JustPearlyThings - This Unhinged Single Mother Gets Kicked Out For Saying This Trash

00:00:00.000 Okay, guys, guys, guys, I don't think you should be saying that, baby, lady, lady, lady, lady, lady, okay, so, so, lady, lady, lady, if you interrupt me one more time, you're going, you're going, man's got his gloves on again, okay, um, so, so, guys, over the age of 50, would you rather be with a girl that's hot,

00:00:28.880 submissive, and younger than you, um, or would you rather be by yourself? The first one, the first, yeah, okay, okay, like, the guys don't argue with this, it's easy, most people, I don't think guys want to be alone either, no, okay, um, what are you talking about, so, did you ever, did you tell me what you did to become traditional?

00:00:52.440 I feel like you keep dodging, she didn't make them, she didn't give you a list, I keep dodging, I just don't know what you did, if you, you took cooking classes, you decided that you're going to do x, y, you gave up social media, what did you do?

00:01:03.940 Like, yeah, did you, how do you explain the Holy Spirit, girl, you know, okay, so, this is, okay, so, this is what this sounds like to me, now, I'm not saying this is what happened to you, I'm saying this is, this is what it sounds like, so, I hear this, and I hear nothing,

00:01:20.040 I got baptized, like, that's, that's what, like, that's what it sounds like, I got baptized, and now I'm traditional, but being, getting baptized doesn't make you traditional.

00:01:29.180 No, I hear you, uh, yeah, it is, I, I think I, I started to explain it earlier a little bit when I, uh, was living in a Western, Western society, and transitioned there, I became more modern, but there's one thing, I remember my granddad, he was, um, he taught me from very young to not, this is why,

00:01:48.400 Pearl, you made me share something that I never thought I would share in public, but you know what, now it's open, about, um, saving myself before marriage, so, this is the only thing I did, I used to smoke cigarettes, 20 cigarettes a day, I used to rebel in every way, but this is the only thing that I kept, because I thought, okay, if I'm going to give this up, I'm completely away from my family and everyone else,

00:02:10.440 so, because my granddad and my, my parents instilled that from me, from young, I actually, the way I did it was wrong as well, because the way that you, you get this thought, it's like sex is bad, right, or, I don't know if I'm allowed to say this, but, uh, sex is bad, so this is, it was more like a fear-based,

00:02:25.740 and that kept me away, which is not a healthy way, when I had an inner conviction after, um, it is changing my environment, it is wanting more, it is going into deep depression, searching, you know, you know, going up the career ladder as a modern woman, Miss Independent,

00:02:44.380 and thinking that when you reach that level, you're going to be happy, and then later realizing you reach that level, and you're not happy, and that's when I started to ask questions, there is, there must be more, maybe I'm not an independent woman, maybe there is more,

00:02:57.920 and it's by starting asking those questions, and, you know, just, um, searching for the truth, desperately, trying to go from one thing to the next, until I realized this is, it's my faith, it's the only thing that can give me full fulfillment, that's how I made the transition, it's just, you know, rock bottom.

00:03:13.380 So you quit, you quit cigarettes, cigarettes, it sounds like you stopped going out?

00:03:18.200 I, yeah, I used to live in London, um, I lived in the UK and travel, but, um, yeah, I used to live in London, the uni life, did the clubbing scene, uh, which is really tough as a, you know, when you don't go to the next step with a man, and it always felt wrong, even when I was rebelling, it always felt wrong, so.

00:03:40.800 I hope I answered the question, yeah.

00:03:43.380 Mm-hmm.

00:03:44.840 Is she, is she leaving?

00:03:46.960 Is she going, is she, is she, she either goes, what?

00:03:51.560 She wants a drink? 0.99

00:03:52.980 Well, have Helen give it to her, she's either in the bathroom or she's sitting down. 0.99

00:03:57.360 I'll have some water.

00:03:58.140 Okay.

00:03:58.800 What?

00:03:59.420 I'll have this water.

00:04:00.620 Yeah.

00:04:01.620 Um.

00:04:02.560 My girl's late.

00:04:05.060 Yeah, just, I mean, not, I think she's had enough alcohol, okay.

00:04:08.680 Yeah.

00:04:08.840 Um, okay, um, thank you, sorry.

00:04:12.680 Okay.

00:04:13.500 Um, what would you, what would you give up for the right guy?

00:04:17.860 Um.

00:04:18.420 Um, it's actually not easy for me to answer that question.

00:04:23.220 I don't know, because from what I experienced, I got married, I came from Iran to the UK, and then I got divorced.

00:04:32.140 I had a daughter, I've been single mom for eight years, and I kind of feel like for the last, that eight years living with my daughter, um, it's kind of taught me a lot about being independent.

00:04:42.920 I had to, um, so I kind of feel like I, um, my personality built up quite a lot, I mean, I felt like having a child, and because I've always been looked after by my, by my dad as a culture in Iran, and then I came here and got married, so I was working, but obviously I had my husband, so I think, um, so I kind of understand her in a way of tradition.

00:05:07.920 Because when you live in that sort of country, that you've been brainwashed since you were a child, that, you know, when you go out, be careful, nobody should touch you, this, I mean, we have this in the UK as well, but you don't think that's a good thing?

00:05:20.700 It's a good thing, because I'm teaching that to my daughter, but we've been brainwashed in a way of, we've been so scared, even when I had a boyfriend, I was like, I was not relaxed, so I couldn't go on holiday with him, because I was, I shouldn't sleep with him.

00:05:35.020 Mm hmm. And it was so kind of like so confusing, because you, you've grew up in a different culture, completely different culture. And now when I'm watching my daughter at school, she's 16, she's a teenager, she's going out, she's going to like Brighton, she's going out with her friend, I invite her friends, whether girl or boy, it doesn't make any difference to me anymore, because I just learned from her, that girl and boy are not making any difference.

00:05:59.020 Making any difference if you're, you know, going to school in the, you know, mixed school, but we never had that sort of things in Iran. So, um,

00:06:06.020 Don't you, um, don't you think it's bad? Like, that's a good thing to have less sexual partners, though? Like, that doesn't seem like a bad, like you said brainwashed, like that was a bad thing.

00:06:15.020 Brainwashed in a way of, um, when I say brainwashed, I don't mean like, you know, my parents keep telling me you shouldn't have, you know, sex with your boyfriend.

00:06:24.020 I was not even allowed to have a boyfriend. That's a good thing. No, I don't think it's a good thing at all. Because how did you get married then? 0.92

00:06:32.020 It was arranged. Oh, was it arranged? Yeah, it was arranged. And then you said you, you also, I noticed something you said, you said you, you had to be a single mother.

