07.460 perspective

01:20:07.900 yeah so

01:20:08.480 what what

01:20:09.040 does the

01:20:09.340 average woman

01:20:09.960 bring and

01:20:10.480 what would

01:20:10.800 your ideal

01:20:11.280 relationship

01:20:11.920 have

01:20:12.320 okay the

01:20:13.880 average woman

01:20:14.600 brings just

01:20:15.560 like i would

01:20:16.760 say not even

01:20:17.320 count beauty

01:20:18.060 just like

01:20:19.360 herself

01:20:19.840 no i think i

01:20:22.060 think the

01:20:22.460 average woman

01:20:23.100 needs to bring

01:20:23.680 culture standard

01:20:24.840 moral off of

01:20:26.920 upbringing if she

01:20:28.300 had that

01:20:28.980 opportunity to

01:20:29.740 have it

01:20:30.140 culture standard

01:20:30.980 moral education

01:20:32.240 recognition

01:20:33.240 uh presentation

01:20:34.820 but then again

01:20:36.140 that's just as

01:20:37.560 an individual

01:20:38.400 now when you

01:20:39.620 talk about

01:20:40.160 marriage

01:20:40.680 sheesh

01:20:42.120 we're

01:20:44.180 making a

01:20:45.840 commitment with

01:20:46.460 someone that

01:20:47.300 as much as

01:20:48.520 we got to

01:20:49.080 know it

01:20:50.000 ain't go

01:20:50.420 you never

01:20:51.220 know so

01:20:52.020 you're expecting

01:20:52.880 and you're

01:20:53.220 coming to an

01:20:53.720 agreement sure

01:20:54.320 so for that

01:20:55.220 saying i

01:20:56.420 mean a

01:20:56.720 wife should

01:20:57.680 hold down

01:20:58.840 her ground

01:20:59.360 know that

01:21:00.040 if so if

01:21:00.800 someone writes

01:21:01.740 to her in

01:21:02.180 dm

01:21:02.540 say no i'm

01:21:04.000 happily married

01:21:04.620 or don't

01:21:04.880 even respond

01:21:05.500 you know

01:21:10.820 what i'm just

01:21:11.880 trying to think

01:21:13.100 what she can

01:21:13.820 bring and i can

01:21:14.940 really not think

01:21:15.860 of something

01:21:16.380 important and

01:21:18.120 to answer to

01:21:18.700 your question

01:21:19.140 what i would

01:21:19.980 prefer if

01:21:20.880 let's say i

01:21:21.660 wanted to make

01:21:22.480 a family and

01:21:23.660 i wanted to

01:21:24.180 have kids i

01:21:24.920 would definitely

01:21:25.360 look for a

01:21:26.080 woman that

01:21:26.520 she can be

01:21:28.280 caring to my

01:21:29.060 kids she can

01:21:30.320 like protect

01:21:31.300 them with me

01:21:32.320 i'm gonna be

01:21:33.160 the one who

01:21:33.600 takes care of

01:21:34.120 everything outside

01:21:34.820 of the

01:21:35.120 household

01:21:35.480 but inside i

01:21:36.580 want to know

01:21:37.000 that she will

01:21:37.500 be there she

01:21:38.300 will teach

01:21:38.760 them she

01:21:39.380 will care

01:21:39.740 for them

01:21:40.160 she will

01:21:40.780 nurture them

01:21:41.400 you understand

01:21:41.920 she will

01:21:42.560 make them

01:21:43.400 like she

01:21:44.840 will grow

01:21:45.180 them

01:21:45.420 so you

01:21:46.320 want a

01:21:46.560 woman that

01:21:47.020 creates a

01:21:47.740 safe home

01:21:48.380 like for

01:21:48.980 a nest

01:21:49.960 if i wanted

