JustPearlyThings - Tradcon Tommi Reveals Her Inner Feminist ｜ Pearl Reacts

00:00:00.000 A line of a dozen women being asked the following question, do we need men? 1.00

00:00:06.100 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. 0.99

00:00:11.920 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. 0.98

00:00:14.780 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:17.800 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.

00:00:22.540 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:25.580 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:00:26.820 The future is female. 1.00

00:00:28.340 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99

00:00:36.660 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:39.620 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:42.320 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:45.880 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:49.980 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:52.440 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:55.580 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99

00:01:00.540 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:03.860 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:07.840 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:10.680 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:15.880 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:17.980 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:21.600 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:24.480 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:27.100 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:32.120 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:35.340 You need no evidence.

00:01:36.460 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:40.140 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:43.500 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:46.060 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:48.480 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:50.580 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:52.920 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:54.340 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:56.120 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:01:58.660 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:02.940 Family is the foundation of society.

00:02:04.660 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:02:07.780 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:02:12.100 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:02:14.040 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:15.860 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99

00:02:17.620 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:20.380 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:24.520 Oh, freeze your eggs. 1.00

00:02:25.600 Have an abortion. 0.73

00:02:26.620 What? 1.00

00:02:27.020 You're evil.

00:02:27.860 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. 0.81

00:02:31.720 Right.

00:02:31.840 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally, the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:38.580 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:39.500 And that's the thing.

00:02:40.040 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:02:43.240 This is not about happiness.

00:02:44.940 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:47.000 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:56.200 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:59.860 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95

00:03:01.320 They have all the power.

00:03:02.640 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:04.900 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99

00:03:07.500 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:10.740 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:12.640 Men are homeless.

00:03:13.620 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:14.980 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:19.780 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:25.160 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:29.000 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99

00:03:31.680 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:38.840 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:40.660 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:41.860 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:43.280 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:44.380 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00

00:03:46.760 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66

00:03:49.340 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:53.020 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man- 0.98

00:03:55.220 500K.

00:03:55.900 500K.

00:03:56.340 300K.

00:03:56.840 300K.

00:03:57.300 200K.

00:03:57.740 Am I crazy?

00:03:58.460 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:04:00.740 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them. 1.00

00:04:04.280 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:08.180 Women. 0.81

00:04:08.580 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:11.720 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:14.100 I'm over it.

00:04:15.260 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:16.540 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:18.320 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:21.080 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:22.380 You simp for men. 0.99

00:04:22.980 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:04:24.400 She's a provocateur. 1.00

00:04:25.380 She says stupid stuff. 1.00

00:04:26.460 But Pearl is right about this. 1.00

00:04:27.840 It's already happening.

00:04:28.980 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:30.420 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want 0.99

00:04:34.040 a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:04:36.080 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:40.380 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:44.500 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:46.040 The American story does not end well.

00:04:48.500 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:57.200 What up, guys?

00:04:59.160 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:05:04.880 Today, we're going to be reacting to Tommy Lauren.

00:05:07.100 But if you want, that was a trailer for our divorce documentary.

00:05:10.500 We are currently trying to raise $100,000 for an order to finish.

00:05:16.260 I have been demonetized.

00:05:17.840 I lost probably seven or eight TikToks, three Instagram.

00:05:23.300 They really do not want me to finish this documentary.

00:05:27.320 I'm going to show you the fundraiser page.

00:05:30.360 So the link to it's in the description.

00:05:31.880 It's a GoFundMe.

00:05:34.200 I want to say shout out to the most recent person that donated, Eric, $200 donation.

00:05:41.320 We appreciate it.

00:05:42.200 So far, we have raised $31,642.

00:05:45.760 So maybe in the next month, we can get $40,000 and we can get closer to our goal of $100,000.

00:05:51.780 The reason I want to raise $100,000 is because I want to have six months to a year salary saved up when we hire the new team so we don't run out of cash along the way.

00:05:59.720 So anyways, guys, if you can donate, please, we're going to go through some changes in the channel soon.

00:06:06.580 So we do have some announcements, but I'm going to I'm going to stay ambiguous for now.

00:06:11.720 Okay, so today we're reacting to Tommy Lauren Tradcon Feminist with Super Simp Michael Knowles.

00:06:19.920 So as you guys know, to some degree, all women are feminists. 0.95

00:06:23.620 And the reason all women are feminists is because all women are trying to implement their mating strategy. 1.00

00:06:28.880 Now, women's mating strategy is to use as much of our youth as possible on ourselves and not our husbands. 1.00

00:06:35.960 And the men's mating strategy is to get young, hot women to be with them and use their youth on them. 1.00

00:06:42.380 So our our mating strategies are at odds, right?

00:06:46.320 Because men want unlimited access to unlimited sexuality and women want guys with unlimited access to unlimited sexuality to settle down. 0.70

00:06:55.760 So women's dream is to finally be the woman that settles down with Leonardo DiCaprio. 0.83

00:07:00.760 And men's dream is a bunch of hot eight pluses that are 19 year olds.

00:07:06.140 Why do you think the Muslim the Muslims promise virgins, right? 1.00

00:07:10.940 They're like, yeah, if you do all this, you're going to get a bunch of virgin women. 1.00

00:07:16.020 And the men are like, let me do it.

00:07:18.340 Let me do it. Let's do it.

00:07:19.940 So and the reason is, you know, I think they get like a thousand virgins.

00:07:25.200 I'm not that religious.

00:07:26.380 I don't really know.

00:07:27.160 But but anyways, my biggest problem with the religious people is they're religious until they're not. 1.00

00:07:36.240 And as someone who is a consumer of Daily Wire content for years, they've just really disappointed me.

00:07:41.640 They really have.

00:07:42.320 Michael Knowles, I went on his show and he's just he's just a super simp.

00:07:50.720 Do you know what I mean?

00:07:51.040 He just he simps for women and he's constantly bending the truth to appease women. 0.73

00:07:56.480 He's constantly giving women the benefit of the doubt, even though we're kind of liars pretty much all the time, 24 seven.

00:08:02.940 But he's still just like believe women all the time. 0.85

00:08:06.020 If she says she's a virgin and not ran through, just believe her, marry her anyway. 1.00

00:08:10.540 No prenup, no nothing.

00:08:12.660 So anyways, he has a conversation with Tommy Lauren.

00:08:14.980 And this is the typical dynamic in churches, some trad con feminist woman and some guy appeasing her. 0.99

00:08:23.080 Usually what happens is the guys just don't have a lot of experience with women. 0.99

00:08:26.400 So they just, you know, they super simp out.

00:08:29.360 So anyways, we're going to continue.

00:08:30.740 Welcome to Yes or No, the bibulous battle to discover who knows whom better.

00:08:47.960 My guest today, a woman. 0.99

00:08:49.660 Now, my issue is a lot of these people use the religion for clout.

00:08:54.160 So look, I can't speculate if you're religious or if you're not religious.

00:08:59.500 But religious people don't magically become religious when they're on camera.

00:09:04.520 It's generally my view.

00:09:07.440 And you got the girl with the fake hair, a lot of makeup. 0.85

00:09:11.140 Who needs no introduction?

00:09:13.560 Tommy Lauren.

00:09:14.940 How do we play?

00:09:15.600 This lighting is not doing her any favors.

00:09:18.220 I will ask Tommy a yes or no question.

00:09:20.720 She will select her answer away from my prying eyes.

00:09:23.440 Then I'll guess how she answered.

00:09:25.740 If I guess correctly, I get a point.

00:09:27.600 If I guess incorrectly, I lose a point.

00:09:30.420 No matter what, I'll probably end up drinking.

00:09:33.780 Then it's Tommy's turn.

00:09:36.100 Neither of us have seen the questions beforehand.

00:09:38.160 Whoever has the most points at the end wins.

00:09:40.120 The stakes could be higher.

00:09:42.660 Let's get started.

00:09:43.600 Tommy, thank you for being here.

00:09:45.520 Thank you for having me.

00:09:46.740 I'm excited about this.

00:09:47.800 I didn't know there would be cards and a board game involved.

00:09:51.080 And booze. 0.82

00:09:51.940 But you have an unfair advantage over me.

00:09:54.960 Yeah.

00:09:55.180 You're having water.

00:09:56.200 I'm having water.

00:09:56.880 Staying hydrated.

00:09:57.680 Why are you having water for this game?

00:10:00.040 Well, it's a Tuesday at 2.

00:10:01.720 And I'll be driving.

00:10:02.820 Didn't stop me.

00:10:03.860 I was chugging.

00:10:04.820 To Brentwood.

00:10:06.660 So...

00:10:06.940 Hold on.

00:10:07.420 You're going to tell on me to the whole audience out there.

00:10:10.160 That's all right.

00:10:10.600 And I'm boozing at work.

00:10:11.900 Sometimes we've had to film this at like 9 o'clock in the morning.

00:10:15.000 Let me get through the semantics.

00:10:17.820 At first glance.

00:10:18.720 That's fine with me.

00:10:19.900 That gives me an advantage.

00:10:21.380 If you go in underestimating me, I would prefer that.

00:10:24.360 Right?

00:10:24.860 But I always see a blonde. 1.00

00:10:25.880 Not in New York.

00:10:27.340 Blondes there. 0.95

00:10:28.040 Any variation of blondes? 1.00

00:10:29.460 Okay.

00:10:30.620 Do most men assume blondes are less intelligent than brunettes? 1.00

00:10:34.120 Well, I would say yes.

00:10:36.240 It's because...

00:10:37.240 It's because if you're blonde, you're probably investing money in your looks 1.00

00:10:46.460 because you have to pay a bunch of money in order to get that.

00:10:49.640 So you're clearly making less money off of your brains if you have to dye your hair blonde.

00:10:54.260 You know, that's my thought.

00:10:55.880 I said yes.

00:11:07.820 And I answered that you said yes.

00:11:09.160 You said yes.

00:11:09.780 Okay.

00:11:10.000 Tommy got it right.

00:11:10.920 And I have to drink.

00:11:12.160 I do think that men think, rightly or wrongly, they assume that if a girl is blonde, she's less smart.

00:11:20.740 And I don't think it's about the blonde so much as the brunette. 0.60

00:11:24.940 Brunette gives to me an aura of bookishness. 0.99

00:11:29.640 Okay.

00:11:30.240 Is that fair?

00:11:31.100 Or is it a terrible prejudice?

00:11:33.920 I would think, because when I...

00:11:36.620 I'll tell you this.

00:11:37.440 I go to New York and I don't see any blondes there, any variation of blondes there. 1.00

00:11:42.340 I see a lot of darker haired women there. 1.00

00:11:44.980 And I'm not talking about the model scene.

00:11:46.640 I'm talking about your everyday people.

00:11:48.080 And I don't see a lot of blondes. 1.00

00:11:50.180 And for me, my perspective, when I go there, it's completely different than in Nashville or Dallas or even California,

00:11:56.420 where you have a mix of both, but you're going to see a blonde, you know, pretty good chance you're going to see a blonde. 1.00

00:12:01.980 Not in New York.

00:12:03.200 And to me, when I see a lot of brunettes, I don't assume that they are more intelligent, 1.00

00:12:08.280 but they just don't seem like they're having as much fun.

00:12:11.460 And I know that that's, again, that's a cliche.

00:12:13.500 They seem maybe more serious.

00:12:15.340 I don't think it means...

00:12:16.180 Very severe.

00:12:16.380 I don't think it means that you're smarter.

00:12:18.400 I just think it means that you take yourself maybe a little bit too seriously.

00:12:21.900 Now, these are...

00:12:22.400 I just think you're monetizing your looks more.

00:12:24.320 I don't care about this question.

00:12:25.560 I get what we got next.

00:12:28.040 Oh, there's a part where they talk about marriage.

00:12:30.380 So I want to get to that.

00:12:34.340 Does this finally make the WNBA bearable to watch?

00:12:38.320 I don't care.

00:12:39.060 And by the way, if this goes, if this ends earlier than I thought it would, because I thought this was going to all be...

00:12:46.480 Then I'm probably going to go to the Michael Knowles debate that he had with the other, you know, the trad wives and Emily. 1.00

00:12:54.720 I don't care about it.

00:12:58.500 Hey, Joe!

00:12:59.620 Are you the body double?

00:13:01.440 It's the body double!

00:13:03.640 Hey, Joe!

00:13:04.560 I didn't see him that well.

00:13:09.740 I was seeing the reaction of all the Dems.

00:13:11.780 And he got out there and it was one note the whole time.

00:13:14.260 It was just revolution and we had the same religion.

00:13:17.260 And John Adams said, he said,

00:13:18.780 Okay, here we go.

00:13:30.920 This is the questions I want.

00:13:32.640 Okay, here we are.

00:13:33.560 These topics.

00:13:34.120 The rise of stay-at-home sons will only be fixed if RFK Jr. bans soy and other... 0.58

00:13:40.340 Okay, so there's this idea that there's something wrong with stay-at-home sons.

00:13:44.560 And look, I can just speak to what I see interviewing people and in the real world.

00:13:51.340 Most of the stay-at-home sons I know are just guys saving money.

00:13:57.000 They don't...

00:13:57.740 They get along with their parents.

00:13:59.040 They don't see the point.

00:14:00.020 I know stay-at-home sons that have enough money for rent.

00:14:05.300 You know, they're just trying to get something done or Ubering or, you know...

00:14:09.460 Or, sorry, they have enough money to buy a house.

00:14:11.620 I know some.

00:14:14.560 But, you know, it's not necessarily that they have an issue with their money or their losers or anything.

00:14:22.700 They just, you know, they're saving money on rent.

00:14:24.320 I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

00:14:26.280 And here's the thing.

00:14:30.040 The other issue you have is a lot of men are preparing to not have a family because they don't see it in their future.

00:14:35.100 It's not likely it's going to happen for them.

00:14:37.060 But they're not going to have that conversation.

00:14:39.000 They're not going to be honest about what's going on.

00:14:40.720 They're just going to find a way to blame the men, as usual, per use.

00:14:44.380 They're seed oils.

00:14:46.400 What does Tommy think about that?

00:14:51.820 I got it wrong?

00:14:53.240 What do you mean I got it wrong?

00:14:54.340 How did I get it wrong?

00:14:55.480 What do you mean?

00:14:56.320 Hold on.

00:14:57.340 That would mean that that condition would be necessary but not sufficient.

00:15:01.340 So I'm not...

00:15:02.140 We should have cleared this up before.

00:15:03.440 It's not to say that RFK Jr. banning soy and seed oils would fix the problem.

00:15:09.980 Okay.