00:06:40.020 Did he file for divorce? No, I filed it for divorce. So isn't that a choice then? Um, no, it was my choice. It was my choice. And I think if I was in Iran, I would have probably do it. 0.91

00:06:51.020 I wouldn't do it because it was lots of family where, where, right. But, right. But when you said like you had to be a single, like you said you, you chose to be a single mother and you had to be independent.

00:07:01.020 And so that's not, but that's not correct. It seems like unless there's some sort of abuse or something.

00:07:08.020 Um, no, it wasn't abuse at all. We kind of got to an agreement because it's been, um, it was like two years that I wanted, I was thinking about divorce.

00:07:17.020 And then I had a chat with my ex-husband and he didn't want to get divorced, but I wanted to because I didn't want to live.

00:07:23.020 I didn't want to be living with someone who I am not, who I don't love anymore. So I just didn't want to.

00:07:29.020 So like the feelings went away because did you love him before or did you never love him? Um, no, obviously I loved him.

00:07:35.020 But I think, um, it was so many different things he told me because it was an arranged wedding and we kind of did online meeting because I was in Iran and he was in England.

00:07:44.020 So he was telling me, for example, I'm very sporty and he was saying, I do horse riding, I do tennis, I do this, I do this.

00:07:51.020 And you know, when I, when, when we were together, I was like, you said you're going to the gym every day and you're doing this and I was like, I never seen you out of the house.

00:08:00.020 And he was literally going to work and coming back and sleeping on the sofa, watching TV.

00:08:04.020 So that was my life. And I never chose to do that life because even when I was back in Iran, I was very sporty.

00:08:10.020 I was very, you know, outgoing and I love friends. He never come out with my friends because he was thinking he was not social.

00:08:18.020 But I didn't really know because we didn't really had a chance to go out before.

00:08:22.020 Did you, did you know that before you had a kid?

00:08:24.020 Um, yeah, yeah.

00:08:26.020 Okay. So then why, why did you keep going if you, you got, cause you know, you.

00:08:29.020 That's a very good question.

00:08:30.020 Why did you keep going and then have the kid if you knew?

00:08:32.020 That's a very good question.

00:08:33.020 So basically because I was scared to tell my parents that I want to get divorced and I didn't have, I wasn't, I didn't have a child that time.

00:08:42.020 And I was thinking for two years how to tell them that I don't want to live with him anymore.

00:08:47.020 And I want to got, I want to get divorced. 0.69

00:08:49.020 Yeah, but.

00:08:50.020 And you know what they were telling me?

00:08:51.020 I think the reason is because you're very lonely because obviously it was difficult for me to come from Iran, which I had no friends.

00:08:57.020 I had no one here and I only had him.

00:09:00.020 And then it's difficult to recognize whether I'm depressed and because of the depression and I'm lonely and I'm feeling, you know, out of my country.

00:09:11.020 I don't have my family.

00:09:12.020 I don't have my friends.

00:09:13.020 I don't have anyone.

00:09:14.020 And I was so depressed.

00:09:15.020 I felt like, could it be my depression that I don't love him anymore?

00:09:18.020 I don't want to be with him anymore.

00:09:20.020 Or maybe, maybe if I was older and I was more aware of what's happening.

00:09:25.020 If I had some, you know, more experienced friends telling me, go to a psychologist, go to a coach and see what is wrong with you.

00:09:32.020 Maybe there's something wrong with you.

00:09:33.020 But it was, I didn't have any of those.

00:09:35.020 No.

00:09:36.020 And I understand what you're saying.

00:09:37.020 Like the, the, what I'm disagreeing on is when you said you had to be a single mother, like you had no choice in it when it seems like everything was your choice.

00:09:46.020 Oh, sorry, I got your question.

00:09:47.020 Yeah.

00:09:48.020 Like you had to be independent, but it seems like you chose to be independent.

00:09:51.020 I chose to be independent.

00:09:53.020 Right.

00:09:54.020 So it's like kind of when we talk to the next generation, it's like, sorry, we make it seem like there was no choice when it was all your choice.

00:10:00.020 No, actually, you're right.

00:10:01.020 It was my choice.

00:10:02.020 Yeah.

00:10:03.020 So I, I got divorced without telling my parents.

00:10:06.020 Um, and I got pregnant because it was, um, I just thought my mom kept telling me, you know, you, you need to have a child.

00:10:14.020 Maybe you won't be lonely.

00:10:15.020 And then, you know, just don't because they don't, that time they never wanted me or even my sister to get divorced.

00:10:22.020 I mean, it was, I brought up in a very traditional family.

00:10:25.020 Do you have a daughter or son?

00:10:26.020 Daughter.

00:10:27.020 Daughter.

00:10:28.020 Was that hard on her?

00:10:29.020 Her parents getting, how old was she when you guys got divorced? 0.97

00:10:31.020 Three, three years old.

00:10:32.020 Yeah.

00:10:33.020 So luckily she was very young to completely understand what is going on.

00:10:37.020 But I, I, I guess, obviously she, she got hurt a few times, especially when we were having.

00:10:43.020 Do you think that your, the culture that you come from?

00:10:46.020 Yeah.

00:10:47.020 Is what gave you that fear of not wanting to tell your mom, your dad.

00:10:50.020 Yeah.

00:10:51.020 100%.

00:10:52.020 Do you think if you were still in that culture that you'd still be married?

00:10:55.020 Yeah.

00:10:56.020 And I'm so happy that I break the ice and I kind of like in my family, I think probably I'm the only one did that.

00:11:04.020 And after that, actually my cousins got divorced.

00:11:07.020 It's kind of like become more easy.

00:11:10.020 Would you say it's fair to say that women, single women kind of get help others in divorce?

00:11:15.020 Like you sort of inspired that divorce or no, is that not fair to say?

00:11:19.020 Um, you mean you, I inspired people to get divorced?

00:11:22.020 Yeah.

00:11:23.020 That's what you mean.

00:11:24.020 I've just noticed in like, um, friend groups that it's like one gets divorced and the other than the other.

00:11:29.020 It seems like it's almost.

00:11:30.020 I saw, I, I, I, I experienced that.

00:11:33.020 I don't know with me, if my friends got divorced after me, I, I don't think so.

00:11:38.020 But I think so many people say when a friend get divorced, normally people like, oh, if she can do it.

00:11:44.020 Probably I can do it.

00:11:46.020 And to be honest, so many girls, they want to get divorced, but they want because of so many things. 0.99

00:11:52.020 It can't be just culture.