01:21:51.080 if i wanted

01:21:52.020 yeah if i

01:21:52.600 wanted a

01:21:53.100 family that's

01:21:53.860 what i would

01:21:54.240 look for

01:21:54.720 right now i'm

01:21:55.580 literally not

01:21:56.200 looking for

01:21:57.180 nothing just

01:21:58.280 like focus on

01:21:58.980 myself on

01:22:00.120 my financial

01:22:01.060 dependency on

01:22:02.580 my business

01:22:03.100 nothing else

01:22:03.940 cares i don't

01:22:05.460 care about

01:22:05.720 nothing else

01:22:06.260 but let's

01:22:06.980 say ideally

01:22:07.620 maybe in the

01:22:08.620 future

01:22:08.920 okay

01:22:09.580 i'm gonna read

01:22:11.260 super chats

01:22:12.000 and then we're

01:22:12.400 gonna close out

01:22:13.020 the show

01:22:13.320 this is a fun

01:22:14.000 chat

01:22:14.440 won't you ask

01:22:15.520 me

01:22:15.720 okay

01:22:17.140 king what

01:22:18.840 does the average

01:22:20.040 woman bring to

01:22:20.720 the table

01:22:21.180 and what would

01:22:22.620 your ideal woman

01:22:23.420 bring to the

01:22:23.940 table

01:22:24.220 i'll say the

01:22:25.180 average man

01:22:25.620 brings problems

01:22:26.400 because the

01:22:31.500 reality is

01:22:32.240 the average

01:22:34.520 woman is not

01:22:35.120 like the

01:22:36.240 woman that

01:22:36.860 every man

01:22:37.840 desires right

01:22:38.560 she's just

01:22:38.960 like

01:22:39.280 average

01:22:40.000 so usually

01:22:42.520 most women

01:22:43.020 bring problems

01:22:43.660 but at least

01:22:44.560 with the

01:22:44.940 really hot

01:22:45.460 ones you

01:22:46.140 have something

01:22:46.580 to look at

01:22:47.160 and be like

01:22:47.600 okay yeah

01:22:48.180 it's worth

01:22:48.720 it but

01:22:49.680 then the

01:22:49.980 problem is

01:22:50.380 the average

01:22:50.780 woman brings

01:22:51.640 the same

01:22:52.000 problems so

01:22:52.600 it's like

01:22:52.960 okay what

01:22:53.460 does she

01:22:53.680 really bring

01:22:54.080 but ideally

01:22:55.160 what a woman

01:22:55.700 should bring

01:22:56.120 to a

01:22:56.360 relationship

01:22:56.660 is respect

01:22:57.500 ability to

01:23:00.140 follow

01:23:01.200 and

01:23:02.940 admiration

01:23:04.020 and also

01:23:05.280 morals

01:23:06.860 and if I

01:23:09.280 may take

01:23:10.000 like 10

01:23:10.940 seconds

01:23:11.340 on the

01:23:12.280 opposite side

01:23:12.780 the average

01:23:13.180 man just

01:23:13.880 provides

01:23:14.620 and that's

01:23:15.420 like already

01:23:16.060 enough

01:23:17.220 I think the

01:23:18.520 average man

01:23:19.000 doesn't provide

01:23:19.760 average means

01:23:20.740 average

01:23:21.180 the average

01:23:22.300 the average

01:23:23.540 man doesn't

01:23:24.840 provide the

01:23:25.380 lifestyle that

01:23:26.140 we want

01:23:26.640 but the

01:23:26.980 average man

01:23:27.600 still

01:23:28.020 yeah the

01:23:29.060 average man

01:23:29.680 still makes

01:23:30.280 enough for a

01:23:31.000 one-bedroom

01:23:31.640 apartment in

01:23:32.380 London the

01:23:32.900 women just

01:23:33.360 don't want

