JustPearlyThings - November 06, 2023


This Woman Just Destroyed Feminism


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

160.0878

Word count

1,483

Sentence count

132

Harmful content

Misogyny

39

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Hate speech

23

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about why men are not programmed to be monogamous and why women are not either. I also discuss why men cheat and why it's a good thing that women cheat. I discuss the benefits of non-monogamy.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 The one thing I was thinking about is women broke the monogamy contract first. 1.00
00:00:04.160 Women will go off all day about men not being monogamous, but only 4% of women are saying
00:00:14.200 that they're virgins on their wedding day.
00:00:16.160 That's 4%.
00:00:17.220 So if women are sleeping with multiple men before marriage, it's almost like a catch-22
00:00:24.060 where they say, well, I can do what I want before marriage.
00:00:27.480 But after marriage, when men have the most sexual capital, because men, you know, peak
00:00:33.880 around like 35, right?
00:00:35.700 And even on some dating apps, say men peak at 50, where women peak at 21.
00:00:40.380 So when women are at their sexual marketplace value at the highest, like when they have 1.00
00:00:45.640 the most agency, the most power, we don't pick marriage because we keep pushing it off.
00:00:51.120 So it's almost like a catch-22 where when women have the most power, we don't pick monogamy. 1.00
00:00:56.620 But when men have the most power, they're expected to, where it's kind of become an unfair contract
00:01:03.080 when you think about it.
00:01:04.500 So there's a woman that really talked about this a bit more in depth, how men are not
00:01:11.920 programmed to be monogamous where women are. 1.00
00:01:15.020 Hold the clip.
00:01:15.640 Biologically, sex is designed for one main purpose, procreation. 0.95
00:01:22.100 Anything else, that's extra.
00:01:24.640 The female reproductive cycle comes around once a month.
00:01:27.480 For a man, it's every day.
00:01:29.580 For each sexual act, the woman's one egg is matched by the man's 120 million sperm cells. 0.97
00:01:35.260 Now let's do some calculation.
00:01:37.620 120 million sperm cells a day, every day, as opposed to one egg a month, every month,
00:01:43.040 means, assuming all the cells are viable, that it will take only 30 men to impregnate
00:01:47.900 all the women in the world.
00:01:49.760 This points to one clear fact.
00:01:51.700 A man is, by nature, polygamous. 0.94
00:01:54.800 Monogamy and fidelity are unnatural situations promulgated by religious beliefs and social pressures.
00:02:00.060 Take those away, every man will cheat. 0.56
00:02:02.100 But it's simply biological.
00:02:04.220 Now let's look at the extra.
00:02:06.140 It's a known fact that women, for the most part, are more emotional than men.
00:02:09.780 So it's natural that after a sexual encounter, she'll be attached.
00:02:13.100 But because a man is visual and logical in nature, there's no emotion involved.
00:02:17.660 For him, it's just a physical release that's got nothing to do with love.
00:02:21.480 A man loves his woman by protecting and providing for her. 0.79
00:02:25.280 Period.
00:02:25.920 It's really quite simple.
00:02:27.600 For a man, the physical and the emotional, two separate entities.
00:02:31.340 Thank you.
00:02:32.100 And that's honest.
00:02:33.460 And that's what people think I'm like pushing, cheating, or like saying this is a good thing.
00:02:38.440 What I'm promoting is honesty.
00:02:41.780 And the God to honest truth is that men will screw damn near anything.
00:02:46.000 Let's just call it what it is.
00:02:47.520 All right.
00:02:47.920 And the honest truth is that men are programmed to have sex with a lot of people.
00:02:54.060 A lot of women, sorry. 1.00
00:02:55.460 But there's societal pressures and there's religious pressures.
00:02:58.100 And I'm not saying those are bad things.
00:03:00.260 Monogamy is a good thing. 1.00
00:03:01.920 However, I do think it's dishonest to say men aren't how they are and women aren't how they are.
00:03:10.060 And there's a reason that the men with money, power, look, status tend to have multiple women.
00:03:19.180 And the funny thing is relationships start nowadays non-monogamous.
00:03:24.720 Because you guys have heard me interview woman after woman on the show.
00:03:28.460 Most women will admit to being in a situationship. 1.00
00:03:31.160 What is that?
00:03:32.080 It's non-monogamy probably with the top 20% of men.
00:03:35.900 Whether we want to admit it's a thing.
00:03:38.880 Women have had the most sexual selection in the last hundred years. 1.00
00:03:43.360 So in the past hundred years, women have had more mate selection than we have ever had in history. 1.00
00:03:49.220 Typically, your family would pick out your husband. 0.99
00:03:51.660 Your dad would pick out your husband.
00:03:53.460 Your brothers would help you find a husband. 0.74
00:03:55.320 Now, women have complete control and autonomy. 1.00
00:03:58.840 And it's actually interesting because the more control that women have had, 1.00
00:04:03.520 the more mate selection women have had, the more women have picked non-monogamy. 1.00
00:04:08.820 Now, I know what you're saying.
00:04:10.360 Pearl, what about the good women? 0.97