00:11:53.020 Isn't that a good thing?

00:11:55.020 To be honest, I, I prefer to be single than being in a really sad relationship.

00:12:02.020 Even if I have children.

00:12:03.020 Yeah.

00:12:04.020 That's what I think.

00:12:05.020 Yeah.

00:12:06.020 Like, but to me, it's like, isn't the kid's feelings more, and I'm not even trying to shame you.

00:12:09.020 I'm just like wondering what your mindset was.

00:12:11.020 Yeah.

00:12:12.020 It's like the kid is more important than my feelings.

00:12:14.020 Like what made you consider your feelings before the kid?

00:12:17.020 Um, I, I still, um, even though I might look, everyone's saying you look so, you know, you're proud of what you've done.

00:12:25.020 Mm hmm.

00:12:26.020 And that time I couldn't say that.

00:12:28.020 So I was living with my regret because of my daughter.

00:12:32.020 Not regret, but kind of like shame.

00:12:34.020 Mm hmm.

00:12:35.020 It's a better word for me to use it.

00:12:36.020 That time when I got divorced, I felt like, oh, my God, maybe, maybe I shouldn't do it because of her.

00:12:41.020 So everything was like, I shouldn't do it.

00:12:43.020 That's why it took me two, three years to make a proper decision to, uh, you know, apply for divorce because I was, I understand that because I was so worried about my daughter.

00:12:52.020 Yes.

00:12:53.020 After my divorce, it took me 10 years after my splitting for my partner and have my daughter, um, that we, we chose to get divorced because we both had different partners.

00:13:05.020 And I wanted the best for my daughter.

00:13:07.020 Wait, wait, say that again.

00:13:08.020 Say what?

00:13:09.020 So when I got divorced, I'd already split for my partner and I'd already been living in London for a long time.

00:13:18.020 So you were separated?

00:13:19.020 Yeah, for a long time, for a long time.

00:13:21.020 But I wanted the best for my daughter.

00:13:23.020 I used to be able to go home to my partner's house and I'd stay with them and have Christmas dinner with them and I'd stay in my daughter's room.

00:13:31.020 And I had the, you know, I can't say everyone would have this, but I was quite fortunate that I had that relationship because I wanted the best for my daughter.

00:13:39.020 But do you not think the best for your daughter would have been to stay with her father?

00:13:42.020 No, not if two people are not truly in love with each other and she sees us argue every day.

00:13:48.020 No.

00:13:49.020 Wouldn't a better solution to be, wouldn't a better solution be to just not argue every day?

00:13:54.020 Well, I'll ask you this.

00:13:57.020 Yes, when you have children and you get yourself into that position and you truly don't, you know, then you come back and let's have this podcast again.

00:14:05.020 Let's answer that question again, because I don't think.

00:14:07.020 Could you just answer the question?

00:14:09.020 Like, I understand I don't have kids and you keep bringing this up like you don't have kids.

00:14:12.020 Yeah.

00:14:13.020 Okay, I know.

00:14:14.020 So, so my question is, wouldn't a better solution be to just not argue every day for the kids?

00:14:19.020 No, because that's impossible.

00:14:21.020 How is it impossible?

00:14:22.020 It takes two people to argue.

00:14:24.020 Because you...

00:14:25.020 How many relationships do people have?

00:14:28.020 Mm-hmm.

00:14:29.020 Like, you can't, what are you going to say?

00:14:30.020 It's impossible.

00:14:31.020 What I did, what was the best for my child, when I split up, is that me and my partner had the best relationship.

00:14:36.020 I went, let me finish, I went back home.

00:14:39.020 So I played the role of the father as the mother and the father and I spent every month with my daughter.

00:14:46.020 I paid every month.

00:14:48.020 I went there every month.

00:14:50.020 I made sure she was okay from every day up until she was 18 years old.

00:14:54.020 I made sure she's had everything and she's still here with me now.

00:14:57.020 And I don't know how many fathers can truly say, actually, even if they do that.

00:15:02.020 And when you have kids...

00:15:04.020 So you're saying you paid 100% for your son or your daughter?

00:15:07.020 Yeah, I did.

00:15:08.020 My daughter...

00:15:09.020 No, my daughter.

00:15:10.020 Okay.

00:15:11.020 And he didn't pay at all?

00:15:12.020 Or was he...

00:15:13.020 Did he have her?

00:15:14.020 It was just a reversed role.

00:15:15.020 So rather than the father going off and leave, the mother went off and worked. 0.82

00:15:21.020 So it was just a reversed role.

00:15:23.020 Okay.

00:15:24.020 I was very fortunate as well because Nedda's dad, my ex, he always...

00:15:28.020 I mean, the first two, three years, obviously, because of divorce, we were going through, you know, madness up and down.

00:15:33.020 But after two, three years that I settled down with her and he was saying, actually, I'm not divorced because I want to go around and look for boys.

00:15:42.020 Yeah.

00:15:43.020 He actually realized I'm a really good mom.

00:15:46.020 And we had a...

00:15:47.020 Right now, he's my best friend.

00:15:48.020 Yeah.

00:15:49.020 He's my best friend.

00:15:50.020 And Nedda is seeing his dad...

00:15:51.020 My ex-husband was my best friend.

00:15:52.020 ...every weekend.

00:15:53.020 So...

00:15:54.020 It almost seems like it could have been worked out if they were your best friends.

00:15:57.020 No.

00:15:58.020 Sounds the same to me.

00:15:59.020 Um...

00:16:00.020 Because, like, I just...

00:16:01.020 Are you married?

00:16:02.020 I am married.

00:16:03.020 It just...

00:16:04.020 Okay, have you got children?

00:16:05.020 Two.

00:16:06.020 Right, so when you split up, come back and then...

00:16:08.020 And then...

00:16:09.020 But let me tell you...

00:16:10.020 Why would you wish that on him?

00:16:12.020 Because I don't...

00:16:13.020 Why would you wish him splitting up?

00:16:14.020 Because, like, right now, you're happily married and you've got two children, right?

00:16:18.020 But there was no personal responsibility.

00:16:19.020 Look, I was in a very similar situation.

00:16:21.020 I'm gonna say I didn't do everything that I could have done to make sure that we stopped arguing.

00:16:27.020 It got to a point where it could have gotten really bad.

00:16:31.020 And my daughter was six at the time.

00:16:33.020 I didn't find a way.

00:16:34.020 Like, you've got to take some personal responsibility instead of saying it's not possible.