00:15:10.480 It's to say the problem would not be fixed if RFK does not ban soy and seed oils.

00:15:16.320 Does that change your answer?

00:15:17.280 I don't think seed oils matter that much.

00:15:19.660 Look.

00:15:22.080 I'm going to do a before and after one day.

00:15:24.780 You're not going to believe how skinny I get.

00:15:27.140 You guys aren't.

00:15:28.240 But I've been waiting because I want to get to the point I want to get to before I show you how much thinner I used to be kind of chunky.

00:15:38.140 And anyways, long story short, I've experimented a lot with diet in the past few years.

00:15:45.360 And I did not find a difference with seed oils.

00:15:48.240 I didn't.

00:15:48.960 I found the biggest difference in cutting sugar and cutting carbs.

00:15:52.440 That was pretty much it.

00:15:53.840 Increasing protein.

00:15:54.780 I don't think it's this big.

00:15:57.780 I'm sure it affects it some.

00:15:59.280 I don't think it's going to kill you.

00:16:00.560 No, I still lost.

00:16:01.600 So, again, the way that the question was worded, I'll just tell you my take on it.

00:16:07.020 It was poorly worded.

00:16:07.800 I agree.

00:16:08.480 It was Davies' fault.

00:16:09.680 Yes.

00:16:10.280 I'll tell you this.

00:16:11.700 The rise of stay-at-home sons is not going to be solved by banning certain food items, certain soys, nothing.

00:16:18.220 It's a cultural problem.

00:16:19.740 You have to address the cultural issues.

00:16:21.700 There's nothing that you can ban as far as consumption that's going to fix that.

00:16:26.420 That's why I would give you it.

00:16:27.040 What if you banned pot, porn, and this is alliterative, what's a third P, and playthings like Legos?

00:16:38.420 I don't know what they do.

00:16:39.300 These are kind of the man children. 0.97

00:16:40.560 What if you banned all that stuff? 1.00

00:16:42.540 Fuck you guys. 1.00

00:16:43.920 Seriously. 1.00

00:16:44.560 Can you imagine?

00:16:45.340 Like, this is the most out-of-touch thing I've ever heard.

00:16:48.560 You guys are commentators.

00:16:50.460 You have no idea what the average man goes through.

00:16:53.960 You know, I was just talking to my cousin the other day who literally lays concrete.

00:16:57.760 And, okay, if he wants to play video games or Legos or whatever the hell after work, who

00:17:05.720 are you to tell them what they can and can't do?

00:17:08.260 I mean, this is just an elitist conversation. 0.99

00:17:10.760 Screw you. 0.99

00:17:11.720 Stuff. 0.99

00:17:12.000 Yeah.

00:17:12.200 Okay.

00:17:12.480 Yeah.

00:17:12.740 What if you banned all of that?

00:17:15.200 That would help, wouldn't it?

00:17:16.640 If you got, frankly, just porn.

00:17:19.260 If you got rid of porn, I think you would go 40% toward fixing the problem.

00:17:23.520 Yeah, okay, but then why don't we, if we're going to ban corn, why don't we ban old marriage? 0.97

00:17:29.880 Women, if you don't get married by 23, if you don't find a guy and get married by 23, 1.00

00:17:35.300 I'm not even saying 18.

00:17:36.560 You know, my grandma got married by 18. 0.58

00:17:38.000 I'm giving them an extra five years to F around.

00:17:41.420 You can even have a whole college hoe phase and go get married, but you got till 23. 0.99

00:17:46.560 If you're gonna ban corn, then ban women. 1.00

00:17:53.520 They're not using their youth on their husbands because the whole issue is there's men getting 1.00

00:17:59.180 iced at sex is a need for men.

00:18:01.580 Religion doesn't treat it like a need, but the same part of your brain that lights up 0.98

00:18:06.520 when food, it's the same part that like sex, sex is a need, especially for men.

00:18:13.640 And they don't treat it like one. 0.87

00:18:15.280 And they constantly make men feel guilty and shame the male sex drive.

00:18:18.560 It's a, it's a manipulation tool and they've used it for all of history because they knew

00:18:24.420 they can control men with sex. 0.99

00:18:26.160 Yeah, there's a construction worker in the chat.

00:18:36.040 I mean, who are these commentators?

00:18:38.460 We have such soft lives and I don't say this to brag.

00:18:42.240 It's not really fair.

00:18:43.160 Um, but I love, I love, I love doing this.

00:18:49.460 I love, it's so much fun.

00:18:51.720 It's so fun.

00:18:52.640 Like who would I, you guys are the only people I could talk to for two hours straight and you

00:18:56.960 listen.

00:18:57.320 I, I, I love, I love it, but to, to act like I am close to a construction worker or I would

00:19:09.800 even put to any of the men that do the hard jobs that keep this country going, hell no,

00:19:16.080 none of you are.

00:19:16.720 So for you to tell men, like, who are you to tell men what they can and can't do? 1.00

00:19:22.540 Bullshit. 1.00

00:19:24.040 Bullshit. 1.00

00:19:24.960 Don't get too skinny Pearl. 1.00

00:19:26.760 Fuck you. 1.00

00:19:28.580 I'll get as thin as I want to get. 1.00

00:19:31.080 Sorry.

00:19:31.840 I'm just, I'm dropping F-bombs today.

00:19:34.140 This isn't good for me.

00:19:36.500 This isn't, I need to be like more, I gotta stop dropping F-bombs. 1.00

00:19:43.800 It's just not a good look for me.

00:19:45.160 It's really not.

00:19:49.780 Sorry guys.

00:19:50.780 It just, yeah.

00:19:53.960 I don't know this new generation though.

00:19:55.780 I don't know if, if that's their thing.

00:19:57.920 I don't know.

00:19:58.300 They all think they work so hard.

00:20:01.760 Now I'm not going to say that it's not competitive.

00:20:05.100 It's very competitive.

00:20:06.040 Why do you think she's in such good shape? 0.97

00:20:07.620 Why do you think she's got the Botox, the hair? 1.00

00:20:09.600 Because we're all competing, right?

00:20:11.240 That's why we're, you know, they all dress very nice, whatever.

00:20:16.420 But let's just be real here.

00:20:20.780 No, I'm not an ozempic.

00:20:26.400 Whatever.

00:20:26.840 Um, let's just be honest here and call it for what it is.

00:20:36.940 We have soft lives.

00:20:39.060 We do.

00:20:39.960 Okay.

00:20:40.580 Well, if that's what gets them going, honestly, I think laziness does.

00:20:43.920 I think laziness.

00:20:44.960 Oh my God.

00:20:47.160 I give her to me.

00:20:49.340 Who are you to talk about laziness, Tommy?

00:20:51.720 Who are you? 1.00

00:20:53.600 You're a fucking commentator. 1.00

00:20:55.660 You wouldn't be where you are if you weren't a pretty blonde girl. 1.00

00:20:59.500 You're not in the position you are because you're overly intelligent.

00:21:02.820 You don't know stuff more than the men.

00:21:05.280 You're not, you're not, you're not that intelligent.

00:21:07.640 You're not that a good, that good of a debater. 1.00

00:21:09.540 You're, you just have a bunch of followers because conservative men want to have sex with you. 1.00

00:21:14.280 That's it. 1.00

00:21:15.640 That's it.

00:21:19.600 And because you've lived a whole life of delusion where you think you're in the position you are

00:21:24.300 because you're smart and not pretty.

00:21:27.260 That's it.

00:21:27.840 That's why you're in the position you're in.

00:21:30.620 So you have no right to call men lazy.

00:21:33.360 You don't, you have no right.

00:21:36.740 Go work construction.

00:21:38.120 Go work, go work an infrastructure job and come back to me.

00:21:44.620 Fuels a lot of the reason that they want to stay home.

00:21:47.720 They don't want to achieve necessarily.

00:21:50.180 And I'm not talking again.

00:21:51.200 This is my biggest pet peeve. 0.96

00:21:53.180 There are some conservative men in our space that when I say those things, they go, you hate men.

00:21:58.200 Okay.

00:21:59.080 Calm down, Chads.

00:22:00.600 No, what I'm saying is we have a cultural problem in which some young men, especially the generations that are coming up now, the alphas, the Gen Zs, right? 0.94

00:22:10.460 There are a significant amount that do not want to achieve, attain.

00:22:15.960 They don't want to be exceptional.

00:22:17.960 They don't want to be masculine.

00:22:19.580 They don't want to be leaders of family and household.

00:22:22.600 I think that's a problem.

00:22:23.740 Yeah, because what do they get in return?

00:22:26.020 They get nothing.

00:22:26.720 They get, like, a Botoxed 32-year-old, you know?

00:22:30.900 I mean, it's just not what men generally, like, want.

00:22:37.120 Problem.

00:22:37.820 Now, I get eviscerated for this, but when I say that women don't have much to choose from, I'm not saying women are perfect. 0.95

00:22:44.320 So I'm glad that I get to clear this up.

00:22:45.720 We have plenty of cultural rot on the female side. 1.00

00:22:48.760 Yeah, yeah.

00:22:49.160 Trust and believe I agree with you.

00:22:51.600 I'm talking about women who uphold their end of the bargain that are looking for a man who is masculine, who wants to be leader of household. 1.00

00:23:00.600 They are not finding the same.

00:23:02.980 Now, what is she talking about?

00:23:05.740 She likes charming men, just like all women, like charming, exciting men. 1.00

00:23:09.680 She's complaining that there aren't enough alphas and that the alphas that there are will not settle down.

00:23:16.100 That's what she's saying.

00:23:18.000 She's saying, I can't get alphas to settle down because, look, Tommy was pretty hot back in the day.

00:23:27.080 She had access.

00:23:28.760 Come on, let's just do, like, we got to think through this stuff.

00:23:32.680 She had access to A-level celebrities.

00:23:35.620 She was on big shows.

00:23:38.160 You don't think she got banged out by a few athletes.

00:23:41.240 You don't think she got banged out by a few conservative commentators at Fox.

00:23:46.860 Like, let's just let's just balance the probabilities, assume.

00:23:52.180 Okay.

00:23:53.860 That's what she's mad about is that she's like a six and she got access to eights and nines. 1.00

00:23:59.840 And you have to be a really good six to have a shot with them.

00:24:04.180 And in general, you know, a lot of men aren't going to compromise on looks.

00:24:09.320 They're not.

00:24:11.140 If you like the men that I know that get laid a lot and have access to a lot of women, they do not compromise on looks.

00:24:18.100 They're not going to.

00:24:19.100 They've worked their whole life.

00:24:20.480 To get to this point, they are not going to come home with a mid. 0.97

00:24:24.320 They're not going to do it.

00:24:27.340 Swath that maybe they once could.

00:24:29.560 Because it doesn't exist.

00:24:30.860 Okay. 0.88

00:24:31.060 So then how do you, let's say, so the men don't want the women because they say the women are all promiscuous. 0.99

00:24:35.760 Pearl, you're being mean.

00:24:36.780 I don't care.

00:24:39.140 I really don't care.

00:24:40.380 Stop simping out for Tommy.

00:24:41.960 Like, come on.

00:24:43.180 U.S. and gold diggers. 0.90

00:24:44.520 And the women don't want the men because they say they're all man children and they're degenerate and they're mommy's boys. 0.97

00:24:49.800 So you have this problem. 0.91

00:24:50.960 You have a game of chicken.

00:24:52.580 And neither side is going to budge.

00:24:54.900 So then how do you solve the problem?

00:24:56.960 You can't.

00:24:59.280 You can't.

00:25:00.100 And you guys wouldn't know how to anyway.

00:25:06.920 Okay.

00:25:07.680 It's a cultural problem.

00:25:09.100 How do you fix the culture?

00:25:10.420 Well, little by little.

00:25:12.320 I think that the mega movement has done a lot.

00:25:15.080 Who, who's in charge of the culture?

00:25:17.060 It's women. 1.00

00:25:19.300 Women are the ones. 1.00

00:25:20.080 We don't shut up.

00:25:21.000 We're in charge of the culture.

00:25:22.820 We're the ones that passed on the culture.

00:25:24.600 It's not men.

00:25:25.280 Men don't have time for that. 1.00

00:25:26.320 They're working.

00:25:27.480 For young men.

00:25:28.120 I think the mega movement has done a lot to inspire young men to want to be leader of household, that to be a provider, to be a state.

00:25:34.660 Yeah, I can solve it.

00:25:36.040 Come on.

00:25:36.920 Well, man, I think it's done a lot.

00:25:39.300 Now we've got a ways to go.

00:25:40.740 Yeah.

00:25:40.940 And I don't think, by the way, that women are blameless in this. 0.98

00:25:44.540 I think mothers might be a big part of the problem. 1.00

00:25:47.660 They're over-mothering the kids. 0.98

00:25:48.780 So when people go, oh, you don't blame women. 0.99

00:25:50.680 No, I do.

00:25:51.160 I blame mothers. 1.00

00:25:51.920 I blame mothers. 1.00

00:25:52.840 I blame mothers who caught... 0.90

00:25:54.160 I agree with that.

00:25:55.720 ...all their sons.

00:25:56.340 Yeah, I've seen men of these generations ruined, ruined by over-mothering.

00:26:03.760 And I love...

00:26:04.300 Look, I love my mother.

00:26:05.340 I'm a good Italian boy.

00:26:06.180 I love my mother.

00:26:07.060 I love my grandmothers.

00:26:07.860 But I have seen how it can go.

00:26:12.260 I truly...

00:26:13.280 If you said, pick the one thing that ruined that kid, I would say the mother was too indulgent. 0.98

00:26:20.620 Hit the like button, y'all.

00:26:22.280 Hit the like button.

00:26:24.040 Thank you.

00:26:25.260 Wow.

00:26:25.560 I think it's a problem.

00:26:26.920 Now, again, every time I say this, the men on conservative Twitter come after me.

00:26:31.520 Oh, she's a feminist. 1.00

00:26:32.880 She's a covert. 1.00

00:26:33.600 Pearl Reed, ban TikTok, Instagram, and all the social media apps where whores melt their brain. 1.00

00:26:39.580 That's a good solution. 0.99

00:26:42.440 But they would never let that happen because they all make money off of women on social media.

00:26:49.040 Social media is 10 times more destructive to women than corn is to men. 0.79

00:26:54.120 I don't understand what's feminist about saying, listen, I think Republicans are the new feminists

00:27:01.060 because we're the only ones that stand up for women's sports and spaces. 1.00

00:27:04.060 I'm not the...

00:27:05.120 I don't care about women's sports. 1.00

00:27:09.000 And I played them for 20 years.