01:23:33.800 to tough

01:23:34.380 it out

01:23:34.920 for a

01:23:35.280 basic

01:23:35.600 family life

01:23:37.240 he will

01:23:37.720 provide all

01:23:39.240 the time

01:23:39.580 45%

01:23:40.940 think about

01:23:41.820 it 45%

01:23:42.720 of men

01:23:43.160 have jobs

01:23:43.800 that run

01:23:44.140 the infrastructure

01:23:44.880 so those

01:23:47.100 are needed

01:23:47.480 jobs

01:23:47.820 and they are the

01:23:47.960 provider in

01:23:48.660 their families

01:23:49.360 yeah

01:23:49.800 the main

01:23:50.360 providers

01:23:50.960 that mean

01:23:51.840 a lot

01:23:52.140 but I think

01:23:52.800 just one thing

01:23:53.560 I think what

01:23:53.980 he said about

01:23:54.840 what King

01:23:55.220 said about

01:23:55.720 respect and

01:23:56.680 morals that

01:23:58.280 works both

01:23:58.800 ways we should

01:23:59.360 all have that

01:23:59.860 and if you

01:24:00.180 have that

01:24:00.520 it's a great

01:24:00.960 foundation for

01:24:01.640 a good

01:24:01.860 relationship

01:24:02.340 that's it

01:24:03.340 again you're

01:24:12.080 changing a bit

01:24:12.840 the question

01:24:13.420 the question

01:24:13.920 was about

01:24:14.500 only about

01:24:15.180 the average

01:24:15.940 woman

01:24:16.400 actually

01:24:17.400 men

01:24:17.940 are the

01:24:18.220 ones

01:24:18.440 that

01:24:18.700 bring

01:24:19.700 morals

01:24:20.080 to

01:24:20.240 society

01:24:20.620 not

01:24:20.840 women

01:24:21.160 actually

01:24:24.320 yeah

01:24:24.540 you know

01:24:24.820 what's

01:24:24.960 crazy

01:24:25.540 feminism

01:24:26.460 fought

01:24:27.040 for us

01:24:27.400 to do

01:24:27.660 whatever

01:24:27.980 we

01:24:28.240 wanted

01:24:28.640 and the

01:24:28.960 majority

01:24:29.500 have

01:24:30.000 just

01:24:30.200 become

01:24:30.500 whores

01:24:31.140 agreed

01:24:32.640 agreed

01:24:33.380 no I'm

01:24:34.380 serious

01:24:34.840 like

01:24:35.200 she's

01:24:35.640 right

01:24:35.920 like

01:24:36.320 a hundred

01:24:36.740 years

01:24:37.580 ago

01:24:37.900 85%

01:24:38.840 of

01:24:38.980 women

01:24:39.160 were

01:24:39.400 virgins

01:24:40.040 on

01:24:40.580 their

01:24:40.720 wedding

01:24:40.980 day

01:24:41.300 85%

01:24:42.780 100

01:24:43.460 years

01:24:43.740 ago

01:24:44.000 going

01:24:44.260 high

01:24:44.640 school

01:24:45.040 and

01:24:45.260 you're

01:24:45.540 not

01:24:45.680 going

01:24:45.880 to

01:24:45.980 find

01:24:46.220 too

01:24:46.400 many

01:24:46.620 what

01:24:47.220 percent

01:24:47.560 of

01:24:47.700 women

01:24:47.900 are

01:24:48.080 virgins

01:24:48.520 on

01:24:48.720 their

01:24:48.840 wedding

01:24:49.060 day

01:24:49.280 today

01:24:49.700 zero

01:24:50.240 hey

01:24:52.540 it's

01:24:53.860 not

01:24:54.160 zero

01:24:54.660 it's

01:24:55.100 4%

01:24:55.980 put

01:24:56.200 some

01:24:56.420 respect

01:24:56.940 on

01:24:57.160 our

01:24:57.320 name

01:24:57.740 that

01:24:58.620 works

01:25:00.140 both

01:25:00.380 ways

01:25:00.640 back

01:25:00.900 in

01:25:01.020 the