00:16:38.020 Because I don't want people her age to listen to us and be like, 0.80

00:16:42.020 Oh, well, if it doesn't work out and we argue, let's just...

00:16:44.020 Especially if there's kids involved.

00:16:46.020 You've got to give them another choice.

00:16:48.020 Like, look, I didn't have the strength at the time.

00:16:51.020 My grandma, who's 90 years old, told me just the other day, like, two weeks ago, yeah,

00:16:56.020 that me and my wife need to stay together, regardless of anything,

00:17:00.020 just for the sake of the fact that we have a three-year-old daughter.

00:17:02.020 And I appreciate, you know what?

00:17:03.020 You know what? You just hit the nail on the head.

00:17:05.020 Because I appreciate what your grandma said at 90 years old.

00:17:07.020 Did she have Instagram?

00:17:09.020 Did she have social media?

00:17:11.020 Did she have temptation? 0.58

00:17:12.020 No, no, no, no, listen.

00:17:14.020 No, but if my wife is going to be tempted by social media... 1.00

00:17:18.020 You don't blame Instagram on why I'm married.

00:17:20.020 By a grasshopper and a black mirror, then she doesn't need to be my wife. 1.00

00:17:23.020 No, it's not just Instagram.

00:17:25.020 It's our social lifestyle to...

00:17:29.020 If you look at the traditional marriage, do you look at...

00:17:31.020 Our traditional marriage now?

00:17:33.020 Is that more important than working on your relationship?

00:17:35.020 Like...

00:17:36.020 Fair question, to be fair.

00:17:38.020 If you look at Instagram really that much more important, it's living your social life that much more important.

00:17:42.020 But how social is it if you're just on your phone scrolling?

00:17:44.020 It's not like you're out with other people, you know what I mean?

00:17:46.020 I'm sorry, but 20 years ago I didn't have a phone to scroll on.

00:17:49.020 Exactly.

00:17:50.020 And you could have worked on different things if you...

00:17:52.020 No, no, no, no.

00:17:53.020 No, it didn't work that way.

00:17:55.020 Why not?

00:17:56.020 Because we just weren't compatible.

00:17:57.020 No, I think...

00:17:58.020 Can I say salvation?

00:17:59.020 I think when...

00:18:00.020 There's people...

00:18:01.020 Okay, there's people that think they're compatible, they don't stay in marriages.

00:18:04.020 Look, no, I'm saying you did the wrong thing, but...

00:18:07.020 There's going to be millions of people that are going to ask you why you think that they've done wrong.

00:18:14.020 And they're going to come and say to you, good luck to you right now.

00:18:17.020 And I think that's wrong.

00:18:19.020 I think that's wrong.

00:18:20.020 That's not wrong.

00:18:21.020 But we're all wrong.

00:18:22.020 I wish you all the best, my brother.

00:18:24.020 I wish you all the best, my brother.

00:18:25.020 Do whatever you can.

00:18:26.020 Like, do not give up.

00:18:27.020 Work on it.

00:18:28.020 Like, what his grandma said.

00:18:30.020 Like, you've got to do whatever it takes.

00:18:32.020 Not just to stay married, but to stay in a healthy marriage.

00:18:35.020 Do you know what I mean?

00:18:36.020 Not like staying and arguing.

00:18:37.020 Yeah, I didn't break up because of my daughter.

00:18:39.020 Because I didn't want her to see the arguments.

00:18:41.020 But Paul just hit on the nail.

00:18:43.020 Hold on.

00:18:44.020 You're talking about...

00:18:45.020 Okay, so let's take...

00:18:46.020 And that's more of a traditional thing to stay together for the sake of the child.

00:18:49.020 I wish.

00:18:50.020 So you're going to talk...

00:18:51.020 Okay, okay, okay, okay.

00:18:52.020 Lady, lady, lady.

00:18:53.020 Lady, lady.

00:18:54.020 Okay, okay.

00:18:55.020 Lady, lady.

00:18:56.020 Lady.

00:18:57.020 Oh.

00:18:58.020 Okay.

00:18:59.020 She's got to go.

00:19:00.020 She's got to go.

00:19:01.020 She's too drunk.

00:19:02.020 She's got to go.

00:19:03.020 No, I'm not drunk.

00:19:04.020 You're talking about domestic abuse.

00:19:05.020 You are too drunk.

00:19:06.020 I didn't say domestic abuse.

00:19:07.020 No, she's... 1.00

00:19:08.020 She's got to go.

00:19:09.020 I didn't say that.

00:19:10.020 Don't.

00:19:11.020 No, she's got to... 0.97

00:19:12.020 Why?

00:19:13.020 You're talking a healthy mouth.

00:19:14.020 If you put your hands...

00:19:15.020 The mercy.

00:19:16.020 One moment.

00:19:17.020 Put your hands on me. 0.78

00:19:19.020 It's time to go.

00:19:20.020 I'm saying to you...

00:19:22.020 I'm physical.

00:19:23.020 I want the hola, viela...

00:19:24.020 The mercy.

00:19:25.020 Thank you.

00:19:26.020 She's going to give it to you.

00:19:27.020 Thank you.

00:19:28.020 Go get your phone.

00:19:29.020 Yo, what's going on?

00:19:30.020 I didn't do anything to you.

00:19:31.020 What's going on?

00:19:32.020 Get your hands off me now. 1.00

00:19:33.020 Open.

00:19:34.020 What's going on?

00:19:35.020 Get your hands off me now. 1.00

00:19:38.020 Get your fucking hands on me. 1.00

00:19:39.020 No one's done that without tämä. 1.00

00:19:40.020 What'll she put her? 0.97

00:19:41.020 My gal, I get little.

00:19:42.020 you boy

00:19:44.020 I'm not kidding

00:19:46.020 Gin and juice boy

00:19:48.020 Kids stay in school

00:19:50.020 It's okay, just come on out

00:19:52.020 Kids stay in school

00:19:54.020 Grab her shoes

00:19:56.020 Stay in school kids

00:19:58.020 Don't drink alcohol

00:20:00.020 Especially gin and juice

00:20:02.020 From whatever happened between you two I knew

00:20:04.020 Don't drink it baby

00:20:06.020 I said

00:20:08.020 That girl got lit tea 0.98

00:20:10.020 She said to me in a certain tone

00:20:12.020 I just said to her calm down 1.00

00:20:14.020 And then she tried it

00:20:16.020 And then she goes

00:20:18.020 I know you're the real one

00:20:20.020 She's been trying to rattle people's cages from the start 1.00

00:20:22.020 I tell her I know

00:20:24.020 I ain't that guy

00:20:26.020 I just can't be bothered anymore

00:20:28.020 I think the show starts now

00:20:30.020 Let's go

00:20:32.020 Let's have fun

00:20:34.020 You can finally get the answers to what people will give up for social media

00:20:36.020 Or for their relationship

00:20:38.020 Patience is a virtue by the way

00:20:40.020 Oh lord

00:20:42.020 You got a dangerous smile

00:20:44.020 You gotta stop smiling over here

00:20:46.020 Don't smile over here

00:20:48.020 It's a bit shiny but yeah I like it

00:20:50.020 I'm hating the camera now

00:20:52.020 Why? I don't know

00:20:54.020 I need a hat man, look at my forehead

00:20:56.020 Yeah, pearly clips

00:20:58.020 What's going on?