00:27:12.740 I had a tournament where men were playing in it.

00:27:16.880 And I was one of the women that said something.

00:27:19.620 And guess what?

00:27:21.420 Nobody cared.

00:27:22.620 All the women crucified me for saying something. 1.00

00:27:26.400 Leftist definition of a feminist. 1.00

00:27:28.260 Well, would you say...

00:27:28.740 I would say I'm not a feminist. 0.91

00:27:30.120 I would say I'm not a feminist at all.

00:27:31.500 I think feminism is wrong. 1.00

00:27:33.280 They used to do this thing where they'd say, I like the second wave, but not the third wave.

00:27:37.160 Or I like the first wave, but not the...

00:27:38.620 But I think it's all wrong.

00:27:40.280 Mary Wollstonecraft, totally wrong. 0.92

00:27:42.740 Because it seems to me feminism says men and women are basically the same.

00:27:46.620 Anything you can do, I can do equally.

00:27:48.240 But I don't think that's true.

00:27:49.640 I think men and women are different.

00:27:50.620 I think there's some things women do I can't do. 1.00

00:27:52.340 Some things I can do.

00:27:53.660 Like what?

00:27:55.800 Like what?

00:27:56.560 Come on.

00:27:58.000 Top Michelin chefs are women or men.

00:28:01.900 Top Michelin chefs are men.

00:28:06.020 Single fathers raise better kids than single mothers. 0.99

00:28:08.580 What?

00:28:09.000 What can't...

00:28:09.660 What can men do?

00:28:11.520 What can men not do?

00:28:13.420 What?

00:28:15.240 The women generally can't do. 1.00

00:28:17.260 And we are complimentary.

00:28:18.880 We go to...

00:28:19.200 It's just a different view of human nature.

00:28:21.180 But you're fairly traditional.

00:28:23.880 I mean, you're famous and everything you go on TV.

00:28:28.800 Bruh.

00:28:30.880 I'm not traditional.

00:28:32.300 She's not traditional.

00:28:34.480 Brett Cooper is not traditional.

00:28:36.380 No.

00:28:36.500 None of these women are traditional because they have big social media followings. 0.95

00:28:43.600 You cannot have one and be that.

00:28:46.140 You can't.

00:28:47.440 But you hold to generally traditional views of men and women.

00:28:51.640 Right.

00:28:52.200 So you're not...

00:28:52.740 You wouldn't say you're a feminist. 1.00

00:28:53.660 Or would you?

00:28:54.620 I would say in the...

00:28:56.900 Like I said, I think that Republicans are hijacking feminism the way that the left hijacked rainbows

00:29:02.520 and our sports.

00:29:03.680 And I think that Republicans and conservatives are taking it back.

00:29:07.380 Because to me, a feminist in 2025 means somebody who stands up for women's sports and spaces. 1.00

00:29:11.800 So that to me, if that's how I'm defining it, which is, again, I'm saying we're taking it over, then yes, I am.

00:29:17.900 Now, here is where I sometimes butt heads with some of the, like I say, conservative Twitter, male conservative Twitter, right?

00:29:26.100 I don't believe that women should inherently make less, stay at home, live to be mothers.

00:29:34.380 That's the extent of your personality, persona, identity.

00:29:39.000 I don't believe that.

00:29:39.480 But if a mother wants to do that, you'd be fine with that. 0.99

00:29:41.360 So I believe in everybody being able to do what they want to do, as long as it doesn't negatively impact society at large, right?

00:29:49.300 So that's my conservative belief.

00:29:52.060 But it is impacting society at large because the birth rate's falling.

00:29:57.060 Doesn't it all, to me, it's a little libertarian.

00:30:01.720 Doesn't it, doesn't it like the kids we were just talking about, the boys living in their mother's basement, they're doing what they want to do.

00:30:09.580 Right.

00:30:09.840 So they say they want to play video games, eat potato, eat chicken nuggets.

00:30:13.240 They want to.

00:30:14.280 And women want to get gangbanged by Tyrone, Chad, and Daquan. 1.00

00:30:18.920 And Brad, Gavin, the star, you know what I mean?

00:30:21.320 It's just, like, that doesn't harm anybody.

00:30:26.060 So, but we're going to nag on men about video games, truly, really?

00:30:30.400 It is, and ostensibly it's not impacting society at large, but it is.

00:30:35.060 Look, Brett Cooper could call in any time.

00:30:38.280 But I'm not going to call her traditional.

00:30:40.260 I'm really not.

00:30:42.560 Bro.

00:30:44.140 If she wasn't a virgin on her wedding day, you simps can believe that.

00:30:49.040 I don't.

00:30:51.320 Like, we got it.

00:30:52.440 We got to get through this.

00:30:53.500 She went to a big college.

00:30:55.000 Don't believe you.

00:30:55.780 I don't.

00:30:57.200 Like, women who are groupthink creatures. 1.00

00:31:01.120 You magically, like, bro, come on.

00:31:05.440 But you can call in any time.

00:31:07.140 It's not personal.

00:31:09.860 I met her once at the Daily Wire.

00:31:14.060 Briefly.

00:31:18.980 Anyways.

00:31:19.500 Because you got all these men who should be acting like men out of the dating pool. 0.97

00:31:23.300 So now the women are saying, well, I got to pick from a bunch of losers, and I don't want that. 1.00

00:31:26.380 And then no one's having kids. 0.97

00:31:27.500 And society crumbles.

00:31:28.860 So, in a way. 0.99

00:31:30.880 I don't think I've ever been on a date with a guy that was a straight loser. 0.95

00:31:35.560 They always have something going for them. 0.58

00:31:37.380 I should have Brett Cooper and Tommy Lauren on together.

00:31:44.840 They're not going to come on my show.

00:31:48.300 Come on.

00:31:50.400 Come on.

00:31:51.060 It's like there's almost no way to have a private sin.

00:31:57.780 Pearl looks down on everybody.

00:31:59.280 Well, to look down, I would have to think I'm better.

00:32:01.600 I don't claim to be anything.

00:32:06.320 Okay.

00:32:08.400 I'm a bad woman.

00:32:11.240 Bad.

00:32:12.300 So, look, I got enough.

00:32:14.020 But what you're not going to do is you're not going to cosplay and make me believe it.

00:32:18.320 I don't have to believe it.

00:32:19.880 All right.

00:32:21.100 Because it's all affecting society.

00:32:23.140 So, then we don't want them to just do that.

00:32:26.160 We want them to be men.

00:32:26.980 We want them to flourish.

00:32:27.940 And we want the women to have the giga chads that they can marry. 1.00

00:32:31.040 And then the women are like really good. 1.00

00:32:32.340 But so, if you left women up to their devices, wouldn't most of them prefer to stay home, raise kids, get married? 1.00

00:32:42.560 No.

00:32:44.060 Because if they did, they would.

00:32:45.780 Women don't want to be mothers. 1.00

00:32:47.260 Women want to be free from motherhood. 1.00

00:32:50.340 That's what women have fought for. 1.00

00:32:52.020 The number one issue, if women wanted to be mothers so bad, then why are they killing their children? 1.00

00:32:56.460 The only people that women want to be mothers to is Chad. 0.99

00:33:00.900 Chad, Tyrone, Gavin, whatever.

00:33:02.960 They do not want to be mothers to an average man. 0.98

00:33:06.040 They don't.

00:33:07.880 Over working in a corporate job.

00:33:09.980 I would disagree with that.

00:33:11.040 You don't think so?

00:33:11.740 No.

00:33:12.020 You think they would take the corporate job?

00:33:13.540 Not everyone.

00:33:14.040 Most of them.

00:33:14.200 I think that it would be a pretty 50-50 split.

00:33:18.140 Yeah.

00:33:18.720 For me, and again, they're going to eviscerate me for this.

00:33:21.680 You're a little different, though.

00:33:22.520 Just get ready.

00:33:23.140 Just get ready for it.

00:33:24.240 Okay.

00:33:24.860 I personally am not somebody who has grown up, like I'm born to be a mother and a wife, and that is my goal.

00:33:31.900 No.

00:33:33.280 Sorry.

00:33:34.060 That has never been me. 0.96

00:33:35.760 And conservative male Twitter be damned. 0.97

00:33:37.960 I don't care if you don't. 0.99

00:33:38.900 And that's why, because conservative male Twitter is losing their mating strategy, because that's a normal guy's wife. 1.00

00:33:48.040 That's what she should look like.

00:33:49.100 And she's saying, I want to spend my youth on myself.

00:33:51.840 And that pisses men off.

00:33:53.760 Because they're like, hey, I mean, we run society.

00:33:56.960 Can't you spend your youth on us?

00:33:58.380 And she says no.

00:34:00.140 Why did, um, does Tommy Lauren's, why does Tommy Lauren get schooled for being a covert feminist, but not Candace Owens, Charlie Kirk, and Michael Knowles when they share the same message? 1.00

00:34:10.300 I don't know if you've watched my streams.

00:34:14.200 I've gone over all of them.

00:34:16.940 I wonder why, though, he did.

00:34:18.820 I'm trying to think.

00:34:20.100 I've seen people push back on Candace Owens. 1.00

00:34:24.040 She just got cooked in that. 0.97

00:34:25.400 You can't say Candace Owens doesn't get the same cook it, like, because they just cooked her in that, um, Jubilee debate. 1.00

00:34:33.020 Michael Knowles does not get called out.

00:34:35.360 I did give him a nomination for Simp of the Year.

00:34:38.380 Um, Charlie Kirk.

00:34:40.300 I don't see as much.

00:34:43.220 Yeah, I would agree with you.

00:34:44.300 I would put the pushback goes the women first, because, again, the men, like, they're losing their mating strategy to get women to spend youth on them. 0.52

00:34:54.020 So when women don't do it, they get, you know, they're going to get the most pushback. 1.00

00:35:01.200 Like that.

00:35:01.820 But aren't you, like, I, we're both friends with a lot of women who go on TV and who are politicians and who are, you know, big fans.

00:35:09.980 But you would admit, and I'm, you know, I'm very close friends with many such women.

00:35:15.040 But you're the exception, not the rule.

00:35:18.720 You, right.

00:35:20.520 I.

00:35:21.140 You disagree.

00:35:21.800 I disagree with you.

00:35:22.740 Okay, all right.

00:35:22.980 Like I said, I think if you asked women, would you rather be a stay-at-home mom or would you rather be.

00:35:29.420 A corporate.

00:35:29.880 I'm not necessarily saying an executive, but would you rather exist in the business world?

00:35:34.200 Would you, and I'm not saying that that means that if you exist in the business world that you're childless and unmarried.

00:35:38.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:35:38.620 I think you can have it all.

00:35:39.680 I'm one of those people that.

00:35:40.500 Can you have it all?

00:35:41.040 So I thought about this.

00:35:42.080 Can you have it all?

00:35:45.480 Kind of, yeah.

00:35:46.760 Because men keep inventing things to do our job for us. 1.00

00:35:52.200 Do you know what I mean?

00:35:53.040 I was thinking about this.

00:35:54.080 I'm like, they have invented work from home jobs.

00:35:56.820 Like they got laptops, internet, they got Roombas and air fryers.

00:36:04.100 You could be a teacher.

00:36:08.620 And now we have daycare.

00:36:10.040 And I thought about this and I'm like, do you know what?

00:36:12.800 They're not even wrong to some degree because you kind of can have it all because the men keep inventing things to do our jobs for us.

00:36:20.840 Truly.

00:36:22.340 Truly.

00:36:23.040 I do believe that you can.

00:36:26.180 You can have someone else raise your kids and go to work.

00:36:29.800 Yeah, that's what they do.

00:36:32.560 Yeah.

00:36:33.340 18 to 24 year old women don't want to be stay at home moms. 1.00

00:36:36.360 It's true.

00:36:38.820 And as you just said, not an executive, not a superstar.

00:36:42.900 Tommy Lauren goes on TV.

00:36:44.320 Everyone knows your name.

00:36:46.000 You're a middle manager at the widget factory.

00:36:48.960 And you do spreadsheets and stuff like that.

00:36:51.760 You make a decent salary, but not a ton.

00:36:54.460 And you have a few kids.

00:36:58.800 And your husband's working too.

00:37:00.880 You got to, either you're going to stay home with your kid or you're going to put your kid in daycare.

00:37:05.180 Plenty of women put their kids in daycare. 1.00

00:37:06.560 But you can't totally have it all.

00:37:10.340 Can you?

00:37:11.240 You can't be Donna Reed and Margaret Thatcher.

00:37:16.980 I disagree with you.

00:37:18.540 Okay.

00:37:18.760 I guess I do.

00:37:19.560 I'm not saying it's not challenging.

00:37:21.020 I think it can be done.

00:37:22.120 Not everybody wants that life.

00:37:23.120 There's only so many hours in the day.

00:37:24.820 Right.

00:37:25.660 Could you stay up all night with a kid?

00:37:27.680 Let's say you got three kids running around.

00:37:29.600 You know, you're waking up constantly.

00:37:31.360 One to two, you probably could.

00:37:33.900 But someone's got to watch them between 2.30 and like 6 is what I'm thinking.

00:37:37.880 I mean, yeah, look, I'm not saying you should.

00:37:43.460 I'm just saying could.

00:37:45.880 You got to have help.

00:37:47.820 Basically, they're saying I want a nanny to watch my kid.

00:37:51.180 That's what they're saying.

00:37:52.020 They love nannies. 0.99

00:37:53.080 You're cooking the stew on the pot.

00:37:55.960 You've got all this stuff.

00:37:56.840 And then you have to be up because Fox and Friends is at 6 a.m. on the West Coast.

00:38:02.660 Or their husbands do it for them. 1.00

00:38:05.380 That's the other one.

00:38:06.080 And you've got to be up.

00:38:07.300 You've had one hour sleep.

00:38:08.680 Now, maybe, look, you could say I wake up.

00:38:10.380 I'm camera ready.

00:38:11.220 But it would be.

00:38:12.440 Yeah, it would be difficult.

00:38:13.300 It would be very hard.

00:38:14.480 Yeah, that level would not be sustainable.

00:38:16.840 But if you work to your full potential, you can afford to have help.

00:38:21.560 Now, some people are like, oh, I didn't have a nanny. 0.51

00:38:23.380 Oh, that's so awful.

00:38:24.360 I disagree with that.

00:38:25.560 I believe that if you attain a certain level of success.

00:38:28.260 But that's the thing.

00:38:28.740 You have a lot of money to have a nanny.

00:38:31.060 Right.

