JustPearlyThings - November 01, 2023


This Woman BROKE DOWN After Being REJECTED


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

207.71472

Word Count

2,495

Sentence Count

234

Misogynist Sentences

29

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I can't even begin to explain it to you. I'm 33 this year, and honestly, I thought...
00:00:04.640 Oh, look at that. I guess too young. Probably a filter.
00:00:08.440 And at least if I hadn't met someone, I would have been close to meeting someone.
00:00:12.940 And honestly, it is so, so bad out there.
00:00:16.880 So this is translation. I date out of my league. She's like a idiot. Five, six, you know, five.
00:00:24.460 She's 33. Five. Dating eight.
00:00:26.720 I, last year, got ghosted ongoing by so many different men.
00:00:32.740 Yeah, they probably hurt your age. Sorry, ladies.
00:00:35.580 What up, guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel, and welcome to my reaction series.
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00:01:00.120 Anyways, today I'm going to be reacting to women regret being strong and independent when women hit the wall.
00:01:07.080 We love a good Women Hit the Wall series. Just wall-in. Wall, wall. Anyways, let's go.
00:01:12.120 Reality is often disappointing.
00:01:14.500 Can't even make it up. Can't even make it up. Can't even make it up.
00:01:16.800 That is, it was. Can't even make it up. Can't even make it up.
00:01:20.880 Now, reality can be whatever I want.
00:01:26.960 I've been single for a year and deleted and re-downloaded the apps at least a million times.
00:01:32.380 I finally said yes to a date, and I'm going to tell you why I said yes to that date.
00:01:37.060 I loved that this man was like, okay, that's your favorite restaurant? Great, I'm going to make reservations for us at this time on this night.
00:01:43.400 Like, yes, please! Why is it so hard to find somebody to do that?
00:01:47.600 Everyone else is like, hey, what's up? What's your schedule? Maybe we can go for a walk.
00:01:52.140 Or like, I don't know, what do you want to do?
00:01:53.920 Like, show me that you want to do something. Like, take charge. Be a man.
00:01:58.720 I know I'm going to get hate for saying that. Call me old-fashioned, but let's talk about it.
00:02:05.400 I am no longer scared to say it. I don't want to be by myself anymore.
00:02:10.020 I am a strong, independent woman.
00:02:12.880 I've done everything by myself for the last few years.
00:02:16.420 I know I can do it, and I don't want to anymore.
00:02:19.500 I want to share it with somebody. Life is meant to be shared.
00:02:23.040 The apps have failed me, so if you need me, I will be here posting until I find my soulmate.
00:02:29.240 It's like, soulmate. Even that sounds like a fairy tale.
00:02:32.580 So again, the last reaction I did was with Sandman, and he was talking about how women speak in, like, magical thinking.
00:02:38.640 Weird, you grow up hearing all these terms. You don't even realize that a lot of these kind of just sound like nonsense.
00:02:43.700 Series where I share things my guy friends have said or done that have completely altered my brain chemistry.
00:02:47.560 You just went on a first date with a guy, and you really like him.
00:02:50.420 Like, you think he's the one.
00:02:52.040 You delete the dating apps.
00:02:53.680 You stop talking to all those other guys that you are flirting with.
00:02:56.600 You start Pinteresting wedding inspo.
00:02:58.540 What the hell are you doing? Stop!
00:03:00.480 Do you think he is doing the same?
00:03:02.300 Okay, we don't actually know what he's doing.
00:03:04.380 But that doesn't matter. It's irrelevant.
00:03:06.480 You don't know this guy, and technically, you are still single.
00:03:10.140 Just because you like him does not mean he is your boyfriend.
00:03:13.940 I've consistently seen my girlfriends do this, and I don't see my guy friends doing the same.