00:21:00.020 Security

00:21:02.020 Can you please

00:21:04.020 You and I

00:21:06.020 This is going to be a YouTube short

00:21:08.020 I'm certain that

00:21:10.020 Backstage

00:21:12.020 Matthew said it was going to go viral today as well

00:21:14.020 You guys like and subscribe

00:21:16.020 This is going to be a little bit of experience

00:21:18.020 Top pearly things

00:21:20.020 Level 4 on the Patreon

00:21:22.020 Wow

00:21:24.020 Guys she's not from London by the way

00:21:26.020 She's from Manchester

00:21:28.020 This is what happens

00:21:30.020 The Manchester madness

00:21:32.020 This is mine

00:21:34.020 Thank you

00:21:36.020 You just been throwing out random bags in there

00:21:38.020 Oh boy

00:21:40.020 Help me!

00:21:42.020 Get away from me! 1.00

00:21:44.020 Help me!

00:21:46.020 That is a shame lord

00:21:48.020 Shambles

00:21:50.020 You're nearly a half a decade

00:21:52.020 She's the oldest one here 0.96

00:21:54.020 She's the oldest one here mate

00:21:56.020 But that's what makes me cringe

00:21:58.020 I had a feeling

00:22:00.020 Hey listen you held your nerve you know

00:22:02.020 I'll be real I was like

00:22:04.020 I thought you were going to get about much sooner

00:22:06.020 It's her show

00:22:08.020 I think the show is called

00:22:10.020 Just pearly things

00:22:12.020 Not just a month for things

00:22:14.020 Just to help out with the show

00:22:16.020 I'm happy to sit in the middle there

00:22:18.020 Yeah that's fine

00:22:20.020 Yeah guys they're going to make sure

00:22:22.020 She's not giving her

00:22:24.020 Her stuff and like just make sure it's not yours

00:22:26.020 I'll talk to the guys for now

00:22:28.020 Just to help out with the show pal

00:22:30.020 I'm more than happy to sit there

00:22:32.020 I'm more than happy to sit there

00:22:34.020 Help out for the

00:22:36.020 I think you'll help the algorithm

00:22:38.020 I think you'll help the algorithm

00:22:40.020 I think if I sit there

00:22:42.020 I think so

00:22:44.020 That looks very unoccupied

00:22:46.020 How quick like women claim assault 1.00

00:22:48.020 So she's like I was assaulted

00:22:50.020 And I was like

00:22:52.020 Literally

00:22:54.020 I'm sure in the

00:22:56.020 DocuSign indemnifies my man from

00:22:58.020 Anything anyway so it's fine

00:23:00.020 Yeah

00:23:04.020 I like the view for me

00:23:06.020 What?

00:23:08.020 What did you say?

00:23:10.020 Is this the head friend for?

00:23:12.020 Oh okay that's nice

00:23:14.020 We can get to Uber

00:23:16.020 How far is that like an hour?

00:23:18.020 Not too far

00:23:20.020 Oh that's fine

00:23:22.020 This is the person that's got the furthest to travel

00:23:24.020 This lady here 0.96

00:23:26.020 Yeah I'm sorry Brian's before we can't do that one

00:23:28.020 Thank you for offering

00:23:30.020 This one

00:23:32.020 That's yours

00:23:34.020 Oh that's cool

00:23:36.020 Must be

00:23:38.020 There's about 10 there

00:23:40.020 Actually I don't know which one

00:23:42.020 It's 11

00:23:44.020 Do you have people live talking to you there?

00:23:48.020 Yeah yeah yeah yeah there's a chat

00:23:50.020 Have they seen the showtime?

00:23:52.020 How many subscribers?

00:23:54.020 The live chats in that man

00:23:56.020 Actually I think it was a showtime

00:23:58.020 Showtime

00:24:00.020 Showtime

00:24:02.020 Um okay so

00:24:04.020 Wow

00:24:06.020 What's up girl?

00:24:08.020 Wow that was crazy

00:24:10.020 Okay what were we even talking about?

00:24:12.020 What would you

00:24:14.020 What would you give up for your relationship?

00:24:16.020 You know I want to ask the guys

00:24:18.020 Cause I feel like you've got the chance

00:24:20.020 Starting here Alex I don't think I've even heard you speak once

00:24:22.020 What would you expect

00:24:24.020 The right girl to give up for you 0.99

00:24:26.020 To be with you

00:24:28.020 Definitely the socials

00:24:30.020 Okay no social media

00:24:32.020 Definitely nightlife

00:24:34.020 Yeah and

00:24:36.020 Time giving time is it

00:24:38.020 Okay so your big things are

00:24:40.020 Social media and nightlife

00:24:42.020 Nightlife yeah

00:24:44.020 And all the hoe behaviors 1.00

00:24:46.020 Out the window

00:24:48.020 All the hoe behaviors gone 1.00

00:24:50.020 Do you want a wife a hoe? 1.00

00:24:52.020 No

00:24:54.020 I don't know

00:24:56.020 Okay what would you expect your girl

00:24:58.020 To give up for you?

00:25:00.020 I'm pretty liberal like

00:25:02.020 Unless I see that it's coming between us in some way

00:25:04.020 Do what you want

00:25:06.020 Just don't be out here making either of us look crazy

00:25:08.020 Cause you're a reflection of me

00:25:10.020 So

00:25:12.020 If you're gonna go to the club with your girls 0.84

00:25:14.020 Alright cool but then

00:25:16.020 If it comes back to me that you was dancing on 50 men

00:25:18.020 And your tongue was down 50 throats

00:25:20.020 Then obviously it's not gonna run can it

00:25:22.020 Because

00:25:24.020 Too many

00:25:26.020 I should be the one man 0.95

00:25:28.020 Like

00:25:30.020 What if she's dancing on another dude? 0.80

00:25:32.020 Would you mean you're dancing on a

00:25:34.020 I don't know she's at the club

00:25:36.020 You're dancing

00:25:38.020 That's almost like a sarcastic refrain

00:25:40.020 But I understand what you mean by she's dancing on another one

00:25:42.020 But like I wouldn't appreciate that

00:25:44.020 You're dumping her?