00:38:31.360 I grew up going to daycare, right?

00:38:33.260 Yeah, I grew up with both parents working.

00:38:34.960 I'm very middle America, middle class.

00:38:36.980 Both my parents worked.

00:38:38.300 I went to daycare.

00:38:39.400 When I was old enough, I stayed home alone.

00:38:41.600 I loved my upbringing.

00:38:43.760 I do not resent my mom for not staying home with me.

00:38:46.840 But you, but you, I guess the only point I make, because I agree, that was my upbringing

00:38:49.680 too.

00:38:50.080 But I'm just saying.

00:38:50.660 I want to see my sister's on daycare.

00:38:54.080 I'm going to see if she answers.

00:38:55.660 I'm going to play this, but I have a question about daycare.

00:38:58.680 Let's see if she answers.

00:38:59.880 Hey, um, I'm on the show, but I have a daycare question.

00:39:18.720 Um, so what is the average, like, how long are the kids usually at daycare?

00:39:28.540 Like, is there, like, when do parents usually pick up their kids?

00:39:32.760 What time?

00:39:35.480 Um, my daycare closes at 530.

00:39:38.400 So usually between like 445 and 530.

00:39:42.900 Okay.

00:39:43.360 And what time do the kids get there usually?

00:39:47.140 Um, between, I don't really know the earliest because I'm not there early in the morning.

00:39:57.520 But when I get there at eight, more than half the kids are there.

00:40:02.680 And are they, what ages are they?

00:40:06.440 Um, what?

00:40:09.040 Six weeks to six years.

00:40:10.300 Oh, okay.

00:40:11.620 So it's really, so it's just between six weeks and six years.

00:40:16.020 Yeah.

00:40:16.640 Babies tend to be dropped off closer to like 8 to 830.

00:40:21.800 But yeah, like once they hit one, it tends to be before 8 a.m.

00:40:29.880 Or like a little bit after.

00:40:32.280 Like usually if a kid's not there by nine, we assume they're not coming.

00:40:35.600 Well, what time, what, what age do they go to school at?

00:40:38.200 Six.

00:40:39.800 Six.

00:40:40.860 Oh.

00:40:41.560 They, they, they, the six-year-olds who are at the daycare are either, they just turned

00:40:46.560 six and they're waiting for school to start or they're there for the summer.

00:40:51.060 Oh, I thought it was like pre-K.

00:40:54.560 No, my, my daycares do pre-K.

00:40:58.140 Oh.

00:40:59.160 My school does, does pre-K and preschool.

00:41:01.760 Do they learn anything in pre-K?

00:41:03.900 Oh my God.

00:41:04.480 Yeah.

00:41:05.140 Really?

00:41:05.660 Oh, okay.

00:41:06.720 Yeah.

00:41:07.100 The teachers there, you have to be a teacher qualified to be there.

00:41:11.080 Like I know, I know some kids that are in the preschool who can read basic books and write.

00:41:16.040 I was just wondering if past six, they ever like, like what do parents do if the moms get

00:41:21.740 off at five?

00:41:22.460 Like, like if they, cause what do kids get out of school at like two or three?

00:41:27.940 Yeah.

00:41:28.340 Like I got, I, in high school, I got out of school at two 50.

00:41:32.160 What do you think most like working moms do? 1.00

00:41:34.460 Cause we had nannies, but like people that didn't have nannies, like what did they do

00:41:37.520 with the two hours?

00:41:38.440 There's afterschool care programs.

00:41:40.800 Oh, so they do like an afterschool program for like two hours.

00:41:45.840 And then I did an afterschool program for like a month or two.

00:41:48.860 Oh, okay.

00:41:51.720 Like on average, how, like what age do the kids come in?

00:41:58.660 Probably around toddlers.

00:42:00.560 So between 12 and like 20 months.

00:42:05.560 Okay.

00:42:06.540 There's some that come into infants, but infants, like it'll cost you upwards of two grand a

00:42:12.800 month to have your kid in infants.

00:42:14.360 So a lot of people can't afford that.

00:42:16.040 And so they don't do it until toddlers when it hits down closer to 1500.

00:42:20.840 Do the kids have like attachment issues from being away from their parents and stuff?

00:42:27.400 Like, do you think daycare is bad for them or no?

00:42:29.860 I mean, I know you're a little biased as a daycare worker, but.

00:42:32.940 No, I think daycare is terrible.

00:42:34.240 I would never put my kid in daycare.

00:42:35.700 Never.

00:42:37.340 I would never, I would never even consider it.

00:42:41.740 Absolutely not.

00:42:42.540 But my kids will never set foot in a daycare.

00:42:46.540 Why?

00:42:48.720 Because you don't know what happened there.

00:42:50.600 I've worked in daycare two years and I've seen kids get left in soiled diapers.

00:42:55.100 I've seen kids get their arms dislocated, get hit, get fed things like dead flies.

00:42:59.560 I've seen kids get left outside by themselves, left in classrooms by themselves.

00:43:04.120 Just the other day, one of my coworkers didn't do a snake check.

00:43:06.780 Like, we're supposed to walk around the playground and hit the fence with a stick to make sure there's no snakes.

00:43:11.360 She didn't do a snake check. 0.94

00:43:12.480 And a one-year-old almost got bit by a rattlesnake.

00:43:14.960 Oh my gosh.

00:43:17.960 Oh.

00:43:18.320 And like, I'll give my daycare credit.

00:43:19.960 They sent them home and wrote them both up.

00:43:23.080 But yeah, it's.

00:43:24.420 Yeah, they could be anybody because it's not like.

00:43:27.120 What are the average, like, what are daycare workers like?

00:43:30.160 Because you're a young, a young woman. 0.98

00:43:32.380 Are most, are most of the daycare workers young women or?

00:43:36.120 Most of the daycare workers are either like girls in college or middle-aged women who are divorced from their husbands and work in daycare. 0.95

00:43:45.520 I don't need, the girls in college can be nuts too. 1.00

00:43:49.140 Could be anybody. 0.77

00:43:49.840 You know what I mean? 0.93

00:43:50.260 Like, you don't know who, like, if, if someone's crazy, a girl in college might not have like a record yet if she's nuts.

00:43:57.120 Like, do you know what I mean?

00:43:57.900 If she's 40, she, you know, if she's off the chain, she'll probably have some sort of criminal record. 1.00

00:44:02.360 Most of the older women in daycare are divorced.

00:44:04.440 I can say that.

00:44:06.260 I would, I would say one out of five are still married.

00:44:10.260 Oof. 0.98

00:44:12.760 And all of them say that their ex-husbands are crazy or their baby daddies or whatever. 0.99

00:44:18.900 That's what they say. 0.99

00:44:20.840 Oh, I know.

00:44:21.920 I know.

00:44:23.280 Okay.

00:44:23.700 I was just wondering.

00:44:24.460 I was watching this reaction and they were saying how, like, women can have it all.

00:44:29.400 And I was wondering if, like, you did have a working mother, like, how long could she watch her kids until they're put in school?

00:44:36.920 Like, that's what I was wondering.

00:44:38.260 Like, how long, how long does she, how long does she have to watch them full time?

00:44:43.460 Until they're five or six.

00:44:44.980 Yeah, that's what I thought.

00:44:45.660 It depends.

00:44:46.320 Like, you don't, you don't have to put your kid in kindergarten.

00:44:48.420 First grade is when it's required.

00:44:49.580 But do you think they'd be behind if you didn't put them in kindergarten or whatever?

00:44:55.780 If you're not doing anything at home, yes.

00:44:58.240 But if you're doing stuff. 0.98

00:44:59.020 But it's not that hard to do shit at home. 0.98

00:45:00.480 Like. 0.99

00:45:00.640 Okay.

00:45:01.600 You don't really need to start teaching them until they're, like, three.

00:45:04.100 Like, actually start teaching them, like, colors and stuff.

00:45:06.700 And in your experience, do you think, like, because you watch so many kids, do you think, like, a woman could have a work from job home and still be an involved parent?

00:45:17.800 Like, a work from home, like a marketing job or something like that?

00:45:21.780 Yeah.

00:45:22.780 It's not that hard.

00:45:23.740 Simply, if you teach your kids to independent play, it's really not that hard.

00:45:33.440 No, like, I just spent, I just spent the past, like, two days with just Piper, hanging out with Piper and taking care of her.

00:45:39.280 It's so easy to have one kid.

00:45:41.140 Are you kidding me?

00:45:42.260 Yeah, my sister watches, like, how many do you watch at once?

00:45:45.480 It depends on the age group.

00:45:46.980 But kids Piper ages, I do five at once.

00:45:50.800 Okay.

00:45:51.720 All right, my computer just crashed out.

00:45:53.320 But I don't know why.

00:45:54.080 Doug MPA, can you give me the time stamp?

00:45:56.800 Because that I, if you look, scroll back before I clicked play on accident.

00:46:01.480 Okay, well, thanks.

00:46:02.360 Thanks, E.

00:46:03.240 I just, I was curious what you would say.

00:46:05.740 I may call you again if I have more daycare questions.

00:46:09.740 No, I talk about daycare a lot.

00:46:11.760 I think it's terrible for kids.

00:46:13.180 Okay, well, don't say that with your face ever because I don't want you to get fired.

00:46:17.720 So.

00:46:20.360 All right.

00:46:21.840 All right.

00:46:22.420 See ya.

00:46:23.100 Bye.

00:46:24.020 Have fun.

00:46:27.020 Okay.

00:46:28.820 Where was I?

00:46:29.700 This thing just crashed out for a second.

00:46:32.880 No.

00:46:33.960 Oh, 2724.

00:46:35.280 Okay.

00:46:35.540 Thank you.

00:46:36.020 Thank you.

00:46:41.660 All right.

00:46:41.900 Well, that was my, there's my, I, you know, my sister watches so many babies and like kids

00:46:47.240 and stuff.

00:46:47.720 I was like, she could tell you.

00:46:50.760 Teaching starts from day one, not at three years old.

00:46:53.560 Because I agree.

00:46:56.440 That was my upbringing too.

00:46:57.280 But I'm just saying that was one experience.

00:47:01.580 And the other experience is, you know, mommy's come, you know, you come home and she's got

00:47:05.620 brownies and whatever does that thing. 0.98

00:47:07.360 They're just different experiences.

00:47:11.000 Yeah.

00:47:11.320 Meaning you can't do them both at the same time.

00:47:12.880 You can't be baking brownies while you're taking the business call to do the merger and

00:47:16.900 acquisition.

00:47:18.220 Oh, I think you can.

00:47:18.900 Well, in order to even have to face this dilemma, you have to have children and to have children,

00:47:25.760 you have to sleep together.

00:47:26.720 And when you want to sleep, you need to check out Helix Sleep.

00:47:30.140 Helix is a great way to improve your nights and keep your sleeping.

00:47:34.040 Okay.

00:47:34.600 Well, all right.

00:47:36.260 She says you can.

00:47:38.360 Dot com slash Knowles.

00:47:40.240 You can always just tell what a woman's focus is on. 0.98

00:47:42.820 You just can tell.

00:47:44.480 They have put the score into the prompter.

00:47:48.900 Okay.

00:47:49.400 I think I'm crushing you.

00:47:50.640 You're destroying me with facts and logic.

00:47:52.560 It is, and drinks.

00:47:53.900 It is three to negative one.

00:47:56.840 Okay.

00:47:57.280 I've got negative points.

00:47:59.340 All right.

00:48:00.160 Now, I have a chance to recoup my losses.

00:48:03.120 Okay.

00:48:03.420 Because it is the rapid fire round.

00:48:06.360 All right.

00:48:09.720 It's the rapid fire round.

00:48:11.020 There we go.

00:48:11.420 Okay.

00:48:11.560 Thank you.

00:48:11.860 You're going to read and I'm going to answer.

00:48:14.260 Rapid fire.

00:48:14.800 Are you worried that eventually a new study will say Zinn is poison and possibly makes 0.99

00:48:20.020 you gay? 0.99

00:48:21.860 I'm going right down the list now. 0.99

00:48:23.320 Okay.

00:48:23.340 So the first one, then I answer, then you guess how I would answer.

00:48:28.880 Hold on.

00:48:29.400 Hold on.

00:48:29.660 I want to change my answer.

00:48:30.720 I want to change my answer.

00:48:32.540 You know what?

00:48:33.420 One thing I'll never do that I can't stand the mothers do today. 1.00

00:48:39.340 I will never use my children to prove I'm a good person.

00:48:46.140 I hate it when commentators do that.

00:48:48.980 I hate it.

00:48:50.540 Look at my actions can speak for themselves.

00:48:53.340 A lot of people think I'm a bad person.

00:48:55.180 It just is what it is.

00:49:00.440 If that's my action, if that's the conclusion you have, it's totally fine.

00:49:04.460 Some others think I'm a great person.

00:49:06.860 Well, if that's the conclusion you have, you know, I mean, I just, I, I don't like, maybe,

00:49:16.700 maybe I'm getting too like Zen and stuff, you know, but this time in my life, I've just,

00:49:22.160 I don't like focusing on being good or bad because I don't want the ego boost or downfall

00:49:29.240 of being good or bad.

00:49:30.540 It's nothing worse than someone that thinks they're a good person or even a bad person.

00:49:35.360 I'm just, you know, sorry.

00:49:37.100 Maybe, maybe I think too deep, but I don't like labels, you know, it's just, you know.

00:49:47.480 Correct.

00:49:48.100 Okay.

00:49:48.520 Yeah.

00:49:48.800 I'm not worried because I know that that study will come out.

00:49:52.360 I'm confident of it.

00:49:53.240 Okay.

00:49:53.700 Okay.

00:49:54.020 We'll clear it.

00:49:54.580 Yes.

00:49:54.920 Clear it out.

00:49:55.640 All right.

00:49:57.020 Are Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey end game?

00:50:02.740 What do I think?

00:50:05.620 It's tough because obviously Taylor Swift has dumped all of her boyfriends and whatever. 1.00

00:50:11.480 Um, but I could see it.

00:50:13.920 I, I do think this is the most alpha guy she's been with because it's like a football player

00:50:19.000 or whatever.

00:50:20.040 And before it was like more feminine musicians. 1.00

00:50:22.320 I think it's like more traditionally masculine.

00:50:25.620 For the end game.

00:50:26.780 Oh, like they're going to get married.

00:50:27.960 Yes.

00:50:30.820 Yes.

00:50:31.420 Yeah.

00:50:31.920 Yeah.

00:50:32.220 Come on.

00:50:32.960 It's that they wouldn't, even if it were all scripted, you can't break up now.