01:25:01.120 day

01:25:01.340 men

01:25:01.660 didn't

01:25:01.900 sleep

01:25:02.100 with

01:25:02.240 however

01:25:02.860 many

01:25:03.280 who

01:25:03.700 values

01:25:05.080 purity

01:25:05.600 men

01:25:05.880 or

01:25:06.020 women

01:25:06.340 I think

01:25:06.820 everyone

01:25:07.100 should

01:25:07.320 a little

01:25:07.660 bit

01:25:07.980 no

01:25:08.120 no

01:25:08.200 no

01:25:08.420 who

01:25:08.760 values

01:25:09.340 purity

01:25:09.800 not

01:25:10.060 should

01:25:10.500 women

01:25:11.200 men

01:25:11.600 men

01:25:12.200 do you

01:25:13.300 think

01:25:13.480 women

01:25:13.800 value

01:25:14.220 purity

01:25:14.600 do you

01:25:15.860 think

01:25:16.080 women

01:25:17.100 disqualify

01:25:18.140 men

01:25:18.580 for their

01:25:19.000 lack

01:25:19.300 of

01:25:19.460 purity

01:25:19.820 no

01:25:20.440 they

01:25:20.920 like

01:25:21.300 it

01:25:21.520 do you

01:25:22.040 think

01:25:22.120 men

01:25:22.380 will

01:25:22.580 disqualify

01:25:23.300 women

01:25:23.660 for their

01:25:24.080 lack

01:25:24.340 of

01:25:24.500 purity

01:25:24.800 no

01:25:25.140 depends

01:25:25.640 on

01:25:25.880 who

01:25:26.080 you're

01:25:26.380 talking

01:25:26.620 to

01:25:26.940 do you

01:25:28.240 think

01:25:28.480 men

01:25:28.800 will

01:25:29.020 disqualify

01:25:29.760 women

01:25:30.080 for their

01:25:30.460 lack

01:25:30.720 of

01:25:30.880 purity

01:25:31.180 yes

01:25:31.460 or

01:25:31.620 no

01:25:32.620 yes

01:25:33.060 some

01:25:33.660 yes

01:25:34.380 yes

01:25:34.880 yes

01:25:35.380 yes

01:25:35.780 yes

01:25:36.000 yes

01:25:36.240 or

01:25:36.380 no

01:25:36.800 we live

01:25:37.220 in

01:25:37.380 London

01:25:37.680 yes

01:25:38.200 or

01:25:38.380 no

01:25:38.680 it's

01:25:39.040 no

01:25:39.640 some

01:25:40.140 no

01:25:40.640 and also

01:25:41.800 a lot

01:25:42.000 of

01:25:42.120 women

01:25:42.300 nowadays

01:25:42.700 they

01:25:42.960 confuse

01:25:43.820 freedom

01:25:44.440 or

01:25:45.420 so-called

01:25:46.240 freedom

01:25:46.520 with

01:25:46.820 they lose

01:25:47.540 self-respect

01:25:48.600 so that's

01:25:50.360 terrible

01:25:50.660 it's interesting

01:25:51.420 because

01:25:51.720 women

01:25:52.240 it's like

01:25:53.700 they almost

01:25:54.100 paint us

01:25:54.600 as morally

01:25:55.340 superior

01:25:55.960 to men

01:25:56.580 but it's

01:25:56.940 like

01:25:57.060 literally

01:25:57.360 the more

01:25:57.740 freedom

01:25:58.140 we've

01:25:58.440 had

01:25:58.700 the more

01:25:59.040 selfish

01:25:59.420 we've

01:25:59.780 become

01:26:00.180 isn't that

01:26:00.820 crazy

01:26:01.160 it's

01:26:01.620 easy

01:26:01.780 to

01:26:01.980 slap

01:26:02.320 down

01:26:02.700 on the

01:26:03.040 road

01:26:03.260 where

01:26:03.500 men

01:26:03.840 when they

01:26:04.120 had

01:26:04.280 the most

01:26:04.720 power

01:26:05.160 they gave

01:26:05.600 it

01:26:05.740 to

01:26:05.920 us

01:26:06.340 because

01:26:08.140 society

01:26:08.860 couldn't run

01:26:09.360 without