00:25:46.020 Yeah of course not working on nothing

00:25:48.020 Oh he's thinking about it he's not sure

00:25:50.020 Yeah cause you know it is now yeah

00:25:52.020 The lots online

00:25:54.020 Have you kept a girl before that's done that? 0.85

00:25:56.020 Well yeah that's the thing

00:25:58.020 Oh okay

00:25:59.020 And I was like you know what it's a dance

00:26:01.020 She did tell me though so it's like alright cool you told me

00:26:04.020 Is it the worst thing in the world? No

00:26:07.020 Did I appreciate it? No

00:26:09.020 You didn't marry her though did you?

00:26:11.020 I did marry her that's the thing 0.97

00:26:12.020 Oh she's your wife? 1.00

00:26:13.020 Yeah this is my wife yeah

00:26:15.020 So

00:26:16.020 But then to be fair with my wife

00:26:19.020 Because the story with my wife

00:26:21.020 Is a long time in the making

00:26:23.020 Like I met my wife when I was seven years old

00:26:25.020 Oh okay

00:26:26.020 So it's different you know so like

00:26:28.020 You love her

00:26:29.020 Exactly

00:26:30.020 But then I've said to her before like

00:26:31.020 If I met you in the club

00:26:33.020 And then I found that you went to the club

00:26:34.020 And you was in other things in the club

00:26:36.020 It's like nah cause you're just any girl from the club 1.00

00:26:38.020 So you can go

00:26:39.020 But she doesn't do that now? 1.00

00:26:40.020 No no no

00:26:41.020 Now when she's like oh she's meeting my friends

00:26:43.020 I'm like yeah go cause she's a wife 1.00

00:26:44.020 She's a mother

00:26:45.020 She's doing education stuff like 0.85

00:26:47.020 She very rarely goes out she looks after me 1.00

00:26:49.020 You know what I mean?

00:26:51.020 Food, clothes, all that kind of stuff

00:26:52.020 To a more traditional relationship

00:26:53.020 Very very to be fair

00:26:54.020 Yeah so

00:26:55.020 And

00:26:56.020 Yeah so

00:26:57.020 That's why I would question it

00:27:00.020 But obviously my situation

00:27:02.020 Is very unique

00:27:03.020 As opposed to some other people out there

00:27:05.020 But in general terms

00:27:06.020 Then I would mostly say yeah

00:27:08.020 Okay

00:27:09.020 What would you give up for the right guy?

00:27:11.020 Not soccer

00:27:13.020 Not soccer

00:27:14.020 I mean

00:27:15.020 Yeah that's pretty much

00:27:16.020 My daughter and football is

00:27:18.020 Like those two things

00:27:20.020 I mean why would a man want me to give up football?

00:27:22.020 Geez

00:27:23.020 Cause you really got it

00:27:24.020 Yeah I'm with girls

00:27:26.020 Like I coach girls

00:27:28.020 Nah I don't trust it

00:27:29.020 But I don't

00:27:30.020 I mean I don't even keep social media on my main phone

00:27:32.020 I don't

00:27:33.020 Going out

00:27:34.020 How did you get recruited today?

00:27:35.020 Your main phone

00:27:36.020 Don't they recruit you through Instagram or no?

00:27:38.020 No just

00:27:39.020 The girl knows me

00:27:40.020 Oh okay

00:27:41.020 Okay

00:27:42.020 She called me

00:27:43.020 But yeah I mean

00:27:44.020 Yeah and going out

00:27:45.020 It's just over

00:27:46.020 I did a lot of clubbing when I was younger

00:27:48.020 I've lived my life

00:27:50.020 Garrison

00:27:51.020 I mean I'm easy

00:27:52.020 Yeah whatever

00:27:53.020 I don't have to 1.00

00:27:54.020 Dress like a slut 1.00

00:27:56.020 But then what if your husband was like 1.00

00:27:57.020 Nah yeah so

00:27:58.020 You need to hang up your football boots

00:28:00.020 No more life

00:28:02.020 No more life coaching

00:28:03.020 Just sit down

00:28:04.020 No more couch

00:28:05.020 Get up and cook

00:28:06.020 Yeah if he's the right man

00:28:07.020 Like sure

00:28:08.020 I'm bored of coaching anyway

00:28:10.020 Seriously

00:28:11.020 If he can provide

00:28:15.020 So you won't give up

00:28:17.020 You just won't do it

00:28:18.020 Because you don't want to do it anymore

00:28:19.020 Right?