00:50:36.180 It's not.

00:50:36.660 They've too many fake.

00:50:37.640 All right.

00:50:38.360 Another point for me.

00:50:39.900 Uh, does a woman's body count matter if she has truly changed her ways? 1.00

00:50:45.620 Yup.

00:50:49.060 Oh, Michael, if you simp out, I'm going to crash out.

00:50:52.680 It's a pretty difficult question, actually.

00:50:53.960 It's not difficult at all.

00:50:56.700 Look, what if she has herpes? 1.00

00:50:59.200 Yeah. 1.00

00:51:00.200 Fuck. 1.00

00:51:00.740 Yeah. 1.00

00:51:03.760 If it was on camera, yup.

00:51:06.380 That affects your future.

00:51:08.900 If no one will ever find out and she has no patterns of behavior that from it.

00:51:15.360 I guess it doesn't matter because if he doesn't find out, it won't matter.

00:51:20.800 I don't know if you guys understand what I'm saying.

00:51:22.640 I'm not saying like it shouldn't matter, but if she has no patterns of behavior from it,

00:51:27.220 which she probably will, and she never does it again. 0.69

00:51:31.300 And then, well, then he'll never find out.

00:51:34.160 And there's no remnants that he can find out.

00:51:36.420 Then it doesn't matter.

00:51:37.760 But that usually doesn't happen.

00:51:42.440 It usually ends with like herpes or something.

00:51:44.860 Yeah, it matters.

00:51:49.660 It doesn't matter ultimately.

00:51:51.220 Yeah, you do.

00:51:51.660 I'm really crushing it.

00:51:52.620 You're completely destroying it.

00:51:53.600 It matters.

00:51:54.900 Like it matters because there are temporal effects owing to sin.

00:51:57.600 Even sins that are already forgiven.

00:51:59.300 So like I feel like I have views on this that irritate people for opposite reasons.

00:52:04.280 Because I think like ultimately, you know, you can just repent.

00:52:06.500 People, everyone can repent.

00:52:07.700 And it's, it's good.

00:52:09.280 You'll be.

00:52:10.540 The older I get, the less religious I get. 0.99

00:52:14.180 And that's because religious people just say the dumbest stuff that doesn't work. 1.00

00:52:17.580 Like. 1.00

00:52:21.320 Okay.

00:52:21.940 I'm going to keep.

00:52:22.740 It's men like him that keep me going down the irreligious path. 1.00

00:52:27.260 And please don't Bible thump to me. 1.00

00:52:29.540 Because you're just going to make me go even further.

00:52:31.760 But like there are temporal effects owing to sin and habituations and things that like

00:52:41.160 it does, it bothers people, you know.

00:52:43.840 Yeah.

00:52:43.980 That's, I think that's.

00:52:45.200 Do you think Islam protects women for a reason? 1.00

00:52:48.520 Well, I've seen your Muslim women. 1.00

00:52:51.000 I've talked to men from those countries.

00:52:52.560 They throw it back too.

00:52:54.520 All right.

00:52:55.680 Women are women. 1.00

00:52:56.420 Do you think it should bother women though?

00:52:58.360 Equally?

00:52:59.380 It should bother women, but not equally. 0.90

00:53:01.100 No, there are, I think there is a double standard.

00:53:03.500 I think men and women are different.

00:53:04.380 So it's not a, it's not a hypocrisy, but yeah, but men and women are different.

00:53:08.200 So like a guy, the reason that men, if there are Lotharios or Casanovas or something are

00:53:15.380 sometimes even admired for it, though they shouldn't be.

00:53:19.200 And the reason why women are looked on as promiscuous and kind of dirty for it is just 1.00

00:53:23.640 because of the different natures of men and women.

00:53:27.620 Like a man pursues a woman, a woman. 0.71

00:53:29.240 Well, men have to ensure paternity. 0.99

00:53:31.100 So it is pursued.

00:53:33.340 And so it's, you know, it's more difficult for a man to sleep with other women.

00:53:38.100 It's, uh, it's easy for a woman to sleep with a lot of men. 1.00

00:53:41.480 And so the woman has to be on guard to protect her modesty.

00:53:44.520 Whereas the man, if he's going to be a Lothario has to.

00:53:47.760 Pearl, will you marry me?

00:53:49.280 You got to stop simping.

00:53:55.960 Look, I want you guys to understand.

00:53:57.960 I want you to understand influencers, people on YouTube.

00:54:02.000 I want you to not trust me.

00:54:03.660 Don't try.

00:54:04.160 I could be anybody.

00:54:07.020 Don't just, do you know what I mean?

00:54:08.360 Like, be like, oh, I don't know.

00:54:11.880 Do I believe her?

00:54:12.860 I don't know.

00:54:13.100 And the reason I say this is because why would you like, like, why would you offer me that

00:54:19.520 if you've never met me and you've never even watched my behavior in real life?

00:54:23.400 Do you know what I mean?

00:54:26.340 Like, you gotta, you gotta, you gotta stop putting women on a pedestal and make us earn 1.00

00:54:30.900 it, all women. 0.91

00:54:33.480 You gotta treat all guns as loaded.

00:54:35.760 You're just gonna, you're just gonna hand that over?

00:54:39.600 Your eternal commitment?

00:54:41.220 You're just gonna be like, oh, let me give that to a random redhead on the internet. 1.00

00:54:45.640 And I'm not even that, I'm a mid.

00:54:48.160 I'm a mid.

00:54:49.220 Like, if you're gonna just hand that over, hand it over to an eight. 0.60

00:54:53.400 My God, what are you doing?

00:54:56.740 Also, there's, there's a thousand, a thousand people in here.

00:55:01.540 Send a super.

00:55:02.320 Come on.

00:55:03.500 Do you know what I mean?

00:55:04.320 I don't work for free people.

00:55:07.060 All right.

00:55:07.820 I'm asking for the sale. 1.00

00:55:09.920 Damn it. 1.00

00:55:12.620 Try to chase the women. 1.00

00:55:14.460 That's my view, at least.

00:55:15.820 Okay.

00:55:16.480 You disagree.

00:55:17.320 I'm not necessarily saying that I disagree.

00:55:19.980 I would say, I think it's also unattractive to date somebody who has a

00:55:23.360 very high body count.

00:55:24.520 I find that unattractive.

00:55:25.640 It is.

00:55:25.900 Yeah.

00:55:26.700 Right.

00:55:27.140 And that stopped, and that stopped you from getting gang banged by men at Fox.

00:55:31.780 I'm not saying she actually did that.

00:55:33.660 Don't sue me.

00:55:34.400 Don't sue me.

00:55:34.920 But come on.

00:55:36.160 I, you're not gonna convince me she did not date a celebrity.

00:55:40.060 You're not, you're not, or at least sleep with one.

00:55:42.520 You're not.

00:55:43.360 I don't find it more acceptable.

00:55:45.100 But you don't think it's a little more like.

00:55:47.320 I understand your logic behind it.

00:55:48.980 Yeah.

00:55:49.700 But as a woman, I find it equally gross if a man has a high body count.

00:55:55.000 Yeah.

00:55:55.340 No, she doesn't.

00:55:57.840 Like, if a guy, what if he changed his ways up?

00:55:59.900 Like, the woman changed his ways.

00:56:00.920 It's not a deal breaker for me.

00:56:02.000 I don't think it should be either way.

00:56:03.480 Right?

00:56:03.860 Yeah.

00:56:04.060 I think you learn from your experiences.

00:56:05.440 I'll tell you this.

00:56:06.480 Yeah.

00:56:06.960 My husband was previously married.

00:56:09.140 Yeah.

00:56:09.660 I prefer that.

00:56:11.500 I prefer that.

00:56:12.180 I prefer that he's been married and divorced.

00:56:14.240 I prefer that.

00:56:15.160 Than if he had never been married before.

00:56:16.520 Correct.

00:56:16.720 Why? 1.00

00:56:17.200 Because he has a history of making stupid decisions. 1.00

00:56:22.140 She's like, if you're going to make one stupid decision, I can make you make another. 1.00

00:56:28.260 Men will die on the hill of simping. 1.00

00:56:30.520 And, like, they will die on the hill of making a stupid decision. 1.00

00:56:33.520 They really will. 1.00

00:56:35.200 Society guilts them too hard into it.

00:56:37.120 They're like, oh, yeah, sign away your life to a pretty blonde girl. 1.00

00:56:43.540 Sure.

00:56:44.380 Let me just, here you go.

00:56:45.400 Well, because if I would have married my husband when he was 25, it would not have worked out.

00:56:52.360 He made all of his mistakes.

00:56:53.940 It would not have worked out.

00:56:55.720 I like that he has learned and grown.

00:56:58.540 And that, to me, is a plus.

00:57:01.540 Interesting.

00:57:02.000 So, not that I love it, but if I'm looking at it logically, with emotions removed, I prefer that.

00:57:08.860 Now, let's say, okay, I totally get that and I see a fair bit of it.

00:57:12.100 Now, would he like it if I was previously married?

00:57:14.180 No, he sure would not.

00:57:15.220 He would not.

00:57:15.600 He would not.

00:57:15.880 Now, do you think he's hypocritical for that stance or no?

00:57:19.740 You would say no. 0.91

00:57:20.220 That's just how he is.

00:57:21.100 He's much more of a jealous type than I am.

00:57:23.840 Yeah.

00:57:24.040 And all men are.

00:57:25.400 That's part of what I'm saying.

00:57:26.600 All men are. 0.89

00:57:27.480 You know, we don't like the idea of ever even imagining our wives have ever looked at another

00:57:32.260 man outside of perhaps her father and grandfather.

00:57:35.600 But it's just how the male mind works. 0.59

00:57:39.060 Now, your argument is you want the guy to have made the mistakes.

00:57:44.000 If he's going to make them, you want him to make the mistakes and learn from them and be ready.

00:57:47.040 Yeah, I, do you know what, just my experience in the dating market, once divorced men are, I found to be very big simps and they're just like dying because what happens is, all right, men are young, young men, right?

00:58:04.300 They go into life and they want to get married for a life.

00:58:08.640 And every, every sign points to that's not going to happen.

00:58:11.920 But religious guys have a tendency to just, they cannot let the dream die.

00:58:19.100 They can't, they can't do it.

00:58:21.840 Um, and a lot of religious guys, like when I, when I was single, like, you know, that's who you would run into because, um, or I should say like if the guy got married young, a lot of times he would be religious to some extent.

00:58:35.000 So if I met a divorced guy, that may have been what it was, um, now I'm sure there are men that after they get divorced, they just go in a whole phase or whatever.

00:58:43.480 But that was just not my experience.

00:58:45.680 Every guy I met that was divorced.

00:58:50.260 It's like, they want to marry you immediately.

00:58:52.520 They're like, let's get going tomorrow.

00:58:55.480 You know, the, and, and it's, it's like, they're very desperate energy.

00:59:00.580 And what I found is the reason for this is because they're, they're, they don't want to let the dream die because they have to accept they are not going to get a wife.

00:59:12.300 Most people like, we're all going to be single parents statistically me, you look at, I'm a commentator.

00:59:18.940 I see what happens to commentator.

00:59:20.480 It doesn't, the relationships don't seem to go well for us, but for some reason, I love this microphone.

00:59:25.560 I can't, I don't know. 0.99

00:59:27.120 But basically though, what I'm saying is I found that once divorced guys, especially the ones that remarry are very simpy and kind of dumb. 0.96

00:59:42.260 It's like, almost like they want to like, let a woman rule over them because they're desperate. 0.97

00:59:48.400 They're like, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:59:49.600 It's not marriage.

00:59:50.420 It's not my religion.

00:59:51.400 No, no, no, no, no, no.

00:59:52.140 It's just the wrong woman. 1.00

00:59:53.500 It's not women in general. 1.00

00:59:54.480 It's just that I, oh, oh, thank God.

00:59:56.500 I found conservative girl.

00:59:58.000 Let me marry her immediately.

00:59:59.180 That was my experience.

01:00:01.100 It's like, no vetting, no nothing.

01:00:02.820 You're not going to make me work for it at all.

01:00:05.080 Nothing.

01:00:06.200 Okay.

01:00:06.680 I noticed something.

01:00:07.700 Tommy's plastic surgery is wearing off, so to speak.

01:00:09.900 So she's looking more and more like pre-surgery for the grift.

01:00:14.760 Which Noel's interview is worse, this or Nala? 0.98

01:00:17.840 Nala. 0.70

01:00:18.400 It's got to be Nala. 0.97

01:00:21.100 Yeah.

01:00:24.220 For you.

01:00:25.560 But isn't it, it'd be best if the person just didn't make a bunch of mistakes.

01:00:31.400 If he, you know.

01:00:32.000 I don't think that's a human experience, to be honest with you.

01:00:34.720 I just don't.

01:00:35.440 I think men between the ages of 20 and 30 are not ready, in most cases, for marriage.

01:00:41.720 Yeah.

01:00:42.000 I don't think.

01:00:42.500 No, that's women. 1.00

01:00:43.480 She's projecting.

01:00:44.280 Most men would marry their high school sweetheart if she stuck around. 1.00

01:00:46.860 I think they are.

01:00:47.520 Now, there are exceptions.

01:00:48.420 My parents got married.

01:00:49.200 My mom was 19.

01:00:50.040 My dad was 21.

01:00:50.820 Yeah.

01:00:51.200 They've been together for 44 years.

01:00:52.800 Yeah.

01:00:53.020 Yeah.

01:00:53.220 Okay.

01:00:53.400 It works in some situations.

01:00:55.400 Yeah, because your mom wasn't giving up the option to be a celebrity, where women today, 1.00

01:01:00.460 their option is, like, get married and give up being a celebrity, and they feel like they

01:01:08.000 missed out.

01:01:08.620 So that's the issue you get.

01:01:09.840 To your exception and rule analogy that you used earlier, again, I think that men between

01:01:16.280 the ages of 20 and 30 are usually not ready to be husbands and fathers.

01:01:21.140 Yes.

01:01:22.140 No, I, broadly, I think you're right, but isn't it a, that's a culture.

01:01:25.720 As a person who is healing from, I'm, um, from, I'm a bad injury, battering myself with

01:01:31.860 Asperger syndrome.

01:01:32.860 I find help in your YouTube channel.

01:01:34.900 I was abused.

01:01:35.900 Most of the worst was boss babes.

01:01:37.900 Thanks again.

01:01:38.900 Thanks, Patrick.

01:01:39.900 Thank you guys.

01:01:40.900 You guys are so nice.

