JustPearlyThings - June 02, 2023


Top G DESTROYS Post Wall Women


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14 minutes

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2,588

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8

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12

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In this episode, we are reacting to Mia Khalifa's comments on porn and dating age in the 21st century. We talk about the age difference between a 19 year old and a 26 year old, and how women in their 20s and 30s are more attractive than those in their 30s and 40s.

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00:00:00.000 um post walls 304s give bad advice question mark um so today we are going to be reacting to mia
00:00:08.480 khalifa yeah um i think we should just start with the video i feel like that's the best way to do it
00:00:18.800 you gotta click the sound thing on the yeah there you go that's not how it was it wasn't just hey
00:00:24.400 do you want to come do porn it was more so oh you're beautiful like would you like to do some
00:00:28.800 modeling oh you know you have a great body like i think you'd be great in nude modeling 0.99
00:00:33.840 i'm sorry i think i sent him the wrong clip one second one second
00:00:40.800 she doesn't have that normal consta look does she she said corn as well yeah and she sounds
00:00:45.920 like she was coerced into it honestly coerced like the way she was like i was told like i was good
00:00:51.680 at modeling and then it was nude modeling and then it was porn like it sounded like oh yeah well that
00:00:57.840 won't escalate it quickly from modeling i'm not gonna lie um sorry i thought i totally thought
00:01:05.840 that was the other clip um if anyone can you guys send me the one on instagram i think rollo reacted
00:01:11.360 to it um do you want to just do the andrew tate one and then we'll find the other one
00:01:15.440 yeah the reason 18 and 19 year olds are more attractive than 25 year olds is because they've
00:01:27.280 been through les dick i'll say this right here on the internet i don't give a shit people sit there 0.98
00:01:31.360 and go oh you can't say that yes i can a 19 year old is more attractive than a 26 year old woman i'll 0.50
00:01:35.600 tell you why because that 26 year old has talked to more guys been to the club more times been more
00:01:40.000 places been and dumped more times more arguments more heartbreak more bullshit more mess for me to 0.86
00:01:45.600 clean up whereas a 19 year old might have had one guy from high school just broke up she's fresh and i
00:01:50.000 could put my imprint on her make her a good person and without her having to go through all that detriment 0.74
00:01:53.760 to learn about life okay so my first question how old are you and what age range do you date
00:02:01.680 i won't reveal my age but i can tell you my most recent exit i was with him on and off four years and
00:02:14.000 there was a big age difference he i think he was 27 26 27 this year so um yeah so i will i would date
00:02:23.440 between mid-20s and i'll go from 25 to 55. wow that's a huge rain you're enjoying it
00:02:31.600 yeah so i i can either date you or your dad or the other way around
00:02:39.440 okay uh i am 29 minus a week uh no 30 minus a week apologies and i date probably
00:02:50.560 up to five years older than me max i think so you won't go like if a guy's 40 that's too old
00:02:59.120 a fine 40 year old five years okay that's a hard no wait but you also didn't mention younger though
00:03:12.560 like you just i don't well younger maybe max two years younger max it's a tight a tight window for me
00:03:22.960 i'm 20 i'm 25 i wouldn't do younger anymore but max i would do
00:03:34.480 i think round 30s is good for me um maybe just a bit over like 32 33 yeah yeah i'm 20 i would date up to 25
00:03:46.080 just because i haven't got my life sorted yet and i don't want someone that's that's got everything
00:03:49.520 sorted out yeah yeah okay um i'm 20 and i would probably date from like 19 to um like a hard cap
00:03:59.520 maybe like 35 okay uh i'm 34 and i would say so my girlfriend like she's like mid-20s so the bottom
00:04:08.560 end would be mid-20s and top end would be around late 30s 40 late 30s 40 i'm 29 and the bottom absolute
00:04:21.120 bottom is a 90s baby so 99 um um and the top end it just depends on the person and where i am in life
00:04:32.880 um so 45 you're in she looks good i'll be honest with you i've seen some i've i've seen some i've seen
00:04:39.360 some i've seen all sorts that look good so okay so you so 50 55 there's gotta be a rough cap
00:04:46.480 i'm just saying a rough cap a rough cap yeah rough cap um obviously jlo is an exception
00:04:54.720 for me it's a thing it's a combination of things of course like if i'm in the dating space
00:04:59.280 and i don't know if she's 50 but she looks she doesn't look like the 50s that society call 50 0.99