00:04:11.700 Pearl, what about, but the good women don't pick that. 1.00
00:04:15.560 Well, are only 4% of women good? 1.00
00:04:18.180 Because 96% of women are not virgins on their wedding day.
00:04:21.700 That is non-monogamy.
00:04:23.860 Now, and I think this is a lot more honest of a conversation than, you know, just find a good woman.
00:04:31.340 I think women are programmed to get the best man they can. 1.00
00:04:34.180 And they'll accept non-monogamy if that's the case.
00:04:37.220 And men are programmed to screw a bunch of chicks. 1.00
00:04:40.440 Monogamy is supposed to be the middle ground we meet on. 1.00
00:04:44.200 And the exchange in value is that, you know, the women come in as a virgin. 0.88
00:04:48.840 They give the man purity.
00:04:50.240 And they say, okay, I could try to get the next highest guy, but I'm not going to do that.
00:04:55.480 I'm going to compromise.
00:04:56.800 I'm not going to go for a higher and higher guy.
00:04:59.540 I'm not going to.
00:04:59.980 I will be the merchant's wife. 0.96
00:05:03.620 I won't be the king's concubine like I want. 1.00
00:05:06.600 And the guy says, well, I want to impregnate the whole entire world.
00:05:10.700 But, you know, since you came to me with this purity, you're pretty young, you're a hottie.
00:05:16.640 All right, I'll give that up.
00:05:18.180 I won't screw the entire town.
00:05:19.840 I'll just screw you. 1.00
00:05:20.860 And the women want to say, well, hey, why are you cheating? 1.00
00:05:26.060 Which now women are out cheating men. 1.00
00:05:28.320 That's a whole different conversation.
00:05:30.360 But, you know, now the women are coming in and saying, oh, but you break the monogamy contract. 1.00
00:05:35.320 But when you think about it, women broke the monogamy contract first. 1.00
00:05:39.300 But whenever I say a stat or have a conversation that makes women look bad, people get mad at me. 0.99
00:05:47.620 But I think it's the most important that we live in reality.
00:05:52.440 I think it is so important that we fight for truth and we live in reality.
00:05:57.060 So that leads me to a skit that was done about this very topic.
00:06:02.620 And I want you guys to pay attention to what people laugh at.
00:06:05.460 Because if we laugh at something, usually that means there's some truth in it.
00:06:09.860 Pull the clip.
00:06:10.480 Baby, they were out of that.
00:06:11.820 You're mad.
00:06:12.420 Like, how dare you not introduce me?
00:06:18.020 Hi, I'm Haley.
00:06:20.180 And you are even prettier in person than in pictures.
00:06:23.800 My goodness.
00:06:24.900 You guys need anything?
00:06:26.200 You having a good time?
00:06:27.500 I can go get us smoothies.
00:06:29.560 Okay.
00:06:30.460 Well, you know what?
00:06:31.720 I'll leave you to be.
00:06:32.740 You kids have fun.
00:06:33.840 You kids, sweetie, try the left hand.
00:06:36.880 Yeah, there you go.
00:06:37.840 He likes that better.
00:06:38.740 Okay, toodaloo.
00:06:39.860 It's like, why is that funny?
00:06:42.820 You know, because it's true.
00:06:45.600 She would accept being the king's concubine or the king's wife with a bunch of mistresses 0.99
00:06:51.440 rather than the peasant's wife. 1.00
00:06:54.360 And this just, like, is what it is.
00:06:56.580 And what do the comments say?
00:06:59.680 Leave him, but don't leave his wallet.
00:07:02.280 It's giving early 2000s Angelina Jolie the way I would actually be down for this. 0.67
00:07:10.720 Gives me time to go shopping alone.
00:07:13.260 I got to keep that money.
00:07:15.320 But the whole point is women aren't even denying this. 1.00
00:07:19.060 Women will tell you a guy can get away with more. 1.00
00:07:21.620 The better looking he is.
00:07:23.320 The richer he is.
00:07:24.340 Now, and I know the gut reactions of trad cons is always, but what about women? 1.00
00:07:30.200 Yeah, but men know this.
00:07:32.160 Oh my gosh, men know this.
00:07:34.160 Men don't deny this.
00:07:35.880 A woman gets away with more if she's hotter. 1.00
00:07:38.840 Yes, the mid chicks, we got to work harder than the hot chicks. 1.00
00:07:42.960 The hot chicks are just born eights, nines, and tens. 1.00
00:07:46.700 And they pretty much get to live in la-la land half their life. 0.96
00:07:50.260 But, you know, it's like, who's at the real advantage?
00:07:53.140 Because everyone's looks go at some point.
00:07:55.800 So when you think about it, it's like, I was thinking about this idea.
00:08:00.120 Is beauty an advantage?
00:08:01.360 Like, beauty is obviously an advantage, right?
00:08:03.820 For men and for women.
00:08:05.100 More for women. 0.98
00:08:06.600 But when you think about it, like, for the person you become at 80,
00:08:10.700 isn't it an advantage to be, like, treated special your whole life
00:08:15.380 and live in la-la land and not have any sense of reality until your looks go
00:08:20.160 at, like, 45 or 50 as a chick?
00:08:24.160 I don't know.
00:08:25.260 I don't know.
00:08:26.160 The guys will probably still say yeah.
00:08:28.360 But I was thinking about this thought.
00:08:30.600 Like, it doesn't really give you the same opportunity to develop, like,
00:08:34.500 character and other things.
00:08:36.320 So who's to say the hot chicks are really at an advantage? 1.00
00:08:42.220 But then I look at these chicks on these yachts and I'm like, 0.99
00:08:45.340 all right, babe.
00:08:45.840 Thank you.