01:01:43.380 You guys work so hard and you still super chat me.

01:01:48.220 Thank you guys.

01:01:49.220 Thank you very much.

01:01:50.220 It's a real issue.

01:01:51.220 So, okay.

01:01:52.220 No, I would, I would actually, back to your point, I think it's a biological thing.

01:01:56.600 Well, then why did it work for your parents?

01:01:59.300 Exceptions and rules.

01:02:00.300 You think it was an exception in their, because women had to make women be love based on necessity. 1.00

01:02:08.480 And before the mother had to figure out, like women hated the betas before, like you basically 0.87

01:02:14.160 your burden of performance as a man is basically to figure out how savage you can be and like

01:02:20.040 seducing women.

01:02:21.040 That's essentially your burden of performance is to be a master seducer in whatever way.

01:02:28.160 And the, the issue is that before you didn't have to be a master seducer.

01:02:35.160 You didn't have to, to get a wife. 0.99

01:02:36.160 I'm not saying this should be, I'm saying this is what it is now.

01:02:40.160 Um, cause women would just say, well, I have to survive. 1.00

01:02:43.420 So I will figure out a way to love you. 1.00

01:02:45.580 But as soon as women could be with the seducers or the hot guys, women said, oh, fuck it. 1.00

01:02:51.820 I am not like, I'm not doing that. 1.00

01:02:54.540 I don't believe women loved the betas of the past. 1.00

01:02:57.660 Cause I don't believe that women in mass acted like, like, I don't think their hardware, 1.00

01:03:04.280 their programming was different.

01:03:05.900 I just think the opportunities presented were different.

01:03:09.420 Um, okay, wait, let's see. 0.99

01:03:11.620 They're all until proven otherwise they're, they're all whores until they're proven otherwise 1.00

01:03:18.000 ish. 1.00

01:03:19.000 Yeah.

01:03:20.000 And I want you to apply that to me.

01:03:22.100 Apply it.

01:03:23.100 Do you know what I mean?

01:03:24.100 Um, you know, like is, why should I get your benefit of the doubt?

01:03:30.760 I shouldn't, I shouldn't.

01:03:33.600 Why should I?

01:03:34.600 Personalities or in their, the time they grew up, meaning time they grew up, way that

01:03:39.400 grew up. 0.55

01:03:40.400 That's what I'm saying.

01:03:41.400 Time grew up, way that they grew up.

01:03:42.400 That's all I mean by culture.

01:03:43.400 It's completely, it's completely different.

01:03:44.400 I do feel though, that at least operating in 2025, men between the ages of 20 and 30 are

01:03:51.740 not ready for life's responsibility.

01:03:54.240 I think you're, I think you're right about that.

01:03:55.400 But so, you know, the reason that our grandparents could all get married at 22 or whatever.

01:03:59.340 And yeah, I don't think so because all the old women dating young or younger, getting the 1.00

01:04:03.940 men to marry them, the older men are the ones that you're going to have a harder time. 1.00

01:04:09.180 But I found the divorced men between like 28 to 35, they were so ready to make that mistake

01:04:15.120 twice.

01:04:16.120 They were so, they did not want to believe it was just like the wrong woman.

01:04:21.180 Yeah.

01:04:22.420 Most of the time it worked out.

01:04:24.040 The divorce rates were much lower.

01:04:25.720 Pearl's going to lose the weight and go to Cancun. 1.00

01:04:29.440 If you've seen how pale I am, I wouldn't choose Cancun.

01:04:32.700 All right.

01:04:33.240 And things were generally better speaks to the fact that there was a culture that was more

01:04:38.940 habituated to virtuous behavior, not vicious behavior.

01:04:41.500 So where, where I agree that, you know, I want to get the bad stuff out of my system,

01:04:48.280 learn from my mistakes, change my ways, repent, usually in your twenties is kind of when it

01:04:52.700 happens.

01:04:54.240 I had my fun, but you can't.

01:04:56.380 That's always what religious people say. 0.71

01:04:58.140 No.

01:05:00.100 Ideally, you and your husband would have met, you would have come up in a culture that wasn't 1.00

01:05:06.060 as confused as 2025.

01:05:07.100 And you would have what every time they say culture just substituted with women grew up 1.00

01:05:13.760 with women that weren't as confused as they are in 2025 women are the culture, not been 1.00

01:05:18.580 inclined toward all those mistakes that our culture inclines us toward.

01:05:21.700 I was kidding.

01:05:22.420 I'm already married.

01:05:23.380 I still love you.

01:05:24.400 Why?

01:05:25.020 Why do you, you don't, oh my God, stop.

01:05:28.440 Oh my God.

01:05:29.200 We are repulsed. 0.93

01:05:30.300 I, I remember repulsed by the simping, bro, go to your local gym and hit on a baddie.

01:05:38.340 All right, please 304 until proven innocent.

01:05:41.860 And that's fine.

01:05:43.580 That's fine.

01:05:44.660 And you would have gotten married at 22.

01:05:46.660 No, I just, you say no.

01:05:48.120 Why not?

01:05:48.680 That sounds great.

01:05:49.640 I, cause again, he's convincing her.

01:05:51.820 The male mating strategy is to get the youth to the husband.

01:05:54.980 And the female mating strategy is to not give the youth to the husband. 0.98

01:05:59.500 Alphas don't compromise on their mating strategies. 0.97

01:06:02.140 Betas do generally, or sometimes the men are just tired and they're like, fine.

01:06:07.880 Good enough.

01:06:08.740 It would have never wanted to get married at age 22, 22 year old me and 32 year old me

01:06:13.620 are completely different human beings.

01:06:14.940 But I'm saying, yes, they are.

01:06:16.720 But I'm saying, what if you grew up in, you know, she's saying, she's saying I wanted to 1.00

01:06:22.840 be a whore. 1.00

01:06:23.280 I wanted to hoe it out. 1.00

01:06:25.840 Yeah.

01:06:26.360 In 1943.

01:06:27.880 Well, then the people would have been in World War 3.

01:06:29.920 Do you think that some people though, in that?

01:06:32.800 I just don't, it doesn't matter.

01:06:34.420 I'm not alive in World War 3.

01:06:36.420 I'm not alive then.

01:06:37.500 I can only live in the now.

01:06:39.340 The only evidence I have of what happened before is the evidence that I'm told in books

01:06:44.460 or whatever.

01:06:46.700 I'd rather just live in the, you know, what I see in front of me.

01:06:51.900 Not just generation, but generation.

01:06:53.980 Yeah.

01:06:54.120 If you're going to simp, donate a super chat.

01:06:56.900 Donate a super chat and you can simp and I'll allow it.

01:07:00.580 Yes.

01:07:01.080 I would agree with you that marriage is long lasting, more virtuous behavior.

01:07:06.620 However, how many of those marriages should there have been a divorce and they were just

01:07:11.120 too proud not to get it?

01:07:12.980 I'm totally opposed to divorce.

01:07:14.540 I'm totally opposed in all circumstances, but I see your point.

01:07:18.260 Some of those marriages, we're not great.

01:07:21.440 We all know certain grandparents that have been together for 60 years and they probably

01:07:26.640 shouldn't have made it past 10.

01:07:28.060 Yeah.

01:07:28.360 Yeah.

01:07:28.640 Yeah.

01:07:28.660 Right.

01:07:28.980 Yeah.

01:07:29.260 I know a lot of those.

01:07:32.160 And it wouldn't have in today's culture.

01:07:33.740 But when you say 22-year-old Tommy and 30-year-old Tommy are totally different creatures, of course, but, and therefore 22-year-old Tommy shouldn't have married 23-year-old or whatever, your husband.

01:07:48.100 But why?

01:07:49.760 What was the difference?

01:07:50.880 Could there have been a world in which 22-year-old Tommy could have had all the success and all

01:07:55.280 the great stuff, but also been excited and ready to get married?

01:07:59.280 No.

01:07:59.780 No.

01:08:00.320 Why not?

01:08:00.520 I started, first of all, I started when I was 21, so I started very young, but I was

01:08:05.200 not ready at that time to settle down.

01:08:08.020 And I was not ready until I was 28 when I met my husband.

01:08:12.440 I was not ready to settle down.

01:08:13.980 It would not have worked because I didn't want that.

01:08:15.920 You were working too much?

01:08:16.980 No, I just, I did not want that.

01:08:18.480 I did not want to be locked down.

01:08:19.940 I did not want to be settled down.

01:08:21.240 That's what I'm saying though.

01:08:21.840 Why not?

01:08:22.740 I, that just wasn't what I wanted.

01:08:25.200 She wanted access to alphas.

01:08:26.960 Um, from your experience, would women be willing to give up their eggs if artificial 0.98

01:08:30.540 wombs existed and men could have and raise children without them? 0.77

01:08:34.600 No, women would just want to control men. 1.00

01:08:36.680 Because if that happened, as soon as the attention started to dry up from men, we would just be

01:08:41.200 cooked.

01:08:41.560 We'd get so pissed.

01:08:42.520 On it.

01:08:43.060 It just wasn't.

01:08:44.960 I agree.

01:08:45.400 Me too.

01:08:45.900 I mean, I, one of my few regrets, I was actually talking to, I've, I've talked to a lot of people

01:08:50.900 who are actually fairly prominent in public life, but I won't say their names and embarrass

01:08:54.640 them, but people have told me, you know, one of my big regrets, I hear this a lot.

01:08:59.440 I wish I'd gotten married younger.

01:09:00.660 And I think that to myself.

01:09:01.820 And I think, look, in the scope of Providence, it all works out as God wants.

01:09:05.180 So I'm not, I don't stay up at night over this, but it is kind of a regret of mine too.

01:09:09.680 If I was ready to get married at 28, why wasn't I ready to get married at 22, 23?

01:09:15.320 Cause I wanted to go stay out later at more bars, carouse it.

01:09:19.500 Like, okay.

01:09:19.980 I mean, it's kind of fun, but I don't, was that good for me?

01:09:23.540 I don't know if that was good for me.

01:09:24.740 I'm going to tell you.

01:09:25.400 Well, yeah, but now you get to be a rock star.

01:09:27.520 You get to be a Christian rock star.

01:09:29.320 Of course you're going to say that.

01:09:30.820 But like the guy that's got to work construction the rest of his life when he gets married.

01:09:36.180 Yeah.

01:09:36.440 He's going to ball out.

01:09:37.400 You've got the Rizzo, Pearl in the Oyster.

01:09:40.520 What does that even mean? 0.99

01:09:42.660 I feel like you said, oh, Pearl in the, I'm so dumb. 0.98

01:09:45.820 Pearl in the Oyster. 0.97

01:09:47.200 Whatever.

01:09:48.100 All right.

01:09:49.520 Here's a reality show reference for you.

01:09:51.400 I watch a lot of reality TV.

01:09:52.580 I love it.

01:09:53.540 I don't know if you've watched this.

01:09:54.580 Of course you do.

01:09:55.060 Secret lives of Mormon wives or not, but these young ladies get married at age 22. 0.95

01:09:59.980 And they feel like they missed out because they have the option to be a rock star.

01:10:04.120 Being a rock star is fun.

01:10:06.740 Look at, I, you know, I wish I liked doing this less sometimes.

01:10:12.360 I love it.

01:10:13.600 I could, guys, I've had to work to have a more normal life the last like year, you know,

01:10:20.820 but if I did my full, like I've had to actually work to be like, do you know what?

01:10:27.540 You need to have a more normal life.

01:10:29.280 You should maybe go make some friends.

01:10:31.420 Whatever.

01:10:31.640 You need to have, you know, my habit.

01:10:36.440 I could, I love streaming.

01:10:38.240 I love it.

01:10:38.880 It's so fun.

01:10:39.900 Um, I like, you know, I could, I could stream like, like eight hours a day.

01:10:52.600 I really could, I genuinely think like I could eat on stream.

01:10:56.120 I could, like, I could do, I could, I don't because, you know, I just think that would

01:11:04.860 maybe be like a safety issue, invasion of privacy.

01:11:08.000 You know, there's just, the more I'm here, you just, I've had to figure out like balance

01:11:13.560 of how to have a more normal life.

01:11:15.060 The last few, I could tell you more about this for my future, not wife.

01:11:20.320 Thank you, Aaron.

01:11:21.220 And I appreciate that.

01:11:23.180 Um, but, but it's a lot of fun, you know, and I don't, I don't fault them for it.

01:11:31.320 Um, anyways, I'm going to continue do a church stream.

01:11:39.400 I do.

01:11:40.640 Um, I do.

01:11:42.480 Once I get, I'm going to move soon.

01:11:45.420 Should I announce, I'm kind of feeling you guys today.

01:11:48.100 You guys are being cool in the chat.

01:11:49.920 Should I announce where I'm going?

01:11:53.180 Should I announce Doug MPA?

01:11:55.480 Should I, should I tell him I have a date now?

01:11:58.060 Should I, uh, should I tell you?

01:12:11.900 Should I say where I'm moving?

01:12:16.220 Pearl will get married and divorced. 1.00

01:12:23.040 Okay.

01:12:23.400 Well, you probably will too. 1.00

01:12:25.380 So screw you. 1.00

01:12:26.960 All right. 1.00

01:12:30.180 Save it for another show.

01:12:31.920 Fine.

01:12:32.420 Do you know what?

01:12:37.780 How is Doug MPA?

01:12:39.020 What super chat level can we get?

01:12:41.300 And I'll announce where I'm moving.

01:12:42.620 They want me to announce.

01:12:54.240 You think I'm going to Iran?

01:12:58.280 Are the Doug MPA says the Friday show, but I can be dot bought Doug MPA.

01:13:03.160 I can, I personally, you can buy, I can, oh my God.

01:13:07.980 They're going to clip that.

01:13:09.220 Oh, now when I say anything, they're just going to clip.

01:13:11.620 Oh my God.

01:13:12.380 I hate these reaction channels.

01:13:15.040 It's like, you'll say something, even if it's satirical, you'll just know how they can

01:13:19.080 take it out of context.

01:13:21.420 Pearl's monetized and still begging for money.

01:13:23.820 Yup.

01:13:24.220 Hell yeah, I am.

01:13:28.040 Don't tell reveal it in due time.

01:13:34.120 Oh, they're saying don't docs myself.

01:13:36.460 Ooh, actually.

01:13:38.200 It's a good concern.

01:13:39.800 I'll wait.

01:13:40.480 I'll wait.

01:13:41.320 Look at $500 super chat.

01:13:43.520 I'll say it.

01:13:44.580 I'll say, I'll say Doug MPA says, no, I could be bought 500 bucks.