00:05:04.000 year olds then you know i'm not gonna okay anyone that looks good yeah okay okay but running off
00:05:10.320 what andrew tate said like doesn't she have too much baggage are we talking about dating or commitment
00:05:15.360 here well um so tell me that's a big difference tell me both yeah so someone you'd want to take
00:05:20.560 seriously long term and someone you'd go for a short term someone long term no um i can't i can't
00:05:28.560 start a family with a 50 year old um i know there's some some 50 years out there but not for me it's not
00:05:35.040 it doesn't work for me but isn't the aim of dating like like long-term relationships or is it just like
00:05:40.800 kind of fun depends on your accent i'm not i'm not i don't i don't personally date for fun i do i do
00:05:47.360 commitments um so if i'm looking to get married to someone then i'm going to be thinking about my
00:05:53.920 family and who i can build something with yeah so like you'll enjoy being with a 50 year old and like
00:05:58.800 exchanging conversation but like you wouldn't like it wouldn't be serious you know i mean like it would
00:06:03.040 just be kind of i don't know like understanding them meeting them but not like it would never be long
00:06:07.840 time yeah maybe a little kiss here yeah no i feel like just just for the purpose of the question
00:06:13.200 it's just purely for the purpose of the question but i think if it came to a commitment scenario um
00:06:19.440 couple years above me at most um but i'll probably look down as opposed to up yeah fair enough that's
00:06:24.560 just how i view dating like i view it as something that like i'm always seeing if you could fit into my
00:06:29.280 life like long term because otherwise it's just gonna hurt my feelings yeah i think that's typically more
00:06:33.680 of a female view yeah can i qualify my answer that i just gave so like the upper end i literally just
00:06:40.640 said 40. like romantically if you look good there's no reason why it can't even be beyond 40. the only
00:06:47.920 reason why i cap it at 40 because i presume you're probably in a different stage of life that i'm in
00:06:53.680 and there might be a lifestyle mismatch that's the only reason but even then i could discover that's not
00:07:00.480 the case and then i'd be willing to as long as i you look good to me i'm still attracted to you
00:07:04.880 we're all good i sorry to interrupt um i think ages were irrelevant i mean there's there's a limit to
00:07:11.200 what i would go down to see 25 is the lowest i will go um but i think you could be this is from a
00:07:18.720 woman's point of view to men you could be missing out from a really great woman just because you put 1.00
00:07:23.760 these restrictions on ages and it's not all about you know it's popping out babies it might be you
00:07:30.160 might find the woman the love of your life at any they could be any age you don't have to be popping
00:07:35.760 babies out but you could miss out for for amazing long you know lifelong partner with all your
00:07:42.640 restrictions that's just my personal point of view but you kind of contradicted yourself because
00:07:46.720 you said age is irrelevant but then you said you wouldn't go under 25. she got a point 0.86
00:07:50.720 like like what what's wrong with the 24 year old that's got his stuff together okay yeah i said 25
00:07:56.640 but yeah if it's a 24 year old but i'm not gonna go i'm not gonna go really low because that's not
00:08:01.120 relevant for me and i know i'm not saying how old i am but yes i understand i apologize for if you felt
00:08:06.720 contradicting myself but yeah there there is a limit but an upper limit you could be missing out on a great
00:08:12.720 man or a great woman i agree would you date a guy that was 90. well yeah well yeah like you said
00:08:24.800 it could be 110. it could be 110 treats me well just wants to take me out to dinner and have some
00:08:30.640 company buy me nice things but you still have to be respectful yeah i i i i agree with you to a certain
00:08:38.320 extent given i think ultimately it comes down to your intention so if your if your intention is to
00:08:44.000 actually have a family i think there's a biological plot that we can't necessarily overlook and you may
00:08:49.600 say that there's also yeah there are options adoption and so forth but not every man may necessarily
00:08:54.320 want to take that route so my response was for an effect of my version of a commitment where i am in
00:08:59.760 my life i need to be with a woman that can i can have a family with and 0.98
00:09:08.720 with my age currently speaking the higher up i go i guess if i want more than one child
00:09:16.480 or so forth that kind of has to be accelerated and as a man you know you've got to you've got
00:09:22.800 to kind of plan these things up but the planning also takes time so you know there's a point when