00:03:18.040 They meet someone that they really like, and they get tunnel vision.
00:03:21.140 Until he is your boyfriend, you are not.
00:03:23.780 So, this is basically a translation for, she said her friends do it.
00:03:29.580 So, her friends go for men out of their league, and those guys kind of treat them like an option.
00:03:36.840 And I mean, yeah, I mean, that typically happens when, and usually friend groups are kind of within the same attractiveness,
00:03:43.240 minus like maybe one, two points at most.
00:03:45.940 So, this chick's like five, six, so let's say her friends, seven, sleeping with a nine.
00:03:52.000 Yeah, that's kind of what it's going to get you.
00:03:54.620 Girlfriend, so do not act like one, because what you will do is stay hyper-fixated on a man.
00:03:58.380 And this is wrong.
00:03:59.380 So, they say don't act like his girlfriend.
00:04:01.200 Well, how, it's like, how would you ever expect to, if you applied for a job, and you interned for a summer,
00:04:07.820 you would want to demonstrate that you have the skills for the job.
00:04:11.180 But women don't want to demonstrate that we have wife skills, we have girlfriend skills,
00:04:17.040 and then we expect to get the girlfriend or wife title.
00:04:20.820 And I saw a psychologist break down how bad girl gaming is, and it was so interesting.
00:04:27.740 He was like, if you go on a date, and a guy says, I don't want to go on a date with you unless I'm going to get sex,
00:04:33.020 you would think that was crazy.
00:04:34.340 But women go on first dates and say, well, I don't want to go on a date unless I'm going to get a relationship.
00:04:39.920 And just how, like, crazy that sounds to a guy.
00:04:42.740 Let me see what else she says.
00:04:44.660 That will just end up breaking your heart.
00:04:46.260 So, keep those options open until he is 100% sure.
00:04:49.080 So, yeah, this is how women say, be whores, just be a whore until he's sure about you.
00:04:56.040 And then be surprised when he's not.
00:04:58.060 A lot of times we spoke about how atrocious the dating scene is throughout what seems to be Melbourne,
00:05:06.000 but I'm sure it is other areas as well.
00:05:08.960 I had a friend send me a TikTok from a fellow Melbourne girl talking about this.
00:05:14.140 And honestly, the amount that this resonated with me and my other girlfriends who are also single going through this,
00:05:18.680 is I can't even begin to explain.
00:05:20.600 28, 29, my guess, 29.
00:05:23.380 Poop earrings equals whore.
00:05:25.520 Sleeve tattoos equals whore.
00:05:27.200 It was heavy makeup.
00:05:29.080 So, so spot on.
00:05:30.800 It is honestly, sure.
00:05:32.080 Like, I can't even begin to explain it to you.
00:05:34.140 I'm 33 this year.
00:05:35.800 And honestly, I thought by this age I would have met someone.
00:05:38.540 Oh, look at that.
00:05:39.980 I guess too young.
00:05:41.200 Probably a filter.
00:05:41.880 And at least if I hadn't met someone, I would have been close to meeting someone.
00:05:46.700 And honestly, it is so, so bad out there.
00:05:50.840 So this is translation.
00:05:52.660 I date out of my league.
00:05:54.400 She's like a 5, 6, you know, 5.
00:05:58.540 She's 33, 5.
00:05:59.980 Dating 8.
00:06:00.840 Um, I, last year, got ghosted ongoing by so many different men.
00:06:08.160 Yeah, they probably hurt your age.
00:06:09.820 Sorry, ladies.
00:06:11.040 Um, not saying that I...
00:06:12.800 I think if you're 30, if I was 33, you should date 50-year-olds.
00:06:16.880 Yes, 45 to 50.
00:06:18.900 Because then you're young to them, you know.
00:06:21.360 Anyways.
00:06:22.240 Had so many on the go.
00:06:24.420 But obviously when you do want to meet someone, you want to try and put yourself out there.
00:06:27.960 So I thought I would jump on here and do a follow-up video or another video relating
00:06:32.560 to my last one because it seemed to get a lot of comments.
00:06:35.480 People had a lot to say about this situation.