01:13:48.740 I'll do it.

01:13:49.360 I'll say the city or at least the state.

01:13:51.800 I'll say the state, maybe not the city.

01:13:53.500 Yeah.

01:13:54.240 To their husbands that are 22 and they've got three kids by, you know, 24.

01:13:58.780 23.

01:13:59.960 And it doesn't work out because they cheat on each other.

01:14:04.540 They want something else.

01:14:05.500 They want an experience elsewhere.

01:14:07.620 But that's reality TV.

01:14:08.740 They need that drama.

01:14:09.680 You're not going to hear the stories of the people who have a good marriage.

01:14:12.320 That wouldn't make reality TV.

01:14:13.580 I don't think that, exception and rule again.

01:14:17.120 Yeah.

01:14:17.400 There's always exceptions to the rule.

01:14:18.800 I don't think many people who get married very young and have kids very young.

01:14:24.080 I think that they probably experience some level of angst.

01:14:29.540 Not everybody.

01:14:30.920 Yeah.

01:14:31.180 But I think many do.

01:14:33.180 And whether they're honest about it, I don't know.

01:14:34.960 Whether they.

01:14:35.640 Women are asking, is this the best I could do? 1.00

01:14:38.420 Is the guy from my hometown the best I could do?

01:14:40.500 In most cases, it's not.

01:14:41.640 It's not because women can get with such high quality guys. 0.99

01:14:46.180 I mean, women can get in the door with billionaires, millionaires, even average women. 0.98

01:14:52.220 I've seen it.

01:14:54.000 So, yeah.

01:14:57.280 That's why.

01:14:58.880 Won't admit it to themselves until they're 55?

01:15:01.220 Perhaps.

01:15:02.620 See a lot of women. 0.98

01:15:03.280 The grass is always greener.

01:15:04.200 I know people who got married in 1920, spit out six kids, couldn't be happier.

01:15:10.360 I've seen it happen.

01:15:11.840 And I think that's how society worked for a long time.

01:15:13.600 But, to your point, you know, I was an atheist for 10 years.

01:15:18.600 I was a libertarian.

01:15:19.900 I admit.

01:15:20.940 I admit.

01:15:21.480 Okay.

01:15:22.040 Sometimes.

01:15:22.660 I was a libertarian for a little bit.

01:15:24.160 And never a liberal, but a libertarian.

01:15:26.480 And it is helpful to me now that I was single for some years.

01:15:32.700 Because I, that I was an atheist.

01:15:34.220 That I was a libertarian.

01:15:34.960 It's helpful.

01:15:36.560 It's also harmful.

01:15:37.420 Because you have the scars of bad habits.

01:15:40.600 But it's helpful in the sense that there ain't no greener grass on the other side.

01:15:45.960 I've seen the other side of the fence.

01:15:47.540 I know.

01:15:48.120 I know how that grass is.

01:15:49.420 It's not great.

01:15:50.460 Detached Yale graduate talking to some guy's wallet.

01:15:55.360 Thank you, drowning in the scenery.

01:15:57.000 It's not $500.

01:15:57.680 You guys are making, you guys are putting some cities in the chat that I'm like, ooh, that

01:16:05.540 would be kind of cool.

01:16:06.380 And you're making me second guess.

01:16:09.240 Okay.

01:16:09.640 I understand that point.

01:16:12.040 But can't you, I guess the ultimate question we're talking about here is, does one have

01:16:17.740 to make mistakes?

01:16:19.600 Or can we learn from others?

01:16:21.640 My answer is yeah.

01:16:23.140 I think mistakes are part of life.

01:16:25.740 Um, I don't, I think you can't deprive people of either choosing to make a mistake or choosing

01:16:33.380 not to, but making a decision is part of life.

01:16:36.340 So, yeah, but you know, okay, it should be $500 in cumulative super chats.

01:16:45.900 Okay.

01:16:47.720 Doug MPA, if you could, if you could track it, sure, sure, we could do that cumulative and

01:16:54.000 I'll say it.

01:16:54.640 Sure.

01:16:55.660 I'll take the deal.

01:16:58.040 Mistakes.

01:16:58.580 You'll be more fallible humans.

01:17:00.080 We're making mistakes.

01:17:00.980 I think we have to.

01:17:02.620 Yeah, you have to.

01:17:04.640 You have, that is part of life.

01:17:06.580 It's part of life.

01:17:07.940 Some people choose to not make the mistakes, but the choice, I don't believe in taking

01:17:11.880 away choice.

01:17:12.540 I don't.

01:17:13.380 All right.

01:17:13.520 We got two.

01:17:14.100 We got $4 now.

01:17:17.320 Four, 496 more to go.

01:17:23.820 500's too high.

01:17:25.060 Well, that's what I said.

01:17:27.320 And I said it.

01:17:28.160 I meant it.

01:17:29.000 I think we have to.

01:17:30.320 What about Jim Mattis, the general, former defense secretary under Trump?

01:17:33.700 Like, who are you, Michael, to say a young man can't make mistakes?

01:17:37.460 If you have the opportunity to make mistakes, you know, I just don't.

01:17:42.120 Yeah.

01:17:42.620 One.

01:17:43.300 He said, I read.

01:17:44.160 Making mistakes doesn't mean you have to learn from them.

01:17:46.600 That's true.

01:17:47.700 That's true.

01:17:48.560 Some people don't.

01:17:49.300 A lot of books.

01:17:51.260 So that other people make mistakes for me.

01:17:54.380 So I don't need to make those mistakes that they made.

01:17:56.940 That's great in battle.

01:17:57.920 But yeah, I know.

01:17:58.900 I totally agree.

01:17:59.940 You can't.

01:18:02.060 That doesn't work in real life.

01:18:03.620 Just reading books.

01:18:05.600 In life.

01:18:07.080 Good luck.

01:18:08.240 You're going to make a mistake.

01:18:09.840 I do know what I'm worth.

01:18:12.160 We've all made them.

01:18:16.080 We're stronger for them.

01:18:17.620 I believe that to my very core.

01:18:20.400 But would you avoid, like, tomorrow, not to belabor the point, but if you said there's

01:18:24.060 some terrible mistake you could make tomorrow.

01:18:26.020 Yeah.

01:18:26.780 But I'm warning you about it now.

01:18:28.060 So you don't have to make it.

01:18:30.560 Would you still choose to make them?

01:18:32.200 Yeah, but the problem is the conservatives will keep you single forever because the only

01:18:37.920 way forward literally is men, like, because all other parts of women's lives are taken

01:18:43.340 care of.

01:18:43.800 If you don't learn to be charming, charismatic in how to get women, you're kind of cooked. 0.91

01:18:48.900 Conservatives cook women or men. 0.84

01:18:50.980 They cook them.

01:18:52.740 Mistakes, so you're better for it and stronger for it.

01:18:54.680 Or would you try to avoid it?

01:18:56.140 That wouldn't be enough.

01:18:56.980 You got $20.

01:18:58.600 Do you plan on getting married and having children?

01:19:00.620 You said marriage is a bad deal for men, and you are dating a guy who's anti-marriage,

01:19:05.520 but you're 28, and what's your plan?

01:19:07.240 Single mom, childless, genuinely curious.

01:19:10.920 Well, that's up to him.

01:19:13.520 So, you know.

01:19:15.360 You know, I don't have to share.

01:19:17.360 I really don't have to tell you guys my personal life, but it's going, all right?

01:19:22.320 Natural situation, though.

01:19:23.900 Of course it is.

01:19:24.980 That's what catechesis is. 1.00

01:19:26.260 I could avoid it.

01:19:27.080 I don't think you make mistakes.

01:19:27.580 But that's what moral education is.

01:19:28.680 I don't think you make mistakes knowing that you're about to make a mistake.

01:19:31.640 No, of course.

01:19:32.120 In most cases.

01:19:32.740 I think it's the hindsight that provides that knowledge.

01:19:35.400 Yeah, yeah.

01:19:35.920 No, but that's what I'm saying.

01:19:36.920 If growing up, you know, you said, hey, here's a rich...

01:19:39.560 I'll make it easier.

01:19:40.480 If you could tell me, hey, you could go back to when you were with so-and-so.

01:19:44.420 Yes.

01:19:44.700 And you could have completely avoided that. 1.00

01:19:46.240 Stupid ex-boyfriend. 1.00

01:19:47.320 You could have eliminated these three guys and gone straight to your husband. 1.00

01:19:50.480 Would you have...

01:19:50.840 Yes.

01:19:51.340 No.

01:19:51.880 No!

01:19:52.500 What?

01:19:52.860 Okay, I disagree with that one.

01:19:58.820 I disagree with that one.

01:20:00.640 If you could point to me to a decision I knew wouldn't work out...

01:20:07.200 Like, you can't go back, so there's no point.

01:20:11.700 But yeah, no, I would be...

01:20:12.760 I would avoid the decision.

01:20:14.020 I would.

01:20:14.720 But the problem is you don't learn the lesson unless you make a bad decision.

01:20:18.020 Sometimes.

01:20:18.680 So I know some people it's otherwise, but it's like all guys kind of have to not simp.

01:20:23.200 They have to, like, go and not simp.

01:20:26.100 The good thing for my past hardships, I can't be blindsided by these hot 7s, 8s, 9s, or 10s.

01:20:32.680 I see who they really are.

01:20:33.800 But more importantly, if this feminism BS doesn't stop, we'll all die off. 1.00

01:20:39.840 Okay. 0.92

01:20:40.640 No.

01:20:41.160 You had to let me on just so you were going to say yes.

01:20:43.780 No, because I learned and I grew from all of them.

01:20:47.900 It's everything that was needed to me to get to the point that I was, that I was ready to get married,

01:20:53.100 and that I know that now I'm sick.

01:20:54.960 Okay.

01:20:55.180 Hey, okay.

01:20:56.300 That is as blunt an answer, there were some girls I might have taken off, you know, 0.99

01:21:01.920 I might have gotten off the list.

01:21:03.760 But, okay.

01:21:05.100 That's an honest answer.

01:21:08.080 I don't even remember.

01:21:09.200 We were talking.

01:21:09.520 You rapid fire asking me.

01:21:10.860 Carl, if you were a 9, I think you'd be in the Tommy seat. 1.00

01:21:13.660 Well, I'm not a 9.

01:21:15.640 Thank you for letting me know what I'll never have.

01:21:19.660 It's rapid fire for you.

01:21:20.580 Okay.

01:21:20.820 I'm going to clear my answer.

01:21:21.740 It's already cleared.

01:21:22.380 Okay.

01:21:25.180 Oh, come on. 0.87

01:21:28.420 It's like every time.

01:21:31.160 Do men who never go to the gym have any grounds to advocate that women should stay in shape?

01:21:34.960 Yeah.

01:21:37.380 I mean, how much money does he make?

01:21:42.120 Men who never go to the gym.

01:21:43.380 Who are those men?

01:21:46.420 Yeah.

01:21:46.740 I'd say some of us actually do have grounds because we're rational creatures and we don't have to go left weights to do that.

01:21:51.100 Anyway, that's fine.

01:21:51.840 We'll talk about this later.

01:21:53.640 Would you mind clearing?

01:21:55.160 Is there a good argument for bringing back public executions?

01:21:57.860 Hold on.

01:22:03.840 You've laughed.

01:22:04.640 So I want to say you're going to say no.

01:22:06.500 But was that a fake out?

01:22:07.540 You could be.

01:22:10.520 Oh, you see?

01:22:11.240 Come on.

01:22:11.560 She laughed, though.

01:22:12.260 It was like a total head fake.

01:22:14.100 I'm very good at this game.

01:22:15.460 Yeah.

01:22:15.680 Ah, this is awful.

01:22:16.940 This is terrible.

01:22:18.280 Would you sooner attend?

01:22:19.760 Would you?

01:22:20.160 Wow, that's a good question.

01:22:21.320 Would you sooner attend a woman's march, women's march or a march for life?

01:22:25.720 So hold on.

01:22:26.120 The phrasing is, would you sooner attend a women's march than a march for life?

01:22:31.780 Wow, that's a real Sophie's choice here.

01:22:35.420 First, I have to clear up my answer.

01:22:36.640 Clear up.

01:22:37.080 Clear the answer.

01:22:38.600 Read it again so I make sure.

01:22:39.640 Would you sooner attend a women's march than a march for life? 1.00

01:22:46.020 Okay. 0.99

01:22:49.340 Oh, they're both crazy, to be fair. 1.00

01:22:52.180 I mean, I'd rather attend a march for life, but I think those women are fucking nuts, too. 1.00

01:22:56.760 We're talking about feminism. 1.00

01:22:57.920 People never know which way I'm going to go on these.

01:23:01.780 Would you sooner attend?

01:23:02.920 Oh, man, I don't know where I'm going to go.

01:23:11.520 Ah, come on! 0.96

01:23:14.180 Because, why?

01:23:15.380 Because?

01:23:16.080 First of all.

01:23:16.980 Because they're on your team.

01:23:18.160 The pro-life people are on your team.

01:23:19.520 First of all.

01:23:19.820 And the women's march are not. 0.94

01:23:20.560 The pro-life people are going to smell and look better.

01:23:23.940 If I'm going to put myself into a crowd, which I hate anyway, I'm going to be honest, too.

01:23:28.100 I'm not showing up to any march.

01:23:29.520 Yeah.

01:23:29.800 I don't even like to work out with other people near me.

01:23:32.140 I don't like to work out.

01:23:32.740 The last thing I'm going to do is put myself in a march.

01:23:35.620 I don't even like to go to concerts and sit in general public.

01:23:38.460 I don't like crowds.

01:23:39.420 I don't like people.

01:23:40.320 You wouldn't catch me there.

01:23:41.260 I love law enforcement.

01:23:42.120 I wouldn't be at a law enforcement march either.

01:23:43.900 Yeah, yeah.

01:23:44.100 So, I will say this, though.

01:23:46.600 People often get my position on this very, very confused.

01:23:49.160 Because you're pro.

01:23:50.140 I am pro-choice, but I'm not.

01:23:52.380 I'm pro-give up.

01:23:54.500 I give up. 1.00

01:23:55.240 Kill your kids. 1.00

01:23:56.040 I don't care. 1.00

01:23:57.400 Done.

01:23:58.420 Done.

01:23:59.380 Personally pro-choice.

01:24:00.620 I like the pro-life message.

01:24:03.060 If the pro-life message is we want to preserve life and we want to encourage people to preserve life,

01:24:08.060 I'm with you.

01:24:08.780 But as a matter of law, if you want to abort your kid, you can. 0.65

01:24:13.560 As a matter of law, not as a matter of personal choice.