00:28:20.020 It's not like give up for him

00:28:22.020 Your coaching

00:28:23.020 Well I am doing it now

00:28:25.020 But yeah if he really wanted me to

00:28:27.020 For the right man yeah I would

00:28:28.020 I'm not really attached

00:28:29.020 Come on

00:28:30.020 I have a question

00:28:32.020 So this one

00:28:33.020 I actually don't even

00:28:34.020 I don't even think I would do this one

00:28:36.020 Go on

00:28:37.020 So would you get

00:28:38.020 Plastic surgery

00:28:39.020 No

00:28:40.020 For the right guy

00:28:41.020 No

00:28:42.020 I would not give up

00:28:43.020 No no no

00:28:44.020 I would not

00:28:45.020 That doesn't really make sense to me

00:28:46.020 Because if the guy wants you to get plastic surgery

00:28:48.020 Why don't you just find the woman who looks like 1.00

00:28:50.020 Who looks the way

00:28:51.020 Yeah

00:28:52.020 Yeah 0.54

00:28:53.020 I've heard guys like paying for their girls boob jobs 1.00

00:28:55.020 Yeah

00:28:56.020 Yeah 100%

00:28:57.020 I've heard of that

00:28:58.020 I'm too scared to go under surgery

00:29:01.020 I wouldn't want to do either

00:29:03.020 But I think that's my

00:29:05.020 I might need it

00:29:06.020 But I still want to do it

00:29:08.020 Fine as you are man

00:29:09.020 All that

00:29:10.020 Plastic surgery

00:29:11.020 BBL

00:29:12.020 But yeah otherwise I'm easy

00:29:13.020 I'm not down for it

00:29:14.020 I'm not attached to

00:29:15.020 Yeah

00:29:16.020 But then

00:29:17.020 Couldn't you just

00:29:18.020 Get the girl to eat more? 1.00

00:29:19.020 Not 0.99

00:29:20.020 You can't get boobs from that 1.00

00:29:22.020 No? 0.98

00:29:23.020 Yeah I mean

00:29:24.020 If you put on weight

00:29:25.020 Wouldn't your breast grow? 1.00

00:29:26.020 I don't think they want

00:29:27.020 But not in the shape of

00:29:28.020 Not in the shape of

00:29:29.020 Hourglass

00:29:30.020 Yeah

00:29:31.020 Sheesh

00:29:32.020 I don't know

00:29:33.020 I'm just trying to think of a natural route

00:29:34.020 I'm trying to think of a natural route

00:29:35.020 Yeah no you can

00:29:36.020 There are ways that you can

00:29:37.020 But not for it to look like plastic

00:29:39.020 No obviously not

00:29:40.020 It's not going to be up here like this

00:29:41.020 But like

00:29:42.020 But there are things

00:29:43.020 Like I said

00:29:44.020 It is you can work on yourself

00:29:45.020 And yeah that

00:29:46.020 I would do that for him

00:29:47.020 Like to like work on myself

00:29:48.020 To be in shape

00:29:49.020 To look good

00:29:50.020 Yeah absolutely

00:29:51.020 But not plastic surgery

00:29:52.020 Or fillers

00:29:53.020 And all that

00:29:54.020 No I wouldn't do that

00:29:55.020 Okay what would you expect

00:29:56.020 The right girl to do for you? 0.93

00:29:58.020 Or to give up for you?

00:29:59.020 Um

00:30:00.020 I think

00:30:01.020 You know sort of to begin with

00:30:02.020 Um

00:30:03.020 Just looking at my current circumstances

00:30:04.020 Obviously if she'd work

00:30:05.020 Instead of the other it's fine 1.00

00:30:07.020 But if it came down to

00:30:08.020 Where I was in a

00:30:09.020 Position where

00:30:11.020 She wouldn't need to work

00:30:13.020 And especially I think

00:30:15.020 I think by nature like

00:30:17.020 I want to be with a woman 0.98

00:30:18.020 That's more nurturing

00:30:19.020 So you know

00:30:20.020 That early stage is

00:30:21.020 Before the kids start to go to school

00:30:23.020 Take one for the team

00:30:24.020 You know

00:30:25.020 You've got to

00:30:26.020 Stay at home

00:30:27.020 Especially if I can provide

00:30:28.020 That life for us

00:30:29.020 You know

00:30:30.020 So that's why I'd expect her

00:30:31.020 To give up after that

00:30:32.020 You know

00:30:33.020 We're open to talks

00:30:34.020 If she wants to go back to work

00:30:35.020 Yeah no problem man

00:30:36.020 But in that period

00:30:38.020 Got to play ball man

00:30:39.020 You know

00:30:40.020 If it's the best thing for the family

00:30:42.020 Yeah

00:30:43.020 Did you answer what you would give up for the right guy?

00:30:46.020 I don't remember

00:30:47.020 No not really

00:30:48.020 Okay I didn't think you did

00:30:49.020 Because I was thinking about it

00:30:50.020 And it was

00:30:51.020 Kind of like

00:30:52.020 Um

00:30:53.020 I don't know

00:30:54.020 I probably

00:30:55.020 Wouldn't give up anything

00:30:58.020 Nothing? 1.00

00:30:59.020 Damn son 1.00

00:31:00.020 I don't think any relationships require sacrifice 1.00

00:31:02.020 No I have

00:31:03.020 I have a fiance obviously

00:31:04.020 And I love him

00:31:05.020 Right

00:31:06.020 But the

00:31:07.020 I think the only reason probably

00:31:08.020 Is coming from that

00:31:09.020 That is

00:31:10.020 He's very

00:31:11.020 He wants me the way I want

00:31:13.020 I am

00:31:14.020 I mean

00:31:15.020 I think

00:31:16.020 I love dancing

00:31:17.020 So he doesn't

00:31:18.020 Me going to

00:31:19.020 Because I do a bit of a TV personality

00:31:21.020 In Persian channels

00:31:22.020 So I do

00:31:23.020 A lot of dancing

00:31:24.020 I do a lot of

00:31:25.020 You know

00:31:26.020 Cameras

00:31:27.020 I do like Persian Latino

00:31:29.020 So I mix

00:31:30.020 But

00:31:31.020 I will

00:31:32.020 I will do a bit of a dance here

00:31:33.020 Oh yes please

00:31:34.020 And so

00:31:35.020 Because

00:31:36.020 Because I do whatever

00:31:37.020 I always wanted to do right now

00:31:38.020 And he's very happy

00:31:40.020 With the way I am

00:31:41.020 Even though

00:31:42.020 I'm most of the time

00:31:43.020 Just

00:31:44.020 You know

00:31:45.020 I'm very like

00:31:46.020 Outgoing

00:31:47.020 And stuff

00:31:48.020 And spending a lot of time

00:31:49.020 Out

00:31:50.020 Because of the camera

00:31:51.020 And videos

00:31:52.020 And my friends

00:31:53.020 And he's always involved

00:31:54.020 And he's loving the fact

00:31:55.020 That I'm very outgoing

00:31:57.020 And social

00:31:58.020 So he doesn't say

00:31:59.020 Oh

00:32:00.020 I don't like that

00:32:01.020 Don't do that

00:32:02.020 Don't do this

00:32:03.020 So I think maybe

00:32:04.020 So he lets you do whatever you want

00:32:05.020 So probably if he tells me

00:32:06.020 Don't dance

00:32:07.020 I wouldn't give up

00:32:08.020 Because I'm

00:32:09.020 I'm so

00:32:10.020 What if he told you

00:32:11.020 Delete social media?

00:32:16.020 What do you need social media for?

00:32:18.020 Social media

00:32:19.020 Because I have a

00:32:20.020 Big platform on Instagram

00:32:22.020 And I really worked hard for it

00:32:23.020 Do you make any revenue?

00:32:24.020 Any type of money?

00:32:25.020 Do you get paid from social media?

00:32:27.020 No

00:32:28.020 But I have a big amazing family

00:32:30.020 It's like you know

00:32:31.020 You're having

00:32:32.020 When you build up your Instagram

00:32:33.020 Better than your real family

00:32:34.020 Sorry?