00:06:37.280 There was a lot of women agreeing with me saying it's not only Melbourne, which I'm so
00:06:40.940 glad it's everywhere.
00:06:42.160 Yeah.
00:06:42.940 Yeah.
00:06:43.480 We're delusional everywhere.
00:06:45.660 But, um, it's really like sad and disheartening to hear that other women are going through this
00:06:49.760 and yeah, I don't.
00:06:51.420 Yeah, I just want to give you guys a, a, a, to show you what the market is.
00:06:55.020 Half of my generation will be single and childless.
00:06:57.700 The other half will get married or have kids and even on the ones that get married, half
00:07:03.140 will be divorced.
00:07:04.320 So like hearing those things, but it is, I guess, comforting, comforting in a way.
00:07:08.120 But see, she's admitting misery loves company.
00:07:10.260 Yes.
00:07:10.700 Yes.
00:07:11.140 Thank God I'm not alone.
00:07:12.240 Women love to keep other women miserable.
00:07:14.000 People can kind of relate to what you're going through.
00:07:16.260 Um, I had a lot of comments claiming that because of my tattoos or potential body count
00:07:22.920 that.
00:07:23.360 Um, yeah, yeah, that would probably lower my value to a man.
00:07:32.540 See, it's like, it's like the guys will say, look at this is what we care about.
00:07:36.440 And then she, it's like, they do the air quotes.
00:07:38.300 Well, what men care about.
00:07:39.980 Yeah, it is.
00:07:41.100 Don't shoot the messenger.
00:07:42.560 And to be honest, if any or person thinks that my value.
00:07:46.900 Imagine a man says this.
00:07:48.240 A man says, well, um, money doesn't matter.
00:07:51.960 And if any woman cares about my money and my job, then I don't want her.
00:07:57.640 Or imagine you could do the same thing.
00:07:59.140 You could do the same thing.
00:08:00.160 Charisma.
00:08:01.140 Is lesser than because I have tattoos.
00:08:03.960 I could potentially have a higher body count.
00:08:06.620 That's not a person that I want to be associated with anyway.
00:08:09.360 And it's not a guy that I would be dating.
00:08:11.000 So die alone.
00:08:12.620 Yeah.
00:08:13.220 Women can either care about what men want and adapt.
00:08:16.600 Um, or they can die alone.
00:08:18.980 So I would rather for the rest of my life than end up with a person like that.
00:08:23.300 There are so many beautiful women everywhere.
00:08:27.180 And I have, I don't remember the last time I've seen an attractive guy.
00:08:31.080 It's been months.
00:08:33.040 If he blocked you, that means you have so much power over him.
00:08:35.620 Like, I want you to think about it for a second.
00:08:37.400 To go through the action of going on someone's profile.
00:08:39.480 Okay.
00:08:40.040 Women will often put the way, what it means if a woman does something onto a guy.
00:08:45.160 So she's saying, if he blocks you, then you have so much power over him.
00:08:50.120 Men are much more simple.
00:08:51.500 He probably blocked you because he doesn't want to deal with you and you're annoying.
00:08:55.100 Where when women block a guy, it's generally more to get attention.
00:08:59.220 So she's pushing the way that women are onto men.
00:09:02.760 To select the option to block them.
00:09:04.500 Like that takes a lot of energy and like thought process.
00:09:07.500 No, it doesn't.
00:09:08.600 It doesn't have like two buttons.
00:09:10.020 Like, you know what?
00:09:10.960 This person bothers me so much that I need to block.
00:09:13.700 See, the guys, this is how a woman thinks.
00:09:16.600 Like a woman will go through the thought process of block, don't block.
00:09:19.820 Guys are just like, well, that's annoying.
00:09:22.220 They're pretty, they're more simple.
00:09:24.240 I need to put boundaries in place because they affect me.
00:09:27.380 Avoid women that talk about boundaries.
00:09:29.660 Yes, guys, please.
00:09:31.020 It means they've been in some feminist therapy that makes them crazy.