00:09:28.320 i'm not sure it's different for different women's but from what i've learned in school 0.56
00:09:32.160 there's a point when women can't provide families 1.00
00:09:34.560 so no no i understand that and i have a very calm point of view when it comes to children i'm not
00:09:42.240 going to go there now um i am a support person to my best friend who's a foster carer and i've seen
00:09:48.800 the value of fostering and adoption there are thousands of children in this country who would
00:09:55.120 benefit from having an amazing loving home and when you look at things differently this is just
00:09:59.760 my personal point of view and it's no attack on anyone here but when you look at the children that
00:10:04.480 don't actually have a home and you've got everyone popping out these babies i get it people say oh
00:10:10.080 i want i want blood it has to be my blood my child but if you actually look into it whether it's
00:10:16.640 adoption or foster okay fostering is different for a short time but adoption it doesn't matter where
00:10:21.600 it is whether it's blood or not the problem is there's a lot of problems that come with adoption
00:10:26.480 like there's a lot of issues like if you don't get the kid before the age of three like it's fully
00:10:30.880 developed and any issues that it had before the age of three a lot of times you can't stop
00:10:35.760 um and i'm not i'm not like against adoption but i just think sometimes it it can a lot of people
00:10:41.440 aren't aware of how hard it is when they go into it and this is as someone like i have three adopted
00:10:46.640 siblings no no i i totally understand that and um i have friends um who adopt adopted children as well
00:10:55.840 but also it depends on the type of person you are what parent you will be um the type of child
00:11:04.000 there's there's so many different variations it's just kind of like if a guy could avoid that headache
00:11:08.320 of like like you'd have to find find the kid hope hopefully it's like coming out of not too bad
00:11:13.520 situation um and like pay it's really expensive too in the us i don't know how it is here but you have
00:11:19.680 to pay ten plus thousand dollars per kid it's like why would he go through that headache no you don't do
00:11:24.880 that here adoption goes through overseas you know is it free here it is it is free you go through
00:11:30.480 your local council or adoption services and you you don't have to pay for that no but interject i 0.51
00:11:36.640 you do have to make a certain amount of money to provide for the child you're not allowed to
00:11:40.480 just adopt a child with no money oh of course of course so ideally you're financially stable anyway
00:11:46.560 for any child if you're going to get pregnant you're going to adopt money's in the equation because
00:11:50.720 you have to provide a living so it's a complete deterrent for going for older women for guys i 1.00
00:11:55.520 guess but what about the women that like you if uh like scenario that you find your dream girl you're 0.98
00:12:00.880 in love with her and then you find out like she can't provide a family for you no matter how old she 1.00
00:12:04.800 is then you have to go through adoption anyway so why is like age a hard cap i think it's just like
00:12:10.720 likelihood i mean like geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 um 90 90 90 of your eggs are gone by 30. yeah and so it's
00:12:20.320 just like if if you get a 25 year old or 22 year old it's less likely to happen but there's like
00:12:26.160 there's still that chance that she's like completely infertile you know i mean so like i don't know in 0.99
00:12:30.880 my eyes like it's a chance on that it's a chance though it's like if you're going for an older woman
00:12:37.280 then it's more likely so it's kind of it's why waste your time it's kind of like okay if you pick
00:12:43.520 two roads on the highway and one has an accident every week and one and one it's usually fine like which
00:12:49.120 one are you gonna pick yeah um okay you too okay um can you repeat the question um so how old are you
00:12:58.320 so you're 20 and what's the age range you date um so younger um by two years older three max oh wow
00:13:10.640 yeah three max because taking me i'm just doing long term so yeah okay um i'm 28 um if i'm taking
00:13:18.400 it serious and looking for something long term then my market would be 21 to 32 if i'm just outside in
00:13:26.000 the field having fun then 20 to 50 i'd say in the field outside shooting shots
00:13:38.240 um what's the oldest that you've dated beard gang uh 49 what was that like
00:13:46.240 um interesting so i was like 21 at the time yeah it was a good experience does the woman feel
00:13:51.840 different at that age a lot different yeah how i don't know because i'm not that age yet so i want
00:13:57.360 to know i don't know if it was because i was young but i'd say it's just a level of