01:24:15.180 To an extent.

01:24:16.280 To an, again, I'm not a late-term abortion.

01:24:19.760 You're never going to.

01:24:20.380 I'm going to give up.

01:24:21.580 Give up.

01:24:22.800 I can't.

01:24:25.000 I can't stop them.

01:24:26.500 Give up.

01:24:27.020 Catch me advocating for that, even for a limited government perspective.

01:24:30.960 Yeah.

01:24:31.300 Right?

01:24:31.880 I'm with you on the pro-life call.

01:24:35.100 Here's the deal.

01:24:35.740 It's not saying that it's not important, that it's not a life.

01:24:38.860 It's not that.

01:24:39.400 It's me saying, does the government, and actually we're in the anniversary of the repeal of Roe v. Wade, right?

01:24:45.680 Yeah, right. 0.99

01:24:46.260 And there's more abortions now than before they repealed the damn thing. 1.00

01:24:48.700 That's because of the abortion bill. 1.00

01:24:49.900 That would happen anyway.

01:24:51.280 That's like 75% of the abortion bill now, which is a technological change.

01:24:54.440 Okay.

01:24:54.540 But I, look, I grant there have been at the state level laws since, because the repeal just said go to the states.

01:25:01.300 There are now certain states that say, yeah, we're going to have abortion up until the moment of birth.

01:25:04.460 And there are some, like Tennessee, that say pretty much nothing.

01:25:07.000 It's basically done.

01:25:07.620 Yeah, yeah.

01:25:07.920 And I agree with that.

01:25:09.540 States' rights.

01:25:10.020 So hold on, you're more pro-life than I thought you were.

01:25:12.540 I'm definitely personally pro-life.

01:25:15.200 So then why not, if you're pro-life.

01:25:16.380 I don't believe that the government. 0.98

01:25:17.780 One, because you guys are losers, and you keep losing that war, and I don't think you're going to win. 0.51

01:25:23.200 And you might get small victories, but it's never going to be banned, in my opinion. 0.97

01:25:28.520 That's the problem.

01:25:29.260 Why not?

01:25:29.560 Because I don't believe the government.

01:25:30.620 The government passes laws.

01:25:32.280 The government, we have laws against murder.

01:25:33.500 We have laws against jaywalking.

01:25:34.800 I understand that.

01:25:34.940 We have laws against immigration. 0.98

01:25:36.160 I understand that.

01:25:37.060 Well, loosely.

01:25:38.620 They're not enforced very often.

01:25:39.760 So, loosely.

01:25:41.020 I will say this.

01:25:42.460 You criminalize when you murder because you do it with the intent.

01:25:45.840 And when I believe that women are in that position, that they are getting an abortion, I believe more often than not. 0.69

01:25:52.700 They don't know what they're doing.

01:25:53.440 It's because.

01:25:54.440 Bruh.

01:25:55.920 Oh, my God.

01:25:57.540 They know exactly what they're doing.

01:25:58.880 They don't care.

01:25:59.540 Because.

01:26:00.060 They don't care to know what they're doing.

01:26:02.720 Tommy had 63 bodies in one football season.

01:26:05.580 They're scared.

01:26:06.520 They don't know what to do.

01:26:07.820 They're poor.

01:26:09.320 I don't believe that they do it because they are going to murder.

01:26:11.940 I don't believe.

01:26:12.360 There's a crowd for that.

01:26:13.580 Some do.

01:26:14.280 There's a crowd for that. 0.98

01:26:15.080 And it's a disgusting crowd. 0.96

01:26:16.360 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:26:16.680 But I don't believe that it solves the problem.

01:26:19.520 Now, I believe that.

01:26:21.140 It would solve the problem for the babies.

01:26:22.600 Faith, family.

01:26:23.560 I don't.

01:26:23.900 Because I don't believe you're going to not get an abortion because the government says, okay, we have an abortion. 1.00

01:26:27.740 Abortion rates spiked after Roe v. Wade.

01:26:29.620 Spiked.

01:26:30.420 Now, there were always some illegal abortions, but not many compared to the legal ones.

01:26:34.700 So, I'm just saying.

01:26:35.620 Look, whatever your view on abortion is, it's one thing.

01:26:37.940 I'm just saying, if you're willing to use the government to enforce laws about taxes, driving, homicide.

01:26:46.040 Manslaughter and murder.

01:26:47.940 Whatever.

01:26:49.740 Incest. 0.68

01:26:50.520 Simple assault.

01:26:51.560 Drinking underage.

01:26:52.740 All, you know, we have laws about everything.

01:26:55.480 Why not that?

01:26:56.060 Why is this the one thing we can't have a law about?

01:26:57.560 I think intent matters.

01:27:00.260 And again, late term, we're not talking about late term.

01:27:02.880 Yeah.

01:27:03.160 We have plenty of time.

01:27:04.100 I think intent matters.

01:27:05.220 Like I said, women that are in that position, I don't believe that they're doing it. 1.00

01:27:08.460 When you don't pay your taxes, you murder somebody.

01:27:10.680 It's like manslaughter.

01:27:10.700 Manslaughter, you don't have an intent to kill someone.

01:27:12.880 You just do it accidentally or, you know, in passion or something.

01:27:15.620 Yeah.

01:27:16.080 Well, usually you made a pretty egregious mistake.

01:27:19.760 Yes.

01:27:20.240 Yeah.

01:27:20.420 Right.

01:27:20.880 I understand your perspective.

01:27:22.460 I just don't think that the government solves the problem.

01:27:25.100 If you want women to choose life, if you want women to either choose life and choose 1.00

01:27:29.960 to adopt or choose to be a mother, I believe.

01:27:32.420 What more do you want, Tommy?

01:27:33.980 They've given us a billion forms of birth control, plan Bs, and now late term abortions. 1.00

01:27:39.060 What more do you need?

01:27:40.780 You have daycare.

01:27:42.440 I mean, I bet you we get to the point that daycare is subsidized.

01:27:45.840 If you don't do that by government mandate, I believe you do that by faith, fellowship,

01:27:50.860 family, friendship.

01:27:52.500 I think that's the area that you provide love and compassion to somebody.

01:27:55.800 And federal legislation.

01:27:56.680 No, you would disagree.

01:27:57.160 I disagree with you.

01:27:58.180 I don't think it solves the problem.

01:27:59.540 Now.

01:28:00.760 Yeah, I quit.

01:28:02.280 I quit.

01:28:03.120 They. 1.00

01:28:06.580 Yeah, I mean, they're going to kill them.

01:28:08.620 But you would still go to the March for Life over the Women's March, but no marches generally.

01:28:11.800 I don't, I wouldn't go to any march, but I have no problem with a pro-life march.

01:28:15.900 It's not like I look at it and go, oh, no, no, no.

01:28:18.160 Those are my people.

01:28:19.140 I love that they're passionate about it.

01:28:20.840 And I love that they want to preach pro-life values.

01:28:24.480 I think that's great.

01:28:26.040 Now, I don't believe in a federal abortion ban, but I believe in a pro-life message.

01:28:30.620 Yeah, yeah.

01:28:31.020 Okay.

01:28:31.600 And I believe that we have been led to believe that you can't believe both things.

01:28:35.740 Yeah.

01:28:36.320 And I think that the majority of Americans believe both things.

01:28:39.620 I think the polls show us that.

01:28:41.600 Yeah, people are kind of in the middle.

01:28:42.240 That's true.

01:28:42.980 All right.

01:28:43.820 Well, let's, maybe, maybe I can persuade you.

01:28:46.420 After our final round.

01:28:49.840 That's the last one.

01:28:51.320 Is Joe.

01:28:51.960 It's a cute dress.

01:28:52.900 Joe Siwa, just the first of many influencers.

01:28:55.400 Should I rank Tommy?

01:28:56.980 I ranked her.

01:28:57.620 I'd say six.

01:28:58.500 Adjustable six.

01:28:59.580 I mean, America's fat, so she'll probably get the attention of a seven. 1.00

01:29:02.340 There's who will soon discover that they were pressured into being gay. 0.99

01:29:09.620 Tell me that, but she saw that I moved so fast.

01:29:14.580 Okay, that's fair.

01:29:15.200 So hold on.

01:29:15.600 Now, you've got to put your answer.

01:29:17.620 That I believe on that one?

01:29:18.820 That you believe, and I have to guess what you believe.

01:29:21.180 I shouldn't have moved so fast, because Tommy obviously got it right.

01:29:25.180 Correct.

01:29:25.680 Okay.

01:29:26.000 All right.

01:29:26.180 Last one.

01:29:26.640 That was an easy one.

01:29:26.960 Last one.

01:29:27.240 That was an easy one.

01:29:27.820 Okay.

01:29:28.080 We're going to clear.

01:29:29.040 Last one.

01:29:29.540 If it's culturally acceptable for black women to dye their hair blonde, should it also be 1.00

01:29:43.540 culturally acceptable for white people to wear blackface? 0.71

01:29:47.240 Good Lord.

01:29:48.260 It's kind of a non sequitur, wouldn't you say?

01:29:50.320 Okay, hold on.

01:29:50.960 I've got to put my answer.

01:29:51.900 You've got to put your answer, and we'll do the others.

01:29:53.460 Okay.

01:29:54.120 So I'm going to get you to lock yours in first, and then I've got to guess.

01:29:57.760 Pearly, pearly, pearl.

01:29:59.000 Thank you for the $2 super.

01:30:03.420 All right.

01:30:03.840 You've got to lock yours in, too.

01:30:07.900 Okay.

01:30:08.420 Okay.

01:30:08.860 Now I've got to...

01:30:10.100 Now I move yours first, I think.

01:30:11.480 Except, Tom, so I have an answer in my head that I think you would answer, but you've been

01:30:15.280 faking me out this whole game, or have been crushing me.

01:30:18.280 Yeah.

01:30:25.600 Now do you want me to answer?

01:30:26.480 You've got to move it to mine. 0.66

01:30:28.660 I hope I'm right on that.

01:30:30.160 I hope for your sake.

01:30:31.400 I'm completely fine with blackface. 0.99

01:30:33.640 In some cases.

01:30:36.000 I'm going to say completely in some cases.

01:30:37.080 Here's my argument.

01:30:38.640 I remember once, there was some blackface controversy that came up.

01:30:41.400 I just don't care.

01:30:42.740 I'm not going to lose my energy over either.

01:30:44.700 What the?

01:30:46.340 You guys, family faith fellowship after I'm done hoeing. 0.93

01:30:50.580 Mm-hmm.

01:30:51.080 And then the other one says Colorado.

01:30:53.920 Well, I could say yes or no, but it depends on...

01:30:57.960 I don't think we're going to get enough supers this show, to be honest.

01:31:01.560 We're going to the end, so I got probably 10 minutes left, I'm going to guess.

01:31:06.620 Probably five to 10 minutes left.

01:31:08.100 I got for a five...

01:31:09.720 You basically are going to have to do like a couple hundred dollars super...

01:31:14.160 Like, I don't know if we're going to get at this show.

01:31:16.860 I guess you guys don't really care that much.

01:31:18.560 Totally fine.

01:31:19.540 It's all right.

01:31:20.380 There's many of them.

01:31:21.340 There are many.

01:31:21.840 Like, not even blackface blackface.

01:31:23.120 Like, Jimmy Fallon, like, dressed up as Chris Rock or something.

01:31:25.480 And I was in a cab.

01:31:27.960 I was in an Uber.

01:31:28.780 Nice Uber. 0.91

01:31:29.440 With a black driver. 0.98

01:31:30.720 And it came on the radio. 0.81

01:31:31.560 And I said, oh, what do you think about that?

01:31:32.900 And I said, oh, man, I don't care.

01:31:34.100 It's all in good fun.

01:31:34.860 I don't, whatever.

01:31:35.400 I don't care.

01:31:35.940 Yeah.

01:31:36.200 And that's kind of my view.

01:31:37.480 If you're doing it to be really cruel to any racial group,

01:31:42.640 I think that's quite wrong to be cruel and rude.

01:31:44.960 But if you're just sort of, you know...

01:31:46.160 Why is it wrong to be rude?

01:31:49.500 I don't think it's wrong.

01:31:51.000 You might not like it, but...

01:31:52.340 Having fun?

01:31:53.240 That's fine.

01:31:53.780 I think the Waynes brothers can put on whiteface.

01:31:56.020 I think we can...

01:31:57.040 I can do a little minstrel show.

01:31:58.320 Billy Cursans was the great genius of minstrelsy. 0.65

01:32:01.080 He was a black guy. 0.85

01:32:02.200 Yeah. 0.97

01:32:02.700 That one's going to get me in a lot of trouble.

01:32:04.420 Yeah.

01:32:04.640 Whatever.

01:32:04.980 That's fine.

01:32:05.240 I don't think...

01:32:06.140 I think that you're correct.

01:32:07.600 That I don't think many care as much as the loud voices that decry it.

01:32:13.160 However, I just would never do it.

01:32:14.840 I'm not going to walk into that territory.

01:32:16.320 It just does not seem worth it to me to be canceled for that.

01:32:18.980 That's like, I don't have that desire that badly.

01:32:20.860 As a Sicilian, we're basically African ourselves.

01:32:23.420 So, if I were Lily White, I might have a different answer.

01:32:27.760 Now, folks, listen here.

01:32:31.120 Tommy's new show.

01:32:32.540 Tommy Lauren is...

01:32:33.120 All right.

01:32:33.660 So, there you have it, folks. 0.79

01:32:36.240 I mean, she's just a trad con feminist. 1.00

01:32:38.920 Tomorrow, we're going to react to Michael Knowles'...

01:32:41.280 It's interesting.

01:32:42.000 I think he's trying to be like the new Pierce Morgan.

01:32:44.540 I think that's kind of the...

01:32:45.400 I was...

01:32:45.880 We're going to react to this.

01:32:49.720 The trad wife fight.

01:32:51.340 We had Emily on the show. 0.73

01:32:54.140 She kind of did some subtle... 1.00

01:32:55.580 I don't think she meant it to be a dig at me, but...

01:32:58.140 I was offended because the women shouldn't. 1.00

01:33:01.160 But I can't even comment on that part, sadly.

01:33:04.140 Even though I could make the case very well.

01:33:05.720 But, all right, guys.

01:33:09.280 Unfortunately, we didn't get the $500 super chat.

01:33:11.540 But that's all right.

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JustPearlyThings - July 05, 2025

Tradcon Tommi Reveals Her Inner Feminist ｜ Pearl Reacts

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