00:09:34.840 The women that talk about boundaries, it's like, okay, I'm going to have a bunch of rules
00:09:39.200 for you to jump through in order to be in a relationship with me.
00:09:42.120 Does that sound appealing to a man?
00:09:43.820 Much that I need to block them.
00:09:46.120 Okay, I'm going to give you a little bit of a mindset switch here, okay?
00:09:48.960 In the past, I have blocked certain guys because after the breakup, it was so painful.
00:09:54.000 And my friends were always like, just block the guy, like do your thing.
00:09:56.940 And I never really had my own opinion.
00:09:58.760 So I just did it because I was like, oh yeah, like that just seems like the thing to do, right?
00:10:03.260 So after I blocked.
00:10:04.400 Do you have a nose job?
00:10:05.460 That looks like a botched nose job.
00:10:07.820 You kind of like instantly go into this feeling of like, oh my God, like they're gone forever.
00:10:11.380 Like, like that's, that's it.
00:10:12.720 Like the story is literally done.
00:10:14.080 Like I blocked them.
00:10:14.720 Like there's nothing else you can do.
00:10:15.860 Like that's literally it.
00:10:16.960 Like I've cut them out of my life forever.
00:10:18.460 So I've been on the apps a lot this week because I'm trying to set up dates because meeting
00:10:23.180 someone is a priority to me, even though it's exhausting and I'm really happy by myself.
00:10:27.420 I know that I need to like do it.
00:10:28.740 So I'm like actively swiping, trying to like set up a few dates for next week, right?
00:10:32.020 And I just got this match or like this message from a guy in Hinge and he said,
00:10:35.720 Amanda, it's been six months that I've seen you on the apps and like you seem perfect.
00:10:39.420 What's happening?
00:10:40.040 Why can't you find someone?
00:10:42.120 And I was like, damn, that is, that is, I was not prepared for that ice cold cup of reality
00:10:46.320 today, but fair.
00:10:47.740 But like, the thing is, I know why I'm still single.
00:10:49.480 It's because bathing is exhausting.
00:10:51.160 So I'll like, I'll go on like one or two dates.
00:10:53.460 They'll be bad.
00:10:54.020 And I'm like, oh my God, I'm so tired.
00:10:55.600 And then you know what ends up happening?
00:10:57.040 I end up prioritizing my friends and my alone time.
00:11:00.180 Like I'm so happy to just be at home by myself or with my, the question is why did the dates
00:11:05.400 go bad?
00:11:06.100 You know what I mean?
00:11:06.800 Cause it's kind of, okay.
00:11:08.100 Friends.
00:11:08.700 And then second, this is the second reason why I haven't met someone yet.
00:11:11.780 Tonight I'm meeting up with an old coworker who I haven't seen in a long time.
00:11:15.000 We were supposed to go out or something.
00:11:16.320 And then I was like, do you want to just come over to my house?
00:11:18.360 Cause like, it's cold outside.
00:11:19.500 I can make apero.
00:11:20.360 And he was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:11:21.320 Like every time I have the chance to go outside, if there's even like the slightest way to make
00:11:26.260 this be an inside thing, I'm always doing that.
00:11:29.060 Like I'm always trying to scam people into my home.
00:11:31.800 Male friends.
00:11:32.720 Yeah.
00:11:33.080 Cause I don't want to be outside.
00:11:34.740 But do you know what the problem with that is?
00:11:36.520 The men are outside.
00:11:37.960 Yeah.
00:11:38.240 It's going to get more antisocial.
00:11:40.060 Well, and she talks about why she's single and one, you know, she didn't make it a priority.
00:11:45.640 And two, uh, she kind of, you know, puts it on the guys.
00:11:49.940 You know what I mean?
00:11:50.620 Like the dates were bad.
00:11:51.960 Well, maybe you're a bad dater.
00:11:53.360 I don't know.
00:11:53.800 But let me know what you guys think in the comments, like the video on your way out, subscribe
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