01:26:09.600 men

01:26:10.640 police

01:26:10.980 they're

01:26:11.180 in charge

01:26:11.400 of

01:26:11.520 everything

01:26:11.780 that

01:26:12.000 makes

01:26:12.540 society

01:26:12.960 run

01:26:13.280 and

01:26:13.760 when

01:26:13.880 they

01:26:14.020 had

01:26:14.180 the

01:26:14.280 most

01:26:14.480 power

01:26:14.800 they

01:26:14.980 gave

01:26:15.180 it

01:26:15.300 to

01:26:15.400 us

01:26:15.600 when

01:26:15.720 we

01:26:15.820 had

01:26:15.920 the

01:26:16.020 most

01:26:16.180 power

01:26:16.460 we win

01:26:16.800 for

01:26:16.940 ourselves

01:26:17.420 we are

01:26:19.340 selfish

01:26:19.820 yeah

01:26:20.280 yeah

01:26:20.820 seriously

01:26:21.320 we are

01:26:21.820 we are

01:26:22.560 sorry

01:26:24.860 girls

01:26:25.320 because

01:26:25.660 you hear

01:26:26.340 I don't

01:26:26.820 that you

01:26:27.060 don't agree

01:26:27.520 with that

01:26:27.860 but

01:26:28.040 we are

01:26:28.460 we are

01:26:29.560 selfish

01:26:30.000 there's

01:26:30.260 a lot

01:26:30.520 of good

01:26:30.760 women

01:26:31.060 that do

01:26:31.540 good

01:26:31.740 jobs

01:26:32.060 too

01:26:32.340 just saying

01:26:32.900 just putting

01:26:33.280 out

01:26:33.480 a happy

01:26:33.780 support

01:26:34.200 you know

01:26:34.920 what's

01:26:35.040 crazy

01:26:35.380 I just

01:26:35.720 did a

01:26:35.940 poll

01:26:36.240 with

01:26:36.580 30,000

01:26:37.340 people

01:26:37.680 took

01:26:38.120 yeah

01:26:38.560 now

01:26:39.140 would

01:26:39.340 you

01:26:39.460 say

01:26:39.640 that

01:26:39.840 a

01:26:40.020 poll

01:26:40.220 that

01:26:40.400 30,000

01:26:41.100 people

01:26:41.440 took

01:26:41.760 can

01:26:42.100 gather

01:26:43.140 like

01:26:43.400 that

01:26:43.580 would

01:26:43.720 be

01:26:43.860 reliable

01:26:44.360 data

01:26:44.800 I mean

01:26:45.580 it's

01:26:45.740 probably

01:26:46.000 quite

01:26:46.380 representative

01:26:46.720 it's

01:26:46.980 a fraction

01:26:47.380 of

01:26:47.580 100,000

01:26:48.240 so

01:26:48.620 okay

01:26:49.020 so

01:26:49.520 I asked

01:26:50.180 what percent

01:26:50.720 of women

01:26:51.240 do you think

01:26:51.980 are quality

01:26:52.620 women today

01:26:53.320 the answer

01:26:55.180 is going

01:26:55.520 to be

01:26:55.720 scary

01:26:55.900 so

01:26:56.360 I offered

01:26:57.360 the lowest

01:26:57.900 percent

01:26:58.440 they could

01:26:58.820 say

01:26:59.060 is 10

01:26:59.440 to 20

01:26:59.880 percent

01:27:00.480 then

01:27:01.100 they could

01:27:01.460 do

01:27:01.660 20

01:27:01.980 to 40

01:27:02.540 then

01:27:02.880 40

01:27:03.220 to 60

01:27:03.800 then

01:27:04.300 80

01:27:04.740 to

01:27:05.000 100

01:27:05.320 I think

01:27:05.860 I made

01:27:06.160 it

01:27:06.260 maybe

01:27:06.660 made it

01:27:07.200 up to

01:27:07.500 like 60

01:27:08.060 plus

01:27:08.440 I forgot

01:27:08.920 how

01:27:09.100 74%

01:27:10.560 of people

01:27:11.000 said

01:27:11.220 less than

01:27:11.660 20

01:27:12.000 percent

01:27:12.360 so

01:27:13.060 I don't

01:27:13.360 even