00:32:35.020 You can call your family

00:32:36.020 FaceTime your family

00:32:37.020 Oh I talk about my family in Iran

00:32:39.020 I called Instagram my family as well

00:32:41.020 Because I kind of like

00:32:42.020 Hold on

00:32:43.020 Better than your real family

00:32:44.020 Like your fiance

00:32:45.020 No I just don't understand

00:32:46.020 Why anybody wants me to

00:32:48.020 Delete my Instagram

00:32:49.020 In case

00:32:50.020 You can see them in real life

00:32:51.020 Yeah

00:32:52.020 Well

00:32:53.020 I'll give you an example

00:32:54.020 Yeah

00:32:55.020 We had a guy

00:32:56.020 Come in

00:32:57.020 Two days ago

00:33:00.020 Justin Waller

00:33:01.020 He's like a YouTuber

00:33:02.020 And this guy

00:33:03.020 Has married women

00:33:04.020 Constantly

00:33:06.020 Trying to sleep with him

00:33:07.020 On social media

00:33:08.020 All the time

00:33:09.020 Like literally

00:33:10.020 Like

00:33:11.020 He's shown me like

00:33:12.020 Videos

00:33:13.020 Pictures of girls

00:33:14.020 Like saying come over

00:33:15.020 And like he'll show me pictures

00:33:16.020 Of their families

00:33:17.020 Right?

00:33:18.020 Yeah

00:33:19.020 And he doesn't do it

00:33:20.020 Because he's not that type of guy

00:33:21.020 You know

00:33:22.020 But

00:33:23.020 But

00:33:24.020 It's like if a guy just wants to

00:33:25.020 Avoid that headache

00:33:26.020 Yeah

00:33:27.020 Of you

00:33:28.020 You know

00:33:29.020 Potentially doing something

00:33:30.020 You wouldn't understand that

00:33:31.020 If a lot of

00:33:32.020 Divorces

00:33:33.020 Like come from social media

00:33:35.020 That's true

00:33:36.020 Because my sister had

00:33:37.020 You know

00:33:38.020 Lots of argue

00:33:39.020 With her husband

00:33:40.020 Because of social media

00:33:41.020 But now thinking about it

00:33:42.020 If

00:33:43.020 Obviously

00:33:44.020 He wants me to

00:33:45.020 Delete Instagram

00:33:46.020 Otherwise

00:33:47.020 He's not going to be with me

00:33:48.020 Because I

00:33:49.020 Really love him

00:33:50.020 And he's amazing

00:33:51.020 So

00:33:52.020 Probably I would

00:33:53.020 But I think

00:33:54.020 I'm going to be depressed

00:33:55.020 For a few months

00:33:56.020 Is he Iranian?

00:33:57.020 No, he's English

00:33:58.020 Okay

00:33:59.020 Okay

00:34:00.020 So you

00:34:01.020 I don't know

00:34:02.020 It explains a lot

00:34:03.020 I'll be real

00:34:04.020 I'm not even trying to

00:34:05.020 It explains a lot

00:34:06.020 When you don't have that

00:34:07.020 Sort of thing in your life

00:34:08.020 You don't really think about it

00:34:09.020 But now

00:34:10.020 Because we're discussing it

00:34:11.020 It's actually good for me

00:34:12.020 Because when you discuss it

00:34:13.020 I get into myself

00:34:14.020 I'm thinking

00:34:15.020 If one day doll

00:34:16.020 Want me to delete my Instagram

00:34:17.020 Because we never had that conversation

00:34:18.020 And I never thought about it

00:34:19.020 But now you're asking me

00:34:20.020 And I'm thinking about it

00:34:21.020 Probably I would

00:34:22.020 But can I ask you

00:34:24.020 Would you like

00:34:25.020 Would you give up

00:34:26.020 Just pearly things

00:34:27.020 For the right color?

00:34:28.020 Oh yeah, easily

00:34:29.020 I mean to be honest

00:34:30.020 I would

00:34:31.020 I would really want to get my

00:34:32.020 You could just do it at home though

00:34:33.020 From home

00:34:34.020 Yeah, I mean

00:34:35.020 To be honest

00:34:36.020 I don't think the show is conducive

00:34:37.020 Like what am I going to do

00:34:38.020 This when I have kids?

00:34:39.020 No

00:34:40.020 You know what I mean?

00:34:41.020 You could do that though

00:34:42.020 You could still do the wife show 0.99

00:34:43.020 You know this crazy lady 1.00

00:34:44.020 Of my 0.97

00:34:45.020 I would

00:34:46.020 I would still

00:34:47.020 The wife show you could still do

00:34:48.020 Oh

00:34:49.020 The wife show 0.74

00:34:50.020 You could still do that man

00:34:52.020 Yeah

00:34:53.020 Just rub the baby with your foot here 1.00

00:34:54.020 The camera ain't got to be there

00:34:55.020 I mean if it was genuinely causing a problem in my marriage

00:34:59.020 Like I would

00:35:00.020 I mean it's social media

00:35:01.020 You know what I mean?

00:35:02.020 That's what I was going to say

00:35:03.020 I don't know

00:35:04.020 Sorry

00:35:05.020 Go ahead

00:35:06.020 I was going to say

00:35:07.020 I don't know why social media has such a grip on people

00:35:08.020 Now that

00:35:09.020 It hasn't been around for that long

00:35:10.020 It's only what?

00:35:11.020 Nine, ten?

00:35:12.020 Imagine saying that a ten year old controls your life

00:35:14.020 And it isn't your child

00:35:15.020 That is crazy to me

00:35:16.020 Like

00:35:17.020 Yeah fair enough

00:35:18.020 I'll go on social media

00:35:19.020 I'm just scrolling

00:35:20.020 When you actually really think about

00:35:21.020 What it is that you're doing

00:35:22.020 Unless like you're a full time content creator

00:35:25.020 Now

00:35:26.020 Or

00:35:27.020 Like some form of celebrity

00:35:28.020 Where you need to have that level of engagement

00:35:29.020 To my mind

00:35:30.020 Now

00:35:31.020 If you're just on there

00:35:32.020 Going like this

00:35:33.020 With your thumb

00:35:34.020 Scrolling on the glass

00:35:35.020 That's why I don't do it

00:35:36.020 You're wasting your time

00:35:37.020 That's why I don't do it

00:35:38.020 No I wouldn't

00:35:39.020 If I was like

00:35:40.020 As many of you know

00:35:41.020 I was just banned on TikTok

00:35:42.020 And we are demonetized on a daily basis

00:35:45.020 On this platform

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JustPearlyThings - October 22, 2023

This Unhinged Single Mother Gets Kicked Out For Saying This Trash

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