01:27:13.480 know

01:27:13.620 if

01:27:13.700 that's

01:27:13.920 fun

01:27:14.100 so

01:27:14.460 when we

01:27:14.860 have a

01:27:15.080 conversation

01:27:15.580 we have

01:27:17.980 to talk

01:27:18.500 about

01:27:18.720 the average

01:27:19.440 and the

01:27:20.020 general

01:27:20.420 we know

01:27:21.960 there's

01:27:22.320 exceptions

01:27:22.800 but in

01:27:23.740 all honesty

01:27:24.420 I've been

01:27:25.180 thinking

01:27:25.480 about this

01:27:26.000 a lot

01:27:26.420 and I

01:27:27.000 don't

01:27:27.180 claim

01:27:27.460 to be

01:27:27.700 the perfect

01:27:28.360 picture

01:27:28.800 of feminine

01:27:29.260 obviously

01:27:30.020 but I was

01:27:30.680 thinking

01:27:31.000 what percent

01:27:32.320 of women

01:27:32.620 I've had

01:27:32.900 hundreds

01:27:33.240 of girls

01:27:33.660 on the

01:27:33.940 show

01:27:34.160 what percent

01:27:35.720 are a

01:27:36.200 true

01:27:36.460 traditional

01:27:37.020 woman

01:27:37.380 that was

01:27:37.700 raised

01:27:38.000 to be

01:27:38.280 a wife

01:27:38.660 that believes

01:27:39.240 in obeying

01:27:39.720 her husband

01:27:40.200 that was

01:27:40.580 a virgin

01:27:40.980 on her

01:27:41.320 wedding

01:27:41.580 day

01:27:41.780 I don't

01:27:42.360 know

01:27:42.540 any

01:27:42.800 I can

01:27:43.560 maybe

01:27:43.840 think

01:27:44.120 one girl

01:27:44.560 from my

01:27:44.920 high school

01:27:45.460 but

01:27:46.020 it's like

01:27:46.840 if you

01:27:47.040 go to

01:27:47.340 college

01:27:47.720 that's

01:27:48.020 putting

01:27:48.340 your

01:27:49.100 primary

01:27:49.680 reproductive

01:27:50.340 years

01:27:51.140 you're

01:27:51.620 putting

01:27:51.760 your

01:27:51.940 career

01:27:52.260 first

01:27:52.680 that

01:27:52.920 automatically

01:27:53.580 puts you

01:27:54.240 in the

01:27:54.440 non-traditional

01:27:55.100 category

01:27:55.580 I'm not

01:27:55.960 saying

01:27:56.180 it's like

01:27:56.580 everyone's

01:27:57.560 fault

01:27:58.080 right

01:27:58.420 because

01:27:58.700 this is

01:27:59.120 what we're

01:27:59.460 taught

01:27:59.920 but it's

01:28:00.760 like when

01:28:01.040 you think

01:28:01.400 about it

01:28:01.960 it's like

01:28:02.480 the average

01:28:02.980 chick

01:28:03.380 I can't

01:28:04.220 even think

01:28:04.580 of a

01:28:04.780 traditional

01:28:05.140 chick

01:28:05.560 like

01:28:07.680 traditional

01:28:08.380 women get

01:28:08.860 married

01:28:09.140 before 25

01:28:09.900 wow

01:28:11.900 and like

01:28:14.360 I said

01:28:14.720 men bring

01:28:15.300 morality

01:28:15.700 to society

01:28:16.440 because

01:28:16.920 there's a

01:28:17.320 reason why

01:28:17.640 even in

01:28:17.960 christianity

01:28:18.640 the bible

01:28:20.000 says

01:28:20.480 a man

01:28:22.200 should submit

01:28:22.640 to god

01:28:23.100 and a woman

01:28:23.560 should submit

01:28:24.020 to her husband

01:28:24.560 it never

01:28:25.480 says anything

01:28:26.060 about the man

01:28:26.660 submitting to the

01:28:27.400 woman

01:28:27.640 but obviously

01:28:30.300 modern day

01:28:30.860 society

01:28:31.320 feminism

01:28:32.460 has come

01:28:33.340 told men

01:28:34.100 that they are

01:28:34.460 equal to men

01:28:35.300 and all of that

01:28:36.020 but that's

01:28:36.860 that's

01:28:37.240 that's a bit

01:28:37.880 wrong

01:28:38.380 because at the

01:28:39.280 end of the day

01:28:40.020 me as a woman

01:28:41.080 I want to be

01:28:41.880 lead by a man

01:28:42.680 I don't want

01:28:43.140 to lead the man

01:28:43.860 like

01:28:44.940 where's the point

01:28:46.260 we are changing

01:28:47.040 the roles

01:28:47.660 I'm becoming

01:28:48.260 the man

01:28:48.640 and you're

01:28:48.940 becoming

01:28:49.360 the woman

01:28:50.440 so

01:28:51.500 this is the way

01:28:53.140 that it should be

01:28:53.800 even if we are

01:28:54.600 in the modern times

01:28:55.740 at the end of the day

01:28:57.020 the man

01:28:57.520 should be the one

01:28:58.440 that is the man

01:28:59.640 of the house

01:29:00.240 not the woman

01:29:00.960 yeah

01:29:01.380 yeah but I mean

01:29:02.540 that's what they teach

01:29:03.260 us though

01:29:03.620 they teach us

01:29:04.200 happy wife

01:29:04.760 happy life

01:29:06.020 you hear

01:29:07.000 it's cheaper

01:29:07.460 to keep her

01:29:08.040 right

01:29:08.480 I just said

01:29:10.600 that I

01:29:11.040 I was married

01:29:11.980 and I'm getting

01:29:12.620 a divorce

01:29:13.060 so I don't

01:29:14.000 you didn't see me

01:29:15.800 coming in the discussion

01:29:16.920 about

01:29:17.420 the marriage

01:29:19.380 too much

01:29:19.920 yeah

01:29:20.160 because I didn't

01:29:21.640 want to bring

01:29:22.240 my personal

01:29:23.680 opinion

01:29:24.660 into a general

01:29:26.000 opinion

01:29:26.920 you get

01:29:28.600 yeah because

01:29:28.940 I wasn't talking

01:29:29.580 about you

01:29:30.120 right

01:29:30.400 exactly

01:29:30.860 well my answer

01:29:31.880 were not about me

01:29:32.760 in general

01:29:33.700 maybe

01:29:34.700 maybe from a

01:29:35.620 personal point

01:29:36.300 of view

01:29:36.720 I was

01:29:37.240 you know

01:29:38.360 yeah

01:29:38.780 sorry

01:29:41.960 it's just

01:29:42.340 every time I ask

01:29:43.300 these questions

01:29:43.920 like women

01:29:44.320 always say

01:29:44.980 like oh

01:29:45.400 well me

01:29:45.940 well me

01:29:46.420 but it's like

01:29:46.840 okay we're talking

01:29:47.420 in general

01:29:48.000 so it's funny

01:29:49.400 because I've never

01:29:50.280 I think in all the shows

01:29:51.840 you're like one of the first

01:29:52.720 girls that's come to that

01:29:53.720 realization

01:29:54.300 that it's like

01:29:55.000 in general

01:29:55.740 not you

01:29:56.320 yeah

01:29:57.120 because I gave my

01:29:58.520 yeah

01:29:58.920 funny

01:30:00.080 I'm

01:30:01.740 only

01:30:02.600 you

01:30:03.480 I

01:30:05.020 you

01:30:05.480 you

01:30:06.980 you

01:30:07.500 you

JustPearlyThings - August 02, 2023

This Type of Women Deserve to be Cheated On

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